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Most men can’t be promiscuous since they can’t even get sex in the first place, so not really a fair metric imo. I’d judge more so on the lustfulness of a man. Onlyfans subscriptions, wandering eyes, the thirsty instagram followings, etc etc. My friends put up with it from their bfs. It’s not cheating so of course they’ll be gaslit into thinking it’s no big deal. And it probably isn’t tbf, just couldn’t be me. Degeneracy everywhere these days, it truly is a curse. I’m 2 religious for the liberal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 11:52 PM
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Born into the wrong species. Penguin dads, this is the norm: “We know there are some awesome dads out there. But the nominees for best dad must surely include the emperor penguins. These males go to extraordinary extremes for their offspring, enduring the bitter cold of Earth’s coldest continent, Antarctica. If you could visit during winter, you’d find emperor penguin males gathered in colonies near the coast. They’ll be tightly huddled together to stay warm in temperatures that can dip as low a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 09:15 PM
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I am sick of capitalism and sucking shareholder dick. If I hear KPI one more time, I’ll stab myself with a fork. Born in the wrong generation. I could’ve been a hot 1950s stay at home wife but I heard they didn’t have Netflix or Doordash back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 06:22 PM
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Deal, if you stop responding so I don’t get notifs baiting my autistic side - bye now
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:33 PM
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Ooooh yeah, so I’m not a follower of “the be the bigger person.” More of a “Stay outta the kitchen if you can’t take the heat.” That’s okay if you think it’s wrong, because idc what you think lmao Thanks for calling out my response to OPs original wild statement instead of just admonishing OP for making it in the first place! You showed me king, Bye ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 09:20 PM
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I don’t need or want to be more sane or logical to idiots lmao - I only reserve the big respect for respectable people. But you go ahead and keep defending and respecting your lil bro, it’s adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:56 PM
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Imagine making wild comments mocking women in the first place and then imagine being pikachu face’d when you get some back lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:50 PM
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You’re mid money wise lol. You’re not even mid, you’re worse than that imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:49 PM
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Your take home after maxing your 401k and IRA + after taxes will be closer to like 50k. Minus rent, car, insurance, etc. that’s like 10-20k left of fun money. And that 10-20k of disposable income which OP thinks should earn him a hot model wife lol. Ironically not realizing that the husband would also be mid here, and he hasn’t even reach that level of mid, he’s still below that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:48 PM
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Imagine thinking 100k was a lot in this economy. Imagine thinking the people who make high six figure are actually working hard. And then imagine adding a fake ugly wife to that scenario to cope with the fact that you’re actually struggling to even get 100k lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:35 PM
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Tbh idk what you mean and idec lol. I’ve seen my grandmothers life of no job and only children and then my mom’s life of both a job and children. Aaand yeah, my life where I have no children and a chill job that pays me a shit ton of money and I can chill and go to Pilates and buy overpriced Korean skincare and $20 boba tea twice a day and have no stress over money, or some toxic husband I can’t get rid of because we have a kid together, or a mountain of chores and diapers, and basically no time…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:03 PM
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Ah, how the tables have turned lol. Gen-Z men realizing the boomer humor around "the old ball 'n chain" and “baby trapping” only happened because women had no choice but to be a wife or mother because they were restricted from having careers, and not because they actually enjoyed it lol. The funny thing is, had the boomers just treated their looksmatch wife, who they were basically guranteed to get just for existing, right instead of antagonizing them and treating them like a burden, then we pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:12 PM
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Why? Because now instead of going from 2 incomes to 1 income. You’re going from 1 income to 0 income which is arguably worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:25 PM
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Yeah but the boss doesn’t care about the middleman husband either so the boss can still easily replace the husband. So won’t they still run into the same problem by proxy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 11:03 PM
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I like how in the thread below they’re discussing the brain dead take of how you just shouldn’t have to worry as long as you pick the right man …. because a single point of failure is EVER a good idea in anything. You can pick a wrong job and just find another one. If you pick the wrong husband and have kids with him and have no career going for yourself, your ability to feed yourself and your kids entirely depends on how attractive this one single man finds you for the rest of your life. And th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 10:42 PM
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The mindless AI sex bots cannot come fast enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:11 PM
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Hm, but why would my partner by a “superior” force to me? My boss technically is because he’s advanced further in his career than me. My parents are because they’re older and wiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:10 PM
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Also, what does a job have to do with a relationship. They’re not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 09:08 PM
