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Inner Game MitchArku/r/seduction15/08/24 12:19 AM
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Yeah dude even if that would work, your post is essentially the draw the owl meme
/r/seduction28/08/25 11:08 PM
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You said that building sexual attraction is the easy part. It absolutely is not, for many people.
/r/seduction12/08/25 05:00 PM
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Nope.. it is the other way around for many guys. I have been maxing out the comfort, the vibing, the fun. Sometimes, when things click, the girls look like they have met the best friend of their lives. They laugh, they are honestly having a great time. Without the sexual part though.. nothing really happens. I get great new friendships, but that is it.
/r/seduction12/08/25 07:10 AM
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“Rarely” lol
/r/seduction27/03/25 03:02 PM
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Great post. And what I’ve realized is that the most important part is where you say “where else can someone approach someone else and in a few hours have a drink with them and then end up at their place together” (or something like that) I think that people need to see that happen to themselves, through their own eyes in order to truly believe that they are capable of this. Till then it registers on a weird hypothetical level and when they want to do it, they still freeze up.
/r/seduction28/02/25 04:34 PM
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Ok this is incredible and you must have really tapped into some insane inner game stuff to pull this off. Your rejection rate is insanely low as well according to what you state. Beyond that it is stuff I have heard is possible with consistent practice. The only thing that really stands out to me as unusual is the part about girls approaching you and even guys complementing your style. It feels that you have tapped into something truly unique there (unless you have incredibly good looks, though …
/r/seduction18/02/25 08:12 AM
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Yeah I guess my phrasing wasn’t the best, but I meant pretty much the same thing you said. Mainstream self help dogma implies that our personality is this fluid, easily changeable thing, but it is not so easy. Setting correct expectations is key. For example, if you are a 35 year old very introverted and shy guy it is not so easy to change yourself to the point where you become an extremely energetic extrovert with high charisma within a year.
/r/seduction13/02/25 07:34 AM
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I also met such a guy back in the day. I wouldn’t say it is really “possible” to change yourself to such a degree though. I have been trying to change these aspects of my personality and behaviors for a long time now but it is extremely hard to do. It is one of the most interesting journeys one can make because you need to find and utilize every resource out there. However it is an extremely slow process and some even say it is not really possible. Charisma is a BIG set of skills that take time …
/r/seduction12/02/25 06:20 AM
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You are right about all of this Just that it can be incredibly hard to do unless you are a natural super-extrovert type of person. It can require literal years of work or even a decade or so to get there, as well as doing parallel activities to build these skills and overcome fear.
/r/seduction07/02/25 12:48 PM
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Ok cool Where do you train for that?
/r/seduction24/01/25 01:09 PM
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From what I understand, we have one thing in common. And that is that we are different than the US dating culture. And that sounds pretty damn good to me the more I read comments here on Reddit.
/r/seduction13/01/25 08:56 PM
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I’ve seen these posts for years and they have baffled me in the past. Now I sort of get them but I think it is important to understand why they are preaching to the choir. And why the intended audience (people with confidence issues) are unlikely to understand them. I think that you, and people with what is usually called “confidence”, experience positive sensations inside of you when thinking about yourself. For people who don’t, well they experience negative sensations, like a void, pain, emba…
/r/seduction02/01/25 12:13 AM
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This is actually correct, despite the downvotes. You can’t think your way out of a problem which thinking created for you in the first place.
/r/seduction06/12/24 04:34 PM
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As someone who struggled immensely with inner game for most of my life, the word confidence really didn’t mean anything. You could just say “jdbrbsppfjrhab” to me and it would mean the same thing. There were no reference experiences, no inner emotional state that I could recall to get an understanding of the term. I still believe it is a really really bad term, but for different reasons
/r/seduction06/12/24 08:32 AM
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Definitely not!! Proof: me
/r/seduction29/11/24 08:54 AM
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Yeah cool, and honestly a very thorough explanation. However, the guy from the initial reply was talking about getting unsolicited nudes from women he doesn’t even know. That was the weird part to me.
/r/seduction22/11/24 01:05 PM
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I have honestly never heard it happen, let alone experienced it. Like the experiments where a guy will go up to women on the street and ask them straight up for sex and gets rejected 100% of the time. I just thought this was something that does not happen
/r/seduction21/11/24 06:38 AM
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Wait what?? A girl sent nudes to you? That is insane to me and the first time I have ever heard of something like that happening
/r/seduction18/11/24 05:22 PM
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Most people here have not dealt with what you’re describing so they will quickly give you some generic advice about being confident and move on with their day. You should look into dealing with trauma. Imagine that the biggest problem is believing that you don’t have a problem in the first place, and that you are fine as you are (and then move on from there with everything you read here). Similarly to the guy who has gotten good reactions from women since he was young. How do i do that?? You wil…
/r/seduction08/11/24 05:44 AM
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The only thing you are failing at is being a shy guy.
