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| 1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?Men are in need of help! Instead of doing anything and figuring out way. You’re just like “that’s not my experience. You should move out and then ur get a girl.” Be a role model, be a support structure for your friends(you probably are from what I read about ur roommates so I will give you the benefit on this one.) The youth (15-17) need us to guide them. That’s the point. Reflect on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?First of all I didn’t call you a boomer. So already you are misinterpreting my statement. So I will be disregarding this conversation with you. I will only attack this point. “Men aren’t getting laid cuz they at home” Motels exist you moron. Cars exist. You as a non boomer man know this. Go out there and find out way the stats are showing that WOMEN are having more sex then MEN. And why MEN are leaving dating behind and close peace over relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?That’s a bad idea in 2025. Do you not see that men are checking out of work and dating in general? Life is hard it’s always been hard. But the dating scene and the housing market are all different. Everyone that is against my argument is either older, already married and their partner already had a house when they were getting married. So of course they are going to go “well it worked out for me.” They literally just existed That’s not how it works for men. You got to grind. (Unless you get luck… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?It’s easy for you to say any and all of this. 30 and under are not able to afford housing. The economy is a horrible. You are giving a typical boomer like response. We can’t have what you had. Any one that is already married doesn’t understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 09:26 PM |
| -1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?That’s not an issue I will have and many people will find solutions to them. You are just not very smart or want to do any problem solving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?That’s true! That’s a good counter argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:34 PM |
| 0 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?I just like my parents and they like me. Not deep oba-Chan. I saved a lot of money. If I went to rent I wouldn’t have been able to do the things I did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:29 PM |
| -2 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?“Built the skills” You did. You literally did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:27 PM |
| -2 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?I learn how to cook for my self. Most girls I met to date 20-30 don’t know how to cook. They were stunted. Also I’m not saying in ur childhood room. I have a floor to my self. Not everyone does. I get it but you can literally decorate your room and evolve it. Use your brain. You would have had way much more money then you would have. I was able to make a lot of money investing (and losing lol) because of it and now they are being rewarded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:25 PM |
| -2 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?You’re just weak if you think you would have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:12 PM |
| 0 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?But they don’t! Become emotional stunted! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?I have a sister. A older one. She is the problem not my mom. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 06:49 PM |
| – | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?You should go and un retire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 06:12 PM |
| -1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?the floor is theirs. And private. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?I made money in the stock market and paid it off. 🤓 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?Yes, I will in the house I own! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?Nice tactic. This is a public forum to discuss and argue and that’s what we are doing. It saids it right there “top 1% commenter.” I come here once in a while. I’m not bother. If i really was bothered by most of the things people say or post I to would be a “top 1% commenter.” 🤓 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:45 PM |
| 6 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?It’s not a hot take I agree. I noticed the same thing. This is a good counter argument. Although you didn’t answer my question. And that’s fine. Thanks for the counter argument! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:37 PM |
| 0 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?“I’m the exception so my way is the only way” You just got lucky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:23 PM |
| 0 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?No I said don’t answer it. And you stoll responded and got upset. You don’t follow directions and want to rebel, your counter argument was good and that’s why I praised it. I came in good faith. But you just proved my point. That’s why you got upset deep down you know it’s true. Don’t respond to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:11 PM |
| 8 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?What’s better. Renting one room where you live in a house with multiple people? Or Having the whole basement or whole floor to yourself. While the parents live in the 2nd floor? (Now obviously not everyone’s housing experience is the same.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:08 PM |
| -1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?In my experience that is the truth. Parents are never going to change. You either accept it and move on. Or you realize that their lives weren’t really that good. “My parents wouldn’t want this for me” Maybe your parents just don’t like you as much as you think? ( I’m not saying this to be mean. I’m saying this as a question for you reflect on. Don’t answer it to me. Answer it to yourself) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:03 PM |
| -5 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?A FUCKING HOUSE. You people are so dumb. I’m sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:00 PM |
| -1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?I’m lucky I have my own space. That’s the thing but this is a great counter argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:59 PM |
| -4 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?YOU ARE FUMBLING!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:58 PM |
| -1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?You’re the problem here and are wrong. This house is going to be mine. It’s my inheritance. It’s an advantage I have in a world where people 30 and under will never be able to get a house that looks as decent as mine. Just because you hate ur son doesn’t mean all moms do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?I help my parents do laundry! The machine is in the basement my mom lives in the 2nd floor. She has only one working lung. Of course I’m going to be the one climbing 2 fleets of stairs 4 times carrying the clothes up and down the stairs like, come on. People just really hate their parents (and I get it some of them are bad. But people don’t reflect and put themselves in their parents shoes and see how their childhood was.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:56 PM |
| -1 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?Why? You don’t know the arrangement. What if the house they own is going to be handed down to the guy!? YOU GET A “FREE” HOUSE GIRL(if it works out. But that could be a thing you don’t car about cuz you could already own a house so that makes sense) But for the women that don’t own their own house…. What is your issue? If you know the guy lives at home and you find out that the house is nice and everyone has their area and privacy… and the most important part… THE GUY WILL INHERIT THE HOUSE!! Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Women seem to date above their league. Does it typically workout for them?This is stupid. If you have a great relationship with your parents why would you not want to live with them? Save money? Help them pay bills and keep being a good child? If your 20-30 your parents are 40-60 ish, our parents usually aren’t fitness people so they don’t have the same power us young people have. Why wouldn’t you want to be home and help your parent? Is it because you hate them? Because that’s what it is. But I get not everyone has good parents. But not everyone is a good child to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:40 PM |
| 2 | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"Don’t believe the lies. Dont believe the depression. Believe in the me that Believes in you. You can make your life better. You can. The anger and hatred you feel, is valid. 1.5 years. You can change your life if you lock in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 06:05 AM |
| 1 | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"BECAUSE YOU DESERVE TO LIVE!!!!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 06:01 AM |
| 1 | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"Bro I’m 32. My diet isn’t tasteless. I can enjoy what ever I want. If I want to eat pizza I can. Just 2 slices. More if I do a lot of cardio that day. Working out gets easier over time. It’s hard in the beginning but it helps. I do cardio everyday. I have a elliptical I watch YouTube videos (learning stuff or just fun ass videos), read books(fiction and non fiction), play on my steam deck or practice the guitar as I do low intensity cardio. I been doing this for 6-8 months and doing calisthenics… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 05:55 AM |
| 3 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.Het men are aware of this. Some are dirt bags and others like me ask “are you okay?” Every few times. It just doesn’t make sure. I saw American pie one when I was younger, I was PETRIFIED at the scene where everyone sees the MC bust in 2 seconds. They are just having sex with men that only care about themselves and comes in 2 mins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 02:04 PM |
| – | Women: Why are you unable / unwilling to understand why most men consider "hookup/FWB material" more validating than "husband material" given that you put the FWB/hookup guys in a way more exclusive, privileged, elite club?That is the ideal. (Just like looks match is the ideal) But most people who get married and divorced within the same few years one of the reasons is lack of sexual needs being met on both sides. Sorry, a husband that wasn’t FWB material doesn’t know how to have sex. Cuz chances are…. They weren’t having sex to get experience. I was in church when I was younger. I was a virgin, the girls weren’t. The dead bed rooms usually happened to the husband pick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Most men basically worship women.Wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Most men basically worship women.The first thing most people do is judge another person intrinsically. The key word here is intrinsically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 12:55 AM |
