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| 2 | Paternity test is not fidelity testNot just an IVF thing. It’s possible that during fetal development there were two fertilized eggs that implanted and one developing zygote absorbed the other resulting in a fetus with two genomes or cells in their body that originated from the absorbed twin. That can manifest as a man having the testicles of his twin so his children would, technically, be his brother’s. It’s a bit more complicated than that but that’s the general gist. There is a case of a woman who was a chimera in a similar fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 12:57 AM |
| 1 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?It’s this sentiment from men and the flip side one from women that reinforces my theory that most people are mediocre or worse in the bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:44 PM |
| -1 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?Or, imagine this, it’s a joke meant to not be taken seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:42 PM |
| 3 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?I’m not using the same metric because how both genders socialize is different. Men’s friendships look different than women’s in general. Men seem to have to be more deliberate because calling their buddy up to BS for two hours isn’t as common as making plans to go do an activity together and BS there. Or playing online together and the conversation is more about the game than anything else. It’s more difficult for men to maintain existing relationships because they tend to be more centered aroun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:41 PM |
| 0 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?I touched on that. I think initially there would be the desire for camaraderie and people to commiserate with that would override the “lack of interest”. By the time the influence of the Y chromosome come into play for these switched women, the friend groups might already be in place. So instead of trying to start at zero, there is something that is in place that just needs to be maintained. Having a female psyche and experience might be easier because women tend to know the importance of doing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:32 PM |
| 2 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?It’s a year of my life and I can always decline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:24 PM |
| 1 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?In a comment down from this one, I say I have no doubts about men enduring childbirth. My comment has, apparently, gotten lost in translation. Your tag is Gen X, so you’re older (in the same cohort as myself). I was genuinely curious if you would want that experience. As I said, my husband would but I wouldn’t want him to go through the delivery part because I care about him and wouldn’t want him to experience pain like that if we could just switch back. Like, take the good parts of pregnancy an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:22 PM |
| 1 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?OP indicated a year time frame. Since no one would inherently know it was limited time thing, I'd imagine the first several months would be chaos trying to figure out what is going on. In addition to a ton people trying to figure out bodies they didn't grow up in. My first thought is that there would be a ton of people who would end up in the ER for testing the limits of their new bodies and getting hurt while doing it. (Mainly women who might switch to a semi-athletic body and brand new exposur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 04:02 AM |
| 4 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?So, I was talking to my (adult) son about this thread. We were discussing how it seems like men, while having a desire for social connections and interactions, have to make a more deliberate effort to cultivate them. Some guys are social butterflies and have no issues, others have be more conscious of taking the time to do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:40 AM |
| 1 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?I’m not implying men wouldn’t be able to handle labor pain. In a probably “controversial” take, I know they can. Oh, there is pain, and it can be so intense that your mind will do what it can to separate itself from the whole thing if it’s particularly bad but a man can absolutely endure it. (Without pain management, as an FYI.) I could see the hormones being a thing to contend with, especially if it’s a new experience. Things can get wild emotionally in those first months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 01:19 AM |
| 1 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?I’ve done it three times. I am, however, intensely curious if guys would want to have the experience of pregnancy and birth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:51 AM |
| 0 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?I get that and it’s unfortunate. There needs to be more of the understanding that it’s okay to decline to help and if some strong man is helping you with something, feed him, thank him profusely, and ask for help rarely. However, god damn jars with lids that won’t open even with the help of cheaters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/24 12:48 AM |
| 2 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?That is a possibility. There is still taking the mental and emotional leap into enacting violence and then living with the consequences. Some women would because humans are going to human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:34 PM |
| 2 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?They wouldn’t. There would be a learning curve if this happened. But I also believe there is something biologically built in that makes women more driven to form friendships with each other. So there might be male experiences up to that point but, after the shock of switching, I’d wager that the built in mechanisms would eventually click. Same for the female side. I know women would be shocked at how testosterone affects how you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:28 PM |
