ModernManLevi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
28	What's the best and worst thing Red Pill has taught you?		ModernManLevi	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/21 01:00 AM
12	Own your flaws and turn them into your greatest assets	Inner Game	ModernManLevi	/r/seduction	05/03/21 02:34 PM
2	Got questions, need some advice? I'd be happy to help		ModernManLevi	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/21 12:04 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	MGTOW are hyper focused on the minutia of affairs of women, FDS for their faults have some perspective - the crux of the problem with redpill ideals Then I don't know what the author of my source was up to. Thanks, I'll give them a read.	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/21 01:48 PM
1	MGTOW are hyper focused on the minutia of affairs of women, FDS for their faults have some perspective - the crux of the problem with redpill ideals Interesting. I read a different study. At work right now, I'll try finding it when I get home.	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/21 11:33 AM
-2	MGTOW are hyper focused on the minutia of affairs of women, FDS for their faults have some perspective - the crux of the problem with redpill ideals Yes, but then you're talking about marriage. I'm talking about way back when marriage wasn't the thing it has been for the past few thousand years; the hunter-gatherer time. Obviously polygamy is less of a thing in marriages because there's a trade-off happening in our minds. Most people will have had interests or crushes outside of relationships at some point in their lives. However there's also a lot of value in the relationship. So you choose not to indulge. Of course, relationships and marri…	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/21 10:36 AM
3	MGTOW are hyper focused on the minutia of affairs of women, FDS for their faults have some perspective - the crux of the problem with redpill ideals They should actually blame society's detrimental views on romance and relationships. The most valid critique Red Pill offers to me is the fact that we've been taught the wrong things about relationships. Maybe it's the Disney-era (read that somewhere and liked the concept). Sure, people cheat. But science has shown that, before our current 'monogamous' world, societies actually were mostly polygamous. To the tune of 82%! It's human nature, but we've been taught differently. It's like asking a da…	/r/ExRedPill	18/03/21 08:42 AM
2	Your opinion on some RedPill texting game strategies Red pill thinks attraction is some sort of equation which can be solved. Sure, there's an equation, but it starts with not looking at romance with a logical mind.	/r/ExRedPill	17/03/21 01:48 PM
3	Just have fun and stop overthinking it Haha this is exactly my point with dating coaches. "Just stop worrying" - worst advice ever for someone that has no reference with that frame of mind. It'll only make them doubt themselves more and more.	/r/seduction	17/03/21 10:43 AM
3	Anyone else cringe at red pill terminology Anyone seen the RP terminology on insta? Shit went mainstream or sth	/r/ExRedPill	15/03/21 03:08 PM
2	Felt hold back because of my employees to ask for number Sowieso! Denk dat je personeel er alleen maar respect voor kan hebben dat je dat doet en jezelf 'op de markt zet', om maar even on vaktermen te praten ;-)	/r/seduction	14/03/21 08:48 AM
2	Felt hold back because of my employees to ask for number Haha yoo, zolang je het niet elke week doet en het op een manier weet te doen waarbij elke partij zich fijn voelt - oftewel, de vrouw in kwestie zich op haar gemak voelt - zullen ze het niet zo heel erg vinden. Het is maar 1 minuut van je tijd en iedereen heeft begrip voor romantiek. Go get 'em vriend!	/r/seduction	14/03/21 01:00 AM
2	I approached a girl today If you feel ready, include making plans in the game plan. Talk about getting a coffee someday. Then you'll have a legit reason for getting her number, to fine tune the details with her!	/r/seduction	13/03/21 09:35 PM
5	How do I get out of the Black Pill Mindset. Hey man, good questions. While obviously some people (men and women) value extrinsic factors like money, a rock hard body and status, this'll be just a small amount. Most people are attracted to a certain mindset, let's call it your emotional blueprint. It's all related to your subjective well-being. You can be fat and date. It doesn't have to do with you being fat, but it has to do with what you think of you being fat. Do you feel you're too fat to find love? Or too poor? Yes, then you'll be ha…	/r/ExRedPill	13/03/21 08:43 PM
7	The Loophole That Makes Women Start Chasing You More so, in the dating world you're both the buyer and the seller. Just make it a good balance and most people will be fine.	/r/seduction	12/03/21 09:48 AM