/r/seduction03/11/24 05:24 PM
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To be fair, anything you try to learn takes time and there is a period where you don’t see any results. Cold approaches at least guarantee you you will talk to women. Waiting for some occasion like a work party or a common interest group event to talk to one or two women is just not enough if you need to learn social skills. The last part you mentioned about being able to hold a conversation? That’s exactly what they are trying to learn!
/r/seduction03/11/24 07:02 AM
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Amazing work you put in. Crazy that the height filters can render all that information useless for someone who doesn’t meet the requirements. I also agree going out into the real world is the healthiest choice for anyone, conventionally attractive or not.
/r/seduction27/10/24 05:23 AM
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Are you sure about the short part? I think that a percentage of girls don’t really care. So if you have other good traits while being short you have these random reactions where girls will give you positive signals and some give you negative ones.
/r/seduction24/10/24 04:30 AM
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Thanks so much for this I will need time to dissect it so I will get back to you once I do
/r/seduction23/10/24 11:15 AM
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Awesome stuff This is actually really deep. I am not sure if I have that kind of objectivity in me. I somehow can’t really get past the idea of people wanting to harm me or others intentionally, with malice. I will try to look at it this way and forgiving is a really big subject I want to explore more.
/r/seduction21/10/24 08:28 PM
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Wow amazing stuff thanks! So you are basically checking if everyone is engaged in a way. It does appear like lifting a huge weight but the funny thing is I remember myself doing it. I guess the hardest part is internalizing that you are “allowed” to do that, if that makes sense. We feel intimidated by large groups due to social conditioning mostly, and that they may mob up on outsiders. Come to think about it, being rejected by a group must be pretty wild. Single rejections will probably be noth…
/r/seduction21/10/24 08:18 PM
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This is way more important than any pickup theory I have been seeing thrown around. I have come to the conclusion that many people simply do not have these deep rooted issues when getting into seduction. That’s why you don’t hear about this aspect so much. One question. You say you resolve these memories. I don’t really understand how to do that. I mean I am doing the same thing as you but I just leave the memory “as is”. Can you give an example of how you resolve them? A random example would be…
/r/seduction21/10/24 04:39 AM
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As someone never really got out of that guy’s level I am sure you did the right thing. You demonstrated that all this is possible. It is one thing reading about it online, it is different seeing it in real life. He probably needs many years to get to your level (if at all) so you gave him something to aim at.
/r/seduction21/10/24 04:25 AM
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Not being critical or anything but this advice is kinda like the owl drawing tutorial meme. I just want to say that you are obviously extremely advanced, probably naturally good at this. It definitely doesn’t come naturally to many of us though.
/r/seduction21/10/24 04:18 AM
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Reading this I took so many grains of salt my blood pressure went up
/r/seduction25/09/24 07:14 PM
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Dude, you realise that there are neurotypical guys who can’t get dates or it is extremely rare for them. You are already in a better percentage than many guys
/r/seduction25/09/24 12:57 PM
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Chad gpt
/r/seduction24/09/24 09:59 PM
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Can someone provide an example on how to bring up a sexual topic out of the blue? Let’s say for example that you are talking about something irrelevant like moving in to a new apartment, or that you are both thinking of joining something like photography classes or that your stupid fridge broke down. How do you insert sexual topics in here? It just seems so weird and unnatural to me but I would be interested in hearing actual examples on how to do that. If you have a link that would be great as …
/r/seduction24/09/24 12:09 PM
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There is a podcast of a daygame pickup coach I follow. He actually gets into something similar on one episode. He mentions some cases of people who cannot seem to get over approach anxiety. I believe that these people suffered from childhood trauma. Another angle is this: You are right about the attractiveness part, but it mostly has to do with your skill set. When learning any skill, some people get seemingly stuck for very long stretches of time but in reality they are making progress. Just ve…
/r/seduction17/09/24 04:30 AM
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Must be a cultural thing. Where I live, people rarely get drunk when they go out to get a drink. It is similar to grabbing a cup of coffee, the goal is not to get over caffeinated to the point of shaking
/r/seduction04/09/24 01:40 PM
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Well the most straightforward way is to get a professional’s opinion, maybe start therapy. Other than that, there are lots of resources, it is mostly about picking the ones that are best for you. Feel free to DM me if you have any questions
/r/seduction04/09/24 01:37 PM
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I have some truly attractive friends, I have seen them pull off something similar, or be asked by women straight up to take them home. The idea is that there is some internal game magic that can generate similar levels of attraction, but it feels like a load of woo woo shit sometimes.
