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I had the same thought. I cried when I found out he'd been cheating for YEARS, and he said my crying was emotional manipulation because it "was a complicated situation".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 04:11 AM
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Exactly. Missionary sex in low lighting illuminated by candles (or some other dim light source) with someone who loves you and shows it in everything they do blows any kinky or causal sex out of the water. It might seem "boring" to libfems but it's the most intimate sex has ever felt to me. And the intimacy will never stop at sex, the intimacy of washing each other's hair or laying my head in his head in my lap while he reads to me, or those moments we just laugh to the point of tears together w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 04:31 PM
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He's actually already proven this to me, at least as much as possible with the pandemic and me not currently being a pregnant woman. I went into the ER mid-2020 for vomiting and dizzy spells, and he spoke up when they tried to blow it off. My gallbladder was trying to rupture and I ended up having life-saving surgery. He took care of me, helped me take my medicine and bathe, made me soups I liked to help battle the stomach pains, and would bring me my very specific pedialyte flavor that was the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:35 PM
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I plan on getting a memorial tattoo once I'm more comfortable with the thought, it's usually a very private thing for me, but I wanted to share it because I knew there were probably other women like us on here, and I wanted people to know there are HVM that care about it. It was honestly what I needed. No "cheer up", no "get over it", just "I know you're going through hell and I've got you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:02 AM
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Thank you. 💕 This sub is amazing, I love how everyone works to uplift other women. It was the worst experience of my life, but having someone who's able comfort me during it is the best possible solution. We're getting married, afterwards we're going to try for a rainbow baby, since I'm much more aware of my endo/cysts now (miscarriage happened due to a corpus luteal cyst rupture) and I honestly couldn't think of a better man to have children with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:55 AM
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Oh believe me, I am, we're getting married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 10:49 AM
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I messaged you via PM earlier and you sent me one. Invite code worked, love the site.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:47 AM
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"YoU dOn'T oWn HiS oRgAsMs" My LVex used to masturbate 2-3x a day to porn (he admitted it, then started lying about it, and as I've mentioned in this sub before: I knew he was doing it because he masturbated into condoms I bought for US and left the wrappers out!), and would have sex with me maybe twice a month. He claimed he had a low sex drive. Then he cheated and said the porn made him do it. Guess what? After five years of his bullshit, I'm now insecure about the idea of my partner masturbat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:15 AM
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Same. Also married, also miss GC, it was a safe space for women specifically about men invading women's spaces. And then it got banned so, you know, less safe spaces for women and more places men could invade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:58 PM
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Ever notice that LVM hate their HVW spouse/gf, and tend to seek out LVW to cheat on them with?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 10:30 PM
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Right? My SO cared for me through major surgery with no complaints. Brought me the exact flavor of pedialyte my fevery, post-surgery ass demanded (I was sick and whiny) every single day without complaint. Cuddled me as much as he could without hurting me (abdominal surgery, and I was super in need of affection), made me soup because I refused to eat and made sure I ate (ex: "if you eat a little I'll hold the cat in here so you can pet him", cat wasn't allowed in the room because he's a playful k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 10:23 PM
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Same! My ex hated my grandma, and it was the first thing in a string of bad things. My fiancé loves both of my grandparents, and we've had times where we're supposed to see them for an hour or two, and it turns into six because he's having fun talking to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 06:05 PM
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I feel like it's a pretty obvious answer, but: pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 03:54 AM
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And that's totally okay, just not personally for me. My fiance has beautiful long hair he takes really good care of, and that's my weakness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:31 PM
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It was a big relief. I'm NC with him and despite the backlash I've gotten in PMs, it was good to just air out my grievances. Even if some were petty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:07 PM
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I couldn't fit everything. The very first time we slept together, he told me, with a laugh, "pedophiles must have really small penises, because I'm not big and I'm having a hard time fitting." I was 19.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:05 PM
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I'm actually working on a webcomic about my journey through severe mental illness and dating and this was a quick sketch. I've been nervous because I didn't think anyone would like my style, so thank you!! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:03 PM
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I hate to say it, but I was trying to be my most "woke" self because I was a pickme pre-breakup, but I did. He told me at the beginning, and I had a bad home life so I was glad someone was paying any positive attention towards me. I was with him for 5 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:02 PM
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They looked sooo bad. And he wore like 3/4 camo pants and ugly, bright hoodies. When we initially got together he dressed better and wore the little gauges, it's like his sense of style died a couple years in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:14 AM
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Yes. I'm not even kidding. They're called "looners", and all sexual acts MUST involve balloons or they can't get an erection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:12 AM
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They do exist! My LVM ex was a porn addict, same thing as here where he denied sex and watched porn. Current partner/future husband, though? No porn. Doesn't like it. Doesn't like the ethics. Straight up said it's weird and gross to watch other people have sex instead of just...having sex. They're also way better/more fun in bed because they care about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:19 AM
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It won't let me DM you, but I work in (retail) security and have a huge interest in law enforcement, but can't do police work due to a physical disability. Officer friend recommended looking into forensics and I'd love to be able to fight these kinds of crimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:25 AM
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It's wonderful, and I love how many posts I've seen about women finding HVM recently. I think the FDS mindset helps so much in that tbh, you find better men when you hold yourself to a better standard. Strong women glow different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 10:01 PM
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As do you and all the lovely women in this sub. And thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:59 PM
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It is. 🥰 I've never felt so loved and cared for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:57 PM
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Fantastic advice and I should have clarified. We are planning on getting married, but the house would be him buying/paying as he earns significantly more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:50 PM
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I was wondering the same thing because Danny Devito is a genuinely pretty good dude, but yeah no, his character in Sunny is similar to a lot of men I'm pretty sure we've all run into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:31 PM
