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This isn't fan fiction. Look at sex rates, marriage/birth declining, etc..You're delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 02:31 PM
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How attractive the bar is for an average man looks wise depends on other things like status and wealth. Imo though that's where the tables begin to turn in the man's favor especially as age/health comes into play. I've seen plenty of women who were hot in their teens and 20s turn into slobs in their 30s. Beauty/fertility id most women's currency and a lot of them waste it only to end up angry they get left behind..imo men end up angry because they're lied to their whole lives. That is until soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:31 AM
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They're dodging the topic and misdirecting like neo in the matrix 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:29 AM
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Well a lot of women are still children just emotionally. Watch pop the balloon or these dating shows.. Bodies built like grown women brains like toddlers
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:23 AM
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What do you think feminism is 😂?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:20 AM
5

Hundreds of videos vs millions of people. Hmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:19 AM
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Lots of women love being a victim in their lives..to avoid accountability. They need therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:19 AM
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This after they hit 35 of course 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:14 AM
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"People date within their own culture. People who don't have disabilities, don't date people that do." 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:11 AM
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It's a slur for them to deflect from the argument and shame men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:11 AM
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Who said anything about marriage? He mentioned vetting for promiscuous women. Marriage is primarily for women and kids. Due to the sexual revolution and feminism marriage isn't a requirement anymore. It's actually cheaper to pay child support for a bunch of kids than for a family when the wife leaves after cheating and getting a bunch of stuff due to no fault divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:09 AM
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No, it's because women and society told men looks didn't matter that personality was important. Women only started to panic when the men they get used by dump them and their backups drop out. Making "single" a meme for them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:05 AM
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Who's to say he'd sleep with you? Attraction is a two way street. You probably wouldn't even get through the front door
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 10:02 AM
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Exactly. Especially when the actual 95% women judge you is based on looks. Not personality. The list actually applies to men she doesn't find sexually attractive.if she's attracted the list doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:59 AM
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The people rejecting 95% aren't at the same criteria. You have the vast majority of women rejecting men at their own level thinking they can do better and then are shocked no men are there when they're 30+ or their options have gotten worse
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:57 AM
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This sounds like a new pill. Olive. Knowledge of the red pill but with the hope and action of a green pill which symbolises success..I like and I'll take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:49 AM
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Not as a whole.women by and large follow what each other think is attractive..they only spread out more as the tip options become unavailable. That's why they like the top 5-10% of men more but message even unattractive guys to keep imo placeholders
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:45 AM
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Yes, he does. He won't be able to grab their attention if he's not at his very best. OP should first start with the internal foundation of self love and go outwards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 09:42 AM
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But what would women or men complain about them? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:53 AM
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A lot of women just want a male slave
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:46 AM
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A lot of women want all the perks of being married, a wife and mom with none of the responsibility. They want to be lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:41 AM
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The problem is those women don't need those guys to approach when they can just hop on an app and land a attractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:35 AM
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Women will learn too late what men learn really early. Best to hop on the best ship while you can because men are checking out and have way more options long term than women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:33 AM
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Why so they can get rejected IRL? Nah. Let them stay and let society deal with the consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 05:30 AM
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Exactly. The average guy has to be Hercules just to get a date now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:17 PM
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At the end of the day we're all here to procreate. Loving yourself does fuck all when the opposite gender you're attracted to thinks you should go extinct after getting used and abused by guys that had no real interest in them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:16 PM
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Last time I checked few women stay with broke dudes very long
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/25 02:08 PM
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Exactly. Imagine you have a buffet to eat ang you eat the only food that kills you and you blame the buffet. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:19 AM
1

Look at the FL guy with the faze tats or Luigi. Women love criminals
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:17 AM
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Single mom statistics,prison guards getting pregnant etc tells me women love bad men. Hell I have 3 sisters and 2 of them chose bad men despite me warning about their behavior and they ignored me. What happened? One was abused by her husband until he left and transitioned. The other left her husband for an abusive eye doctor. You can do anything with women except bore them. It's easier to be a victim in your own story than the hero.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:16 AM
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Aren't 40% of kids in the US belonging to single moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 05:12 AM
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This is how you end up single and alone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:16 AM
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Society is transactional regardless of what think and the Disney fantasy portray. No one man or woman gets anything for free without value attached to it k
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 01:04 AM
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Id venture to say most women don't want to dismantle the patriarchy. They just want all the perks of being with men and use men and none of the accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 12:53 AM
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I don't care about how educated she is. I care about how she's going to be as a mom and a wife and how she treats me. If she's parties all her 20s, has multiple failed relationships, especially if abusive it's a hard pass. I'm not saying not have fun I'm saying actions have consequences which every man is beat over the head with by society. Women don't learn that until they get older unfortunately because they follow their emotions a lot of the time. Especially with how looke and SM have acceler…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:38 PM
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Haven't done it. Watched too many trainwrecks to offer to the wrong women..plus, I'm not ready for that part of my life to start yet.I did get proposed to once buy I told her no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:27 PM
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My point still stands. Reddit can cry about it all they want, no one wants to be the backup option..
