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A club still staves a skull in at close range 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:41 AM
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They think like that because that’s something they’d do. When you see women solely as sexual objects, every interaction with them is a potential ploy to get their dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:10 AM
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I repeat my last comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:37 PM
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So do weak and wimpy men. Between the two, who do you think is more likely to breed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:32 PM
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Not really relevant, since the traits women find attractive haven’t really changed regardless of current gender norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:32 PM
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Women keep picking those men 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:18 PM
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I would argue we have to define what “abusive, violent, and toxic” even means here, because many struggling men making this claim label any man more successful with women than they are as those things, even if they’re not actually abusive or physically violent to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:14 PM
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Not really, because women find those “bad” traits attractive. If women found weak, submissive, emotional men attractive, their dating choices would reflect that since they can freely choose men like that…yet they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:11 PM
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That’s way easier said than done. Humans, biologically, have evolved very little from our Hunter gatherer ancestors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:03 PM
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This assumes that women aren’t intentionally biologically primed to want abusive, violent, toxic men because those traits were what evolution bred into us for survival over 100,000 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:59 PM
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No, that’s David Allan Coe. I’ve been told I look close enough to be related to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 09:20 PM
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Too many weirdos on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:22 PM
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LMFAO no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:18 PM
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My face.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:48 PM
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Have a backbone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:26 PM
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My grandma when she met my wife the first time, talking about her tits: “Wow, she’s got quite a set of lungs.” So I don’t think my grandma would give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:10 PM
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Just being real with you dude. If you don’t lock down a low n woman when she’s young, you’re unlikely to do that as you get into your late 20s and into your 30s. That’s the reality you’re dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:09 PM
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When a woman actually complains about that on here, I’ll be happy to hold them to the fire. But guess who’s doing the majority of the complaining here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:06 PM
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Absolutely. That may very well be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:04 PM
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No. But I think you’re probably telling more than you think you’re letting on. The fact that you think a majority of women “live hedonistically” shows that internally you already have a strong dislike for a lot of your potential dating pool, and I think you’re fooling if you don’t think you don’t telegraph that unconsciously. Like, I absolutely don’t think you’d be dumb enough to flat out say “Most women are Hypergamous whores”, but I do think you do say other things that suggest that and women …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:01 PM
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What are we left to infer? The guy claims he’s tall with model good looks. That’s the two biggest boxes checked off for what 99% of heterosexual women are looking for in a partner. So no assuming that’s true, what’s the only variable left that would explain why a tall, good looking man is having trouble finding the partner he wants; it’s a personality issue. That’s the simple reality of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:59 PM
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Do you want constructive criticism or do you want to be lied to? If you want to be lied to, I can do that too if it’ll make you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:51 PM
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Congrats, your personality is why you’re struggling to find someone to settle down. Nobody wants to be lectured that they’re “living hedonistically” by some guy they don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:47 PM
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Have you or have you not found someone to settle down with?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:38 PM
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Assuming this is true, your personality/personal skills suck. No man who’s your height with allegedly model grade looks is struggling with women unless they have a shitty, weird, or offputting personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:26 PM
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There’s no evidence women like only 30% of men. Most relationship statistics state the opposite, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:21 PM
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Figuring their shit out like adults instead of blaming women would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:17 PM
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That is the reality though. As you age, finding a “like minded low n woman” becomes statistically less likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:04 PM
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Norah Vincent was also nuttier than a shithouse rat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:15 PM
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Chicago or any other major midwestern US city.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:41 AM
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Sucks to be an unfortunate man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:40 AM
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Settling down isn’t “settling.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:31 AM
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Damn, her priorities and what she’s wants in her late 20s are different than her early 20s!? The horror. Why are incels so terrified of aging and settling down?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:23 AM
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I don’t think pre-selection is that important to visceral, animal attraction but it doesn’t hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:18 PM
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You can’t force anyone to be attracted to you, even if what makes you unattractive is outside of your control 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:26 PM
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I’ve never understood that either. Why would you lock down some ugly ass mofo you’re not sexually attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:17 PM
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My partner and I started out as casual hooking up. We both liked it, so we decided to do it long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:13 PM
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Oh yeah, tons of women are thinking about Tim Curry with their rabbits at full buzz lol K-pop dudes are all style masculine coded, they’re tall, broad shouldered, sharp jawlines. They’re not short, effeminate twinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:16 AM
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How many women do you know irl in relationships with “emotional, gay men”? Be honest here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:48 AM
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Men in women’s romance movies don’t act like feminine, emotional gay men either. They’re also not built like lil twink boys either. Women’s archetype for what they find attractive overall is closer to that than whatever nancyboy you’re describing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:38 AM
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It’s the exact opposite in reality ime. You’re never going to lose points with women by being masculine. Heterosexual women weren’t conditioned by biology to find feminine twinks to be the apex of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:30 AM
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Every guy who looks like a “Bosnian trucker” has a wife or gf. The stereotypical “female ideal pretty man” you described ironically sounds like a gay bestie, not a partner that inspires raw sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:23 AM
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The best sex I’ve had has been from relationships, sure. That said, I’ve have plenty of “good” sex from one night stands. I don’t think either are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:55 AM
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Several are married to frat members, others to former student athletes. They knew these girls reputations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:04 AM
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The founder of Mormonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:44 AM
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Interesting, because your overall life vibes match with several ex-Mormon women I’ve known. They got away from Joseph Smith and went feral lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:38 AM
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Oh lord, that explains a lot lol Ex-Mormon?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:30 AM
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The lifetime average for women in the US is like 7, so right there that excludes most women in this country lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:23 AM
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I saw some dude on here say anything more than 5 partners, which is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:14 AM
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If she ghosts you, cut your ties and move on. You can’t be a “playboy” or “disloyal” to someone you never actually dated or had a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:40 AM
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So one of you can’t answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:27 AM
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So what’s yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:15 AM
