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1

Hmm, that's interesting. I guess I do that too, but I'm hella acute when I'm sober. Once you get past the whole self-conscious state-fright thing, it gets super fun to do sober.
/r/seduction24/01/13 12:38 AM
3

"Someone took the time to make something especially for me, AND I have an excuse to eat carbs and fatty shit? Oh hell yess..."
/r/seduction24/01/13 12:36 AM
2

Blueberry waffles. Something about mushy blueberries in belgian waffle mix in a nice waffle maker. Some scrambled eggs to go with it, couple pieces of bacon. Shit's on fire son, I sell that shit at the bar like it's a thing to do. "Hey guys we're headed back to cook breakfast at my place if you two wanna come back" cha ching for me and the roommate.
/r/seduction23/01/13 05:43 AM
1

I've gentleman'd the fuck out of this a few times. I've gentleman'd the fuck out of more than a couple girls in my time hahaha.
/r/seduction23/01/13 05:42 AM
2

Wut
/r/seduction23/01/13 05:39 AM
2

You can always go home with them, spend the night and just make out, then have sex in the morning when they sober up. I've done that before. EDIT: See this guy's post up above.
/r/seduction23/01/13 05:37 AM
7

I'll build rapport with a lot of girls then they'll beg me to take them home from the club one night downtown, but I'm still not certain how I feel about being sober and sleeping with a super drunk chick. Haven't you seen Superbad? They've covered this already. If you're worried about fucking a super-drunk girl, then don't hit on a super-drunk girl. Hit on tipsy girls brother, because super-drunk girls don't have coordination and motor-control if you feel what I'm saying... Drunk girls can't fuc…
/r/seduction22/01/13 07:51 PM
11

Sober-gaming is like running Mario with game-genie.
/r/seduction22/01/13 07:48 PM
3

Protip: Focus on being seen talking to friendly/interesting people as well as being seen talking to other hott girls. If you're having a loud, fun, and funny conversation with someone cool, then when someone you want to meet walks by, you can use the "hey what do you think about [whatever the convo is about]? This guy just said [something hilarious], whats you're opinion??" and bring them directly into the conversation, or use something similar to pull them in. Any way you can become the center …
/r/seduction24/08/12 09:02 PM
15

Don't only talk to girls. Make sure you're talking to everyone. If hott girls see you're only talking to girls, they might get wise and blow you out on principle.
/r/seduction24/08/12 08:52 PM
2

Recipe for a Jude Law movie.
/r/seduction24/08/12 08:23 PM
73

More female POV's please. Keep these coming.
/r/seduction24/08/12 08:44 AM
2

No sweat homey, I don't know much about many subjects, but this happens to be one I'm familiar with. It's cool to be part of a community where you can share your knowledge.
/r/seduction24/08/12 02:22 AM
1

I would introduce myself during downtime (say judge hasn't come out of chambers yet and the prosecutor and defense attorney are just chilling, having a converasation) to each attorney I could. Shit, I'd introduce myself to every police officer I could just because I have a feeling I'll meet them again. I would try to run the conversation, because in that business it pays to be a controller of conversation. I would start with being friendly, telling them my situation, saying I'm very interested i…
/r/seduction23/08/12 11:22 PM
2

I got a year-long internship at one of the top firms in my city, with the lead criminal attorney because I talked to every lawyer who came through the courtroom of the judge I was externing for. Its definitely wild how many opportunities open up that you wouldn't anticipate if you're personable and relatable, which comes from conversational practice.
/r/seduction22/08/12 08:14 PM
1

Bring a party to your room. Done.
/r/seduction19/08/12 09:15 AM
-1

Unnecessary.
/r/seduction19/08/12 09:15 AM
1

phone call first. Texts all day after that.
/r/seduction18/08/12 09:27 AM
1

The part about reverting back to your old self when you have girlfriends, that hit home. I've been working on that for the last year.
/r/seduction18/08/12 09:17 AM
1

