ModernAlphaAnswers Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Stop Wasting Potential Matches (Profile Mistakes)	Fundamentals	ModernAlphaAnswers	/r/seduction	28/06/24 09:57 AM

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0	The worst part about rejection I guarentee if I physically could watch how you approached a women, i'd know exactly what your problem is. Either it's your fashion style, your approach, your conversation skills, your confidence level, you approaching girls out of your league, you approaching girls at the wrong time etc... It can be so many factors and all of these can be improved upon but guessing your issue is like picking a needle out of a haystack. You need to stop making excuses if you want to succeed, i had to, and every …	/r/seduction	26/07/24 06:10 AM
1	How to become more mature Coming from someone that is naturally childish in my youth, to someone who everyone thinks is very mature, heres some good advice: -Don't laugh, smirk instead. -Don't laugh or smirk at your own jokes. -Don't give too much expression with your face. Keep a emotionless serious face but occassionally smirk. -Talk about topics that teenagers aren't interested in. -Always wear semi formal attire, black leather shoes/belt, tuck in your top, whether it be a dress shirt or a singlet. -Iron your clothes.…	/r/seduction	25/07/24 09:03 AM
0	Need witty answers for basic questions I attract women very easily and Im not witty. They're attracted to my cool, calm and collected demeanor. Stop thinking about being witty for basic questions, this is literally not how to get girls. Fix your demeanor, it's not attractive.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 08:58 AM
1	M20, A few days w/o contact, guide please. Thank you There are two guys. Talks to a girl for a few weeks and gains no date. Talks to a girl over a day or two over 5+ texts and then organises a date. Who do you think the girl respects more? Women want High Value Men, and no HVM will talk to a girl for weeks before getting a date. HVM talk to women over 5-10 texts over a couple days, sets up a date and then gets to know her in person. He doesn't have time to waste, and if she doesn't follow the program, guess what? She's replaced. Women all understa…	/r/seduction	25/07/24 08:51 AM
-2	The worst part about rejection This is a load of bullcrap. Rejection is an opportunity for you to learn from, if you don't bother watching approach videos and self reflecting on where you failed, that's your fault. If you are lazy expect lazy results.	/r/seduction	25/07/24 08:46 AM
34	Recently 27 years old and new. What are some good tips for someone who’s starting late? Go to the gym, build muscle, lose fat, upgrade your wardrobe to be semi-formal and is the right style/size for your physique, use cologne, shine your leather shoes, use a watch, wear a silver/gold/stainless steel ring or a cool bracelet etc. Get a fade haircut. Workout neck if you have a pencil neck. Approach women at different shopping centres, different gyms, read stoicism, study bodylanguage, confident speaking/body language and be positive. If you do all of this, you'll have no issues, but i…	/r/seduction	25/07/24 08:43 AM
1	The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it? "Don't try and sell food to someone that just ate." Understand seducing women is all about how confident she is, not her looks. If you approach a girl wearing a full set of cakeface makeup, giant fake lashses, hair all done up, very sexy dress, sexy shoes and is being constantly approached by men or stared at. Then of course, you'll have almost zero chance seducing her... So instead, never approach women that look their best, instead approach 10/10 women that have barely any makeup on, no fake l…	/r/seduction	25/07/24 08:35 AM
0	Losing a high interest girl due to playing it cool/inaction You're a newbie, keep practicing being hot/cold and eventually it pays off. There is an art to balancing this while maintaining interest. Pro tips: Smirk instead of laugh, act mature/serious yet slightly cheeky and focus being flirtatous with body language. Your goal is to keep her interest and feel like you're mysterious as if she wants to get to know you. This is the best way to retain a women's sexual desire.	/r/seduction	28/06/24 12:39 PM
1	Do you think someone could have woman having no job no house no car (being poor and not independent) It's possible but get a car at least brother. Don't make your life harder than it needs to be.	/r/seduction	28/06/24 12:29 PM
0	Stop Wasting Potential Matches (Profile Mistakes) This is true for some but most men can improve their apperance by at least +2 points with improvements on physique / fashion / understanding how to take a complimentary photo. If you go to the subreddit rating men's profiles, majority of them could get major improvements to look more attractive.	/r/seduction	28/06/24 12:24 PM
0	Am I A Bad Guy For Thinking This? Buddy you need a better profile.	/r/seduction	28/06/24 09:29 AM
0	Am I A Bad Guy For Thinking This? Thats crazy bro.	/r/seduction	28/06/24 09:29 AM
3	Field report. Advice wanted. Same advice as everyone, go to the gym every day for 1.5h and do cardio until you aren't obese. Your options increase by at least 20x if you simply lost fat. It's the biggest return of investment for girls.	/r/seduction	28/06/24 09:23 AM
1	Any luck on language exchange websites/apps? Chatting for a week? Bro why is it so difficult to ask her on a date within a couple days, simply ask when she's available after small talk for (casual date idea), if she is busy throw the ballin her court and move onto the next. Why waste time.	/r/seduction	28/06/24 09:20 AM
3	What do you do when the idea of a tinder date gets shot down If she gives one worded responses, she lost interest but there is nothing wrong saying "thats cool, when you're more free let me know and we'll sort out a date" then dont initiate contact again. Focus on women that show interest, it's a numbers game.	/r/seduction	28/06/24 09:19 AM