| 0 | Most men basically worship women.Maybe the famous ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Most men basically worship women.Every human being is like that. You have intrinsic thoughts and there no way ur a perfect person. At the end of the day I admit it and I don’t let those intrinsic thoughts in the way of my life and how I interact with the people I want to interact with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 08:05 PM |
| -1 | Most men basically worship women.I think more people are lesser than me in general. If I think ur a loser you bring no value to my life and I wouldn’t talk to you. Some people deserve my time others don’t and at the end of the day they aren’t going to know how I feel regardless. Does that mean I go up to them and be rate them? No. I don’t want anything to do with them. I know loser men and loser women. But only loser women are given opportunities and passes for their loser behavior by both sexes majority of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Most men basically worship women.Fat women are treated better than fat men. Can we agree on that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Do men even enjoy dating women?because this is the internet. None of us will be talking to each other in the freaking real world this way. Or at all tbh. Like I don’t want to be friends with any of you people . Men or women . The Op of this thread is a guy and he is INSUFFERABLE. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Men are judged for "getting" women. Women don't "get" men.Oh I believe you. It’s either being a passport bro or switching sides now a days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Men are judged for "getting" women. Women don't "get" men.Fucking loser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 02:08 AM |
| 0 | Men are judged for "getting" women. Women don't "get" men.Take your L bro. Log out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Men are judged for "getting" women. Women don't "get" men.Lack of attention from women. The ones they really want. All you do is sprout out the same garbage and nonsense that everyone else fucking does. I hate people like you. But I’ll play your game. Fine maybe they where bi or maybe they are gynosexul. Attracted to feminine traits and femininity. Just take your L bro. You coming in here talking the same garbage. “Oh just go on grindr if your so lonely and depressed and get no attention see how you like that.” “Okay yeah straight men are now and disco… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Men are judged for "getting" women. Women don't "get" men.Haha femboys and twinks are the new wave, you don’t have to tell me. 🥸 You don’t have to put photos up on Grindr, you can send them to the people on there. Win win. EDIT: Also yes straight men will go on Grindr for attention and turn bi. This is a direct effect of online dating and men not getting attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 01:37 AM |
| 11 | Men are judged for "getting" women. Women don't "get" men.Becuase a lot of guys get no attention! That’s what the other side doesn’t understand. “Oh boo woo I have 100 guys to go thru and vet” Guys are already bitter getting no matches for months hearing this just drives them off the wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 01:11 AM |
| 0 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.Felt this bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | What would women like to hear ?I can’t find that post about the dead bed room guy, can you link it? Want to read it before I comment on it. And Oh trust me I check history on ever one I debate with. I believe everyone does do they can find dirty and dunk on people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Most men on OLD are of a similar attractiveness to the women.No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 08:48 PM |
| 2 | What would women like to hear ?But we don’t know any other info????? Your right he could have had 1 girl Or 20 girls. Edit: again these men aren’t debating people here they just stating their experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What would women like to hear ?Some one posted examples you can see my respond there. One of them said the guy was single for 15 years. That’s not the same thing as saying “they have zero experiences” Those examples are also not giving advice they just talking and stating the truth of their situation. They aren’t even debating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 05:20 PM |
| 6 | What would women like to hear ?Those people aren’t even debating just Stating the truth LOL. Make sense why I never seen them. Edit: also one of your example the guy said he hasn’t been in a relationship fin 15 years. That doesn’t equal a person with no experience. They just telling the how they feel and “their truth” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 04:02 PM |
| 3 | What would women like to hear ?Those people aren’t even debating just Stating the truth LOL. Make sense why I never seen them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Most men on OLD are of a similar attractiveness to the women.I think it’s a guy thing tbh. Like we only say those 3 but us guys feel like we don’t have to say the common sense stuff like “she got to be fit/cute etc etc” it’s already included in our mindset and if anything we are telling you our “the bar is literally at the earths core.” statement lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 11:47 AM |
| 3 | What would women like to hear ?Cap. I have never seen anyone admit that here. Men or women. PPD is literally a DEBATE SUB people on here would rather die then be wrong or feel insulted. No way is anyone going to admit they have zero relationships experience (UNLESS THEY ARE COMING TO THIS SUB TO ASK A QUESTION). Your just giving your enemy ammunition to use against you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 11:18 AM |
| 1 | How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable?WOMEN CAN LEARN TO HAVE HIGH LIBIDO. It called…. giving her ORGASMS!! if she fakes them that’s ON HER. you need to lead her to climax WHILE making her feel safe and comfortable. That’s also the reason first sex sucks with ur partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 03:25 AM |
| 1 | What do men who's only sexual encounters were with escorts do?Don’t under estimate body fat in the face. Lose a hood 20-40 pounds and your face WILL look better. Now is it going to look better for the person you are hoping?🤷 But it makes a big deal. I encouraged a friend to lose weight with me and his face really changed. Everyone just need to shut up, stop complaining and just be a better person. Your never going to know how your face looks until you lose the weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children?We do????? It’s just everyone else has added preferences. I don’t date over 26. The women in my area all have similar baggage and issues. So I rather court the younger girl over the older one. Im not really okay being alone. But I rather be alone then settle for a family I will resent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/22 01:44 AM |
| 1 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obvious🙈🙊🙉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 02:46 PM |
| 8 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousYeah she deserved it :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 06:58 PM |
| 14 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousWay to invaildate my experience. Stay classy PPD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 06:53 PM |
| 5 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousI’m not but okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 06:53 PM |
| 4 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousThat’s why I put unless they don’t back 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:51 PM |
| 26 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousNo it’s “LOOK SEE LOOK AT MY SON WHO I TAUGHT TO RESPECT WOMEN AS A fEMISTIT!!! IM SO AMAZING AND MY SON AND ME ARE MORALLY BETTER THEN YOU” This happens all the time. That’s virtue signaling and that’s what I’m talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:30 PM |
| 7 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousThat really sucks bro. Good luck. Wow. Boys definitely need a mentor for them to trust in. Makes sense why so many boys at young ages go to YouTube. Alpha m was my first real male YouTube mentor and everything I learn I will never forget. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:00 PM |
| 32 | The most shocking thing about the Red Pill, as a woman, is that Men need a Red Pill and that what is *generally* attractive to women isn't reasonably obviousThat’s my issue with all these thing. I’m going to raise my son to be a great person as best as I can. I do not need to teach him to respect women….. Because I’m going to teach him to respect everyone (unless they don’t back) just feels like virtue signalin. “I taught my son to not be a mysogtic to women etc et “ When it should really be “I taught my son to defend him self but also respect everyone” Idk it feels like being respectful is just common sense/ something that is part of society. The o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Both men and women in relationships are far better off in every metric than those who aren’t. We should acknowledge thisYou’re so corny bro. I never said womanly things were lame and me calling my dad amazing is because he is. (My mother as well is amazing.) Child care doesn’t matter to me because I’m SINGLE and it’s a point I can concede and agree with you that it’s crazy. Most (not all) people on ppd are single No kids so that’s why it doesn’t matter. DO YOU HAVE KIDS? If you do, I concede that point you got it harder boo hooo. But if YOU DONT HAVE KIDS and I DONT HAVE KIDS. Then it’s a moot point to bring up i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Both men and women in relationships are far better off in every metric than those who aren’t. We should acknowledge thisDoesn’t matter be efficient. It’s possible. That just how men think. Also don’t appreciate at all your bs statement on my father. My mother is handicapped (you have no ability to know that) laundry machines are in the basement. She can’t walk down two flights of stairs with out losing her breath and coughing hard. The men (me and my father) do the laundry. And we do it efficiently. Kids don’t matter to me. I don’t have any but have helped take care of my sister 4 kids. (Obviously not the same bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Both men and women in relationships are far better off in every metric than those who aren’t. We should acknowledge thisIf you did it right the first time, You wouldn’t have to do it everyday for a couple hours. My dad is the GOat he’s fucking macguvyer about to fix anything in a hour. There always something that needs fixing and my dad is efficient. Maybe y’all just arent? I live by myself in my own apartment. Takes 1-2 hours tops to clean the living. 1 hour to clean the bathroom. And while I’m doing all of that I have laundry being wash. The difference is I’m actively making sure that nothing I do in the inbetw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/22 12:56 PM |
