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I’d say you’re on the right track with focusing on the positive. Honestly It sounds like you are pushing yourself really hard. 100 approaches in a month is a lot. Persistence is key, but recognizing when you are not in the right state of mind can make things a little easier. My suggestion as someone who has been where you are and eventually met my wife from approaching, always try to have fun when you’re doing these things. You’ve proven to yourself that you are fearless enough to do this over a…
/r/seduction19/07/20 03:09 PM
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You’re not kidding. I’m not sure what happened around here in the past year, but every post is some kind of work on yourself / value yourself / everything else here is bullshit / self congratulatory pat yourself on the back for staying in your comfort zone shit. If someone wants to hear “just be yourself” or “people will like you for who you are” they should just go talk to their mom.
/r/seduction25/05/20 02:34 PM
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https://youtu.be/2d_-DNdARjo
/r/seduction14/05/20 04:01 PM
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I don’t really think that’s fair to say. If a girl reacts the way you’ve shown here it’s basically a slam dunk. There are definitely a lot of situations where you won’t get that level of enthusiasm, but a little persistence can pay off big time. I’ve met tons of women who work and have lives and don’t always have a day to immediately offer. People just need to not take this shit so personally. Sure, don’t waste your time but you don’t need to discard the connection. Leave the lines of communicat…
/r/seduction03/10/19 03:01 AM
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I don’t really think it’s a lack of effort on their part. They might just be boring people. In this technology and social media age we live in people have the potential to be very very boring and simply getting to know them better does not always make them more interesting. Cold approach just gives you the power to create new opportunities faster so you don’t feel like you have to waste your time on people you’re not really interested in. I went on probably around 30 first dates the year I met m…
/r/seduction08/06/19 02:43 AM
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People in relationships even long term committed ones still enjoy talking or even flirting at times with people outside the relationship. Does this mean she’s going to get with you? Probably not, especially if she mentions it frequently in conversation. She probably mentions it to keep the conversation from going anywhere inappropriate, but is enjoying the sexual undertones of the conversation. My advice, unless you want to put yourself on an very emotional roller coaster with an anticlimactic e…
/r/seduction27/05/19 03:17 PM
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Magical thinking like “you just need to be yourself” or “it will happen when the time is right” or “it will happen when x” happens. Advice that basically validated your overall complacency and lack of action. https://youtu.be/2d_-DNdARjo
/r/seduction17/05/19 02:40 AM
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It’s not your looks. I’ve met plenty of good looking, in shape guys who for one reason or another come off very poorly for one reason or another. I would argue that I’ve been one of them. Much of it has to do likely with coming off naturally. I don’t have time to give you a super detailed response now, but I’d like to ask you a couple questions and try to help you with your issue. If you’re open to it I’ll send you a pm.
/r/seduction04/05/19 06:42 PM
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Sounds a lot like the contents of How to Make Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. The book should be mandatory reading in schools. It's been around since the 1930's but it's lessons still remain true. It's the OG of personal development books. Good job on not being overly reactive and outcome focused and congratulations on your kiss.
/r/seduction03/05/19 07:51 PM
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I feel the same way. Texting can be a tremendous waste of time if it fizzles out. Some girls will like that you call and others won’t. I just decided women that will only text just weren’t for me. If you can’t talk on the phone and you don’t want to meet up, then you’re out. I’d text a little bit, but not for hours on end like a lot of people want you to. I think you can make a much stronger impression with one good conversation than a bunch of generic texts, but this is coming from someone whos…
/r/seduction02/05/19 05:03 PM
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She definitely likes you. She just might not be sure about how much yet. Like men, some women have a lot of trouble with adding titles to their relationship. They feel like it means you are going to expect certain things of them and that their freedom is at risk. And they aren’t wrong to feel that way, to some people being in a relationship means knowing where someone else is at all times, always wanting to be together, meeting all their friends and family.
/r/seduction02/05/19 03:06 PM
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Don’t poke fun at yourself too much. I think people don’t always take it the way you think they do. If you make a joke about yourself I would just make sure your delivery is confident almost borderline cocky sarcasm. It should feel like a punchline not a disclosure.