One of the main things you're missing is that Pickup evolves. We experiment, detail our experiences in field reports, critique and receive critiques from others, and continue to use and develop on what worked. It is not the fault of the community that some guys are dicks. We just do our part to create a means for other men to get what they want and need, that being a better social life filled with attractive and interesting women. Some guys just have a vendetta against women. I feel bad for thos…
/r/seduction18/08/12 06:01 AM
2

Well, first lets be honest. You're using makeup and you're choosing your activities to enable a better chance at picking up. Technically you are using tactics, so don't put yourself above anything just yet, at least not until you've tried it yourself. If you don't want to try any of the stuff, then don't. But realize that it might be beneficial. I'm 27 and I made my shift starting at 22. I first started by working on my grooming and my attitude, later my clothing and my choice of friend circles.…
/r/seduction17/08/12 12:29 PM
17

"Let me tell you a story," he said. "When I was in college, there was this guy Dean, who got laid all the time. I mean this guy had different women coming out of his room every weekend and most week-nights, and he wasn't particularly good-looking. He was fat and kind of a slob. Nice guy, though, but nothing special. I couldn't figure out how he did it, so one time I just asked him. 'How do you get so many girls to go out with you?' He was a man of few words, kind of Coolidge-esque, if you know w…
/r/seduction17/08/12 08:34 AM
1

All these comments here are good. But the easiest way is to just hang out with interesting and fun people. If you want to work on your sense of humor, hang out with guys who make you crack up and practice cracking jokes like they tell them. You know its about right when they start laughing hard at some of your shit. Same for story-telling and conversating. I love practicing conversations with people who I have known for a really long time. If you can hold an engaging conversation on a brand new …
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:49 AM
1

Exactly why I cancelled Direct TV.
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:38 AM
0

Roughly 5'3"-5'9", very fit, and a really positive attitude are a fucking must. I prefer girls that are at least fairly pretty, but honestly the body is more important to me than the face. I like girls with unique, well thought-out style. I like anything half-asian. Light skin black girls are awesome. Pale white girls with really great skin are great too. I used to be really into latinas (cuban and puerto rican) but now I'm mostly into white and black chicks. I prefer intelligent down-to-earth g…
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:27 AM
3

Go to therapy. There's a reason its called "therapy." It'll help you come to grips with your deep rooted issues, and accept yourself for who you are and what you may have done or not done that is haunting you.
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:24 AM
2

Talk to people where its quiet. Learn how to two step, and kino on the dance floor. Don't talk on the dance floor. After 4 or 5 songs move on if nothing is happening when you're dancing.
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:22 AM
5

Hella good point.
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:19 AM
1

haha ok I get it now. Congratulations, I hope I find a great girl too. Peace brotha.
/r/seduction13/08/12 10:52 PM
1

I'm not pretending to be exclusive, I am exclusive. And why do you assume that the women I date get butt-hurt so easily? You do realize that hott girls have a very quick rebound rate right? I always treat my GF's well, and I make sure we stay friends. I think you need some more experience dating.
/r/seduction13/08/12 10:22 PM
1

Are you serious? Girls have so many options. I think you assume they are more fragile emotionally than they actually are. Most girls don't mind having temporary place-holder boyfriends. Its practice.
/r/seduction13/08/12 10:20 PM
1

I'm white, and I love hott black girls. God damn.
/r/seduction13/08/12 08:41 AM
1

Get some homies to show you where's good in your area. At 20 you're gonna wanna go to parties, next year go to bars but careful on the alcohol. Most peoples' game goes steeply downhill after more than 2 or 3 drinks.
/r/seduction12/08/12 11:50 PM
1

There's a lot of detail work that fills in the nooks and crannies, which you can only gain by personal experience. But you've got the broad strokes pretty much right there.
/r/seduction12/08/12 10:51 PM
12

I don't think the guy isn't a 'friend', I just think he is insecure. But his insecurity will definitely bring OP down, so he should not invite the dude out.
/r/seduction12/08/12 08:58 PM
4

Your friend is a lost cause until he decides for himself to learn. Until then, cut him loose and do not invite him to social situations where he will be a lead weight. Hang out with him in other settings. You're a good friend for bringing him up to this point, but as David DeAngelo says, if someone is a failure-model, hang out with them in an environment where they will be at their best. Do not bring them into an environment where they will bring you down.
/r/seduction12/08/12 08:56 PM
4