| 6 | Men over 30, do you filter out 30 year old women while looking for serious relationships?Maybe you are super mature (I hope so!) but for me IRL the 30s around me are just as immature as the 18 and younger crowd. :/ In that case I rather just date the 18-27 ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 08:41 PM |
| 6 | Men are having less casual sex than ever. And it's a good thing.Yeah sure whatever. Not my point. But I can agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:03 PM |
| 7 | Men are having less casual sex than ever. And it's a good thing.Because deep down people really aren’t truly happy they are single lol. Idc how much video games or me time guys have. Or how many times women watch grey anatomy from the beginning for the 5th time to numb the pain. It’s cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 12:01 PM |
| 0 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?No I’m including that as well. Don’t assume ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/22 12:00 AM |
| 5 | What redpill “truth” do you think gives men the most rage?See you say that. But I feel that’s the issue with women all over every dating subreddit. I read so many post from women and it’s all the same. “He just wants sex and then leaves” yeah cuz you are only hot enough/on his level for sex not a relationship. I personally believe I’m a 5-6 I do not go for 8+ unless I know them IRL or they have something from bio and pictures that show we can be compatible. It feels like the women in the 4-7 ranges just don’t see me. “Oh but maybe that means ur actuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/22 07:02 PM |
| 0 | I hear a lot of people say that women "aren't rocket science" When it comes to dating. I disagree wholeheartedly.Because to him he probably wasn’t that interested in you for a relationship and probably just wanted to fuck around. That’s why after he rejected you he came back crying about you. Cuz either the other person he REALLY wanted to talk to probablyghosted him. Now he’s back to you cuz he knows YOU like him. A man will go thru heaven and hell to court you if he really really wanted you. Just how it is man sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/22 03:21 PM |
| 1 | The source of discontentment among single men isn't singlehood itself, but the external pressure from society to find relationships.Idk, this could be a me thing tbh. But like if my girl was literally 10/10 and was down for everything and we both full filed each other sexually. Why would I need to watch porn? My girl is hot and is willing. I would also be tired from all the fuckin anyways lol. I agree with the fantasy bit but again you can do that with ur girl if she is down and if she isn’t and that a big deal ? Then I can see porn being a “solution” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | The source of discontentment among single men isn't singlehood itself, but the external pressure from society to find relationships.Because the theory is that a man who WORKS on his career thru 18-30s and gets success is a HIGH VALUE man. Men who focus on that and become successful past their 30s can get whatever they want. I agree with your point to a extent . But I don’t think you understand which women these things are being said too. If your past 30 and are STILL attractive and fit. You will still get attention and those things wouldn’t be said. I just saw this amazingly beautiful women at my work place who looks 40s-50s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 04:16 PM |
| -1 | Why shouldn't a man feel insecure?Oh god lol. Ur still not understanding. He’s saying he finds it so repulsive that there is no circulation of blood flowing into his dick. So he can’t get hard with somone with a High N count Lolllllll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 12:31 AM |
| 6 | Why shouldn't a man feel insecure?He’s talking about his DICK. HE CANT GET HARD BECAUSE HE FINDS IT REPULSIVE. 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 11:21 PM |
| -1 | Ned Fulmer cheated on his wife- Final nail in the coffin for the 'Pick Better' narrativeMaybe you females just aren’t good at picking better? I know I ain’t, I pick the same women that have the same red flags and I DON’TEVEN KNOW HOW IT HAPPENS. so I had to really figure my self out and learn more about PEOPLE. When I started my new job all the old guy employees were really cool in the beginning and after a few months some of their true colors show. You never know a person fully until they either reveal it to you by accident or on a bad day. Or if you move in with someone. So how c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/22 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.“To choose to be there instead of required to be there” Damn dude that line goes hard. Felt it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.Agreed brother :( . I feel average and invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.I hope so. I want to be wanted and desire for who I am so bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.Damn bro, you just spelled it out to me how I felt inside by couldn’t express. Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.Yeah, it was a Twitter meme thing. You’ll be surprised what’s out there in the world. Like there’s literally a slapping competition that has a semi pro league and it’s just people slapping each. Crazy all those things the women I know don’t have or do. Can’t even drive yet they want to go to target every other day. Just an example of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 06:40 PM |
| 2 | How can women both be too picky, have too high of numbers, yet you are also not willing to wait?I rather die alone then be with someone sub par. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 06:29 PM |
| 10 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.The man that don’t take care of them selves on ur example are people that males and females BOTH do not care for. They are losers. I as a man do not associate with losers (I give them a grace period, I try to help their lives give advice and try to be there but if no EFFORT is given. My emotional support is gone.) no one in my social circle acts like that. I know more clean freak men then women. I remember this like Twitter meme like “guys live like this and have no bed frame” and everyone was l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 06:26 PM |
| 11 | Women are not wrong in saying that the average guy is an undateable mess. The mistake they make is believing that the average woman is not.I agree with this statement but have have seen the mess that is a single women depressed. They say they don’t need men but (these women I know IRL) are crying and complaining about being alone and dying alone. It’s very sad. I know I NEED a women as my partner. Its in my primal drive as a male. But I rather die alone then be with someone subpar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | “Among heterosexual women who reported having engaged in sexual activity, only 6.1% wanted to have daily sexual intercourse”Okay? That’s your fault tbh. Like I get it sucks you are doing everything. But counter point is that the women I dated don’t know how to cook or drive. So it’s my fault for choosing these women. So I can’t really complain about those things that bother me. ( I hate feeling like I’m used as a limo driver for these girls to go to target) All my uncles cook more then then my aunts. Heck half of my aunts only can cook rice and chicken. Meanwhile my uncle O is making pizza and other cool stuff for hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 04:35 PM |
| 2 | “Among heterosexual women who reported having engaged in sexual activity, only 6.1% wanted to have daily sexual intercourse”That’s true. But I also think that way with potential dates. I’ll care enough because of obligation but I need to see if this person is exactly who I want to be with. I’m not giving 100% or caring 100% for a rando stranger or date. Because chances are they aren’t doing the same for me(and they don’t have to cuz they need to also see if I’m worth it as well.) My emotional support is only for those deemed worthy and unfortunately a lot of people are trash. And the flip side is that women don’t car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 04:30 PM |
| -1 | “Among heterosexual women who reported having engaged in sexual activity, only 6.1% wanted to have daily sexual intercourse”It’s not ignorant. We know, we get it. We just don’t care if your not in our lives/friends. Like I don’t care about ur issues or anything about your life. You are a random Reddit stranger. Or if we were acquaintances, I still wouldn’t care. My energy, time and my emotional support is for my close friends and family in my social circle. Imo I feel people should think that way/already do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 03:58 PM |
| 0 | “Among heterosexual women who reported having engaged in sexual activity, only 6.1% wanted to have daily sexual intercourse”No man. I’m responding to you responding to the guy talking about internet in his comment. Lovers691. Just a miscommunication between us bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 03:49 PM |
| -1 | “Among heterosexual women who reported having engaged in sexual activity, only 6.1% wanted to have daily sexual intercourse”No it wasn’t, that op your commenting to spoke about time management. Cooking, cleaning etc and about the internet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 03:15 PM |
| -1 | “Among heterosexual women who reported having engaged in sexual activity, only 6.1% wanted to have daily sexual intercourse”I taken care of babies. It’s not that bad. It’s work but I rather take care of a baby 24/7 then do hard labor like roofing. Stuff like that is soul crushing. And for the internet part he means you can put a video on or music in the background to get through, imo it makes things faster, you really get into a groove. I’m a single I do my own laundry, clean my own apartment and cook my own food sometimes. It takes me 30mins- 1 hour to clean something with music or a podcast on. Everyone different a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | “Among heterosexual women who reported having engaged in sexual activity, only 6.1% wanted to have daily sexual intercourse”Or counter point… we don’t care. Unless I know “you” forever and we are in a relationship( and looks like it’s serious/we heading down the road of marriage) then yah ima care. I doubt you care about foreskin issues and cares from a rando or even a male you know in ur life that your not close with/family/bf. And honestly you shouldn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/22 02:55 PM |
| 19 | Why is it harder for average man to move on from a relationship ?Only if they are successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/22 01:12 AM |
| 1 | women don't have as much good options as you think“Probably because women spent thousands of years barely even being a person” Bro… STFU you didn’t go thru any of that. Yeah it happened but who are you to even pull that out ? When your probably only 20-30. Men do need women we just don’t need or want YOU. so once you figure out your issues and grow as a person maybe then men(and other people) will need/want you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 11:36 AM |