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What’s a “high n count” to the N Count Council?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:56 PM
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He always goes with the same comments, which makes it super easy to get him nuked. Dude isn’t the brightest troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:40 PM
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110% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:21 PM
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Can’t be lonely when you have your female bang-slave chained in the basement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:17 PM
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This is all nonsense. If she’s attractive, her n-count is meaningless. The biggest sorority hoes I went to college with are all now married or in relationships, despite getting literal trains run on them in the frat house.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:05 PM
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Oh hey cum guzzler guy! Bye cum guzzler guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:27 PM
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There’s a lot of own goals from guys fixated on n-counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:59 PM
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Find a girl who goes wild for you, it’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:57 PM
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The dudes sweating about n-count are worried about women having like 5 partners before them. If you don’t lock down a low-n girl when you’re young, you’re not going to when you’re in your late 30s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:53 AM
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There’s always bars and shows 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:48 AM
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Some guys gotta take what they can get if they care about n-count that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:47 AM
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I’ve been saying this forever. No creature that evolved the capacity for continuous, potentially multi-minute long orgasms has to do so because they evolved to enjoy sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:50 PM
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That’s why you gotta pack the secret weapon; a lil bag of whambino. She’ll head back to your place to chop lines every time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:33 PM
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Ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:36 PM
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Yes. I’m worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:16 PM
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I got the Desi part, I didn’t know that secret signifier though. I feel like there’s a lot of Indian incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:07 PM
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I’m sure you are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:06 PM
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Oh man, I gotta here an explanation for this one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:59 PM
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Yes really. If you’re not eating pussy in this day and age, you’re not getting a callback.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:58 PM
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The 28 yr old with the massive milkers, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:18 PM
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Lol for real! No woman has had a great time trying to ride a loofah who asks “Did you cum yet?” every 30 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:12 PM
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But you realize that’s a weird way to look at things, right? What you do in the bedroom has no bearing on your work performance. You also seem to be arguing for your “right” to rape women, which is also a weird, unhinged take.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:10 PM
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Why do you want to debate this, exactly? Haven’t you been married for like 20 years? Does your wife know you’re on here every week railing against sluts despite being “happily” married?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:58 PM
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If 80% of the men you encounter can’t eat pussy, that explains some of that male loneliness epidemic. That’s pitiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:53 PM
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The more I learn about groypers, the weirder and more nonsensical it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:50 PM
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It’s just such a bizarre way to view people. Like, you honestly feel like people can’t/dont separate their work and bedroom lives? You can’t treat someone who sucks your dick as an equal person?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:48 PM
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I will say overall women are probably lazier in bed, but when a woman is good, it’s really good IME. That said, yeah, if you’re all you’re bringing is a tiny, limp dick to the party, you’re gonna be seen as “worse” in bed than a woman who just has to lay there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:36 PM
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This is such a weird take. There’s like no way to read this and not think, “Oh, yeah, them being an incel makes sense” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:26 PM
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Kid sounds like a groyper accelerationist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:21 PM
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Sounds like you should stay away from high N women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:19 PM
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A tl:dr, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:18 PM
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I dunno if I buy that. The guys that go home with women regularly from the bar in my social circle aren’t “instagram top men.” They’re not taking home Instagram models either, they’re taking home equally mid/fat looking women. If you’re talking solely very attractive women, yeah, maybe you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:16 PM
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Cmon lady, you can’t advise men who’ve never been in a relationship to experiment with roleplay, that’s like talking about running a marathon before they can crawl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:45 PM
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Most of those studies are taken wildly out of context, or, they’re massive “correlation but not causation” studies. At the end of the day, just fuck who you want in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:44 PM
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Sure he is; average/ugly people who frequent bars are still hooking up. They’re hooking up with equally average/ugly women though, they’re not pulling Stacie’s, if that’s what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:42 AM
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The less likely you drink and socially interact, the less likely you are to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:34 AM
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I’ve always wondered this too. If you’re too cheap to pay for a couple cocktails and some tapas, you probably shouldn’t be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:28 PM
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The only place conservative men struggle with dating is in very liberal urban areas. Otherwise they date just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:55 PM
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Like 70% of men are in some kind of relationship. What is “most men” here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:59 PM
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Which means she’s irrelevant in the long run. No man is dying to wife up a delusional 3 woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:56 PM
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3’s don’t get 10s in the real world. Hence why 3 women demanding 10s irl stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:53 PM
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It’s moreso the feeling that you worked and struggled and at the end you got what you wanted. Not that you get a thrill from killing women or whatever weird shit you’re fantasizing about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:10 PM
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Lmao you have a fanciful imagination, I’ll give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:26 PM
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I said it’s a feeling similar to hunting, not “hurr durr I’m hunting women durrr duuuuuurrrrrr 🤤”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:17 PM
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🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:15 PM
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I’m sure there’s some element of truth to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:22 PM
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Ew?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:46 PM
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Which woman has the better ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:05 PM
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“Fox is left wing propaganda” is really funny, thanks, I haven’t laughed that hard in awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:46 PM
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I didn’t say anything. Look, if you’re heavily disfigured or severely disabled, yeah, romance might not be in your cards. But I know for a fact you’re neither or those things, and neither are most people commenting on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:18 PM
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I mean, sure. I have to work harder than a guy who looks like he walked off the cover of a romance novel. That’s life. But that doesn’t mean you can’t work to create good opportunities for yourself. Everybody can.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:13 PM
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Long live fat nattys!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:05 PM
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LMAO I’m not a “10/10”, I just know how to talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:03 PM
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That’s always made sense to me 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:02 PM
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They can be. I’ve found more often than not a smile, a joke, and pleasant conversation get you pretty far if you’re not a dickhead about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:02 PM
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Yeah, but they’re also union members so they make way more than minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:56 PM
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Because being constantly approached and borderlines harassed in non-social spaces is exhausting. Having a friendly stranger approach you in a social setting and start a convo isn’t that. You’re comparing two different scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:53 PM