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:05 PM
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This is like the meme if you're homeless buy a house or is like asking a tiger to contain it's killer instinct..The problem is society tore the down the standards that women have been held to for decades while still holding men to the same gender roles as always..Allowing one party to selectively enforce their standards destroys both in the long run. We're already seeing problems arise just after a few decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 01:13 AM
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I bet he would've gotten farther if he teased her or been a jerk at least. People will gaslight you and tell you you weren't a good person or whatever but what it really means is he wasn't attractive enough. They just want to virtue signal without being shallow. It's the same reason they scream about body counts shouldn't matter and men should still want to accept them for who they are. It all goes back to try to act like they are morally superior when women are just as shallow promiscuous scumb…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:52 PM
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Gaslighting 101.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:45 PM
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Exactly. Looks are all that matters atp. Old and women's actions prove it. Anything otherwise is gas lighting and virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:16 PM
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Data to back this up? If I had to guess I'd say it's far more prevalent now due to greater access via cheap travel and the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:06 PM
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It also deludes people into thinking that the guy/girl they hooked up with is a LTR or marriage material
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:03 PM
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Won't happen and os not going away. Marriage is dead given the way our society and culture is built on instant gratification and lack of accountability
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:02 PM
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This is a bad deal for the guy if he's not the main choice. No thanks. You don't have to make a decade of bad decisions to find yourself. If you do that means you're a train wreck that's not marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:00 PM
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Where is your data to back up your claims? What men don't want women to join apps? No they wouldn't the women would still choose the same guys.If it does occur it would be what we see today on steroids where there's the guy she fucks, the guy friends who buy her stuff and the invisibles men she laughs at or ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 02:10 PM
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Exactly. They only good men if they're extremely attractive. Imo that's the blessing of SM. It's allowed men to see how women really operate and adjust. It's why men have given up on dating as a whole, 50% of women 25-45 will be single by 2030, and birth rate has declined. Just look at the cheating by women..no thanks. We're watching natural selection happen in real time. It's kind of relieving to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:16 PM
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This is what society expect of good men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:08 PM
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Exactly. I stopped approaching even average women because I got tired of just being an ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 01:03 PM
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Was he your first choice or not? What age were you when you found him
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:53 PM
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We live in reality not delusion. Over 50% of relationships are found in old. Women also told us to leave them alone and don't approach. You guys set the standard and pace of the dating market. It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:52 PM
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No. They can do whatever they want but don't get mad when the guy you chase beats you or has you in a rotation. The same goes for incels. Some people are destined to never experience love and some women are only built for fun not family
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:50 PM
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It's implied. If you're not attractive you're ignored. It doesn't matter if you're bad or good. If you're ugly you're cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:41 PM
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Exactly. There's no point if you're sjn average guy..women would rather be a hot guys side piece than a average guys queen. A bunch of us have learned where we stand and the vast majority of women think we shouldn't exist by their actions so we're leaving them slone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:32 PM
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Exactly. This is why if she's not lusting over you it's immediate release. Don't listen to that women are different they need a buildup. It's a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:27 PM
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You've got zero shot of you're face card is a 2-3. You're body isnt going to satisfy her ego
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:25 PM
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Exactly. As an average guy who's a 5 max.. the hottest woman I'm realistic able to attract is a 3 atp. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:24 PM
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They just use them as a prop .There is zero benefits to being a good man ti women when they constantly reward bad behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 12:05 PM
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The key is studying the guys who are great at getting the women you desire and copy them while adding your own style. Avoid toxic women though. They deserve to be left in the chaos they create
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:10 PM
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Right on cue. WoMeN ArEnT A MonOLiTh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 05:08 PM
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😂 since when is the divorce a made up statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:40 PM
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Sounds like corporate America. At least with religion there's a promise of eternal life 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:57 AM
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If those women were serious they'd want women not to vote until they were 30 so they can vote maturely
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:17 AM
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Desirable for what? Her looks? Her best years are behind her. Same goes for child rearing years. She's good for a weekend Those bachelors can find hotter and younger women elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:14 AM
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It's because they're going for the hottest men and refuse to settle. If they want to have a family they'll have to be more realistic. Men don't have to honestly if he puts in the work. I think this is why 2X sub and feminism scream about beauty but women built the game this way. They can't get mad when they get played
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:13 AM
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It already has.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:09 AM
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Exactly. I remember that one lady on TikTok wko had dentures, wigs, make-up etc. Without she was a 2..with it she was a 5. Like c'mon man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:08 AM
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Exactly and also that 4 man can overcome his looks by being wealthy, charismatic, funny etc. A average woman doesn't have the same deal to work with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:06 AM
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Exactly. Feminism lied to them that they could hoe around, work like a man and guys would like up to marry them. Nah It's crazy how women's standards increase only after their beauty fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 05:03 AM
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Women are truly single like men though. When I'm talking single I' mean no sex at all
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:49 PM
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Join a monastery or the church.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 05:46 PM
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I thought women were happier single?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:07 AM
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Provide a data point and not anecdotal evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:21 AM
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That's only after they've been ran through by the guys they listed after. Odd how that works
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:20 AM
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It'll get them more dates due to the notoriety
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:15 AM
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We're not all the same and individuals. It's the opposite when women gas light men and saying women aren't a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:14 AM
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If sex wasn't important they'd just be your friend
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:13 AM
