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It is. The male's entitlement and being self absorbed (all personality issues) is what's hindering him. He feels entitled to 8s+ so him and every other male go after women under 30 that are 8+ instead of talking to women on his level. Him being self absorbed inflates his self importance and then he gets upset that he cant get Stacies and just starts lashing out like some autistic reject. All of that are issues with personality. Fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:33 AM
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We actually know quite clearly many of us are not chad. Yet males keep demanding top tier women as if they're chads. Entitlement, which I touched on. Males should fix their fucked up personalities instead of bitching because no one wants to touch their 4in dick. So ugly or average men are worse at sex and they expect women to be pornstars? What? According to stats males in general are bad at sex. But if you want to go with ugly or average males, sure. It's not like I give a fuck about male's fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 07:27 AM
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Again, go read the study, actually read it. Open those coomer eyes and read. Let me know when you've done that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:26 AM
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The OKC study, go actually read it and don't stop at the "women rate 80% of males as below average" part that you males constantly stop at.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:23 AM
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They shoot themselves in the foot by being average or below average and only going after 8s+. By having nothing to offer and being really bad at sex yet expecting women to be porn stars in the bed. If males stop living in some anime fantasy and talk to women on their level they'd have a better time. But that would require them to stop being entitled and we both know ya'll die before realizing you aren't the chad you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:22 AM
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I mean you are entitled to your opinion Data backs up my "opinion" as facts lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:20 AM
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And women tend to favor the most attractive men, though the ratio is less extreme. I like how you stopped reading right there, here's the rest of the information from that. But there are a few interesting phenomena. For one, men on the site tend to be more generous than women when it comes to rating attractiveness, leading to a nice bell curve with the bulk of ratings falling around ‘average’. But despite their fair ratings, they tend to ignore many of the women they find reasonably attractive a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:03 AM
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I don't know how many times I have to say it. Go outside, ignore the hot women (if you're capable of doing that) and the other women are average. Just average every day women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:53 AM
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Yes it does, the OKC study suggested those women go on dates with the below average males they message. Hell even TRP and PPD bitch about women "settling" (i.e dating said men). If you think women that are spammed with tons of messages are going to waste time responding for no reason you're delusional. The amount of males that say they can't even get replies yet women are just messaging them just because? Nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:52 AM
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I got you mixed up with someone else. Either way the OKC study also disproves what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:47 AM
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An average woman is the type of woman you ignore, that simple. Go outside, notice women, the women you notice are most likely above average to you, so then really open your eyes and look at the other women, those are average looking women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:46 AM
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If you dont know what an average woman looks like, you're just proving my point. So again ask another stupid question. Ya'll males really say stupid and shit and then be like "cHeCk MaTE" no, you're just retarded stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:40 AM
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The study didn't say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:39 AM
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They do turn into dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:35 AM
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Like an average woman, ask another dumb question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:34 AM
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We have to fight for being looked at. Yeah when you're all are going after 8s+, I don't feel sorry for you. OKC data says that 2/3 of male go for the top 1/3 of women and ignore the average women. That's your own fault, males don't see average women as "women" so and ignore them completely then bitch about hypergamy or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:37 AM
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Was literally talking to a guy friend about this the other day. He tried some chick way out of his league, then got offended when she told him point blank "I could do way better than you" and I agreed. If a guy that's out of my league message me there's no way in hell I'm going for that as he's probably trying to sell me something lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:36 AM
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Yes they are and this topic is about males and how they shoot themselves in the foot. Not women's requirement, stop being emotional and stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:33 AM
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You can't bitch every single day about how you can't get laid and how it's women's fault then turn around and turn down the women that you can attract.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:32 AM
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You left out disability? But ok, this is anecdotal anyways. Depends on the disability and a lot of deformities go hand in hand. I already debunked that literally look at the data. I've already looked at non bias data. The OKC study shows that 2/3 of men message the top 1/3 of women and ignores average women and women closer to their look match.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 03:31 AM