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And this was the stuff she could handle talking about. I guarantee he did so much worse, too. This poor woman, I can't imagine seeing my abuser every time I wanted to watch a movie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:10 PM
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Honey, I'm so, so glad he's your ex. NVM/LVM do not deserve a minute of your time, and they're far too commonly abusive. I've been there. I'm proud of you for having the strength to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:06 PM
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Kids from a previous relationship Porn use Masturbation (very few circumstances are okay imo--if I'm on a trip for two weeks for example) instead of sex. Being a yeller in arguments instead of helping fix the issue or find middle ground. "Compromise, but only on your side" attitude Doesn't propose after 3 years. Being a cheater. Current, former, whatever. Not nice or understanding. My ex did all of these. I learned the hard way what I don't want in a man. Current man though? Opposite of all this…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:33 AM
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Word of advice: don't date your future coworkers. 😂 But congrats! I'm proud of you, queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:24 AM
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My ex was a programmer! Jerked off constantly (2-3 times a day minimum, into...condoms I bought for us to have sex, he would wear a condom to masturbate) and we barely did it at the end, even in the beginning it was once a week or less. Word to the wise, stay FAR away from men who work with computers. Internet porn is a favorite pasttime for them 90% of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 07:20 AM
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Oh it was terrible during, I rarely ever had sex because he was more attracted to an inanimate object, but looking back, agreed. They're called looners and there are groups of 1000+ men (yes, 99% men, what a shock) that he was parts of. If you ever hear a dude mention he's a looner or calls balloons "loons", RUN, SIS. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:28 AM
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Yes, exactly. He would blow up balloons with an air pump while masturbating, and would hump balloons. All porn he watched was balloon related.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:46 PM
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Imagine being an NPC in your own relationship. Press 'X' to give encouragement!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:54 PM
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It's the BEST. My partner and I agreed no porn, no masturbation (with the exception on masturbation if one of is unable to have sex due to distance or injury lasting over a week). The sex is incredible. The want he has for me is so fucking sexy. Brushing against him and feeling that he's hard through his pants when he comes home to me is a feeling to die for. And he loves me. Like, really, deeply loves me. There is no other woman to him that could compete, no porn to tell him he should have a ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:52 PM
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I love video games, there are some days when I'm off where I just boot up a game I like and play for hours. But when my BF wants quality time? Pause, go and cuddle up or do something fun with him. Same goes for when he's playing games. Sometimes we play certain games together. Quality time involves participation. We made our Halloween costumes this year (did a charity event where we could dress up, socially distanced) and I did the fabric painting while he did structural stuff. We talked, engage…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 05:29 PM
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As a "bossy" little girl in the late 90s/early 2000s, I frequently got called rude nicknames by my dad and his side of the family. The most common was "little mama", usually in the context of "shut the fuck up, little mama", yet they'd expect me to be a third parent to my other siblings. He was an asshole in many ways. He wanted so badly for me to lose that bosiness, to the point where I got hit over it several times. I LOVED Junie B. Jones. I saw a girl very much like myself in her. They were m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:02 PM
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Same, and I was cute! But you know he's the type who would say a cat is a "sexy" costume.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:04 AM
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Yeeesss! I love seeing this kind of positivity and love. 🥰 So glad to see others who FDS was a gamechanger for. And when you've got an HVM, they always find new ways to impress you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:09 PM
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Actually, to add, a little bit of wisdom from the man I love. We were friends for years before I finally started dating him (he chased after I dumped my ex), when I was with my LVM ex and would compromise on something, he would tell me: "Compromise is weakness, and weakness is the death of yourself."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:02 PM
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Never, ever settle! When you boss up, HVM love it. You glow different, and LVM know they don't deserve someone who loves themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:57 PM
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Strawberry creme and a chocolate eclair! Give your local shops business, they make some good stuff!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:19 PM
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It's a mix if pink and red roses, and sea lavender for accent! It smells heavenly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:17 PM
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Exactly. We aren't rich. It was an inexpensive bouquet of flowers (he buys them frequently, the florist knows us), and some doughnuts. Cheap, quick, but thoughtful all the way through. He remembered my favorite colors and flavors, and put the information into things he knows I like. It's as simple as thoughtful gifts and kind actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:16 PM
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Exactly. When I asked, he said "just because I love you, I don't need another reason." 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 04:47 PM
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I wish I could say the fact that I caught him jerking off to pictures of anime girls on beachballs was a joke, but I mean, he was a joke, soooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:41 AM
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Lol! My ex actually does have a youtube channel dedicated to a part of his fetish and I was worried that's what it was at first. Nope, but very similar in uh, taste.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:31 AM
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Me too! Living my best life, got a great dude who treats me like a goddess, and a cute cat my boyfriend and I rescued! Ex hated cats, current bf paid his adoption fee after I said I wanted to bring him home, and bought him high quality bedding, food, and toys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:29 AM
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Not even that. Beachballs. Inflatable dolphins. Balloons. And I had very low self esteem and he was my first. So, I was naive on top of it. I was just shocked that a boy liked me enough to have sex with me. Realized afterwards years in that I'm actually not terrible looking, thin, and lots of men have made advances towards me. And I am! My boyfriend is a wonderful, HVM. I have a separate post about why on my account. Agreed! She's one of my best friends at this point and I love her to bits. We b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:24 AM
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"The man I had children with acts like a child himself! I'm taking care of a manbaby who doesn't care enough to listen to me! Haha, isn't that relatable?" Yuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:57 PM
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Lol, unfortunately his brother is married. He and his wife put on these amazing dinner parties where they cook together and invite bf, me, and a few family members. HVM just run in his family I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:15 PM
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I'm 25 and he's 32. We've been together about a year and a half (friends for four years), living together for six months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:02 PM
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