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Honestly, people in relationships tend to give better advice on how to get into and keep a relationship than someone who’s never held a woman’s hand, let alone lived in close quarters with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:52 PM
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…what? That’s…not how it works at all. The chase should be fun and flirty and light, not fucking Count Orlock trying to lure you back to his castle, good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:47 PM
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I was thinking this too. Every time I go out I’m having conversations with people, a lot of them women. I don’t understand how these guys fail so bad at basic personal interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:45 PM
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If it gets to that point, you’ve seriously lost the plot. If she says a firm no, hunts over and on to the next one, what kind of idiot would keep going and get tasered?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:38 PM
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The chase is fun, simple as. If you’ve ever hunted, you know the same feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:19 PM
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Again, the only way that’s gonna work is if you embody the traditional masculine gender roles of the provider and the protector; something a lot of men here complain about having to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:49 PM
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Surprise surprise. TRP doesn’t even work for these idiots with money and status lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:38 PM
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What’s “the rest”? There’s like 6 of us here who don’t mind being stereotypically masculine and being a provider. If she’s “#2 in the relationship”, isn’t that traditional gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:29 AM
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Sure, but one of the biggest complaints of men here is having to embody those gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:17 AM
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That seems like a one way ticket to divorce unless you’re willing to embody traditional gender roles, which seems to be an issue for many men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:11 AM
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How do you mean, doesn’t want to be treated as an equal? I know very few women who are subservient servants to their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:47 PM
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I lied my first time, but when it came time to do the deed she called me out pretty quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:53 PM
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I worked with two Kelsey’s once and we called them “Kelsey Boobs” and “Kelsey Butt” to differentiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:14 PM
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Wrong guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:56 PM
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Ladies love man cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:04 PM
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This sounds fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:14 AM
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Sure. Now that’s out of the way, are talking about average men again?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:10 AM
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What does that have to do with AVERAGE men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:05 AM
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It would be great if you could back that up with something beyond “trust me, bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:31 AM
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I think that too. Like, when I was hooking up, I wasn’t looking to lock anybody down, I was just having fun for a night.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:19 AM
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It 100% helps, I dunno why struggling dudes on here don’t drinkmaxx
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:34 AM
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I’m the exact opposite, I would get a couple drinks in me and just rip the bandaid off and see how it goes. Rejection doesn’t sting as bad when you’re buzzed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:27 AM
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For sure. But at the same time I was like, “why though, you could literally bang any other dude at this party and you picked the fat, ugly guy” Body dysmorphia is a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:16 AM
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I just felt like an ogre because she was so fucking hot, but she initiated so I guess she saw something I didn’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:08 AM
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But there’s no data that says casual sex inflicts “emotional trauma” in a way that’s comparable to sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:07 AM
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Because having a random hookup isn’t the same as violent sexual trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:40 AM
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I would like to see some research that shows casual sex damages oxytocin receptors. To my knowledge the only thing that hampers pair bonding is severe sexual assault and trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:18 PM
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100%. I learned the hard way that spending my last $20 on beer when rent was due was a bad choice lol Definitely not something I would do today
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:07 PM
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That’s something I’ve learned over the years. People see you in a totally different light from how you see yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:18 PM
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Yes. It was legitimately confusing because we got along together and then all of a sudden we just didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:01 PM
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I feel this. I asked a girl I was hooking up with if I was the ugliest person she’s ever been with and she just looked confused and told me to shut up 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:59 PM
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I went dead broke, left law school, moved around to different states, worked a variety of jobs, did drugs, partied, hooked up with all kinds of women in different places. I learned how to manage my money, how to avoid toxic relationships, what actual compatibility is in a relationship, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:57 PM
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Yeah, I didn’t have that. My parents basically told me to sink or swim after college. That kind of forces you to grow up quick and get out of your comfort zone. You gotta live a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:55 PM
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I’m glad I took the risks I did in my 20s and fucked up a couple times. Learned a lot about myself and what I really wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:45 PM
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You think most men are just walking around with a hard on for every woman they see? No, it’s always for the attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:27 PM
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Yet EVERY woman can give you an example of a man that’s made them feel that way. YOU don’t make women feel that way, and that’s ok. That’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:24 PM
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You’re right, just give up now and let natural selection do the right thing and sort it out. I like that scenario too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:23 PM
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This reads like a declaration of mental illness. Persecution fetishes and feeling like every member of a particular group is “out to get you” is deeply unhealthy thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:19 PM
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Man, you’re testy today. Sorry no woman has expresses visceral attraction to you. I hope you get to experience that someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:17 PM
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True, you just gotta live your life until you find a woman who does that to you. May never happen, but it might.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:16 PM
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But that means all women have the capacity to experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:15 PM
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Running PR for women There it is, there’s the butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:11 PM
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It bears repeating because people like OP keep making these doofy proclamations that it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:52 PM
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Lol women definitely experience immediate visceral attraction. Just because you’ve never experienced it, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:43 PM
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It’s all just a mask for “Women should fuck me even if they don’t want to”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:10 PM
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I literally just explained it. If you can’t respond in good faith, just block me. I’m not really interested in dealing with you anymore if you’re just going to cry and whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:30 PM
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Sounds like the friendzone in denial. I don’t think you’re stupid, I think that maybe you don’t want to admit that you read more heavily into things that weren’t actually there because it’s embarrassing. Fucking block me then. Don’t respond to my comments if you don’t want me to respond back, simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:12 PM
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Because if the “political message” on the gun and bullets was in any way “leftist”, the administration would’ve already leaked it. That they’ve sat on and not released anything shows whatever the killer wrote doesn’t fit their “violent leftist” narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:43 PM
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If she’s offering to slap it, I’m taking her up on the offer 🤷‍♂️ “Why no, I don’t believe that’s not a bbl, but if you insist…” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:22 AM
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Except it’s not Morse code, and with a little experience and practice, it’s not that hard to figure out a woman’s IOIs. Nobody is shaming anybody, but the above is a shrinking skill as men stick with online dating over in person engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:58 AM
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🙄🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:45 AM
1