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The only males that can't get any are usually deformed or are really short. But again, even those guys have high standards. In today's market males are simply the reason they can't get laid 98% of the time. Women's standards have gone up true, but males standards have increased as well. Despite the fact that males aren't needed like back in the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:48 PM
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This is partly true because you're assuming these women would fuck them back That's irrelevant if the males already cut said women out of the pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:44 PM
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I’m not discounting the numbers You are. At the end of the day, women still talk to males they rate low, while males do not do the same thing. Males are their own problem when it comes to OLD because they only go after the top 1/3 of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:43 PM
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Males on this sub bitch about this daily, yet still won't screw certain types of women. Just say you're a whiny little bitch and you only want the hottest of the hot so we can talk about something else. In this thread alone, a thread about males not getting enough sex, are males saying don't date women over 30, don't date American women, don't date Western women, don't date fat women. Like jfc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 09:39 PM
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Well if the data from the same source provides a conflict to your assertion But the data doesn't, the data has always stated that women will still talk to average looking men. Males here just stopped at the "Women rate 80% of men as below average" and ignored the rest of it. Then those same males will deny the part where women still talk to average men. They aren't just pursing the apex women (the 9-10s). They are going after above-average women (7-8) on a higher level. How do you explain that? …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:48 PM
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It's embarrassing because you're denying a data source (which is fine) while using the SAME data source, that's the problem. From OKC as well but since we both know you aren't going to read it, I'll grab the relevant parts. Some of the conclusions aren’t surprising. The “most attractive” women receive five times as many messages as the average female does, with 2/3 of all male messages going to the top 1/3 of women. And women tend to favor the most attractive men, though the ratio is less extrem…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 03:00 PM
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That's not true though. How is it not true if that's literally what the data says? How is OKC data false for males but the exact same data in the exact same survey is some how right for women? Also the survey you're talking about did say women went after the top 20% but UNLIKE MALES they still messaged and talked to males they rated average. Sooo hOw Do YoU eXpLaIn ThAt? Please just stop the shit is embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:18 PM
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Most male profiles I've come across are just copy and paste from some popular thread on reddit. Along with their openers being some popular pickup line they read off reddit. It's like holy shit put some effort into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:16 PM
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The topic isn't women and I also know more women that will date fat man than vise versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:14 PM
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I think incels would be okay with dark women. They aren't. I've been in several incel discord servers and would lurk incel forums. Not fat women, no dark women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:14 PM
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I used OkCupid and Plenty Of Fish. I heard a lot of different things about the swiping on Tinder and just decided not to use that for my experiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:13 PM
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Glad that you, a fucking stranger on the internet knows exactly what I do or have done. Yes, dudes that are desperate for female attention ARE STILL PICKY. I game with nothing but basement dwellers and they still want small petite white or Asian "wifus". I know dudes that are 300lb+ and still dont want fat chicks. Hell take a look a incels they will openly say "No fat or dark women". Get a fucking clue, sorry your species is fucking retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 06:05 AM
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I did. With my male OLD account, if I spoke to women within the guy's "league" and sent a message more than "hey" or something sexual my response rate was really good. Males have it "hard" in OLD because they go for women out of their league (according to OkCupid 2/3rds of men go for the top women and ignore the average women completely), they spam everyone with obvious copy and paste messages, and they dont give a damn about compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 02:04 AM
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🥱🥱🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:01 AM
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Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 01:00 AM
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Yawn 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:58 AM
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Yet here you are, still replying, still talking about this magical wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:50 AM
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Yet you feel compelled too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:47 AM
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Triggered? Not even, I don't even know how to apply make up to wear it lmfao. I think it's pathetic how you keep instantly replying at all times of the day for several days on end. The fact that make up bothers you so much you're trying to prove you get laid "i HaVe SeX bRo" We all can see it...all of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 12:06 AM
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You aren't married and you don't get laid. No males that's ever seen pussy irl gives a damn about make up. Especially enough to continue to bitch about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 11:49 PM
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It actually doesn't. There's no one thats a bigger douche than a male bitching about makeup, make up that he couldn't spot if put to the test. Grow the fuck up, you're the reason you can't get laid, not make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 02:26 PM
