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4	"The ick" is an excellent example of how modern women encourage narcissistic self glorification among each other the issue he's pointing out is that these feelings are often extreme but completely baseless and then treated as if they are entirely valid He's claiming these women are narcissistic. Women perfectly know icks are just feelings. It's just that this feeling of repulsion is valid and something they are perfectly entitled to feel, not something that can be negotiated. Did you see a woman having a preference again and got offended? Why, did calling OP out offended you too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 02:50 PM
53	"The ick" is an excellent example of how modern women encourage narcissistic self glorification among each other "The ick" just means revulsion or disgust. Having these feelings has nothing to do with narcissism. Woman make no such claim about their revulsion being a "divine message". Did you see a woman having a preference again and got offended?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 01:16 PM
2	If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of income but.... isn't that a GOOD THING?! No. I would rather have people take care of themselves instead of relying on the whims of someone else for their well-being.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/26 01:08 PM
5	If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of income Would you take a full time job that only paid an allowance? Of course not. That's why women who chose quit their careers after they get married astonish me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/26 06:15 PM
5	If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of income They are being compensated by having their living expenses paid for by their husbands. Besides, how often does a woman with a master's degree (one that helps them earn more money at least) even choose to be a stay-home wife? In all of the couples I know with such an agreement, the wife stopped working because her salary was roughly equal to childcare.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/26 06:02 PM
5	If a person gives up their career to become a homemaker, they should be compensated for their loss of income Because she chose to give up her career and income.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/26 05:55 PM
2	If you were a straight woman, what kind of man would you go for? No, what he wants is not homophobia. And not seeing homophobia when there is none is also not homophobia. Neither of the things you said have anything to do with homophobia.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/26 01:34 PM
1	If you were a straight woman, what kind of man would you go for? Where is the homophobia here?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/26 12:53 PM
15	Is it a yellow/redflag if a man worries about making women feel uncomfortable? Women do not consider it red flag if a well adjusted man recognizes that his actions can cause discomfort to women. They consider it a red flag if man is terrified of women because he thinks he will be accused of rape and arrested if he interacts with a woman. There are some men who are in the latter category but claim they are in the former in order to downplay their dysfunctionalities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/26 09:03 AM
23	I'm tired of the lying and the Gaslighting. Women approaching men has MORE advantages then if a guy approaches women. She's far less likely to find him attractive if he's shy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 03:49 PM
42	I'm tired of the lying and the Gaslighting. Women approaching men has MORE advantages then if a guy approaches women. Women don't approach because they don't want to be with passive or shy men. They make no attempts to hide this. This is not gaslighting nor lying. This is you not being able accept that women around you don't want you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 03:46 PM
3	BOTH men and women are VISUAL creatures however men don't need to like her personality when it comes to sex Yeah. I do not understand how your last paragraph relates to rest of the post, however.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 05:44 AM
7	The gym is meant to be a safe space not a place for men to try to hit on or date them And it's a ridiculous premise, just like the example other commentator gave you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 06:04 PM
1	If you, as a woman, pay for half the date, you are agreeing that a man is entitled to your body. I don’t care if he feels entitled. Well other woman do. That's why they pay for their share.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 05:50 PM
–	Clubbing creates completely different feedback loops for young men and women Do you think you know women's motivations better than them?	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/26 05:45 PM
8	The overwhelming are women are painstakingly disingenuous about gender roles. They want gender roles not because "it's sexy" and more because a laziness and convenience Women can often more times than get all the results they want WITHOUT making the first moves. Most of the time, the result women want is men not interacting with them and leaving them alone. And they get that result by not approaching men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 07:41 PM
1	social competency is WAY more important than height to attract women this is something even the most ardent bluepillers never fight on this sub Wouldn't OP's claim be something bluepillers support?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/08/26 07:30 PM
3	Why do Blue Pill men rush to defend women on every single issue? Red Pillers say that women prefer taller men, a factual statement, and the Blue Pillers will do anything to deny this Is this what really happens? Or do Red Pillers actually say women hate short men because they are evil? Because a lot of the times, they make this claim and pretend they made a factual statement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/26 03:29 PM
5	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome I don't think they are incapable of informing. I just think they are less likely to do so. In a similar way a sexual encounter can and should be stopped when receiving a no after a yes, it can be started when receiving a yes after a no. Second is not disrespecting someone's autonomy nor being a sex pest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 05:53 AM
0	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome Wrong. I gave two arguments. Firstly, I implied that asking someone for sex multiple times is not "ok" in the sense of being socially acceptable, but it is "ok" in the sense of being consensual. Secondly, I said that it is not rape in other ways than technical. "It's not technically rape" implies that it's not rape only because the letter of the law (or social convention) of consent. But asking someone for sex multiple times does not also violate spirit of the law (or social convention) of conse…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 05:48 AM