Somewhere between 30-40.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:41 AM
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Damn, I must’ve gotten all those relationships and hookups by accident lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:33 AM
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That’s the caveat, it’s assumed if there’s been no sexual chemistry after a couple weeks, you’re just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:39 PM
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Most women like a guy who looks like he could defend them if necessary, not a dude who looks like he can’t handle a stiff wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:09 PM
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As you age, yes. Looking more muscular and masculine will generally help you, it won’t hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:48 PM
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That’s basically what I did before “ogremaxxing” as a term existed. Worked pretty well for me, got several girlfriends and a wife out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:45 PM
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What answer were you expecting? Unless you give me a play by play, I have no idea if you’re being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:32 PM
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Obviously, results are gonna vary, that’s life. What generally works isn’t going to work 100% of the time with every woman. Most normally socially adjusted people figure that out. Sorry you haven’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:24 PM
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Probably laugh because farts are funny and now I have a great wedding story lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:17 PM
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Lol I’ve had multiple long term relationships and I’m currently in one. Just because you saw signs that weren’t there, doesn’t mean everybody else does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:15 PM
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Which is fine, everybody was young and inexperienced once. I fumbled a cute girl in high school who asked around for my number and I just assumed she wanted to talk lol But if you’re still doing that as a grown ass man, like, cmon dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:53 PM
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Of course he didn’t, that would mean he’d have to actually defend his point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:30 PM
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I don’t but that, sorry. I think you were seeing signs that weren’t there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:34 PM
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Some dudes here would make a post like “Why can’t women be more clear?” about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:58 PM
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Lol I read it again. Now tell me where I said you deserve to die for lecturing people? I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:49 PM
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When I go, you’ll never know 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:47 PM
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Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:43 PM
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The divorce rate hasn’t changed in 45 years. While marriage has decline, long term domestic cohabitation has skyrocketed, which is functionally indistinguishable from trad marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:34 PM
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Lmao there’s no relationship satisfaction survey from Pew that says, “Excuse me miss, are you cum gargling slut?” Lmao Again, I, and everyone else DON’T know your opinion and have no way of knowing if it constitutes what an “average” man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:27 PM
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That’s pretty much what I’ve learned over the years 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:19 PM
0