| 3 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?I’d f-ing LOVE to spend a day in my husband’s body. He’s so strong! I want to know what it’s like to push the weight he can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:23 PM |
| 2 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?Maybe. Could be the group as well and, certainly, age. From my own observations, volunteer groups and any revolving around school related activities are thrilled to have dads, grandads, and uncles involved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:22 PM |
| 3 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?Since we’re talking a switch of both genders here, I wouldn’t be so quick to apply the status quo. Women struggle with friends too, loneliness isn’t just a male experience. You can’t just show up and everyone is your friend. You can get involved in activities and make a friend or two but there is always going to be people who aren’t interested. Look at the military, a lot of those guys make friends with each other and a few stay friends after they leave. Dudes working in the same auto shop are o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:16 PM |
| 2 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?Ohhh! You’re right! Are you a second wind kind of guy or a we’ll revisit this in a few hours type? But…if we’re body switched, are we bringing in knowledge of how women’s bodies work? Like, our game might not be A but we’re a solid B+ in bedroom play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:08 PM |
| 3 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?We’re talking female perspective and experience in a male form. I’d really wonder if friendships wouldn’t be expanded because there is the socialization experience already built in. It would take time before the Y chromosome overrides the existing experience and social circles would already be formed. Men, however, might be surprised at how the desire to socialize is kind of built in. It would be amazing to me, if that experience helped men (in female form) know how important that is to life and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:05 PM |
| -1 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?After we all figured out to just pee in the shower and avoid the split stream, a bunch of us would be trying to see how much weight we could lift without hurting ourselves. I’d imagine, a not small percentage, would spend the first few days deep in “alone time”. Men’s fashion would explode in diversity and there would be some better options than cargo shorts and graphic tees. There would also be a weird uptick in blogs where these women in male bodies are asking WTF is up with misplaced testoste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 09:01 PM |
| 5 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?NGL, I’d love to know what it’s like to build some actual muscle and pick up very heavy things. I’d be in the gym every day and looking for every excuse to use my body for good. Need the couch moved? Need help with those boxes? Toss the little kids into the air. F-yeah! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 08:52 PM |
| 2 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?Oh my! Experiencing arousal from the other side of things. That might actually shock men. Also experiencing how finicky the female orgasm can be. On the other side. Can you imagine the WTF is happening when orgasm can happen in a few thrusts? Or how damn hard it is to maintain the “thrusting position”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 08:48 PM |
| 1 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?I’ve seen you in here a lot. Would you want to do pregnancy and birth? My husband and I have talked about it before. He would love to experience pregnancy if he could. I told him I’d switch with him for a while if I could but I’d need my body back before birth because I wouldn’t want him to have that kind of pain in a foreign vessel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 08:45 PM |
| 2 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?I think they would adjust, especially if they had the support of the now male women in their lives. I don’t think pain would be the issue. Maybe how pain is experienced differently by women though. Honestly, I think they would have more of an issue with the mess and all its annoyances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 08:41 PM |
| 7 | If a large amount of "dating age" males and females were gender-swapped (including brains and sexual orientation) for a year, how would they do and what would they learn?In this case, wouldn’t everyone be switched? So the women would be in male bodies with a female perspective and experience? I’d imagine it would be safer for a good long while because no one would understand what is going on and the women with male bodies might be more inclined to resist the testosterone urges because they know what it’s like on the other side of the equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 08:38 PM |
| 3 | I noticed something interesting. At least to me. I've noticed many subreddits pertaining to cheating consist of women mostly.I see we’ve reached the end in constructive discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 02:59 PM |
| 3 | I noticed something interesting. At least to me. I've noticed many subreddits pertaining to cheating consist of women mostly.If you’re in a sub that reads, overwhelmingly, of cheating GF and wife stories then my thought is to dig deeper into what kind of a sub that is. Is it a sub meant to rile up its readers? Or to turn them on? Or to see if the poster of an OC or comment is fishing for DM’s? This OP, from the beginning, reads as someone very young who may not know that not all subs are created equal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 02:39 PM |
