ModernRidesWraps Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Crushed		ModernRidesWraps	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 08:09 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Ex-wife's boyfriend causing problems. This!	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/26 10:44 PM
4	Ex-wife's boyfriend causing problems. Don’t do that bro. Let him run his mouth and don’t go over there anymore	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/26 10:43 PM
3	Erectile Dysfunction… That will change bud! Your nervous system has been wrecked over what’s happening. As you get better, it will get better!	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/26 04:15 PM
8	Avoiding ex on special occasions I get very uncomfortable when I am in the same 5 mile radius as my ex. That feeling may never go away and that’s ok. BUT, you do not have to dance to her tune. You can set up your own get together with you and your kids whenever you want. I have explained to my kids why I don’t want to be around my ex and they have no problem when I don’t show up to those events because those are MY boundaries	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/26 02:40 PM
5	Avoiding ex on special occasions This!	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/26 02:36 PM
5	Holy smokes Great quote dude	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/26 02:29 PM
7	Holy smokes I was telling the guys at work how polar opposite this thread and the divorced women thread is. It’s like they feed off hurting us and negativity.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/26 02:26 PM
1	Almost a year later Very well said!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/26 03:57 AM
3	How to be alone Exactly! I am litterally an ex-holic. We all are. And it takes along time to break an addiction. But i can and does happen with work and will.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/26 12:58 AM
2	How to be alone What have you been doing to get better?	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/26 04:10 AM
5	How to be alone Talking to somebody (therapy or friends) helps tremendously! Even if it doesnt feel like it at first. Its REALLY hard to see, but you are actually healing going through these emotions. DO NOT turn away from these feelings, lean into them and let them happen. Dont sulk in them all day if you can, but dont fight them. You are in fight or flight with your nervous system. Your brain is wired to be her husband and your kids father. When I had these emotions, It really helped for me to take deep breat…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/26 04:09 AM
2	STBX sleeping with someone else Hell yeah bro	/r/Divorce_Men	06/04/26 06:32 AM
2	When does staying above ground for your kid stop being enough? Brother, the thought crossed my mind a few times going through this shit. BUT, imagine your kids and what they would go through. It is NEVER worth it. The feeling fades quickly if you redirect those emotions into something good!	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/26 02:16 AM
21	STBX sleeping with someone else I have been there! And it feels unbearable. BUT, this is where the true healing starts in my opinion. I promise if you do the work (therapy, gym, books etc.) This will be a distant memory sooner than you think! If you have kids, focus on them and obviously yourself. There will be days that you will be down in the dumps, but that is NORMAL. Dont fight those emotions, lean into them and process where they are coming from, and if they are based in reality. I had a really hard time letting go of the…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/04/26 02:02 AM
1	Are they all the same? Lawyer Now!	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/26 01:17 AM
2	I feel completely hopeless as far as relationships go We are all or have been there brother. It gets waaaaaaay better once you put in the work. Therapy, books, videos etc. You will realize that when you start loving yourself and living for your kids, you will be happy. Dont look for anybody right now.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/26 01:12 AM
1	What were the signs you wished you paid more attention to? Are you asking for signs to get a divorce or to keep it?	/r/Divorce_Men	24/03/26 12:58 AM
2	Nobody warns you that the hardest part of divorce isn't losing her. It's not knowing who you are without the role. Dude......we are all in the same boat! It gets way better though	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/26 11:04 PM
6	Nobody warns you that the hardest part of divorce isn't losing her. It's not knowing who you are without the role. It is almost 100 percent opposite. As we are over here crushed and going through the worst chapters of our lives, they are over there LITERALLY telling eachother to leave and not to work on anything. But if its early in your journey AND THIS GOES TO ALL OF US MEN, do not go over there as it will do NO good for you.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/26 11:01 PM
4	Nobody warns you that the hardest part of divorce isn't losing her. It's not knowing who you are without the role. 100 percent! Have you ever gone over to the divorce woman page in reddit? It an absolute joke	/r/Divorce_Men	23/03/26 05:05 PM
1	Crushed Its so fucking hard to stop thinking about her. Im sick of it	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/26 10:21 PM
2	Crushed Lol im good, but thanks!	/r/Divorce_Men	05/02/26 05:29 AM
2	Crushed Wow that must be hard to live with her.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/26 04:46 AM
1	Crushed I would text other women through put marriage. The last time i did it, was the straw that broke the camels back for her. I never physically cheated, but still the same in that respect.	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/26 02:52 AM
1	Crushed Definitely was holding out to see if we would try again! So yes, you are right! But i have been in therapy and reading books and coming here to get some insight! I do agree that life is and will get better! Just got home from the gym and taking im taking my life back one day at a time!	/r/Divorce_Men	03/02/26 02:49 AM
1	Crushed Its destroying me at the moment	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 10:56 PM
1	Crushed Im sorry man. To clarify, she just slept with another man a week ago. Not before she asked for a divorce. Im just wondering why i am in such pain over it	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 10:52 PM
1	Crushed Lol no. I passed out from the news of her sleeping with another man	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/26 10:48 PM