The breast one is spot on. If she’s leaning that close to you, that’s not by accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:18 PM
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Because people don’t take hints/no for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:17 PM
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Maybe it’s cuz I’m getting older, but at my age, it’s easy enough to recognize the signs and if you’re not sure, just come out and ask. If she’s into it, go for it, if not, no big deal and on about your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:15 PM
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A classic female interest move.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:11 PM
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If you’re using an example of people having to ask Reddit how to interact with people, you’re already a lost cause 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:07 PM
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That’s part of learning to read the room. Women don’t do any of the things you listed to men they’re not interested in unless it’s family. If she’s consistently texting you, making plans and keeping them, is actively participating in conversation, always wants to hang out, etc, take the fucking hint, she likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:02 PM
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Which isn’t what relationship satisfaction surveys do, but ok. I explicitly said we dont know what your opinion of what an “average man” is or if it’s realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:55 PM
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So self reporting isn’t proof, but your own subjective standard is proof. Hmm, yes, very “scientific” and not at all culty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:46 PM
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It’s hard to have any sympathy for Kirk, as his “brand” was lecturing the families of gun death victims that the deaths of their loved ones were a “small price to pay” for gun freedoms. It’s darkly ironic that he became part of that small price.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:37 PM
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Amongst my friend circle the only common theme amongst their male partners is height. They’re all taller than their spouses/gfs. Everything else from race to weight to occupation varies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:34 PM
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That’s not proof of anything, since your opinion of what constitutes an “average man” is inherently subjective. Honestly relationship saturation survey data also contradicts what you’re saying as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:31 PM
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I think this is generally true, there’s certain biological hard lines women are looking for (broad shoulders, height, etc), but the rest is going to vary. I’m a perfect example of my wife’s type, but I’m not the type of guy her friend who likes black men would go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:29 PM
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By the same token, you have no proof that the majority of marriages are “settling” and that “95%+” don’t desire their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:28 PM
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Legit, the force and rate at which he was bleeding is hard to stabilize, let alone fix. The only time I’ve hear of people surviving shit like that is with combat medics physically reaching into the wound and pinching the artery shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:07 PM
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That was a direct shot to his left carotid, assuming some miracle didn’t occur he bled out in a couple minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:04 PM
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autistic furry non-binary This automatically means that they’re dealing with an incredibly small subset of women that they’re dating, or they’re lying. No sane person would or should consult them about the average cis heterosexual dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:43 PM
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Which isn’t what we’re arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:26 PM
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Even in the US/Canada, I’d argue gender norms are the norm, you can’t judge the whole country by standards in Berkeley or Vancouver.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:11 PM
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Because it’s not based in overall reality? I’m sure in your little liberal bubble, yeah, that maybe works. But most women aren’t looking for a man who looks like he moonlights as a twink dancer in gay nightclubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:09 PM
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Are we really using exceptions to the rule here to deny reality? Cmon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:50 PM
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I mean, cmon, that’s ridiculous. He’s setting up an average dude for failure. Most women dont want a man who’s weaker than they are and gives off gay bottom vibes, like get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:29 PM
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I think you’re being disingenuous because heterosexual women who want a femboy are a tiny minority of women, and it’s straight up gaslighting to claim otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:23 PM
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Exactly. We didn’t evolve as a sexually dimorphic species on accident. If nature intended human women to be attracted to soft, emotional androgynous femboys with soy muscle tone, our species would reflect that, yet we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:19 PM
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Sure. But most people don’t picture a woman when thinking about either profession, and both are still majority male professions by an incredibly dominant margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:16 PM
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But those archetypes predate settled society. You can see them in current hunter gatherer societies. Notice what you never see in a state of nature? A soft, emotional femboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:14 PM
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Or, that’s their innate biological drives for what they’re actually attracted to in action. I’ve heard women complaining they want “a man, not a boy” way more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:08 PM
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I think it’s always safe to err on the side of masculinity because traditionally “masculine” dudes (boxers, wrestlers, construction workers, mma fighters, cops, firefighters, etc) generally don’t seem to have much trouble attracting opposite sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:04 PM
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Joining a frat was the biggest eye opener on “watch what they do instead of what they say” with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:20 PM
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100%. It comes off as weak and whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:42 PM
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Are you on the spectrum, by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:11 PM
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To my understanding, non-red pill people have always assumed that people were smart enough to understand that a looks threshold has to be met for initial attraction, and after that personality does the heavy lifting for long term compatibility. Looks like they thought wrong and you have to explicitly spell it out for the spectrum cases out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:46 PM
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If y’all vibe, whenever. First date, third date, whatever feels right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:24 PM
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This is like saying we should be shocked that men only swipe right on women they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:35 PM
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Gotta demonmaxx and take the occult monster pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:14 PM
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Low value men have always had a hard time. That’s just simple reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:53 PM