1	What does working on yourself or having yourself together mean Having your shit together doesn't mean that you don't have to ask anyone for anything. That's closer to being really independent. Looks cool, but you're also an island that doesn't let other people help him out when necessary. Having your shit together means that you're happy with the way you run your life. That can mean anything to anyone. As long as you're happy with the way you run it, you've got yourself together. And here's the thing why it matters so much: when you got this down you'll be …	/r/ExRedPill	11/03/21 11:51 AM
11	Why you shouldn’t care about those who left you The best advice is in the comments this time. Also, it's okay to feel sad. More so, it's better to really feel your emotions and have a big cry, than trying not to think about it and distract yourself. But do remember that she wasn't the one. Because if she were, you'd both go the distance and work it out.	/r/seduction	11/03/21 11:20 AM
3	The talk of “dropping frame” says red pill to me. Is this really how red pill guys think? Why does the concept of giving pleasure not factor in? Why such a zero-sum game mindset? 'Tis the way ♥️	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/21 10:43 PM
9	These Dudes Clowns So much for "the manosphere": bullying other men to feel good about yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/21 10:15 PM
8	The talk of “dropping frame” says red pill to me. Is this really how red pill guys think? Why does the concept of giving pleasure not factor in? Why such a zero-sum game mindset? "Licking coochie is worse than cocaine" coincidentally is also Freud's motto, seeing as he loved cocaïne so fucking much.	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/21 10:06 PM
21	The talk of “dropping frame” says red pill to me. Is this really how red pill guys think? Why does the concept of giving pleasure not factor in? Why such a zero-sum game mindset? Hahaha, must be a hard life to live when you equate giving someone pleasure to giving up your manhood. I'd like to propose a different philosophy to live by: "Be a man and suck that clit."	/r/ExRedPill	10/03/21 08:05 PM
2	How should I do this? Yea definitely.	/r/seduction	10/03/21 10:57 AM
1	How should I do this? Yea. That way you can keep this 'our little secret' and it doesn't affect either of you. You can do it this way, or you can walk up to her window when she's already in the car. It's a private matter that calls for a private conversation know what I mean?	/r/seduction	10/03/21 10:34 AM
2	How should I do this? Are you familiar with no biggie (or low-key) energy? It's a very relaxed and no-pressure energy, which can help you in this situation. In this case you wanna isolate her, which is actually a good instinct. "Hey I wanna ask you something. Only takes a sec or 2 :)"	/r/seduction	10/03/21 10:32 AM
2	How should I do this? Keep me updated boss ;-)	/r/seduction	09/03/21 11:57 PM
18	Husband redpilled, or at least he thinks he is...help? I'd have an emotional talk with him about his emotions. Are you happy? You seem unsatisfied. Why aren't you happy? And go from there.	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/21 11:47 PM
2	I've watched bunch of alpha male/ redpill videos just to realize those are either scams or just something neckbeards who flex on r/asktrp like to watch. Hahah, for 1) because the studies are debunked, and 2) we're actually closer to bonobo. As a society we can learn a lot from them.	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/21 11:15 PM
5	How should I do this? You could ask her when you're done bathing and are walking to the car together for example.	/r/seduction	09/03/21 12:42 PM
6	How should I do this? Lmao	/r/seduction	09/03/21 12:42 PM
2	Why do women get put off by insecurity in men Alright, fair's fair. I can tell you tho that I'm doing this because I like helping out people and would like to sign off with my name to both give my comments a personal touch, and to get people familiar with my account. So no, no feelings of insecurity or grandeur!	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/21 10:42 AM
4	Why do women get put off by insecurity in men Honestly, instead of bashing semantics on a well-intentioned post, it wouldn't be a bad idea for you to focus your efforts on putting something constructive on the table yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/21 09:58 AM
1	Why do women get put off by insecurity in men Ooh, you're a feisty fuck. I like it	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/21 08:31 AM
10	Why do women get put off by insecurity in men Great fucking example to illustrate my comment. My call-out had to be done. I even don't really believe in masculine or feminine energy. Both energies mean the same thing: that they radiate life energy. Only thing that separates masculine from feminine energy is the fact that I have a dick and balls while you have boobs and a vagina.	/r/ExRedPill	09/03/21 12:20 AM
32	Why do women get put off by insecurity in men Yo man, few things. 1) femininity is not the same as insecurity. 2) we men are roughly the same. It all depends on what kind of insecurity it is and at what point in the relationship you are. If you're expressing abandonment issues in the first month of the relationship, that's rough, man. If it's insecurities about the prospect of a job offer, or lay-offs, that's better. So you see, it really depends on what kind of insecurities we're talking about. Furthermore, it depends on how you express th…	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/21 07:56 PM
