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| 1 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.You’re dumb as fuck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:14 PM |
| 7 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Ok so you’re either a troll or an idiot. With doordash you pay before the food comes. You know that. Stop being a dumbass. Good thing she’s in jail where she belongs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 11:18 AM |
| 7 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.What about the evidence that she disregarded the instructions and pushed open the guy’s door? Still his fault? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 10:36 PM |
| 26 | "DoorDash Girl" is proof that women's spaces will not hold women accountable.Are you insane? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | This is the worst decade to be dating.My wife and I really do like/love each other. Been together almost 20 years. Millennial. But I do feel the animosity between the sexes online, and I’m not sure how well I’d get along with a lot of women my age or younger. I just happen to click especially well with my wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 04:29 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.There is no other widespread men’s issue beyond dicks being dry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | An hugely understated "purgatory" for men is being stuck in the "zone" between average and the top 10%Yep, I agree with you completely. Jack is NOT top 10%. He tried hard to get there but he can’t. OP’s post is about the frustration of getting close to that top 10% but not quite making the cut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 04:24 PM |
| 2 | An hugely understated "purgatory" for men is being stuck in the "zone" between average and the top 10%No of course not, but most men and women are actually just mid/average. There’s wide gap between fat/ugly and fit/hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 04:22 PM |
| 0 | An hugely understated "purgatory" for men is being stuck in the "zone" between average and the top 10%But many women are even more picky about looks than Jack is according to stats | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 03:10 PM |
| -2 | An hugely understated "purgatory" for men is being stuck in the "zone" between average and the top 10%“Lots more than 10% fit his criteria” I doubt it haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?You can’t go in and offer anything else in exchange for groceries either. You can’t offer free home cleaning service to the store manager and walk out with a bag of groceries in exchange. But selling home cleaning service is still legal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Men who want casual sex, why women should want that?Because you were talking about it being about the relationship dynamic instead of the sex, but the same dynamic probably won’t happen without the sex. Not in all cases but some cases | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 01:30 PM |
| 5 | Men who want casual sex, why women should want that?Yes, but that is more likely to happen when sex is in the picture. May not be about the sex per se, but sex is part of the equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 12:54 PM |
| – | I flipped the script on a "platonic" touchy feely woman and made her cryWhy were you in her apartment? This story makes no sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.Haha ok, thanks for the followup. It sounds like he sabotaged himself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.Did it lead to sex? How long was the relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 07:22 PM |
| 28 | Q4E: Do you think some men are spreading this redpill rhetoric to make more men give up on women so they increase their chances at dating ?No I don’t think men are doing it for that reason. Weeding out the least desirable, most frustrated men isn’t likely to do much to increase other people’s chances. These guys were already not getting dates even before they were convinced to give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 09:24 PM |
| -3 | Would you marry someone who ignored you, rejected you, and only dated men she thought were far more attractive than you?Some people settle for a less desirable partner for financial reasons when they run out of better sexual options. It largely depends on her career and his career and how much they each are paid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 09:34 PM |
| 14 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itBecause the men complaining the most about this arrangement feel very entitled to all that from a woman to the point they don’t even notice the hypocrisy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itThat is definitely not universal among men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 03:21 PM |
| – | It’s incredibly freeing for a man to give up on datingI’m a man who is lucky enough to have a happy marriage. At my now older age, there’s no way I would try to get back into dating if anything ever brought my marriage to an end. In today’s world whatever situation I would find just wouldn’t be as good. I would be happier to just be a bachelor. I’m introverted anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 07:20 PM |
| 11 | ‘Chad’ isn’t real. He’s a character made of the amalgamated imagination of frustrated dudes onlineYes Chads exist, they are just very rare. Chad is not the only type of sexually successful man, so you are right about that. Many men who are not Chad still will have sexual success or the species would be much smaller. That doesn’t mean Chads don’t exist at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 01:44 AM |
| 3 | You don't "deserve" to be treated like Chad because you aren't ChadWell you have lots of people making the same argument on the economic side. For example people who embrace communism and believe that everyone should receive the same standard of living. At the end of the day, this all boils down to the fact that people still want more than they “deserve” whether it’s sex, money, or anything else. And it applies to both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 12:42 AM |
| 16 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.It depends what the hoops are. If the hoops are having a steady job and not being morbidly obese, those are pretty reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 08:42 PM |
| – | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.Yep, exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 08:54 AM |
| – | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.I’ll agree that feeding a newborn promptly is important especially in the first 4 months, but the diaper can probably wait a bit longer. After the early newborn phase is past, most things can actually be handled at leisure. The kid is not gonna die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 08:53 AM |
| – | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.Thank you, this is exactly what I have been saying in all these discussions. Half the things that modern parents stress about have only been invented as part of “modern life” in the past 40-70 years. It’s time to get back to a more natural way of living. Some men would be willing to, but women are often more concerned about social judgement of not doing the things that society says is correct. But sadly, most people won’t come to terms with the fact that modern life has gone astray. They will ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 08:43 AM |
| – | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.And did people do all that 100 years ago? 500 years ago? Somehow ten thousand generations of Homo Sapiens survived just fine without a bunch of stuff that was just invented in the past 70 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 08:33 AM |
| – | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.Sure, the newborn phase, but what about later? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 08:31 AM |
