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| 66 | “I’ve discovered that my boyfriend/fiancé has been watching porn, hiding debt, sexting girls, chatting with other girls, not telling me he’s out drinking, gambling on the side, etc…" Here's what the future holds for you if you stay with him."develop a mysterious chronic illness, cancer, or autoimmune condition." This really resonated with me. I am middle aged and have so many friends, acquaintances and colleagues who are my age who have an illness, a condition of some kind, struggle with depression and burn out syndrome. I am sure that a lot of it comes from being married to a LVM, being overwhelmed with having to juggle a career, doing everything at home including the emotional labour and taking care of a manchild and chronically … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Why is the blame solely on Meagan Markle and not Harry?Because he seems to be dumb as a brick and has lived an incredibly sheltered life. I don't think that he has a clue about normal things like renting a house or approaching a PR company on his own. Meghan seems intelligent and driven. I don't think that she has forced him to do anything though. He got this chance to get out and took it. I hope they both are happy with the outcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 01:50 PM |
| 23 | We are living in a clown world 🤡What an absurd situation and what a shitty answer. Poor woman, she really shouldn't have to deal with this to begin with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 08:51 AM |
| 15 | Flip the script"I'm a spontaneous person" = nothing will ever happen, we will at most be watching tv or taking a stroll with absolutely no goal or planning in sight. Food? Oh... I haven't really thought about that. Plans? Let's just see what we feel for... maybe watching tv for four hours? I dated a guy like that and the most memorable thing that happened was that we, after a long stroll with absolutely no plans, ended up in a really dingy café (because I was starving) where I had to buy my own sandwich and co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 07:58 AM |
| 92 | Nah men, women are visual creatures too.I know. That's what I told my husband: We will never see a movie where Brad Pitt falls helplessly in love with a plain and obese woman becase she makes him laugh. Will not happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 04:45 PM |
| 176 | Nah men, women are visual creatures too.Or in movies. I watched The Holiday last week and just shook my head when Kate Winslet, one of the most beautiful women in the world, falls for Jack Black because he is nice to her and funny. Just.... no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 10:49 AM |
| 8 | This should be how women approach sex. If he can’t make you orgasm he can’t get access. 💅🏾👑Three years of trying and he still can't do it right? Really? She is a saint for giving him that much time to practice. I applaud her for saying "no more". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 10:13 AM |
| 123 | Man in a hetero relationship doesn't do housework -> solution = "get a cleaner!!!!"So much this. Thank you. It also only reinforces men's idea that cleaning is something for women, something that they shouldn't have to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 04:41 PM |
| 139 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.And they have no clue about the sizes their wife or GF has. How hard can it be to just take a sneak peek in her lingerie drawer? It's not fun for a woman to get a bra that is three sizes too big or something that is far too small and to start wondering if he secretly wishes that she had bigger boobs or was skinnier. It's not something women like to think about, especially not at Christmas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:05 PM |
| 26 | Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to him"I don't help with the tasks". He is completely clueless. Two adults who live together share the responsibility, share the emotional labour and share the work that is needed in a family. "Help with the tasks" is what their teenage kids do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 08:52 AM |
| 146 | “Merry Christmas from me and my family, whom I hate!”Christmas photo next year: The mother is posing with her children, the man is not in the photo and she is holding the sign. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 06:11 PM |
| 17 | Sex work just is not a good career option as a woman.Exactly. And if it's such a great career why aren't men encouraging their sisters and daughters and wives do it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 02:54 PM |
| 5 | This is the prime example of rich =/= high value..She would be the perfect wife, as he has all the control over the relationship. Things will get even worse when they live together. She will never have anything to say because he will hold all the power. She should run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 10:35 AM |
| 24 | Sex work just is not a good career option as a woman.I don't get this either. It's ok to talk about other kinds of jobs and warn or discourage people from getting them because they are too stressful, will harm your body in the short or long run, are too dangerous, may traumatise you, too low paid or will lead to nowhere so you will be stuck with a bad or low paying job or you will be too old so you will have to retire at 40. I think all the things apply to sex work. But if we say that about sex work we are shaming women, are sex negative or prude.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 10:20 AM |
| 5 | I witnessed a man publicly threatening a woman today.That's so scary and I can relate. I worked in a pub many years ago and what I noticed was that there were men who were walking around just seething and any chance they had at blowing the lid off, they did. I guess they didn't do it with men because they would risk getting punched, but with a small woman in her 20's? Perfect victim to yell at, uncontrollably, for the smallest things. I especially remember the time I worked alone in the pub (graveyard shift 3-6 in the afternoon) and there were few… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 09:33 AM |
| 14 | Let's discuss! When did you first get assigned to sit next to a disruptive boy in class, supposedly to be a good influence on him?First grade. There was a boy in class who couldn't sit still or concentrate. He was always moving around on his chair, kicking anything with his feet, fiddling with his stuff and making weird noices. I was an ambitious student even at 7, but it's hard to focus when you have someone who is disrupting you several times per minute for the whole school day. I still get pissed off about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 08:36 AM |
| 6 | What in the FUCK did I just readAbsolutely. I hope that she will find support somewhere so she can move on from this relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 02:58 PM |
| 33 | What in the FUCK did I just readThat's not compromising, that's being coerced into doing something that she absolutely does not want to do. Would he be ok with having anal sex with a man, if that was her big dream? Would he "compromise" to do it for her pleasure? I don't think so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:36 PM |
| 4 | This is why 50/50 "marriages" are a scam. Women get stuck doing most, if not all the housework and child rearing, while also being expected to contribute monetarilyAbsolutely. It's about time that it is discussed and also the discussion about emotional labour is really eye opening for both men and women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:34 PM |
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