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When you’re a child, your parents have more knowledge and experience so you let them make the major decisions for you. Same with bosses, they’re usually more skilled and further along in your career. Why would anyone “submit” to their partner in a relationship (unless that’s your sexual kink weirdo). Most modern relationships are dual income households, and the education level and age and life experience are roughly the same. I’d need some examples of what submitting even means, but just initial…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:59 PM
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Use periods, commas, or capitalization in your sentences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 08:50 PM
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Anything truly egregious is already illegal by law so I don’t really expect men to hold others bad players accountable (the law should be doing this and if they don’t then that’s who I’ll point my ire at). However, there have been countless instances where me (and friends) have been slightly harassed where obviously it’s gross but it’s not to the extent that they can really be legally prosecuted for it - men rubbing up on me in the bus or “accidentally” touching me in places they shouldn’t, catc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:28 PM
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Alright, why are women being bought up in relation to those two issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:35 AM
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I understand and acknowledge all those problems men face. What I want you to try to understand is why are feminists being bought up here? However, it’s a real leopards ate my face moment when men overwhelmingly vote for conservative right wing authoritarian type politicians who tend to be pro war and then start blaming feminists when they get drafted? Gen Z men are increasingly more religious and more right wing but yet blame women because the patriarchy religions are promoting mutiliation of ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:31 AM
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Cool, then if it’s not gender specific and cancels out then why is it being bought up as an example on this thread about what is fueling the gender wars?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:10 AM
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Always hear about this #killallmen example, but curious if you’ve ever peeped in on incel or gamer bro chats on any given time of any given day and seen the kind of things that get said there? The rape, racist, sexist jokes there are not a good look and way more common than this one off #killallmen example I get (and denounce btw). If you have a problem with the draft - vote against the auth authoritarian right wing candidates that are pro war. If you’re against baby boys being mutilated - prote…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:53 AM
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Those issues you listed were created because of religious and political policies that men are still largely in charge of and enforce. Thus, they have no relevance to this thread where we are talking about what women in particular are doing to fuel the gender war. So try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 01:33 AM
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“The Friendship Paradox is a network science observation stating that, on average, your friends have more friends than you do.” ❌ “The Situationship Paradox is a PPD science observation stating that, on average, your situationships have a bigger roster than you do.” ✅
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:20 PM
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You’re a worthless piece of space. Go back to whatever IT closet or basement, corporate locks you up in. Most women who aren’t your mother or total butterfaces wouldn’t come near a ten mile radius of you if we had the choice. Already wasted too much of my breath on your m’lady neckbeard condescending worthless ass. Nasty degenerate, blocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:33 PM
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I’m skinny af and against obesity idiot - how’s it like to be a fat old bald neck beard who cares about Linux? Worry less about smelling like Doritos and taking more showers nasty dweeb
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:58 PM
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Go keep riding off other peoples coattails like a little bitch! You nasty bottom feeder!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:51 PM
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It’s funny that you’re this delusional that you can’t see how pathetic of an American you are. You think I’m giving one off example when you’re doing that an extreme extent and whining and pointing fingers. Go read a book or go to Europe and have one thrown at your face you illiterate fuck. Go look at all the American funded VCs and unicorns compared to the number of ALL European companies combined. Do you not understand numbers? Did you do math?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:45 PM
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One operating system that one person built - which kudos for that btw, great guy. Every derivative is largely American made and maintained. Europe did fuck all after: Britain is no longer in the EU. And you’re giving one off examples whereas MOST chip companies like Nvidia and TSMC and AMD are non EU. They overwhelmingly rely on US tech. And their weapon technology is not as advanced because they don’t invest in it no where as much as we do. appliances: I’ll concede as I’m not a toaster expert a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 06:17 PM
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Even the better countries in the EU (not even taking the poorer ones like Hungary and Romania as an example) such as Germany, France, and Switzerland mostly rely on American technological innovation such as all our software, hardware like Apple products and other appliances, innovations like AI and robotics and cutting edge technology and research in nuclear reactors and quantam computing, and breakthroughs in medicine mostly come from us. Without the US, the countries of the EU run into the sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:06 PM
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Oh okay, I would love to be educated? Please provide concrete points and evidence to parts of my comment you disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:19 PM
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I’m very much not MAGA. But crimes rates increased as a direct result of influx of unchecked immigration in Europe. That is my metric for why unchecked immigration like what Europe allowed is bad. I very much however support merit based immigration. And Europe does have a lower GDP rate compared to the US. Even though they do score higher on happiness scores and other things you mentioned, this is because they are being heavily subsidized by the hard labor of the more capitalist countries like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:51 PM