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I’ve fucked a fart out of girl on a first date, this is no biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:37 PM
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If the sex is good, somebody is catching feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:27 PM
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A “bad boy” is just a dude who parties and does fun shit as opposed to being boring and strait laced. It has nothing to do with being a criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:58 AM
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Lol unsolicited? There’s no qualifiers that are gonna make her like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:07 PM
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Depends on what you mean by “nice” honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:36 PM
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I guess? There’s plenty of people out there who don’t like tattoos, so it’s not like you have to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 12:09 PM
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I got em because I like getting them, and sometimes it’s just fun to get a tattoo in a basement of a house party. But that’s not everybodys style and that’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:56 AM
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Wait, you too!?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:17 AM
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She’s half white and half native (American Indian).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:13 AM
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One of these days I’m hoping I suck hard enough and I get a lil milk for my crispix.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:09 AM
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She went as one for Halloween when Doja Cats “Bitch I’m a Cow” first broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:03 AM
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Kinda true. When my girl is chewing me out all I can focus on is them big EE’s wobbling and bouncing under my chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 12:42 AM
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Lol I bet you come back with a bunch of photos of normal ass looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 12:05 AM
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It would explain the fascination with rigid numerical structures in terms of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:54 PM
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You generally don’t argue in good faith Oh, cmon now. Just because we don’t agree doesn’t mean I’m arguing with you in bad faith. Half of your advice is pretty solid. And yeah, I think the dude would rank higher than her. But he’s like a 6 and she’s a 4, so we’re still not talking real lookers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:06 PM
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I think that’s a bit too much of a conspiracy theory for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:15 PM
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My family, particularly my dad’s family, are all naturally tall so for me it just seemed normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:11 PM
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5’7 isn’t bad though, and perfectly fine if you’re ethnic or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:03 PM
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I don’t think either are very attractive, if we’re being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:01 PM
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I’ve gotten compliments on my dick before, and hardly any on my height 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:47 PM
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6’2” and right at 7”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:25 PM
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The former, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:31 PM
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She looks better than the VS models, so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:58 PM
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Get whatever work done you want. It’s your body, if you want a bbl or lip fillers or lengthened legs or hair plugs, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:48 PM
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Sydney Sweeney is “a little fat”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:44 PM
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I get treated pretty well, she spoils me even when I don’t deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:33 PM
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You gotta make it look like you intentionally made yourself ugly, like get some scars and shit. Women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:24 PM
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That’s why you gotta try and bag a tall bitch if you’re short, even out your kids chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:48 PM
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Lol I’m not 6’3, that’s my brother. I’m the short one, I’m only 6’2.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:43 PM
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I see plenty of men shorter than me with women out and about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:27 PM
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Yes, but for my area my height isn’t out of the ordinary. Lots of German and Scandinavian genes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:21 PM
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Hard to say. Across the river where the university is, I’m sure the baby face pretty boy looks works better than where I live on the southside, where it’s working class white and Hispanic and dating preferences reflect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:16 PM
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Lol imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:50 PM
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Young Hispanic dudes who have those doofy looking bowl cut haircuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:43 PM
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Sounds like a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:02 PM
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That’s what the 90 days are for, so you can see if you really want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:56 PM
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I’m not sure how that’s relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:53 PM
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Given apps and meeting online, you don’t really have to “chase” anymore unless you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:52 PM
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This already exists, it’s called a K1 visa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:50 PM
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Every time I go out it looks like they’re dating guys that look like me (burly, bearded, tattooed), skinny dudes with mustaches and baggy clothes, or, Edgars. Which makes sense, because that’s who lives in my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:38 PM
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Same, damn patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:32 PM
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What are we debating here? That you want to be a househusband but can’t because of the patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:22 PM
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I couldn’t give a shit who else you told. The fact that you trotted it out even once shows you know your argument is bogus because you had to resort to it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:08 PM
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What was removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:05 PM
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Typical libertarian housecat nonsense. Nobody takes anything by “force”, you consent to taxation and governance by being here, a social contract you’re free to exit at any time too. Again, the historical record is clear, the libertarian fantasy of self reliance is just that, a fantasy. It holds no weight in an adult, rational discussion on society or government.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:05 PM
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And now anyone who challenges your points is a “pick me” 🙄🤦‍♂️ Can you get any more lame?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:02 PM
