ModernPolygamy Archive

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1	Mathematically speaking, if there aren’t enough high value men to date what will the “average woman” do? I think that "high value" will have to be shaken out for both men and women. It absolutely does not mean only money, particularly if you are talking about marriage and family. Going from here, once a certain threshold of money and looks is met then personal outlook, morals, world view, capabilities, and stability rule. My view is that what people place value on to determine what is "high value" is adjusting rapidly. For many women, a good man that loves her and can/will support and protect her a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 08:37 PM
1	Humans are not naturally monogamous and the proof is absurdly simple As a polygamist, I would have to disagree. There is natural instinct and choice involved with monogamy or polygamy. It entirely depends on the individual. Some people (male or female) are much more fulfilled in a polygamous relationship, while other people could only be happy in a monogamous relationship. What you use to argue the case ("cheating on their SO, engaging in open relationships") I would argue represent people not built for a committed relationship, whether it be monogamous or polyga…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/11/21 12:38 AM
1	How to heal from an unexpected breakup and embrace being single? If you can take some time off and go on a little trip somewhere beautiful to just be by yourself, think, and ponder the issues that you feel you've been tripping on....why they are a thing for you, what you are fearing, why you are fearing it, what he did that brought them out or made them better, etc. it could really be therapeutic. Maybe things work with the 2 of you, maybe not. Either way, giving yourself the space (and different surroundings) can help you change your approach and understandi…	/r/RedPillWomen	20/10/21 02:15 PM
3	I feel so behind in comparison to the other girls my age This is a great reply.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/10/21 02:08 PM
2	What can I bring on the table other than sex? Be his refuge, comfort, support, and shelter from the storm of the world. The same way that he keeps it off of you, he needs a place to recharge that is always comforting, loving, and supportive. Common interests are important, but it's really for the "important" things....views for the future, how and where you want to live your lives, major political viewpoints and views of the world, etc. Most guys would like it if you shared at least some interest in his "guy things" but we don't expect thos…	/r/RedPillWomen	16/10/21 08:34 PM
13	What can I bring on the table other than sex? The value of exactly that is severely underrated.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/10/21 08:33 PM
2	(please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case? Eh, I'm really sorry to hear that. I would definitely want to see an ultrasound of everything I could. A good ultrasound tech can spot oddities really well or put your mind at ease. It may also be worth trying some anti-inflammatory herbs just as an experiment to see if it changed anything, and possibly chamomile tea to flush out more lining faster, as it may speed up returning to normal. I wish you the best, and do think you should talk about your concerns with your fiance. It will feel good if…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/21 02:28 PM
1	(please no discourse) My periods have been seriously messed up since getting the jab. How can I get my fertility tested/measured before I marry, just in case? It may not be something you can test for, given the likely cause. I mean, if that is the cause then what is causing it is entirely non-standard so you could assume any standard approach is going to tell you anything. That said, I think you would just have to let things settle. Odds are that it's a transient issue and months or years down the road you would be likely to return to normal and, if not, that would be a much more dependable time to try to chase it down. For the angle, I would be curio…	/r/RedPillWomen	14/10/21 01:35 PM
15	Do most straight men ogle at other women and/or watch porn? A healthy guy will notice and maybe admire, just as you would admire anything beautiful. For a guy worth marrying, it would never cross his mind to pursue other women or go beyond admiring what he sees if he is in a good relationship. (please note the 'if') Looking does not mean he would trade an ounce of what he has.	/r/RedPillWomen	23/09/21 05:13 AM
25	Why Do Men Prefer Younger Women? My wife is 8 years younger than me, so I can speak about that much age gap. We got together when she was 18, married when she was 19, and have been together for over a decade now (with kids). For me, I wasn't "looking" for someone younger. And honestly, I don't think a lot of guys open to something serious are...it just kind of happens. The reality of the matter was that at 18 she was more mature than most 30 year olds. That was hugely appealing to me. Which, from the perspective of a guy gettin…	/r/RedPillWomen	03/09/21 06:43 PM
2	I don't understand why he left My money would be on him getting back with his ex, or never having been apart in the first place. Not you, just a strange duck. Try not to let it get to you for the next guy that might not be.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/09/21 05:31 PM
1	How can i be a redpill woman if my job is in the sex/p0rn field? If I could interject as a man... As you go through these worries in your head, remember that there is a HUGE difference between physical contact and sitting by yourself in front of a camera. Yes, most men would have a preference that it didn't happen. But, I don't think making videos by yourself or doing video calls is nearly as unrecoverable. I can't imagine most higher quality men turning down an otherwise great relationship because you did some video streaming to get by during the middle of a…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/08/21 03:27 PM
3	Bothered watching red pill YouTube Sorry, I meant no offense. Poor choice of wording and rule oversight. I should have phrased it the way the OP did as honorable, respectful, or treating others the way you want to be treated.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/08/21 10:19 PM
1	Does maintaining a Civilization require an uneven (and now unfair) sexual sacrifice for women? Looking at it as a sacrifice to begin with is the main issue. It's not a freakin' power struggle, it's supposed to be a loving relationship. If either person, male or female, views it as a sacrifice instead of a gain then they shouldn't be in the relationship to begin with....whether monogamous, polygamous, or anything else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/08/21 05:08 PM
1	How to be a better Auntie to 16yo boys At 16, try talking to them like people...I don't mean that in a mean way or that you aren't, but it's easy for relatives to seem like they are talking to you like you're 10 when you are that age. Say things like: "How's life?" ...and if the answer seems too light, follow it with "No, really....how's life as a 16 year old boy? It's been a long time since I was your age and I never was a boy". Pay attention to the answer and don't just keep it fluff, which happens to much with relatives at that ag…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/08/21 07:25 PM
2	Can you really not turn a (ex) hoe into a housewife? You are definitely on the right track! The most important thing you could possibly do is realize what you really want in life and then not do anything that doesn't align with that vision. It sounds like you're down the right road on both of these. Stay true to it and I would suspect that you will find that you are more content...people usually are when they know they are following what they want in life. But, cooking, definitely! My wife is Latina and is an amazing cook...from a man's perspectiv…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/21 09:48 AM
1	Boyfriend is afraid that we may not be able to have a family if I don't work, but I'm really not the kind of office lady. It's important to find out if this is a monetary thing alone or if that's how he views what you should do even if he was making considerably more. If given the option, would he rather make a lot of money and have you taking care of the household/family or both of you making a lot of money? The answer to that leading question should tell you all you need to know.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/21 07:55 AM
1	Is becoming a “traditional woman” lowering your social status? It really depends on where you are in the world. The wife/mother role is still very respected in many parts of the world. In the USA, men will generally think of you higher and women may put you down but then act odd and sometimes jealous or even confused around you. Again, though, this depends on what circles you are in and even what part of the country. Personally, I always find the awkwardness funny when someone asks what you do and the response is "I'm a wife and mom." Interestingly, both me…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/21 07:50 AM
11	What would encourage others (men included) to go the traditional route If you look at society now, very little of what people espouse is actually in their own best interest. For instance, is it in a woman's best interest to go out drinking with the girls, devote herself to her career, and measure her worth by material gain until she's old, alone, and realizes that it too late? Probably not. Is it in a man's best interest to go drinking with the guys because his friends are more important than his girl, be consumed by sports as though they actually matter to his rea…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/21 07:33 AM
5	What would encourage others (men included) to go the traditional route Exactly this...and knowing that there is someone in the world that really loves you and has your best interest at heart, always.	/r/RedPillWomen	08/08/21 07:13 AM