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Nah I'm just starting to realize this sub is all about insecurity. Obviously going to the gym and working on improving yourself is healthy but acting like relationships are a constant game and all women are sluts is very narrow minded. I think there's value here but a lot of the members have some deep issues.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 06:11 PM
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Nah this is the last time I'm posting in this sub. Most of you faggots can't even get a girl. Just a bunch of insecure pussies who think the world is binary. Pretty sad.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 04:03 PM
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Jesus christ the amount of overthinking, insecure posts on here lately are getting unbearable. If you've been with a girl for a while and you think she's beautiful then just say it. Who gives a fuck? Why would you think that's not good? If telling a girl she's beautiful turns her off to you then you've got much bigger issues.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 05:01 AM
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Tattoos are a pretty common part of human culture and have been for thousands of years. I don't know why TRP has all these little quirky things they think are red flags. My GF has a giant tattoo on her back. I'm into it. Ya'll guys can be some insecure judgmental dudes sometimes.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 04:55 AM
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Whats your question?
/r/askTRP25/07/17 07:50 PM
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Yeah, it's not a problem. Like I said, I never cry and this was sort of out of character for me. I'm usually pretty guarded with my emotions with everyone. She seemed to understand and she didn't make a big deal out of it.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 07:03 PM
2

Thanks bro
/r/askTRP25/07/17 05:29 PM
1

True, I guess it would be weird if I felt nothing. Generally I'm a pretty cold person emotionally, mainly because that's how my parents were to me. I literally have never been emotional around her so I just thought maybe I went to far. I couldn't really control it though.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 05:27 PM
1

I agree... I'm just overthinking this. She's always complaining that I don't open up to her and I'm never emotional so maybe this was a good thing. I'm not going to keep doing that because generally I'm just not very emotional but it seems like this brought us a little closer together and got some important stuff out in the open.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 05:26 PM
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Thanks man, I feel a lot better today. I feel like I can use this as a positive experience and more forward stronger. Luckily my girl was very understanding and went from being pissed at me to being very supportive once I finally let her know what was going on. Guess I just need to move past it and stop overthinking.
/r/askTRP25/07/17 05:22 PM
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I'm not going to talk about the flaws... other people have already covered that. What I will talk about is how you can move past them. Realize you aren't a special snowflake. Mothers tend to give their children nothing but praise. Fathers are more "judgmental"/realistic. You have flaws. We all do. You need to take the role of your father and point them out to yourself. Then you need to work on them. Be honest with yourself. Forming bonds with men is difficult. So inevitably you'll tend to confor…
/r/askTRP21/07/17 10:33 PM
1

Tell that to my knees. Lol. Why you gotta judge people for going out? Maybe you don't like it but who are you to judge?
/r/askTRP21/07/17 05:00 AM
1

Like you said, the issue is your anxiety. I'm pretty introverted, but most of that was due to self-esteem issues. Once I got in the gym and started feeling good about myself most of that went away. Still, I find having a couple drinks to be helpful. Try pre-gaming before you go out. In a way I think introverted people are more interesting because they generally have unique interests and hobbies that the average frat bro or chick don't have. Use that to your advantage. Oh, and there's nothing low…
/r/askTRP21/07/17 03:35 AM
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I have had one night stands. Most people have. I consider that a part of sexual experimentation. If you limit yourself to girls who haven't had a few ONS's then you're going to have slim picking's.
/r/askTRP21/07/17 03:33 AM
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I'm 26. I don't get the dudes who are afraid of "crazy chicks". Just keep your personal stuff to yourself and tell them you're not ready for a relationship if things get weird. It's pretty straight forward.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 08:50 PM
5

Seriously! Why are all these dumbasses in here saying to next this girl? She sounds like fun to me. Not LTR material sure, but most 18 year old girls aren't.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 08:45 PM
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Just say I love you. It means a lot to girls, dude. My girlfriend said it about 2 months in and I did the whole "I know" thing for about a month and a half and I could tell it bothered her. One day I was thinking about what love actually is and I realized nobody fucking knows. It's an arbitrary term. When she's not around I miss her and I enjoy being with her so I guess to me that's love. So I eventually just started saying it... not too much but enough to let her know that I care about her. You…
/r/askTRP20/07/17 02:52 PM
1

You might be gay
/r/askTRP20/07/17 01:37 PM
2

One thing that my girl really enjoys is when I shave all the hair on my chest EXCEPT the hair on my pecs. It's like a man-bra. Go to the beach after you do this and I guarantee you'll be swimming in poon (no pun intended). With this setup you can also shave the hair just around your nipples and make your pecs look like hipster glasses. This drives the tatted-up chicks wild.
/r/askTRP20/07/17 01:33 PM
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Your life is basically over. Not sure how you can recover from this... sorry dawg
/r/askTRP20/07/17 01:29 PM
5

I'm at the same spot as you man so I know. You have to realize that these people have had 10 years to advance their careers, acquire better cars/nice apartments/etc. I'm about to go back to school because my current career isn't what I want to do for the rest of my life. So I might be settled and actually making good money at 29 or 30. It sucks to see other people ahead of you but everybody takes a different path. Some people will be rich by 30. Some will be homeless. Others will be hundreds of …
/r/askTRP19/07/17 08:48 PM
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You aren't as successful as a guy 10 years older than you? Big surprise. She was shit LTR material So be glad you're rid of her. Keep working hard in the gym and at work and talk to other women. And stop comparing yourself to people who are 10 years ahead of you in life. It does you no good.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 08:14 PM
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Only talking for 10 days, potential LTR Lmao
/r/askTRP19/07/17 08:10 PM
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Regardless of what you think you two are, she's being a psycho by demanding that and you're being a bitch by even considering going along with it. Have some self respect, dude. Damn.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 02:04 PM
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This isn't even a relationship. You're fwb, nothing more. Drop this girl and go talk to other women.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 01:57 PM
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Dude fuck that girl. Why would you want a relationship with someone like that? If any girl asked me to spend any amount of money to "secure her commitment" I would drop her then and there. That's some psycho-bitch controlling behavior.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 01:49 PM
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Join the military
/r/askTRP19/07/17 01:45 PM
1