| 6 | I noticed something interesting. At least to me. I've noticed many subreddits pertaining to cheating consist of women mostly.I’m skeptical of most anything I see or read in social media settings, up to and including Reddit. I’m even more skeptical of the “reality” of stories on subs like r/SluttyConfessions. I’ve been around the internet for a long, long time so take most things with a massive grain of salt. Even in subs like r/Deadbedrooms, you’re hearing the perspective of the person posting without having any idea how much of what they are sharing is the entire picture. Seriously, how many things are posted here on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 02:15 PM |
| – | I noticed something interesting. At least to me. I've noticed many subreddits pertaining to cheating consist of women mostly.I peaked your profile, if it’s accurate, you are very young. I’d suggest starting off with a trip to Literotica. That might be spelled wrong but Google will sort it for you. Pick a category that interests you and just start reading and paying attention for writing styles. Grab a random romance novel from anywhere and give that a look. Romance novels cater to what women want to read and language reflects that. You’ll notice differences on Literotica too, which has both male and female contributor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 03:38 AM |
| 10 | I noticed something interesting. At least to me. I've noticed many subreddits pertaining to cheating consist of women mostly.Bro….r/SluttyConfessions is 99% fake and 1% real. I thought it was just understood that it was meant for titillating reading and not to be taken seriously at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 02:51 AM |
| 2 | I noticed something interesting. At least to me. I've noticed many subreddits pertaining to cheating consist of women mostly.I almost spit my drink out at that last line. I hope you’re just being snarky with your DM comment! Just in case you were serious, and as a PSA to others, THAT’S HOW THE SCAMMERS GET YOU! Get you into a private chat, build report, “connect” with you, lead you along until the script dictates the money ask. And people fall for it all the time! I even know of a couple of women who fell for romance scams and lost a few thousand dollars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 02:47 AM |
| 2 | I noticed something interesting. At least to me. I've noticed many subreddits pertaining to cheating consist of women mostly.Thought I had spelled it correctly. It seems I was mistaken. It’s a sub populated by those actively cheating on their spouses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 11:11 PM |
| 27 | I noticed something interesting. At least to me. I've noticed many subreddits pertaining to cheating consist of women mostly.I see you haven’t been over to r/Cakeeater. Or r/survivinginfidelity. Or r/deadbedrooms. I’d be really, really suspicious of subs that seem to be populated by an overwhelming amount of stories of cheating women. That would make me do some further digging into what kind of sub that actually is because “erotica” of many flavors seems to pop up in odd places. I’d also be super suspicious of cat fishing scams. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringI get that. I also remember seeing you in another thread and peeped your profile. You’re not ugly, BTW. You do, however, have the same “resting stoic face” my son has. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringArticles in women’s magazines, online blogs, friends, and especially family. Don’t think for a minute that older women aren’t filling the ears of the younger generations on how to attract and keep a man. They absolutely are and can be harsh as hell about it. Want to know every place you fall short, go ask your 50 year old aunt who’s know you since you were a baby. The other place women learn is experience. Starting in middle or high school. Girls see who gets attention and who doesn’t and they l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringIt isn’t. Plain and simple. A man can choose to do nothing other than what he wants to in his life. Maybe he haphazardly stumbles across a woman who wants him, maybe he doesn’t. If he doesn’t, however, he has no leg to stand on in his grievances. He chose to not play the game how it is and was left out. Look, I’m pragmatic (and old), if you want something then there is no escaping the rubric of putting in effort to get it. Doesn’t matter what it is, you will have to do things to make your goals … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringWomen who want men do the things that they think will attract men. Better outfits, makeup, taking interest in things they normally wouldn’t. Especially true if there is one specific man they want. They go where men are and learn to play the game. Maybe it’s just less visible but does happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 03:37 PM |
| 4 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringHow dare you dog on Mr. Gardener! With his farmer tan and organic strawberries! He who can fill your plate, along with your mind, on irrigation techniques, what seeds are best for your area, the difference in kale, how fucking cabbage, broccoli, and kale are all basically the same plant. Mr. Gardener is a king amongst mere mortals and their silly cars. In all seriousness though, gardening is extremely interesting and a very complex hobby to have. Also a serious +10 for anyone who likes to cooks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringFor whatever reason the sub asking “am I ugly” showed up for me so I went and looked. 8/10 young men who asked were not ugly and I was sad they thought so. Maybe cause I’m old enough to be most of their moms or maybe because I have no skin in the game but I was really like, “Nothing wrong with your face.” Maybe trim that beard up though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 02:59 PM |