/r/seduction27/04/19 12:07 AM
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Maybe they don’t want wives? I think some are so addicted to the hunt that they having trouble sitting still in relationships. I think there is another category of pick up artist as well that have trouble switching over from their mysterious, distant, and energy driven personas to that of a human being capable of being vulnerable in an adult relationship. Last thought, I also think that if you judge this based on whether people pull 10’s or not, then you will find that there is no one doing that…
/r/seduction26/04/19 04:38 PM
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Confidence is one piece of the puzzle in game. It plays an essential role in everything that you do, but it is not everything you do. Sort of like how wheels are essential to a car, but a car isn’t going anywhere without an engine among many other things. If we are staying with the sales analogy I’d say you have to get in front of more prospects. You also have to work on your pitch/ approach. One can have a great product and believe firmly in it, but presentation matters especially when someone …
/r/seduction26/04/19 01:38 AM
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A sales person who does not believe in the value of their own product is doomed to fail. How can you convince someone else something is the bomb if you don’t believe it yourself? It’s not impossible, but it’s much harder. Someone who is sold on their own product (themselves), who believes in their value will always be more convincing in getting others to buy. To be more specific though it’s about assuming that the other person would or should want what you have to offer. Even if you know your va…
/r/seduction25/04/19 01:54 AM
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Truth be told, if you think what she's saying is rude, you don't have to put up with it. An abundance mindset is based around you making decisions out of desire not necessity. She's not necessarily an asshole or anything, but maybe she's just not your taste. I imagine that won't be the last edgy joke she makes. That being said this could be a good opportunity to practice your banter and your shit talking. You have 2 viable choices... If you are just trying to get laid, be confident, slam a joke …
/r/seduction19/04/19 11:41 PM
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I’m happy for your success. That being said I don’t think your experience instantly invalidates the experience and hard work of the rest of this community. For some people the skills are anything but obvious and their looks aren’t doing them any favors. Others are able to get by with what they’ve already got. If that’s you, take what you need and leave the rest.
/r/seduction18/04/19 01:02 PM
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On the flip side an abundance mindset is about choosing someone out of desire rather than necessity. You’re choosing to be with someone because you love them, not because it’s a scary dating world out there and you’re afraid no one else will want to be with you.
/r/seduction27/03/19 12:53 PM
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I don't agree with this for several reasons... Most people are not prepared for these types of questions. You will either get someone who is willing to answer but then feels vulnerable and you will have to take an immediate supportive role to someone you barely know during an event that is supposed to be fun. Or you will get someone who is not willing or apprehensive about answering these questions and they will dislike the energy you bring to the table. These types of questions will only work o…
/r/seduction06/03/19 04:20 PM
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Yea I thought he was going to get robbed or used in someway.
/r/seduction01/03/19 12:35 PM
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I understand you're saying that you're envious, but really would you actually want to be this guy? You probably just want to be a more successful version of yourself and are pissed that that hasn't worked out for you. For a guy in college I would recommend these things -Work on making your persona fun, look for ways to have other people involved in that fun, don't take yourself too seriously, make everything you do sound awesome when you talk about it. This is more about energy than anything els…
/r/seduction25/02/19 03:22 AM
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I dislike that approaching strangers has somehow become strictly a "pick up artist" thing. Everyone used to approach people 20-30 years ago. They weren't all pick up artists. That was just how you had to do it. It bothers me that good social skills and assertive behaviors have to be labeled as seduction or pick up techniques. Unfortunately if the ad says "learn social skills, be assertive, get girls" you won't draw many people in, because most guys egos immediately respond "I already have social…
/r/seduction20/02/19 06:57 PM
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I understand that. That’s why I said “used to”.
