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Exactly what the other commenter said, this is something you have to answer for yourself. What’s really making you feel this way? I’m dealing with the same thing myself and something that helped me is meditation. You can look into it or PM me if you’re curious about my experience. Usually a 5-10 minute session will give me peace of mind but once I hit 15+ minutes I’m able to search deep inside myself for deep-rooted answers to issues with self esteem and coping mechanisms. Good luck and don’t st…
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:17 AM
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I needed to hear that. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 06:15 PM
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How long ago did you come across red pill? I’ve been reading it since I was 16 and for the years after it was great and everything was working but now it’s kind of stalled even if I am still applying the same principles.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 07:07 AM
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I haven’t felt that I’ve mastered my mind but I feel this can be solved with mastery of it. I appreciate your advice. I’m going to dig deep in myself to find an answer but it almost feels like I’m putting them on a pedestal even though I havent been before? I’m really not sure I’m just hoping talking about it will help me figure it out.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:27 AM
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Haha feel felt found is a technique we use to sell potential new members on the idea of our fraternity, interesting to see it in this context. Thanks for your input it’s pretty solid.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 08:47 AM
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Very true. Thanks
/r/askTRP24/12/18 08:14 AM
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Good points. The way I see comfort tests are tests to see if she really has the security of your exclusivity which, when passed, can actually increase the longevity of the relationship. I see this more as a backhanded shit test (in that she wants to see if I’ll enter her frame) and less of a comfort test.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 08:03 AM
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I appreciate the honesty. I feel like it wouldn't really occur to her to not go out without a boyfriend unless she was told not to. Like she hasn't learned yet because nobody told her, does that make sense? In that case, should I communicate it to her or just not worry about it right now?
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:09 PM
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Looking back at this post, it's pretty obvious there's an underlying insecurity and if t continues the LTR is doomed to fail. Would the optimal way be not being worried at all?
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:05 PM
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That's another reason I posted, so you guys can keep me in check. But if she cheats i'm definitely leaving and not looking back. It's a firm boundary and sure it might sting at first but it's far from the worst thing in the world.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 02:53 PM
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Alternatives for us 12 year olds who aren't 21 yet?
/r/askTRP22/02/18 06:48 AM
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I've suggested getting medicine but he believes weed is the only drug he needs and claims that it helps him sometimes but he's definitely addicted.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:57 PM
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My oldest brother and I literally told him that if he was legitimately ugly he would've known this his whole life and not just have figured it out now.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:34 PM
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My oldest brother and I have tried tough love. No luck, I feel it's probably more serious than that.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 10:33 PM
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This makes a lot of sense. Lesson learned
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:46 PM
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They were not her nudes but i understand your point
/r/askTRP30/01/17 10:45 PM
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I had no problem saying no i simply didn't care because it was of no cost to me. The only thing that happened was she got jealous and left which i'm worried about damaging our relationship. However, i agree with being less verbal and more based on action. If the plate falls the plate falls, oh well. In the future i'll be less verbal
/r/askTRP30/01/17 08:56 PM
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My current frame with this relationship is that idgaf. So i'll keep on keeping on
/r/askTRP30/01/17 08:51 PM
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Agreed.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 02:41 AM
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They wanted to have a conversation with me about the current relationship and where it was going and all that. However, now that we're done that conversation will not be happening.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 07:34 PM
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One word: Mormons EDIT: She was being pressured by her parents to marry me or move on because we were having sex and they don't practice sex before marriage. Seeing that I did not want to get married, this was the best possible outcome
/r/askTRP19/01/17 07:33 PM
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I have nothing at stake. The only thing that I have at stake is my relationship with this woman, which is meaningless/nothing. Easily replaceable
/r/askTRP27/12/16 01:05 AM
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Part of what they're trying to is making sure that i'm committed to her rather than just running off and hooking up with other people after deflowering her. So they're forcing commitment or me going away, it's either or for them (i think). My plan right now is to just have her parents think we are committed but establish boundaries with my plate/LTR (their daughter) in terms of my commitment to her. She's moving back for me so at this point I have her wrapped around her finger and she's willing …
