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I'm 5'7" and my boyfriend is 5'6". I don't think anybody ever told him he is short though lol. He's proportioned in a way where he's quite lanky, just like a scaled down version of a tall guy I guess? He was telling me last night about how other short guys hate him. I think it is because he has always been really charismatic and likeable and women generally like him. All my friends ADORE him. I guess if you're telling yourself "women hate me because I'm short" and this dude just rolls up and is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:51 PM
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After I got raped I found out that he "was accused of rape by his crazy ex". Bet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:49 PM
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One time an ex bought me a ring in the wrong size, sent it back and then never managed to replace it because he drank the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 01:23 AM
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I honestly love this. You have great taste! Do you mind if I ask where it is from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:30 PM
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Who is Joe Rogan? I've only seen him interview Sir Roger Penrose so I guess he was less opinionated than normal in this example?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:50 PM
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I think I would much prefer a homemade ring over a shop bought one... as long as the person making it had the required level of skill. I think this dude must have watched a video of a similar ring being made and thought it would be easier to make something really special and different. I'm waiting to see her update after she tells him she can't wear it. If I were him I'd have already bought the original ring as a back up but maybe he is a few spanners short of a tool kit if he thought untreated …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 10:34 AM
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Is this homemade pesto?? It looks amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 10:31 AM
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I LOVE that men hate this stuff. Let them think they are above it and have some quality time with just the girls 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:20 PM
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I'm in the UK and I've only ever seen one circumcised penis. I found it very weird but I don't remember it affecting sex that much. I do remember him being surprised that I gave him a blow job to completion... Is it true they generally have to be rougher because of the loss of sensitivity? I get sometimes it is essential for phimosis and other conditions but I very much feel non-essential circumcision is genital mutilation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:40 AM
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I should also say - sorry to murlsplain gaslighting to you! I don't mean to question your ability to empathise. I just feel it is an important discussion which your post did an excellent job of introducing :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:42 PM
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My abuser had me convinced I was such a wreck of a human being that I would have died without him. There was a time when making it work seemed like literally my only option even though I was miserable. It is horrible to see so many people in this state but it is soooo fucking common. I hope FDS becomes more mainstream and more women learn their value and how to spot abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:25 PM
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Gas lighting is a common feature of abuse and it really does a number on your ability to gauge the severity of your situation. It is extremely difficult to convince yourself that somebody you love, somebody who loves you, is going out of their way to harm you. Especially when you trust that person completely and they are taking advantage of that. It's hard to imagine but it's not like you go out, meet a gigantic red flag of a human being and go hey that's the guy for me! Think of somebody you al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:50 PM
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Yeah after a certain point do men even have enough blood to operate such equipment?? Like if he's got to fill a 10" dick surely it's either half soft or he's passed out? I think I would need to see it to believe it. And then probably run a mile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:41 AM
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Small can be good but they so often come attached to a man who has some kind of complex about having a small penis...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:51 PM
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Mate I couldn't even look at a 10" penis hahaha crazy how much preference varies person to person!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:47 PM
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I love this post! Why does nobody talk about how important the shape is?? It gotta curve upwards but not tooo much and also have a fat/blunt head. You ever been with a guy who had a big fat dick but it has a little pointy head that just jabs your cervix and ruins everything? Also circumcised penises are generally gross and shaved balls are literally the worst thing I've ever encountered. Miss me with that 8yo shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:44 PM
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I absolutely to not trust men who do not have female friends. Who will vouch for him? Other men?? Nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:51 PM
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It's much easier to blame your shortcomings (lol) on something you have no control over, rather than to take responsibility and work on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:00 PM
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My best friend from ages 13-19 was a boy I was never romantic with. A lot of people accused me of friend-zoning him but he valued our friendship far too much to see me as a romantic option. He treated me like a sister and was critical of the men who were giving me attention (over-critical I thought at the time but guess what, he was right and they all turned out to be abusive shit bags in the end). At our high school graduation afterparty I drank too much and my ex tried to take me back to his w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:57 PM
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I agree with her. Getting into long term relationships young leaves you vulnerable to abusers because you have no frame of reference for how you should be treated. The real reason men hate 'sluts' is because they know the only women who will tolerate them are the ones who don't know any better. Play the field, set your standards, ignore men when they tell you 'virginity' is worth something lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 02:44 PM
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Why would this sub get deleted? Female only spaces are so important right now. Especially ones where we can discuss how to stay safe from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:40 AM