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Lol, so you’re a big European stan and that’s why you’re triggered? Personally don’t see Europe as enough of a threat or problem to argue about it - sooo Europe is the best forever! See, there you go. Goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:01 PM
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Rigid is different from the point I was making, Russia is rigid in the same way the Taliban are. “Strong” central government where the rules are more fair, there’s less corruption, and they’re enforced well. So more so speaking about levels of corruption and protections and social mobility available to the average hardworking honest man in a country like Russia vs one like China/US. Basically the paper I linked and what makes successful countries successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:05 PM
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What argument are you making? That you’re for socialism or for immigration? It’s not super clear to me what your gripe here is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:46 PM
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You’re basically expressing how it’s unfair (oppression) that women’s standards are unreasonable now compared to the past (when men were more privileged and guaranteed a woman). And you want it to go back to the way it was in the past, correct? Where women did not have a choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:40 PM
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GDP and crime rates
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:36 PM
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"When you are accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.” Women never had a choice and now they do. No one is forcing women to not get married btw, they just have a choice in the matter now. And if forced female sex slavery is the only way to keep our society going, then ….
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:31 PM
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I actually don’t understand your rebuttal to my last paragraph. I’m saying that the commenter above wants a libertarian state with no police force or military and you can look at places like Somalia to see why that is a bad idea. And to your last point, we already did have a system where every man was basically guaranteed their looksmatch woman in the past. If it worked so well, that system would’ve naturally stayed in place. And the bigger point here is it’s worse to force women to be with men …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:10 PM
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Says the guy who comes on here to talk about how you watch other girls your sister’s age get groped on buses but they deserve it because you can’t get your dick wet by women. Mentally ill hypocrite, goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:59 PM
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Europe is a failure because of unchecked immigration laws and leaning too heavily on socialist policies. I’m not a socialist, I am a social democrat who believes in immigration control. “Social democracy is a political ideology advocating a blend of capitalism with a comprehensive welfare state, achieved through democratic and gradual reforms, not revolution. Rooted in the values of freedom, justice, and solidarity, it seeks to balance the principles of liberal democracy with social equality by …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:56 PM
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The most successful countries in the world are ones with a strong central governments such as China and the United States. Countries where a more free for all fend for your self type system like Russia fail. Men and women aren’t offered much government support here, corruption is rampant and much less justice for crime here or room for the average honest man to have any upwards mobility. Again, have you ever picked up a history book or looked outside your own ass? Libertarianism does not work. “…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:47 PM
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Social security and Medicaid/medicare are where most of our taxes go. This is disproportionately to the elderly and disabled, the women only social programs make a very small piece of the overall pie. This isn’t about balancing our deficit or more fiscally responsible spending, it’s very clearly a “you won’t fuck me so I’ll be as petty as possible and make random underprivileged women suffer.” Do you believe the same women that reject you (hotter and richer girls) are the same ones that utilize …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:33 PM
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Ah but I thought you wanted women to be honest? To say we care about looks? Oh no, have we reached the second phase where once they’re honest, you want to scold them for being shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:55 PM
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Just goes to show, you don’t even have to be short to give off short king energy <—- Exhibit D: women being shallow about height
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:52 PM
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Tbf more appropriate for whatever feel betrayal this dude is reliving for when his mom told him don’t be an asshole and try to develop social skills - really the horror
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:48 PM
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Does her accepting she is wrong help you cope with the fact that you’re short?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:43 PM
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I personally have been brutally honest with them, but I’ve noticed the next thing they latch onto since they can’t pull the “presence of moral superiority” card is they start whining equally as hard about how women are so superficial and shallow these days when you outright say you care about men’s looks and status. And then they start bringing up their grandmothers and how much better they were 👵for not being as shallow. Like just go checkout your local old age home and leave me alone then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:00 PM
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(sad violin noises playing in background)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:54 AM
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My mom beat me and I never gotten into weird shit online as a kid because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:48 PM
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While there may be some truth to the fact that Andrew Tate content has gotten weirdly popular amongst impressionable youth, I fear the more immediate problem is that apparently a shocking amount of them in middle school and high school just cannot read. The youth that China is raising will make mincemeat out of them. At this point I’m even willing to give them a pass on the sexism if they can just learn to at least read and equally function on an academic level as the Chinese kids. Like I ask my…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:35 PM