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Normal cause I'm not responding instantly at all hours of the day bitching about what people want to do with their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 08:23 AM
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It doesn't matter, people let shit go after days. You're replying INSTANTLY at all hours of the day crying. You're most likely unemployed and are upset some woman turned you down for being a bum so you're latching onto the only thing you can...makeup. It's sad really, get some help.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 05:37 AM
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The fact you're still up arguing this shows you're pretty sad lol. Women and men will continue to wear make up and still get laid more often than you. Die mad about it ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 11:10 AM
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Yep, facts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 10:28 AM
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Your entire post is you cherry picking and then ignoring all the people disproving your point. When you have to lie, bitch, cry and ignore facts your point is a shit point. But I mean, any male bitching about makeup is usually shit anyway with even worse "points".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:45 PM
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But they do lol. Sticking your head in the sand doesnt mean it's not true. You ignored Korean men because I guess they're not men to you. Now you're ignoring gay and bi men because I guess they're not men to you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:40 PM
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Oh but they do, especially since people are opening up about gender roles. There's entire lines of make up just for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 10:00 PM
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That's not an extremely isolated case lol. Not to mention gay men and bisexual men wear make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:04 PM
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To win? This isn’t some battle. Also are Korean men not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 08:42 PM
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They do in Korea...well as far as make up goes. It's very common for males in Korea to wear make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 09:12 AM
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Yeah I know, which is why you're bitching trying your hardest lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:49 AM
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At the end of the day, whenever you're done bitching. Data shows males do exactly what they bitch about but worse. Hard cold data shows this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:18 AM
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And one of those two people would be wrong. The data is there for everyone to see and the data reflects exactly what they’re saying. If hypergamy and women going after chads is fucked up. Then obviously males excluding entire races based off stereotypes, only going after the hottest women and ignoring average women is nothing sort of fucked up. At the end of the day we all know males “lack of dating options” is because they only go after the hottest women and ignore everyone else. Bitch else whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 02:54 AM
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No, like I said, the data is accurate, not their conclusion. Why is that a hard concept? Their conclusion is BASED off their data. If their conclusion is wrong their data would reflect that, yet their data doesn't. Why is that a hard concept? Because then you'd have to admit males are fucked up like women have been saying? Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:59 PM
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Ok so then all of their shit is wrong, stop using them to prove points. Call out other males that use these studies to prove their points. Until then you’re just full of shit and don’t want to acknowledge the fucked up shit males do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 11:42 PM
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I'm kind of getting tired of repeating myself, we've had long conversations about this numerous times on PPD... Who is we? Because I don't remember who you are or even know you. If you're tired of the topic why reply? You aren't tired of the topic when you reply to argue but when I'm calling you out on your bullshit...you're tired? The data they present is fine. Their 'blog' interpretation is them just trying to save face because if they came out and said 'sorry guys, you're screwed, don't bothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:34 PM
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They don't. Ok so then all of those OLD studies aren't true so don't use them as proof for hypergamy and all that other nonsense. They don't. See above. Not at all. OkCupid showed that men are most likely to message women at their ~SMV and around 2pts above. Lmfao so the study isn't accurate or true for anything negative males do? Only the positives? Why is the study false for everything else but your last claim? Why are you using a source that you claim isn't accurate to prove a point? Lmao. "T…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 01:45 PM
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It shows that he's not a sex crazed weirdo, he has hobbies and a personality outside of pornhub. And usually those type of guys can hold a conversation without turning it directly to sex plus other things. They just seem more human?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:52 PM
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Lol what isn't true that guys never acknowledge that they only go after the most attractive as well? Or that they exclude entire races (usually darker ones) from their selection? Because according to OkCupid both are very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:50 PM
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Most of America is overweight/obese this is including white women. Especially since there's just more white women than black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 12:49 PM
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That’s completely irrelevant to anything I’m saying. Stop being argumentative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/21 02:25 AM
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The only gripe I have about guys bringing up OLD is that they never acknowledge the data about how men select women. If I say most men won’t date black women and bring up the OKC and PoF study, I get downvoted and told that’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 11:30 PM
