MochaYam Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
265	Men, Not Women, Are Disadvantaged: These Statistics Prove It - Woke Father	General	MochaYam	/r/MensRights	19/09/25 09:01 PM
114	MEETING THE ENEMY A feminist comes to terms with the Men's Rights movement \| Cassie Jaye \| TEDxMarin	General	MochaYam	/r/MensRights	27/09/25 03:14 AM
113	Men, Not Women, Are Disadvantaged: These Statistics Prove It - Woke Father	Discrimination	MochaYam	/r/MensRights	13/09/25 02:32 AM
53	Shibles, W. - The Myth of Patriarchy	General	MochaYam	/r/MensRights	25/09/25 11:23 PM
24	Discrimination Against Men - iPleaders	legal rights	MochaYam	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	22/09/25 09:35 PM
9	Let's be totally honest about equality	General	MochaYam	/r/MensRights	28/09/25 03:35 PM
7	Thank you to all the male advocacy groups...	Progress	MochaYam	/r/MensRights	28/09/25 02:05 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Let's be totally honest about equality Feminists who claim men and women have equal rights in, say, genital integrity. Cassie Jaye?	/r/MensRights	29/09/25 10:32 AM
1	Let's be totally honest about equality Do you really think it’s possible to change the minds of an entire population, let alone billions of individuals? Like any other social movement, progress can always be made, but the world is huge, and there will always be some degree of misandry. Feminism isn’t going anywhere, no matter how much male advocacy groups try to reduce or eradicate it.	/r/MensRights	29/09/25 10:31 AM
1	Men having views that are incompatible with feminist ideology is not misogynistic, unless they try to force others to adopt those views. Yeah well even if that is true, y'all can have it pretty useless anyway. I love that my estrogen is a natural immune system booster. Good conversation! And don't get sick easily. 😎	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/09/25 03:59 PM
0	Men having views that are incompatible with feminist ideology is not misogynistic, unless they try to force others to adopt those views. Men do not have the higher pain tolerance, y'all just the higher pain threshold. Watch YouTube videos about men trying those menstrual cramps and childbirth simulators, they be crying. Testosterone is almost like a "natural" painkiller. More like a "natural" immune system killer. 😂	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/09/25 03:38 PM
1	Men having views that are incompatible with feminist ideology is not misogynistic, unless they try to force others to adopt those views. Pain tolerance and pain threshold are two distinct concepts. While it’s true that, on average, men may have a higher pain threshold (the point at which pain begins to be felt), women are often found to have a higher pain tolerance (the ability to endure pain). It's important to note that both pain threshold and tolerance are difficult to measure accurately due to individual differences. For example, you can't easily determine someone's pain threshold just by looking at them, unlike traits like h…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/09/25 03:11 PM
3	Men having views that are incompatible with feminist ideology is not misogynistic, unless they try to force others to adopt those views. In general, women tend to be more sensitive to negative emotions than men. This means that when both genders face the same negative experience, women are often more likely to perceive that experience as harmful. The same pattern holds true for physical pain; despite common beliefs about women being more resilient, studies show that men typically experience less pain and are generally better able to endure similar physical stress. Some studies say men have a higher pain tolerance, others say the …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/09/25 02:35 PM
4	Men having views that are incompatible with feminist ideology is not misogynistic, unless they try to force others to adopt those views. It is impossible to have sexism against one gender without sexism against the other. You cannot have sexism against women without having sexism against men, and vice versa, whether or not it is positive or negative sexism. It’s not like tribal groups, where, for instance, you may be able to oppress one tribe through negative discrimination and give positive discrimination to another tribe. However, when it comes to men and women, who have always lived their lives together, this would be impossib…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/09/25 08:43 AM
1	Feminism is a hate movement against men: Radical feminism is about female superiority/supremacy and male subjection. If you don't think this, then you haven't gone online and seen some of the stuff radical feminists have said.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/09/25 12:34 AM
19	Feminists say men issues are caused by other men. But yet men are still mocked for having a brotherhood with other men though. Mainstream feminism often promotes the idea that women—especially white women—are emotionally, intellectually, and morally superior to men. Examples of female superiority in real life: Family courts almost always give custody to mothers, even when fathers might be better caregivers. Women get special scholarships, grants, and job programs that exclude men—even in fields where women already dominate. Media often paints men as irresponsible or emotionally weak, while women are shown as mature and …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/09/25 07:39 PM