1	Study suggests that not knowing how to flirt is the main reason behind involuntary singlehood. Exactly. Might hurt at first, but it beats having to guess from others' expressions.	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/21 03:45 PM
3	Study suggests that not knowing how to flirt is the main reason behind involuntary singlehood. For the person who downvoted this: just try it. I did, and it helped me tremendously in understanding how I come across to other people. Gives you important feedback which you can use to calibrate your signals.	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/21 09:30 AM
1	4 reasons why working on yourself and improving your lifestyle is the best thing you can do to improve your social skills. It's all about getting in season. I don't go to the gym, I'm a skinny bitch. It also doesn't matter what job you have or how much money you make. The only thing that matters is that you love your life and yourself. Big disagree on the communication part, though. Communication is not only talking and listening, but also projecting and reading body language. It's the single most important tool in your toolbox. Master it, especially reading other people, and it'll be thing that'll help you get laid…	/r/seduction	08/03/21 08:18 AM
2	Study suggests that not knowing how to flirt is the main reason behind involuntary singlehood. Practise in front of a camera ;-)	/r/ExRedPill	08/03/21 07:48 AM
2	Invited over to a girls house as a first date - do’s and don’ts? Ask her what kind off wine she likes tho. For real. Else you're bringing a bottle of stuff she doesn't like and then you can't enjoy it together.	/r/seduction	07/03/21 01:08 PM
3	A argument for the next time someone says "looks is all that matter" And to add, looks is more than just a pretty face. Decently fit body (doesn't even have to be muscled), decent clothes, good grooming help a lot. I'll say it: cook the fuck out of your dish ;-)	/r/ExRedPill	06/03/21 06:06 PM
1	Got questions, need some advice? I'd be happy to help For me, the camera is more about calibrating my emotional compass. If you copy, you become fake. You can learn techniques and witty lines, but you can't force yourself to say them. No, camerawork is for connecting to your emotions and understanding yourself better. This way I've been able to come really close to my core, and thus have become very authentic always. By the way, I fucking love Al Pacino. However, that's the olden days. In our modern western world we're focusing on discovering our i…	/r/ExRedPill	06/03/21 05:55 PM
3	My tinder date turned out to be taller than me. This is exactly what I talked about in my post from yesterday, own your shit. Good report brother.	/r/seduction	06/03/21 12:48 PM
1	Got questions, need some advice? I'd be happy to help Fair fair, although it's good to be reminded how bad you look when trp, might help you not to slip back. Now on to your question. They should actually be called volcels, because they do it voluntarily because they're not strong enough to understand that their attitudes might be what's holding them back. Funny you mention Aspergers; I've been diagnosed with it when I was about 11. Nowadays, it's closer to ADD, but most people I met were shocked when I told them I have that diagnosis. What's helpe…	/r/ExRedPill	06/03/21 11:39 AM
4	What's the best and worst thing Red Pill has taught you? Emotions are sexy, when you're in control of 'em. Red Pill is like the little boy hitting the girl or pulling her tails because he likes her.	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/21 11:53 PM
3	What's the best and worst thing Red Pill has taught you? I think the way to go about your 'worst', is to assume trust, but know how to deal with the bad stuff all the while being able to not let the bad stuff get to you too much. They should actually implement meditation and resilience building.	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/21 06:38 PM
2	Own your flaws and turn them into your greatest assets Honestly, in those situations they need to look into diet, mental health or both. I'm very prone to seasonal affective disorder, and when I'm down I have insecurities as well that I normally don't have. Same goes for a shit diet. But yea, I'm baffled too sometimes by really likeable people not being confident in themselves.	/r/seduction	05/03/21 03:52 PM
3	Own your flaws and turn them into your greatest assets Haha shit. When I'm in the mood to write it down! This one was a spur-of-the moment type post that I felt had to be touched upon in seddit. You'll get it, I'll take some time this weekend.	/r/seduction	05/03/21 03:00 PM
6	What's the best and worst thing Red Pill has taught you? Good point. To elaborate, Red Pill is like Nice Guys 2.0. Better determination and physical health, but still creating covert contracts: "great man, you WILL respect me." And of course, in both genders there's people who suck at love. Although I'm starting to think men might be worse at it than women.	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/21 12:43 PM