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False equivalency. One is "limits", "rules" and hierarchy based on a job. The other is personality, traits and behaviors from just living your normal life. You're a hypocrite whenever you're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/21 11:23 AM
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No that has nothing to do with it. What's hypocritical is you looking down on/not liking/ whatever someone that has the same behavior as you. It's simply that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 03:16 PM
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I truly and honestly want to know why do you care? Unless someone else brings it up I don't really think about TRP and other shitty males. Why do women you hate live in ya'lls mind rent free?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:10 PM
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There is no bullshit, my only main requirement is to not have any kids and not be a druggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:35 PM
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I brought the trope of black women being fat up to dismiss it. You were the one who brought up being a black woman makes it difficult to date But I never claimed dating was hard for black women because we're fat all I said was because of being black lol. Sure. They also hate each other, noobs, campers, pros, bots, white people, people who can't speak English, people who speak it too well, their parents, the game they're playing, the games they're not playing, the way the game is now, the way it …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:33 PM
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As cringy as this is going to sound, just shitposty gamers. I don't have a physical preference I just like laid back guys that joke around and aren't too serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 03:22 PM
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Completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:53 AM
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but I still don't date women with high bodycounts. Wasn't that your post? It's the whole thought process, you can want what you want no one is arguing against that. But if you dont want a women with a high n count because you feel she's "less than" yet you are participating in the same behaviors, don't feel you're "less than", you're a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:52 AM
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Because they probably aren't actually lower n-counts is why. Right because women just sit around and lie, got it. You think they don't 'want' you. Maybe some don't. Chances are, though, that they just don't know how to ask, have been messed up before by asking as if they were dealing with a friend, etcetera. False, male gamers are pretty open about disliking black women or honestly any woman that can't mimic their favorite anime waifu. The two skillsets are not the same thing, are they? I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 11:50 AM
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OP literally makes an entire thread bitching because people don't respect that he's a loser while also insulting everyone. Yet the person that has standards has a chip on their shoulder???
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:15 AM
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Most of the guys that sleep with sex workers don't respect women, hence OP calling said women "whores" and "sluts" and everything else rude and demeaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:14 AM
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nO yoU
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:13 AM
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You're viewing this from the perspective of the person who doesn't have to ask, only has to evaluate the offers. I'm an unattractive black female that mainly plays video games online with men that aren't interested in black women at all. Stop projecting, I'm the one that has to make the move and get rejected. Again, I have social skills, you don't need to screw women to have social skills. How is it that women, that notoriously have lower n counts than males have better social skills?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 04:13 AM
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I mean...yeah to a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:10 AM
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tHaTs A lOtTa CaP Jfc, just when I thought the IQ here couldn't drop any lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 12:10 AM
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Nah it's called pReFeReNcEs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:23 PM
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I don't sound like anything because I haven't said anything other than I don't like whores. Keep your projection to yourself. I'm an inexperienced woman yet I don't lack social skills. You don't have to screw a lot of women to be able to talk to women....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 10:20 PM
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There's a length requirement on both of those names.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:43 PM
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"Fuck them over" wasn't mean to be taken literal just like "you messed that up", it's just how I talk, which I know you wouldn't know, just clearing it up. Either way it seems like awkwardness and lack of social skills ruined that for them and you sealed that when with your line. Unless the guy is like an 8+ lack of social skills will ruin it for any guy in a setting where it's needed. Anecdotal but every woman I've ever talked to has preferred virgins to dudes with less than the average count t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 06:18 PM
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Most women are the other way, at least in action You said their awkwardness and social miscues fucked them over, that's for anyone virgin or not. I'm not even understanding why you would be mentioning virginity at a bar before even sealing the deal? That's just weird and would put me completely off. That's like a dude randomly coming up and going "I fucked 100 women, I'm experienced" ...just weird. Also, outside of reddit and discord (pedo breeding grounds) most males don't actually like virgin …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:49 PM
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It's jus a descriptive word. Your whole post is bitching about the names people call simps that buy prostitutes....
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 05:09 PM