/r/askTRP25/12/16 09:58 PM
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i'm not trying to make it out of anything alive. I could walk away from an interview with her parents. They can't force me to stay there, it's literally a crime. This is terrible advice.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:56 AM
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You seem to be in a case of complacency, you don't want commitment but you are not actively searching for new poon and are slowly being pushed into things you don't want to do. This could be the case but I am currently in university and have been hooking up with other girls while still maintaining her as a plate and I would like to keep doing that but I wouldn't mind committing to her either. On a scale of 1-10 she's a solid 8 Being that you're young I would just phase this chick out I understan…
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:49 AM
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to add to that, this is a power talk scenario. they want to attempt to lay ground rules for YOU to follow I was beginning to realize this as I was typing it out. I think that by establishing my boundaries in MY relationship, they'll get the message while still forming the relationship necessary between a daughter's boyfriend and her parents.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:46 AM
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Yeah I think the best course of action will be consistently treating her like a plate. She knows we're not monogamous so it's kind of a half plate but i'll have to really set the boundaries
/r/askTRP24/11/16 10:52 PM
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What do you mean by build a bridge? and of course i'm not as fun as her cousins, We live hours away from each other so we can't even hang out
/r/askTRP24/11/16 10:09 PM
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Right, it's just harder since we were dating before. But I am being all boyfriendy/girlfriendy with her just because we were dating in the past but I think I'll have to adjust it to save myself emotional trauma. So if i'm still down to see her for the sex and to visit a state i've never visited before, when should i respond to her?
/r/askTRP24/11/16 10:08 PM
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First time drinking is not something special just something that she said she wanted to do with me first. We've had sex plenty of times already so it's not first time sex and she didn't have sex with a cousin
/r/askTRP24/11/16 10:05 PM
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Good idea. Thanks for your input. I still feel emotionally troubled by the situation but from experience it goes away as soon as I become more productive or distract myself
/r/askTRP24/11/16 09:11 PM
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Just make sure you don't get emotionally attached, The thing is i'm already a little bit emotionally attached because we were dating before i began plating her which is why this is a problem in the first place. Did you tell her not to contact you, or to stop talking to you until you were ready or something. Pretty much, she was trying to facetime me while she was drunk and it was late at night so i texted her: "stop calling me. i'm trying to sleep. goodnight"
/r/askTRP24/11/16 08:11 PM
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I feel like more girls are down to hangout if you told them you were going to rock climbing with some friends and then smoke/drink and they could come by rather than "Hey I'm going rock climbing with some friends, bring your friends" that's a shite example but I think you can get the gist edit: I could just be totally unconfident too
/r/askTRP07/09/16 06:57 AM
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You're right. She thought I rejected her with my comment and got upset.
/r/askTRP21/07/16 07:06 AM
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Forgot to mention she won't be getting drunk because of her religious views, it'll be one of her first times going to a party. (she's gone to like 2 local ones before). In this case I assume I should trust her, see what happens, and react accordingly?
/r/askTRP04/06/16 01:57 PM
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I do trust her and I am at an emotionally-stable enough state to not be heartbroken if she does cheat. Just looking for outside viewpoints. Maybe it's not that I trust her/don't trust her, but I truly don't care if she cheats or not because then I would just next immediately.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:30 AM
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That's interesting and good to hear, but I'll always keep my emotional distance just incase of course.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 03:29 PM
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At a school with less than 400 students where status is everything, it's a little more challenging to live the ultimate plate spinning high school life with the status I accredited. Luckily this girl is from a close school so it's easy to get what I want, at least it was before her parents got involved.
/r/askTRP21/04/16 12:37 AM
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They weren't overprotective until they found out that we were fooling around. They actually liked me but it's more of a religious problem than a family problem. Edit: She definitely is a huge flirt though and I'm not worried about her messin around with other guys while we're dating. She's pretty invested and I'm in an emotionally good position to dump her if she gives me a reason to do it. All the better I guess
/r/askTRP21/04/16 12:34 AM
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I'm not worried about whether her parents like me in the future or not, we're both going off to college during the summer and I'll probably never see her in my life again. Because of this, I'm thinking might as well enjoy it while I can, but I figured might as well get some outside input l
/r/askTRP20/04/16 05:39 PM
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