| 5 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringKnowing a little about a lot of different things will allow you to have conversations with a wide variety of people, actually talking to people allows you to develop an ability to navigate social situations and, if you’re serious about it, learn to get a read on people. Knowledge and reading about how people interact is only half the equation. The other half is huge, learning how to people….developing “game” is absolutely essential. Doesn’t just apply to dating, those who are really good at peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 02:54 PM |
| 3 | "What do you bring to the table" is a horrible take as love shouldn't be something that can be calculated by the numbersHispanic families are low key like this too. There are expectations and obligations, some made obvious and some unspoken but it’s all “Are you willing to do what it takes to make the family prosper?” It’s why some individuals aren’t thought of well and given less help than those who become pillars of the family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/24 05:01 PM |
| – | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.NGL, this made me laugh. I'm aware of how things typically go in here. Every once in awhile I feel like leaving an opinion that is well outside of the information silo that occupies this space. Maybe someone takes something from it, maybe not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 09:01 PM |
| – | Most women want to be loved, but they don't want to love.Your post has several different things going on with it and are only loosely related. To break it down... "This is why dating and relationships usually centre around women and what they want. I always hear women say they like it when men get them gifts and do stuff for them, which to them is a sign that they're loved, but I rarely hear them talking about what they do to show a man they appreciate him." How many women in relationships do you interact with? Women who are in love or are falling in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 05:24 PM |
| 3 | How much are men told to bottle up their emotions relative to girls?You seem young, and I’m sorry to say, in a questionable family situation as far as supportive parents go. (Although I realize this is just a tiny little snapshot you’re sharing so it really is difficult to know with any kind of certainty.) I’m not young and from a generation where men and boys were discouraged from showing emotions outside of a few. They were expected to deal with their feelings stoically, internally, or with the other men in their lives and that was it. It was, and is, a lastin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 12:06 AM |
| 15 | You're focused on the wrong qualities that are triggering her lust: He's more attractive than you because he's more masculine, not because he's an asshole.Married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 09:23 PM |
| 4 | "just treat them like humans"I don’t necessarily disagree with what you’re saying in this and the follow up comment. The issue comes in with the format. Most of what I’ve seen here is men wanting a place to vent more than anything. They’re not actually looking for advice because advice can be found here. This is an online space, however, and really not conducive to getting a full understanding of any one persons situation so you can’t “be real” with them. There just isn’t enough information about them to be like, here is wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | "just treat them like humans"I offered specific advice in my comment on the topic of “how to people”. I’ve offered the same advice and some specifically tailored advice to some of the younger people who I’ve known who have drifted through my home across the years. But it’s advice and up to the individual if they act on it or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 05:14 PM |
| 5 | "just treat them like humans"IMO, advice beginning with “just” is because there is already a baseline of assumption that other person knows how to interact socially with different groups of people or has a “normal” understanding of the interactions between people. People well within the baseline of the bell curve of normal, who are the majority, don’t think or understand that others, who are struggling, will have no clue what they are talking about when offered advice like “Just be yourself.” Or “Just talk to them like a hu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 04:34 PM |
| 7 | What is something every woman can agree on regarding male attractiveness?A symmetrical face and “even” facial features. A well balanced body, proportional. A certain level of athleticism. Not gymbro muscle monsters, more a body that looks lean and muscled for use. All indications of good health. A man who inherently smells good. Like, he just smells good without perfumes of any kind. Men who are comfortable talking with women and who do so without giving off the vibe they are trying to get with them or fishing for potential sex. They talk to women like people who jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 12:20 AM |
| – | The Miley Cyrus controversyPeople of both genders take shit for granted all the time. Large and small things both. I’d argue it’s one of the biggest problems with people in relationships. They stop saying thank you to one another and taking pleasure in the small things. Certain types of physical affection should be a given. Hand holding, sitting close to one another, hugging, randomly caressing one another. It’s things like bringing your significant other a hot cup of tea when you make one for yourself, grabbing a blanket… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 08:00 PM |
| – | Why do women require bottomless trust from men but don’t give an ounce to us?How about finding 10k in cash, important paperwork, five days of clothes, and a burner phone in a nondescript bag in the garage because a shelf had given way and you were cleaning it up and wondered why the bag was in the garage. It ends up in a conversation where it’s discovered your husband is planning on leaving you once he has proof positive that you’re cheating. Except, you’re not cheating and didn’t think you were doing anything that would cause your husband to think that. You further find… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:38 AM |