4	What's the best and worst thing Red Pill has taught you? Fair fair, people cheat. Men more than women. And certain personalities and life situations more than others. There's two ways to go about it though in my perspective: we can stop getting into relationships altogether, or still do it because relationships provide us with a lot of value. When you choose the latter, there's again 2 ways of dealing with infidelity: becoming the best version of yourself so that you'll find a partner that's highly compatible with you, and accepting the nature that it…	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/21 12:40 PM
1	What's the best and worst thing Red Pill has taught you? Blackpill is even worse, I'm lucky I didn't get that far in. Did I really need red pill to figure this out? It's amazing how driven people can get when they get into war-mode. That's why some people like it; it finally gives them a purpose. Sad to see you're not doing well getting away from these disfunctional thoughts. How come you keep holding on when you know they're wrong?	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/21 11:33 AM
6	What's the best and worst thing Red Pill has taught you? Definitely, although I eventually came to find shit tests are basically 'vibing' with each other. If you're in vibe, you've got good energy and you'll pass 'em with flying colours.	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/21 10:06 AM
0	It's Okay if you don't bang 100 girls. Summary: determine your goals.	/r/seduction	05/03/21 09:38 AM
4	What's the best and worst thing Red Pill has taught you? Good perspective. Were you in deep?	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/21 09:29 AM
12	What's the best and worst thing Red Pill has taught you? Right on the money. It makes me sad that men fall prey to this damaging ideology every day. Happy we're out of it brother.	/r/ExRedPill	05/03/21 09:28 AM
2	College aged girls are a tough crowd. Biggest commandment: read well before you sell. Learning how to read people properly is the single most valuable tool in your Outer Game toolbox. I remember one night many years ago when 2 girls entered my student flat's pub, I spotted them from the confines of the smoking room, and told my friends: the brown-haired one is taken, the blonde one is single. Turned out to be exactly on the money. Learning how to read people properly is so damn important, because it helps you calibrate whether you'r…	/r/seduction	05/03/21 09:26 AM
7	Only use texting to set up a date. Was just about to comment on this falsely perpetuated advice. Of course, don't go and have books of conversation on text, you talk in person. But a bit of banter to screen and spike the mood helps tremendously if you know how to do it.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 12:45 PM
1	I feel like i forgot how to flirt Yo, question: did you have game at 18?	/r/seduction	04/03/21 08:35 AM
27	5 Hard truths I’ve learned about game after 13 years of practice. Are you my aunt	/r/seduction	04/03/21 07:56 AM
1	You’re taking everything too seriously That's actually why I made this account 2 weeks ago. Being active in these subs and helping people. Eventually I'll probably move on to some vids to help people understand what emotions and what states of mind I'm in, and how to get there. I wish everyone in the world would understand this. The world would be so much better.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 07:54 AM
1	You’re taking everything too seriously I remember my ex telling me she was so amazed by the fact that I didn't take her to bed immediately when we went on a 2nd date and ended up at my place. Instead I liked her musical taste, so we ended up listening to music and talking about life for a few hours before going to bed and having sex. Learning to understand that no one owes you shit, and that enjoyment of the interaction comes first, I've been able to let go of pressure to perform, and instead take my time - the right amount - to buil…	/r/seduction	04/03/21 07:47 AM
2	Being nervous is ATTRACTIVE (and why it is) + Examples True, only fake it if you know how to pull it off. For example if you're trying some new way of flirting. But my personal approach is compliant with you: I stay very close to myself, and improve from there. Always being authentic.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 07:31 AM
2	You’re taking everything too seriously Only thing is that's it's hard to get there just from reading this advice. Anyone reading this, get the fuck in front of the camera and film yourself practising this and understanding your appearance, or get a coach to help you work through it.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 07:23 AM
5	You’re taking everything too seriously Are you me? These are literally my key talking points. View women as people, learn to have playful, low-key energy, and understand enthusiastic consent. Nothing to add. -Levi	/r/seduction	04/03/21 07:18 AM