| 1 | The concept of women "maliciously withholding sex" makes no sense.It makes plenty of sense. Firstly, people can want things to different degrees, it’s not all or nothing, she may want it but not as much as he does. Secondly, people often sacrifice one thing that they want in order to achieve a different goal that’s more important to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 01:19 AM |
| 5 | The future is polygamous - rich men have harems and male slavesThey will still lord over their army of AI robots producing luxuries for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 04:51 PM |
| 2 | We should start sexualizing menWhy are you pretending that women don’t sexualize men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 12:51 PM |
| 6 | Decentering men, the 4B Movement, MGTOW & "monk mode" are all just copes for men and women who are sexually unsuccessful or failed at dating.Sure, but can we agree that the global information economy has monumentally changed people’s dating standards and made most people much more picky about a partner than they otherwise would have been, and that has made dating much more difficult for both sexes? You speak of people having “failed” at dating as if it’s some kind of personal indictment, but of COURSE people are failing. The environmental factors that influence sexual success have shifted radically in a single generation, and human e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Stop the "emotional labor"Not everyone needs emotional support from others. If a man’s emotions are generally stable, then no support should be needed from his partner or anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 01:11 PM |
| 1 | If the men on here somehow managed to convince all women to lower their standards, (negotiation of attraction) you can’t convince them to genuinely be happy in those relationshipsI think your statement is true, but only in a world where women have plenty of opportunity to earn resources for themselves. The current system of distribution of resources may be rapidly coming to an end due to the advent of AI. I think history has shown that in a world where access to resources becomes difficult, resources themselves can become attractive and influence perceived attraction (especially for women). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 09:46 AM |
| 0 | Men who can’t find a girlfriend have simply not dropped their standards enoughBut they go to another country instead and suddenly that’s an issue for you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 04:13 PM |
| 15 | The 25 and younger male generation will be overwhelmingly single and we are lucky because it won’t affect society one bitThe only fault with this is your hubris in thinking that AI will mostly replace men in the economy. News flash, IT’S GOING TO REPLACE YOU TOO. In fact, the full scale replacement of men in the trades will lag behind because robotics are currently lagging behind AI. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 05:59 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?So government records are meaningless, got it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 02:18 PM |
| – | WHY would you not date someone who has a paid for sex before?What about countries like the Netherlands where prostitution is tightly regulated by the government so that you can be confident they are not underage or trafficked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/25 10:04 AM |
| – | Straight/bi men: How easy and how often do you get sexually aroused by random women you see?Rarely when I’m out in public. On social media yes, but I don’t often seen people looking like models out and about. And by aroused I mean mentally aroused, not physically aroused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 11:44 PM |
| 10 | In the next 10 years we'll see women dominate every single prestigious career field (even IT) and this will end marriage for goodNo, in the next 10 years we’ll see AI dominate every prestigious career field, including IT. Women are already being impacted faster than men, but both men and women will be heavily affected 10 years from now as robotics improve. https://fortune.com/2025/05/20/ai-workplace-3-times-more-likely-to-take-a-womans-job-mans/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/25 04:16 PM |
| 1 | A lot of the women redpill men complain about not getting, you wouldn't actually want to date anyway.Isn’t this what a lot of men are complaining about though? That so many women are in this category that you’ve described? That our society is so broken that this has become commonplace? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/25 11:04 AM |
| 21 | Red pillers: What would make you change your mind?But… they are getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Both Genders need to realize that Dating is Amoral and Unfair and that no-one is entitled to anything on both sides.I agree with you. But I think it is worth pointing out that the vast array of choices we now have via dating apps, and the vast variety of standards and dealbreakers people now have (compared to back when society’s values were more homogeneous) is leading us to a point where finding a compatible partner is becoming much more expensive and time consuming and may simply be out of reach for many people. Especially when people might initially lie about their standards hoping to hook a person first a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/25 09:39 AM |
| 1 | I am sick of hearing about being stuck in the FRIENDZONE from menI accidentally escaped the friend zone without trying to. In college when I met the woman who would eventually become my wife, we were actually just friends. I thought she was cute, but she had another BF at the time and I was currently interested in a different woman. Eventually her BF broke up with her and then several weeks later I was hanging out with her and things accidentally turned physical lol. We stayed together and now we’ve been married for over 15 years. Maybe I was unintentionally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Women not granting men sexual access is not a “mens issue”I think your take here is missing something important. This isn’t as simple as just individuals living freely and minding their own business. There are powerful people manipulating society, both men and women, to work toward their own agendas. A lot of it is done through social media algorithms. Masses of people are having their thoughts and beliefs manipulated and programmed by groups working in the shadows. So yes, it something being done to us, but women are not the culprit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/25 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Men must radically change to counter the current epidemic of women having inflated egosMost women are dating men shorter than 6 feet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/25 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Would men be happier if they were asexual?Oh they can? I actually didn’t know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 12:59 AM |
| 10 | Would men be happier if they were asexual?Society being less biphobic is not going to cause most men to want to do anything sexual with another man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/25 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Would men be happier if they were asexual?What about chemical castration? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 11:59 PM |
| 4 | Would men be happier if they were asexual?I got one of those | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/25 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?I agree, crusty dusty 35 year old men should be crusty dusty 35 year old women out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Many men losing interest in womenDo you understand how averages work? If you go by the mean (not the median) you take one guy with a body count of 100, and 15 guys with a body count of 0, the mean average is 6 lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.I believe that if more women were aware of these struggles, they would feel deep empathy and concern. Some would, many still would not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 10:52 AM |
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