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Seeking someone out because their personality can still be molded is weird at best and predatory as hell at worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:08 PM
8

Cheating and love are mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:30 PM
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I'm not living a little if I'm the only one who has to stay monogamous. He gets options and I don't? Sounds boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:29 PM
7

I'd much prefer he be the SAHD while I make that money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:28 PM
6

Infidelity is always a deal breaker especially if I'm not allowed to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:24 PM
9

Men say that all the time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:22 PM
3

Many women would also rather die than be in that scenario tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 01:18 PM
6

Fr toner is not make up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:43 AM
2

Not just men but society as a whole to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:42 AM
1

Then explain why the majority of makeup influencers are attractive without makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:39 AM
1

But you do see men buy shoes or watches or suits or hats. Same premise.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:32 AM
1

It's the same reason that some men like buying expensive shoes I guess. Women don't care if a guy has a pair of Jordans or whatever, but he cares. It's satisfying for a lot of people to buy something pretty, even though others won't appreciate it the way they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 07:31 AM
5

Some people absolutely love living alone, and a person can have plenty of friends outside of the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:34 PM
9

If men disappeared women could easily fill those jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:28 PM
3

What percentage of career women do you think are actually men-haters?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:18 AM
1

acts like completely different person in front of Chad while treating him as a god Almost nobody does this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:11 AM
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Second, it assumes that men treat each other so much better than they do women. But let's think about that for one second, by what metric do men treat each other better than women? There are several studies that showed that men are automatically more listened to and immediately given more respect than women, especially in professional spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 08:03 AM
1

Perfectly said
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:35 AM
1

As a 22 year old I can definitely understand this. You can mature a lot in a short amount of time and life experience can be really important for compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:15 AM
1

Puberty isn't even over yet when you're 14, boys were supposed to be considered men at 14 because the life expectancy was so low and the need for child labor was so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:11 AM
1

Have you considered that some people really aren't interested in finding a life partner until they are older?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:09 AM
1

Her reasoning it pretty weird, but it's not surprising at all that a younger woman would not be interested in marrying a man who already has kids and is much older than her no matter how much better off he is. This is why it's hard for someone who is older than 30 to be compatible for a serious relationship with someone in their early/mid 20s. Someone older might be ready for kids or already have kids while a younger adult may not be ready to settle down or become a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:07 AM
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Agreed. I wouldn't be opposed to casually seeing someone that much older than me but I wouldn't entertain the idea of a serious relationship with someone in that age group. You're in completely different stages of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 08:03 AM
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With the economy being what it is if you want to have good collective income then it would be better to go with a woman who is also a full-grown adult with a stable career instead of an early 20's who have only lived in their parents's house.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 07:58 AM
1

Definitely part of it. Some of it is also just ignorance and poor sex ed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:14 PM
3

Definitely a good point there. I feel like bleeding and tearing wouldn't still be considered as the default response to losing your virginity if not taking proper care during sex wasn't so normalized. The idea that it is supposed to hurt the first time is so commonplace unfortunately, and it perpetuates lots of misunderstandings and issues. There would definitely still be bleeding and tearing for some women, but I think it wouldn't be nearly as common in general if everyone had a better understa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:38 AM
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It can sometimes if you don't take your time enough (or you're really unlucky), but pain and bleeding can be avoided for most women by using enough lube, waiting until the woman is fully aroused, and easing into it. The shape of someone's hymen might also play a role. Biologically speaking, there is no "popping the cherry" and your body doesn't change when you lose your virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:24 AM
3

Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:14 AM
6

Btw "torn hymen pain" is not normal bc the hymen doesn't work like that. It's supposed to stretch instead of break, whether it's a woman's first time or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:13 AM
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I've never met two women who liked the same exact things or types of men or acted the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:26 AM
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You simply just don't know enough women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 12:24 AM
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Is a choice made within rigid societal norms to accommodate them really a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:01 PM
3

I feel like plenty of western woman hate the idea of being submissive to men no matter how nice those men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 10:13 PM
0

I mean the average person in a relationship is also just the average person meaning average IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:39 PM
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Men are guilty of this as well, I feel like it is just normal to want people who are out of your league sometimes. And some people are lucky and actually do get with those people who are out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:38 PM
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Literally this. Women aren't upset about the loss of these men from the dating pool. The only reason that women are upset at all about passport bros is because they feel bad for the women in other countries who will have to deal with those men who are expecting to find a submissive traditional woman (partially because they didn't have anything to offer a western woman who doesn't want or need a provider). AI girlfriends don't suffer from mistreatment if these guys turn out to be assholes. I'm su…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:36 PM
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Girls are often brought up being told that constantly so that kind of makes sense, but just being in actual relationships with men is enough to realize that's not true. Those women are weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:43 AM
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As a woman I really don't get being suspicious of this. Some people just want to get to know a person a little before having sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 11:15 AM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:29 AM
4

Pushing aside your feelings to make logical decisions is literally just part of being an adult, quit your bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:04 PM
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That's just not realistic though. The vast majority of people have a mix of masculine and feminine traits, to say that women are only attracted to very masculine men would be a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:03 PM
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People who are always masculine (or more specifically overly masculine) aren't that attractive to the average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:00 PM
6

I've never seen a woman get the ick from those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:57 PM
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Yeah the rest of the women in the world don't claim her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:56 PM
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It really is so cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:55 PM
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I mean it think most of that stuff is cute as shit when a guy does it so fuck me I guess..
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:53 PM
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Handling rejection is just a part of being a functioning well adjusted adult, so it's not that it's attractive per say but it's an important trait to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:55 PM
1

I mean there's definitely a lot of porn I watch that has nothing to do with my real life desires. I think everyone has fantasies that they want to keep as fantasies and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:20 AM
1

For some women who have been this is definitely true. I've heard that it sometimes helps them take back their agency after experiencing that situation. Recreating it but this time with them being in control of what's happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:18 AM
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Plus some people just like pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:14 AM
2

Fr. People shouldn't bring up their more violent kinks (or even better any kinks in general) in the middle of sex, they should explain what they want beforehand and how they want it done. Even without thinking about safety, doing it before won't put nearly as much pressure as asking someone to do something during the act.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:14 AM
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I mean different people have certain kinks for different reasons so I'm sure some women definitely have that kink for the reason the above comment stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 07:01 AM
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That sucks man, I hope you find someone who appreciates you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:52 PM
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Women who look down on men for being vulnerable aren't doing it because they're women, it's because they're horrible people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:02 PM
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She was wondering, "Why's this motherfucker so needy? What's wrong with him?" Women don't fucking think like this. They're not out to get you and are not sniffing for vulnerabilities like bloodhounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:31 PM
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You are absolutely right. People should be upfront about whether they are looking for a relationship or casual sex early on, I'm sorry you didn't get that from her in return. Being clear about what you want does not make you desperate, don't listen to people telling you otherwise. Tons of women out there want the same thing you're looking for and saying you're looking for a relationship will rule out the people who aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:28 PM
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Which is messed up because you shouldn't be perceived as desperate for making it clear that you're looking for a relationship. You should be up front about what your intentions are from the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:23 PM
5

Not to mention some women literally can't cum without toys, while men don't usually have that problem so it's seen as weird when straight men have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:43 PM
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I mean as a woman who owns plenty of sex toys, I'm not planning on replacing men anytime soon. And I think the majority of straight women who own toys would agree. The empowerment and benefit that women get from buying sex toys isn't about replacing men, it's about closing the orgasm gap (as in straight women orgasm way less than straight men during sex, because it requires more effort and many men don't want to put that effort in). Even the women who say they don't need a man when talking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:38 PM
2

In that situation I'd definitely understand getting defensive/protective then.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:07 PM
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I mean there's healthy insecurity and then there is straight-up paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:57 PM
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Sure I can understand that in a way. And if someone is flirting with your SO who knows they are taken then I get wanting to at least say something. I am curious if you would feel a response from you would be necessary if someone flirted with her in front of you without knowing she was taken and she rejected him herself. Like if you went to go grab her something at a party and someone who didn't know her came up and flirted with her, if she seemed to be doing fine on her own and the guy didn't se…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:56 PM
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Some people don't want their husbands stepping in for something that trivial in their eyes. Staring isn't appropriate but it isn't a threat to your partner or your relationship in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:47 PM
3