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This is why I don't take anything women say about men should hold other men accountable. Men aren't a monolith and you don't deserve for me to bail you out of any situation you put yourself in. Deal with it like an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 12:10 AM
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Idk who they are but most of us are pointing out that chasing the douches who treat you like crap is your fault when what you're truly looking relationship wise and if you want marriage is probably the guy in your FZ. The guy who treats you like an option is because he can. The guy who can't would actually treat you like a person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:31 PM
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The physical attraction is the most important thing otherwise your her friend which leads to a dead bedrooms. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 12:13 PM
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😂 this is some mental gymnastics. No she has actually work to get a mate instead of being fat and lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:23 AM
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Who chose that man?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:22 AM
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How is the man you chose a burden? Yes your weight gain is your responsibility and imo grounds for a divorce if not rectified. Same with you leaving me if I got cancer or lost my job and got depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:20 AM
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You should YouTube James Sexton
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:16 AM
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This is only true if she's truly attracted to you.. If she feels she settled you won't be able to satisfy her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 11:13 AM
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If that were the case there wouldn't be shows like love island, the bachelor etc. Women want relationships just as much as men. They're just as lonely as well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:43 AM
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Surveys aren't hard science.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:40 AM
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It's a raw deal..you get all the responsibility and expenses and none of the excitement
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:39 AM
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"You musn't decenter women from your lives. You are supposed to go through heartache when you're young - it builds character. A real man grows from those experiences, becomes well-adjusted and eventually seeks to be a provider and protector of women. You are supposed to get married when you're an adult. Pair off, date, get engaged, marriage, and kids. That's the formula to keep society together." Don't defect .... Those days are dead. Unless you want to a be a beta bux deluxe. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:24 AM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:23 AM
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I thought these were incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 06:19 AM
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Women make just as much as men when career field is taken into account. The gap only occurs in male dominant fields. Abortion being an issue has to do with the democrats not protecting it when they had the chance. RBG also says hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 03:03 AM
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If the father isn't in the picture and he's not dead. 2+2=4.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 02:59 AM
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You wouldn't have given him a chance if he said he worked at Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:58 PM
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😂 there's literally a subreddit called where are all the good men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:54 PM
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A lot of women are hoping it turns into one hence situationships
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:45 PM
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Women have 3 choices imo: Land the guy you want/fwb to that guy Settle when you get older Be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:45 PM
1

In that case a passport can stay perfectly intact after a plane hits a building refutes the blue pill argument that it doesn't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:38 PM
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Are we dating the same guy Facebook groups as well
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:37 PM
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The number of single moms and DV rates, prison bunny stories and Luigi say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:35 PM
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I have 2 sisters who've done this and know a bunch of women who have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:34 PM
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If looks were all that mattered women wouldn't have more than 1 relationship before marriage. They'd get the guy they desired most. The problem is they're dumb and think a guy who pumps and dump then and then beats on them to get them to leave actually cared about them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:33 PM
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Exactly. Also they want a man who's a finished product. Excuse me but who tf are they? The average woman isn't bringing much more to the world than the average guy but they expect men to look past their history and accept them as they are while the guy has to be a million different things. Fuck that. All the talk about nice guys and incels projecting entitlement is hilarious given the entitlement of a lot of modern women. In fact id wager it's far more likely the case that men settle more than w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 01:30 PM
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And men are starting to say to hell with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:29 AM
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Exactly. They want to show him off to her friends..and when he doesn't want to commit they get bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:28 AM
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When you go for the hot guy who beats you agreed. When choose a hot guy who treats you well congrats. The difference is men have watched what women respond to. Why protect, provide etc when you can just be a POS and the women chase you? There's no reward for being a good man unless you want to wait late 30s or 40s to be ready for modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:26 AM
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This is the problem. Who determines your caliber? Your friends? Society? You? Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:23 AM
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No. It ruins his life. Leave these egotistical women alone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 10:22 AM
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There's no hypocrisy. Men are honest about it. Women are the ones that lie and deflect until you see them in the wild. How many times has society said men are more visual people than women? Hell I just saw a reel where a guy was holding up a sign that said free hugs but he had on glasses and a hoodie. No women wanted hugs until he took off the glasses and hoodie and had muscle and a 6 pack and then they swarmed him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:38 AM
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Outside of sex what does a woman add to a man's life? A lot of men at least have utility outside of sex. I remember that TikTok where the wife had 4 guys over to help her move and she was dating all of them and laughed about it after explaining it to her husband who she said he should be happy she chose him. The audacity and arrogance was disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:28 AM
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"men should pay for the date" " Men shouldn't expect sex after paying" Meanwhile, the guy she sleeps with doesn't have to date her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:25 AM
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Men see no benefits in modern marriage with modern women feeling they settled for them, rewarded for infidelity and the state forcing them to adhere to their role where as women are not. IMO the vast majority of women are choosing to be single and child free because the top guys they complain about won't settle for them and their looks match doesn't want to pay the full bill where there's no actual attraction because of her unrealistic expectations. So men focus more on hobbies and women focus m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 07:17 AM
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They've literally studied this: the vast majority of men would accept a woman who met 80% of their criteria. Women said no to the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:59 AM
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Men pick for mate and fertility and were honest about it.. it's women who have lied and gaslighted men for decades about looks don't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:48 AM
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This is a lie if women want to have kids. If they want to sleep around sure but data would show that is the case. It's not. Women are just either dating the same guy as evidence by the Facebook groups or dating older.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:47 AM
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Then they complain after being used and abused and there being no good men at 35+
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:45 AM
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There's a reason the dating apps fight to keep their data from seeing the light. It's the #1 way people meet today and the vast majority of women swipe right on only 5% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:39 AM
