Monchete99 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	People demand more out of married men than out of married women (PEW survey results) Well, as expected from w*men	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/12/20 09:07 PM
1	Why Do People Believe Will Get Anywhere Without Bashing Feminism The third wave is not that afraid of criticizing earlier waves, but hates acknowledging that they have way too much in common with them. I agree that the Duluth model is shit (way too antagonistic and heteronormative), even Ellen Pierce acknowledged that her research was filled with confirmation bias. The VAWA act, despite its shitty and sensationalist wording, was operatively gender-neutral and it was ammended twice so that it was made even more clear and to add a clause so that funding was den…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/12/20 12:59 PM
0	Menslib extreme misandry and drama removed thread Exactly, they complain about male disposability when it's engrained in the view of men they push. Menslib focuses on feminism first and then men. These groups focus on bashing feminism first and then men.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/12/20 09:17 AM
2	Why Do People Believe Will Get Anywhere Without Bashing Feminism Doubt about that last part. The ones that actively seek to do harm go men were and still are a vocal minority, while the established status quo is based on just focusing on female issues and not giving a fuck about men. I don't think the current wave of feminism is gonna create a Ellen Rodger any time soon. It's just that it lacks the self-critique of any legitimate movement. Heck, even tankies have more self-critique.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/12/20 12:02 AM
3	Feminist professor in Spain advocates for mass castrations in front of her students (imagine the public reaction and newspapers if the genders were reversed and a male professor advocated for FGM) Kind of. False rape accusations has been a point brought up by VOX even to the point of bringing it up as a major cause of male suicide and it has been "debunked" because they conflated false rape accusations with absoluted cases and accusations that were still in process. So yeah, kinda poisoned the well on that one. Regarding unfair trials for men, yeah, there are still laws that only apply to men though under supposedly very specific conditions (aka chauvinist violence). I understand why it's…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 06:50 PM
1	Why Do People Believe Will Get Anywhere Without Bashing Feminism Because one thing is judging the ideology of feminism and the other the feminist movement. The feminist movement has been corrupted by a wave of liberal priviledged white women who only care about getting more power than what they have and leave men in the shitter as i mentioned before, and that's a fact that proves that it definitely cannot help men, because it's, as much as i hate agreeing with certain others, a male-hating movement. However, the ideology they claim to follow is just their twi…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 05:59 PM
4	One reason (among many) I hate the “all men [I’m not attracted to] are sex crazed rape beasts” mentality is that I don’t even really care about sex and it’s never been my first priority. Does anyone else feel the same? That's exactly the point that menslib fails to understand. Sure, the idea that men are always thinking about sex is perpetuated by society's view of the male sex as dominant, but since they think society is only men (because for them women are somehow non-existant in society, which is kinda sexist for a feminist), they fail to realize that that also includes women. Women have also been taught for generations that all men are the same, that all men want sex all the time, not just by men, but by o…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 05:33 PM
2	One reason (among many) I hate the “all men [I’m not attracted to] are sex crazed rape beasts” mentality is that I don’t even really care about sex and it’s never been my first priority. Does anyone else feel the same? You do realize asexual people and people who don't think all the time about sex exist, right?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 05:23 PM
1	Menslib extreme misandry and drama removed thread I'm not saying that discussing male issues is bad. I'm saying that the discussion has this terrible stigma because feminists take every single discussion of men's issues as "i want to silence women" because they participate in this sumzero bullshit and lash out regardless of context. They cannot comprehend that men want these issues heard AS WELL, not INSTEAD, and as such they see any attempt at starting discussion on an already established platform as "attempting to take the spotlight"	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 05:15 PM
-1	Why Do People Believe Will Get Anywhere Without Bashing Feminism Correct me if i'm wrong, but you seem to think that the feminist movement, not just a vocal minority, actively seeks to cause harm to men in the same way as nazis would do to minorities, and that there is no compromise between men and feminism. This point of view is at best misguided and at worst harmful. The big issue is that feminists who attempt to bring men to their movement don't want these men to point out their flaws, especially those that make men adverse to feminism in the first place (…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 05:11 PM