7	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome I can also ask them, thus respecting their autonomy and not be sex pest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 05:36 AM
0	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome It's also not rape in other ways than technical too. That's like saying "Eating food is not technically murder"	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 05:33 AM
6	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome They can also tell me after I ask them. And I do have a reason to ask them. That reason is women tend to be quite passive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/26 05:31 AM
–	Q4M: Would you ever pay for a woman’s vanity procedures? There’s scary statistics online that say women who get breast implants and nose jobs have like a 75% chance of divorcing their man. Hell even weight loss surgery has something like an 80% chance of divorce from the woman’s side. Can you please share this statistics?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 10:46 PM
1	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome Just because you are unable accept that someone else has differing views than you does not mean I am trolling. These two arguments have the same core point, that someone's words cannot be relied upon to determine whether they consented or not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 10:21 PM
1	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome I am being very sincere. Perhaps you think this is trolling because you are not open to new ideas?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 09:08 PM
1	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome So if she said "yes" after asking 10 times, but out of desire, then is the act consensual to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 08:40 PM
1	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome You are tying consent to want. Some rapists try to defend themselves by saying that their victim wanted it in order to claim that the act was not rape. But in reality, what determines whether a sexual act is rape or not is consent, not desire. If were to want a sexual act yet not consent to it, it would be rape. You are similarly trying to tie the consensuality of a sexual act to desire, when it is about consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 08:38 PM
0	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome It it very similar to sleazy salesman indeed. But it's not rape nor coercion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 08:23 PM
2	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome There could be a negative consequences to refusing a sexual act iny any circumstance. (For example, a husband refusing to have sex with his wife could lead to relationship strains.) Does that mean each and every sexual act non consensual?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 08:19 PM
4	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome In a similar way woman can change their mind after saying yes, they can also change their mind after saying no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 08:16 PM
-1	Not having sex is an acceptable outcome Sex with someone who does not want to have it is rape. That's not true. Sex with someone who does not consent to it is rape. You can freely consent to something yet not want it. You sound like rapists who try to defend themselves by saying their victim wanted it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 08:14 PM
–	So are most men "normal and well adjusted" or are most men immoral predators? This description could be used describe a woman on a first date who has not explicitly announced a desire to have sex but is not necessarily opposed to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 12:23 AM
–	So are most men "normal and well adjusted" or are most men immoral predators? Thank you. I needed this ounce of sanity after arguing with people that defend the study.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 12:17 AM
–	So are most men "normal and well adjusted" or are most men immoral predators? Could you share the others please?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 12:15 AM
2	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. I say this because I think she is attractive and I wish to woo her. Two reasons you gave are not mutually exclusive at all. Vast majority of woman can understand when a compliment on their physical appearance is done for romantic/sexual purposes. It is not a lie by omission to not austically announce to her your baser desires. She knows your intentions. Hurling a drink is an action only the most unhinged women would make as a repsonse to a compliment. Most women would just leave the situation qu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 12:08 AM
1	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. I will you give the same example I gave other person. Telling a woman she's beautiful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 11:29 PM
1	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. And 1 is very clearly indicating lying. I had this conservation this someone else in this thread. Why assume that it indicates lying?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 11:20 PM
2	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. I do not misunderstand anything at all, for I do not consider telling a woman what she wants to hear necessarily lying. I give an example of this in my previous comments. You are the one assuming men in the study were lying when there was nothing to suggest that. Now, if you only called someone beautiful for the act of sex....that's a bit of coercion. No, this has nothing to do with coercion. Would you call a woman complimenting a man to seduce him coercion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 10:45 PM
3	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. No, you did claim something: Every single thing you listed is a coercion. This is your comment. You claimed that every single thing he listed was coercion. You're continuing to misunderstand the context. I am not misunderstanding the context. I am trying to view this from a non-nefarious perspective. And that's not my problem. Yes, you are making this other people's problems.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 10:38 PM
1	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. I do not feel that I coerced someone. I am pointing out that you claimed that this was coercion: "Told her what she wanted to hear", then agreed with me it was not. Nowhere in the sentence "Told her what she wanted to hear" it was stated men were telling lies. You were the one who assumed it was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 10:28 PM