| 3 | The bar IS in hell for men. But woman choose the barI remember arguing with someone on a different dating sub about the “ ick” she had to be trolling saying “what’s that?” There no such thing as a ick” Meanwhile there’s lot of post talking about Icks people have on that same subreddit. Delusional people man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | The bar IS in hell for men. But woman choose the barI’m waiting for the robot femboys 👀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadI never made that point. I literally said that the man should pay for the ticket and flight for the women he impregnated. So where did I say ban? A blue state is not going to ban abortions. Listen I hate people, but if a person who was rape and wanted a abortion because of said rape, I would pay for that person. Because deep down even tho I as a person just said and told you I don’t care about people I don’t know…. I still would and want to help. Cuz deep down, I’m a hero. So don’t put positions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadI have solutions. I help the people I know. I just don’t care about strangers. I would still help you if I knew you tho. I hold people accountable for their actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadNah. Just don’t be stupid. To many people are idiots and take things for granted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadTHANK YOU! i agree we should hold women AND MEN accountable! I’m glad we can find a understanding and common ground :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadThat’s not accountability. But nice try. Personally I’m of the opposite camp, I think it’s actually harder to get pregnant. So many couples from 21-35 have such difficulty having a kid they actually want. And LOL I know people who had 4 abortions in the last 9 months. That’s just way to much for one life time especially if it not for anything extreme if it just on a whim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadStop telling the world ur business and no one will use it against you. No one is going to snitch on you. And you have not countered any of the points of any person snitching. Im sorry you have a terrible relationship with your parents that you can’t trust them to tell them of this big decision you are making. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadDamn, pulled the “educate you” The L I gave you really was the FATTEST one ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadI know men dodge. I’m just saying. And guess what?????? IM FOR ACCOUNTABILITY FOR WOMEN AND MEN. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadIt’s easy to just deflect when you bring nothing to the convo. You are just emotional about the situation When YOU NEED TO BE RATIONAL. I’m glad you understand that you just took the FATTEST of L today and just can’t win this argument just like your side drop the ball the last 50 years to cement abortion laws. 6-3. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadYou never even answered my question kiddo. Who is snitching on you? If you were to get a abortion who is going to talk to about it? Your parents? A close friend? The man that nutted in you? The doctors/nurses? If you already don’t trust ur parents and know they are pro life. You wouldn’t tell them ( and it would be a shitty thing for parents to turn their children in). Your best friend is your BF for a reason. And a majority of the time people are not BFs with people of the opposite mentality/po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:36 AM |
| 3 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadI can tell you have no common sense and are just emotional about the situation. It’s literally the easiest thing ever. STOP TELLING PEOPLE No one is snitching unless your literally 7-9 months pregnant??? And went to doctors to be checked. A majority of people take a test see their pregnant and then just go get it taken out. Where’s the accountability??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadWhy do y’all always say the extremes shit that BARELY happens to the average person. Rape is real I agree but majority of people that are getting abortions are average folk JUST GETTING THEM. A member of my family works at planned parent hood, she sees the same people every few months. Just like you say people don’t care about women. The majority of people getting abortions do not care or have any self respect for themselves. There is no accountability the same way their is for child support in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadListen man. Who is going to snitch on you????? Who are you going to tell that you went and got a abortion? Majority of your camp has horrible relationships with their families so maybe they would? So don’t say nothing. I ain’t going to snitch so go do it in a blue state. The price that you and your partner should pay to get a abortion should be high. Accountability needs to be taken, that’s why child support is a thing for these dead beats. Minus all the extreme point y’all be bringing up. If yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadEverything is about winning to people man. Maybe not for you to appear like you have the moral ground. But deep down everyone wants to absolutely crush the opposition. No one wants to be a loser lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 04:00 AM |
| 0 | Straight women are not attracted to men, they are attracted to certain men.I think he saying that women are asexual only until they meet the “chad”. At that point sex isn’t a chore or something they are “required” to do in a marriage or relationship. It’s something they want to do. I don’t necessarily agree but makes sense. Dead beds are “usually”started by women (whether the husband let himself go or something else happens to the wife) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guyI’m just saying maybe the term could be sane haha. You can’t say your a nice guy out in there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guyA sane man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:39 PM |
| 3 | Women would rather be pumped and dumped by a hot guy than have a fulfilling relationship with an average guySorry two against one kiddo. Go out more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Women give terrible dating advice to men, but men give great dating advice to womenI’m talking about like in their social circle with people you “know”. Their always solutions for complex problems. You have to look at every position and see what’s best for you. If you are diagnosed with cancer or something crazy of course that’s something that you can’t really control which makes it even worse. All you can do is try the treatments and pray. But there is a solution. I helped many people in the past and it always end the same. “Man i should have listened you, everything would ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 05:46 PM |
| 10 | Women give terrible dating advice to men, but men give great dating advice to womenMost man not asking for advice to get casual sex, they are asking for advice to get attention. Sex is important yah we want it but like we can’t get it if we don’t get the attention of a girl. The advice women give is the most generalized thing that men already know/do/don’t care because that’s not the issue. I feel like these women DO NOT KNOW THE MAN. like the actually individual to give him any good advice that would benefit them. Men want to solve problem. IHATE NOT BEING IN CONTROL AND FIND… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 05:31 PM |
| 2 | I honestly believe women just aren't interested in sex.Listen men. Well your building ur value and getting fit TRAIN UR DICKS. go for longer, get tips for other sexually stuff from many different avenues from all perspective. (I know there like a famous pussy eating porno vid from pro that range from men to women etc thst was either posted here in a post once or some other place I don’t remember). If you make a girl orgasm YOU HAVE HER. multiple orgasm? ITS OVER UR HAVING SEX MORE THEN EVER. As long as she is having oragsms. My last ex had issues wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 11:15 PM |
| 2 | All of this back and forth is pointless, women will always have an extreme advantage ONLY because men are way hornier and therefore want and need women way more than women will ever want or need men. It all comes back to this very basic fact.You know that’s interesting and never thought of it thst way. Definitely adopting this perspective SmilesRHere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | The dating market is so skewed against men these days because 18-35 women are in such high demand and 45+ women have mostly lost their interest in sex and datingIt’s mostly money tbh. Most guys in this age range are trying to build up their value and have money. Unless your a trust fund baby or got lucky in the stock market or something you are losing to older men with money. 18-30 is physical prime. But most of these men aren’t which is why they need to bring them self to that prime. It’s hard but possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:24 AM |
| 2 | The dating market is so skewed against men these days because 18-35 women are in such high demand and 45+ women have mostly lost their interest in sex and datingIt is normal lol. My female cousins and aunts get dms all the time. And they put they are married!!!!!!! Or have a bf!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:19 AM |
| 5 | The dating market is so skewed against men these days because 18-35 women are in such high demand and 45+ women have mostly lost their interest in sex and datingSpoke to a 19 year old from the Philippines that had some loser older guy send her 500 usd every week. And all they did was talk lol dude was ruining my normal guy chances. You can’t compete if you are barely surviving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:15 AM |
| 2 | The dating market is so skewed against men these days because 18-35 women are in such high demand and 45+ women have mostly lost their interest in sex and datingYo I’m not going to lie as true as this is. And as horrible of a person as she is, ghislaine maxwell CAN GET IT FROM ME. And she 60 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:09 AM |
| 6 | The dating market is so skewed against men these days because 18-35 women are in such high demand and 45+ women have mostly lost their interest in sex and datingA majority are. My mother who is late 50s is getting messaged by other 50-70 years old trying to Mack on her. And my mother is a older women you know. On WhatsApp , Facebook message etc It’s like damn my mom gets more attention then me and she married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Men and Women BOTH hate being equalI agree in a way. I play guitar, it would be cool if my future gf would be a guitarist as well but if she was better then me I wouldn’t like that. But that also goes with male friends, I rather be the better guitarist between my friends. Idk could be a me problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Men aren't giving their "sexual best" to their girlfriends and wives eitherWeird cuz apparently they want Chad…. But what if Chad wants to lock the girl down? The girl got what she wants, so ur tellling me she has a Chad that gives her mind blowing sex and tingles and she still isn’t happy/goes to find another Chad??????? Make it make sense girl. Women aren’t men, women cheat when they are unfulfilled. So if her king was a Chad.. that “his” girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 01:58 PM |
