Mistresslourdes Archive

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5	How to get over the regret of not approaching ? When you next have a chance, jump. Because the greatest regret you will have Is a life not lived rather than a life filed with trying and failing but sometimes winning and always growing from it 💕	/r/seduction	02/10/22 05:44 PM
4	Why does it always seem to go that as soon as you lose interest in someone they become more attracted to you? Sometimes people just like to be liked, to have the attention. It’s not necessarily about the man even- as it is nice to be wanted so when that attention wanes they sometimes try to pull it back	/r/seduction	09/01/22 05:27 AM
1	Eye contact during sex That’s the best part watching the reaction and pleasure in your partners eyes. All those emotions conveyed in their eyes. To me sex is love is connection to another’s soul.. the eyes are everything	/r/seduction	03/01/22 11:13 PM
6	Best cologne helps seduction, girls love it on men? I like sandalwood oil.	/r/seduction	29/07/20 06:51 PM
5	How do I approach men without creeping them out or making them uncomfortable I’m an older female and haven’t approached men all that often but I certainly understand the insecurities we face as women. Have you ever considered posting an ad on something like Double list. That way you can post a pic and also describe what you are looking for? Then the men can approach you if interested. I think it’s great you are putting yourself out there- it’s not easy...but I’m sure if you keep doing things that make you more confident someone will come along and appreciate you for who …	/r/seduction	19/07/20 11:23 PM
1	100 approaches and still nothing What did you use as a line to speak to them?	/r/seduction	19/07/20 07:18 PM
1	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 25 Progress Report Not so crazy really. I also film porn so it’s not that different :) happy hunting ;)	/r/seduction	26/06/20 12:23 AM
2	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 25 Progress Report Honestly I’m not really into dirty talk before meeting. Something that comes out naturally in the moment can be sexy. But I like genuine. Honestly unless a woman is into it, I would probably leave off on it. I am not sure why and I am assume many women are different but I just like honest and genuine. I don’t like the arrogant or cheesy guys. I don’t like being told how great someone’s dick is or how they are gonna pound me x number of ways. Maybe I am different because I hear these things all d…	/r/seduction	23/06/20 11:01 PM
2	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 25 Progress Report Totally understandable it’s really hard to predict how someone will react. Just remember there are a lot of factors that are at work on any given day, someone’s mood or what they have going on, so just have fun with it. Look at it as a personal challenge and be happy with that fact that at least you are trying... that in and of itself is more than what most people do. All the best	/r/seduction	23/06/20 08:28 AM
8	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 25 Progress Report Just some food for thought. I was recently walking around a store and a guy approached me. I had a set of headphones on and a mask so it was kinda awkward. He tapped me on the shoulder and just stood in front of me mouthing to me that he needed to speak to me. I was already thinking he was trying to sell me something for some reason but I did as he asked and was like “hey what do you need?” I think I blew him off course he looked all frazzled like he wasn’t sure whether or not to proceed and the…	/r/seduction	22/06/20 10:28 PM
2	My first cold approach today! That’s great. I think women rarely think about how hard it must be for a man to come up especially with friends around.But I think it’s awesome to do it in person. I have spent years putting myself in experiences that scared me-but sometimes you just have to jump. And when you get past it, you realize how empowering it is. It really doesn’t matter if you get shot down, it’s more about building your confidence. Keep going ;)	/r/seduction	04/06/20 08:52 PM
1	Help for younger guy with older woman I really find it frustrating because I am always finding men who feel like they need to be so over the top with the sexual stuff. Normally the first thing someone does is send a pic of their cock, tell me how big they are and how they are gonna rock my world. Honestly that kind of ego stuff will immediately be eliminated from my messages. I will never consider meeting anyone like that. Come across as normal genuine and interested in her as a person. Yes of course you can be sexual when it moves …	/r/seduction	01/06/20 01:03 AM
35	Help for younger guy with older woman The reason older women pursue younger men can vary but in general they are fairly compatible. Men in their 20s-30s less likely to be looking for commitment women in their thirties and forties are more experienced and know what they want. Many will probably be married or divorced and aren’t looking for anything deep and lasting but to enjoy themselves. This tends to suit the men just fine. The younger guys have this fantasy because an older woman tends to be more straight forward and have a confi…	/r/seduction	31/05/20 09:57 PM