Some men will take a no from your woman and leave her alone without your response being necessary you know? You don't fail as a man if you don't fight every guy who looks her way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:43 PM
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It's not a turn off to a lot of people. I'm a big girl and can handle a little bit of flirting by myself, I want a boyfriend not a guard dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:41 PM
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Someone flirting with your partner isn't a big threat if you're secure in your relationship, meanwhile your partner flirting with someone else is them telling you that you should be insecure in your relationship because they are creating the threat themselves. Not similar at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:39 PM
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I mean every woman is different but I feel like a good amount of them would rather handle it themselves and the boyfriend only step in if it's needed. I'm sure some girls/women would be happy if their boyfriend immediately jumped in, but we are all people capable of rejecting people on our own so it's really not necessary unless the guy isn't taking her no for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:33 PM
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Just because tons of relationships start as friendships doesn't mean all your friends are potential relationship partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:28 PM
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I wouldn't care either way, as long as he isn't trying to control who I hang out with and doesn't get upset when I'm friends with other guys, then I don't mind him jealous when people hit on me. Of course, if someone clearly is into me (especially if they don't respect our relationship and they keep hitting on me) then it's perfectly okay for a boyfriend to not want me to interact with that person, as I would feel the same way if our situation was reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:27 PM
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That makes sense. Everyone has a different depth they prefer for knowing someone before they have sex with that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 11:37 AM
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Lots of fancy dinners that end with nothing more than a hug. Don't spend that much money with the expectation she'll put out. If you want a prostitute or a sugar baby just get one. Nobody wants to be treated to dinner simply because sex is expected afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:58 AM
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So the only way to show a man you see their value is to fuck them now?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:54 AM
0

My longest lasting relationship (several years) had quite a lot waiting period. I was very attracted to them but wasn't in a rush to do the deed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:52 AM
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Some women just aren't really for sex that early on without getting to know a guy first, no ulterior motive, even if they do miss sex. Some just don't feel safe screwing a guy they've only met up with a few times, even if they're attracted to you. Not saying you have to stick it out for those women but just something to think about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:49 AM
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It depends on what "making you wait" means in that situation. Is she waiting just for the sake of waiting or is she not ready to fuck you yet? The former means she isn't that into you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:45 AM
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I mean a lot of the backlash is because many of the men who talk about looking for a traditional woman are also in the same breath putting down women who aren't traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:20 AM
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I really don't want my man to do any of that personally...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:19 AM
2

To me a man who can cook well is way more attractive than a man who is handy, but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:19 AM
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Tons of women including feminists are agreeing with OP. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:13 AM
2

You can just....not follow those roles. There are plenty of fish out there who don't care about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:12 AM
2

Ever notice that not everyone voices their preferences by being an asshole like those women are?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:06 AM
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Women want sex just as much as men do but aren't willing to pretend to be nice to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:04 AM
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No real feminist things like this but go off.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 10:02 AM
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I disagree with some of this. You can acknowledge that having kids isn't all sunshine and rainbows and that it is in fact a burden in a lot of ways, and still be a great parent who loves your children once you decide to have them. Having children means tons of sacrifice that shouldn't be taken lightly, and the people who recognize that and don't want that responsibility yet because they have a career they are working towards or some other reason are completely valid and can always have kids late…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:14 PM
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I would have totally been down to marry in my early 20's, but was super against having kids until I passed my mid 20's. I want to enjoy my youth before I spend the rest of it raising children.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:46 AM
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I'd be down to get married at 23, but kids? Absolutely not. Earliest I'd be willing to carry a child and say goodbye to my freedom as a childless woman is 26, and that's pushing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:34 AM
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Or a single father household where everyone will patronize him and tell him he doesn't know what he's doing because some people think men don't have a childcare bone in their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:32 AM
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In a way it will. No sleep, little free time, less money, constantly worrying about your child until either you die or they do, and if you're a woman your body will be permanently changed. And that's just scratching the surface.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:29 AM
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I mean different people are "ready" for kids at different ages, and nobody can ever be completely prepared for it no matter how old you are, but I agree. Definitely no argument about the financial ability. Don't have kids if you can't support them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:26 AM
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I have the opposite opinion. Don't settle down any sooner than you're ready. Too many young people are pressured to get married and have kids, you have your whole life to do that. As long as you are younger than 35 you don't need to worry much about being able to have children. I think it's a good thing that less people are settling down before they can support themselves and figure out exactly what they want out of life. Sure there isn't anything wrong with wanting to get married in your early …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:23 AM
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Why do some people see becoming a stepfather as the worst fate imaginable? Is it that inconceivable that a man can love a child who isn't his blood like his own, and even (gasp) want to take responsibility for them? Women who have slept with a few men and know what they like in bed/a relationship aren't evil witches trying to take advantage of a man's innocence. The main reason women with experience are more likely to leave isn't because they want to trade up, it's because they know what a relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 11:44 PM
1

Lots of people find their life partners by just letting things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:32 AM
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Somewhere public where people usually go to socialize, or somewhere you've noticed you both visit often. A woman just going about her day getting in her workout at the gym or getting groceries does not want to be talked to 9 times out of 10. If she's giving "don't talk to me" vibes and clearly has places to be then just don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:31 AM
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Some do. You see attractive people with average people all the time honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:47 AM
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Not really. Some people are just shallow, and/or some people just have preferences that I won't meet. Rejection is a part of life. Now, if his preferences are purely misogynistic then I'm going to be disgusted by it, but I'm not going to feel a loss because they don't want me. I'm going to feel bad for the women who they are interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:41 AM
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Because when you have experience you know what you want and what you don't want. You know what's normal and can pick up on a guy acting crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:29 AM
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You know who's ensuring that women benefit financially from relationships? Men. Stop giving money to women and find ones that don't care about what you can buy them, there are plenty out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:49 PM
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I gave him many expensive gifts over the years. I told him he didn't need to get an expensive ring, he did it anyways. As soon as I got my own job I started contributing to any time we went out together. I'd feel like a burden if I let him pay for everything, if I wanted that I'd keep living with my parents. Plus I don't see how gifts are related to sharing every day financial responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:58 PM
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Not having to take care of her, she isn't a boring person with no passion/goals, you know she's with you because she wants to be and not because of your money, she can help you for a little bit if you genuinely need it, you can split bills..... The list goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:54 PM
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I feel like you're mostly right, but there are definitely ambitious men out there who seek out a partner who they can have that in common with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:17 PM
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It's all bullshit. If anything the man is going to resent his partner for making more than him and making him feel emasculated. I've never met an adult woman who hated the idea of women having to split the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:10 PM
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Women don’t wanna share financial responsibility Yes tf they do. I haven't met a single adult woman who expected the man to pay for everything their entire relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:42 PM
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So you want a sex doll instead of a woman with a personality is what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:40 PM
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So in other words you don't know how to compromise?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:37 PM
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Lol and all of these are either stupid or plain untrue or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:33 PM
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There are definitely a lot of men out there who look for women who have careers/ambition, often men who have that and want that thing in common with their partner. It's an attractive trait to both sexes, but many men are taught that the guy makes the money so some of them feel intimidated or inadequate when they see a woman make as much as or more than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:30 PM
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True but the option isn't always there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 05:10 AM
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I mean if you're a woman who wants sex but doesn't want a relationship for some reason, they don't have many other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:30 AM
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This doesn't seem like a women are happier than men thing, it seems like a single people by choice are happier than single people not by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:00 AM
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You think some random ass chick on the street would appreciate a man more than the woman who chose to marry him would? If you marry the right woman and you nurture your relationship constantly then she's still going to be a hoe in the sheets for you 20 years into marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:38 AM
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Men can lose their interest in sex too. Women have to make their partners feel desired just like men do, but we're specifically talking about men in this context.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:34 AM
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So his advice was literally just don't leave your house?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:41 AM
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I mean if they were any less selective about who they slept with you'd have even more people saying "women whore around too much"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:40 AM
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If you feel like you're in the friend zone then you're not really their friend, you've put them in the fuck zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 09:41 AM
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Literally this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:42 AM
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If men were seeking platonic friendships with women more than women were seeking platonic friendships with men then maybe I believe that men like women more. Men who don't have women in their lives other than their family that they don't want to screw don't like women, they like having sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:07 AM
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Literally no one said that we don't need men to exist and yet that's what you're claiming they said. Not to mention every job that you've listed is a job that a woman could also potentially do.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:52 AM
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living the rest of your life alone without children is very painful for them. Right because I'm sure you know the personal feelings of all single childless women. You ever think they choose that life for a reason or do you hate the idea that some women are just happier without men in their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:48 AM
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How did you get "I don't need men to exist" out of the very true statement "I don't need a man in my personal life"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:47 AM
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Exactly. OP says men like women more but how many female friends does he have? How many women who aren't family are in OP's life because he likes who they are as people and not because he wants to see them naked?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:43 AM
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If men liked women more then you wouldn't have so many men saying that having a genuine platonic friendship with a woman is being "stuck in the friend zone". This is just anecdotal evidence, but I see way more women eager to have platonic relationships with men than men looking to have platonic relationships with women. Plus I see way more men claim that men and women can't just be friends without it becoming something more. In reality, if you can't connect with women you aren't related to and l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 05:37 AM
2

