MokkaBzzzzzzzzz Archive

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5	Server case of Oneitis or…? This is a classic case of hot and cold behaviour. Your relationship was rocky, so you ended it amicably. But when relationships end on those kinds of amicable terms, it’s no surprise that there are the few cases that come up where one party or both parties get some time apart, and then start to focus on the positives of the relationship, and then end up talking again. That seems like what’s happening right now. Instead of worrying about covert contracts and all this other stuff, just ask yoursel…	/r/askMRP	28/12/23 12:04 AM
1	Advice on dealing with depressive wife who seems to want me to manage her emotions BPD or EUPD. I just went thru this too. If she doesn’t get therapy, you need to leave. It’s that simple. You shouldn’t be playing therapist because you’re not one. One thing about RP that can be seen as a negative is that it makes men who were once pushovers or underachievers or insecure make them believe that they must ALWAYS be improving at something. That goes for things like improving on leadership skills. I’ve fallen in this trap before as well, but you cannot lead people who do not want to…	/r/askMRP	12/12/23 01:35 PM
1	Wife wants to host her nephew and his roommate (who neither of us know) in our house I’m so happy to hear that. Keep going mate, glad you could self evaluate and move forward with peace and harmony	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/11/23 10:02 AM
2	Wife wants to host her nephew and his roommate (who neither of us know) in our house I’m just saying that you seem to want to prove something so deeply to your wife, but in reality if she’s been great for 15 years, you gotta show grace. The way you’re behaving now is coming off like a tantrum, and it’s not very RP of you. Just tell her “hey honey, it’s ok. I’m not angry anymore. I thought about it and while I’m not happy about the situation, I don’t want to give you a bad rep to your family back home. But I don’t feel comfortable so you gotta make it up to me”. Then tell her wha…	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/11/23 08:37 PM
2	Wife wants to host her nephew and his roommate (who neither of us know) in our house You’re telling me you’ve been married for 15 years and this is the first time she’s ever asked for her family to stay over with you guys? In 15 years of knowing ANYBODY, I would have got to know their entire family, spent time to understand their culture, and probably would have already had a conversation outlining where I fall on the whole family and extended family situation. It’s definitely your fault that you didn’t make these rules more clear EARLY ON IN THE RELATIONSHIP, but the truth is y…	/r/MarriedRedPill	19/11/23 04:44 AM
2	Dated a post wall woman at 24 Hey bro I also dated a BPD girl and I’m over it but I still have days where I think about the good times	/r/askMRP	15/11/23 11:54 PM
3	What Does Genuine Desire Look Like? Alright I get what you mean. In all honesty, I was acquiescing (great word) her requests because she sold me a whole novella of all her childhood trauma after our honeymoon and I thought that my sacrifice would mean something to her. Eventually she just lost all respect. I relate to your comment because at the start, she never cared about the money and I was broke af and she would happily splurge on us. Later, when I was actually making a decent living, she started nagging me about money even th…	/r/askMRP	08/11/23 10:30 AM
1	What Does Genuine Desire Look Like? What did losing frame look like for you specifically? I just went thru something similar to you and it would be nice to able to analyze a case study like yours to help me reverse engineer my own missteps	/r/askMRP	08/11/23 03:23 AM
1	FR: Weddings Are Fun I don’t think people are able to articulate what they don’t like about your approach so they are crucifying your confidence and happiness. In reality, the issue with your post stems from the frame in which you portray your defiance in. Not showing up on time, not matching your wife, not caring about the attire standards that were suggested. The truth is, if you wore the green, show up on time and all the other things, you’d still probably get compliments from women and a blowjob from your wife. …	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/11/23 08:35 PM