Honestly I fucking hate running lol. But if you find a nice path outside it's not that bad.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 01:44 PM
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"Potential plate" - lol Tinder girls are flakey as hell. Just ignore her. Never send two messages in a row.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 01:40 PM
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Talk to other women.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 01:38 PM
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Well that's more than enough, yeah. I'm guessing OP isn't doing BJJ though.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 01:36 PM
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Running is great for your cardiovascular system, which is important for longterm health. You should do a little cardio on top of lifting regardless of whether you're an advanced lifter or a beginner. Even walking on the treadmill or using a stationary bike for 20 minutes post-workout will have benefits. @ u/paccountqp - Stronglifts is a good, low-investment beginner program, but if you want to get a good body then you need to put in the time at the gym as well as control your diet. You will lose…
/r/askTRP19/07/17 01:33 PM
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At this point nothing has happened other than that dude encroaching on your girl. If you get jealous you look like you're controlling. I would just laugh it off and make light of the situation. The sex thing sucks but you can always go down on her. Once you start looking jealous you lose. If she wants to cheat she'll make time, but until you have evidence that she's flirting with the guy or having sexual conversations then she really hasn't done anything wrong.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 12:09 PM
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At a bar haha
/r/askTRP19/07/17 12:04 PM
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Yeah, you're right. So I guess I just have to let go of that thought process?
/r/askTRP19/07/17 12:04 PM
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I don't think I'm acting like I did something wrong. Why would you say that though, just curious.
/r/askTRP19/07/17 03:45 AM
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I would ghost her. She's being disrespectful. Of course she's allowed to screw other guys just like you're allowed to screw other girls. You're not in a relationship after all. But throwing it in your face like that is messed up.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 03:08 PM
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Stronglifts is a strength program first and foremost. If you're a beginner you will gain mass on it and it's a decent foundation. You should only stick to that program for around 3 months though. As a beginner you should be focused on gaining strength, not hypertrophy. There is no "best" program. The best program is the one that keeps you going to the gym consistently.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 12:49 AM
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Deload. Don't take a week off.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 04:09 PM
1

Quit wasting your time with her, dude. How much of your prime college time are you going to waste on some chick who's not willing to put out?
/r/askTRP14/07/17 04:08 PM
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You think you're "dating" a girl you haven't even had sex with? Haven't even gotten a fucking bj? Lmao
/r/askTRP14/07/17 01:52 PM
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If you're both planning to go out, split the bill. If you specifically invite her somewhere on a date then you should pay imo but if she offers to split then you accept. If she never volunteers to at least pitch in then you dump her.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 01:47 PM
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I would argue that you're the lazy one if you're only doing 3 exercises during each workout (if you are). There's no reason to ignore accessory lifts. Do you really disagree with that? The core exercises in stronglifts are great, yeah, but it completely ignores your arms and it's got a horrible reputation for turning people in T-rex's.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 08:55 PM
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10 months of stronglifts? Lmao that's way too long to run a shitty program
/r/askTRP13/07/17 08:07 PM
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My girlfriend says it tickles her too much when I eat her ass so keep that in mind if you're into that.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 07:39 PM
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2400 should be good, it all depends on your TDEE though (if you don't know what it is look it up. You want to be about 500 calories over that number every day for a slow bulk (1lb a week) and 1000 calories over it for a faster bulk (2lbs a week). When it comes to strength vs hypertrophy, yes, lower reps are generally going to be used for strength programs and higher reps are going to be used for hypertrophy. Personally I do 4 sets of 10-12 reps for most major exercises and 3 sets of 8-12 for acc…
/r/askTRP13/07/17 04:13 PM
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Incline hits your upper pec better than flat bench. Decline hits the lower pec better. Regardless of what people say your pecs are split into sections and simply doing flat bench isn't going to give you a well developed chest. You need to hit it with different exercises like incline & decline along with high and low cable flys. And by the way dude, you need to eat more. Add more protein to your diet. You need at least 100g per day (0.8g/lb of lean body mass is suggested).
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:48 PM
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Step 1: Put the seat down Step 2: Shit on the seat
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:11 PM
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If you're only doing the basic 5x5 program (Stronglifts?) then you're going to see more strength gains than visual gains. Stronglifts is specifically designed for gaining strength, it's not a hypertrophy based program. With that said, you will see physical changes pretty quickly... maybe within about a month. I'd suggest taking some pictures because you might not feel like many changes are taking place but that's because they come slowly. If you want to see more physical changes I would recommen…
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:09 PM
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Shower at home, or just stop giving a fuck. We're guys. Nobody gives a shit how big your dick is.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:00 PM
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So what? You're not getting naked, you're lifting weights.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:50 PM
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Don't feel like going to the gym? Put your workout clothes. Go to the gym. It's all about discipline and forcing yourself to stick to something.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:39 PM
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You haven't had sex. She's not a plate. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:31 PM
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Some people want to live a "traditional" life. You're not going to be happy 100% of the time in life no matter who you are or who you're with. But if someone can make you happy 70% of the time then that's pretty decent imo.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:28 PM
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You guys are so sensitive. Read the sidebar, read about shit-tests.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:25 PM
1