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The vast majority of the female population have had rights their entire lives. Stop acting like women's suffrage was 30 years ago. It was well over a 100 years ago and the sexual revolution was 60 years ago. Modern women just want all their cake and to eat it too. Time will show them that is impossible for 99% of the human population
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:37 AM
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It also helps they have an industry that hides their flaws in makeup and other stuff. Men don't have that and society has pushed the most attractive people for decades so that doesn't help either.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:27 AM
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The undesirable used to die in war. Now they stay home. The government needs them now more than ever for funding the single moms of the most desirable men. It's cucking via taxation
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/25 05:22 AM
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You literally said they need to be eliminated. You're explaining after being called out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:32 PM
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No we're telling you actions have consequences. That chasing the POS hurts you long term and don't get mad when the backup options aren't there. The vast majority of men are taught by life we don't matter unless we achieve something. Women not understanding the vetting process isn't men's fault. Just like I told my sister who had new bf turned husband who I could tell was a POS and I brought it up. She didn't listen and was left a single mom for a decade before she got married again and now she …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:29 PM
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It is. That's why men who other women want are attractive and virgins are not. One guy drives her primal urges the other guy is backup plan who she knows will stick around if she gets pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:24 PM
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Who's gaslighting men? What I've said has been proven by research
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:02 PM
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Yes. Plenty of women make a guy who they see as husband material wait while Chad gets her immediately
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:48 AM
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The problem is women have been gaslighted by their friends, society, etc that they're way hotter than they are. Then when they get ran through by hotter men who just want sex they take it out on the "lesser" attractive men who actually were on their level. Which leaves both sides bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:34 AM
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Yep 1/3 do. Also women brag all the time about not paying for sayes or using men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:31 AM
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They actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:20 AM
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"Good, they are leftovers of a bygone era. It’s sad, but necessary to get rid of undesirable men in one major transitionary period before they have time to organize and be more like the Middle East." You're right, we should implement eugenics and just exterminate all the undesirable people.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:17 AM
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This doesn't work. Women are just as shallow as men..OLD shows that. Women built this market they need to stop complaining about being used by the guys with options. Imo I think that's why a lot of them are choosing to be single. They can't get the guy the truly wanted. They can get their sexual needs met by hot guys and don't want kids now. I expect male suicide to skyrocket in the coming decades though society will be blame men,, but well better better off for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:16 AM
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This. Men need to either go for the women at their physical level of attraction or level up and deal with the trade offs more attractive women cause. Imo. It's better to be a below average woman's king than a beautiful woman's jester. Leave the hot women to be pumped and dumped by the guys they want and don't become a retirement plan when they're tired of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:12 AM
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Eh most marriages are statistically likely to end in divorce..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:00 PM
1

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:44 AM
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Data to prove this? Here's data for one subset of men: https://www.google.com/amp/s/thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/amp/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:40 AM
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A lot of those men will probably move to other countries or PPB.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:55 AM
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It's more like 80% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:47 AM
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Look at the marriage rates. They've plummeted. https://usafacts.org/articles/state-relationships-marriages-and-living-alone-us/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:46 AM
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Not necessarily imo. It all depends on the societal narrative. Back then kids were needed for farm work and people actually liked each other until the last 3 decades. The redpill explosion accelerated how men now view women and feminism destroyed the rest as it got more misandry and told women they can do whatever they want without consequences. Add in the government institutions funding more female initiatives and now we're in a hypergamy death spiral. Men are checking out of dating, work and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:43 AM
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No women killed that with their behavior and the guys who would've happily married them have learned the game and aren't going to be backup options. It's why a lot of women have claimed they're giving up men or don't want children.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:15 AM
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Always add unattractive to anything a woman says about a man in a negative way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:12 AM
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This is bull shit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:11 AM
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If men listen to what women wanted we'd be extinct. In fact, we're heading that way atp 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 01:11 AM
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He had to propose though. If HE didn't propose it would be on her to ask him and the vast majority of women aren't doing that. So the men decide who they'll marry. This is not hard to comprehend. It no one asks you you can't say yes when you expect them to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 08:55 PM
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Very few women ask men to marry them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:21 AM
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No they don't. Average woman have plenty of opportunities to date and be in relationships. They actively choose to withdraw. For the average guy there isn't much choice except keep trying by putting in a 10000x the effort that a man she actually is attracted didn't have to do to or be alone forever. That is the difference. A bunch of men have decided a lot of women aren't worth that cost
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 02:10 AM
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Exactly. If you're completely indifferent and you're already genetically unattractive you're screwed. You went from caring while being ignored and rejected to not caring but still being ignored and rejected. Thats why I laughed at people like Brent Smith back in the day. He was like be indifferent while also being attractive 😂. If you're physically unattractive you're going to have to have fame or millions to get a woman who's even average attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:12 PM
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Yep. A lot of women are also choosing to stay single and be a hot guys side with money than have a family with a guy she deems beneath her. So the men who see this have dropped out of society. It is what it is atp and only going to accelerate. Society has shown men women's true nature and women's hypergamy has been accelerated with social media. Why work for 10-20 years to get what another guy got for free without trying and you have to pay full price and have a 50% chance of failure? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:54 PM
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There is nothing better than shooting your shot as a young man to a woman who you perceived as attractive and she laughs in your face. Imo a lot of men said no thanks when we actually look at reality and all the societal gas lighting falls apart. The best you get is a woman in her 30s who feels she's settled for you after the worst guys she actually wanted have used and abused her and you're just the ATM she'll leave you for once her retirement plan is set
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:50 PM
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This is a societal and upbringing problem
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 09:47 PM
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Like what? Is the women cutting the grass and fixing the house? Sounds more like a cop out for women to just be lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 12:41 PM