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I could say anecdotally, that I’m personally in circles of upper middle class professionals like doctors, lawyers, and engineers and nearly all of them marry others with similarly high-paying careers or similar socioeconomic status but there’s also just numerous studies to back this up. I know how hard the brokies on PPD are so so vicariously living their revenge fantasies of one too many rejections through the top 10% of upper middle class men who apparently finally reject the same old women th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:27 AM
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If there’s intrasexual competition then it’s for the top 20% of men, but how noble of the other 80% to post on their behalf while they’re sat twiddling their thumbs as the Chads are busy out there fucking all the hotties that are fighting with each other just for a chance with them. Because the message just had to get out there, older hags please don’t cock block and please let our top 20% chads keep getting their steady supply of sex from the young hotties. Underlings gonna underling.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:40 AM
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Perfect, thank you for summarizing the point I was making! Your insight is always 10/10 king
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:15 AM
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Last I heard men also equally experience the passage of time, but usually with less sunscreen and Gua Sha’ing I imagine. The average older PPD user: a puffy faced, reptile skinned, beer bellied, broke, and most probably short baldie out here talking about how all the young women are flinging themselves at them and the old hags are just cock blocking them huh? I started clapping when I read this post, because finally someone said it. I sort of assumed their hot younger girlfriends would keep them…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:05 AM
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I think you’re mistaken. Their essence, Eau de lizard, is what gets the 20 year old baddies going I heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:25 AM
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A Penn Badgley 40 is different from a Jonah Hill 40. The calculation that goes into this is usually does the money factor offset the squishy body build and balding / saggy face / shorter life span factors (which get more extreme the older you go) of the older dude. Of course there could also be the usual daddy issues or the girl is mid and can’t compete with the more attractive girls her own age, so fair play there. (Inb4 all the creeps tell me it’s their 10/10 PPD posting personality and how gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 02:02 AM
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It pops up on my feed the same way true crime stories do - fascinated in a gross and disgusting way you know? Anyways, ew but goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:12 PM
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Spain and France are not where the majority of passport bros are looking for women. And those places are not really problematic to me so idc to argue about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:40 PM
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Isn’t that just sex tourism. Like I still think you’re a degenerate, but in a slightly different way form passport bro. Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:36 PM
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Yep and I’m fine with if that’s what she wants to do as well. Glad we agree on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:34 PM
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And the passport bro sub with 100k subscribers and the general gist of all their posts are: I don’t have enough money, where can I get the cheapest women I look kinda ugly and or I’m bald, does so and so women from country care I am ugly Where can I get laid the easiest without being robbed or kidnapped 60 year old man bragging about having a threesome with 20 year olds If the passport bros were so noble they wouldn’t get this rep in the first place. If the large majority of cases were cute happ…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:33 PM
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Sure, I can explain which one it is. If you make 50k in the US that’s average and barely able to get by in urban cities, but it’s probably a lot of money to poor third world countries. And why would I know a lot of passport bros? Why would I want to? The fact that I don’t actually gives me reassurance that my circle of friends are good well adjusted people. And tbh please do leave and stay there, trash taking itself out imo. I like that the men here are so worried about the passport bros leaving…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:30 PM
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How do you know it’s not just that she now has equal socioeconomic status as you, so she’s free to do what she actually wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:26 PM
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See comment below, I said I couldn’t be mad with situations where SMV is higher is foreign markets because of the exotic white guy factor. But most passport bros, foreign women wouldn’t sleep with either if they had other means to a better life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:26 PM
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No, I’m agreeing with what someone else on this thread said where he said he was a good looking white dude who did well in western countries but because Asian girls are known to chase white guys, his SMV is higher in their eyes because of the exotic factor and I can’t argue with that. Those girls are probably equally or more attracted to him than some of their local men. If you can’t get any girls back home then that just means it’s the money and the US citizenship that’s doing the heavy legwork…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:24 PM
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“For whatever reason.” Reason is women can support themselves now. And the reason some places in EU still appeal to passport bros are that they’re the poorer ones like Greece, Romania, Bulgaria, etc. OR they have fewer opportunities for upwards mobility. While Italy is a great country (and not shitty like the usual third world country example) a lot of people still try to leave because of stagnant wages and little to no room for career growth or upwards mobility. Because really, what Swedish or …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:19 PM