Never bothers me. Shower sex is awkward as hell. I just throw a dark towel down and wash off afterwards... if you make it a big deal then you're losing at least a week of ass every month. Idk about you but to me that seems like a waste.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 02:23 PM
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You guys know the pussy works when she's on her period too, right? Put a towel down.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 12:13 PM
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That's pretty autistic on her part considering it was a first date. I wouldn't even text her.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 07:04 PM
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I'm exaggerating obviously, but in terms of women in general you will be more successful if you're... more successful and attractive. That's just common sense. I don't understand the people on here who advocate to neglect your career or body.
/r/seduction12/07/17 04:45 PM
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I just thought the way you worded some of your text made it seem like guys can be bangin' chicks left and right if they just could get into Bruce Lee type of shape, when that's not necessarily true at all. Nowhere in my post did I imply that. I said I lost 60 lbs and it gave me confidence. I'm not in magnificent shape or anything but getting in the gym and working out will give you more self-confidence and improve your mood. This is a medically proven fact. I just see it so often, where guys are…
/r/seduction12/07/17 03:01 PM
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You're on seddit. A lot of the guys here aren't getting with a new girl every week, but they want the ability to do that if they choose to. I don't think there's anything wrong with that. And your advice doesn't really translate to progress for people who aren't able to get with women. "Being yourself" is just another way of saying be happy with who you are and don't worry about improving yourself. Well, I've been with a few women in my time and I can say with confidence that "being yourself" on…
/r/seduction12/07/17 12:38 PM
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This is a good write-up and it's something I experienced first-hand before I ever read a word about pickup or anything like it. I was fresh off losing 60 pounds and I had just kicked a pretty nasty struggle with alcohol to the curb. Being a guy in my mid-20's with only one drunken ONS under my belt, I was very awkward around girls. I pedestalized any girl who would show me the slightest bit of interest and "fell in love" with them almost instantly. Seeing a decent looking body in the mirror for …
/r/seduction12/07/17 04:09 AM
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She will try to come crawling back to you. DO NOT fall for it. Block her number and delete her from all social media. She chose to disrespect you and treat you like your years together were meaningless. Be glad that you're rid of her. Take some time and work on yourself, then in a month or two go out and get some strange. Get with 5 women. Don't commit to any of them. After that you can start dating and you'll have a better idea of how different women can be.
/r/askTRP12/07/17 02:33 AM
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In the grand scheme of things all of us are here to do one thing: reproduce. Women are alive to make babies. Men are alive to make babies. Women are not here to give you pleasure and you're not here to give them pleasure. On the most fundamentally basic level our only purpose is to make sure one more organism like us outlives us. This is the purpose of every creature on this planet.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 09:32 PM
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This is some George Costanza shit lol
/r/askTRP11/07/17 09:27 PM
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She pulled my shower curtain down on top of herself somehow. Multiple times. It was the last in a long line of stupid things she said/did and I realized she was a complete idiot when she didn't know how to put it back up. Sent her on her way and ghosted her.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 08:39 PM
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How dare ye!
/r/askTRP11/07/17 08:36 PM
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So tell her to meet you somewhere on Wednesday. If she brushes that off then stop contacting her until she tries to schedule something.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 05:13 PM
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I would just send her "K" and wait for her to hit you up. If she's actually interested in you and not just saying that to let you down easy then she'll be in touch.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 05:01 PM
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Say nothing until she suggests another time to meet up.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 04:59 PM
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Depends... what's making you think this? Is she being strange? Hiding her phone around you? Do you have any evidence that would back up your feelings?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 04:58 PM
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I think it's because some of the guys on here haven't ever experienced a relationship. In the short term, acting "alpha" all the time will get you laid... it did for me at least. But once you decide to take the next step with a girl everything changes. Yes, I still act like myself and prioritize my own life, but I also do things now and then to make her feel special. It's not beta imo.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 03:51 PM
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a sword Are you friends with samurai's?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 02:43 PM
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I use similar lines all the time. Without fail she'll say "I just like hearing you say it" then does a pouty face. I usually just laugh it off and say "you poor neglected thing" or something like that.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 02:39 PM
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I've been a part of this community for around 6 months... read the sidebar multiple times and have a good understanding of abundance/scarcity mentality which I think I've applied pretty effectively so far. I rarely say I miss you/I love you back to her and she complains about me not being as lovey dovey as her... the issue with being in an LTR is sometimes you need to give a little comfort and I think I've done that the right amount - you simply can't be full "gung-ho alpha" all the time.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 02:37 PM
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Last weekend I took her on an airplane tour of miami with champagne and we went out to a fancy peruvian restaurant afterwards, then the next day I went to a pool party with her and met all her friends, which I honestly had no interest in doing but it was fun. Two weekends ago she took me to Key West and we had a 3 day vacation there. Overall we've been together a lot and I think it's just draining on me so I've been somewhat cold towards her.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:51 PM
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So you would fuck your friend's girlfriend behind his back? How many friends do you have? None?
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:36 PM
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Drugs
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:27 PM
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Yes
/r/askTRP11/07/17 12:28 PM
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my point is it's only annoying because you're being negative. Yeah you're right. I've been sick for the past 3 weeks with a virus that kept me out of the gym and sapped all my energy. It took a toll on me and I've been really negative lately. Usually she doesn't annoy me with this but she's been pouring it on extra thick, probably because I haven't been my usually upbeat self.
/r/askTRP11/07/17 11:26 AM
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3/4 times I'm no longer interested in her anymore just because of the reason that I've already learned about her family/interests. like what are you supposed to do after this? like I've already fucked her. what else is there to experience? this is kinda hard to explain. supposed you're dating a girl, what do you do everyday? for example, what if you and the girl are alone and can't go out. what do you do, except for make out/sex? When you're dating it doesn't necessarily mean you're going to see…
/r/askTRP11/07/17 01:05 AM
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You might want to deload to just the bar on OHP and slowly ramp the weight up again following the SL progression. Keep in mind OHP is going to be your weakest lift. Progression will be harder to come by than it will with Bench/Squat/DL.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 11:21 PM
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You deleted the post, big surprise. Oh well, if you want to watch trannies I dgaf. But you might want to use a different account when you browse gay/tranny porn subs.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 09:00 PM
1