Exactly. It's fantasy for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:18 AM
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It's almost like "Alpha" has no meaning. (It doesn't)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:16 AM
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Exactly. Women who read that stuff (at least the grown women anyway) realize that these fictional bad boys would be horrible partners in real life, and they understand that a guy doesn't have to be a douchebag to be exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:13 AM
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Adam Sandler movies be like.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:09 AM
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Ned Fulmer has entered the chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:06 AM
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And ALWAYS pick the one that treats her worse. (I'm looking at you, "After")
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:03 AM
0

Always the emotionally distant, possessive, dominant type.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 08:00 AM
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Damn it's almost like women are individuals and therefore have individual wants and needs. You'd think it'd be common sense that everyone has to go through the trouble of finding people who have the same relationship ideals/goals as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 03:56 PM
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Yeah that's a sugar daddy/baby relationship. Nothing wrong with that but it's not a fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 10:02 PM
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It makes sense of you're also inexperienced and was someone at a similar level as you. But if you're a guy who has been around plenty but prefers inexperienced/virgin women, I think that's fucking creepy. It's different from not wanting someone who slept around a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:44 AM
2

Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:36 PM
1

If the first two are deal breakers I shouldn't be in a relationship right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 06:35 PM
2

Yep it's almost always the same guys expecting sex on the first date who will shame women for having sex on their previous first dates with other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 05:02 AM
7

I was also thinking 7.5 to 8
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 09:34 AM
1

I joined this sub because I agree that a lot of times women have the privilege of getting away with certain things because they are women, which is a problem. Now I realize that this sub is just for taking something that one dumb woman said and using it as a reason to hate all women. Pretty sad.
/r/PussyPass28/03/21 09:45 AM
3

That moment when you assume romance translates to them having sex which translates to rape.
/r/PussyPass16/03/21 04:45 AM
2

No one would care if a 22-year-old guy was with a 17 to 18 year old girl either.
/r/PussyPass16/03/21 04:41 AM
2

Even if the genders were reversed, this really wouldn't be that weird.
/r/PussyPass16/03/21 04:37 AM
1

It's true that it doesn't make them special, and yet some people want to single them out and attack them for being that.
/r/PussyPass10/03/21 06:21 PM
3

Saaaaaaaame
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:38 PM
3

Wow that sucks. I'm sure it must have hurt to see your relationship suffer while he didn't try to deal with the issues causing it to suffer.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 01:00 AM
27

And men get their feelings hurt because they don’t understand why their partners would be more willing to do the dishes or put away laundry than to have sex with them. I'm curious about your thoughts on when the situation is reversed, so it's the man who constantly rejects the woman asking for sex, since this does happen often. Also, I'd say in either situation, the person who pulls away from sex is obviously valid in their feelings if not wanting it, but they also must realize that their partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 11:29 AM
2

Well if you never want sex with your partner then you probably aren't compatible anymore. If when sex comes up it's always unwanted then you probably aren't a good match. When you're in a committed relationship it's kind of your duty to meet your partner's needs, but if you are miserable doing so or aren't able to, then it's your duty to yourself to leave that relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 11:02 AM
6

There is a huge difference between a dead bedroom and just not wanting sex as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:56 AM
1

It really depends on the person. Some men can't get turned on when they're stressed and some women get horny when they are stressed and sometimes vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:50 AM
6

No there are plenty of women with libidos that high. Everyone is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 10:49 AM
0

Not having to be wary of every member of the opposite sex wherever they go, for one.
/r/PussyPass02/03/21 06:29 PM
24

Every single group has privilege. As a woman I don't see why women don't think that female privilege isn't a thing. Just because men are privileged doesn't mean they get everything and are never disadvantaged.
/r/PussyPass02/03/21 12:11 AM
2

I've seen it first hand, but there are more factors than looks that get women to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:20 AM
-1

Dicks aren’t attractive Then why am I always asking my partner for dick pics?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:12 AM
10

Yep. Only a small subgroup of women are obsessed with big dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 07:11 AM
-5

Woman: does something bad Some guy: this belongs on this sub
/r/PussyPass22/02/21 06:53 AM
1

You are acting as though if men aren't taught to always fix things instead of crying about them, then no one will solve problems, which is wrong. Women aren't less competent at solving problems just because they show their emotions about them, so men shouldn't be seen that way if they are also emotionally vulnerable. We have this idea that you either complain about your problems or you solve them, and you can't do both, but that's not the case. Everyone is a mix of masculinity and femininity, a …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:20 AM
-11

Makes sense that anyone who looks like that would say something so disrespectful to someone.
/r/PussyPass19/02/21 05:03 AM
1

I don't know, cuz they're easier to please?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:55 AM
2

Any actual studies to back this up??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:53 PM
1

Which is why if they stop trying to be Super Mommy and give your husband some parental responsibilities, they'll have less stress and be more willing to fulfill his sexual desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:52 PM
3

You don't need different partners, there's already plenty of genetic variation when having multiple kids with the same person.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:48 PM
1

Very true that mothers risk getting a lot of shame if they appear sexy. Plus there's the stress of raising children, and not looking the same as they used to, and the wonky hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:47 PM
2

Tell that to the people who've been with the same person for 50 years without cheating....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:44 PM
2

That's a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:35 PM
2

That's still a very large percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 09:26 PM
1

In the same place where you would find men that don't objectify women. It's not all women and it's not all men. Still hard to find the good ones sometimes though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 11:24 PM
4

and if she doesn't treat you well afterword then you know your dodged a bullet and you should get out because she's a shitty person. A lot of women aren't going to be like that, obviously. stop acting like every woman is going to be disgusted if a man cries in front of her because that's not how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 11:02 PM
3

I would say that unconditional love is real in a way, but it excludes things that are unforgivable or unmanageable. If someone has flaws that make them incapable of being in a healthy or successful relationship with you, you can still love them as a person but not stay in a relationship with them. When you say "I love you no matter what" there are definitely some unspoken conditions in there like murdering someone or treating you like crap continuously. I love someone no matter what insecurities…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 10:54 PM
1

As a woman I would say that anyone who is like this is just a shitty person and probably has some seriously messed up internalized ideas. It's as if some people are convinced that men aren't actually humans. There are definitely some women out there who have this in their head and I don't think they're worth wasting any time on. You dodged a bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 10:45 PM
1

The interesting thing is that this is the way men have behaved and treated women for years, but we never look at those statistics because it's seen as normal for men to be the ones with multiple premarital sex partners. Sex should be unitive, it should be part of the relationship which is worked in together. I agree. Someone who has more experience would be able to recognize when that isn't happening, and they would know that they can find a more equal partnership. It's not unfair to leave if yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:30 AM
1