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No the men women are actively choosing are doing those things. Take some accountability for your actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:51 AM
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These guys don't control the sexual marketplace. Women do. If the women all think they're hotter than they are because they got smashed by a hot guy that's not the average guys fault. That's her fault for not seeing through his BS. Average men are allowed to be delusional like you're being. Life and society humbles them. You act like an average guy can easily overcome average looks? 😂. In order to do that he has to build a career, have game and or money. That takes years. You're delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 11:48 AM
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The men women are chasing and ignoring red flags to become single moms are women's fault. Men can't legally have sex without a woman's permission. Women want all the excitement and none of the accountability when they're ying and want average guys to take on some scumbags kids or finance their life later. If the same behavior keeps happening it's YOU! Women control tur sexual marketplace. If you lose out and have bad experiences it's because you actively choose that. Imagine you have thousands o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:50 PM
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There are always exceptions to the rules
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:45 PM
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Never listen to women when it comes to dating or really anyone. Watch what they do. If women actually responded to what they say they wanted there wouldn't be single moms everywhere and nice guys would be slaying. Whatever a woman tells you wrt to dating do the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 10:16 PM
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About 35-45 IMO and a bunch don't
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:31 AM
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In fairness like attracts like
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/25 03:29 AM
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This is literally an insane take.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:06 PM
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That's goes for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 04:36 AM
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It sounds like a lot of people want Islam for thee wrt to men dating younger compared to dating women their own age. The thing feminism leaves out about women trying to play a man's game in the sexual market is their currency is beauty. A man can overcome his looks via, fame, money, game etc. A lot of women need to lock down their best match by 30. They have 10 years realistically to build a family. Men have a much larger and longer window where they can still have a family and date younger. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:46 AM
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Wrong. Adults should be allowed to do whatever they want so long as it's consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 03:36 AM
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What women say they want and what they respond to are two different things. The vast majority of women are just as visual as men. It's why they'll immediately have a hookup with a hot guy and keep the guy who'll invest into the relationship wait longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:28 AM
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Most chads don't have to actually date. The women do the work
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:17 AM
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No the problem is most men aren't sleeping around but women expect men to accept them despite doing so. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:15 AM
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This isn't theory this plays out everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:13 AM
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Yep then she leaves with cash prizes and stays with Chad and is miserable. I have a sister who did this. Another one literally treats her beta husband like shit after her psycho ex husband beat her and she was single. Literally, she was talking about researching divorce and her husband just looking at me like wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:12 AM
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Have you ever slept with a guy on the first date though? IDC but other guys would because that means you aren't lusting after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:08 AM
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Exactly. That's why LMS exists and personality is next to what type of shoes he wears. A guy who as all 3 is cleaning up compared to the others who lack those
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 02:03 AM
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They shoot their shot. It's a numbers game..You should be ok with this equality because this is the result of feminism and choice. Gotta take the good with the bad.. that's life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:41 AM
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Men can compensate for their lack of looks with charisma, charm, game and $. The vast majority of women only have looks to offer. Guys shooting their shot. Also just because a woman hooks up with an 8 doesn't mean she's an 8. It means she's an easy lay. This is why women are choosing to be single. The guys that smash and dash are hot and the guys she rejects are closer to her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 01:36 AM
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That's common sense..look at the divorce rate. The 2 main reasons are $ and infidelity. Every marriage is conditional and it's not based on love
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:33 PM
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This is a lie. Women talk about and laugh at ugly men who approach, penis size, sex, etc. Women are just as sexual as men..you've just had a propaganda machine these last few decades. Oddly enough, feminism destroyed women's image more than anything else. What women still don't want to do is take accountability but time does that for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:30 PM
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Nice deflection to the question. I'm saying your husband wasn't your type when you were younger. Which means I bet you feel like you settled for him and he's probably pretty good to you. It was only when you're options dried up of the guys you truly wanted(behavior doesn't change just because you move states) and knew they'd never stick around. More men ain't playing that game anymore. You may have caught one of the last life rafts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 10:26 PM
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Exactly. There was just a post in dead bedrooms about how the wife promised sex after work so the husband cleaned the whole house got dressed up, etc and then when the wife got home she said she was too tired and didn't want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:24 AM
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For the nice guys yes. He gets none of the excitement of her youth, but gets to finance everything and then pay for it at divorce when she leaves for another guy she finds exciting and actually attractive. I guess he gets to have kids, if they're his. That sounds absolutely terrible for most men. It's why the RP preaches leveling up everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:21 AM
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exactly. It's no different than women choosing scumbags and then asking where all the good men are at when she's 45. The best thing for women is to build a life with a guy she finds attractive enough to be there through the hard times not just the fun times. There's a gamble that he leaves for a younger woman but a lot of men would reward that loyalty. Men who were forced to wait because of lack of attractiveness or skills are forced to go younger if they wanted to start a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 06:15 AM
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The difference is if she vetted properly, and people do change she can bring the excitement and him the stability. It doesn't have to be on the guy completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 05:00 AM
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The difference is by the time the vast majority of women have figure out what a good relationship looks like they've wasted the vast majority of their time of POS men and expect average guys to foot the bills while also not getting any of the excitement the other guys got for less effort.. IMO that's why more men and women are truly single than ever before. The guys you think you're settling aren't there anymore. The issue is women want relationships, the guys they want relationships with don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 04:30 AM
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Exactly. It's modern age version of just be yourself but in reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:41 PM
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Women it comes to people: Never listen to what they say Watch they respond to
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 10:37 PM
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Women wanted gender roles destroyed. This is the price and cost of that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:36 PM
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Exactly. That can lead to criminal charges if you escalate with the wrong woman and she regrets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:59 PM
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Exactly. The guy she truly wants she'll make it easy for. The guy she doesn't she'll make him work for it or wait
