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| 2 | What should i do to date an attention seeker ?Best to avoid. But if you really want her for some reason be straight with her on what you want and don't give her "free attention" in other words like for like, she's either interested or not no game playing. | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them?OK didn't read the post fully. Start doing cold approaches to build your confidence. Other than that, stop.focusing on girls. Get big in the gym, make money, do better | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 06:54 PM |
| 1 | What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them?Move onto the next brother. You can't force someone who's bot interested in you to be interested. Same way way you couldn't be forced to like a girl you're simply not attracted to. Move onto the next. | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How to pass the exclusivity shit testJust having game, and more straight talking, and more 'alpha', but It has to be from the start. You can't just become it, you have to be straight and strong with where your coming from and what you want from her. Just look at it like this is what we're doing this is what I want, its my way or the high way. If your first impressions wasn't strong, then you will have a shitntest coming your way. You have to demonstrate strong behaviour from the start. | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Is Cold Approach Even Effective in the Long Run?Of course it is. The fact you've even asked that sh9ws you've never even tried it or not enough otherwise you wouldn't be saying this. Approaching builds confidence. The one thing is there's so many different methods and ways to cold approach which can be confusing | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 12:03 AM |
| 2 | The most important alpha male attribute women are looking forDon't listen to Owen Cook bro. You want to look at the pioneers old school dating coaches. The ones that started the whole PUA "cold approach stuff off. These guys are honest and will even tell you the truth you can't make any girl attract you it's impossible to, obviously just look for the ones that are attracted to. | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Does a lack of physical touch in early dating ever get better?No don't pull back or wait bro. Ya need to escalate it. The fact your not.doing it anymore is it a bit weird and odd. Escalate it further | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Does a lack of physical touch in early dating ever get better?The fact that you've made a post about this shows that you're aware that you already know the answer. I think general desire and connection goes a long way. You gotta at least be kissing on the "first date" ideally. I'd give it no more than two dates. | /r/seduction | 03/02/26 11:57 PM |
| 1 | what was your best life experience as an adult man?Nice | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 08:51 PM |
| 2 | what was your best life experience as an adult man?Threeway with two Polish girls in Ibiza hasn't been topped since lol. I stayed in touch and met her in Poland(didn't workout in the end cut the long short but great experience) | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Yet another first date that I think goes well goes poorly. How to not let it get to me?OK bro I'm going to say something most people won't say. But stop going on dates. You don't know if there's genuine attraction beforehand. Plus it gives opportunity for people to get a free meal out of you, or to see you when they already know they're not going to take things further(timewasters) There full of them on these sites. "Dates" aren't the best way to go about getting girls etc. I'd start doing cold approaches instead, that way you can fin out quite quickly of they're attracted to you.… | /r/seduction | 26/01/26 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Stop Theorizing : Speak on Experience"Salty little chodes" ahahahhahahaahahaahahaha 😆😆😆😆👌👌👌 | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Stop Theorizing : Speak on ExperienceAMEN! This isn't said enough bro. We all worry about the theory before actually doing anything. You learn more from doing the think than the constant theory. | /r/seduction | 24/01/26 06:23 PM |
| -1 | Adam Lyons method anyone?Hey, when would you like to share my company? Next Thursday or next Saturday I can do either or? Or you "can say wow! You've very hot! What are you doing next Friday?" | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 05:23 PM |
| 1 | What is the number 1 thing that can help me ?Approach that's it there is no other way | /r/seduction | 11/01/26 06:39 PM |
| 3 | My first cold approach (20M, college)I'd say why are you speaking to her in the first place? I'd try and to the point quicker on why you're talking to her Tell her she's hot and or ask to share her company sometime soon. At least you approached though bro most dont | /r/seduction | 02/01/26 07:20 PM |