Those Height Queens are definitely the vocal minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:06 AM
1

calling a girl a retard I know some people are into being degraded but jeesh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 10:04 AM
1

you lie about women's height preference This. I've only met like one woman who had a preference of over 6' and as a woman I still don't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:50 PM
2

Maybe don't ask questions with a secret goal and you won't get answers that aren't helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:47 PM
1

Which isn't even a good question because it's so generalized. It probably wouldn't get you anywhere. Women don't necessarily know what all other women are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:44 PM
0

Most women just care if the guy's taller and don't actually prefer a guy that's over 6 ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:33 PM
1

I think if youre being intellectually honest you will admit most will pick the latter. But it really doesn't make any sense though. Maybe you care that much about money but there literally is no difference between the two guys when it comes to just sleeping with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:30 PM
1

A three out of 10 in your eyes. And you think women are the ones with high standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:17 PM
1

It's funny how you think you can look at a woman and decide that she's the right amount of attractive for one guy or for all men, or that she's too hot to be interested in him, or too ugly for the guy to be interested. People just go for what they're drawn to, you're giving all these meaningless numbers. And you say women are complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:14 PM
-1

If I say "I want a man", it really does not need to be said that I want a decent-looking man with a decent personality. If I say "I want a good man" it's still very obvious that I want them to be relatively attractive. How would anyone not understand that? It's not subtext, it just goes without saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 03:06 PM
3

aren't you expecting them to bring you back a cup or bottle of water and not just whatever they can fit between their palms This works really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:58 PM
3

This may come as a surprise to you but people get physically aroused randomly, without actually being aroused, all the time. You call that single study objective proof? At best it's a flawed experiment with results that support a specific hypothesis, with several unknown variables. Also what makes you think that the only explanation for the data is the women "lying"? the lies girls are told like that ‘being educated and making alot of money and being career successful will make them happy and mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:51 PM
1

Wow it's almost like there are manipulative men out there who are good at convincing women to sleep with them. Plus a few women who just don't care if the guy is a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:39 PM
4

Well if you've never met the person and you're just looking for a one-night stand and obviously looks are going to matter a lot more than a long-term casual sex partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:36 PM
3

I mean my baseline for looks is over 5'0" and less than 300 lb, no preference in muscle mass or body type, decent hygiene. I don't really have standards for facial features, I just know if a face is cute when I see it, which could be literally anything. That's pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:34 PM
1

This exactly. If I fall in love with someone's personality I'm going to become way more intensely sexually attracted to them than to any super physically attractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:24 PM
1

Pardon me for butting in here but yes, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:22 PM
-2

to women it’s the opposite, where being selfish, demanding, more “assholish,” makes a man more attractive that’s confusing to men. Literally no one finds this attractive. You're deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:19 PM
-2

You make it sound like men have no motivation for maintaining an emotional connection other than sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:16 PM
0

Exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:09 PM
1

Really now? Your grandma cooked and cleaned because she thought it was her duty as a wife, what makes you think that the sex wasn't another one of her duties?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:29 PM
2

Most likely because if you're experienced in sex, you're going to have higher standards and be more likely to leave if you're not satisfied.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 09:14 PM
0

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 08:27 PM
-1

Good point, except fish die when you fish. Women get sex. Women want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 08:25 PM
2

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 06:10 AM
-1

Only like a couple stupid women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/21 06:08 AM
1

Man, a guy taking care of me like that would be the only thing stopping me from wanting to ruin him if he cheated on me. I wouldn't feel like I owed him at all for that, because I would have done the same for anyone I was in a relationship with for nothing in return. For rent I think it's definitely fair though. If you share a space with someone then everyone has to contribute something of value. That doesn't always mean money or using the car but most people aren't going to trade love and affec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:27 PM
1

Okay..? Both sides can be shit people sometimes. what's your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:19 PM
2

Which is why I'd never wait for marriage. There are a lot of things you have to be compatible for in order for a long-term relationship or marriage to work, and if sex matters at all to you then it's important to know whether you're compatible in that area too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:16 PM
3

There's probably something to do with how long you've been together before you get married. There's stages to love, and if you wait until you've gone through the infatuation and excitement and you actually understand each other as people, then it's more likely to be successful. I haven't heard of women being quicker to get bored in an LTR than men. Everyone goes through those stages.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:08 PM
5

highly low Confused screaming
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:01 PM
2

Sharing insurance, sharing wealth, sharing a home, sharing responsibilities. Expanding your family in other ways.. So many childfree people still want to get married. Marriage for a man isn't all throwing your money at other people who are dependent on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 12:00 PM
3

I'm so happy for you! What I like about modern marriage is that it can look like and mean whatever a couple wants it to. It can have more meaning because it's what you want to do and not what you have to do. It's no longer a thing you have to do a certain way at a certain time of your life and only with certain people. These days you can wait until you're absolutely sure and ready for marriage, whatever marriage means to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:51 AM
7

Lots of men are into hot, put-together older women. Why do you assume someone with different tastes from you is "settling" or "desperate"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 11:45 AM
3

they won't let you down softly like women do. Makes sense considering girls are always taught to be polite and let people down easy. Especially when they could get murdered if they're too brash with their rejection.. It seems like men in certain circles are going to be accustomed to telling you unapologetically whether you make the cut or not, especially when it's online and there's no consequences to being rude to others. It's too bad their dating world is so brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 07:01 AM
1

From what I've heard it's actually harder for gay people to find partners than straight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 06:44 AM
1

And yet some men are convinced that all women think they're too good for unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:30 PM
5

I mean that's true, but it's pretty dumb to use all attractive actors. It lets men think women are never attracted to average or "ugly" men. Which isn't the case at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:28 PM
0

As long as you also agree that women shouldn't care about what men like, then fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:24 PM
7

They usually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:16 PM
2

I've literally never heard of people being mad over people getting access to birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 04:11 AM
3

A large percentage of the population have disorders that go undiagnosed and untreated. If you are dealing with something that is abnormal and unhealthy then you should consider looking at options to deal with it. What you're describing is not healthy and while many people can relate to it, it should not be the norm and nothing is ever too small to talk to someone about. You don't have to live your life like that just because it seems like everyone else does. This is why so many people go undiagn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:45 PM
3

Oh fuck off troll
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:34 PM
1

Like everyone is saying, while women are more likely to develop depression, men are more likely to commit suicide due to them being less likely to receive help and support for their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/20 06:32 PM
1

I'm glad you didn't feel any danger. It just makes me really frustrated how women are almost always able to get away with making men feel uncomfortable (dangerous or not), and even when it's harmless it's still not okay to invade someone's personal space when they clearly don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 01:39 AM
1

Big f, I'm sorry you had to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 01:32 AM
2

Yeah I guess that's why I'm trying to say. It's a hypocrisy that really gets me. You shouldn't hold someone else to a certain standard if you're not holding yourself to that same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 01:31 AM
0

What you're saying doesn't make any sense. If you are someone with a high count who prefers people with a low count then you're a hypocrite. If you've cheated on people in the past then you don't deserve to be picky and only date people who've never cheated in their past. If you are a man-whore then you are not entitled to getting a chance with people who aren't also whores. It's not about picking someone based off of factors you can't control like race or wage, it's about behavior and hypocrisy…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 01:26 AM
2

I'm not opposed to hookups but I would prefer an LTR because with warmth love and support and sex that you all get in a relationship, who would choose casual sex over that? If I wasn't in a relationship then I would probably have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:18 AM
3

True. I've only been with one guy yet I'm probably way more enthusiastic and more skilled than some chick who's been a starfish with 15 guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:15 AM
1

Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:14 AM
1

Why not get the best you can? Because people dont self sabotage their love life over a notion of fairness to a stranger. You're saying that it's okay to feel entitled to the best option out there even when you yourself have a high count? You really don't have the right to prefer LNC when you're HBC.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:12 AM
0

Sex with someone you love is way more special than casual sex no matter how much casual sex she's had. And it doesn't get less special the more sex you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:10 AM
0

Same goes for guys too though. The guy has probably screwed women that are way better at sex. Then you both could just get better at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 11:08 AM
1