Buddhism has helped my game a lot. Meditation and yoga as well, fuckin oddly enough has helped me more than the majority of shit I've read. I meditate in-field to get into state now. So helpful.
/r/seduction12/08/12 08:45 PM
3

Love systems is all about this concept too. Pretty fucking clutch stuff.
/r/seduction12/08/12 08:44 PM
1

If you're consistently "lucky," that is a lack of confidence and not a lack of skill.
/r/seduction11/08/12 01:27 AM
1

Does it bother you that you're a virgin? Do you see it as an obstacle in the way of enjoying your life? Do you see it as an asset? Whatever you think is best for your mental state, go that route. Don't fuck someone below your standards if you can avoid it.
/r/seduction11/08/12 01:21 AM
1

Bro just pick one, write it in full detail. If we can pick out the problem, then you mention if you think you did the same thing each time. If you didn't, then its back to the drawing board. Otherwise we're wasting our time here.
/r/seduction11/08/12 01:15 AM
2

If you've gotten them to your bed, and initiated a make-out but they leave, then you've got either: really bad hygiene too much pressure to fuck something else made them feel uncomfortable mid-hookup. All you've said is that you tried to pull, didn't work, then you tried again, it worked, then you fingered and tried to pull her panties off then she left. You really need to break down a true narrative of what happened, play by play, for us to crack it brotha.
/r/seduction11/08/12 01:11 AM
2

So what do you guys think I can do to hone my skills without, you know, having a series of affairs? You won't be experiencing approach anxiety in the same way that 15 year olds or single guys would. This will make it difficult for you to actually teach your kids from experience, because you won't be able to coach them through their emotions. However, that doesn't mean you can't develop your ability to open, transition into conversation, and develop a large social circle. This should probably be …
/r/seduction11/08/12 01:05 AM
8

Like style always says, learn how to run game on dudes.
/r/seduction10/08/12 11:46 PM
1

I'm confused.
/r/seduction10/08/12 11:42 PM
8

Absolutely. Get swole. /r/swoleacceptance.
/r/seduction10/08/12 11:41 PM
2

My favorite solution is "Whoa, hey we're all friends here," said with a smile while making eye contact with a few other people in the area who are paying attention. Automatically puts them on the defensive, while you still look like you're mellow and friendly. I personally prefer to dominate in a kind and friendly way. That's just my personality tho.
/r/seduction10/08/12 11:40 PM
1

How you mean, like saying to go on seddit but don't waste time? The internet is great, and seddit is a pretty useful tool to expand your knowledge of other resources and to get helpful feedback on your progress, as well as to brag a bit. 10 minutes isn't wasteful. 4 hours is wasteful.
/r/seduction10/08/12 11:35 PM
16

Bro, I not one to hate, but that was some foul and ridiculous advocacy against one of the fundamental tenets of gamesmanship, safety.
/r/seduction10/08/12 12:34 PM
5

Cavalier as fuck. Anyone who actually has sex a lot should strap up just in case. I understand its a personal choice, but I've never seen anyone in this community actively advocate not using protection.
/r/seduction10/08/12 12:29 PM
5

You're getting bored. You've got to push through to the next level. What are your ultimate goals? Do you want numbers? Do you want make-outs? Do you want to fuck a girl on the night you meet her? Do you want to fuck a girl an hour after meeting her in the morning? Do you want to have 5 girlfriends who know about each other and are cool with it? Do you want to fuck three women at the same time? What is your next goal? Go do that. You'll get your 'swagger' back because you've got a shiny brand new…
/r/seduction10/08/12 10:28 AM
5

Are you drunk?
/r/seduction10/08/12 10:19 AM
11

Talk slow, don't talk too much, smile, be cool. Get your act together and be a fun person to be around. Invite people to do shit with you. When you've got a spare 10 minutes, read seddit. Don't go out for 10 minutes as a break from reddit. Make reddit your break. Don't waste time on the internet when you should be socializing. People are in friend-making-zone the first week or two back, so take advantage before it gets harder.
/r/seduction10/08/12 08:11 AM
16

