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| 456 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings. | MohdSalahh | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 07:57 PM | |
| 60 | Gf brings up her casual encounters nonchalantly, which makes me question things. At the same time, she has been serious and been loyal even in the talking phase while I wasn't. | Rant/Venting | MohdSalahh | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/21 06:35 AM |
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| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.I understand your opinion and I don't really have an issue with her past but the way she just mentions it nonchalantly as if it's not going to create a visual picture for me. One thing is to actively not let it affect it you but subconsciously it will. It's not just about men, even women tend to get insecure about this. She has been when I mentioned a funny non sexual incident with one of my exes. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 10:34 AM |
| 1 | We live in a world where simps allow their girlfriends to spread their cheeks on Onlyfans while they cry silently. People pleasing robs men of their personal power. It kills them from the inside out like a vicious cancer. Here is what to do about it.Also she would only treat poor under the condition they would convert to Christianity. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/12/21 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.Just complimented her on good BJ. I didn't ask the backstory. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 03:41 AM |
| -12 | Gf brings up her casual encounters nonchalantly, which makes me question things. At the same time, she has been serious and been loyal even in the talking phase while I wasn't.So when we started talking this year, we were strictly casual. Used to mess around regularly. Then we started connecting and she told me once that she hasn't been with anyone else since we started talking. I wanted to be single for some more time as I just had a breakup last year. But I thought she has been amazing so far, hence why not. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/21 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.I do get your point. But here the issue is mainly her bringing it up out of no where. Also this is her first serious relationship. Before this she has only been FWB or ONS. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 11:55 AM |
| -11 | Gf brings up her casual encounters nonchalantly, which makes me question things. At the same time, she has been serious and been loyal even in the talking phase while I wasn't.Not sure about marrying. She wants to introduce me to her mother. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/21 11:53 AM |
| -14 | Gf brings up her casual encounters nonchalantly, which makes me question things. At the same time, she has been serious and been loyal even in the talking phase while I wasn't.But here having the hoe phase is the issue or talking about it casually is? What are you calling out here, just want to know | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/21 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Gf brings up her casual encounters nonchalantly, which makes me question things. At the same time, she has been serious and been loyal even in the talking phase while I wasn't.What should have been the way I handled it? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/21 11:49 AM |
| -1 | Gf brings up her casual encounters nonchalantly, which makes me question things. At the same time, she has been serious and been loyal even in the talking phase while I wasn't.She wanted to be casual with me, it started off as that where we would fuck, sext and later we got close and really connected well. Thing is after we connected well I started putting her on a pedestal. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/21 10:17 AM |
| -3 | Gf brings up her casual encounters nonchalantly, which makes me question things. At the same time, she has been serious and been loyal even in the talking phase while I wasn't.Yes I think I am in that phase now, where I am not considering her as the one for now. Will see how it pans out. The next time she brings such thing up again, I'll deal with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/21 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.Read the post again. I just complimented her, didn't ask her how. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 10:12 AM |
| 32 | Gf brings up her casual encounters nonchalantly, which makes me question things. At the same time, she has been serious and been loyal even in the talking phase while I wasn't.The third paragraph. This. I have been in that place where I felt like a god for being a Fwb. Where id get something without any expectations. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/21 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.How do I go about it? | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.I do get perspectives. But I don't really understand the SHE CHOSE YOU thing. Yes people do date people and that's nothing to celebrate extravagantly about until it culminates into a marriage. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.I didn't ask her about her past. I've never asked it. We just talked about other things, where she would bring up her past casual phase and describe how good it was. I really don't care about the past but the thing that she brings it up so easily with me without letting me know that she is going to talk about it. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 09:39 AM |
| 2 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.That's okay. Thanks for letting me know. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.I really appreciate your advice. Is it okay if I dm you ? | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 06:01 AM |
| 5 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.Can I dm you? | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:52 AM |
| 4 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.That'd be such a comforting and mature way to look at it. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.We were just talking about how would it be if we met a year earlier. It's not exactly about her past experiences. We have never yet talked about our past experiences, it's just something she brings up here and there. Something like when we discuss how good we are at going down on each other, she would mention she is good because she was NSA with a guy wouldnt get erect unless she blew him for an hour. For me that info was unnecessary. I never asked her how did she get good at it. That wasn't any… | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:47 AM |
| 3 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.She has mentioned that she want this to last and has even told her mom about me and asked to meet her. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:42 AM |
| 17 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.Thank you. I will talk about it tonight. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.Yes that I can because even I was. So I can't be a hypocrite here. Just that I won't mention it so casually or will talk about it only when we both are aware of what we are talking about and consent to it. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.That's the thing, I never ask about it but she just mentions it casually. Like she's good at BJ because some guy she was NSA with would only get hard through a BJ. This was after I told her how good her BJ was. That was it. I didn't ask how it was so good. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:32 AM |
| 2 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.Thank you. Yes I don't really mind her past, even I had casual experiences in the past and had a hoe phase. The thing is, I don't mention it out of nowhere to her and go on to describe it like I'm reminiscing it even now. I understand it was a phase one enjoys, but not everything you have enjoyed has to be discussed in details with your current. I make sure I don't talk about it, because the last time she asked and I did, it led to her calling me a fuckboi. Again, my concern stems from her bring… | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.Lol the issue is mentioning the sexual history out of no where and then go into details about it. I don't really mind her sexual past, even I had that but I won't just randomly mention it and how good it was when we're talking about love or relationship. I just want her to be aware that constantly mentioning it makes it look like she misses that phase and subconsciously desires it. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.And I didn't. She mentioned it all by herself. I just asked had we met a year earlier, how would it be. And I was happy with the answer that we were in different cities so wouldn't have worked out and not the prolonged answer about then she wasnt looking for emotions and it worked really well for her. Like I don't care if it did or did not, still not something worth mentioning unless we are having a conversation about past sexual experiences. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:21 AM |
| 5 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.I completely agree with you, I don't feel anything about the experiences she had but about how nonchalantly she brings it up. Also topped with the fact that she has high expectations from us now and is probably rushing it while a year ago she just wanted to be casual. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:09 AM |
| 7 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.Her words where , "I was looking for something devoid of emotions, something just sexual and it worked out reaally well,hihihi" Also, it's not the first time. Earlier she had talked about how she was in a NSA with a guy, where he would guide her to blow him in a certain way. This was from a discussion which originated from us talking about how good her BJ was that night, and I felt uncomfortable with why would she bring that up so casually. It's completely okay to be proud of our hoe phases, but… | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.So we did talk then and would always discuss hooking up but later I started seeing someone. What she said was probably we might be casual but not in a relationship a year ago. Even now when we started off again, it was casual where we would try different things in bed but later found out that we are quite compatible. Anyway it's not a judgement of her, but on the lines of if she feels I might find it odd. What if I talk about it in the same way? | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 05:00 AM |
| 26 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.Yes my issue was not that the she had casual encounters. Even I had them. But If I talk about them or the body count, I won't go much into detail about it with her, as it might spur some kind of insecurity or just make her feel awkward. Even we had started out casual, but we gelled so well that relationship was inevitable and we both are madly in love with each other. It's not a matter of being with her or not, but the thought that why doesn't she realise describing it might make me uncomfortabl… | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 04:55 AM |
| 11 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.I have had sexual experiences and casual as well. But the thing I won't be excited to talk about it or thrilled to share it with my gf. I have made it a point not to do that in the relationship as it might make her uncomfortable. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 04:51 AM |
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