| – | Why do women require bottomless trust from men but don’t give an ounce to us?I read that post and the OP’s replies. There were things there that in conjunction with his straight to divorce decision really left me wondering if there was a whole lot more to his story than he was sharing or actually aware of. I can see why you’d want a go bag in general and specifically if you’ve had some reason to think you might need it. This includes SHTF situations in addition to carrying around baggage from earlier life experiences. For me, however, there’s a ton of space between findi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 12:13 AM |
| 11 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?I don’t really understand it either. I’m really hopeful that as more time goes on the practice of circumcision will stop for the vast majority of boys born. Attitudes around circumcising are shifting for the better (as in not doing it to newborns) just not quickly enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 01:11 AM |
| 19 | Why do women seem to get "the ick" over the most innocuous things these days?It’s on a decline in the US, although slow. The rate of circumcision is still too damn high, however. Roughly 60% today versus 79% in the 1970’s. I’m older and the unfavorable view of the uncut penis was prevalent when I was young. I’d imagine the viewpoint would be shifting as more young men remain intact and it becomes more widely accepted as “normal”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Can women do/feel these things to the extent men can?This post feels like you're looking for some reason to think that women are "less than" in general while also discounting that most of what you're asking boils down to differences in human beings in general. The world is filled with average individuals with very few being exceptional of either gender. But whatever.....I'm old so I'll give an IMO. #1 Do women feel like dominating their field? The short answer is yes. For example. https://bigthink.com/culture-religion/ten-extraordinary-women-in-ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 09:52 PM |
| 18 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.I’ve been married for over two decades now. There are a lot of things you aren’t told before getting into marriage. I’d love a scenario where young couples looking to marry had resources available to talk to old, happily married couple to ask questions on how they’ve made their marriage work through all of life’s struggles. Financial problems, pregnancy, kids, aging, medical problems, death, all of it. There is a lot that goes into maintaining a marriage and it definitely requires effort from bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 01:42 AM |
| 6 | How often do women dote on/serve you?I used to try to make lunch for husband by prepping the nights dinner for lunch the next day. He eventually took over putting the dinner leftovers away and prepping the next days lunch because I really never got the ratio of beans vs rice exactly how he wanted while leaving enough space in the Pirex for a little water. I would make a fresh salad, score an orange or prep other fruit and pack his lunch bag in morning while doing the kids lunches. Not so much because of expectations but because I h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | As a woman why should I get married?I love how this comment section misses the point of your post in its entirety. This is the female version of the common post of “what does the average woman bring to the relationship table” and all the commenters piling on with their negativity toward women in general. Have a woman post about how “the average man” brings nothing of value to the table and everyone in here loses their minds instead of debating the question as is posted. (As evidenced by the plethora of insults towards the OP.) OP…… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 03:34 PM |
| – | Do people really think this is reasonable?Jesus, these comments. The woman in that post clearly said why she didn’t want to have sex with her ex husband. She lost respect for him…period. Sex doesn’t just dry up with no reason, it’s a symptom of larger problems. I used to be part of a Red Pill forum that focused of rebuilding attraction within a marriage. You have no idea the number of men who would come there crying about the lack of sex and try to lay the blame solely at their wives feet. The mods and community would start the investig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4A : Do you think parents are confused as to why their perfectly normal son hasn’t found a partner in their late twenties and early thirties?Wow, that second paragraph though. As someone with a perfectly “good” young 20-something son. It would help if he actually wanted to find someone other than the idea of someone. You know, go out of the house. It isn’t like he doesn’t know how the process of dating works or the tools available, he just can’t be arsed with it right now. I’m not going to pretend he doesn’t have some hurdles to deal with as I know he doesn’t fit into what constitutes a “normal dude” and has the strike zone the size … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/23 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Why does having "issues" cause women to be promiscuous?You’re looking for a simplistic answer to a complicated question . There is a lot of research available regarding the correlation between adverse childhood experiences and promiscuity. If you look into adverse childhood experiences and how that manifests later in life you’ll find that if someone going through that has enough outside support they are more likely to be less effected in the long term. If a person is raised without any outside support and is left to deal with whatever the in house c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:54 AM |