It's ok, it was just the Grape van.
/r/seduction10/08/12 07:03 AM
10

Also he's a troll.
/r/seduction10/08/12 06:17 AM
7

Troll suspicions confirmed.
/r/seduction10/08/12 06:16 AM
87

Bro... WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU TAKE THAT CHANCE? Furthermore... WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU RISK GIVING IT TO ANOTHER HUMAN BEING? EDIT: HPV also doesn't show symptoms in men. Is that not an issue then? How about HIV? If it doesn't cause a problem until you get AIDS, then its not an issue right? I really hope you're a troll.
/r/seduction10/08/12 05:29 AM
2

However, OP has shown that in a strikingly similar environment, he struggles and doesn't have the skills and mindset to succeed. That's why I recommend remedial pickup- .... Gotcha. You're actually onto something, and no harm no foul on the plant love. Therapy is a good call, I missed that part.
/r/seduction10/08/12 04:17 AM
1

I 100% agree that we should keep the majority of seddit focused on the details of pickup. I don't think this particular thread was meant for it tho. He said he'd been trying game, but it hadn't gotten him the results. He seemed to need a different solution.
/r/seduction10/08/12 04:03 AM
3

I personally don't think co-ed botany or some other social hobby is going to be the panacea for OP's problems. He suffers from miscalibration and scarcity. Lifestyle won't take care of neediness with women. That's created by abundance mentality. Botany was more of a joke than a real suggestion, but its actually pretty rewarding. Seriously, if you can be comfortable spending hours by yourself it can be just as beneficial as being around people, provided you get a mix of both. I know when I first …
/r/seduction10/08/12 03:54 AM
7

Seduction is not only a skillset, it is a tool-box. And all of the things I've listed are necessary tools for success. Gamekillers which I addressed in my previous post above: Destroying neediness; Avoiding unnecessary disadvantages. You can get very good at talking and opening by going out and doing the work, I agree. But if you are lonely, you will come off as needy. If you have hobbies, particularly those that are social hobbies, then you won't be lonely and therefore you won't come off as ne…
/r/seduction10/08/12 02:53 AM
1

That actually is good advice. As a beginner he might do well to start small. But, I still think this is a great way to build confidence for anyone. Its good to be creative with it, keeps it fun.
/r/seduction10/08/12 02:37 AM
1

I was more concerned with isolating someone from a group. No need to isolate an individual ;) If you're confident, don't look/smell odd, and you're funny, then you should be able to run this bit for at least 10 minutes unless they've really got a reason to be alone at that moment. Everyone loves laughing, and girls love guys who can make them feel good. I think if you focus on making her laugh, while at the same time throwing in some flirting during the in-between-jokes conversation, this could …
/r/seduction10/08/12 01:55 AM
3

VMikeL, your not really giving feedback, you just sort of told him it sucked.
/r/seduction10/08/12 01:26 AM
1

The only risk you run with this is that the girl will see you as a street-performer instead of a person she wants to talk to. This is a great opener because it gives you a great reason to take a minute of their time, it is non-threatening, and it basically screams "HEY, I'VE GOT BALLS, AND I'M ENTERTAINING." The problem will be in the transition.... "I'm preparing for an upcoming open-mic. I'll be telling some jokes, but I'm having a bit of trouble getting up the courage to speak in front of a l…
/r/seduction10/08/12 01:21 AM
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I've been working on my (non-existent) game by talking to the girls I work with. They really need to promote the hazard of developing your game by running it at work. You can use game on co-workers once you know what you're doing, but you're in a minefield if you try to develop it there. Obviously you should talk to, make friends with, and socialize with your coworkers. But you'll more than likely come off creepy if you don't have your act together yet. Work on yourself (as everyone says), and g…
/r/seduction10/08/12 12:56 AM
1