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:57 PM
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This is hilarious. If women had to live like an average man for a month they would probably crash out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:23 PM
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Eh men imo especially younger ones are told they have to wait while the women waste their best years on dudes who don't want them and then average Joe is supposed to be grateful she finally gives him a chance to finance her life, kids etc after she's declining in appearance and put in weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:19 PM
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Hugh got with his wife before he became the Hugh of America fame. The TRP is spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:58 PM
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You literally just proved my point by being hate and bitter 😂 Most average guys are not ignored. Most average guys are rejected for being assholes. Average guys think they entitled to supermodels without making any effort to be better men. They deserve dying alone and unmourned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:49 PM
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What women say they like and what they actually respond to are two different things. How many women say they want a nice kind man and then end up with a jerk? More than I can remember
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 04:12 AM
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Exactly. The whole thing is virtue signaling
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:16 PM
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Yep. I saw that TikTok where the wife I think is admitting to her husband she invited 4 men including him to help her move and she was dating all of them but chose him. He was like wtf and she just laughed it off
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:07 PM
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Who said I'm mad? I'm just pointing out the cause and effect of market dynamics occuring today
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 01:00 PM
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😂. Most marriages aren't built on love
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:50 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:35 PM
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Yep. They focus on partying, sleeping around and then try to settle down once the guys that used them for fun are gone. The issue for women now is everything feminism and government has implemented to overcome societal issues over corrected and now we're seeing the results. There used to be a bunch of AF/BB. Now guys are saying you AF no thanks. I guarantee you the women that say they're happier single are lying because if the guy they wanted were to ask for marriage they would say yes. Now I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:36 AM
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I have to say I've enjoyed the roasting of the biologist. They should try dodgeball or fencing with how they dodged those responses 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:22 AM
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It all depends on what the actual % increase is and is irrelevant if the father already has something like ADHD. It's completely different compared to women who's literal clock dies after menopause
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:15 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 11:03 AM
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😂. Depending on where you live you're cutting the grass 4-5 times a month. And let's not act like women work so hard in the house given 95% of their labor has been off loaded to machines (Dishwasher, Washer/Dryer, etc)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:21 AM
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Exactly. That was a huge self own 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:18 AM
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Exactly. Look at Chris brown
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:05 AM
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Exactly. Women make jokes about men sexuality and experience all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:01 AM
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More and more men are virgins compared to women. If women wanted to be chaste they easily could. The difference is they want to have Brad and Chad blow her back out in her 20s. Then settle down for Billy beta in her 30s and eventually cheat after she has secured kids and $. No the problem is a lot of women expect the guy who she never would've glanced at in her sexual prime to finance their lifestyle after she's had all her fun and settles down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:45 AM
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DWI you can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:26 AM
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Who's to say the guy she attracts wants marriage? The vast majority of women aren't getting married because the men they're attracted to don't need that. That leaves the average guys they ignored are leaving the market or going elsewhere. A ton of American women are too masculine and want their men to be maids why they think bringing $ fixes her entitlement and lack of home skills
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:21 AM
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Rejection is a part of life and growth. You don't know if that person likes you until you say hello and see where it goes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:03 AM
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Exactly. Look at that teen mom show woman that just got arrested for manslaughter. She was painting Picassos with her makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:59 PM
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This is a limiting thinking process. Leagues are designed to keep people in people's perceived place. Fuck that..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:48 PM
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Outside of looks what are the women doing that makes them desirable long term to men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:36 PM
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No that's what you think it is. Men can approach anywhere we want. If the guy is attractive to you or becomes a canon event. If not it's a creepy guy approached me story
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:30 PM
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You can't have a double standard and then complain. Women wanted equality in the dating market this is the cost: Only approach the men you want and immediately tell those you don't you're not interested. Be a side option or "feel" like you settled, or stay single. We're seeing this play out ATM and women need to stop complaining about a market they created by gaslighting, lies by omission, etc. Welcome to be being a man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:25 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:21 PM
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Men have to approach. Women can't complain that no men approaches them, and then get mad that men they no find attractive approaches. For a gender that supposedly is great at communicating things, women suck at communication
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:57 PM
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They're bothered by men they don't find attractive inconveniencing them. That's the difference. Men will be straight up honest with people. Just right now you lied by omission.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:53 PM
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Yepp. Gaslighting 101
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:51 PM
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Women aren't a monolith but TikTok is social engineering. So if more and more women are socially engineered to believe it, it becomes reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:05 PM
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"being yourself" is a lie because the "yourself" isn't really you it's a combination of your societal/environmental programming. If being yourself was actually true pimps wouldn't exist. Imo yes, being physically attractive matters to a point but if you don't have game, style etc. Youre screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:57 PM
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While being charged crazy fees, etc but at least you got a t-shirt 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 08:06 PM
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Exactly. When empathy goes out the window for anyone it's a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:29 AM
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😂. The millions of single moms say hello.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:28 AM
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How are women's unrealistic expectations not at fault as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:27 AM
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Over half of women between the age of 25-45 will be single and child free in 5 years. It's a societal problem because what do you think happens when people get angry? Revolution..so the things your worried about lead to things like Trump.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:26 AM
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There's no incentive for men to treat women with any decency or respect when you see how the vast majority of them operate. All that be kind and respectful crap is just Disney fantasy. You will get far better results treating them like crap so long as you're moderately attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 06:11 AM
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It's never too late man. Change your mindset and read books
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:58 AM