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And the passport bro sub with 100k subscribers and the general gist of every sub: I don’t have enough money, where can I get the cheapest women I look kinda ugly and or I’m bald, does so and so women from country care I am ugly Where can I get laid the easiest without being robbed or kidnapped 60 year old man bragging about having a threesome with 20 year olds Stfu, if the passport bros were so noble they wouldn’t get this rep in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:11 PM
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If you don’t have decent SMV (man or woman) then why would anyone want to sleep with you? Isn’t that the entire meaning of what SMV is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:56 PM
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Same difference as men that go their own way vs men that get sent their own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:54 PM
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Wrong, there are trad conservative women in the US who would also avoid passport bros like the plague. The difference here is that western women can earn decent money for themselves and still live a nice life. The poorer women that passport bros prey on have little to no social mobility so they see passport bro as a way out of their shitty situation. That’s why you won’t bring them back, you know the poverty is what keeps them in line. There are passport bros who do bring their girl back and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:53 PM
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Makes sense, I’m not mad at these cases or cases where you’re able to bring a girl back and she gets a citizenship and still stays with you, that’s how you know it’s genuine. The Big Ed and Rose cases from 90 day fiance are the ones that gross me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:49 PM
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I think the men and women passport people are equally creepy. The only cases I’m okay with are ones with decent SMV so they’re able to pull back home but they’re still able to get better options overseas. If they treat their partners respectfully and they still choose to stay even after getting their citizenship then I can’t really be mad about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:44 PM
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Then why not bring them home? If the passport bro is so attractive to them, then they should stay once they get their citizenship right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:37 PM
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Fair enough, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:34 PM
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I said “mad bitches” like a “lot.” Read better. It’s not that the women become too westernized if you bring them back home, there’s a lot of trad conservative women here that don’t want you either. The entire thing that makes an ugly passport bro appealing is his money and passport. You really think a trad woman would want to marry a creep that’s so repulsive he has to seek out women in poorer countries to make it work?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:30 PM
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What percentage of the men here are obese? Are passport bros known for being good looking and are they know for having a ton of options back home?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:25 PM
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Yeah and usually older and creepier too tbh, if it wasn’t so terrible then they’d be able to pull women back home.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:24 PM
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Yeah because passport bros are known for getting mad bitches in their home countries
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:19 PM
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There’s a lot of Asian women who live in the US so why not just date them if what you’re saying is true? It’s because it’s not your looks and more so your money and passport that’s alluring to Asians overseas. The Asians here care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:17 PM
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Why does the passport bro sub heavily advocate for not bringing the girls back overseas? Because they correctly hypothesize that if they reach the same socioeconomic status as their partner, they’re more likely to leave. They know the desperation of poverty is what makes this entire relationship work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:08 PM
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If you go over to the passport bro sub, they talk about woman like they’re cattle and how to get the best bang for your buck. What women are the hottest and still willing to settle for an ugly foreigner over a local. What women are gonna be good submissive partners that are not too westernized. What countries are “safe” (since they have to go to the shittiest places in the world to even get attention). And then you look at the passport bros themselves, most are barely middle class by western sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:28 AM
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Maybe religion was the OG redpill that actually did understand that letting unchecked lustful male sexuality and hypergamous female nature run free would lead to whatever clusterfuck we have going on in today’s dating landscape and decided marriage was a good enough solution to appease both sides. Stick with each other through thick and thin and have a partner to go through the hardships of life with and that kinda thing. Sigh. At least we have Instagram now chat 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 04:11 PM
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There’s some truth to that but: Here are the recent average SAT scores by race/ethnicity: Asian: ~1228–1229 White: ~1098 American Indian/Alaska Native: ~901–936 Black/African American: ~907–908 Hispanic/Latino/a: ~939 Native Hawaiian/Other Pacific Islander: ~964 The average GPA for girls is 3.23, compared to 3.0 for boys, while the average SAT score for girls is 1023, compared to 1032 for boys. My point is that the demographic that is the most vocal against DEI are conservative older white men, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:24 PM
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Shitty offshoring happens when companies go too too cheap, but they could still find top candidates that work for 1/2 or 1/3rd of first world country costs. And if they opened the cap on h1bs you’d see companies very quickly fill up with those workers over native citizens. I have a lot of Asian friends who unfairly struggle against less hardworking American and European born workers, so I’m on your side of the DEI argument here. Going to log off now, but one of the less terrible conversations I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:38 AM