/r/seduction14/02/19 03:28 AM
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The fact of the matter is you don’t know what you don’t know. You can assume that you understand how everything works, but it doesn’t mean that you actually do. For instance the average guy thinks that looks and money are all that matter and this is because his perspective is limited by his own anecdotal experience. Yes these things matter on some level, but you’re not totally fucked if you don’t have them. I used to think that getting ripped and being an artist or musician would get girls and t…
/r/seduction13/02/19 03:40 PM
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Nice video. I always love hearing about what influenced other people because no matter how well read I think I am in a certain area people always surprise you. In books there is so much useful information out there that people take for granted.
/r/seduction13/02/19 04:23 AM
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I don't agree with the just blurting out your nervousness all over the place even if you think it's positive. If you are anxious, you should not start talking to her about how anxious you are, it turns it into a situation where she feels like she needs to take care of you like your mom. I personally don't believe the whole cute nervous guy thing really works unless you're at least moderately good looking. Best case scenario you have a girl who will decide to match your energy, but if you are tal…
/r/seduction13/02/19 03:02 AM
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I feel like jokes should be used more for self amusement than for the girls entertainment or reaction. Too many jokes turns you into a clown and clowns aren't very sexy. Also puts her in the position seeing you as needing to qualify yourself to her.
/r/seduction13/02/19 02:54 AM
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If you feel like you peak early in conversations maybe you should grab the number and create a plan to see them later. You can close on the number and then meet back up with your friends. You can even say, hey we are going to be stopping here or going here in a little bit, you should meet up with us or come with. It’s a myth that you can always physically escalate girls right there and then. It depends a lot on the context. For some girls it may actually turn them off. The set up and walk away u…
/r/seduction13/02/19 01:40 AM
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Yea, you’ve got to laugh it off. The only other option is to get frustrated which just makes you look like more of an asshole. I’d really want to put it out there for new guys that this type of rejection is more likely to happen the later at night it is (people have been drinking longer and are more confrontational), the younger the crowd that are there (21-23), and the clubbier the club.
/r/seduction11/02/19 03:49 PM
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I think some times what we think looks like confidence actually looks like anxious behavior to women even when it's not.
/r/seduction08/02/19 11:47 PM
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Congrats! Great story.
/r/seduction03/02/19 01:48 PM
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This is definitely accurate. You must be committed to the desired outcome to the point of believing you have no other choice. The mistake that people make is believing that any outcome but sex is a failure. The desired outcome should be incremental growth. When Cortez first arrived on shore in South America he demonstrated this principle when he chose to burn his ships, destroying any means of retreat. It was sink or swim, succeed or die.
/r/seduction25/01/19 07:29 PM
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Front seat or back seat?
/r/seduction02/01/19 09:34 PM
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“Laugh and the world laughs with you, weep and you weep alone.” I would definitely agree with your thoughts on emotions. People will almost always move away from negative vibes. I think it’s important not to think of anything as overly black and white. Confidence has its place as does honesty, Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction31/12/18 12:01 AM
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I have a personal philosophy that has served me well over the years. I’m not attracted women who aren’t attracted me. If they don’t like me, then I assume they are not my audience and I move on. I look for my audience because they have the finer taste required to recognize the opportunity in front of them. Would you want to be with someone tasteless? Would you want to be with someone who doesn’t actually want you? Who’s to say they’re so great? This principle assumes that you have the judgement …
/r/seduction26/12/18 03:48 PM
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I think she might have been having fun getting attention from you and teasing you, but was not taking you very seriously. You were maybe being perceived as cute rather than dangerous. If she really wanted things to escalate she would have stayed seated on your lap. Maybe she wanted you to make a move, but it's hard to say. I mean it sounds like she was in control of this interaction. I'm not saying you did anything wrong. If you guys work together she probably already had some idea of what she w…
/r/seduction17/12/18 05:41 AM
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Yes. Most women have had a one night stand at some point. If you think “respectable” women have never done this you’re delusional. A lot of guys don’t like to acknowledge this, because it gets them all insecure. A smart women is not going to tell you their number, because you probably couldn’t handle it. If you are into someone just go with it. I’d rather be with a cool girl who will bang on the first date and just have fun than with some girl who has a ton of rules about sex and acts like you h…
/r/seduction09/12/18 06:38 AM
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It depends what you want to get out of it. The style of many of their instructors is geared towards being high energy and pulling in club atmospheres. It’s a great place to start, it’s where I started and it changed my life for the better. I’d say take what you think is useful and leave the rest. Their fundamentals for inner game are the best out there. I’d say check out a few different instructors and pick one who’s personality speaks to you the most. They are always pumping out content.