| 2 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.Men aren’t refusing anything they aren’t taught any of that stuff. My parents came from Hispanic countries and my dad didn’t Learn any of that stuff. It’s a society issue not a individual mens issue. More and more men are going to YouTube and watching and following YouTubers that help in terms of styling clothes hair etc. When I was younger I used to watch BluMaan, Robin James, alpha M(he’s cringe sometimes but his advice is generally decent) and more. These YouTuber have 400k- 2 mil and they ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 10:25 PM |
| 6 | When discussing dating, women do not consider the average men as people so they compare themselves to the top 10% which is why they think dating is harder for them.Honestly this is only in America and other places like it (Canada etc) I changed my location to Philippines and another place and got matches everyday and likes every hour. Of course I’m a foreigner so that helps, but these girls sometimes message me first. Even if they are “dry” (because English isn’t their language most of the time) they actively respond and most of the time there’s a legitimate conversation going. And the matches range from low to SUPER high quality it not skewed one way or t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/22 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Most of the dating struggles of men will fall on death ears when it comes to women. Which is why the Redpill is important.You are legit living a abnormal life. It’s insane no one in my community, social circle is going around telling a girl that they are fat. SOCIETY TAUGHT US THATS NO GOOOD!!!!!!!!!! (And if they are they were BULLIES) I had more women tell me I was fat then men. “Oh it’s jokes” okay whatever but if I were to say it to them. It’s game over, I’m the bad guy. Either way I hope something good Happens in ur life to help ur perspective. Cuz ur just wrong girl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 03:54 AM |
| 3 | Most of the dating struggles of men will fall on death ears when it comes to women. Which is why the Redpill is important.“Weight mocking” that the point I’m taking about you said men have called women fat for years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Most of the dating struggles of men will fall on death ears when it comes to women. Which is why the Redpill is important.You are insane girl like legitimately. No normal PERSON is going around and insulting people based on anything. I’m not going up to a stranger and say “you should wear a mask to cover half your face so you don’t look so ugly.” Or going to a random obese person and say “ ur way to fat, lose weight”. Like school? Okay you had bullies ? Me too I had like 1 that was girl who called me fat in elementary school. I lost the weight eventually. Just do it. I only ever tell my guy friends “yo when we hitt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 03:42 AM |
| 4 | Most of the dating struggles of men will fall on death ears when it comes to women. Which is why the Redpill is important.It’s called TRP LOL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 03:07 AM |
| 12 | You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv"Whenever the debate of sex is brought up here most women always say they don’t care about sex. So when me or other guys bring up the issue of “men have a quantity problem and women have a quality problem” and say how we would rather have quantity they always go “we don’t care about sex and all that attention blah blah” Chances are a normal average women is going to want a guy who is high up there to commit to a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:30 PM |
| 8 | Q4All: At a certain age is it true that people stop trying to improve/become attractive to the opposite sex?The only reason why I wouldn’t give up is because I just don’t want to give up on my self. Everyone else in my life can “give up on me” or whatever thst means. But I can’t, you are the only you you have lol. Personally women aren’t expected to change in society, growing up I always heard people talk to women like “oh ur perfect just the way u are” and “it’s not u it them” where for me I always heard the opposite. Tbh a lot of women in my social circle are still the same and don’t work on them se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:25 PM |
| 9 | You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv"The number rating system is used as a easy way to get point across. We are talking online and not thru voice. The amount of times people on here don’t even read what people write or skim thru things and get the points wrong of the other person is baffling. People (mostly women, but some men on here too) say they are entitled to whatever they want. If that’s what you want to go for, then go for it. But it’s like you said a majority of people will end up alone and one of the factor is that they ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Woo woo woo slow done bro, are you objectifying my fake partner? You got to chill out. Hahah/ Listen again we are in a debate form, you couldnt argue about looksmatch because looksmatch is not settling or lowering ur standards to the floor. (Which wasn’t even my position or even what I said anywhere here) In this debate subreddit i use numbers because it’s easier to use in this context. Your hype fixation on the numbers is concerning and isn’t even the main issue here. But…. I’ll play ball with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Women are not taking accountability if the men they are choosing to date, magically become the reason they say “all men are trash” Like i get it people lie, men lie to get what they want and pretend to women they want a relationship to have sex. But a women has a bunch of people that are trying to get their attention, whether it be In her social circle or in dating app. So you mean to tell me, that the 85 different people she had access too( that continues to grow) and she only decided to talk t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Ur looksmatch wouldn’t be someone you don’t want…. That’s the point. The numbers is just so DUMB DUMB BO OOBO people can understand things easier. It’s just a ideal and it’s a better ideal then men asking for 10/10 girls when they are 3/10. (The numbers make it easier to explain see?) or vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?I just think looks match is ideal is all. You have to understand that yeah personality is important but unless a man is already in the social circle of the woman, the only way to get his foot in the door is with a good face. Your never going to know how much money someone has, unless they faunt that around. That goes into the taking phase, he doesn’t make enough for you? That’s pretty shitty, but that’s what you want so you can leave him and find another person who is on ur level and has the oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Looksmatch does not equal settling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 01:36 PM |
| 0 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?The number is just used in a argument Sake to make things easier for people to understand. It more then just numbers, I even said they can have a long list of standards they want like Needs to cook, make a certain amount of money, be 6’0 etc. like that perfectly fine just don’t expect someone to be ur dream person and have certain traits that you want when you aren’t even there. And once again, so I cover my bases/ so you can see. THIS. GOES. FOR. ME. AND. YOU. FOR MEN. AS . WELL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 12:52 PM |
| 0 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Nah man. Looksmatch should be ideal. If they want a long list of things for their person i don’t care but it should be either looksmatch or a bit above their range. They can’t expect a 10/10 person when they aren’t 10/10 or anywhere close. That’s the main issue. This applies to me and you as well. It’s like I said if I’m 200 pounds unfit I can’t be asking for a fit/slim girl. I”LL be laughed and told to lower my standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?If you didn’t care you would have just started messaging back. Take the L please and just stop the back and forth. You lost I get it, it hurts ur ego. But let it go and change for the better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Haha, it’s always the self proclaimed feminist that are two faced. I hope you reconsider how you act and how it is making your self intolerable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Alright decided to read ur little post you posted before .you decided to get a hostile tune and “use” these things I posted to attack em. First of all, I WAS 200 pounds I lost 35 in 3months. I brought up that point exactly for what ur saying. So we agree and you prove my point on what I was saying. The point of bring my ex wasn’t about moving on. It was to show that women can just get anyone quickly IF THEY WANTED TO. I was over my ex in 2-3months because I can’t just sit around and wallow in de… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?This is under a comment about it. I never posted a thread in here. Please use ur critical thinking skills to see that. Also on ur other post that you recently made before this one, it about quality and quantity issues between women and men. Quantity >quality which my response to this persons thread was that women need to understand that100 matches not all men are trash, just the ones they are picking are. Men are only deemed trash by women after they had sex and ghosted them. Or had sex and star… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 08:39 AM |
| -2 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Ima be honest I stopped reading your comment at “I stopped reading your comment at the implic—“ Stop being disingenuous, this is a debate subreddit. At the end of the day, YOU HAVE THE ABILITY in THE DATING WORLD TO GET WHAT YOU WANT. Whether you use that advantage or not is up to you. I don’t care that you have the advantage, I have accept that it’s there just want women to man up and just admit “men have it harder in the dating world” that’s it nothing else. Not talking about any other topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 08:31 AM |
| -1 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Every one of my exs has had people in 2 weeks. Most women I know get married before my single guy friends do. Heck women who are 20-25 are already married compared to me who is late 20s about to enter 30s. More people want to be with women, women are wanted just for being women. You just need to exist and you will have attention. Now whether it’s wanted attention that’s up to you. But most guys you talk with or ask will kill for any attention. While most women are so sick of the attention from p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/22 06:23 AM |
