ModestMinerva Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
43	A vital key to detoxing from Red Pill is to become self-aware. Self-awareness is on a global decline though. Here's how you can improve yours:		ModestMinerva	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/22 12:16 PM
0	An Open Letter to Good Men Who Suck at Relationships		ModestMinerva	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/22 06:29 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	r/IncelExit won't unblock me and are super toxic This is an interesting concept. Does this mean if a man didn't disclose that he was a pickup artist who used lies, manipulation, and non-consentual mental conditioning (say like NLP) that this can then be claimed?	/r/ExRedPill	14/12/22 01:11 PM
1	Every guy should understand Red Pill Your biases are showing. Men don't destroy the lives of women? Every person has the capacity to fuck up the life of another. Everyone. Whether they do it or not is a bigger point to make. And fucking up someone’s life is very context dependent. If they sexually assaulted someone and they get reported, technically they are fucking up the life of someone, but did they do the thing they're being accused of or are they completely innocent? Red Pill fucks up lives. Period. There is so much dark traum…	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/22 03:44 PM
2	Every guy should understand Red Pill "All women are like that". Are all men rapists? No. Sooo....	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/22 03:36 PM
2	Every guy should understand Red Pill The red pill doesn't tell you any of that. Instead it teaches you how to manipulate and feed on women's weaknesses and naivety whilst being misogynistic and downright rotten. The red pill takes on broken men who have loads of emotional baggage, trauma, and shortcomings, and instead of fixing their issues with wisdom and reasoning, it empowers men how to use the dark arts of psychology. So true!!! Which, according to my trained and licensed professionals can cause PTSD in many of these women thus…	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/22 02:18 PM
1	red piller laugh at sexual assault Sad reality but true. It's either this (or and) or groping that seems unintentional but it's obvious AF that it's intentional, staring that makes you extremely uneasy (like you're genuinely afraid of being followed out kinda uneasy), etc. Casual sexual assault is very "normal" in our world.	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/22 08:10 AM
3	A vital key to detoxing from Red Pill is to become self-aware. Self-awareness is on a global decline though. Here's how you can improve yours: They do mention it, but it is vague. "So take up opportunities to be out in the world — even if you’re shy, introverted or avoidant." "Seek out a range of people, too, not just those who have matching views, values and politics. People you vigorously disagree with. People you sometimes want to punch, or scream at. (But don’t.)" "Through those social interactions, you will cultivate open-mindedness. You get feedback about yourself you can ignore or use for your own personal growth." They're basic…	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/22 04:27 PM
3	A vital key to detoxing from Red Pill is to become self-aware. Self-awareness is on a global decline though. Here's how you can improve yours: Agree 100%. There is a balance in the external validation, some being vital and some not worth much.	/r/ExRedPill	08/12/22 04:00 PM
2	Update from last post: "Afraid to accept Im straight" Figuring out your sexuality is so difficult, especially when most belief systems and general society still try to force straight monogamy. My journey was similarly traumatic as yours and just know that therapy really can help these things and help you figure out who you really are inside despite societal pressures. Hopefully with enough validation and patience, you can take off that mask, and learn and grow as your whole true self.	/r/ExRedPill	03/12/22 12:52 PM
20	Afraid to accept Im straight One of my partners that got deep into Red Pill and nearly killed our relationship after he started villainizing and bullying me found an immense amount of benefit from anger management and DBT with a professional who specializes in men's issues. He took about 3 years to get everything out but he's an amazing, kind, helpful, and overall good man now. I highly recommend that from someone who went through the other side of what you're going through. The anger is normal emotion but it's stifled by s…	/r/ExRedPill	02/12/22 06:45 PM
6	Is not having an ambition caused by depression or am I just making excuses for myself? If you're struggling with depression or something similar, then doing something as simple as drinking more water/less liquid garbage and taking walks around your local neighbourhood can change a lot of that around before you can even get in to a doctor. I would suggest instead of seeing a doctor to see a therapist first, as a doctor is more inclined to prescribe pills instead of listen to you, which a lot of former Red Pillers actually need. Take care of your brain. It's everything you are and y…	/r/ExRedPill	02/12/22 10:33 AM