Oh man. Had a chuckle.
/r/seduction06/08/12 08:04 AM
1

Call her a couple days later "Hey you're cool, I had fun talking that one time when we met, what are you doing for lunch? I'm free today" She may say she's busy. "Cool what day works better for you?" Make the date.
/r/seduction06/08/12 08:02 AM
2

Wordz.
/r/seduction06/08/12 07:59 AM
2

Fuckin great. Well done brotha. "I want to find out why I'm afraid of this" So clutch. Thats a good mantra.
/r/seduction06/08/12 07:58 AM
21

Yes, this is gold?
/r/seduction06/08/12 07:49 AM
-3

I'd go with "yep, your pupils are dilated... either you're high or... hold on close your eyes for a sec..." Then just smooch her. THEN go from there ha ha!
/r/seduction06/08/12 07:45 AM
2

robociv will surely delivar
/r/seduction06/08/12 06:54 AM
5

Yup. My go to is "hey I just got _____ on bluray" lol.
/r/seduction05/08/12 09:05 PM
4

Haha yeah stupid shit is the most fun to use. I love game because it gives me an excuse to be a retard but still get laid ahhahaha.
/r/seduction05/08/12 08:24 PM
11

You can relate to people in fear of them, of their judgment, or of your own shortcomings, or you can be open with them and yourself. Yes, and this is exactly how a mature adult should decide if a person is worth their time.
/r/seduction05/08/12 12:48 PM
28

Hell yeah. It might even be worth trying to see how shitty an excuse you can make up to detach. That way you KNOW it's on, because she had no other reason to actually come with you. Like, asking her to come get napkins at the bar with you.
/r/seduction05/08/12 12:46 PM
1

I've used a volcano before but never a portable vaporizer. I'm coming off a 4 year hiatus so I'm looking for some new gear to get high. Fucking love weed but I'm still struggling with panic-attacks during the first 20-30 minutes of smoking. Bleh.
/r/seduction05/08/12 08:51 AM
3

I like the way women smell. Holy shit, they smell good. Also, butt.
/r/seduction05/08/12 08:49 AM
1

That never really goes away. If you have a good group of supportive people in your life, then you can use them as help to cheer yourself up when you feel down the morning after a shitty night. Also, I like keeping 1-2 girls on the side to make it less nerve-wracking. If I fuck up 10 sets in a day, who cares. I still have 2 go-to ladies who I'm cool with.
/r/seduction05/08/12 08:47 AM
2

I really recommend you start smoking weed and see a therapist. You sound like you've got a few issues brotha. I wish you the best and good luck. Edit: Girls offer nothing of value, ever, besides something that feels good on my dick I'm really sorry you feel that way.
/r/seduction05/08/12 08:39 AM
1

Go back at the same time same day next week. Say you remember her. See how she reacts.
/r/seduction05/08/12 08:36 AM
2

Do you use MFLB? Which vape do you rec?
/r/seduction05/08/12 08:35 AM
5

Smoke weed erryday. Most girls smoke weed anyways, who cares. Do what you enjoy, don't get caught, and don't let it inhibit your life, game, or family. Enjoy yoself!
/r/seduction05/08/12 08:34 AM
9

There's nothing wrong with staying home on a Saturday night alone. That's ridiculous. Obviously we're all into getting women and having a good time, but being capable of having an awesome Wednesday means not having to worry about having awesome Saturdays every week.
/r/seduction05/08/12 08:32 AM
3

There is a crazy balance there. You need to be prepared to fail, but also expect to succeed. For beginners or those getting back into the game, it can be so hard to get this balance.
/r/seduction05/08/12 08:30 AM
2

Yeah, alcohol really is the worst game-killer. If you can pace yourself you're ok, but I have a problem so I stop drinking after 3 or 4 drinks.
/r/seduction05/08/12 08:27 AM
7

You're 2-3 hours into a party and you haven't picked out a lady? You gotta speed your game up brotha! Seriously, you can stale out so quick if you're the "life of the party", you really gotta either pace yourself or be hella entertaining for a brief time, take a break and isolate a girl, and then get back into being the man, or just pick a girl and then gtfo. You can't be the man forever.
/r/seduction05/08/12 08:26 AM
1