2	Got questions, need some advice? I'd be happy to help Yes and no. Of course every philosophy has some aspects that are good. There's a lot of turmoil in the world with the emancipation movement, that sometimes takes extreme forms as in extreme feminists. However, alt-right is first and foremost a counter-movement. My biggest problem with the movement is indeed that it's mostly white men giving their opinions on every matter possible, and excluding other viewpoints in the matter. Think the IDW. All white, lots of misinformed arguments that pander mo…	/r/ExRedPill	03/03/21 02:49 PM
1	Should you chase...ever? Looking forward to your stories, go get 'em.	/r/seduction	03/03/21 10:02 AM
1	Wht does it mean when a girl says - first time when i saw you - you were kinda looking like my ex ! Haha ooff, it's very situation specific. I'll work with the 'her touching you': "Touch me again and I'll touch you back" "Stop touching me, I'm a virgin!" (haha okay this is a personal throwback to a weird internetguy in my home country) But in all fairness, keep it light, low-key and playful. Bring up the topic of you two in this relaxed way. And, keep me updated! Save/follow me and reach out any time.	/r/seduction	02/03/21 09:20 PM
1	Wht does it mean when a girl says - first time when i saw you - you were kinda looking like my ex ! What kind of questions?	/r/seduction	02/03/21 07:41 PM
1	Wht does it mean when a girl says - first time when i saw you - you were kinda looking like my ex ! He might've cheated on her, but she was also attracted to him. That's why it's usually not bad to look like an ex if you play your cards right. She's a bag of mixed signals tho, I agree. Best thing would be to just ask, playfully, what she wants. "Hey, since we're practically in a relationship already, when do we get to the relationship part?" If I were you, get some clarity. Because if she doesn't want to, every day wasted thinking 'what if and might' could be spent connecting to other girls.	/r/seduction	02/03/21 05:41 PM
1	Wht does it mean when a girl says - first time when i saw you - you were kinda looking like my ex ! I'd ask her if she wants me to take it as a compliment or not. If yes, I'd ask her why she rejected me back then. Playful styles, goes without saying ;-). From there, I got enough info to make up my mind about her position now and adjust accordingly. -Levi	/r/seduction	02/03/21 04:42 PM
2	Should you chase...ever? Damn my dude, that's some body to work with! I'm a patented Skinny Bitch myself - just like my favourite drink ;-). Online is really just a numbers game. It's like being a sales coldcaller, fishing for prospects. That's why I laugh away any attempt of my brain to fantasize about people I've never met. And yea, so you're not shy per se, just in the dating part. Fear of being rejected as that feels like a devaluation of your status, I'm assuming. If this is the case, you should get it through your…	/r/seduction	02/03/21 11:06 AM
1	Should you chase...ever? Oh yea, about social media: I never add tinder matches until after a date. And I try not to use social media as a way to flirt with someone I met irl. Becsuse usually it doesn't work when I didn't flirt with her in person the first time. No worries man, everyone's got their own style and pace. I, for example, do way better in less crowded spaces. Not with all girls, but yes, if you're aware enough, you can with most. It's a shame men don't get taught this, because flirting is a hell of a lot mor…	/r/seduction	02/03/21 02:43 AM
1	Should you chase...ever? Hahah brings back some memories man. It happens, especially when you're younger and less experience, it'll fade though. Best thing I can tell you is that you start being aware of this happening, and then laugh it away and go do something to focus your mind on something else. Eventually you'll stop doing it. IOIs: brushing her hair, looking away, her going out of her way to strike up a conversation, laughing at your dumb jokes, touching you, looking at you when the whole group is laughing at some…	/r/seduction	02/03/21 02:03 AM
1	I want to get back into the game but I really feel like I haven’t got a chance. Could I have some advice. Fair, but let me ask you this: were they always that good or have they refined their skills? Probably the latter. You might be shy, but there's a reason for that. You're inexperienced. You know what? That's actually your opener right there: "Hey it's MK! I'm a bit shy because I'm not used to girls with moves this baller.." What I'm trying to get at, is: you feel inferior because you feel that you have to be at the level of the other guys. You not being experienced and your shyness make you feel …	/r/seduction	02/03/21 01:54 AM
3	I want to get back into the game but I really feel like I haven’t got a chance. Could I have some advice. Alright. From what you're telling me I see that you're mostly struggling with anxiety and confidence issues surrounding dating, so that's the area we're going to focus on. Girls have gone out with you, and they've also flirted with and kissed you. So at the very least you're not Smeagol ;-). I'd like to assess some aspects of your inner game. What kinds of anxieties and confidence issues do you experience when you get nervous? Is it something like "I'm too skinny", or, more emotional, "I'm weird…	/r/seduction	01/03/21 10:51 PM