-1	Honesty Do first dates at bars, have a few drinks and it'll make you more confident with being flirtatious while making her more receptive.	/r/seduction	28/06/24 09:17 AM
1	How do I become absolutely magnetic? Instead of complaining, why not reflect on what is unattractive about yourself, then attempt to improve it, start with the easiest, fix your apperance through daily gym, fashion, hairstyle, cologne, then fix your charisma but researching and practicing in the mirror, and then after doing this consistently for 6 months start approaching women again and see if there is any difference. Yes i said 6 months of consistent effort. Girls don't fall off trees for average joes putting in barely any effort…	/r/seduction	28/06/24 09:16 AM
0	Meeting back up with ex If you watch chick flicks, read romance novels for women, the main character is always the same. He is cool, calm, collected, acts aloof, acts hot and cold but is never needy or gives too much attention. This is what you need to understand, all women are attracted to a certain type of man, and you were acting the opposite which is why she was forced to leave you, the fact she wants to see you again proves that you not giving her attention (due to breakup) causes her to like you, MEANING you were…	/r/seduction	27/06/24 01:00 PM
4	Today's Most Men Are Probably Doomed with No Solution I don't understand why people think like this, dating is simple it's not complicated rocket science, simply cold approaching is your LEAD generation, it generates an OPPORTUNITY for you to turn into a date, once on the date it's another OPPORTUNITY to build sexual attraction, the further dates are more OPPORTUNITIES to get laid or a girlfriend. Obviously each stage requires different set of skills to learn but cold approaching is the beginning stage. You aren't supposed to think you cold approac…	/r/seduction	27/06/24 10:04 AM
1	I'm going broke wine n' dining American girls just to get ghosted. Want to go overseas. Ever heard of a coffee date or hot chocolate date or drinks at a cheap bar before OP?	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:59 AM
1	The dating cultural differences between Miami and Toronto If you approach women in places near tons of bars/parties, they usually get approached a lot and have tons of makeup or wear sexualised outfits, expecting to get hit on or asked out. These women are similar to asking girls out in bars. Instead if you want to catch women off guard and get a nicer response, simply approach women that are in the shopping centre away from social gathering spots such as miami beach.	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:57 AM
1	Lack of women during Daygame? Large Shopping Centres.	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:52 AM
1	So tired of having great dates from dating apps and great interactions from cold approach. Just to get ghosted. I hate social circle but It’s my last option before becoming a passport bro. Any tips? Has Great dates Gets ghosted or friendzoned This isn't possible, if the date goes well she will want to go on another date. If the date doesnt go well she will not want another date, this is simply dating dynamics mathamatics. If the women pretends to enjoy the date and reject you when you're not around, what does this show you? It shows you that she is not comfortable being honest with you because she either pitys you or is scared of how you'll react if she's honest. You can definitely fix this…	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:51 AM
2	So tired of having great dates from dating apps and great interactions from cold approach. Just to get ghosted. I hate social circle but It’s my last option before becoming a passport bro. Any tips? You cannot say "i keep failing" then state you know why you're failing. This isn't an intelligent thought process, and if you want to improve with women, you need to use emotional intelligence and use common sense. Clearly if you're constantly having the issue of ghosting there is something you're doing wrong, a women doesn't think "OMG he's the perfect guy" then ghost him. Instead she will be polite, act like everythings good then ghost to avoid awkward conversations, women don't wanna get punc…	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:42 AM
1	If you aren’t hooking up on the first date are you doing something wrong It's not.	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:36 AM
4	Practical tips for getting over fear of rejection? This problem usually comes from a lack of acceptance of reality. The reality is that there are people that won't like you, women that will find you creepy and there is nothing you can do about it. No matter what you change, someone will not like you and that's okay. It's normal to not be liked by everyone, and crazy to expect everyone will like you. Understand approaching women to ask them on a date is perfectly normal in society, and it's only silly to think it's somehow wrong because "creepy".…	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:34 AM
1	How? Make her respect you.	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:28 AM
1	Question about daygame in college The focus on practicing daygame is to get used to having small talk / casual conversations with strangers, such as "Damn it's so hot today... Hey do you know where x is?..." etc. The more you do this, the better you'll sense when to ask ...We should grab a coffee with sometime, I know a great coffee place, whats your number?". Focus less on if you're creepy, remember there is nothing wrong with communicating with fellow locals in your city, and there is nothing wrong with inviting women out for …	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:28 AM