| -1 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?Majority of Men do take accountability. But the men that are literally only pumping and dumping a girl will not or ever will. They are too busy going on to the next person that is entertaining them and being SUCCESSFUL in getting what they want from them. They don’t care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Why do women have more choices/are not that interested in relationships?They literally have 100s of options and are only looking at 5 people. They are the ones not vetting, they are picking the guy that ghost them and only pump and dump them because those guys see that “she is not dateable instead I’ll smash”. This is how guys work, if there is no interest in a relationship but it looks like she is sexual attractive enough to have sex with, a guy will do that instead, these are the men a women are choosing over 100s of other because she’s thinks the others 89% of gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 10:36 PM |
| 5 | Is being alone really better than a mediocre partner?I thought about this a lot. Why is it that so many women I know in my life are on antidepressants, go to therapy regularly and NOTHING about their mood has changed at all. (I’m talking 15-34, anyone older then that is usually alright like my mom, or aunts) I don’t think antidepressants are good. (But understand why people use them) men are told different things from society (be a Man! Just suck it up etc. you need to change while women are told you are perfect it’s something else that’s wrong no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 09:32 PM |
| 4 | You are not struggling in dating due to the opposite sex. It is that you don't socialize enough and are only using OLD.Agreeable. You Always hear “she’s WITH him?” And see ugly dudes with decent to attractive women and that’s because he was able to be in her social circle and was able to show his skills and traits to her to try and get a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/22 03:37 AM |
| 2 | On popularity of male K-Pop singers and other popular androgynous menDude fucking rad I’ll tell ya what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselvesI never said discrimination? I said disadvantages which there are. And even then women in my jobs I been in are given advantages regardless Worked for a car company moving customer cars. We had two women in our team everyone else was a man. They got preferred treatment gettin out early, when it snowed they never were the ones out side expected to clean up the snow even tho they are the same as the men. And more heck one of the older women had worked there longer and was making the same as money … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Most of what women here consider "unrealistic porn sex" is just passionate sex, they just aren't passionate about their boyfriendsI did read you were the one that wasn’t loll and leaving things out in the previous response. You are talking about anal, I’m talking about my experience OF BEING UNCOMFORTABLE. And again if you read you would know I also had PAIN during anal sex with a girl so YES I do know. I agree about boundaries aspect but then I also think that lead into. “Yeah I don’t like “___” but I would do these things with someone other then you because they are hotter and get me going” I gave example of how one of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 01:13 AM |
| – | Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise?I’m in the east of USA blue state. I’ll say it’s more suburb. It’s near a big city like a hour drive but I don’t live there. You know I never thought about trade jobs like that. I don’t know exactly if there are most of my friends who are male all work in the auto industry ( mostly sales reps and drivers with one person doing a trade like job) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 12:45 AM |
| 3 | If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselvesYou didn’t really answer the question tbh. But it’s okay I understand ur “point”. I believe there is more privileges that you as a women could get but if you don’t want to capitalize on that more power to you. I mean I get that you aren’t respected in ur field. But that’s the field you took? You should have known that. Just like a man is going to have disadvantages as a nurse or a teacher (fields female dominated) they chose to be those things. Like it sucks you feel that way and I wish you didn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 12:21 AM |
| 3 | If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselvesThat’s the thing! Idk but I seen it my mother is Hispanic and while her English is good she still needs help with certain things and she asked me how to delete stuff like that and on Facebook. The guys are old men just saying hi not more, but we all know why they are messaging in the first place lol they just trying to Mack lollll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 12:16 AM |
| 12 | If Young Women in the West had to live the life of Men, they would kill themselvesNot discrediting ur experience or view. But do you think the fact that that u never used a dating app is the reason why? Social media?( my mother is 50+ and has older strangers from all over messaging her on her WhatsApp, fb Loll she gets more attention then me) You are a average women and ur not using the tools in ur disposable to get “easy sex” meals paid( most guys do do this , seems like the ones you went out with haven’t LOL) etc. You would easily get 100+ matches in 1-2 days and can sleep … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 12:03 AM |
| – | Women less likely to move, for relationships or otherwise?I actually seen the opposite. It’s the men that stay in the hometown and don’t want to leave(I know I don’t I love my town). The women want to go out to other colleges out of state,travel places , get out cuz they “hate it here” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 11:47 PM |
| 5 | On popularity of male K-Pop singers and other popular androgynous mentimothee chalamet is brought up in conversation with K-pop people. Tim is cool, I can tel you right now he a cool guy and a great actor. Dude is tall, and even tho he is “skinny” he has visible muscle. (Dude had a six pack in dune even if he was small) the Kpop stars are pretty fit for their size and have visible muscles when they take there shirts off. And… they have clout. Nothing really changes in terms of attraction. They have great bodies, good facial features(some of them have insane chins… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Most of what women here consider "unrealistic porn sex" is just passionate sex, they just aren't passionate about their boyfriendsYou completely missed the whole “love doesn’t happen in 2 months” part but of course you want it to look a certain way to make you “win”. Happens all the time here lollll. you need to figure out what you and partners needs are. Women should do the things their partner want if they love him. Men should do the doing their partner wants if they love her. Now they need to figure out THEIR relationship and what they need to be satisfied.The idea of doing things and sacrificing things for the people Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Every regular here holds a deep resentment for the opposite sex and it makes any 'debate' worthlessI come here to argue with everyone tbh. It’s just fun and I’m already alone as it is so it’s something to do another then what I usually do in my free time LOLLLLL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 07:22 PM |
| 0 | Most of what women here consider "unrealistic porn sex" is just passionate sex, they just aren't passionate about their boyfriendsFirst off your original statement here was that women are the only one who have to do uncomfortable things. That’s absolutely false as I have done things with a partners that they begged for and was uncomfortable with. Then people called you out on it and you changed it to you don’t care about what individuals do but now the issue is “you should do these things for someone you love” Which is is? Huh? What’s with the flip flop? The reason being it’s more complicated then just “well if you want an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 07:17 PM |
| -2 | Most of what women here consider "unrealistic porn sex" is just passionate sex, they just aren't passionate about their boyfriendsWomen are usually the submissive gender role. Men are the dominant gender role. This whole argument of “you should be willing to receive it” is the dumb. My gfs have all been submissive we talked about kinks and fetish they wanted and like and wanted to explore. They NEVER wanted or ever talked about pegging. But had kinks in the SUBMISSIVE category. I done uncomfortable things they wanted to do because I wanted to satisfy what they wanted. I’m open to things that a normal man in the dominant po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 09:23 AM |
| 0 | Most of what women here consider "unrealistic porn sex" is just passionate sex, they just aren't passionate about their boyfriendsYou have point. But pegging is something that normal men DO NOT DO. The act of getting fucked is not dominant trait that men have. If men in general are the dominant animal and women are the submissive animal that means that pegging is something that doesn’t cross the mens mind. People will do anything for someone that is ridiculously attractive, with certain restrictions that (IMO) women would at least try more because most women are submissive and men will ask them to do SUBMISSIVE ACTS. No gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/22 09:12 AM |
| 9 | Living life on easy modeI stopped at the higher risk of assault etc. Listen yes all those things are true, I have known 2 exs that were raped. I have know 2 guys that were molested at young ages. That’s it, no one else. Why is it always the extremes that are brought up. Do you want protection? But then that’s us admitting that women are weak and cant do anything to stop things from happening to them. Isn’t that sexist? Cuz a few years age women I knew where going on and on about being strong, independent calling men tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Why do women intentionally sexualise themselves at the gym? Do the men feel uncomfortable as a result?People want to look good. Even if some how ur “oblivious” to ur best physical features I think subconsciously we know what makes us look good. (Atleast I think women more so to men). It’s weird cuz women complain saying they don’t want attention, yet they chose to wear things that make them stand out. Which they have the right to, I want everyone to feel confident and look their best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/22 07:24 AM |