/r/seduction09/12/18 02:35 AM
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I mean if you are literally just asking girls for numbers with no warm up. If you can create powerful interactions with people and you pick your shots the percentages are probably a lot higher. I agree that pua culture as a whole has some questionable attitudes but that is to be expected when you’re dealing with something that isn’t an exact science.
/r/seduction09/12/18 02:17 AM
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I’d say the pick up community attracts a few different types of personalities all of which want some level of power and control. I think most people start in the same place feeling unattractive and unsuccessful with women and then building up skills. Once success comes that’s when people go in completely different directions. I mellowed out and no longer liked that title. The way I saw it, I was just being me. I was fine with just being a guy who is good with women and having the power to date w…
/r/seduction07/12/18 03:31 PM
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Glad I could help.
/r/seduction29/11/18 05:31 AM
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Just curious, how old are you guys? Sounds like one of two things might of happened here. She either already had her mind made up about you before the study date and the game stuff just felt odd to her or she's a girl that just isn't super confident or experienced sexually. In my experience it can be kind of hard to tell the difference between the two at times. The follow up texts afterwards might point to the lack of confidence or experience, because if she was uncomfortable I don't think she'd…
/r/seduction27/11/18 05:18 AM
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That is a shit test 100% if it’s through text, but yea if you’ve never met her I would be indirect but in control. “We’ll see where the night takes us sort of thing”
/r/seduction24/11/18 04:22 PM
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I’m telling you man, she sucks at ladies game. She probably has a quirky personality that turns a lot of guys off on first dates which to be honest is good for you in this circumstance. Edit: so after realizing that this was not an in person interaction, I would say that she knows exactly what she is doing, especially with the follow up questions about fucking. This is a game she’s playing and she is currently the one in control. You just have to decide if you want to play it her way or your way…
/r/seduction24/11/18 04:16 PM
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Some girls have shit social skills just like guys. She may be a female equivalent of a guy that shoots himself in the foot every time, but gets mad cause she knows she’s not bad looking and can’t figure it out. Just a theory, could be wrong. Just give it a chance. It’s hard to say whether you will like someone until you’re both comfortable around each other, which could take a date or two.
/r/seduction24/11/18 03:21 PM
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Nice dude. Glad that it’s worked out for you.
/r/seduction23/11/18 03:06 AM
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A lot of good stuff here. Clubs are kind of the worst. The only advantage is that, girls expect people to approach them in these settings, and when you get rejected it’s pretty isolated and most people won’t blink an eye. Don’t get me wrong, You can be successful there and I owe my earliest success to these environments. I would actually recommend clubs to newbies and young dudes for this very reason. Great place to get out of your shell and fall flat on your face without too many people knowing…
/r/seduction22/11/18 02:26 PM
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I think it’s really hard to play catch-up in building value when you had maybe a weak first meeting and are only communicating through text. Circumstances also change for women more often then men usually. Sometimes you’ll have a really strong interaction and get a number, but then little do you know but an ex boyfriend creeps back into the picture. Timing can be everything and you don’t always have control over that.
/r/seduction21/11/18 05:57 AM
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If a girl is going on a date with you it depends how you got to that point. If they knew you prior in a social context, then it means they have already decided they like you on some level and want to see where things go. If you met them online or you just approached someone and asked them for their number I would say it means they thought you were attractive to see where it goes, but it’s lower commitment because if it doesn’t go well you can both just go your separate ways. I would really try n…
/r/seduction15/11/18 05:29 AM
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She means when the guy is visibly afraid. Showing constant signs of intense anxiety. I don’t know if you’ve ever spent a lot of time with someone while they’re really anxious and uncomfortable, but it not sexy and it usually rubs off on you. Most women don’t want to be someone’s mom and have to take care of them. It definitely doesn’t make them think of sex. I’d actually be quite concerned if they did.