1	I have a date this weekend with a girl from tinder at the beach and then movies… Met her 2 days ago. How do I Escalate to smashing eventually? or at least physical touch not in a weird or cringy way Don't do a cinema date because it's extremely difficult to escalate physical attraction compared to other casual dates. Don't make the date too long otherwise it reduces the chance of her inviting you over to hers, or vise versa. Instead you should've invited her out for drinks at a nice chill bar, alchohol will help her be more comfortable as it's a sexual lubricant. OR if you wanted to play it safer, take her to have hot chocolate as it's a sexual enhancer and then invite her for drinks at a b…	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:19 AM
1	Why LOOKSMAXXING Will Get You NOWHERE! Both matter importantly, being lazy is focusing on one rather than both.	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:15 AM
1	How to ask a girl out over text? You should be asking girls out in person. If you cannot, ask her out over the phone. If you cannot, text her Tues-Weds with "You doing anything interesting on the weekend?".... If she says no respond with "I"m planning on grabbing a drink at this chill bar, you should join me, when are you free next?".....	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:12 AM
2	For those that used to suffer (or still suffer) from Oneitis, what was your mindset like? Oneitis is only about options. If you have zero options, don't approach girls, don't talk to girls (ones you're attracted to), then of course you will get Oneitis when you meet your ideals match. If you do the opposite, self improve on attraction, put in the work and approach women, then you'll not have Oneitis anymore after. It's not very complicated, it simply takes effort and you not being lazy about it for a consistent period of time (not 1 month only).	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:08 AM
1	Getting girls Very simple, approach women at your university and big shopping centres, approach 1-2 women a week. While doing this, get a gym membership, go daily and build some muscle and get some abs. Majority of austrlians hit the gym to get a summer body as summer is a main season here. Update your fashion wardrobe using instagram models as inspiration (ZARA is cheap/aesthetic), use cologne and iron your clothes. Most importantly put in the work, be consistent and don't make excuse. JUST DO IT!	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:04 AM
1	How do you approach girls despite anxiety? Share you conversational strategies and experiences Everyone goes through this, you need to start dropping your ego because the ego is what makes you feel anxious and overthink. It's thinking "what if she rejects me? Then it means i'm ugly, I don't want to be ugly!", "what if she rejects me, then people will laugh at me, then i'm a loser, I dont want to be a loser!" etc..... The Ego is what makes you find approaching difficult, instead you need to change your perspective. Tell yourself you need to approach for the experience, and you will get rej…	/r/seduction	27/06/24 08:01 AM
1	Hague / Rotterdam - looking for a wingman who knows the best places in town Obviously you don't have experience with cold approaching because you aren't doing it, obviously it's scary because everything new is scary. You need top stop going for the easiest approach (wingman), drop your ego and simply go cold approach for the experience. You can't expert someone to be an expert and confident without doing mistakes, those mistakes are what make it less scary and you more confident. What i recommend is do some hobbies such as gaining muscle, losing fat, reading stoicism, d…	/r/seduction	27/06/24 07:56 AM
1	Queer woman here, how do I avoid the friend zone (through text) when speaking with a woman that is into me but doesn’t flirt? It's very simple if you follow standard dating practices, regardless of gender. You ask her if she's busy on the weekend, if she says no, mention "I'm planning to grab a drink at this chill lounge bar some night, you should join me sometime. When are you free?", if she thinks you two are going as friends, she'll ask if anyone else is going, to which you respond "That sounds fun, but i'm thinking of only you and me, so when are you free?" say so with a slight smirk while giving direct eye contact…	/r/seduction	27/06/24 07:53 AM
1	Should I ask this tall woman out? She is like 6’3 or more and I am 5’5 If you're going to ask her out, do so in a casual way that doesn't cause any potential issues in your workplace. Next time you see her in the middle of the week, ask if she has any fun plans on the weekend, if she says no tell her "I've been meaning to go to this chill bar in the city, you should join me sometime, when are you free next?" and see what she'll say. Based on her reaction respond appropriately. If she denys you know she's not interested and you leave it be, if she agrees and smiles …	/r/seduction	27/06/24 07:44 AM
1	Why do women ghost after giving great vibes before hanging out? It could be anything OP but if 17/20 dates don't flake, and only 3 flake, understand it's a numbers game and sometimes people fake for various reasons. If you want to prevent getting annoyed by this, talk to the women less on text and focus on using text to arrange date, touch base in middle of week (open-closed text) and then confirm the day before on a call. The less you text/call between dates, the more mystery, interest you build, as well as reducing the chance you say something that turns h…	/r/seduction	27/06/24 07:41 AM
2	Friend zoned If you are getting the first date, it means they see potential in you as a romantic partner. If you aren't getting a second date it means that you're doing something wrong in that date, which turns the women off. You need to ask yourself, what are you doing wrong on those dates? On the dates are you being more similar to James Bond or Mr Rodgers Or Michael Scott etc? (google image them if u dnno). You need to identify what you're doing that could be turning them off, then tell us and ask for adv…	/r/seduction	27/06/24 07:28 AM
1	How could I screw this up... Game is a skill, sometimes we're not on our A Game and we do mistakes, be a winner and learn from the mistake and think about what you'd do differently next time. Don't beat yourself up for making a mistake, it's how we learn.	/r/seduction	27/06/24 07:25 AM