This looks like a commercial lol. Interesting premise tho.
/r/seduction03/08/12 12:35 AM
1

What I discovered in my teen years, is that the reason people invite each other out and do what they do is because they have a mutual understanding of value sharing. That guy brought the alcohol, that guy was the cool guy who helped vibe, that guy creates a better playlist, and that guy's just cool, so he's coming. MONEYMONEYMONEY. Excellent points brotha.
/r/seduction03/08/12 12:31 AM
2

If you want invites to things, you gotta start inviting people to stuff you're putting together first. It might just be that they're bored as shit 90% of the time anyway. Even if you say "I'm thinking of going hiking, I'm gonna bring probably 5 or 6 people, wanna go?" they'll either say "yes" or "sorry I have something else going on that day", in which case you just ask "No worries, just wanted to hit you and ___ (random person) up first, what you up to?" and just continue the conversation like …
/r/seduction03/08/12 12:05 AM
0

Nice
/r/seduction03/08/12 12:02 AM
1

Just walk around smiling at people, if they smile back either approach on the spot or do a loop and come back later. Awesome.
/r/seduction01/08/12 04:58 AM
1

High traffic area = genious, I'ma try that. I'll pretend to send texts and use my phone as a prop sometimes to make myself look more occupied than I am. Haha I see people do this in the elevator all the time. I do it too. I think it's more beneficial to approach a girl after just getting done talking to someone else (bartender ex.) so she can actually see how interesting you are before you actually talk to her, and so she doesn't automatically think you're hitting on her.
/r/seduction31/07/12 10:11 PM
1

I'm a few years older yet, and I've been through the college scene. I'm good in parties and among friends/acquaintances, but I'm more interested in bars and clubs solo. Mostly bars, honestly. I like going to clubs after meeting a girl as a venue change.
/r/seduction31/07/12 08:47 PM
1

lol I do.
/r/seduction31/07/12 08:39 PM
1

I love throwing myself into the maw of a strange city and daring it to eat me. Great quote, brotha.
/r/seduction31/07/12 08:08 PM
2

Yeah I've heard that from so many people, guys and girls. Glad you've got that in your bag bro!
/r/seduction31/07/12 08:07 PM
2

Going solo shows you have serious balls. I love it. This is what I'm working on now. Still self-conscious after a long break from game, but so ready to hit it hard again.
/r/seduction31/07/12 08:04 PM
1

Man, pickup IS PvP lol.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:22 PM
2

I am interested in this too. /Whoadude moment for me lol.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:17 PM
1

Awesome, well done brotha.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:16 PM
1

Please elaborate, my dude!
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:14 PM
2

Haha you fucker! I wish I had bartended in Phoenix for a while after I moved here. Now that option is gone blah.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:14 PM
1

Please elaborate.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:12 PM
2

If you go out with the intention of getting rejected, there's not a thing anyone can say that should bring your spirits down. Haha yeah, I'm all about that philosophy, Seneca is the shit.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:12 PM
1

Rejection therapy is underrated. Word.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:11 PM
1

Walked away from that feeling worse than before. "Why do we fall, Bruce?"
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:10 PM
1

By master, I mean internally. There is really no way to "master" game entirely. You can get really good, but it's like a "master" poker player. You still only win so much. but I always get at least a K-close and about a dozen numbers. Nice.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:10 PM
1

HAH. That's crazy, how do you mean they make you uncomfortable? That is really interesting. I actually like solo'ing too.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:08 PM
1

Likewise. I haven't solo'd in a while tho, been working on some life-goals that have removed me from the game for about a year and a half.
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:06 PM
2

With me, sometimes at bars I feel people are watching (could be the dallas crowd as they are all lame in uptown and tend to find amusement from others because they are too fucking lame to approach themselves). This is everyone everywhere. "Secret Society," brotha. If you can rid yourself of that 'spotlight mentality' and realize that no one gives a fuck that you are there and 8-9 times out 10 people are so concerned with what other people are thinking about them that they have no time to actuall…
/r/seduction31/07/12 07:03 PM
1

