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| 1 | Here’s what I learned about cold approaching in general.Then how is it subjective? at least 90 percent approaches dont lead to any lay or relationship for most people. its a fact | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Here’s what I learned about cold approaching in general.No even I had same experience. I had some friends with same experience. 90 percent dont give number. 10 percent give number. May be 1 or 2 percent come to date. I am talking about pure cold approach, like daygame. Nightgame, havent tried much yet, might be lil better. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Here’s what I learned about cold approaching in general.I had same experience. I approached over 200 girls after the covid in last 2 years. I got many numbers and many girls were so friendly and some even flirty. But when I ask for their number they give some excuse or if they give number they flake later. Almost all my approaches were from daygame and mostly from shops malls campuses, very few from streets. So I believe cold approach dont work if its a daygame. It might if you try nightgame, but I still have to try it as I am not very good in those … | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 09:10 AM |
| -2 | A guide on improving with womenI think the best option is to move to cali and start a corn company. Even as a new bee or amateur, you will have ton of fun. Once you build a fan base and have a portfolio of 40-50 girls, it should take off. Just reach out to new comers and keep making films till you get to work with top babies. In your life time, you should expect to have fun with 500-1000 at minimum without much effort and on top, you will make some bucks. Start soon if you wanna reach goal of 1000.. | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach luck is even worse than dating app luckGuys, I am gonna be brutally honest with yall. Cold approach is dead. Nobody cold approach these days and girls are well aware of these pua tactics, they know that she is the 101th girl of the day you are approaching. Some girls even took the initiative to suggest me what works. You need to be in any situation from where you could be her friend. Not like a friend for months or years but at least close enough to get to know her well. Thats why most couples meet at work/school/friends' parties. An… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach luck is even worse than dating app lucklol I agree bro. One woman I approached last week had really deep conversation with me. She was in her early or mid 20s. She literally told me that she had a line of men waiting to date her. She also suggested that I stop cold approach and the most effective way to get a gf is to be friend with them through some common ground first. She had a line of men yet she was only attracted to one guy who was her friend, and that friend did not even make any move yet lol. I still took her number since we … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How is it possible ?Dont listen to any of the advice here telling you to improve your game. Cold approach doesnt work these days, period. If you want quality women, at least physically, you have 5 options. Work/school, activities/events, friends, clubs/bars and online. Never cold approach from now. I can guarantee, you will lose way more than you gain. Girls are not fond of these approaches anymore, they might laugh or talk to you when you approach, but they will flake 100 % guarantee. | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach luck is even worse than dating app luckI agree with u. Anything has better odds than cold approach, its way worse than dating apps considering the amount of time and energy you waste. Plus you lose concentration from other important activities in life like study, work, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach luck is even worse than dating app luckI agree with you. I make above average, and have great sense of style like haircut, dressup, fitness, etc. I lived in multiple big cities in north america. I am also confident in my approaches and had great conversation with many girls. But still I didnt get 1 date from my last 200 approaches. Cold approach is totally dead. The girls have tons of options, they dont trust you, and they are aware of these pua stuffs right now. So they dont response to cold approach anymore. Just forget it and focu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How is it possible ?Cold approach is dead brother. I am from one of the biggest cities in north america. I make above average & have great style (haircut, physically fit, dressup, etc.) and still I got 0 date, I repeat 0, from the last 200 approaches. Daygame seems to yield the worst results though. Bars, clubs, etc still work. I dont think girls are welcoming to cold approaches anymore, at all. May be most of them have been already approached by multiple puas, which made them unwelcoming to any further cold approa… | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Did cold approach todayAnd did u do them in street or grocery store or some weird place? I dont think so. Maybe club, but thats not what op is talkin about.. | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Did cold approach todayDude, did you ever have a gf or lay from cold approach on street? First go and get it done and then lecture. I know many many guys who are extremely confident but cold approach never lead to date. Because there is no trust and there is nothing common. Even if they get a date because of lack of commonality the date doesnt go well. Confidence is not the only piece of puzzle here. I have seen nany guys in university who cant even speak properly with anybody, walking around with beautiful girlfriend… | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Did cold approach todayBro by confidence women mean something that you show her after she already knows you. I can challege you to go and confidently approach 100 women in the next month, especially daygame, then come and give us the report how your confidence works. Just remember you are nt there to make her day, you are there to get a gf or lay. | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 01:46 AM |