| 21 | Struggling to close after making out at clubsI see a lot if comments here hopefully you read this one an take it seriously. To close Is quite simple, you're not speaking and dancing with her for to get better at dancing. Your speaking because you want something. Tell her. Be direct about it. Clubs aren't the best places to communicate but if.you tell her what your intentions are and what you want the worst thing she can say is no then you move on to someone else. | /r/seduction | 07/12/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I'm devastated and hopelessYeah there's nothing wrong with that. Have actual goals too. Don't make it the most important thing in your life | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | I'm devastated and hopelessOK yeah so u know you can get attractive girls right? So why you bothered if some girls don't want to know. It could be your approach, it could even be your looks who cares? Looks are subjective meaning one girl could find you hot while another can find you not so hot. | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm devastated and hopelessHonestly bro, you have to remember you're not going to get high quality girls at clubs. And I think you start focusing in yourself more. Level up. I've been on one night out the past 365 days. Honestly can't say I'm missing much. Night out and clubs feels like Satan to me. Experiential with day time approaches and focus in yourself. | /r/seduction | 04/12/25 09:53 PM |
| 16 | How do you actually attract the calm, grounded guys instead of the high-energy party types?I'm going to be honest you probably won't attract these guys. But.id say be MORE feminine, sweet like really girly playful, sweet. Men like innocence too but let's be honest there's no innocent girls nowadays lol. I think be more feminine is the main one 100% | /r/seduction | 02/12/25 08:59 PM |
| 6 | You dont need to learn about GAMEYeah 100% disagree here. Because even relatively good looking blokes struggle so why wouldn't you need game? | /r/seduction | 28/11/25 06:52 PM |
| 0 | my friends have no issues with dating/hookup. What am I doing wrong where I'm always the odd one out.Maybe you've got to work on yourself a bit more. Considering yourself to be the blame and look at it logically. Bars and clubs aren't the best place to find women anyway. Experiment with cold approaches/approaching in public everyday settings. Also start doing work on yourself, there's a actually more important things than girls and getting your dick wet. | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone on here suck at seduction?I think first off most people's definition of seduction is way off. Attracting a girl or even taking her back doesnt necessarily mean you 'seduced' her True seduction is when there's a degree of resistance on her part. Meaning she initially didn't agree to sleeping wit you or even spending time with you, but you managed to persuade her with your knack and persuasive charm. In simplest terms it's getting a girl to sleep woth you when at first she didn't think it was a good idea or even tried to h… | /r/seduction | 24/11/25 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates?Asl for casual sex and tell.them you're not looking for a date. | /r/seduction | 11/11/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | When she says " I just want to be alone"Get away from.her. Leave her alone. And if she comes bk to you set your ground and tell her not to.fuxk around again other than that goodbye | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 06:48 PM |
| 1 | My first time approachingDm us bro | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Do women expect you to try to kiss them on the first date?I mean yes maybe. But you shouldn't care what they think. Don't think "does this woman expect me to kiss her in the first date". Instead look at like you want to see if chemistry you to got chemistry. If you guys don't have chemistry and you don't feel like you wanna kiss her than move on | /r/seduction | 04/11/25 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Does the Fear Of Rejection Ever Completely Go Away?Come on bro. You've got be pretending here. You obviously know what you need to do. Everyone knows what they need to do you jist gotta grab your balls. | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 08:07 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl won’t do a simple task you ask of her?Hahaha yeee | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so difficult in the moment?Yes couldn't of said it better | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so difficult in the moment?Bro. Don't change for.everyopne else. Yes. It's true they like people who care less and idiots. But that doesn't mean you have to be an idiot. You can not give a fuck but have high values big difference. Besides do you really want to be around women who like men who behave in that manner anyway? | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Why Do Women Put “Looking For Friends Only” on Dating Apps?Social pressure. Its not socially acceptable for a girl to be like "looking for dick". Probably just for attention too. | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 12:03 PM |
| 0 | while you wait, other men are sleeping with your dream girlWhile he may be selling something. Theres one thing I can guarantee. Half the people criticising have NEVER even approached. They're always the ones that criticise the most. Maybe you could learn something. How you approach before you criticise ahaaa! | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 09:15 PM |
| 7 | while you wait, other men are sleeping with your dream girlFuck me. Girls ain't the be all and end all. Ita not the only goal in life. I can put money thar majority of people putting posts up like this don't even approach(not directing it at you necessarily). Just saying. Also not trying take away or put down what you've posted. I'm just saying... | /r/seduction | 31/10/25 08:10 PM |
| 1 | To The Guys Who Don’t Kiss Or Flirt On Dates….That's a death sentence what dating coach says that?! I hope he's not charging money. What girl is going to go back your place if there's no flirting or sexual.tension? | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 07:34 PM |