Better delete it from your history before anyone else digs through your posts
/r/askTRP10/07/17 08:47 PM
1

go back to the transporn sub, troll
/r/askTRP10/07/17 08:36 PM
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This is asktrp. This sub is here so you can post questions. This isn't a question. Nobody's going to pity you for this. Grow some balls and learn to ask women out if you're attracted to them. Don't feel bad if they approach you, nobody cares.
/r/askTRP10/07/17 08:23 PM
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I'm the same way. My current girlfriend is in upper management with a strong personality some people find intimidating, but she's a girly girl around me. She's even told me she likes me because I make decisions quickly and she gets to take a break from all the decision-making she does at work. Stuff like eating out, what she should cook, what we're going to do or where we're going to go... I've been with super "girly girls" and they get annoying imo. I like having banter in a relationship and if…
/r/askTRP10/07/17 08:20 PM
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Yes. If they're non-commital/flakey/too difficult to coordinate then it usually means the girl isn't that interested. That's when you put less effort in. Don't expect them to organize stuff until you've been with them for a while.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 03:07 PM
1

Yea she is 420 friendly so I was thinking we could roll back to my place and smoke and go from there. There you go. I would just recommend not to smoke too much. Some girls say that then they can't keep up at all and get awkward. Definitely have some drinks at your place - corona with lime and tequila/gingers, maybe some redbull. Taking her to a brewery that is relatively close to my place (unfortunately no place is close enough to walk to my place). Then probably walk to another bar or go get s…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 04:17 PM
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Be fun, upbeat, and clear about your intentions. (Something that works for me: After 10-20 minutes or so of good conversation let her catch you staring at her tits and say "What? I can't help myself. You look great." with a smile). I usually go to at least 2 locations. A chill bar for a drink or two then walk to a more upbeat place for another one. When you're at the fun bar or leaving and things have been going well go for the kiss. Have an excuse to take her back to your place. You want to sho…
/r/askTRP07/07/17 03:58 PM
3

Why are you talking shit to the guy about his ex? That has nothing to do with his question. For all you know he was sick of her and bored.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 03:53 PM
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Find another girl. She'll either become jealous and want to date you or you'll be happier with this other girl and end up forgetting about her. You have a scarcity mindset right now, which isn't good. There are lots of good women out there... find one who appreciates what you bring to the table.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 03:00 AM
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You're asking us if being a social media creep is a good strategy to land a high value girl. Well, it's not. All you're going to do is look like a weirdo and (maybe) end up getting used by some girl who's desperate/crazy enough to go for that "line" you came up with. Social media is not about landing dates. It's about your public image. Don't go and tarnish what little public image you have.
/r/askTRP07/07/17 02:58 AM
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Jesus christ... she's got your hamster running 90 miles an hour. Delete her from all social media and ignore her.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 09:20 PM
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How the fuck didn't you dump her immediately after seeing those screenshots? She's stringing some dude along even though you're a couple. Imo that's emotional cheating, and we all know what that leads to...
/r/askTRP06/07/17 09:13 PM
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Totally disagree. For me, trp is all about learning to be comfortable with yourself. It's not about insecurity.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 04:27 AM
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That's insecure as fuck.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 02:55 AM
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Yeah, and some girls get pregnant their first time. I wouldn't risk it unless you're either married, or you've been with the girl for years and you both want a kid. My girlfriend is on the pill and I still pull out. And even then I'm still taking a risk.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 09:49 PM
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Go over to r/fitness and look at the programs in the wiki. SL5x5 is fairly straight forward and good for beginners.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 07:48 PM
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Have alcohol on hand - tequila and ginger maybe?
/r/seduction30/06/17 07:46 PM
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Personally I find those types of guys to be complete pussies. I knew this guy a long time ago who would do this to every couple in our social group. The guy would break up with their girl, then within a day this dude was hitting on her and he eventually started dating her. This happened 3 times. All I can tell you is that he ended up with no friends, everyone hated him, and the girls always felt greasy about it. I have no respect for people like that and I don't consider it "alpha" to try to pic…
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:27 PM
5

Well it's a hell of a lot safer than not pulling out!
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:18 PM
3

So defensive. Sounds like you're still on the drugs.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 03:34 PM
2

How about you quit getting high as fuck all the time?
/r/askTRP30/06/17 03:25 PM
1

Life goes on. You'll get over it.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 02:56 PM
2