-5	Menslib extreme misandry and drama removed thread I think the issue is that the well of male discussion is poisoned as hell. It's pretty similar to "all lives matter". On a vacuum, it's not a controversial statement, rather a true one. However, it is weaponized to shut down discussions of racial discrimination, so people who say that without knowing the latter might take the negative reception as "wow, these people who support black people in reality hate whites". I'd say that society tends to shut down both because both men and women have prob…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 04:29 PM
6	Feminist professor in Spain advocates for mass castrations in front of her students (imagine the public reaction and newspapers if the genders were reversed and a male professor advocated for FGM) It's still fucking shit. They recently picked the terf branch of feminism (as if the video and this shit isn't proof enough) and the pandemic's management has been shit from all sides. PSOE's succdem party is too afraid to put any measures because "muh economy" as well as general mismanagement of ERTEs and masks, the moderate right (especially and coincidentally Isabel Ayuso) has been in every possible scandal that happened in Madrid, VOX in their attempts to be Trump made in Spain has pushed ma…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 04:16 PM
0	Menslib extreme misandry and drama removed thread Yeah, but going all "what about men?" on threads about women won't solve it. It's better to create your own point of discussion instead of antagonizing other conversations, like making a thread in Askreddit (btw, if you search rape on AskReddit, almost all of the results involve threads of men talking about their rape stories but the only thread about women i found was met with accusations of being a creep).	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 03:51 PM
4	Menslib extreme misandry and drama removed thread I think the issue is that both MRAs and feminists see acknowledging one gender's issues as silencing the other's, as if we lived in a sum zero world. It's completely possible, and encouraged, to acknowledge both and have discussions about them without having to eclipsate each other. But nooo, spotlight has to be only mine and if you don't pay attention to me for a second i'll die or something (i think i should clarify that i'm not talking about the rape victims themselves, rather the people who …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 03:33 PM
2	The idea that women are "bigger victims" than men is a harmful, antiquated gender norm that promotes toxic ideas in society The use of numbers without looking at what causes said numbers is a terrible practice overall. Be it crime statistics, suicide rates or whatever. Statistics don't just exist on a vacuum. There are factors that play onto them and ignoring them is antithetical to critical analysis	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 03:24 PM
3	The idea that women are "bigger victims" than men is a harmful, antiquated gender norm that promotes toxic ideas in society The whole concept of "women are victims and need to be protected (by men)" just fits their definition of benevolent sexism, but lib feminist women won't admit it because it would remove them their "oppressed medals". Liberals just want to win the oppressed olympics first and pretend to care about stuff second. They are a plague to every social movement.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 03:22 PM
12	Menslib extreme misandry and drama removed thread The only reason many (and even myself in the past, which is one of the many things that makes me want to go back and slam my past self against a wall) recommend Menslib as "the only good sub that discusses men's rights" is because it's different from the image of male movements that put themselves in a position against feminism claiming to be the only movement that cares about men yet spend all the time complaining about feminism in general being indistinguishable from anti-feminist movements th…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 03:15 PM
9	Menslib extreme misandry and drama removed thread How they follow an ideology that pushes intersectionality and cannot comprehend that oppression is multifaceted and society back then cannot be described as "back then, it was women bad men good"?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/12/20 02:56 PM
3	Menslib has a long thread about sexual harassment of a fictional character. Because when Covid's slaughtering men, that's the important topic I'll play devil's advocate and guess the harassment wasn't just the butt slap itself, rather the reaction of the guy after being confronted about it. Instead of acknowledging that his joke could have been a bit off-touch and could have made a peer uncomfortable (obviously not as much as a real-life butt slap but you get the point), he just reacted in the worst possible way, not only by acting as if it was nothing but also trivialising sexual harassment itself (especially using the "it's a prank …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/04/20 05:11 PM