| 0 | Is it really bad if, after a woman asks me what my height is, I ask her what her weight is?There no reason to even ask. Women ask about height cuz unless it’s in the bio they can’t tell how tall you are. So it’s a valid question. We all know women care about their partners height in some shape or form(there are outliers but good luck find those people who magical are 6’7 and are dating a 4’5 guy lol). Majority of the time you can see her body in pictures, unless she is PURPOSELY hiding it (where maybe you can ask that question) but it’s just a waste of time to ask her weight. Chances … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Dating for Women is like being an employer; for Men it is like being a job-seeker. And just like you would rather be the employer; you much rather be a WomanWe ain’t talking about 1800s bro, get over it. We are living in 2021 live in the present, average women are coodled and treated better then average men. People just like women more in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/22 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Q for sexually unsuccessful men: would you be ok with a woman who is not attracted to you dating you simply to shirk hypergamyI wasn’t looking for a hook up and see wasn’t either (from what her bio said) turns out that was a lie LOL cuz she was the one that change the convo to having sex. Haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Q for sexually unsuccessful men: would you be ok with a woman who is not attracted to you dating you simply to shirk hypergamyCome on man. I didn’t follow half the advice. I followed the whole thing. LOWER….. YOUR……. STANDARDS….. you don’t get to tell me that I failed to prioritize personality when the reason I didntlike these people was because THIER PERSONALITY WERENT GOOD. I even stated that first on purpose before saying I didn’t like their looks. No where in my posts about this topic here or anywhere else I said anything about PRIORITIZING LOOKS . I lowered standards on looks and other things(like red flags that m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Q for sexually unsuccessful men: would you be ok with a woman who is not attracted to you dating you simply to shirk hypergamyDude just stop and take the L. This doesn’t change anything I said. I did the advice, most people on here don’t. The advice is bad you know why? Because people shouldn’t settle and I agree more now with this with the experience that I has. Say what you want I’m not blaming the sub, this is a topic that is relenvet to this post. You keep ignoring the main point that literally shuts you down. IM HAVE ALWAYS BEEN LOOKING FOR SOME ONE WHO IS OS MY LOOKS MATCH. you have been the one assuming mad shit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 06:24 AM |
| 3 | Q for sexually unsuccessful men: would you be ok with a woman who is not attracted to you dating you simply to shirk hypergamyYou aren’t reading I never fucked her lol. I did what was told as advice lower ur standards. As a guy that means lowering what you want in looks and I also lowered other things and looked the other way. You sound angry brother and you need to calm done I’m not blaming anyone I have said that I don’t want people to do the same, I’m just bring my experience in a thread that I think I can contribute too. I want looks match. Im at best a 5/10 I’m average I want a average girl minimum. Would a superm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 05:56 AM |
| 6 | Q for sexually unsuccessful men: would you be ok with a woman who is not attracted to you dating you simply to shirk hypergamyListen people here say lower your standards. So I lowered my standards, I don’t like alcohol or people who drink but I decide you know what maybe I’m the one that’s in the wrong (even tho being drunk takes away from you being in control) she was a major alcoholic and that already was something I personally did not like. I still kept talking to her and the more I got to know her the less I wanted to do anything. She also started being sexually and sending me pics I never asked for (and in bio sai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 05:19 AM |
| 9 | Q for sexually unsuccessful men: would you be ok with a woman who is not attracted to you dating you simply to shirk hypergamyI took the advice to lower my standards even more from this sub. (You can see one of my previous post today in my history for the scoop but I would say the girl was 1-3/10). At the end of the day I just couldn’t do anything with this person I really tried didn’t like her personality or her body at all. I was never a advocate for lowering standards to a extreme level( ladies a 7-8/10 guy is above average!) so I already wouldn’t want anyone to do it. After trying it my self I’m even more against f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 03:18 AM |
| 9 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierI feel if you are a average women you should be going for average to above average men. You can try for “chad” but chances are they are going to pump and dump you. Doesn’t mean the other lower value guys aren’t. That’s true. I blame everyone for there own choices. Everyone has some sort of control and agency in their life. Girl I knew got pregnant from so fat low life(really unbelievable how they even got to together but they were classmates so understandable) dude cheated on her said what he ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 10:28 PM |
| 4 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierCan’t speak for the guy but I know I kinda have that some mentality. Most people can’t be my equal in certain things. I have helped my family and other close friends out in ways that no one would ever help me with debts and other things. Now in the gym I’m a loser haha I need to get to equal with the people who are fit in that aspect. But my life I better then most because I took the risks, there are no women in my life that I know taking risks to grow their own finances the way I was able to do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 10:14 PM |
| 6 | If You Ever Have Kids, What Advice Would You Give Them So They Don't Wind Up Becoming A 30 Year Old Virgin?The only thing to tell my kids would be something I learned not only from my on parents but from movies like Rocky. “The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 09:57 PM |
| 13 | "both women and men struggle in dating" isnt an argument, men have to work harder or be luckierWhen guys say women want the bad boys that’s the people they want to fuck/ date but can’t then they settle for beta bill after years. I seen this happen in real life it’s very sad tbh. And I agree it is the persons fault for choosing the wrong partner (it goes both ways). I feel like when it comes to lowering standards there’s a big disconnect between what women and men are talking about. Using a number system is the easiest way to have this conversation even if it doesn’t include every info on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Question to all men out here who work out.Some one had posted something about how, he wants to do it for him self but working out leads to getting more attention so even if you are doing it for ur self your still technically doing it for future gfs and hooks up regradless. I kinda of agree, it’s starts off as I want to be better! But why do you want to be better? To get more access to life, opportunities and partners. It all funnels in to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | I don't believe it's a fair assessment that rejection is at fault for turning men into bitter and misogynistic douchebagsThe responsibility is 100% on the person. Yes the context of this conversation is about women. But when I say hang around better people i also mean everyone should you have the choice to not be a asshole, so yes as a man you should call out bs from friends and remove them from ur life if they are toxic. I have never seen cat calling , but heard and read stories here. Heck my best friend got catcalled by a gay man cuz he had a big ass. So yes I know it exists just that isn’t as crazy a thing as p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | I don't believe it's a fair assessment that rejection is at fault for turning men into bitter and misogynistic douchebagsI can understand you thinking it’s victim blaming. But I’m saying that in general to everyone. That shit is everywhere ? I’ll agree with you but I know right now in my life I have the ability to make sure it doesn’t happen and the ability to walk away from toxic people. I think the miscommunication was in my part I didn’t mean that you or other people shouldn’t go out to places when I said hang around better people. When I go out I ignore everyone I go do what I got to do. I understand women get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 06:05 PM |
| 1 | I don't believe it's a fair assessment that rejection is at fault for turning men into bitter and misogynistic douchebagsThis doesn’t change anything I said. No one is being discredited. You sound angry ( I would know I been pretty bitter lately in my life hahah) Let me tell you one more time. Me or the people that I have placed in my life( family members, church friends, heck even when I was in college) have not sexually harassed anyone. And if we saw it OR heard about it(which people have been conditioned here were I live to say something to their peers) it doesn’t happen again or else. That’s it. I don’t go to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | I don't believe it's a fair assessment that rejection is at fault for turning men into bitter and misogynistic douchebagsSorry that happened to you. At the end of the day that’s goofy shit and my social circle wouldn’t do shit like that. That one guy doesn’t represent all guys, but I understand that me and my brothers/friends don’t represent all guys either. But to me that’s a extreme, as In how does a person not understand the social cue of “no I have a bf”. I had run in with toxic females (and guys) In other ways and I’m still baffled how little people understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | I don't believe it's a fair assessment that rejection is at fault for turning men into bitter and misogynistic douchebagsNo one I have seen in real world locations like college, church, mall, gym etc I have never seen a guy cold approach a women.( other then that autistic kid) and I have never heard a sexually conversation IRL out of the blue. (Between a man and a women!) I’m not saying it doesn’t happen. My best friend was cat called by a gay guy about his butt being big lol back in his HS days for instance. It’s just extremes that happen, on a dating app? Yeah sure it happens more but I was never talking about d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | I don't believe it's a fair assessment that rejection is at fault for turning men into bitter and misogynistic douchebagsLook I’m just giving my examples. I never seen these extremes and have never done extremes like these towards others. I’m not discrediting anyone or saying anyone is a liar in any replies just that it’s boils down to my experience vs their’s. Which I wasn’t saying like oh we have to see a winner. So yeah I’m going to act like I know the other 21 because guys in MY friend group hold each other accountable. We see goofy shit like someone holding out there phone asking for her number and she said n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 03:36 PM |