2	I want to get back into the game but I really feel like I haven’t got a chance. Could I have some advice. Can you give us some examples of where you seem to get stuck in the dating process? Stuff you're saying, things they're saying and the likes. -Levi	/r/seduction	01/03/21 09:42 PM
3	Should you chase...ever? No biggie! He's damn right. Problem with lots of people - not only men, women too - is overthinking. Our minds are damn powerful, but sometimes get in the way and then we build up an idealised image of a person which makes it that much more important to woo that person, of course diminishing the chances of actually making that happen. IOI is an oldskool pickup abbreviation meaning "Indicators Of Interest". Basically, learn to be really aware. Which is nice, because being aware requires you to be…	/r/seduction	01/03/21 07:59 PM
1	The key to BOUNDARIES! Definitely.	/r/seduction	01/03/21 06:05 PM
1	The key to BOUNDARIES! I love calling out people on their shit tho. Their reaction to you calling them out can tell you everything. Is she maybe nervous and socially awkward as a result, or is she really a bitch and not your type. Great way to size someone up and act accordingly. And OP, if you're reading this: you already had a gut feeling beforehand. Listen to it next time and you'll be alright	/r/seduction	01/03/21 05:02 PM
2	Should you chase...ever? To be honest, that's why I've learned to keep calm until after the first date went well. Being too eager in the beginning can be overwhelming for the other when they don't feel the same, or when they're not sure yet. Also, I've had women be too eager with me and I was like "go away". It's all about tuning into each other. I'm a big fan of expressing that I like someone when I feel that way. They can either tune in or tune out. I have low-key energy though. I keep it light, so that they don't fee…	/r/seduction	01/03/21 04:50 PM
5	Inner Game WISDOM from the Greats A great quote that lays bare the differences in perspective between men that know, or don't know, how to bed a woman. For me it's usually a "does she excite me enough to get off my lazy ass and invest energy?" ;-) -Levi	/r/seduction	01/03/21 04:38 PM
4	Been feeling depressed all day about not getting a girl that was into me last night Hey man, for the first time you've had a great conversation with a girl without feeling stifled! Fucking gloat you magnificent bastard ;-). The only thing I thought while reading your post is, this man's made some good progress. Sure, you can feel sad about the fact that you didn't get with her (I'm assuming), but transform that emotion and practise feeling grateful that you had a nice conversation and that she made you feel a certain way. You've had this feeling once now, and you'll experience …	/r/seduction	01/03/21 01:50 AM
1	Reading this sub sometimes make things seem overcomplicated while dating. I get what you mean, having been one time and having the same experience. For me it all boils down to the teaching and motivating qualities some people have. I met an older guy last year who became my mentor for a few months (I consulted him on a project of mine, still friends) who was and still is amazing and inspiring to talk to. One of those people that lift you up just by being around them. There aren't many like that though.	/r/seduction	28/02/21 07:05 PM
1	Reading this sub sometimes make things seem overcomplicated while dating. Sure, of course it's all on the interwebs already. However, in-person teaching has benefits beyond knowledge alone. Human interaction, mentorship and a second set of eyes to help you where you struggle. It's of course a big step to take, just like going to a psychologist, because you'll have to come eye to eye with your insecurities and face them. Not an easy feat for no one.	/r/seduction	28/02/21 06:48 PM
1	Reading this sub sometimes make things seem overcomplicated while dating. Disagree a lot. Except if you're hyper self-aware, a student can always learn from a good teacher. There's different ways to go about different goals and experiences. But as with anything: only do something if you believe it will help you. You don't, so don't do it.	/r/seduction	28/02/21 06:33 PM
3	Reading this sub sometimes make things seem overcomplicated while dating. Definitely. Although I mention the numbers in a different way, of course dating coaching is meant to help men become better at communicating with women and getting actual results is the core of the journey. I like to get men to first reach the average amount of bed partners before getting into a relationship because this will 1) teach them to learn how to flirt and to learn their likes and dislikes, and 2) will get them at least over the fear of being an incel ;-)	/r/seduction	28/02/21 06:07 PM