/r/seduction14/11/18 02:36 PM
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In no particular order Being way more interested in her than she is in you and constantly doing things to let her know that. Taking dating super serious and acting like you’re in love with them when the time spent is disproportionate. Being really negative all the time, especially about stuff she likes. If you are going to be negative it should really only be in joking or teasing Talking shit about people all the time and feeling sorry for yourself Using really offensive language out side just c…
/r/seduction14/11/18 02:26 PM
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Make sure that you are thinking about your approaches constructively. If you do the safe thing over and over again and fail 100 times without reflection then it’s definitely going to be a soul crushing experience. Best way to look at it is to always give yourself credit for something you did well (ex: you went out, you approached someone, maybe you weren’t as anxious or afraid as the time before) and then look at one thing you could improve (ex: maybe your tonality was wrong, maybe your opener k…
/r/seduction08/11/18 09:46 PM
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Everything is a numbers game. It's literally like sales. Sometimes you gotta make 30 approaches to get a yes and sometimes you get a yes on the first approach of the night. It's unpredictable, but you can't win if you don't play. In regards to snl's, I think women just have to have a healthy level of confidence all around to feel good about an snl. There are a lot of things that have to line up right in order for it to happen.
/r/seduction04/11/18 12:12 AM
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You’ve obviously got some stones on you dude. Bad solo nights are the toughest in my opinion.
/r/seduction03/11/18 05:16 PM
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What he said was different though and it set the tone for the interaction. He also had to approach the the first girl, so I'd have to disagree there. He showed that he had social value by interacting well with the first friend. Then he was approached and was able to escalate the interaction with that comment, which not every guy knows how to do. Sure he had to meet the minimum requirement for looks, but that doesn't mean he didn't do anything of value.
/r/seduction02/11/18 05:47 PM
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Great example of how you can open with just about anything as long as you lay it off right. I like your style sir.
/r/seduction02/11/18 05:37 AM
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I assumed we were starting at zero. Guys that are already awesome with women are not typically seeking out 90 day programs for how to overcome social anxiety.
/r/seduction28/10/18 04:43 PM
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Just off the top of my head. Go out 2-3 times a week Talk to at least 3-5 women each time you’re out Keep a journal reflecting on each night out with at least one thing that went well and one thing that could be better Focus on doing one thing well each time you go out rotating body language, tonality, different types of openers, story telling, and mindset building. Read one book or watch one video per week of high quality self improvement or game. Choose 3 cool guy role models to model your dem…
/r/seduction28/10/18 07:55 AM
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So I used to have the same issue. From my teens to early about 21 I had more girls stolen from me than I care to remember. It had me feeling like I was ugly awkward and bitter. Here’s how I got around this. 1. Don’t bring this guy out with you..There are clearly no boundaries between you and him and he sounds like he doesn’t give a shit how you feel about what he’s doing. He may say he doesn’t know but he definitely sees how you’re feeling and ignores it. 2. Always approach people alone. Don’t b…
/r/seduction18/10/18 05:22 PM
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If you're interested in trauma specific therapies, Prolonged Exposure Therapy has the highest success rate and most research behind it. I know a lot of people who do EMDR as well and seem to believe very strongly in it. Cognitive Processing is another one that's been around a long time.
/r/seduction17/10/18 11:40 PM
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Yea, I understand that and again I think it's awesome that you're being open and honest about this. I know a lot of people that would rather drop dead than go to therapy, or they'll tell everyone else to go to therapy, but never do it themselves.
/r/seduction17/10/18 11:34 PM
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So I agree with your general message that therapy can be helpful to pick up. I'm actually a mental health therapist myself and spent my time in the trenchs doing pick up in my early to mid 20's. I also attended individual therapy for a year. What I got from the pick up community versus what I got from therapy are very different. I agree that therapy can definitely help with pick up, being mentally healthy will just help you be better at anything in general. What I will say though is that it is d…
/r/seduction17/10/18 06:03 PM
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