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This is the truth. It's better to be single than a family finance manager
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 12:52 AM
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Who's to say the women are just as bad? Sex is a two way street and if the woman isn't doing her part it sucks for us as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 09:49 PM
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These are the guys put in the FZ or sent to HR
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 01:50 AM
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Exactly women and society try to shame older men constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:48 AM
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That's exactly it. Imagine you have to put in 10000x more work to date an average woman who makes it easier for hotter men. Then when she's 30+ plus your supposed to ignore her past while taking on the biggest financial risks of your life and be happy like it's a win. Fuck that. If she didn't want you when you had nothing, she gets nothing when you have something. That's where AF/BBs comes in
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:44 AM
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Agreed, I have 3 sisters. Women have agency. They actively choose bad people. Just like my sister told me the other day after we were talking about her failed relationships. She knew what a good relationship was. She even admitted the reason why she left her husband was because he wasn't exciting enough and left him for her boss eye dr, even though the hot Dr she got treats her like shit and she complains about being alone. Same for my younger sister who went exciting guys who were abusive and m…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:40 AM
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Women have the dating market they want and have nothing to complain about. Women only truly want men they find immediately sexually attractive to approach, date and message them. They have told above/average men to not approach, message them, speak to or in some cases even look at them. Women wanted and rightfully got sexual freedom. The problem is they want or were not taught any of the responsibility of their actions. Most average/even above average guys are ignored in most aspects of society.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 12:03 AM
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Plenty of women have sex with a stranger they meet within an hour. The difference is if she finds you got enough. Men would be fine for the most part if society and women would just be direct
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 11:27 PM
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Expecting men to provide and protect today is stupid in modern times imo. Women can take care of themselves and only need men in relationships for sex and kids. It would be a whole lot easier if women just went for the guys they wanted and accepted being in a harem or her ceiling is a side chick. Marriage is an outdated concept ATP and was really only a way an average guy could secure a woman. Now that it's not necessary the average guy either needs to level up, hire escorts or go overseas. I th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:11 AM
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It doesn't help that society has lied and gaslighted both genders on realistic standards and expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:42 AM
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No. Let them go for what they want and let their experience teach them. The same goes for men. It's better for you to go for what you desire than ruin a person who you aren't attracted to. Now, whether or not your criteria is realistic is a whole other question to be answered. IMO we'll see an explosion moving forward of harems and ENM where the guy that provides gets the relationship and the guy she's actually attracted gets to have her for fun. It's best for men to adapt or not play.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:40 AM
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This would probably happen more with the guy she feels she settled for regardless of age difference imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 09:56 PM
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Those guys get friendzoned. You're looks can't change much as a guy. There's no makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:48 PM
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Exactly this. I watched an older woman flirting with a 19 year old guy while I was at work..The guy thought it was strange. I 😂. Women go for who they want when the guy is hot enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:45 PM
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I don't believe anything from self-reported studies. People lie to protect their ego
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:43 PM
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The problem is the guy has to work 1000x harder to get the average woman's attention in her prime unless he's really attractive. The roles flip if the women are older and looking to settle down in her 30s. The average guy has finally figured the game out though. Best to leave those women alone and do your own thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:40 PM
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People will adjust. Either men will work more on going for the women they want here or overseas. Women will either go for the guys they want or stay single. Both sides will get what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/25 11:36 PM
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What wars? You mean the world wars? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 07:22 AM
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It's going to where your efforts would be celebrated and not just tolerated. Everywhere has risks but for an average who struggles in the US why shouldn't they go where hypergamy works in their favor?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 04:29 AM
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😂 at women being honest. Their behavior shows time and again they love jerks who give them intense emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:17 PM
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😂 no they crave hot guys to be nice and decent people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:15 PM
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He's the insurance agent in a sweater vest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:14 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:12 PM
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You'll be here big brother! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:11 PM
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At least being alone won't cost you half your stuff when you're alone in a dead bedroom like what happens when you settle for her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:07 PM
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I don't know if you know this but men can travel overseas. What's going to be sad is all these entitled people who bought into BS who end up alone. Yes women can be sport fucked into oblivion but any decent guy is not going to want to attach his name or any assets to her. This is the bed women wanted. Lay in it. A woman's past matters because it will shape a man's future. It reminds me of that GOT scene where the prostitute wipes a man's kids off her face right before kissing another John. The d…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 03:02 PM
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Just die alone bro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:52 PM
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And what happens if no one likes you or you don't find them attractive? Die alone or be miserable? Personally I'd head overseas
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 02:51 PM
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Low self esteem. I wouldn't recommend that. Toxic is not the word. More like torture. Of course I got raised to be the nice guy by a mom who chose douches and assholes who also get in on the action. Still fixing that shyt. The saying hurt people hurt people is very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 12:04 PM
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Behavior never lies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:37 AM
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Exactly. This is why if you're not her first choice you're her last. This won't work if the woman feels like she settled. I've got multiple sisters. They're all been married. Only one got married right out of HS. She chose my BIL. They've been married for 25 years. He makes a crap ton of money and she has homeschooled and raised all their kids even when he made $50k a decade ago. They're christian and she follows his lead but he always asks her what her thoughts are. They also date every week. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:35 AM
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You definitely abide sir
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:24 AM
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Exactly. They work to get that guy. Whereas the average guy has to work to get them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:20 AM
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It depends on the woman. That same woman isn't getting the same results as she was at 25. If she partied all her 20s, smoke, drugs etc she's going to age like shyt. No different than a guy who did the same thing. Women will always have guys wanting to smash them regardless of their age. It's the type of guy they want for a relationship that goes down.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:17 AM
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Women will be hit on by thirsty dudes til the day they die. Simps don't stop aging either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:14 AM
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They can if they accept that she'll cheat and eventually leave