Whenever it feels right
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:56 AM
1

The thing is the good guy may be boring but he's stable and you can turn him into an interesting guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:56 AM
1

Maybe she wants to make sure she can separate you from people who just want her for sex. Sex is more than just sex when it's with someone you genuinely love and care about, it could likely be worth more to her. Casual sex is cheap and quick and she might not want it to feel that way with you. If I feel a genuine connection with you then I'll want it to be more special than a quickie with some guy at a bar. Try not to see it as a punishment just because you're not immediately getting your dick we…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:55 AM
1

If he was hurt by someone in the past who he did all that for then I would understand why he wouldn't want to do that again for risk of being taken advantage of. I just care that he's healed from that experience and he has room in his heart after the heartache to love me. He already puts effort into the relationship and I wouldn't ask him to do anything he doesn't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:45 AM
1

What like philosophy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:42 AM
1

I think it would be more ideal for two people to have to have a combined income of a certain amount. It's fine if there is a big gap in who makes how much because some situations work better for different couples. Some some families work well where the woman makes all the money and the man is a stay-at-home dad. Some do well were both work full-time and make similar wages. I think it would be pretty stupid to have a requirement for dating though. For a lot of people money doesn't matter to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:42 AM
1

because they wanted commitment but their partners just treated them as a sex doll. Who wants that? Just because you've had a promiscuous past doesn't mean you can't just leave someone who treats you like a sex doll.... It's really not hard to find a decent person to be with. Men can just have sex and leave. Women also use men for sex. Women enjoy sex, they don't just do it for empowerment. If all men want is sex and that's all they're going to get. I don't know why some men think it's necessary …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:38 AM
1

Which is why toxic masculinity needs to go in the trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:27 AM
2

But there are many women who are stronger than most men. Plus, physical strength is only a small part fighting in a war, there are many skills that are required which women are naturally good at. How many arm-wrestles do you think happen on a battlefield?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:26 AM
1

I agree that each one of these issues needs to be solved, but that doesn't erase the many scenarios in which women are still not treated equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:23 AM
1

I don't understand why Marina coming from a place of privilege, or women being privileged in some situations, makes the situations where they are oppressed any less of a problem. Why does talking about one issue make people feel like they're ignoring another issue? TALKING ABOUT WOMEN'S ISSUES IS NOT ERACING THE INEQUALITY THAT MEN FACE.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:21 AM
1

As a woman I agree that women should definitely be included in the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:15 AM
1

Actually women have a high rate of depression but a lower rate of suicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:15 AM
1

You shouldn't get a surgery that's meant to only be temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:11 AM
1

Especially when the surgery is done with the intention of being permanent and all the other methods are temporary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:11 AM
1

While I'm a woman who personally wouldn't want to be a pornstar or have an only fans account, I REALLY LOVE WATCHING PORN. It's great and if that's how you want to support yourself then go ahead, it's just personally not for me. I definitely wouldn't choose death over onlyfans though. It's definitely not any more degrading than cleaning up strange fluids in a public restroom. It would be cool to see more men on onlyfans. Women have visual attraction too, even if it's not on the same level as men…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:08 AM
1

99% of women actually really want men to be more vocal and expressive during sex. I don't know what those women were smoking but they are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:03 AM
1

I always see this and it pisses me off so much. The only thing that's needed to make you a valuable partner to me is whether we're compatible and you put effort into our relationship. Body count or money don't mean anything to me. If I become emotionally attached to you then I'm going to grow to find you physically attractive. To me you're "high value" if you make me feel loved and appreciated and make an effort to please me. Anything like nice gifts or being objectively gorgeous are just bonuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:58 AM
2

This is so annoying because it makes men think that if they don't act like assholes and take what they want then they're a beta male or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:52 AM
0

Why is everybody acting as if you can either be a full-on asshole that has no respect for others, or a good nice man, who is so nice that he becomes a total pushover? Media likes to portray decent guys as being bland when that really isn't the case. In lots of movies there's the side love interest that the leading female ditches because she doesn't feel that 'spark' that she does with the bad boy. Just because someone's more 'interesting' doesn't mean that they will be a good partner in the long…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:51 AM
1

Me thinking of the movie "after we collided", there are so many movies where it's glorified to choose the asshole who clearly won't change his behavior, and maybe some young women think it will work out for them the same way it does in movies. In real life, he probably doesn't love you enough to change his ways. In the movies it doesn't require the effort that being a better partner does in real life. The love interest in a movie is more likely to suddenly become a better person than your real-l…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:47 AM
1

Most men don't prefer mainly stick-figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:43 AM
1

Well what makes marriage valuable anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:40 AM
3

No, I also have not been immediately attracted to a lot of men. With actors and people I've never met I can be more immediately attracted to, but in person I have to get to know them before I become very sexually attracted to them. I usually have to get to know them and develop a crush on them before I am attracted to the point where I want to stare at them constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:39 AM
3

I feel like most women don't bother to hide their past. There are plenty of good men out there who don't care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:35 AM
1

Yes, they would just wait longer. People are already waiting longer until they find themselves and our financially stable before they get married. For some people, including me, "settling down" is one of the ways people express their love. I don't have to marry you in order to be your partner or have children, but I'm still doing it because this is one of the ways that I can show how much I love you. People might still get married at their twenties but wait until their fifties to have kids. Some…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:32 AM
1

As a woman I think that all you should get for sex is sex. I don't want money I just want to be pleased in return and that's how it should be. An orgasm is of equal value for everyone, and I think that people only think it should be an unequal trade because historically women weren't known to get as much pleasure from sex. This is because back then men didn't know that they had to actually please the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:26 AM
1

I think it's possible to see sex as casual outside of a relationship and intimate when it's inside a relationship. Sex is just sex, but when it's with someone you love and trust then it becomes more than just sex. People act like intimacy doesn't matter to promiscuous people, but it's the connection between two people that makes sex valuable. To me sex is only a big deal when you have a connection with the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:22 AM
1

Pair bonding happens to both sexes.. Not to mention you don't need to pair bond in order to have a fulfilling relationship and sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:16 AM
1

I think that's pretty fair. I know that if I put effort into having a low count then I would want my partner to have done the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:07 AM
2

That's not how that works. Her vagina would have already killed all of that bacteria, dumbass. A pussy isn't any less clean with anyone else's dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:06 AM
1

I think this is a pretty good point. It's way easier to tell sexual compatibility with someone who is experienced and knows what they like than it is with someone with barely any experience and doesn't know what they are into. I imagine if you have a high count and you're with a virgin you would always be thinking "are they only going along with this or enjoying this because they don't know anything else?"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 09:03 AM
2

Well I think that's pretty fair. If you have a high N count then you don't really have the right to prefer someone with a lower one than you. If you're picky about count then it's probably best to stick to people who have a similar one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:59 AM
1

A lot of people think it's an issue that women with a higher account are less likely to be satisfied with the sex in a relationship, but having high standards when it comes to sex isn't a bad thing. If she was a virgin when you started dating then it would be fair to wonder whether she only liked having sex with you because she had never known anything else. If she has "WAP" when I'm with her and is still sexually compliant with me, then I would not be as concerned I definitely agree with this a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:56 AM
1

So do you think that relationships are just sex and one of them paying bills?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:49 AM
2

A lot of women have low standards for what is 'the best of men' so even if women only date men that are up to their standard, there are so many people who have such a low standard that lots of men who are considered "low value" would still get plenty opportunities to be with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:47 AM
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As a woman, for me the reward for giving sexual exclusivity is getting sexual exclusivity. The incentive for doing something is getting the same thing in return. The only way a woman would care about how many people she sleeps with before dating you is if you care about how many you sleep with before dating her. If you have a pretty high n count then you don't really have the right to prefer someone with a lower one. If two people have very different n counts but neither care about it then there…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:43 AM
9

One of the double standards that really get me is how difficult it is for women to get sterilized versus men. There's not really anything legal that makes it harder for women but a lot of medical providers still make a big fuss about young women and women with no kids wanting to get sterilized. Just a lot of situations in the medical world where female patients aren't taken as seriously as their husbands or male patients. There are lots of instances where doctors consult a patient's husband when…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:33 AM
2