| 2 | Where The Hell Are You Guys Finding These High Interest Women?"High intrest" women. Sounds like you're putting them on a pedestal. Don't do that. That would be the 1st thing really... | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Books on seduction?Alan roger currie is basically the man who invented cold approaching. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Books on seduction?You've had quite a few comments but it's with my hope that you .ake this number one choice as this book has changed my life. Alan Roger Currie - Mode One. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Best fitness-focused social places to meet women?Wtfs pickleball? | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 09:36 PM |
| 0 | How to express feelings without losing attraction?Sounds very femine "express feelings." I wouldn't express your feelings. I'd just protect your time and energy and make sure you're not getting messed around | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How many times a week should you go out with girls?None. Unless they're coming to fuck or she's someone you've already fuxked then don't waste your time. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 09:26 PM |
| 1 | How long yall waiting to text/call after cold approach? [FR]Doesn't matter to much as long as your not an over eager child approaching straight after. Do it whenever suits you a day or two later. Suppose it depends on the whole approach aswell | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 09:25 PM |
| 2 | How to approach a woman who’s in a group with other women?For the most part don't approach groups. You'll never get the most authentic and real version of the girl I a group. You coukd still approach if.its for boosting confidence purposes but I'd personally not approach unless they're on their own or no more than 2 | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Tiktok attention whores - are they worth the investment?Nope. No harm in messaging I suppose. But for the most part no there not | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Best fitness-focused social places to meet women?Well I agree its not so fun but obviously he's specifically mentioned fitness locations? | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 09:02 PM |
| 2 | How to sexualise it?Personally bro I wouldn't listen to the other comments just grab your balls and tell her you find her attractive and you wanna fuck. Say it in a cocky way. Cocky and seductive way. Promise you if you tell her you want to fuck she's think you've got giant balls which will probably attract her to you more(that is if she finds you attractive in the first place) | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 08:57 PM |
| 2 | How to sexualise it?Look at Alan Roger Curries stuff. There's a lot of false beliefs that harm men's ability to connect/get sex. If you make sex an awkward topic or worried about mentioning sex then it Will more than likely never get to it. Say "I wanna fuck you" if you have to | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 08:54 PM |
| 2 | How to sexualise it?Mention sex. Sounds like your cautious about mentioning sex to a girl otherwise you woukdnt be asling this. Don't be fooled by social programming girls love it when you talk about sex. Start by asking her to share your company some time this week. Then if she agrees to share your company let her know upfront your only looking to fuck and let the cards fall where they may. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 08:52 PM |
| 25 | Best fitness-focused social places to meet women?The gym duh. If you've got the balls to do it that is. I've never approached in the gym to be fair | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 08:48 PM |
| 2 | How do you make a girl feel that you are not only after her looks?Thank you couldn't if said it better. | /r/seduction | 04/10/25 07:25 AM |
| 2 | How do you make a girl feel that you are not only after her looks?Why would you want her to think that? Why would you pretend that you're not only interested in her looks? Stop pretending you're not trying to fuck her. Girls aren't stupid they know thst your trying to fuck so stop pretending. *Tell her what you're really thinking | /r/seduction | 04/10/25 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Tips for breaking the touch barrier?The tip is to not hide that your trying to fuck her, I guarantee you that if you stop trying to hide it you won't be in this problem ever again | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 09:58 PM |
| 1 | My crush suddenly went dry over text, what should I do?Don't sweat it. In the ideal world you should already have a few lined up.and you wouldn't be bothered. But the answer to your question, do nothing. Second u chase you've lost. Wait for her to get back to you. If she takes super long or days to reply or doesn't reply at all move on. | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Best Resources for Beginners?Mode one | /r/seduction | 09/09/25 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Girl flaked the first time — now she’s back. How do you play it?Quite simple really, I wouldn't bother with her again why treat yourself like second best. If ur considering going in the date then make her pay for the drinks.or whatever the date is. Go in with the attitude ok, I'll.see you but your getting the drinks this time seen as you bailed out on me last time. Personally I wouldn't go out with her bro it's desperate if she flaked she wasn't that interested to begin with | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 11:42 PM |
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