1	I thought it was possible to have a reconciliation of Feminism and Men's Rights You are wrong on so many levels. Feminist rhetoric is reliant on a view of women as lacking agency. Feminists are basically saying "Infantilize women while pretending you're not". Men are much more likely to support gender equality than women (which would be expected since women benefit the most from sexist gender roles), there are still women who also support equality. Erin Pizzey, Cassie Jaye, Karen DeCrow, Christina Hoff Sommers, Karen Straughen, Alison Tieman, The Honey Badgers, etc. And las…	/r/MensRights	27/09/25 04:02 PM
1	Men need to be more organised if we want to protect the interests of our gender. The men's rights movement doesn't have institutional power like feminism does. So it's going to be hard for male advocacy groups to succeed.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/09/25 03:37 PM
1	Men need to be more organised if we want to protect the interests of our gender. The men's rights movement doesn't have institutional power like feminism does. So it's going to be hard for male advocacy groups to succeed.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/09/25 03:34 PM
1	Woman who lived as a Man for 18 months (2006) - Takes her own life Societal institutions in the West tend to favor women, creating a gynocentric system that gives them certain advantages and privileges. To a degree, this means women may have an easier life legally speaking, so I agree with that point to an extent. However, life itself does not care whether someone is male or female, and it certainly does not provide special treatment. By this measure, women absolutely still face hard times.	/r/MensRights	26/09/25 10:17 PM
1	Hi community. I am setting up a site to help men I think what we really need is balance. If there are too many women in the spotlight, society can become overly feminized; if there are too many men, it can become overly masculinized. What we need is an equal balance of masculine and feminine role models. Both are important, and women especially need feminine role models just as men need masculine ones. One is not more important than the other. That said, starting your website is a good idea. Just be aware that it might not be received well. So…	/r/MensRights	26/09/25 10:07 PM
0	Woman who lived as a Man for 18 months (2006) - Takes her own life If I didn't get treated like dirt back then idk how I could handle getting treated like that now I am an egalitarian-male advocate, but I didn't know 'getting treated like dirt' was a gendered experience? I always thought that both men and women go through periods of hard times and tribulations, it's part of being human.	/r/MensRights	26/09/25 09:54 PM
1	M To F Abuse "Institution Of Oppression?" highest incidence of domestic violence is in same sex lesbian relationships and the lowest in same sex male relationships... Got any resources to back up that claim?	/r/MensRights	26/09/25 09:44 PM
14	Woman threatened to take daughter away; husband, fearing loss, suicides at 34 years old: trial underway It's tragic! No one cares about men and their issues. Men, Not Women, Are Disadvantaged: These Statistics Prove It - Woke Father https://www.wokefather.com/egalitarianism/men-not-women-are-disadvantaged-these-statistics-prove-it/ Discrimination Against Men - iPleaders https://blog.ipleaders.in/discrimination-against-men/#comments Full article: Men’s health in the United States: a national health paradox https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/13685538.2019.1645109#abstract Missing men and b…	/r/MensRights	26/09/25 09:37 PM
14	Woman threatened to take daughter away; husband, fearing loss, suicides at 34 years old: trial underway Women have and are starting to abuse their female privilege. We need to call this out more. Discrimination Against Men - iPleaders https://blog.ipleaders.in/discrimination-against-men/#comments	/r/MensRights	26/09/25 09:35 PM
4	Prostate Cancer in the Caribbean Community – Breaking the Silence – NY Carib News Men's health is underfunded and understudied, compared to womens. Full article: Men’s health in the United States: a national health paradox https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/13685538.2019.1645109#abstract	/r/MensRights	26/09/25 09:34 PM
1	Shibles, W. - The Myth of Patriarchy You don’t need to speak badly about women. Yes, there are some feminists who make misandristic statements, but as male advocates, we shouldn’t stoop to that level or try to become the "male equivalent" of radical feminists. Both men and women are essential for the continuation of society. When men went off to war, it was women who stepped into industrial jobs and kept things going until the men returned.	/r/MensRights	26/09/25 09:19 PM
1	Shibles, W. - The Myth of Patriarchy You don’t need to speak badly about women. Yes, there are many (not all) feminists who make misandristic statements, but as male advocates, we shouldn’t stoop to that level or try to become the "male equivalent" of radical feminists. Both men and women are essential for the continuation of society. When men went off to war, it was women who stepped into industrial jobs and kept things going until the men returned.	/r/MensRights	26/09/25 09:15 PM