3	A YouTuber that gave me hope Pickup overcomplicates things so much. Most guys just need to unlearn some detrimental perspectives, relax, and focus on building positive interactions with the people around them! -Levi	/r/seduction	28/02/21 05:23 PM
1	I'm shy and trying to start dating but can't approach anyone. There's a lot of places where we can start to assess your situation. I generally don't focus on outer game because I believe that we already have a lot of subconscious knowledge ingrained from films, television and from the people in our lives. Inner game is where it's at. So first of all, the most important thing is to learn how to get "in season": meaning that you feel comfortable in your body and soul, basically you feel 'hot'. In order to get there, let's focus on the mental and physical fir…	/r/seduction	28/02/21 04:46 PM
8	Reading this sub sometimes make things seem overcomplicated while dating. The thing I like the least is the extreme focus on numbers and the player ideal that lots of pickup businesses promote. Most people don't need 200+ girls on their list and just want to learn enough to be able to attract the women they find cute. Besides that, making things overly complicated by hammering on outer game has a way of making people feel they need to be perfect and thus builds flirting up to an immensely stressful ordeal while it actually should be about fun and exploring wonderful n…	/r/seduction	28/02/21 04:37 PM
1	after I started dating women I begin to understand why I was wrong and why redpill is bullshit. Elliott Hulse refused to wear masks. Not because he did or didn't agree with the science of masks, but because he was a man and made his stance on masks known and didn't want to change his view regardless of actual science. That's a prime example of toxic masculinity. Not opening up out of fear for being judged: toxic masculinity too. It is also me thinking I have to be a player to be of value. Or shaming women for body count while at the same time wanting to have sex with lots of women. TRP oft…	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/21 12:55 PM
1	Idk what to think anymore Have a good one mate. -Levi	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/21 10:23 PM
1	Idk what to think anymore It's not about right or wrong! I meant to say that it helps me a lot when I try and analyse the situation, it's calming to me. And I forgot Dutch sayings can be blunt. Sorry bro.	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/21 09:48 PM
3	Idk what to think anymore Where two people fight, two are to blame. We have this saying in the Netherlands. Or, similarly: "theres three truths: yours, theirs, and what really happened." it's a really helpful reminder if you're a person that's prone to blame themselves for a breakup. Or if someone like to blame the other person fully. Helps keep me level-headed when I go through rough patches myself! -Levi	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/21 07:30 PM
2	Idk what to think anymore Some people hurt but don't show it. I tell people to do what I do: assess the situation from all sides, make notes on what I can do better next time, and accept that the blame lies somewhere in the middle. Take some time to be heartbroken and to get over her - writing helps me. You'll get there again. -Levi	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/21 04:20 PM
0	Random thought: Where did all the good men go? Agree one hundred percent. Stop resisting, step up and adapt to the modern world. -Levi	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/21 04:15 PM
5	Idk what to think anymore This is a great answer OP! I'm very good at attracting women I like when I'm in a great place, but I've struggled with unstable mental health which makes stuff not work sometimes.. Your mental health can really affect the other person's satisfaction with the relationship as you're not fully able to connect with them. Same goes for the other person, so your mental health can actually trigger hers and vice versa. Hating on your ex if perfectly fine, especially because of the way she handled it, in…	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/21 12:30 PM
18	Random thought: Where did all the good men go? Women want someone that loves themselves and life. A joie de vivre that radiates and is insanely attractive. Loving yourself also means being open about who you are, what you've experienced, the mistakes you make and the things you've learned from them. Macho's are boring, and unsurprisingly not good at making a strong emotional connection. -Levi	/r/ExRedPill	26/02/21 11:21 AM
12	Random thought: Where did all the good men go? Toxic masculinity is an interesting phenomenon in that it can have a hold over someone, but it prevents the person from doubting that masculinity as the very act of doubting one's beliefs clashes with the core principles of toxic masculinity: "I'm a man and I know my truth and no one can make me doubt my truth." And, besides that, toxic masculinity instils a believe that men are fundamentally different than women. Meanwhile, the real masculinity lies within the acceptance that men and women ar…	/r/ExRedPill	26/02/21 11:04 AM