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So if there are women in corporate American who clear 200k a year while working from home and only working a few hours a day while their blue collar partners makes 50k breaking their back in the sun doing hard construction work, it should be the men who come home and do all the chores right?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:18 AM
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I said I agree that requirement shouldn’t be relaxed for women so idk why you keep bringing it up when I agreed with you. But I believe the argument made here is that having a diverse workforce is worth the trade off from the most technically capable team. You can compare a school like CalTech vs Harvard where CalTech is completely merit based and thus has a disproportionate amount of Asians whereas Ivy Leagues care more about DEI but also have more success stories from their students. People wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:06 AM
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An American man working in construction will earn 10x the amount of money compared to a man in Africa doing the same work. Money is a reflection of value in capitalism, not hard work put in. If the hours worked are the same, then they both need to contribute to chores equally. I am open to DEI reform. I think DEI hurts Asians the most more so than men in particular. I’m for equality of opportunity not outcome. But even if someone got through based on DEI, if they were so terrible they’d be fired…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:39 AM
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A brain surgeon husband can afford a maid so I doubt it. If it was a non-job, the market would not reward it. Men also commit more violence than women so seems like something y’all should sort out on your own. How do women receive more support from the state? Only thing I agree on is men have to work more to get into a relationship. And that’s fine with me since the alternative is forcing women into relationships they don’t want to be in.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 10:21 AM
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Only ~20% of women are stay at home moms, the rest work work full time and additionally do more: Chores: Men might mow the lawn and fix the one off leaky faucet and call it a day but the majority of cleaning and cooking falls on the women which is additional hours of work daily. Check the hourly rate of personal chefs and maids to find the monetary value of this unpaid labor. Childcare: Even after going back to work, women still are largely in charge of things like changing the kids diapers and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:42 AM
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NSFW profile but coming here to lecture on marriage before sex (although I agree) - wrong messenger you degenerate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:21 AM
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And Saudi Arabia is already a good counter example to your point already. Back in the day people (and children) worked extremely 10-12 hour days and 6-7 days weekly. We have laws around better working conditions now but we still have a governmental organization that oversees workplace legal issues. Why do we still need to keep it around if workers already got their rights now? Nah, I disagree that unless I contribute money, I can’t identify as a feminist. Last I checked feminism didn’t require t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 02:59 AM
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Same, I love men and masculine energy but with all the shame they themselves give women around having sex and having kids - I’ve personally gotten the message loud and clear that those things should be treated with a lot of caution and thus, I act accordingly. Since the penalty for women is so high for having sex and kids with the wrong guy, consequently the guy just has to be much more exceptional for me to even consider getting into something with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:27 AM
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I don’t think it’s as past tense as you think, #metoo was pretty recent. And I’m curious on why feminism was needed in the first place? Why did men stop women from getting their own job and why were rape/SA allegations not taken as seriously before. How do I know that if I say fine no more feminism, those things won’t start to happen again? And secondly, I also worry about polluting our oceans, child hunger, and child cancer. There’s a lot of causes I care about and I pick 1-2 a year that I dona…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 01:00 AM
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I only agree that women making the argument that housework is the same difficulty as a 9-5 is delusional. I don’t think anyone should put down other people doing honest work. Same for teachers, who literally spend money out of their own pockets and often work overtime for free for the kids they teach and get shit salaries while some rich tech bro who works 4-5 hours a day in a cushy office gets paid 10x her salary. I still like feminism. Look at how shitty, women in places like the Middle East, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:45 AM
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Too long so glossed over, but yeah agree on all those points. Men should pick better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:30 AM
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Mind you, this comes right after the “Older women have too much baggage to date” post. See girls, it’s always about the looks and the youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:24 AM
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I’m already generally respectful/neutral of any man or woman who does honest work to support themselves. How exactly should the blue collar men be respected that’s not being done already? Give concrete instructions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:18 AM
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Simp to pick me ratio says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 12:11 AM
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Why do I always hear this infrastructure argument on this sub. Every time I see a power line outside, I guess I should just stop everything and standup and do a pledge of allegiance to men or something. What does infrastructure have anything to do with a dating related sub. No doubt they’re hard jobs and thus most blue collar jobs pay well compared to women dominated fields like teachers. Is the expectation that you should also get paid in sex or with a relationship on top of your salary for doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:32 PM