5	Shibles, W. - The Myth of Patriarchy A patriarchy, politically speaking, is a system of rule that excludes women and where typically men use their power of rule to advantage men. There is no clear consensus on the term or definition of "patrichary". The original Greek meaning is "rule of the father" in a family unit, not used to imply that a system that advantages men in general. The original term has been manipulated by feminists to paint men as privileged oppressors.	/r/MensRights	26/09/25 12:33 AM
2	Discrimination Against Men - iPleaders Trying to help whenever I can!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/09/25 07:25 AM
1	Discrimination Against Men - iPleaders It's actually written by u/dakru, he has posted in a while though. His last reddit post was 8 years ago, I hope he hasn't stopped writing or blogging.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	23/09/25 07:23 AM
1	Men, Not Women, Are Disadvantaged: These Statistics Prove It - Woke Father A path to a more equal society is one where both groups work together instead of fighting. This "more equal society" is non-existent. You can't change the whole world, let alone people's minds. So the US can never be an equal society. I stopped fighting a long time ago, we need to be 100% realistic on how much we can change society.	/r/MensRights	22/09/25 10:54 PM
4	If you're a man their doesn't need to be any evidence to get charged for a crime Men are often shrugged off when it comes to domestic/sexual abuse. Men often aren’t believed, or expected to know how to deal with it, and stick it through. This article will discuss some of the inequalities that men experience. I am not a anti-feminist, but a Non-Feminist and I am not trying to pin anything against women. I try to introduce topics with a level head and a sense of neutrality. I believe that the feminist movement have made exceptional progress with women’s rights to a point where…	/r/MensRights	22/09/25 10:18 PM
15	Does feminist activism have a history of trying to get people fired? In modern discourse, discussions around "gender equality" is supposed to include both genders, yet it often engages mainly women. Men's voices are conspicuously silenced or censored from the conversation. The term "patrichary" is an excuse for women to keep claiming victimhood? With all the accomplishments women have made, and the amount of powerful positions women can and do occupy how can they genuinely claim to be oppressed by a so-called patriarchy? Women have access to an abundance of resou…	/r/MensRights	19/09/25 07:46 PM
2	Women actively harm themselves by being misandrists It is impossible to have sexism against one gender without sexism against the other. You cannot have sexism against women without having sexism against men, and vice versa, whether or not it is positive or negative sexism. It’s not like tribal groups, where, for instance, you may be able to oppress one tribe through negative discrimination and give positive discrimination to another tribe. However, when it comes to men and women, who have always lived their lives together, this would be impossib…	/r/MensRights	17/09/25 05:26 AM
1	A certain community that is against mens rights(didn't technically say the name) I think the subreddit is r/againstmensright, but I am not sure. I def! Seen that community and oh boy! Is it misandrist. Good news is it's been banned from reddit. The real oppression for women comes not from men, but from the expectation of receiving handouts disguised as “equality.” Increasingly, society is moving toward the concept of “equity.” This expectation can be limiting for young women, who are raised to believe they should expect benefits because of the so-called patriarchy, rather th…	/r/MensRights	17/09/25 05:25 AM
1	Examples of internalized misandry It is impossible to have sexism against one gender without sexism against the other. You cannot have sexism against women without having sexism against men, and vice versa, whether or not it is positive or negative sexism. It’s not like tribal groups, where, for instance, you may be able to oppress one tribe through negative discrimination and give positive discrimination to another tribe. However, when it comes to men and women, who have always lived their lives together, this would be impossib…	/r/MensRights	17/09/25 05:21 AM
1	Man being harassed \| Pseudo-Feminists.. \| Men stand for Men It is impossible to have sexism against one gender without sexism against the other. You cannot have sexism against women without having sexism against men, and vice versa, whether or not it is positive or negative sexism. It’s not like tribal groups, where, for instance, you may be able to oppress one tribe through negative discrimination and give positive discrimination to another tribe. However, when it comes to men and women, who have always lived their lives together, this would be impossib…	/r/MensRights	17/09/25 05:19 AM
3	What I saw on TikTok The real oppression for women comes not from men, but from the expectation of receiving handouts disguised as “equality.” Increasingly, society is moving toward the concept of “equity.” This expectation can be limiting for young women, who are raised to believe they should expect benefits because of the so-called patriarchy, rather than being taught the value of hard work, true equality, and fair research. Radical feminists often rely on straw man arguments in gender debates, shifting the focus …	/r/MensRights	17/09/25 05:18 AM