| 3 | I don't believe it's a fair assessment that rejection is at fault for turning men into bitter and misogynistic douchebagsYeah it’s ur experience vs mine basically. The men in my social circle are not assholes and we would be little you if you spoke that way or where just a creep and possibly kick you out of the friend group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 08:33 AM |
| 5 | I don't believe it's a fair assessment that rejection is at fault for turning men into bitter and misogynistic douchebagsBro I have never seen any one say a sexually remark to anyone in the real world. These are extremes that do happen but that’s just it THEY ARE EXTREMES. People are just horrible in general. I will never try to hit on a lesbian and say I can change them. It happens yeah? But like I have lesbian friends and have never had that issue. Never seen a cat call either. I seen a autistic young man try to hit on a women abs try to ask her out on a date in college, it was super awkward and he didn’t unders… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 08:23 AM |
| 11 | POV: You have just finished watched your 12th “High Value Male” YouTube video and ready to conquer the world.I just can’t, I tried I lowered my standards and was talking to a girl for a while. She was the one who started the sex talk and wanting to fuck. I could get pussy right now, but I just can’t I’m just no attracted to her personality or her looks at all. I’m a man and I will not fuck anything with a pulse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Men overestimate how "easy" it is for women to date. It is much harder than they think.That’s still attention and options. This is where the disconnect happens between men and women. You are complaining of the quality of men. I am complaining about the quantity of women. Aka no matches what’s so ever for months to years on end. I been reading a lot of ur responses, you have a few options but these are options given to men from men Option 1: you can go to places young people meet. Like a club the vibe there is to dance and guys feel more confident trying to approach you. Option 2: … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Men overestimate how "easy" it is for women to date. It is much harder than they think.Have y’all seen the TikTok trend of girls recording them self of girls trying to talk to them? One was at her job and the other was like a co worker who kept laughing like the joker to make the girl laugh. Yeah their “game sucked” but if ur no attractive it doesn’t matter your going to be made fun of later on and the guy is never going to know lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Men overestimate how "easy" it is for women to date. It is much harder than they think.We will never know if he does or doesn’t he could lie lol, I believe I’m average, I believe in looks match. I’m not going to date someone I’m not attractive too( I have tried TMI couldn’t get hard/lost erection never happened after that again)/ is lower then my rating. Even if he did there’s a chance the unattractive girl wouldn’t even want to talk to him cuz he’s unattractive to her. It’s such a lose lose situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Being " used for sex " is much better than being a virgin and not being used at all.Honestly, thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Being " used for sex " is much better than being a virgin and not being used at all.It does , but we aren’t getting attention regardless. This conversation is about sex. As a men sex is important and is in that bubble of “value and wanting”. I remember seeing a tweet and laughing cuz damn I felt it. “The masculine urge to not be able to receive compliments” I want compliments and nice words, I can count all the times I have received compliments in my life( 4 times ) and yeah they are meaningful but only cuz of how scarce they are. So either way I’m not getting anything that you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Being " used for sex " is much better than being a virgin and not being used at all.I think it just comes to men and women being wired different. You just said it it something you don’t want need etc. I think being able to find a random sex partner Who WANTS to do those acts to you( not being pressured/paid/ giving petty) boost men confidence, we just desire to be wanted…. I just want to be wanted. And I think that’s where it boils down too, men see how easy it for you. They get bitter because deep down it not just about sex it’s about being valued and wanted. And I’ll take any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Being " used for sex " is much better than being a virgin and not being used at all.Having money fixes so many problem, anymore who saids money isn’t everything doesn’t know shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 08:59 PM |
| 4 | Being " used for sex " is much better than being a virgin and not being used at all.I agree that being used for sex is a negative. But the difference in view points is that men WANT ANYTHING at this point. I agree with op in this, I want to be used I want someone’s attention. It’s so easy for women of all shapes and size to get sex and attention and to talk with a member of the opposite sex. Yes, it sucks when you get ghosted and pumped and dump. No one is denying you that. But now a days it feels like a guy is denied that regradless. I am alone, I’m 28 and the worst time is ni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 08:57 PM |
| 1 | The biggest turn on for adult women is a guy that has plenty of things going in in his life.Bro I do that all the time for guys and girls. I hate fakes . I had a dude in my college who was a real weirdo and I remember he had a keychain of a character from a game that was very niche and I was oh it’s “xx from xx that cool” and he looks at me with straight dead eyes “ I don’t know who this is or the game I got this just so I can have it and have people see it and waste their time explaining why I don’t understand what ur talking about”. I don’t trust anyone unless they know like 3 albums… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 03:41 AM |
| 2 | How would you explain stay-at-home dads?People who trade stocks and invest in crypto can be stay at home dads. Doing all the “right” moves can help you not have to work a actually job. Of course it’s all risky and even the idea of keeping it up is risky as well. But it’s better then being a slave wage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Follow on from "angry at the truth" post. Do some men virtue signal about "greater good" when its actually just sexual frustration?More men would if they could lol. Legit got in to stocks, took the risks got my account blown to zero 3 times, learned everything I could took the losses and been doing great the last few months. Don’t need to work anymore for the next couple of years. I have a cushy life now because I took the risks and learn from the mistakes I made in the process up lifting my family with me as well. I don’t see women my age doing that or taking risks (unless it’s opening a business? But then that not living … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 06:04 PM |
| 8 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)I think with ur last point about bare minimum is that majority of men( myself and many of the men I know in life) INCLUDE the bare minimums in our minds. Like instead of thinking about it or like putting it down on a list we subconsciously already include it and it’s not something we bring up. So we look for everything outside of the bare minimum. Since to us it should already be there. Idk maybe it’s just me ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 03:05 AM |
| 17 | The belief that women’s lives are much easier is exaggeratedThat’s absolutely wild of a take man. Anyone who commits suicide is absolutely doing it because they are at the end of their rope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 10:45 PM |
| 4 | If you can't love me now, don't love me later when my later is greater..Been feeling this lately. I felt lonely and unwanted before years ago in OLD but I still had some matches of value that I cry about cuz they didn’t work out.( I was 20-25 when it was on tinder the most) Now I’m 28 back on tinder and nothing no matches and when I get a match no responses at all. It’s like WHATS the point?( I usually unmatched those in 2 weeks to “give them time”) I’m working on my self and see improvement from the person I hated in the beginning of the year. But no one cares/ wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/21 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Why aren't folks having sex?because no girl is giving me the time of day :/. It’s okay tho I’m building my self to be high value it just sucks that no one wants to be/talk with me when I’m in the process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/21 10:25 PM |
| 9 | Women's argument that men want domestic slaves is nothing but strawman to justify their entitlementMy dream girl is someone who actually wants to be with me and wants to rip apart movies 😭😭. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/21 01:25 AM |
| 4 | The uncomfortable truth in the dating realm: women have to be, men have to become.I’m so starved for anyone to just want to talk to me in the dating world I wouldn’t mind any of that. That’s how bad it is mentally for me LOLLL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/21 07:34 AM |
| 1 | The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated.The reason I said that is because I feel that’s the bare minimum FOR PEOPLE.(also yes I know about aging and have done steps to keep myself from aging. Do you know that minox is something that helps regrow hair for men? But that it can cause skin damage. That’s something that men have to look up and figure out. And I’m saying this because this is the bare minimum men need to know if they want to stop Male pattern baldness) I do the exact same things you do. I spent trial and error to get the rig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 07:35 PM |
| 3 | The men like beauty women like success thing is greatly exaggerated.But a majority of that is minimal effort to guys. I’m a guy who has long hair, I have to take care of it and style it for 40-60 mins if I don’t do that my hair looks like shit. I need to take care of it, I learned about male pattern baldness and I’m taking the steps to make sure I don’t lose my hair(using approved drugs that effect my body) I can stay here and be like “I’m putting in so much effort doing what IM SUPPOSED TO DO and researching these things” but to me it’s not that big a deal. If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | i stood up to a co-worker, did i do it the red pill way?That's exactly why I tried to be civil about it. I messed up by talking shit , he confronted me, and I felt like I should have said something. I even apologize about talk shit, cuz I didnt want no problems in the work place. but i also wasn't going to just say sorry and not stand up to him. This isn't the old me. I'm not going to let anyone try to walk over me. I do alot of stuff that no one else does. I'm learning to work the desk( which is what the assistant manager does and no one wants to do… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/16 03:46 PM |
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