| 4 | The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at allNGL, I saw that post and really wanted to know how he rolled on charisma and overall “erotic energy”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.I’m not sure where you’re getting the idea people (women) don’t want men to have options or that they are embittered old women who dated for resources when young. Or jealousy or whatever reason why women would be so against it rather than more obvious reasons. So here’s the deal, I’m a parent with grown and nearly grown kids and I don’t want any of them in large gaps relationships. I don’t want them in those relationships because I don’t want them to deal with the baggage that older person bring… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.It’s shocking to me that there is this blatant lack of acknowledgment that these warnings and advice to not get into age gap relationships come from that persons own family and family friends. Sure it’s out in internet spaces but that sentiment is home grown by and large. Mothers (and Fathers) don’t typically want their 18 year old daughter (or son) dating someone old enough to be their parent or anywhere close to it. Should it happen anyway, well, everyone just kind of braces for the impact tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.So, I’m going to say something. There is a large part of the population who is not okay with 18 year old kids getting sent off and mutilated or coming back with lifelong issues. They’re vocal, and often related to said young person. Hell, pick a military sub and you’ll find plenty of people who are currently serving saying to not join. Young women are often advised to not get into age gap relationships, more often than not by their older female relatives. For a wide variety of reasons they are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Bodyfat Percentage Is The Single Most Important Controllable Factor That Determines Your AttractivenessMost likely scenario, he eats the same overall amount as when he got married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Bodyfat Percentage Is The Single Most Important Controllable Factor That Determines Your AttractivenessCooking and eating meals for two people rather than one. For whatever reason, you’re more likely to eat more when you’re with someone than just grabbing something on your own. Of course, if you’re the type to eat in response to outside factors than I can see gaining weight because being single isn’t the same as being in a relationship where you’re living your lives together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 10:02 PM |
| 1 | What's the point in adjusting who you are in order to be attractive, if you're not yourself anymore?I think it basically boils down to maturity. How emotionally mature are you inside of a relationship? Do you know how to navigate the feeling of someone you care about? Sadly, it can take awhile for young people to figure this out and men pay a disproportionate price for it. Men should be able to be emotionally vulnerable and not be judged for it. However, men are conditioned to be stoic even when they begin as sweet sensitive children and too many young women just don’t know how to respond when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 04:34 PM |
| 1 | I regularly see women say on here that men overrate their own appearance, but women are guilty of this to a significantly higher degree.Are you aware of r/instagramreality? Perfect example of what you’re saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 07:38 PM |
| 14 | Why married women are you on this sub?Because I have daughters and I’ve long been aware of Red Pill theology going back to the PÚA era of “The Mystery Method”. What I don’t want is for them to run into some guy who blames all of his woes and society’s issues on women and not know what to listen for. I lurk here to get a gauge as to what is happening in those circles. I have a son too and the last thing I wanted was him falling into the bullshit parts of “red-pill” so I kept up on a lot of it over time. He knows what the red pill is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:02 AM |
| 2 | What exactly were you told about dating women growing up and who said it?I have an adult son (age 21), here’s what I told him. Work on your physicality. You don’t have to have a gymbro body but every woman appreciates a man with a certain level of strength and physical ability. There is a lot of women who like the strongman build and more than a few who like “corn fed” types. (Corn-fed=farm boys. Strong AF even with a few extra pounds.) The stamina you build up will help you in the bedroom too. Know how to carry a conversation. (He’s not the biggest talker, preferrin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah. Bring him banana bread around Christmas and he’ll let you know when the next beef shipment is coming and ask if you want him to set aside a couple pounds of beef bones for bone broth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrue! The small talk really comes in handy at the occasional get together when you don’t know anyone. That person who has been chatting everyone up and then comes to ask after you is like a life raft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s the nice thing. Feel like a grab and go day, no problem. Feel like human interaction, well that trip to the grocery store is going to take a bit longer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 12:46 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI feel mildly called out since that’s where I, currently, live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 11:26 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEveryone should learn how to engage in casual conversation. Frequent the same grocery store often, talk with the meat counter guys. “Hey Greg (name tag), how’s it going? What would you recommend for meat today?” Engage in small talk for a minute or two. At the Deli counter, “Don’t worry about getting that sandwich meat right on the pound. I’m not too worried if it’s over some.” Typical response, “You’d be surprised by how many people do.” “Yeah, people can be nutty sometimes even when there’s no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 11:03 PM |