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:09 AM
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😂 this a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:09 AM
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Just leave those women alone, man. You guys have to go where you're celebrated. Life teaches us all lessons
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:05 AM
1

Completely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 03:48 AM
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Because modern feminism only cares about women superiority while also restraining men to a traditional role. It's the ultimate have your cake and eat it too
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:35 AM
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Exactly. It's 2025. Women should shoot their shot now that we're equal. Have some confidence ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:32 AM
2

Exactly. Confidence is a bare minimum requirement women want along with a bunch of other things..always watch their responses though
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:31 AM
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We're shamed unless we're attractive. The best thing is an average guy who gets no attention can do is level up and choose from the women who choose you. If none choose you go overseas. Leave the women who want to be single, with douches, etc alone. You owe them nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/25 12:29 AM
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No. We have financial clocks and our sperm may fall in quality but men can have kids til we're into old age(wouldn't recommend this).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 04:29 PM
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Is it truly the woman who settles or the man? Women have a biological clock that is way shorter than a man's financial clock imo. IMO men settle more than women but both do settle
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 03:01 AM
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Exactly. It's why dead bedrooms and infidelity exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:52 PM
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This is why hook-up culture and OLD have destroyed things imo. If a woman gets a hookup with a 8/9 while she's a ,6 she's going to feel like she settles no matter what. IMO there's going to be a ton of unhappy people settling down or at least trying to. OLD is terrible for the average guy. What happens when the average woman wants to settle down in her 30s and have kids and the normal guy isn't there? There's no incentive for the average guy to lock himself into a one sided marriage when he got …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:50 PM
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Alpha fux/Beta bucks
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 07:42 PM
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It's 10%. It should be abolished there's no need for men or women to need it in this day and age
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:09 PM
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What they mean is they want attractive men to be themselves. Any advice from women assumes the woman you're talking about already likes you. That's what is confusing to most men. Women have no clue how to attract women because all they have to do is just exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:05 PM
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The definition of AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:56 PM
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She's not going to. You're the stable guy. You don't excite her. You get the vanilla sex. The guy she likes gets whatever he wants and whenever. Just remember when you kiss her your kissing his kids goodnight 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:41 PM
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Exactly. Because she'll be banging the guy who has the looks she wants behind your back
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:30 PM
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The biggest issue is accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:13 PM
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This is the problem right here. The double standard. I will say the less desired man is the one who has to date. It's designed to waste resources while a better option comes along. That's while ghosting is so prominent. It happens to women too but they get fucked and discarded by men chasing better options. Never settle for a woman who's been had like this. It'll ruin your life. Men only truly work in this society for access to women. Women by and large have said the average or below average guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:00 PM
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I do wonder what's going to happen in the next decade plus. How many of these men and women will change and create families or will it just be the top guys with harem and everyone else is fighting in the trenches against each gender? There's going to be a huge drop off in children born as we're already seeing. Imo robots and AI will fill that coming void. I will say that the government should go ahead and abolish state sanctioned marriage and alimony..women don't need it anymore now that they're…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:53 AM
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Undesired men should just stop contributing to society and let the top men and all the women do the work instead. Sex is the biggest motivator for most men. Why work 60+ years when society only uses you as a mule? Let it all crumble. I'd rather choose going overseas imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 11:42 AM
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Yep then complain when they get older wondering where all the men went. If the average guy stopped working in mass society would collapse within weeks if not days.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:42 AM
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This message is like telling a dog not to act like a dog. Your message is simple. Unsuccessful men should just die alone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:12 AM
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Exactly. You can't complain when they focus on video games, hobbies or not moving out of their parents homes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:04 AM
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The problem is men can't do this and have kids if they want or ensure they don't die alone as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 02:00 AM
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I think a big problem is women wanting average men to play the traditional gender role while they play their modern role of hook-up culture with the most attractive men and better multiple options, etc. The only way to counter act that is to become what women find attractive if you don't have the looks to initially get in the door. The problem is those guys had to work the hardest to achieve it and there probably is resentment where as other men had to just exist to achieve the same end result. …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:39 AM
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Exactly. What's going to happen to society when all these men and women age out of the SMP? Women don't want kids more than ever now. A lot of unrealistic expectations are fueled by SM. I think the biggest disconnect is men are told from day 1 you earn your value and have to be accountable. Where as, women are lied to in every media and then lie to men at what they want. I think a lot of people would be better off men especially if they weren't lied to about personality being more important than…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:29 AM
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Just talked to my BILs sister today who has to escape her fiance because she hates his kid who's 16. She's always at her dad's house smoking and drinking as a way to get away. She's never married but had multiple kids. What did she tell me despite her actions saying otherwise? She wants a nice and kind man now that she's in her mid 40s and it's not working after 4.5 years with the fiance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:21 AM
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You never go by what women say they want. You go by what they respond to. Watch their actions not their words. JFC
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:07 AM
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Every women has emotions and baseline behavior they find attractive. If it works 70% of the time compared to 10% when you followed society's advice why wouldnt you use it? If you want to be wealthy who would you study the 1% or the masses?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:05 AM
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Imo men who arent successful need to realize that maybe they are in the wrong pool. If your strategy doesn't work here even though you've tried there's hundreds of millions of women around the world. Use hypergamy to your advantage. That does not include sex touring which is disgusting imo. Get in where you fit in and go where you're celebrated and not just tolerated. You're going to be spending $ on women no matter what. You have to use what you got
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 01:00 AM
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Why does anyone read books on the human mind, relationship, money, etc? To get a better understanding how they relate to the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:09 AM
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This is a stupid answer. Any skill requires knowledge and actions to build it. I don't get why people try to shame others for learning something they weren't inherently taught. In fact, with practice you can learn faster to see what works in that actual real world
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 12:07 AM
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