Are you pulling out?
/r/askTRP30/06/17 02:56 PM
5

Who cares? Me and my girlfriend have an agreement about this. She gets to fuck the "I can't believe it's not butter" guy if she ever has the opportunity and I get to fuck Salma Hayek.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 01:06 PM
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Fat friends, ugly friends, and any friends in general who aren't getting laid will try to sabotage your connection with a girl. Crabs in a bucket mentality. You can minimize the impact by inviting them into the conversation but still focusing on the girl you're interested in. I had a girl do this to me recently when I started talking to her friend, so I started talking to her instead, built rapport and ended up going to a club with both of them. I fucked the hot one that night after she left wit…
/r/askTRP30/06/17 12:32 AM
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Absolutely. You do it by gaining confidence (working out, lifting, dressing well, good hygiene) and becoming a more well rounded individual (traveling, meeting new people, experiencing relationships in new ways and simply by living life). Force yourself to be more outgoing. If you want to sit inside and play video games, tell yourself no. Walk outside, explore a new place, drive somewhere, talk to random people. You'll natural start to be more social and talkative. It does take some time but dep…
/r/askTRP30/06/17 12:26 AM
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I hate it when people post "I figured it out" without putting the answer in their post. Here's the post in case anybody else is interested. https://web.archive.org/web/20140828025947/https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/28d96j/how_and_why_low_selfesteem_is_all_in_mind_why/
/r/askTRP29/06/17 07:58 PM
3

It depends what she says. If she says something like "I missed you" I'll say I missed her too. About 50% of the time I'll give her a smart ass answer though just because I think it's funny to mess with her. I don't go spilling my emotions out or anything though, no.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 06:24 PM
2

The thing you need to keep in mind is that women are flakey. They don't know you even if you talk to them for days online or via text, so they're not going to give a shit about ignoring you when another dude who they like more comes along. There's no reason to get bent out of shape over it. That's just how humans work - we're opportunists. I do the same thing, and I'm sure you've done the same thing to girls who aren't as hot as a new girl you started talking to. This isn't just limited to onlin…
/r/askTRP29/06/17 04:14 PM
6

I hooked up with plenty girls I met online. You definitely shouldn't count on it as the only way to meet them, but swiping right 100 times on Tinder while you take a shit doesn't take long at all.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 03:51 PM
1

Your thyroid does not shove food down your throat. You do not get fat without shoving food down your throat. Lessons to be learned: Your buddy is blaming his issues with weight gain on his condition when he's really just a lazy bastard who eats too much. Your girl obviously knows how to maintain a diet and workout schedule, so chances are it won't have a big impact on her weight.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 09:26 PM
1

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/r/askTRP28/06/17 09:23 PM
11

Smoking weed and playing xbox aren't hobbies. Those are time killers. Take up something like hiking or an instrument.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:10 PM
2

That's an absolutely horrible idea. Why the fuck would you even consider bringing another girl on a date?
/r/askTRP28/06/17 06:08 PM
25

Workout consistently or you'll get fat. Pack your own lunches and avoid eating out with co-workers too often.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 02:50 PM
8

So you got a hooker and you think her situation applies to all women? Every guy's girlfriend is actually an escort on the side? Lmao, no wonder you have to pay $400 to get laid.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 02:45 PM
1

No, they're not. But I guess it depends on what your definition of a whore is. If you think a girl who is open about discussing sex is a whore then yeah there are a lot of women like that here, but imo that's a close-minded view to have as a guy. If you want a "virgin" who's a good girl and hot then good luck with that.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 02:34 PM
1

I'm pretty goofy, but I'm a fairly normal guy. I meet them all at bars.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 12:15 PM
1

A lot of the material in the sidebar of r/theredpill is decent. The stuff concerning "shit tests" especially. I think it's an oversimplified characterization of interactions you'll encounter when you try to pick up women but it's very effective. Amused Mastery is very effective. In general, not taking people seriously and making your own entertainment out of otherwise boring situations is very effective for making yourself happy as a whole and brushing off interactions that might otherwise intim…
/r/seduction28/06/17 12:44 AM
2

You deal with it by doing fun stuff. You don't need a big group of friends to have fun - at least I don't... I moved states two years ago and I have a small group of acquaintances here but only one real friend. My brother. So if my girlfriend wants to do something then me and her go out and do something in nature, Kayak, go to state parks, go explore a new part of the city, stuff like that. If she wants you to be a party animal then she's probably not LTR material.
/r/seduction27/06/17 08:38 PM
5

If they don't suggest another time I take that as a sign of low interest and just say something that shows equally low interest, like "Ok, have fun". They'll end up contacting you again, which is when I keep acting like I'm not that interested (which honestly I'm usually not because if a girl isn't into me enough to suggest another time then I'm not going to put much effort into setting up a date). I'll usually decline her if she suggests a new time then offer up an alternative time/place. This …
/r/askTRP27/06/17 08:31 PM
1

"I'm not ready for a relationship right now."
/r/askTRP27/06/17 08:29 PM
8

This is what works for me: Her: "Add me on snapchat/instagram!" Me: "No" Her: "Why not?" Me: "I don't do social media." Her: "Oh. Okay." Me: "I'm going to (bar) Friday night at 9. Meet me there." It hasn't caused any problems for me and I'm a younger guy in my mid 20s. Girls use those because they want to talk with their friends constantly or get attention from their guy "friends"/orbiters. I have no interest in seeing pictures of their meals or random stupid crap that they think is funny, and I…
/r/askTRP27/06/17 08:25 PM
1

Lmao at "It seems pretty alpha". I've been playing for around 15 years and I've met some very cool dudes who play, but I've also met plenty of losers. Playing an instrument doesn't make you "alpha" or whatever you want to call it. You're not going to get a girl based on your hobby. But if you enjoy music and think it would be cool to learn guitar then go for it. Don't think that it's going to get you laid though.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 07:26 PM
4

Honestly? Very often. I don't know if it's just my personality or what but I tend to like every girl I'm with. Maybe I'm lucky but I haven't run into any psychos. The girls I have been with that I ended up leaving or cutting off contact with all took it maturely for the most part. I won't get in bed with a girl if she isn't cool and able to hold a conversation.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 06:50 PM
6