| 1 | 0 street approaches.Bro after hundreds of daygame approaches, I can suggest you, dont do this. If I have learnt anything from the daygame experience; location, time, and her state of mind matter a lot. Street has the worst combination for all these 3 factors. You must build a social life and approach socially. You can meet a lot through night game or night activities if you are in big city. Daygame you can try occasionally, but street, grocery, etc are few of the worst options. University, bookstores, girl shops, e… | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 01:43 AM |
| -1 | Did cold approach todayI shortlisted some options: work/school, 2. events/activities, 3. friends/friends of friends, 4. bars/clubs/pubs, 5. Online/apps And I am not asking you to completely remove cold approach. Just do it when the situation is very favorable or she has looked at you few times. For ex: street, public transport, grocery stores are very odd place and success is even below 1% and a massive waste of time. However, I have found bookstores, university campuses, some shops in malls, etc. to have better odds,… | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 01:24 PM |
| 0 | Did cold approach todayBro I have done around 200 approaches. And sorry to say, u will nevet get a gf or even that many lays from cold approach. You will just feel good for the first 50-100 approaches because you are doing something most dont and you are able to talk to any woman that you fancy. But there wont be any real outcome from cold approaches. Even at some point, you will feel defeated and demotivated. Then you wont even approach the women whom you should, like the ones within your social reach. So i would say… | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Approaching on Community College Campuslearn english | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Approaching on Community College CampusComing from a guy who is still virgin and writing from mom s basement hahahahaha | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 03:09 PM |
| 1 | 10/10 in gymShe isnt. Trust me. She is playing game with u. Ask her out again and try to escalate in the gym. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | 10/10 in gymShe is def playing hard to get. Keep asking her out again and again in few days, whenever see her, ask for a hangout. eventually she will agree to be your girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 12:53 AM |
| 0 | A guy asked to do night game with me and I wish I didn’t agree.I am 100 percent sure its a fake post. Not because you made out with girls, cause i keep doing it also all the time. But because no one would waste time helping such an idiot, so this post totally lost the credibility, now we dont even think you are getting laid bro, dont cap ok? | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 12:51 AM |
| 5 | A guy asked to do night game with me and I wish I didn’t agree.This is the fakest and most made up post I have seen in a while, whats the purpose lol | /r/seduction | 21/10/24 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Ditching apps and cold approachI have not found one girl who agreed to like that sort of crap. They say the guy has to be insanely hot and charismatic in order to pull in those situations but the thing is most good looking guys never even have to fall in those situations lol, they have enough within their social circle | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 10:01 AM |
| 3 | Ditching apps and cold approachBest decision brother. When I was younger, like between 20-25 I tried these both, my life was miserable. I didnt meet one quality woman from either of these two. At least, apps didnt waste a lot of my time and effort, but cold approach made me miserable and the quality of women was below below average. Now I do business and meet all sorts of women from events, best decision ever. Never try these two again, you can try apps if u r in top 1% but cold approach will always remain no for me(i wasnt a… | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Is cold approach worth it in 2024 as an average guy?No I have done hundreds of approaches and had amazing interaction and talk in at least 30 percent cases. But they never bother to reply or go on a date when we reach out later. The phone number is the max you can achieve. Best option is to be rich, influential and social and meet them through some purpose. That way, its not awkward and you are not wasting time on random weirdos, you probably would not date them anyway lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 06:01 PM |
| 0 | Is approaching women on the street weird?who is gonna pickpocket you bro, you are already a broke mf hahaha | /r/seduction | 03/07/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Cold approached for a few days. Need helpBro, the people who advise you to approach random women on streets have never done it themselves or are very inexperienced. I have tried both cold approach and social game, I can guarantee you that you will never get a quality girlfriend from cold approaching in malls, streets or random places. I have done it in every situation you can imagine, but the result is same, which is either they have a boyfriend or they are not interested. And my conversation was way longer than yours, like 15 to 30 mi… | /r/seduction | 21/06/24 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Leaving your number on a notei wont even touch a girl with a bamboo who let you get physical in the first meeting | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 09:09 PM |
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