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"Whore" is a negative term. How is it you're bitching about the "descriptive terms" people use against simps? But you're okay calling sex workers "whores" because it's a "descriptive term"?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:48 PM
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Actually...that does make you a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:43 PM
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You did, you've called sex workers "sluts" and "whores" all up and down this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:42 PM
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What am I asking for? That people keep their opinions about johns to themselves? But you literally just insulted sex workers, calling them "sluts" when you could've kept that opinion to yourself.... Why do you want people to respect simps(this is to further drive the point home) when you won't even respect the women you're paying to deal with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:37 PM
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I would, I actually find males with high body counts disgusting, horrible in bed and it shows complete lack of self control. It also seems like a male with a high body count would cheat way more. Idk why but males with high body counts, or even just the normal amount for today's standard just come off as sex obsessed freaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:35 PM
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Why is it that when I state I don't want to date Garden tools of a women, I get labelled an incel, misogynistic, toxic towards females etc etc. Mostly coming from feminazis and/or guys that are just plain beta. I don't think most logical people would have a problem with a male not wanting to date a prostitute. It's usually the double standards and how males act towards a woman with a high body count. Alot of times those same males are also whores with ridiculously high counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:32 PM
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1.) Don't be black or any other dark skin/ dark brown race 2.) Have large perky tits 3.) Don't be too tall 4.) Don't be negative even if you had a bad day, always be positive and ignore your own problems for the male 5.) Always be available for sex and never say "no" 6.) Be a porn star in bed 7.) Be a virgin 8.) Be ok with and willing to date fat men, just don't be fat yourself. This is just the small list of things that I have to be or else I'm a "bad woman".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:58 AM
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Ssshh, don't tell them there's worse things than being fat or a single parent. I like hearing them bitch about their lying, thieving, cluster B personality gfs/exes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 12:52 AM
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To be fair, a male's opinion on what's shit is completely useless. I know males that are friends with serial cheaters, pedos, and abusive males and they say all their friends are "good guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 08:10 PM
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The list as a whole is. I'm saying the list as a whole isn't out there nor unreasonable. I am saying that most men will be lacking in at least one point found in the list. Again, her entire list is basically "don't be a shit person" and if someone lacks in that...you're saying males are shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 06:27 PM
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Males of any race are not known for making 7 figures in a large percentage. This is true but I figured the guy I quoted was over exaggerating/memeing so I went based off that. The point was, most black males aren't even making what your average or below average white male is making. Just the males? I'd venture to say that the lions share of women are shit as well. I mean the point isn't about the women. I don't see the women here lashing out like the males do or making really ridiculous posts li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:51 PM
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Nothing in her list was out there or unreasonable it was all just "be a decent person and be compatible with me". So, yeah, in a way you're saying most males are shit people that can't take of themselves financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:22 PM
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Wait so are you saying most males are shit people that can't financially take care of themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:14 PM
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needs to have a 7 figure personality like Jeff Bezos to offset it. This is probably going to come off really wrong but...black males aren't really known for making 7 figures. And on average, lots of women of different races and educational background out earn them....yet they do fine dating. Plus alot of them have really high standards. What alot of males on this subreddit fail to realize is that they aren't struggling because of height or how much they make but because they're actually shit peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 03:12 PM
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Since when does financially stable mean well off? It just means not living from paycheck to paycheck. Or not living in the slums barely making it with your car up for repo every other month. Are males not able to take care of themselves so being financially stable is above minimum? If males can't take care of themselves, why are women required to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 02:59 PM
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It was the 15+ specific traits or features that she expects a man to bring to the table So it's just the number that's unreasonable? What if her list was Not a pedo, murderer, doesn't eat poop, doesn't throw up on himself, capable of breathing on his own, able to use words, can blink, able to cook food, is housebroken, etc etc you get the point. Is that unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:26 PM
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Most women buy rabbits (a dildo with a vibrator for the clit) or just a clit vibrator. The whole penetration to masturbate thing is only in porn lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/21 02:15 AM
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I know a lot of males that wish they could make money off OnlyFans, so I tell them to go for it since gay males also buy porn. I'm usually hit with "yeah but I don't like men" they'll then say something like how that would be mentally damaging and they couldn't bare to do that. So then I ask them if they think all women on OnlyFans, in the porn and/or prostitution industry like men? Or are attracted to all of their clients. They just go quiet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:01 PM
17