I have no idea man. Who cares though? You've been divorced for 3 years. Don't have a mental breakdown trying to figure out who wrote it.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 04:28 PM
5

I don't see any threats in that post. She's obviously got issues though, both mental and I'm guessing with her self-esteem. Cut off all contact with her and forget she exists. It's been 3 years. I'm sure this isn't the first time she sent you some psycho shit.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 04:20 PM
7

Why do you care about her motivations? Ignore it. Women like to feel like they're in control, so maybe this was her way of feeling like she was the one "ultimately" breaking up. It's a form of madness most of them get into when they're not actually in control of their own life. Just ignore her and be happy you escaped a psycho.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 04:15 PM
6

She might just want to make you feel like shit, or she didn't write it. Why do you care? Do you want her back? If not then just ignore it.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 04:01 PM
22

There are a few things that can explain this: She's a vindictive cunt Her new boyfriend wrote it Either way, there's really no reason to respond. If you really want to be a smartass you could just reply with "K".
/r/askTRP27/06/17 03:56 PM
1

You're overthinking it. She's just joking around.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 03:48 PM
6

That's a very simplistic view of the world. You can be under 30 in an LTR and be happy. I am.
/r/askTRP27/06/17 03:43 PM
1

It's a common mistake. A good rule is giving her comfort about 20% of the time. Continue to act like you were when you two first met, but be comforting now and then when she needs it. (If she asks you if you missed her, say "Of course I did baby" and be serious about it. Stuff like that.) Not only will this make her calm down, it'll turn her on. Just don't be like that all the time.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 03:40 PM
2

I mentioned going out and getting wasted with female friends before. Well you're not really using dread correctly if you're saying shit like this. That's really immature on your part. Dread is about showing her that you can get other women if you want to, but doing it subtly. For example, getting in better shape, talking to women at the bar if she goes to the bathroom, not necessarily flirting, etc. Coming out and saying you're going to go drink with some random girls is taking it too far imo, a…
/r/askTRP23/06/17 03:13 PM
5

Now, recently, she's telling me about a random guy she's friends with who keeps hitting on her. Massive red flag. She's been entertaining his advances, admitted going to his house to drink and watch TV. Literally Netflix and chill. Dump her. Would you go to a female friends house, drink and hang out and expect her to be ok with it? That's not something you do when you're in a long term relationship that's based off respect.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 03:01 PM
4

I G N O R E - I G N O R E - I G N O R E
/r/askTRP23/06/17 02:56 PM
4

Put some effort into your post. You gave literally no background information.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 02:55 PM
4

Keep ignoring her. She's not worth talking to ever again, especially considering she sent you that last message. A lot of girls aren't like that - the ones who are checked out of the relationship already wouldn't even have that conversation with you, they would just go out and cheat.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:42 PM
2

Don't just stare constantly. You gotta take breaks now and then. And if you're just staring at her while the conversation breaks off that can be hella awkward.
/r/askTRP23/06/17 01:37 PM
4

Exactly. I found, and still do find, a lot of value in the basic points of the redpill, but they take it too far with a lot of the stuff regarding women cheating and relationships being for weak people. The core part that resonated with me was self-improvement and confidence that you develop by increasing the quality of your own life. Following that belief system got me laid a ton very quickly but now that I have a girlfriend I can't help but be a bit disgusted by some of the things on there. In…
/r/seduction23/06/17 02:17 AM
0

She doesn't want to look like a slut. If you could get laid at the drop of a hat, wouldn't you do it? I think most people would. That's just what it's like for young girls nowadays, it doesn't make them sluts imo. I fucked 3 chicks in a week once and I got props from my buddies for it. If a girl did that she'd get called a slut. Not exactly fair, huh?
/r/askTRP23/06/17 12:06 AM
2

That was a shit test that you must've failed. You should read this post from the main board. Basically, you need to learn dread game and implement it asap. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2zw8cd/the_ultimate_shit_test_withholding_sex/ You're not angry about her sexual past. You're angry because she made you work harder for sex than she did with other guys and you feel resentment towards her. That's completely understandable, but you need to be honest with yourself and ask if this is…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 10:09 PM
2

Higher chance of STDs, pregnancies, crazy bitches getting attached. Other than that it's nothing but positive. You get more experience in bed and more experience with women in general. No, who gives a fuck? Not anytime soon. Personally I think it's fine... who cares? No. Good job bagging more women than most guys will in their entire lives. If you enjoy it then keep it up, and keep wrapping up. HPV is very common.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 08:44 PM
3

Were you together at that time? If not, I don't see an issue with it. Lots of girls do that. I know because I've fucked a few of them.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 08:40 PM
1

Fat wallet Ripped body Massive lats Multiple STDs Giant wang
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:26 PM
1

It's a comfort test. For your answer: Depends on how long you've known them. They'll naturally want to push things toward a relationship so you can either keep acting like it's casual and risk them falling off or give them a little comfort and risk them bringing up exclusivity. If you want a GF then pick one and be a little more comforting with her.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 06:23 PM
1

Trying to give you advice is a waste of time.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 05:13 PM
2

Every girl does this shit. Tell her she can either talk to you like an adult or not and end it. You didn't do anything wrong, she's just looking for drama.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 05:12 PM
1

Why would a private conversation result in 30% of your class not talking to you. Sounds like it wasn't private, dumbass.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 05:09 PM
2

"Egotistical"? Lol, judge people much? If you want to avoid the gym then look into body weight exercises. That's what Michael Phelps focused on.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:53 PM
1

Arguing about religion in a public class and saying you like X over Y during pillow talk are two very different things. Sounds like you lack social awareness.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:50 PM
1