| 4 | Any women out there that have a thing for tall guys but ended up with a shorter guy?I’m aware of the difference. I kid you not…I’ve had conversations where women did not realize Tio X wasn’t the same height as cousin Y and Z. Like blown away and accusing me of being wrong until I rounded them all up and had them stand next to each other while putting the two shrimpy ladies on a the edge of the porch so they were closer in height to the men. They even said they always thought they were the same height because, looking up, it appears that way. Perspective is one hell of a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Any women out there that have a thing for tall guys but ended up with a shorter guy?I’ll let you in on a little something. People are terrible estimating height and short women are THE WORST at it overall. Why? Because everyone is taller than them and they legitimately cannot tell the difference between a guy who is 5’ 8” and a guy who is 6’ 2”. I’m married into a Hispanic family. I’m, also, 5’ 10”-ish (I shrank some after kids). I’m, literally, taller than most of the men and all of the women. I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve had discussions with female family members… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Q4M, what romantic things (OUTSIDE OF SEX) would you like to get from your partner?LOL. You’re just going to gloss over asking about the giraffe heist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 10:29 PM |
| 2 | The notion of "unconditional love"He’s not wrong. Your parents have a long term functional, happy marriage. How they have solved disagreements and conflicts over the years is actually really good to know so you have a basis of knowledge for when you’re in a marriage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/22 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Would you rather be in a relationship with someone hot but poor, “below average” but ambitious and financially secure, or be celibate for the rest of your life?Guy B if all other things are equal, as in I find them pleasant and engaging. More importantly, we share common goals and values. Here’s why… I place a lot of value on men who are frugal, financially literate, and think long term. People who are good with their finances probably also have other characteristics that I would find desirable for raising a family with. I wanted kids and that means I wanted to give them a life free of worrying about having a roof over their heads, food on their plates… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | How common is it for women to stop having sex with their husbands after marriage?There are plenty of happily paired up people. You can even find them on Reddit if you look. It’s just that happy people are living their lives not complaining on Reddit. It’s a lot of selection bias. If you’re looking for negative stories, you’ll find them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 09:00 PM |
| 47 | How common is it for women to stop having sex with their husbands after marriage?Yes sex declines over time in a marriage, for a multitude of reasons. To name a few… Abundance mentally. You now both live in the same space and can have sex at any time. The sense of urgency lessens. Pregnancy. Hormonal fluctuations during and after pregnancy can really mess up libido. Too many women don’t seek help when their libido doesn’t return after awhile thinking that’s it’s just normal. Children. Babies and small children require large amounts of investment in time and attention and som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you want women to over-index on being objective or over-index on being comforting?Since the question was framed to indicate an interaction between two people who, presumably, have some kind of relationship my response reflects that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 06:10 PM |
| 16 | Quesiton for Older Members: What changes have you observed in the dating market; has it gotten better or worse; and what solutions do you have?Gen X-er. In some ways it’s the same and in other vastly different. You met people through college or high school, social clubs or other type of activity that involved other people. Your social circles and family or work. Occasionally you’d be out doing something and would start chatting with another group and then start mingling. Most of the time dating happened because there was the possibility of it becoming something more so there was a lot serial monogamy. Although hookups and casual sex we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.Considering what sub this is on, I know it’s just assumed girls aren’t being honest about their sexual activity. The simplest answer is they just aren’t engaging in casual sex the way the generation before them did. Just because Gen Z aren’t having sex right now doesn’t mean they won’t eventually get there. That’s why I’ve spent a fair amount of time talking with my bunch about sex, relationships, safe sex practices, and a multitude of related concerns. (And any of their friends who have asked m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 12:44 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Do you want women to over-index on being objective or over-index on being comforting?When I was young I read something that has helped tremendously over the years in my relationships. It’s this…..Men are more inclined to want to try to fix your problems and are solution oriented. It’s their way of saying, “I care about you.” You don’t always need or want a solution, sometimes you just need to vent in order to clear your mind enough to work through the issue. This is where the phrase, “I don’t need you to find a solution for me or fix this for me. I just need to talk and have you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/22 10:45 PM |