My opinion has always been that if someone puts their hands on you with malicious intent to harm, that’s on them what happens next in terms of retaliation and self defense. As a woman I couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:24 AM
1

I've seen a lot of boys being told the same thing that you were. I really hope that becomes much less common as time goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:22 AM
3

As a woman your experiences really piss me off. That shouldn't be acceptable, you are just as deserving of feeling safe and comfortable as any woman at that bar is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:20 AM
1

You literally just said that women are only having sex with the top 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:13 AM
3

Well now women are actually allowed to choose people they are attracted to instead of just picking someone who will provide for them. Not too long ago we had to be married in order to do a lot of things in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:12 AM
4

Which is why women are looking for men who are their equal and not settling for men they don't like because they need them for stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 08:09 AM
3

Funny how you think you know who he is and isn't attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:59 AM
2

It's really not hard to think someone is hot but not want to fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:58 AM
1

Because they're dealing with an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:57 AM
2

Sounds like the women you were friends with were just bitches and now because of that you think that all women aren't shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:55 AM
3

What the hell do friends do if you're calling those things "boyfriend duties"? Also I like how you clearly stated how you think that boy=fix things and girl=cook things.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:54 AM
4

It's really not hard to find someone attractive but not want to screw them. It's sad that the only value you see in women is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:50 AM
2

Men have a lot more self-control than you give them credit for.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:46 AM
3

That's so beautiful! My boyfriend and I both have a hard time making and keeping friends, so I'm always so excited whenever he has anyone he can talk to besides me. I always try to get to know any of his female friends and make friends with them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:41 AM
0

I mean I've had a lot of male friends that I wasn't interested in, even before I got into a relationship. Sadly some of them ended up telling me they were attracted to me and had feelings for me and I rejected them, and they didn't always handle that rejection well. I'm pretty awful at making friends so when one of my friends tells me that they like me as more than a friend and I don't feel the same, sometimes it makes me feel like they were only friendly with me because they were attracted to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:36 AM
3

I can think someone is hot but that doesn't mean I want to fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:26 AM
5

I felt this. I've dealt with rejection way better than any guy who I have rejected. I can't imagine feeling entitled to someone feeling certain way for me just because I was a good friend to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:25 AM
3

Well I imagine me and a lot of women would be sad to find that out because we wouldn't be sure whether they were only friendly with us because they wanted to fuck us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:22 AM
2

Honestly neither should be gross because unlike a car, people aren't physically "worn down" from having a lot of sex and having a promiscuous past doesn't lower anyone's value.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:18 AM
1

If anything gender norms has held society back.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:16 AM
4

Sluthood is just a phase after all. Like "I used to slack off at work before but for you sir I would work like never, just trust me and don't be insecure...or nevermind. " That would only be a good analogy if the sluthood was them cheating on past partners. Cheating is wrong and you wouldn't want to date someone who has cheated in the past, but it's different from if you've had multiple good relationships with people. The amount of people you have been with doesn't change your potential to be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:13 AM
20

A lot of guys are like "I don't want a virgin because I'd have to teach her how to have sex, but I don't want someone's who's slept with more than two guys cuz then she's a slut"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:06 AM
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Not common but I have heard of some women who are like this and then once they marry their new partner they stop having sex for some dumb reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 07:02 AM
1

Lol apparently bi people and lesbians don't exist..
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:58 AM
6

I guess I definitely don't want my 20-year-old boyfriend then because apparently he has nothing to offer. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:57 AM
5

Honestly I don't think a promiscuous person would choose to be with a sexually conservative person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 06:54 AM
2

It's a pussy pass because she was obviously given custody in the first place just because she was a woman and not because she was a good parent. It happens all the time.
/r/PussyPass19/12/20 08:38 AM
1

I don't think that anyone is giving each other anything other than pleasure in an ideal situation. It's too bad that men feel like they have to buy women food or take them out before they can have sex with them when sex is supposed to satisfy both parties equally. You're sharing something instead of giving something up. No one is of more or less value and they should be putting equal effort into pleasing each other. Ideally people wouldn't have sex if both of them weren't getting the same thing …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:56 AM
1

I mean someone, man or woman, who only brings sex to the table isn't worth much more than being a fuckbuddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:41 AM
1

So in general we really need to stop telling people that sex and masturbation are bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:38 AM
1

Women are the ones who turn sex into a reward by withholding it, putting conditions on it, and using it as a manipulation tool. But why would men buy into it when they could just get sex from someone who actually wants to have sex with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 04:33 AM
1

Some people have a certain type, and if those people that are into your type aren't in your social group then apparently you're screwed?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 07:56 PM
0

Well as long as those same guys don't act entitled to someone's affection after they approach someone and are rejected then that's not a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 03:51 AM
3

The other day I saw a PragerU ad that started with "War, murder, rape. What do these have in common? Men." Um...no.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 03:47 AM
2

Me with my anxious depressed boyfriend....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 06:08 AM
1

The overall intention of sex is reproduction. That's the motivator of sex and orgasms feeling good. Then why the fuck is there a clitoris??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/20 07:51 AM
0

I think you're just really insecure that you're not good enough to keep someone who's had anything else to compare you to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 08:50 AM
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I don't have to worry about her not thinking I'm big enough, because she didn't get railed by 10 inchers in the past. That's some bullshit. If you're small you're small and if she isn't satisfied by you then she'll know even if she is a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 08:45 AM
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Yeah, just because they're a virgin doesn't mean they won't have sexual baggage you'll have to deal with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 08:43 AM
2

I was a hardcore atheist since I was 13, I just kind of hit me that I didn't want to follow rules of religion and let those ideas control my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 12:39 AM
1

Wow that's just awful. I would hate to be part of that environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 12:37 AM
1

As a woman, I don't really understand it. My boyfriend plays video games and I wanted to show interest in his hobbies so we play video games together when we get the chance. It's really fun and even if he spends a lot of time gaming sometimes, it's not all he does.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 03:07 AM
8

What the fuck does that even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 09:15 AM
1

There is a difference between asking someone out and saying things that would make any normal person uncomfortable. I don't think we're talking about the same type of "approached".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:10 AM
1

As a woman who approached the man I've been in a long-term relationship with, I say it's false.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 03:32 AM
0

I don't see that as a bad thing though. There will always be people who want to have kids or get married. If nuclear families become rarer then we can simply adjust to the change.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 12:41 AM
3

I mean I'm a young woman who needs money and doesn't see stripping as a bad thing. That doesn't mean I'm going to become a stripper. Just because something's easy doesn't mean everyone is going to want to do it. Is every woman in 2030 going to give up on having any professional aspirations? I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 12:28 AM
1

Sounds like it'll become a lot like being a YouTuber.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 12:24 AM
5

If you have no food or water it's excusable to be hostile to people when you're starving or thirsty. When you have no sex it's still not excusable to be an ass. Sex is a secondary need and being desperate for it doesn't excuse any behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 12:23 AM
1

So for incels, the after-sex clarity is just becoming a fucking normal human being? Doesn't seem worth saving if they're already that fucked in the head. Being a virgin doesn't seem like a valid excuse for them not having common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 12:18 AM
1

What are you doing step-dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 12:13 AM
3

I know right? I keep hearing, especially from people in this sub, about how if men aren't receiving sex and women aren't receiving financial security in a transactional relationship then it's not realistic or ideal. They act like marriage and having kids along with stability are the only motivations for having long-term relationships. It's so superficial. Idk about everyone else, but I date people to give and receive emotional support and intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 12:12 AM
3

My boyfriend and I got together in high school. I figured out he liked me after he kinda hinted at it so I asked him to homecoming. The weeks leading up to it we kind of just knew that the plan was for him to ask me out at the dance but we weren't officially together until then. We were practically together already but after the dance we were official.(High school was definitely a simpler time when it came to dating lol) He said he'd thought about asking me but I did it a lot sooner than he was …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:34 PM
1

why would I ever bother to ask a guy out? Have you never had a genuine interest in someone who hasn't approached you? Never liked someone who wasn't falling at your feet over your beauty?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:22 PM
5

