Moftem Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Obligation to talk to women		Moftem	/r/seduction	06/01/14 01:51 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	breaking out of my shell I might try this. I would love to be able to go out by myself at night and just have a hilarious time. Any tips for getting started on that? So far I've only rolled solo on daygame.	/r/seduction	28/01/14 03:08 AM
2	First night trying out what iev learned any tips? Be present to the moment (don't get caught up inside your head thinking about all you've learned). And most importantly: Have fun! Women are usually attracted to a guy when he's having a great time with those around him. That's my experience anyway.	/r/seduction	16/01/14 01:46 AM
2	29-year-old virgin guy wants to move out. Too late? Go for it! As long as the woman is 18 I'd say age difference is not an issue. If you're fine with it and she is, it doesn't matter if the rest of society disapproves.	/r/seduction	16/01/14 01:44 AM
1	[FR] Why it's important to be clear about your intentions You are a bunch of gentlemen. Good on you for respecting the women. Go listen to the John Mayer song Daughters. But sometimes you can't know whether you're interested in someone long term until you've dated them short term. That's always how it's been with me. I feel like I don't know what I want to do with a girl until after I've slept with her a few times. Anyone else ever get that?	/r/seduction	14/01/14 08:13 PM
1	Asked out a girl for the first time in 3-4 years, progress starts in baby steps Good on you bro!	/r/seduction	14/01/14 07:57 PM
4	What affirmations do you constantly remind yourself of? What works for you? Wow, she is a beauty. I'll just go over there and talk to her. She's just a regular woman. She's not dangerous. She's probably really nice as well. Regardless of whether I walk away with her number and plans for a date, I will still walk away feeling like a boss. I must focus on the learning process.	/r/seduction	14/01/14 06:20 PM
1	How do you mentally recover from a mistake or fail? You quiet the voices in your head who are telling you that you just made a fool of yourself and that you should crawl into a hole now to escape further humiliation. Stay present to the moment. I find that meditation helps with this. I've done 20 minutes a day for a year now. I got started by watching this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8a5fO8jE7mc Tyler from RSD has a ton of great videos on his YT channel, with new ones being added all the time. He teaches pickup, but focuses a lot on inner gam…	/r/seduction	10/01/14 02:18 AM
1	Obligation to talk to women So the Argentinian lass flaked on me today. Bummer! She never showed up. Didn't answer my text. I waited for her for half an hour. I don't think I'll hear from her again. Pity, but screw it. Next time I'm setting up a date with a girl, I'm definitely gonna have a word with her about how she'd better not flake out on me, because I'm a busy guy. I went to have a good time jamming and hanging with my mates. Managed to talk to 2 women today. Not quite 5. Was feeling down. I talked with a lot of wome…	/r/seduction	09/01/14 12:57 AM
2	How to act on a date What a lovely show. Thanks for sharing. You are right. It's the fun, carefree attitude that one should pick up from this. IMO anyway.	/r/seduction	07/01/14 11:42 PM
1	Obligation to talk to women Managed to talk to 5 more women today, even though my brain was trying to talk me out of it as usual. Two of the ones I approached were actually sets of two, but I did 5 approaches. Also, I'm meeting up with the argentinian lass for coffee tomorrow. Woop woop! It is like Will Smith says. You don't start out by building a wall. You start out by laying a brick. And then another. And then another. I have laid down bricks two days in a row now! I urge everyone else to do the same, whatever their end…	/r/seduction	07/01/14 07:44 PM
1	Some thoughts on approach anxiety I've wondered about this. What do normal people do? I mean they gotta approach at some point. Do they all just do it in nightclubs and bars and through dating sites?	/r/seduction	06/01/14 10:37 PM
2	Some thoughts on approach anxiety Nice post. I have never walked away from an interaction thinking "Wow, I wish I had never approached that girl". I think the only way one might think that was if you later got beat up by an angry boyfriend or amog. I always walk away feeling like a boss, regardless of what her reaction was. I dig what you're saying. But I would go so far as to say that knowing is not even half of the battle. The battle doesn't start until you get out there, in those situations where you have to fight to act agai…	/r/seduction	06/01/14 09:28 PM
1	Obligation to talk to women You are right, tomorrow never comes. But that's been my outlook on the dating scene since march. No more. Thanks theonlymikeonreddit and FlowingWater77 for your support. I managed to talk to 5 girls in town today! One of them was a lovely lass from Argentina. We had a good conversation, and I gave her my number, asking if she wanted to meet me again. She said yea. And now she just wrote to me on ma phone. Succes! But the biggest succes of all? Today I fucking took action! I'll do it again tomorr…	/r/seduction	06/01/14 05:35 PM