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Is this really just a rant about you being short? Cmon bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:00 PM
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The first sentence is an opinion. What states are widows but not widowers tax exempt? Name them. The rest is a bunch of opinion as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:58 PM
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Ok, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:56 PM
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The historical record already shows that it fails. Social security was forced into creation because up until the 1930s, the system relied solely on “strong social bonds with reliable people” and that fell flat on its face in times of crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:55 PM
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The crazy thing is, we did things his way up until the Great Depression and we were way worse off in every HDI category, from life expectancy to overall poverty to infant mortality rates. Dude is literally arguing for a system that’s been tried and failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:54 PM
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I did. How is the average woman “over privileged” in her social life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:52 PM
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Diagnosed ASPD Well, that certainly explains this hilariously barbaric world outlook lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:49 PM
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How are women “over privileged” in their personal lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:45 PM
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Everybody wants that. What’s the biggest complaint of men not getting some? That there’s no democratic control over the means of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:12 PM
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I dunno if she counts as a friend, but one of my favorite neighborhood bartenders is a former prostitute, and her stories from her days as a working girl are WILD lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:18 AM
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I’d share a menthol with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:50 AM
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Yup. It wasn’t in front of me either, I was a couple feet away at the bar getting another round. Homeboy thought she looked too good in her leggings I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:45 AM
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This might be the most based take you’ve made.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:40 AM
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The dude wasn’t 7 ft tall, but a dude grabbed my girls butt and she punched him before I could stop her 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:36 AM
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Mine says I look like a caveman naked, like a hairy animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:35 PM
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I beg to differ. Desperation is one of those things you telegraph to other people without knowing it, and it kills your chances when you approach. You might as well wear fart cologne.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:18 PM
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Are you really married if you’ve never found your wife’s vibrator?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:42 PM
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But most successful people actually did take that advice, and used that as a stepping stone to further dating success. My best relationships and dating successes were when I was content with myself and not desperately trying to find a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:19 PM
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You’d have to actually date to be affected by TEA. I think you’re safe lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:12 PM
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Lol tea was for guys dating the same women and not telling girls they were married. Is the sky always falling with you, Chicken Little?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:05 PM
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Lol no, he isn’t, unless he doesn’t take no for an answer or touches inappropriately or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:53 PM
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The data probably is accurate for men struggling to get dates on dating apps which isn’t the same as “men who are dating.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:20 PM
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But all those things women say are true because individual women have their own specific likes and dislikes. There’s no one “universal attraction code” for every woman out there. You’re never going to be everybodys type. With your girlfriend now, is the relationship purely sexual or do you plan on building a life together? Do you think y’all’s outlook on life, values, etc are compatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:17 PM
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Blue pill is just “not red pill.” Aka, normal, well adjusted people who date and exist just fine. It’s not some kind of defined “ideology.” When people say “personality is what matters,” it’s assumed you’ve already met the attraction level and you’re going for long term compatibility. I’d bet you already know this because you started your anecdote with “When I was…” which implies you’re not with those women anymore because you weren’t compatible beyond a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:22 AM
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Yeah, I watched all kinds of movies. All the dudes were conventionally attractive. Your mom is always gonna call you “her handsome boy,” hence the saying “a face only a mother could love.” I learned early on that I didn’t have the looks to simply coast off of that and that I was going to have to learn how to talk to women if I wanted to date successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:19 AM
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Statistically speaking, that’s true. Your height and looks are probably fine. I doubt you’re a misogynist, but I would bet you’re shy, indecisive, or exhibit some kind of other passive personality behavior that women find unattractive. That’s usually the case with people who struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:16 AM
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The “blue pill” doesn’t exist. It’s just normal people living like normal people. People interacted, dated, and fucked just fine before the red pill was even a concept, and still do. You’re tilting at windmills.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:14 AM
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Those are all correct, yes. But they need to be taken as a whole with overall baseline attraction. A car needs a starter, an alternator and a battery to work together in order to run properly. You’re not “lied to” because you focused on one part of the message and ignored the rest of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:00 AM
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I think that’s, at best, deflection and at worst a straight up lie. You weren’t lied to, you lied to yourself to try and rationalize your failures (“you” in the general sense, not you specifically).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:57 AM
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Because they’ll just claim that they were nebulously “lied to” by “society/women/their mom/[insert excuse]”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:54 AM
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“Short king” = 5’11”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:01 AM
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Which doesn’t matter; profoundly conservative times produced liberal ideas in the first place. A core human belief that I am the best master of myself. That idea cannot be hidden, it cannot be suppressed by force, it cannot be bargained away. The arc of history is clear on this; once people are used to freedoms they will not give them up and will die to keep them. Fascism is inherently unstable because eventually it runs out of people to eat and has to cannibalize its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:34 PM
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I mean, as told, that sounds pretty weird, but, nonverbal consent is also a thing 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:13 PM
1