That's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:18 PM
2

Most of the time I've heard men say this is a myth. I'm sure there's a minority of people who think it's weird but I know it's rare. Some guys have probably never been approached by a woman and would be caught off guard by it, but might not be turned off by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 06:16 PM
2

Low-key I think you should be able to sue if someone gets pregnant or an STD because someone lied about birth control or medical history.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:12 AM
2

It really isn't. Is showing off your money just subtlety saying that you want to be robbed?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 11:57 PM
2

True. I also think if women don't want people to assume based on their clothes that they want to be approached, that they should do something else to send that signal. Like approach the guy! If I show off skin but don't interact with any guys then it's just cuz I want to show off skin, but if I show off skin and flirt with you then you know why I'm showing off skin. It's pretty easy to give off the vibe that you're DTF just by your behavior, so it's not like clothing is the only way women tell m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 11:51 PM
3

Man I wish I could not wear a shirt and people not always assume it's sexual. Must be nice. But yeah, I like your explanation a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 11:44 PM
2

I expect people to stare if I show off a lot of skin cuz it's just natural but if you act on the thoughts you have that makes you in the wrong. You can think whatever you want, but you don't get to approach a stranger and make them uncomfortable because of what they're wearing. You're responsible for your actions and no harassment is justified no matter how little someone is wearing. If you break into someone's house, is the amount of security they have telling you how much they don't want their…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 11:40 PM
1

I don't want him to love me for what I have accomplished, I want him to be proud of me but not be surprised by them because he believes in me so much. It's not about what I've already done, it's about what he knows that I can do because he has so much faith in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 06:35 AM
2

As a woman I can say that I don't appreciate gender roles. Sure, I like what I like, but money has nothing to do with that. If I'm interested in dating someone then I'll date them and if they have money and are willing to pay for dates a lot of the time then that's just a bonus. Just because gender roles say that men always pay for dates doesn't mean it's right or fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:05 AM
1

That's a good point. It would also show women whether or not someone is interested in them for just sex because if they just wanted sex then they could get a prostitute. So women would be able to tell that if they're being approached that's more likely to be for a real relationship. Basically, people who only wanted to hook up wouldn't waste their time in a relationship, and people who want a relationship wouldn't be wasting time on people who just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 12:00 AM
1

Not everyone wants to put their personal life out there like that. It's nobody's business, anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 11:07 PM
1

So I have to sleep with multiple men to know what I want? Yeah, no. You can't tell me that I don't genuinely desire someone just because I haven't had better sex before. I'm pretty damn sure I know whether or not someone is pleasing me, and I don't need to screw multiple people to know that I enjoy sex with one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 05:21 AM
1

Sure but saying he knows how every woman in his area and age group acts just makes him sound stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 05:07 AM
2

If I really value that friendship then I'll hope that we stay friends but at the end of the day I can't and won't force it. If it's just too awkward I'm already willing to let them go. If I was single I would obviously be more likely to stay friends with them than I would in a relationship. If someone confesses when they know you're taken and happy with your SO then it's important to be wary of them cuz they might not care and may keep pursuing you. I've rejected a friend multiple times and a fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 01:49 AM
9

This is why you don't have healthy relationships with women. You think they all want to play games so you don't seek women who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:57 PM
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When you spend money on someone you are owed money back. You're not owed sex unless your spending money on a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:56 PM
5

Funny how you think you know what the best fish is for every woman out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:54 PM
-1

Let me guess you don't know a lot of women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:50 PM
2

I agree. Any man who says "all women are whores with unmeetable standards who want a 6' tall asshole" clearly doesn't know many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 10:21 PM
3

You clearly don't understand that If a guy is caring and honest, plenty of women would want to fuck them even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 06:50 PM
1

Women find some personalities mesh well with them as friends and others work better as partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 07:12 PM
5

We're animals. If we were better than animals then we would have a less primitive way of reproduction, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 06:44 AM
3

Sex can be an expression of love in a relationship. But, do you really think we have the biological urge to have sex because it's meant to show love? No! Pleasure and reproduction are the reasons it exists. The amount of emotion that is attached to it is completely subjective and up to the individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 06:18 AM
1

That's like saying getting a tattoo will negatively impact your future. It depends on what you want your future to look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 08:43 PM
1

Everyone experiences rejection. Idk why you'd let yourself be forced into compliance when you're already lonely and are gonna be rejected anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 03:02 AM
1

I feel like everyone should care about it that much. They're half of the population. I guess what I'm trying to say is that everyone's struggles are valid no matter what gender you are. One doesn't suffer overall more than the other. Sometimes their problems are just different.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:54 AM
1

Good point. I guess the most important thing is that you find someone who wants the same things out of a relationship that you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:50 AM
1

But do you really know for sure that 8/10 women are not reasonable human beings? I just think that what you've seen from women, it really misrepresents the entire group.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:47 AM
1

For real
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:43 AM
1

You definitely have some good points. One of the biggest factors that I think plays a role in men's behavior in relationships and social situations is the fact that men are taught that they cannot cry or complain about their struggles. Men, more often than women, are taught that they have to solve their own problems, cuz nobody is going to do it for you (or really just support you in any way). Women throughout their lives are encouraged to talk about their feelings way more than men are. Things …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:42 AM
1

Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:32 AM
1

Ikr? My bf is 5'7 which isn't exactly considered tall, but he's still 7 inches taller than me so I'm perfectly happy. And he likes that I'm short, so it works out. He's by most standards an average guy, but over the years with the connection we've made, he's become the most attractive man in the world to me. Why would I look for someone better? We're both very young adults and started dating in our mid-teens, but once we got together we never felt the need to seek out something different. Since …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:32 AM
1

They're rare, but they exist in the wild. Takes a lot of luck though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 01:23 AM
1

Yeah, you can easily fake being a decent person in a pm, but not everyone can do it in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:21 PM
1

A traumatic experience or lots of harassment from the church
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 04:16 PM
3

And men feel the need of be taller because they have a superiority complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:21 PM
1

I do know a few men who absolutely have a height preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:17 PM
7

You shouldn't have to change your preferences to spare someone's feelings. You just have to not be an asshole about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:15 PM
2

So I'm gonna guess that if you were a 5'2 man, you wouldn't at all avoid women taller than you, then? Height is trivial and meaningless, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:13 PM
1

Yeah. A preference isn't a number. Saying "I like taller men" is a preference. "They have to be 6'+" is a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:06 PM
1

What's interesting is that beyond pheromones and hormones, men are usually more reliant on visuals than women and women are more reliant on emotion and thoughts. Idk if anyone else has experienced this, but with the majority of guys I've been attracted to I always established some sort of emotional connection to them, and then would slowly but surely become very physically attracted to them. The more attached I got, the hotter I thought they were. Naturally, in a relationship I'm always like "th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 03:04 PM
1

Not op, but this is my take on it. Attraction and chemistry often happen simultaneously. If you're experiencing one, then you're probably feeling some of the other, too. If I'm starting to feel a lot of chemistry with someone, I definitely didn't think he was ugly before. And if I start to get really physically attracted to someone, it's usually because I've been feeling some sort of connection to them lately. If the chemistry gets to the point where it's really good, then their height or weight…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:53 PM
1

Rip people with thyroid issues. Hormones control both weight and height. Endocrine system issues mean you're fucked no matter what I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:45 PM
3

Or they just wake up and realize they're being stupid. Like people who look for someone who's willing to have ten kids and then grow up and realize that's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:43 PM
2

Right because people on tinder are the perfect sample size for literally all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:41 PM
5

Most women write off men under 6-foot. "Most women" what, the 100 who post about it on social media out of billions of women? Saying that's the standard for the average woman, even the average western woman, is bullshit and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:39 PM
2

You're using your and other people's personal preference to speak for the whole gender. Just because you care about who someone is as a person doesn't mean all men do. Just because a few shallow women have an extreme personal preference, doesn't mean all women are that shallow. I’m supposed to weigh up the entirety of you as a person, but you’re free to exclude me for something so patently shallow and vain. Just because you do this and then some woman decided to be a bitch, it doesn't justify yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:36 PM
3