A thin white girl with a choker* Just look through the comments, so many have no clue that goth girls aren't majority thin and pale any more lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 04:48 PM
16

Big toddy goth gf, is just a meme. Guys mainly like the soft egirl look, they aren't into actual goths. I've mainly hung around goths most of my life and they were made fun of. I'm also into gothic lolita (isn't the same as goth) which is alt fashion and I still get made fun of....as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 03:07 PM
-2

Yes, I've approached plenty of average to below average guys. And guys in wheelchairs, awkward guys etc. I'm black though so to most men I'm not attractive by default. Also being 6ft doesnt make someone handsome, they're plenty of tall ugly dudes. My preferred height is 5'5 to 5'9 as I'm only 5ft.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 11:53 AM
-3

Males aren't asking for normal women to approach, they only want hot women to approach them. You have to understand, when males say "women" they only mean the attractive ones. Unless they're bitching about over weight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 10:13 AM
3

Are you happy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:47 PM
5

"Had to adapt" So women that "have to adapt" or put out within 3 dates, are still whores and sluts. But you....you're just trying to survive. Again, the sooner you males admit you're gay and you just don't like women, the happier you'll be.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 03:15 PM
4

So to sum it up, you want women to sleep with you asap while also calling them sluts for doing so. I don't think males realize how they make things hard for themselves. Just say you're gay and screw males.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 01:08 PM
0

I'm a woman and this pisses me off the most. They don't get trades, they don't do the "dirty" work they resort to being a hooker and then bitch about it and men....like why?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 03:18 AM
3

Actually alot of people do, going with the fast food example, loads of people will bitch about ALL fast food saying they never get their order right. So if they do go, they change their behavior, like they won't pull off before checking their order ect. And yes some people stop going to fast food all together. Women can't win, if we get shitty partners it's our fault and we should do better. So then we do better by either being extremely selective or not picking a partner at all and then that's …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 09:17 PM
4

I am not going to help Help? It's not helping. Also when this is your experience most of the time, you stop. On a smaller scale, people that often experience shitty customer service will stop supporting that business. But with something more important (a person's body, their self esteem, self worth, etc) you want people to just continue getting used??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 07:18 PM
4

Because a good chunk of this is women utterly failing to communicate Males don't listen, they take offense, and often go by the logic "my last partner liked it so you must like it or it's something wrong with you". I argued with a guy in ATF before it was banned about this and his exact response was You don't just tell grown adults you don't like how they fuck and want them to do it differently. Followed by Do you think I want or care to hear I've been doing it wrong? This is how a lot of men re…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:17 PM
4

There isn't a fine line between being nice and being a pushover. Yes there is lol. Being a push over is being a "yes man" not standing your ground and having no boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:42 AM
3

Pick one They aren't the same thing. Putting effort into your appearance is like shaving, skin care routine, not having a neckbeard.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:41 AM
6

I personally don't mind "too nice" guys, however I have heard some women complain about it. There's a fine (very fine) line between being considerate, thoughtful and doing things to make someone smile every day. And being a complete push over that can't make decisions, if that makes any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 11:27 PM
8

Gay men still have psychical standards a lot of straight men don't meet. There was also some think piece or some shit saying gay men feel just as bad about their bodies as straight women. But it wasn't the same for lesbians. Also, if women were to become lesbians and start dating other women, wouldn't most of their dating problems vanish? They wouldn't have to worry about being used for sex, body image issues, someone thinking they're nagging, not putting in effort in the relationship or effort …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 11:24 PM
4

Sex is a "need" to get the species going, we're fine there's around 7 billion of us. On a personal level, sex is not a need, I've gone without sex for years and I'm magically not dead yet nor am I depressed because of it. Having sex, being pressured to have sex and males constantly talking about sex makes me more depressed, stressed out and unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 03:15 PM
1

You're lucky, I've seen/heard males from all walks of life insist that sex is a need and/or a "right". And this opinion doesn't only come from incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 03:13 PM
2

800-273-8255
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 04:14 AM
3

Erm.... are you a woman? Lmao you’re literally a woman. Stay on topic I’m not here to argue with you karen because you’re feelings are hurt that you’re balding.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 03:52 AM
6

Who set these double standards? What does fat women being delusional about their appearance have to do with anything? The fact is they made a "movement" for themselves. Why can't short, fat, balding, etc males do the same for themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/20 12:36 AM
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I agree so many men complain about the fat acceptance movement and say there’s no support for short or fat men. Fat women created the movement for themselves. Why can’t men do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 06:29 PM
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