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Maybe you’re right …. until there are kids involved and then the power dynamics completely flip. Pregnancy can make you age faster, women are the ones who are more likely to put their career on hold to be with their kids, and you will have to be WAY more tolerant of any shitty behavior from your husband because now if you leave, people can pull the “she broke up her family card” and “ew she’s a single mother card.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 10:20 PM
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You sound emotional, chill
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:01 AM
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Ultimately no woman dreams as a little girl to one day marry an ogre. So if the conditions she lives in are so terrible that this is the sacrifice she has to make for her and her family, I do want to expedite the citizenship process. No need to make her suffer for 6 years is my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:06 AM
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“Getting citizenship through marriage involves a multi-year process, typically taking about 3 years for permanent residency (the green card) followed by another 3 years for naturalization to become a citizen, for a total of approximately six years.” 6 years is torture and cruel and unusual punishment, 6 months of time before they should be able to earn the citizenship imo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:52 AM
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I just want guardrails for the woman here, 6 months max before they earn their citizenship and can leave the relationship if they want to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:47 AM
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Is love what they’re finding lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:46 AM
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I’m not mocking anybody, I’m just using descriptive words
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:45 AM
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Yeah, I’m saying like 6 months should be max before she gets the citizenship and can leave the ogre. I just want guardrails here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:42 AM
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How are they being used for their money
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:42 AM
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Why do you think I’m crashing out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:40 AM
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No im arguing that she said yes because her situation was so bad she willingly chose to sleep with an ugly ogre over it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:40 AM
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If you have to explain that you’re making fun of me, then maybe you’re not very good at making fun of people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:38 AM
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Then why did you comment on this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:38 AM
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Why are you okay with women being used against their will?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:36 AM
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If you don’t care, why did you comment. Do you have cognitive dissonance
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:36 AM
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Cognitive dissonance in full display here. Are do you not realize you too are on this stupid forum. Think about that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:35 AM
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No she was high 5ng with a dude who called me an amoeba. Refute my point. Where did I make women the victim?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:35 AM
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Wrong. 1) Socially: the us citizen has their social support groups and structure while the other partner has no one in a foreign land. 2) Financially: the us citizen has more money, that’s the entire point of passport bros. If they didn’t have more money, they wouldn’t get the woman. 3) Legally: the other partner can be deported if they do not please their partner. This is all in context that if you look at most passport bros, they make lower-middle income in western countries and look like stra…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:55 AM
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There is a clear imbalance of power: legally, socially, and financially. Whenever there are power imbalance scenarios, they are more prone to abuse. Hence, I don’t mind that passport bros happen, I won’t more guardrails to protect the other partner in this scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:47 AM
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Mute this thread, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:34 AM
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Who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:32 AM
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Do you have a source for that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:30 AM
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If women are more emotional, why are all the school shooters men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:26 AM
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What part of what I said was fake? Spell it out for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:17 AM
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Says the guy who started off ad hominemin calling me an amoeba. Do you have cognitive dissonance or brain disease? Which one is it? Did you really tell me to watch my tone? Who even are you? What authority do you have dumbass
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 01:15 AM
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Exhausting why? We are in a debate sub and I’m debating. Why are you adding content less rhetoric. If you have a counter point then say it - else don’t add brain dead filler to this conversation clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:46 AM
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Should change your flair from no pill, to pick me pill lmao. Wow did the man give you a high 5 for standing up for his ugly ogre passport bros? Great job sis
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:34 AM
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Yeah, why’s that? Is there something you disagree with? Go ahead and tell me then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:33 AM
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Then your view is not justified if you cannot back it up. And if you don’t care to argue or change people’s view, let me remind you - DEBATE sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:28 AM
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Go ahead and tell me what you’d think and how it’s a faulty comparison then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:25 AM