| 3 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.The kid next door doesn’t look enticing because the kid in your house doesn’t know they exist. Sure they might have class together, seen one another get off at the same bus stop or walk along the same path but they don’t interact with each other so are just strangers. In the meantime, they wouldn’t see that kid anyway since they’re texting their one friend from school or watching some cringy TikTok thing that will, inevitably, be shown to me at some point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 11:45 PM |
| 4 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.LOL I don’t know that I agree about the standards. How do you even know what your “standards” are if you’re not actually interacting with other live human beings? I do agree, however, that a generation raised in the digital age hasn’t had much motivation or reason to “go outside and play”. Which I kind of get. I like to tell this story as an analogy. When my girls were small we moved to a new neighborhood and they wanted to go out and see if there were other kids around to play with so I let the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 10:55 PM |
| 3 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.I do think it’s sad and it kind of weirds me out about the utter lack of interest from either gender. I’m sure there are some Gen Z out there doing what I would have expected young people to do in that age frame, but they almost seem to be in the minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 10:31 PM |
| 9 | I feel like maybe the belief that women are racking up huge body counts is not true and the fact that that we train men to date casually is a reason why men fail at dating.There’s actually a lot written about the overall sexlessness of Gen Z. As in, they are having the least sex compared to previous generations. It fits what I see in my own Gen Z kids, their friends, Gen Z aged extended family, and what I hear from other Gen Z parents. Gen Z is just not out there looking for sex, or relationships frankly, like other generations were. I’m Gen X and so are the other parents I’m friendly with. We all thought we’d be dealing with “typical” issues regarding sex and rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/22 06:30 PM |
| 38 | Question for coupled people: Where did you meet your partner?Met online via Yahoo personals. He was 25, I was 24. I worked 3-11pm and often did overnights where there wasn’t much to do after a certain point. I used to read the paper version of personal ads growing up and was entertaining myself with the online version when I came across one that was articulate, intelligent, well-spoken, polite, with a distinct underlying sense of sarcastic humor. It had photos but this was the days of dial up and I didn’t try to get them to load on my work computer. The a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 11:21 PM |
| 4 | (Rating Male Attractiveness) Anecdotal look at Women vs. Men rating MenIt will suck a lot less when you’re closer to 50 than 20! Nothing like chatting with the parents of your kid’s friends and quietly wondering how young this couple was when they started having kids, only to find out that 30 year old looking father is actually 48. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 12:35 AM |
| 37 | (Rating Male Attractiveness) Anecdotal look at Women vs. Men rating MenJesús, I’m old. Nearly all of them look between my eldest and middle child’s ages. #7 looks 14-15 years old. Several of those kids haven’t actually grown into their best versions. #10 is a few years and a little exercise away from being objectively attractive. (Not subjectivity attractive, like you’d notice him in a room kind of attractive.) #11 is a good looking guy. He, also, looks like the oldest of this sample. He’s got good features and a pretty symmetrical face. These photos are awful on t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 07:52 PM |
| 2 | This article from a Widow is eye opening and I think confidently shuts down many women's objections to the way men view sex.You don’t know how you made me laugh internally about the knives. Maybe you’re aware of the jealousy over a good, sharp, functional knife that isn’t in “the general mix” of cutlery because you want that bad boy to stay sharp. I might be dead and some woman now sleeps in my bed but that bitch better not screw up my “good” knife! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 09:27 PM |
| 3 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?There is a not insignificant amount of male writers on Literotica, so keep that in mind. You can usually tell what’s written by women versus men or what was written by a woman for men by the story structures and language. I have no idea what’s up with the explosion of the incest genre but I really wish it would stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 09:28 PM |
| 4 | What sexualizations of men are straight women attracted to? What do straight women seek out?You wear cute sweaters with dogs! It appears you’re attractive enough to get looks even bundle up. Let me break down the sweater story. “Wow, look at that dog sweater! (You feel confident in yourself and feel secure enough to wear something considered “cute”.) He isn’t shy about the cuteness of it. (Secure in your masculinity.) I bet he has a dog! (You’re responsible enough to care for another living creature and provide for its needs.)” At this point she may be wondering if you take your, imagi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Women's argument that men want domestic slaves is nothing but strawman to justify their entitlementBecause there is the possibility that the porn replaces sex in the relationship. As in, the husband would rather run one out to porn than have sex. Much like alcohol and drugs can be abused, so can porn. A guy who watches porn from time to time while engaging in a little alone time isn’t the problem that gets talked about. It’s when it’s taken to such an extreme that the a dead bedroom occurs. This fear gets amplified if a woman has ever found herself in that kind of situation or knows someone t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 03:35 PM |
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