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I did this experiment with my boyfriend. He wasn't a porn user but didn't see anything wrong with other men using it until I started talking about how fucking disgusting it has gotten. He just didn't understand the scale of it until I opened the front page of Porn Hub and read out the most popular videos: Barely legal teenage cheerleader slut used and abused Screaming Latino whore put in her place Petite Blonde asshole DESTROYED by BBC Stepmom deep throat gang bang etc etc... He looked mortified…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 09:55 AM
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I like to feel like I'm open minded but one time a guy I was seeing showed me that he had shaved and I just hoped out and left. I cannot handle that bald, sticky, 8yo looking shit. NOPE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:32 PM
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I've found that I'm more prone to UTIs if I shave so I don't. My boyfriend is supportive of whatever I choose to do with my body. In this case it's for my health so it's a no brainer. I stopped shaving my pits a year or so ago as well. He thinks it is unfathomably cool 'like Patti Smith and Amanda Palmer' lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:29 PM
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Imagine not doing this every day...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:03 AM
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A sub about hating women and a sub about avoiding men who hate women are clearly the same thing right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:39 AM
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I genuinely believe that good sex comes with a HVM. It literally only requires somebody who cares about your pleasure instead of just seeing you as a walking fleshlight. It's a shame that itself is so rare...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:54 AM
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I agree up to a point. You think you enjoy sex because you're supposed to enjoy sex and you tell yourself that it's fine you don't orgasm, you get off on his enjoyment! But then you're lying there, drying up while he's wheezing on top of you, moaning loudly in the hopes that it will make it over sooner. You find yourself making excuses more and more often, until eventually he cheats on you with somebody who isn't yet completely exhausted and traumatised by his approximation of intercourse. The e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 12:43 AM
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I came here to say this. Men talk about 'starfish sex' as if sex with somebody clearly not consenting is normal for them??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:35 AM
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LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT SLOSSGATE. So my hometown has a very famous international festival what brings all sorts of artists to the town for one month a year. Also from my hometown is a female only facebook group (now also international!) called girl chat. It's basically just a space to talk about all things but safe from men. I'll post for cooking inspiration from time to time, there are a lot of posts about health and contraception, my friend got a flat through it etc. It's really all sorts. One …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 12:20 PM
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Making dinner sounds more effort than eating out? Unless his idea of making dinner is heating up an oven pizza...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 05:01 PM
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In my life I think I encounter about 75% gigantic entitled children, 15% abusive assholes, 10% actual decent HVMs. I am at university so I suppose most of the LVMs I interact with still have time to improve themselves. I doubt it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 02:46 PM
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I'm in an open relationship (we don't have other boyfriends/girlfriends, just casual sex) and it was one of my conditions of becoming 'official' with my current boyfriend. I just have a very relaxed view on sex and don't equate it with love at all. I was visiting fetish clubs/orgies while I was single and don't want to feel like I have to stop doing the things I enjoy because some man considers me his property. I also have a higher sex drive than him and we are both bi. It's very much just a sex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 04:35 PM
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15->2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 10:06 PM
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You don't have time for 'meet me half way'? Then you don't have time for a relationship. Get tf out. Where did you find this dickhead?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/19 07:34 AM
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Wait is that what glasses are really for?? I need them to see. How do I opt out of the sperm part?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/09/19 09:52 AM
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Isn't this the entire point of dating? I'd be weirded out if I'd just met somebody and they just assumed we were exclusive...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/08/19 12:34 PM
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This is weird, right? I don't go on tinder; are blowjob pictures a thing now?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/08/19 04:54 PM
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Pole is awesome tho you should try it if you get the chance
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/19 07:47 PM
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You're still young! I think I was the same at 23. I made a friend recently who is a few years younger than me who was really surprised that her count was so much higher than mine. I also have a friend my age who I'm pretty sure is in the hundreds but when we met she was the virgin of the group. Everybody is different :)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/06/19 08:43 AM
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Now I think about it he is kind of a beautiful lady.
/r/Chadfish21/06/19 04:43 PM
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Is 24 a lot? That's only 4 a year assuming she's been sexually active since she was ~16.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/06/19 04:23 PM
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Is that underlined because you disagree or..?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/06/19 03:08 AM
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I have a couple of friends like this. When you have low self esteem, abusers seem to smell it a mile off. I know a girl who just dates a series of absolute monsters because they always manage to convince her that because they are a tiny step up (but this one doesn't even beat me!) they are the best guy ever and she should be grateful that they are paying her any attention at all. And then they crush her self esteem even more and she stats dating the next prick who pays her a single iota of atten…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/19 09:16 AM
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I've said this to my boyfriend and he finds it hilarious but mainly only cos the idea of marrying me and it being permanent is terrifying for everybody involved.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/04/19 01:59 PM
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I thought she was gay and calling herself useless. It was way funnier in that context.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/04/19 10:50 PM
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