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Not really. There is no perfect black or white scenarios in the world. If you’re a school bully and a victim punches you back, people like you would say it’s nuanced and equally bad (aka zero tolerance policy side). I’d argue the victim is undeniably in the right here to punch the bully. Because is punching people immoral, yeah? Is bullying people to the point that they punch you more immoral, YEAH. NuAnCe
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:21 AM
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If one side is more immoral than the other, it’s not that gray to me personally. It’s only gray if they’re equally bad which we both agree is not the case here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:13 AM
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In your response, you basically agree while both sides could be using the situation for transactional purposes clearly the man has more concrete power - legally and financially and socially (through his social support structures). The only thing the girl has is something emotional I guess? So there is no way in hell that the woman is taking advantage here. And to your point on is it wrong to take advantage of someone’s delulu. I argue no in this scenario for the woman. Because if you live in a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:07 AM
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Real shit to deal with but you’re on PPD lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:45 PM
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Yeah no if you’re going to pull points out of your ass, you do need to be able to back them up as this is a debate sub. If you don’t care to do that, then don’t speak on shit you don’t care about? Most passport bros are significantly richer than the woman, that’s the ENTIRE premise of passport bro’ing. So it’s naive to say a wishy washy statement like oh they’re not all from third world shitholes (although I argue a lot are) so there will always be an implicit threat that if your hubby doesn’t l…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:43 PM
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Oh so you don’t think the woman is more at risk of abuse in this scenario? Really? A woman who is in a whole unknown country away from her support group and must perform up to her hubby’s expectations or have the threat of being sent back to her shithole hung over her head? Really? You feel like being worried about the woman here is a disguise? Say more?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:27 PM
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How interesting. If you bring up abuse, control, and power then that’s another advantage on the man’s side. If you’re living in a hut in Thailand making less than a few dollars and your hubby can threaten to send you back to that, seems like he would hold all the power no? Also, admit you’re wrong then. That it’s not the man taken advantage of here. If you say you don’t care, then watch your words and don’t say things without thinking in the first place? Think before we speak or something rememb…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:24 PM
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Taken advantage of means it’s not a fair bargain. The bargain here is the man gets someone significantly out of his league and the woman gets a citizenship out of her shithole country. So seems pretty equal, idk what you’re talking about. And Idk why you mentioned status, most passport bros are the ugliest mofos I’ve seen and they’re usually not rich either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:18 PM
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Taken advantage of means it’s not a fair bargain. The bargain here is the man gets someone significantly out of his league and the woman gets a citizenship out of her shithole country. Idk why you mentioned status, most passport bros are the ugliest mofos I’ve seen and they’re usually not rich either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:17 PM
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If she thinks those women deserve better, why doesn’t SHE marry them. It’s really nice to be a woke western liberal cosplaying as a humanitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:14 PM
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In what way are the men being taken advantage of here? They’re not looking for their looksmatch overseas, they’re dangling their first world citizenship cards to get women significantly out of their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:13 PM
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Let them get away with it? Those women get visas/entry into first world countries with better opportunities and the trade off is they have to sleep with some ugly guy for a few years. Tbh if I was poor girl in some third world shit hole with no chance of upwards mobility I’d probably do the same thing. Passport bros are just a version of men who use strippers/escorts. Just let them is my take on this, and let the women get paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:05 PM
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What exactly do women do wrong? I’m so curious?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:58 PM
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Do you have any studies that show that a majority of women have expressed they only care about personality and don’t factor in looks at all when looking for a romantic partner? Please link here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:44 PM
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Can you please link the studies here that show women on average lie more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:40 PM
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There have been countless posts/comments in PPD where women have already said they care about looks and personality only matters after the looks threshold has been met. Yet, men keep making posts about how the majority of women are lying that they only care about personality and not looks. Let’s be honest, even if you ignored all the posts/vidoes women make online talking about how they care about height and hairlines, men themselves already have an innate understanding that looks play a huge ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:29 PM
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All your responses in this thread are about semantics and pedantic shit but I can see through this and I understand where this post is actually coming from. A lot of men on PPD are very resentful that the “bad” men who are attractive get rewarded sex but the “good” hardworking men don’t, so they thus no longer have the incentive to be “good.” The problem with that is that we would have to set and enforce the expectation that women need to have sex with any hardworking man regardless of whether t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:15 PM
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