You have an opinion? Don't be afraid to share it. This is really basic, dude.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:40 PM
1

Well if you're not even in the US then why would you care about having a different opinion on US politics than some girl? By the way, Trump is an absolute political idiot, which his own supporters are even starting to realize. Not that we would have been better off with Hillary but arguing about American politics is pointless at the moment. Anyone who thinks any of our politicians have their best interests in mind is naive imo. In this country politics is all about advancing your own agenda, not…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:37 PM
4

No, you cannot replace lifting with cardio, no matter how intense you go at it. You need to lift and put your muscles under strain (literally tearing the fibers) if you want them to grow (during recovery). Swimming and cycling are both great forms of cardio but they're not a suitable replacement for resistance training.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:33 PM
2

Sure it is... that's why you're having a panic attack imagining a debate with your girl about Trump or Bernie. Who gives a fuck? People don't always have to agree on everything.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:22 PM
1

There is such a thing as wearing yourself out. You might want to take a few days off. Also, make sure you're eating enough. If you're adding additional days to your schedule you need to add additional calories. And make sure you're getting ~8 hours of sleep a night.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:18 PM
4

Horrible idea. Listen to Skorch.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 03:16 PM
2

Read the sidebar. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2pb4fs/everything_you_need_to_know_about_shit_tests/
/r/askTRP22/06/17 01:40 PM
1

Good points all around. I'm going to step up the dread and focus more on myself. I have already dreaded the shit out of her in the past and it worked wonders... guess it's time to dial back on the beta behaviors.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 01:36 AM
1

If I'm in a relationship I don't cheat. Call it morals or whatever but I feel like once you make a commitment you gotta keep it.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 01:33 AM
1

Amen
/r/askTRP22/06/17 01:32 AM
5

It's not pedestalizing to make plans with someone and expect them to keep them, dude. You do have somewhat of a point though - I need to stick to my schedule regardless of what she's doing.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 12:12 AM
3

Always have a backup plan. If you do not, then you are putting too much on her and that is bad and unattractive. I get what you mean but my plans during the week are basically go to work, hit the gym, eat, and spend an hour or so doing whatever before I need to head to bed.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 11:40 PM
1

3:00am? the fuck does she do hunt leprechauns? Lol, nah she's the head accountant/inventory manager for a big box store. But, girls are flakey, fickle, last-minute-decision-makers-based-on-right-now-feelings. So ymmv. I know all too well. It's annoying as hell but I'm used to it for the most part. Most girls I've been with would drop everything and come to meet me though, whereas she can be flakey-er (I allowed it in the past because I was into the club scene a lot more so I would just go out an…
/r/askTRP21/06/17 11:39 PM
1

Well I would've liked to get some ass tonight. I told her I was furious and I'm about to explode with rage
/r/askTRP21/06/17 11:30 PM
1

At least you've only known her for a little bit.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 05:53 PM
5

Well that's shady as hell and kind of ridiculous she thinks that's normal. Sounds like she's pretty immature at the best and fucking the guy at the worst.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 05:50 PM
2

Is there any more info? Who's the guy? Obviously if he's just "a friend" then it's way out of line on her part and you should break up with her, it just seems like you left a lot of info out.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 05:46 PM
1

Just ghost her - ignore her threats.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 04:24 PM
2

You're coming close to overstepping some pretty serious boundaries for a LTR, and imo you already have. If you don't want to be exclusive with your girl then end it sooner rather than later, otherwise you're going to end up cheating on her which is a shitty move.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 01:22 PM
1

Just go with your idea you already have. She sounds into you.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 08:06 PM
2

My girlfriend has the same condition and she's super self-conscious about it. She won't even do cowgirl without wearing socks because she thinks I'll feel her feet and get grossed out. Take it from me - nobody cares. If you're really worried about it just mention it casually during conversation. It's a way bigger deal to you than it is to anyone else.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 03:58 PM
1

My bad dude, haven't been on here in a while. Basically just go off this program template and adjust the sets & reps to the point where you can complete either 3x8 or 4x8. https://www.muscleandstrength.com/workouts/frankoman-dumbbell-only-split.html If you can substitute barbell exercises like squat and deadlift for the lower body that would be ideal.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 03:57 AM
1

Feel free to post a link to a study that says that. I can post numerous links that say 0.6-0.8g per pound of lean body mass is enough.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 06:52 PM
1

Fridays are my shoulder day plus I tend to go out drinking on Friday nights. I get tightness every single Saturday/Sunday and it's from dehydration combined with the workout. Did you get this before you started climbing? If you didn't then I'm betting the stress placed on your shoulder combined with the dehydration from alcohol is what's doing it.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 06:14 PM
1

200g protein a day isn't necessary. 1g/lb of lean body mass is the absolute most you need and that's if you're doing heavy lifting. 0.8g/lb is widely regarded as plenty for the average person on a consistent program.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 06:12 PM
2

“If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present.” -Lao Tzu Just live in the present and quit worrying about new experiences - they stimulate growth.
/r/askTRP16/06/17 01:42 PM
1

Jesus fucking christ
/r/askTRP15/06/17 11:35 PM
2

That's a normal text to receive. Women aren't used to being ignored by guys, so they'll send you the most passive aggressive stuff when you ignore them.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 09:32 PM
5

It has happened to me before. Just laugh it off.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 09:29 PM
1

Well she's sending you nudes so you're probably fine. Like LineToCenter said down below, avoid the compliments and keep the conversation playful and sexual. Invite her over or tell her you're going to grab a drink this weekend and tell her to come.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:28 PM
2