/r/seduction04/09/24 01:24 PM
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Well no, people do that so they can get to know the other person better in order to make that decision.
/r/seduction04/09/24 01:16 PM
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You’re missing an important point: there are two parts to what people call self improvement: the first is well, self improvement, but what often gets lumped in is self healing. This is really evident when you see two people starting out at the same time, one with trauma and one without. The person with trauma will have a much tougher time. If you have deep, trauma induced insecurities, you may go out and talk to women for years and not progress to anything. You will see such posts here from time…
/r/seduction03/09/24 03:44 PM
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“How to proceed when you walk past a cute girl and she gives you a flirty smile then keeps walking?” For me and many other guys, make sure to keep the dream from ending lol
/r/seduction01/09/24 12:32 PM
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In a way you HAVE to give up. Staying in your head thinking of solutions is exactly what gets you further from success. Try to tell yourself what would happen in the worst case scenario and accept the feelings that arise. If you can go out and enjoy yourself without any expectations, you ironically have the most chances
/r/seduction01/09/24 12:28 PM
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You ask her in a soft subtle voice “What are you doing after this? “ “nothing special” “How bout we go back to my place and get it on?” “Yep, that’s what I meant”
/r/seduction01/09/24 12:11 PM
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To anyone who may be gullible: Asking questions at work does NOT imply incompetence!
/r/seduction27/08/24 07:14 PM
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“You just have to wait for a girl to show interest in you and then you make a move” Yeah that is not going to go nowhere fast lol
/r/seduction23/08/24 07:17 PM
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Your problem is “how do I get more energy to go out?” Do you mean physical energy or mental energy? I think people who followed this lifestyle while having a day job mentioned they had afternoon naps or something like that. Also working out helps your overall stamina
/r/seduction17/08/24 03:28 PM
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Great stuff, will try it out. Thanks so much.
/r/seduction17/08/24 12:05 PM
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Thanks so much for the input man. This was a whole lot of helpful stuff and I may DM you for some more questions. The videos are really helpful too and I will check them out once I have the time. Now, I am not trying to be obtuse, just trying to clarify my original point. Let’s take your explanations on why I should approach. These are really well put together and I honestly think they would make a page out of very decent book on game. Here is the issue though, and it comes down to the way my st…
/r/seduction17/08/24 09:38 AM
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Wow great explanation. I come from the low self esteem world so I never even thought these ideas could exist. Mine was just the classic inner voice going “why would this girl be interested in you? What do you have to outcompete the cool/good looking/ tall / whatever guys” Really interesting to see that both ends of the spectrum lead to the same result, which is not approaching in the end. Though I would imagine that overcoming the low self esteem thing may be a little bit harder.
/r/seduction17/08/24 08:03 AM
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I don’t think it is ego as much (although please elaborate more so that we can see if we are on the same page), It is mainly emotional. Like wanting to dive off a high cliff and freezing due to the fear of heights . Unfortunately, finding a metaphorical smaller cliff is hard, unless you get to go out with large groups of friends and meet new women who are inside the social circle. My point was that no amount of theory can get you to overcome the emotional block.
/r/seduction17/08/24 05:27 AM
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I have read a ton of them over the years, watched videos and courses. You may get aha! moments and epiphanies. The problem is when you try to do your first approach, you realise you can’t do it. It’s all just ideas that you need to read while doing the actual thing.
/r/seduction16/08/24 07:33 PM
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A 50% success rate is insane. Congrats, that must come with a huge natural ability
/r/seduction16/08/24 07:20 PM
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Must be another way..
/r/seduction16/08/24 01:11 PM
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I get your point, but there is something that is weird to me about starting a conversation with the fact that I am anxious about starting it lol.I get that it is not the main point but it stands out a lot. I will refine it more though
/r/seduction16/08/24 01:10 PM
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Sounds like a good starting point. Will try that. Not sure about how being stuck up can be a good thing though
/r/seduction16/08/24 01:07 PM
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