3	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. What I did was telling a woman what she wanted to hear to have sex with her. You admit to this being not being coercion. So you admit that not everything in the list is coercion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 10:22 PM
1	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. I told this to women I was trying to have sex with before. I genuinely thought they were beautiful. Do you think this is coercion?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 10:16 PM
1	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. First one: "Told her what she wanted to hear". Women generally want to be told that they are beautiful.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 10:09 PM
1	Common media constantly tries to conflate men as a group with their worst denominators to try to impose collective guilt. Please do explain why telling a woman that she's beautiful is coercion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 10:06 PM
1	Even men think men are the problem No, for primary threat white blood cells deal with is not other white blood cells.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 10:38 AM
6	A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as "entitled " They have a right to date how they want, and men that don't want to go along with that are free to move on Of course. People need to get over the idea that they have a right to dictate how others choose to live their lives. Agreed. I do not think I have a right to dictate how other choose to live their lives and don't try to dictate it. If it doesn't concern you then it is none of your business. It does concern me actually, these women are in my dating pool and they expect me to pay for the date…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 01:08 AM
2	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. So you should agree that practicing consent means respecting the first no. Of course. And respecting the yes afterwards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 06:44 PM
2	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. Sorry, my point was about these actions not being rape, so I thought you are arguing for that. I agree it is disrespectful and selfish.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 05:30 PM
4	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. If someone is choosing to do something with you and you can tell they don't really want to, it's common human decency to give them their way out by declining and stopping pressuring them. Indeed. But not doing so is not rape. Don't pretend this is about "respect". I am not pretending at all. There were things in my life I was not keen on doing and could freely refuse. Yet I did these things anyways because I said I was going to. I fully respect other people's choices to do the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 05:18 PM
11	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. It is annoying and irritating. It is not rapey.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 05:04 PM
5	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. I believe in women's right to choose. This include right to choose to have sex even if they are not excited about it. There are people out there who don't respect a woman's consent, because they believe she was not passionate enough for consent to be real. I condemn such people.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 05:02 PM
4	Even men think men are the problem I agree with your point about the fire departments. However, militaries protect against other countries' militaries which happen to be predominantly male. Similarly, police protect against violent criminals which happen to be predominantly male too. Her point is that men as a collective cannot claim to be protectors if they are the danger women need protection from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 04:57 PM
9	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. My communication skills are just fine. Women's enthusiasm can change. Besides I never said anything about enthusiastic consent. Informed, freely given yet apathetic consent is still consent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 04:38 PM
3	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. For example, wearing a makeup makes you a rapist because it affects man's consent. Wokest side of me actually agrees with that but rational part of my brain keeps me grounded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 04:35 PM
10	A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as "entitled " Then these women are entitled.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 04:28 PM
-1	A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as "entitled " Depends. Do they want this from men who wish to pay for dates? Or do they want this from men who don't want to do so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 04:16 PM
9	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. A woman changing her mind will say so. And they do. No need to keep asking There is no need to keep asking I agree. But most woman are quite passive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 04:11 PM
6	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. Some people are so neurotic that they consider making an offer to be pressuring. Reasonable people cannot be expected to believe any "yes" they receive is forced and actually means "no".	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 02:37 PM
10	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. Through communication. The same way you verify your sexual partners do not feel bullied into sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 02:29 PM
10	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. It is not. What I am saying is there is terminally online people who are neurotic enough to look at every action through a lens of fear and refuse to believe consent was given freely and ethically.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 02:14 PM
11	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. Consent can be given later after an initial no. Woman are allowed to change their mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 01:59 PM
13	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. I do know that. Do you know about the existance of terminally online, maladjusted people who take offense on behalf of others and perceive regular romantic interactions as abuse?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 01:52 PM
11	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. Making an offer multiple times is not rape.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 01:41 PM