0	Manipulations and Accountability: Lessons from Feminist Interactions The real oppression for women comes not from men, but from the expectation of receiving handouts disguised as “equality.” Increasingly, society is moving toward the concept of “equity.” This expectation can be limiting for young women, who are raised to believe they should expect benefits because of the so-called patriarchy, rather than being taught the value of hard work, true equality, and fair research. Radical feminists often rely on straw man arguments in gender debates, shifting the focus …	/r/MensRights	17/09/25 05:17 AM
4	Would a man get the same treatment? - Nurse who raped stepson, 15, gets 2 years in prison, 2 years of community control, 10 years probation, 200 hours of community service, court costs, and fines. The real oppression for women comes not from men, but from the expectation of receiving handouts disguised as “equality.” Increasingly, society is moving toward the concept of “equity.” This expectation can be limiting for young women, who are raised to believe they should expect benefits because of the so-called patriarchy, rather than being taught the value of hard work, true equality, and fair research. Radical feminists often rely on straw man arguments in gender debates, shifting the focus …	/r/MensRights	17/09/25 05:15 AM
-2	The importance of fatherhood, as told by a woman. A woman can raise a boy, but it takes a man to raise a man. A man can raise a girl, but it takes a woman to raise a woman.	/r/MensRights	14/09/25 06:00 PM
-4	The importance of fatherhood, as told by a woman. Not all kids without fathers are doing the worst. Kids do well without fathers; likewise I've seen kids do worse without mothers. I said what, what I said. Good bye!	/r/MensRights	14/09/25 03:31 PM
-15	The importance of fatherhood, as told by a woman. If masculinity wasn't toxic then why are most crimes committed by men? School shootings, bombings, murder, homicide, etc. are overwhelmingly done by men. Some forms of masculinity are toxic. Just like how, some forms of femininity are toxic.	/r/MensRights	14/09/25 02:47 PM
-13	The importance of fatherhood, as told by a woman. Nah there's some kids from single mother households doing well, too!? I support men's issues and I am a Christian. So, I believe that men and women are equal, yet different genders. I even posted an article about claiming that males are statically a disadvantaged group in the western U.S. However the family unit needs a father and a mother, not just a father or the family will crumble! Fathers just can't understand their daughters like a mother can. I've seen kids from single-father households d…	/r/MensRights	14/09/25 02:28 PM
-48	The importance of fatherhood, as told by a woman. Okay, then why are kids from abusive fathers doing worst, as well? You see how I can twist that logic? Both (non-abusive) parents are vital for kids success and well being. Not just the father.	/r/MensRights	14/09/25 01:17 PM
16	Women in men’s bathrooms women do need to be helped in some ways and given specific help. Men too! Women are already given their help. There are plenty of government-funded programs, initiatives, advocacy groups, and affirmative action in place for women, but for men there is a shortage of it. That is why I became a male advocate for men's rights and issues, because men don't have those support systems that women do. You must be a female?	/r/MensRights	13/09/25 03:42 AM
10	Women in men’s bathrooms I am a Christian male advocate. I address men's issues, as well as Christian issues, but men and women are two equal, yet different genders. We shouldn't give special treatment to know one unless they need it!	/r/MensRights	13/09/25 03:23 AM
0	College Professor spent 10 minutes praising women and bashing on men while all the guys in the class stayed silent Being raised with a single parent (regardless of their gender) presents a lot of unique struggles that make parenthood much more difficult to manage. Single mothers get a bad reputation partially because they’re much more common than single fathers. I grew up with a single mom (my dad was a deadbeat heroin addict for many years), and I turned out alright by all accounts. We had a lot of unique advantages that I’m sure made things easier. My mom has a college education and a good job, we had a ho…	/r/MensRights	11/09/25 10:18 PM
1	College Professor spent 10 minutes praising women and bashing on men while all the guys in the class stayed silent I appreciate your perspective on the importance of parental roles. I agree that children need both parents to become well-adjusted adults. While the lack of a male role model can have significant negative effects, studies also show that the absence of a female role model is equally detrimental. It's crucial to recognize that both single fathers and single mothers face unique challenges, and children thrive best in environments where they have access to both parental figures. The presence of a mo…	/r/MensRights	11/09/25 06:12 PM
1	College Professor spent 10 minutes praising women and bashing on men while all the guys in the class stayed silent It is partially skewed data. It is also partially that men and women are different and have complementary parenting styles by default. The lack of the female parenting role is much less disastrous for the young adult child than the lack of the male parenting role. One example of #2: https://beyondthesestonewalls.com/posts/in-the-absence-of-fathers-a-story-of-elephants-and-men I am a male advocate and a Christian. I support men's rights and issues, but mothers are needed in the family, as well. E…	/r/MensRights	11/09/25 04:10 AM