Um no. Selective people have a requirement. Normal people have a preference. Both sides have selective assholes, but the majority just happen to be attracted to people with similar features.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:24 PM
1

130cc's min
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:22 PM
0

Height and size are numbers. The numbers aren't what make someone attractive to you. Someone being taller or shorter than you makes you attracted to them, not the fact that they're 6'2. There's being attracted to certain aspects like someone being generally short tall thick or skinny, and then there's selective people who say they only want someone with specific numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:19 PM
0

Plus, one plays a role in your health while the other doesn't really.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:12 PM
1

I mean I'm 5'0 and my boyfriend is 5'7. If a person looks healthy and in decent shape/physical wellness, then weight is just a number. As long as they're not objectively unattractive, then that's literally my only standard for looks. I don't give a fuck about height as long as you're taller than me (so below average men are still perfect) and idc about weight as long as you're not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:09 PM
1

Exactly. A child is made of half the woman's dna, and half the man's. Both parties are responsible to some degree for what happens to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:05 PM
1

Exactly. If you don't want to pay child support, then don't stick your dick in someone who wouldn't yeetus the fetus. And for women, if you you're against abortion and don't want to be a single mom, then don't fuck anyone who wouldn't stay with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 02:02 PM
1

That's why you get you a girl who can offer the wifey experience and variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:47 PM
1

It really is true though. Men are taught that their worth is tied to how good they are at pulling women into bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:38 PM
2

Exactly. This old idea implies that women aren't supposed to want sex, especially not as much as men. This belief has been passed down and is the reason why people think women don't want sex as much. It because they're told that they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:36 PM
1

Luckily, emotional beta men are just my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:33 PM
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Exactly. To say that men objectively want sex more than women or the other way around is just incorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:27 PM
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Exactly. It's such an old idea that men are supposed to always want sex, and that they're supposed to have to wear the woman down and convince them to let them smash. The concept creates hundred of problems and unrealistic expectations for men and women to meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:23 PM
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Emotional support? Jeez, some people forget that the world is lonely sometimes. No matter what generation or what gender, there's always people who just want the companionship, love, and support that comes from a long term relationship. Sex and kids aren't the most important reasons to date or get married. Sure, they're the most primal, but don't need a relationship to have those.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:21 PM
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I mean, gun or no gun, that's just what every day life is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:15 PM
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Feminists wouldn't scream all day long about "rape" all day long if they had anything approaching sexual urges like men. Well I guess men just don't get raped, then. Because men are constantly thinking about sex and nothing else. Any chance at sex they get they should be grateful for, consensual or not! -_- Men want sex, women use sex to bait a hook for cash and prizes. That's it. Don't blame me that's how the species worked. Humans would never have evolved to where they are now if women fucked …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:13 PM
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Tell that to all the women who have high sex drives, and the men that take it as a challenge but then come to find out that they can't keep up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:07 PM
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NOT TO MENTION the shame that women are given when they enjoy sex. Society expects women to want sex less, so young girls are taught that it's dirty and that only boys are supposed to want that. If they want sex more often than a man does, then they're too slutty or horny. It's not that the man isn't enough to satisfy her, but that she is too much. If she needs multiple partners to be satisfied, she's a whore. If she watches porn, she's gross, cuz that's something only men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 01:04 PM
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You're speaking for all men, all women, and all relationships. There are women with high sex drives and men with low sex drives. Same can be said about how long men and women have wanted marriage. Women proposing to men is becoming pretty mainstream. Most importantly, the old idea that women don't enjoy sex as much as men and that it's normal for women to always be reluctant to give their partner sex is problematic and in a relationship, it isn't healthy. It insinuates that women aren't supposed…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:54 PM
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If childfree women want relationships, its gonna be more for consistent, high quality sex than anything else. There is much more to get out of a relationship than just sex and kids. There has always been a reason besides reproducing to be in a relationship. If not, then I guess infertile people would just be undatable and unmarriable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:41 PM
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I know plenty of guys that say sex is extremely overrated, and that they prefer the companionship they get from a relationship above all else. 100% this. My bf and I both know that we could both probably get a lot of sex if we were single, but we agree that the companionship and support that we get out of our relationship is worth way more than any number of one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:35 PM
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Sure, but not every woman is meant to be a mother, or would find it to be fulfilling. And let's not forget all the mothers out there who secretly (or not so secretly) despise their children. They aren't that common but there are plenty of them. Overall, women may have a history of and an affinity for raising children, but that doesn't mean that every one of them is meant to or would be good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:28 PM
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True, though there is a large number of women who want to get married and settle down, but are never planning to have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:22 PM
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Well it's important when you're in a relationship to have similar needs when it comes to sex. If you're in a relationship and having sex, it should be because you both want a relationship AND sex. You shouldn't be in a relationship to have sex, and you shouldn't have sex to be in a relationship. This misconception portrays unhealthy relationships as normal or expected. I don't want to be in relationship with someone just to be in a relationship if that person values sex over everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:20 PM
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If we could have men actually share their feelings without them being made fun of for it, then maybe we could actually get somewhere. when women (feminists) try to tell men how men need to change, problems occur because women don't know what it's like to be a man since men don't complain about their problems. Basically, when women tell men their problems they're ignored, and men don't tell women about their problems because they feel like they'll be ignored. Believe it or not, it isn't hard to r…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:09 PM
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That's true. Especially when they treat women who are unfit to be mothers like saints and give them custody even if they're abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:02 PM
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I don't think you realize that individual people have individual ideas of sexy. It's funny that you're here telling me what I get out of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 11:59 AM
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"a properly raised male will rely on what he thinks women want, instead of actually listening to them"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 11:53 AM
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"Women" being the minority group that post all over social media about how shallow they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 11:49 AM
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So a girl not being attracted to you caused men to be entitled? You're taught to be polite and charitable because that's what a decent human being does. You're not taught that just so you can get a girl, and if that's the only reason you're acting like a nice person then you have an issue. If a man is only acting nice because he wants to get laid, I don't want to associate with them. The way you treat women who won't sleep with you is how you treat all women. You're supposed to be civil with oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 11:45 AM
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Well the quote itself isn't really a red flag, but having your worst be being abusive like the woman in this picture definitely is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 10:56 AM
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Basically, all the men here saying 'women ain't shit' haven't met a woman who is a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 10:52 AM
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Well the woman shown here is definitely emotionally abusive, and I don't think that all women who use this quote are consistent about acting this way...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 10:50 AM
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Well those women are just abusive and shouldn't be with any men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 10:47 AM
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You say this as if women don't rape or even kill men as well. Society doesn't take men's mental health or a woman's abuse towards men seriously. Both sides have to deal with the baggage that comes with their gender. Women may deal with things like sexual assault more often, but when men experience it they're given even less support and validation than women. People act like abuse doesn't damage men as much as it damages women. Society assumes that women are always overreacting because they are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 10:44 AM
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So what you're saying is this sub is just a perpetual cesspool of back and forth women-hate and men-hate?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 10:12 AM
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One of my ex girlfriends dumped me to get back with an ex of hers who was physically abusive and raped her (before dating me). He wasn't better looking than me either, shorter than me, was a high school dropout. That fucked me up and damaged my self esteem so much, it hurt so bad to be viewed as sexually and romantically inferior to a rapist in the eyes of a girl who I loved. Do you even realize that none of that had anything to do with you or how all women act, and everything to do with an abus…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 10:06 AM
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Women have self agency, choose their partners, and most have many guys to choose from. But instead of recognizing this and picking less toxic guys, women often would rather just complain and not actually do anything about it even though it is perfectly in their power to do something about it. And what are your thoughts about women who choose someone who seems like a decent guy, later suffers abuse from them, and is unable to leave? There definitely are women who complain about their partners but…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 09:49 AM
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I have found the king of r/niceguys
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 09:39 AM
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Sounds like you've never met a woman who's a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 09:38 AM
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I'm like yeah sure, as long as your worst isn't abusive and your best isn't cold and heartless.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 09:29 AM
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