But, if you want to be able to fly solo, you have to forgo your best wingman for a good amount of time. Honestly, if both of you do that to develop your individual game, when you come back together, you'll have new things to bring to the table when you go out. Yessss. See that is what I'm trying to achieve. Social confidence without any need for a security blanket.
/r/seduction31/07/12 06:52 PM
1

Please elaborate bruv!
/r/seduction31/07/12 06:46 PM
1

Yeah I used to roll with some punks and it was pretty hard to break in. People one on one were usually cool, especially the girls, but the guys were very possessive of the scene. This was back in 2004
/r/seduction31/07/12 06:45 PM
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you're not going to open every set with your wing right beside you, right? Well guess what, that's practically solo game. Hmmm, no I disagree. If you have a wing or a group at the same venue, especially if you arrived together, and even more so if you came with the mutual purpose of pickup, you've got that security blanket which creates a much different dynamic. Maybe that's just me. when you can anchor in a solid set of people I see this more as a social proof angle rather than a comfort thing.
/r/seduction31/07/12 06:44 PM
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Oh man, this is a crazy phenomenon. I totally find that when I'm the alpha in a group of guys (I mean the obvious alpha), I'm much more comfortable in my own skin and able to talk to girls. When I'm with guys who are equally good, I get a bit self conscious. And when I'm around guys who are vastly better than me, I'm very comfortable again because I don't see it as a competition anymore. At least that's my theory.
/r/seduction31/07/12 06:39 PM
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Yeah, I should have specified. I meant going out solo, and approaching from that standpoint. I'm comfortable with my ability to interact with women but I find myself uncomfortable yet if I don't have a "safe set" or a group or a friend to tag back to. Co-dependence I think they call it.
/r/seduction31/07/12 06:37 PM
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Mind giving a timeline of how long it took you to get to that point? I'm pretty interested in breaking through to that level.
/r/seduction31/07/12 06:35 PM
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Um, no unfortunately, I've heard Gilt and Modern Tailor are pretty awesome, but haven't bought from either of them! I prefer to find the stuff I want at Nordstrom in person then just find the cheapest place online. I dunno if that's safe for my card or not lol.
/r/seduction31/07/12 06:31 PM
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Yeah atafies is right. Focus on developing yourself, not getting chicks into your bunkbed.
/r/seduction31/07/12 06:39 AM
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I still reccomend it, lol. Good luck bruv
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:55 PM
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"Hey, I've got a friend who would really dig you." She'll get the hint, and you don't have to fuck up the friendship, or the chance at hitting the friend.
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:40 PM
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For reals? Day 1 stuff bruddah. I'm sure you already know that something like 93% of communication is non-verbal. You've had to have read that somewhere in your gamesmanship training. Sound: get a decent microphone and plug it into your laptop, and record yourself talking. Yes, you do sound lame. Suck it up. Listen to some youtube videos of brad pitt or some other actor you think is badass, and mimic how low their voice is (don't go full retard on it tho, girls will think it is funny if you're t…
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:32 PM
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Dude, the craziest thing ever is that you can talk to girls about whatever you want to. They don't give a shit! Conversation with a girl is all code anyway. The content doesn't matter. If she likes they way you sound, the way you look, the way you smell, and the way she feels when she's talking to you, you could talk about FUCKING ANYTHING. Talk to her about the fucking bruins, I bet she says "Oh haha yeah they're cool, Arod plays for them right?" or something else, trying to sound cute. IT'S AL…
/r/seduction30/07/12 10:43 PM
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Na, but went to school not too far from there for a couple years
/r/seduction30/07/12 10:30 PM
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Best opener I have: "Hey whats up? I don't know you (you guys) yet." Said with a genuine smile. Way easy going and not cheesy.
/r/seduction30/07/12 09:03 PM
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Nice work.
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:59 PM
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You're the wizard, you should already know it, my bro. right-click (2 finger click on Mac) the video box and click "copy url at current time."
/r/seduction30/07/12 08:52 PM
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Dating =/= happiness.
/r/seduction30/07/12 07:31 AM
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