It would have been more understandable if you said it after she sent you nudes. If you're just randomly complimenting her then it gets old fast and run the risk of being her little validation tool. Unless you're in an LTR you should only text to setup dates, confirm times, or say you had a good time after a date.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 07:10 PM
3

Why are you telling her she's very attractive through text? If you get nudes just say something like "Nice".
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:55 PM
9

Be honest, did you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:47 PM
1

If your recruiter gave you that workout plan he's a dumbass, or he's overestimating your abilites based off his own progress he already made. You need to lower the weight down and focus on form otherwise you're going to get injured. Cut your workouts down like this: Day 1: Chest, Triceps, Abs Barbell Bench Press - 5x5 Incline Bench Press - 3x8 Incline Dumbell Flies - 3x8 Cable Rope Tricep Pushdowns - 5x5 Dumbell Standing Tricep Extensions - 3x8 Dumbell Tricep Kickbacks - 3x8 Cable Crunches - 3x1…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:34 PM
1

Do you have access to a gym, or are you lifting at home? If you want I'll write up my routine that is dumbell focused. From the looks of things you're doing way too much volume when you should be focused on less reps and building strength. 35 pounds isn't enough to build muscle unfortunately and it sounds like you're plateuing for some reason. As far as losing weight goes (which you should be doing based off your height) you need to either eat less or increase your cardio. Intermittent fasting i…
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:23 PM
4

He probably just saw Rocky for the first time
/r/askTRP15/06/17 05:15 PM
1

Ok and you're benching 35 lbs total? We need more information? What is your height? You weight 170, but that could be overweight or underweight... Are you benching 35lb dumbells (70lbs total)? Most barbells are 45lbs...
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:17 PM
2

He didn't say anything about 1g of protein per lb of bodyweight?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:02 PM
1

How often are you lifting? How many days a week?
/r/askTRP15/06/17 04:00 PM
2

Be glad you couldn't get it up. Her and her friends sound like a complete nightmare. There are plenty of other women out there who don't have anywhere near the amount of issues she has.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 01:58 PM
5

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=is+it+safe+to+consume+raw+eggs
/r/askTRP15/06/17 01:54 PM
2

After about a week with no drinking and consistent exercise you'll notice a natural energy boost. After lifting you'll literally feel high if you really push yourself because your body releases endorphins. Don't use the xanax more than you need to... it's a similar feeling to alcohol so it might be difficult but try to avoid it unless you're on the verge of having an anxiety attack. I've basically been through exactly what you're going through - severe alcoholic, terrible withdrawals that I had …
/r/askTRP14/06/17 10:11 PM
1

I don't know why they do it either but it's easy just to ignore it or downvote it.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:59 PM
3

Baby steps man. Don't worry too much about getting ripped right now. Take a solid week and avoid all alcohol, then start your new week fresh and hit the gym at least 3 days if you can. Don't overdo it in the beginning, just get in a routine.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:53 PM
6

You could have made that same point without being a dick.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:39 PM
34

Keep pounding the water and multivitamins. From about 12 - 36 hours after you stop is the worst so you're already past that. If needed, continue taking the xanax in small doses whenever you feel strong anxiety. Lay off all caffeine if you can for a few more days. Watch some comedy movies or shows and try to sleep as much as you can. Great job stopping man. Proud of you for making a huge change like that because I've been there and it isn't easy.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 06:06 PM
3

Doctors give out meds like candy nowadays. Unless she has multiple medications I wouldn't worry about it.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 04:49 PM
3

4 months in a 'relationship' with this girl idolize but still no sex That's not a relationship, you're her orbiter. Read the sidebar and hit the gym hard.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 03:08 PM
9

Hard next. She waited 11 months to tell you. You should have nexted her immediately when she told you.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 03:07 PM
–

I'm strongly considering hard texting. She's a constant flow of drama and I'm getting sick of it.
/r/askTRP14/06/17 12:32 AM
1

Read this post and scroll down to the part about Neutrogena Pore Refining Toner. https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/3fy6lu/to_the_person_who_just_asked_what_he_can_do_to/
/r/askTRP13/04/17 04:02 PM
2

It could really be a wide range of things, from alcohol and cocaine use to chronic dehydration, to a blood clot or an undiscovered disease. I can assure you that drinking as much protein as I suggested above won't hurt anything. At the worst it will give you bad gas and there's a small chance it could cause acne.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:41 PM
3

Protein will not make your kidneys shut down. Lmao. There's a myth out there that creatine is hard on the kidneys but that has been heavily refuted. You should drink plenty of water on creatine but you really have nothing to worry about.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 06:28 PM
2

Things to consider: Thickness of the condom. - This was a problem for me. I would recommend Durex Extra Sensitive condoms. Alcohol - Whisky dick is real Dirty talk/being rough - I usually hold back a little the first time with a girl, but I stopped doing it because I like that shit and it turns me on. Be rough. It was your first time with her - It's always tough for me the first time. I rarely finish. This is just something that happens when you're nervous and feeling the other person out. Don't…
/r/askTRP07/04/17 09:16 PM
2

Tell her family. She could be wanting attention or she could be seriously contemplating it. You don't want that on your conscious.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 09:12 PM
2

Are you retarded? Listen to your doctor and work out you dumb fuck.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 09:01 PM
3

2 scoops isopure zero carb protein powder with milk is about 400 calories. Throw in 2 tablespoons of peanut butter and you're at 600. Drink 2 of those a day and you'll be at around 130-150g of protein. Have one in the morning and one as a pre or post workout.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 08:56 PM
2

Seconding this. Fatties tend to give decent head too, so if she's shy just whip your dick out and tell her to go to town.
/r/askTRP07/04/17 06:12 PM
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