9	Women Aren't Playing the Victim. Red Pill Men Don't Understand Consent. its about making it safer for women to have their consent actually recognized when its real and when its not. And who determines whether consent is real or not? Woman that is a part of the actual sexual act that's being committed or someone else?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 01:37 PM
10	If sex isn’t something to be ashamed of, then don’t hide your desires for it. Who are you even arguing against, OP?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 01:32 PM
16	A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as "entitled " Sexually unsuccessful men are ones not desired by the women, by definition. These men are considered entitled because they are trying force themselves into situations where they are not welcome. Nothing weird about that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 12:26 PM
–	Immediate disqualifying factors are viewed as something negative by the person disqualifying And someone finds someone else unattractive enough to be dealbreaker, they don't consider that person a part of their dating pool nor a potential partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 11:16 AM
2	We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logic I am saying this as a man. Note that I am not complaining nor judging woman who do that negatively.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 11:05 AM
–	Immediate disqualifying factors are viewed as something negative by the person disqualifying I, as a straight man, do not want to date other men. I don't view being a man as something negative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 11:04 AM
2	We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logic That's because many women consider being active in romance a worse prospect than being single. They would rather see the man they are in love with marry another woman than ask him out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/07/26 05:49 AM
17	We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logic If you sit passively and expect others to approach you are much less likely to enter a relationship. Women are fine with this. Men are not. That's why advice given to men is about taking the initiative.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/07/26 07:09 PM
8	The debate about age gaps in relationships reveals the double standard of blue pillers. But if we flip the situation and men say they prefer dating younger women, the reaction is completely different. Suddenly, those men are called "creepy," told they "have nothing to offer women their own age," or accused of wanting to take advantage of younger women's inexperience or naivety. In reality, no one actually cares. Did you experience this or did you see a post about a young woman not liking old men and felt offended?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/26 04:22 PM
5	Why are so many men so opposed to the idea they might need to self improve to get a partner? Considering most men have zero standards and will accept anyone, little to no women. Are you trying to say men are complaining because they want women to be easy as they are?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/07/26 08:20 PM
26	men are now more disillusioned with women than vice versa. we simply have far less relationships happening. many men are no longer interested in approaching women at all let alone getting married and having kids. And women are perfectly fine with this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/07/26 12:31 AM
22	Dating Advice For Men Doesn't Work Because Women Don't Actually Know What They Want. Women perfectly know what they want. It's just that what they want has nothing to do with what most men are.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 09:34 PM
4	Russian sex spy learning how to give a perfect bj and does it for her job but not for her husband, proves that women only give their best in sex when there is something to gain. Thus marrying as a guy is completely stupid in the modern world. Exactly OP. Intelligence agencies use honeytraps to gain info -> It is stupid for a man to marry a woman. Perfectly logical reasoning there. Ultimately because of this phenomenon, a guy getting married in 2026 or further is signing a bad deal. I encourage you to take this to logical conclusion and stay away from women entirely. Risk of getting married would be too high otherwise.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/07/26 05:58 PM
2	Cheating on your partner is more "toxic" than posting uncouth things online Something that opposite gender finds desirable. It does not necessarily involve cheating on your partner, but people who cheat on their can exhibit these qualities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:47 AM
2	Cheating on your partner is more "toxic" than posting uncouth things online I do not feel men prone to anxiety have no positive qualities. I do feel that significant amount of men who endlessly complain about women and dating are prone to anxiety and have little to none positive dating qualities.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:32 AM
6	Cheating on your partner is more "toxic" than posting uncouth things online These vents do not exist in a vacuum. Resentment in them are carried to daily interactions in the man's life. As for potential cheaters, they most likely have some positive qualities about them, such as not being a ball of anxiety and misery. Therefore, women like them and are less inclined to assume the worst about them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 02:17 AM
10	The disparity between good men and good women There is nothing ridiculous about this. It's like saying "you need to listen to music in order to understand what good music is".	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 09:48 PM
6	Why are men with money seen as very attractive for women? wealth is an extraordinarily weak influence on men's attraction She said attraction in quotes, implying she does not believe these men are truly attracted to these women. And your claim changed from "men don't care about women's money" to "men are not attracted to women's money". These are entirely different points. you're projecting She's not projecting anything at all. She's simply talking about the situations that happened to her and her friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/26 12:39 AM
5	Unpopular opinion: I think asking for a live-in relationship before marriage is a red flag—for me It's perfectly fine to not want to live together with a partner before marriage. Just keep in mind divorce process can be difficult or expensive if it turns out you have incompatibilities that were only discovered after you started to live together.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 05:11 PM
5	Do most women feel they have to restrain their sexuality to find a compatible man? Pretty much every woman understood your OP, their answer was simply "no".	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/26 05:06 PM