Nobody is running PR for women. They’re just as shallow as men. Whining about it isn’t going to change that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:08 PM
2

I’ve never heard this story of Lift non-consensually fucking a feminist in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:04 PM
1

Everybody wants “more” though, right? Nobody wants to settle for less, men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:04 PM
1

Wait, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:02 PM
1

You don’t understand, the heart behind the tits on option B are what I’m really interested in lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:46 PM
6

I think that blue collar one is especially wrong. Women love rugged blue collar men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:42 PM
3

You can’t really suppress liberal ideas though because those ideas are broadly popular. You’re never going to convince a majority that women need to be forced back into the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:27 PM
6

Which is exactly what someone who doesn’t believe in egalitarianism would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:48 PM
6

Like I said, feel free to emulate women if you think that’s a winning strategy. I can only offer advice that worked for me, and it wasn’t that 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:26 PM
4

You have the freedom to be passive. I don’t recommend it because it’s not a very successful way to find a partner, but you’re certainly free to choose the hard road if that’s what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:24 PM
4

Ok, don’t approach and hopefully that works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:13 PM
6

You don’t get decide what reality is or isn’t Take your own advice. You don’t get to just decide that anti-feminists aren’t also mostly anti-egalitarian because that makes you uncomfortable or makes your points look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:12 PM
1

Because it puts you in the best position for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:02 PM
1

Except that’s not really the reality, is it? Most anti-feminists are also anti-egalitarian in many circumstances. You can’t really seperate the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:47 PM
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That’s the implication, right? That if men go conservative hard enough the feminism will leave your body lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:19 PM
1

They already blocked me because they had no response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:18 PM
1

Don’t tell the right wingers here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:08 PM
0

Of course there’s nuance. But it’s also a top tier Reddit moment to act like politics in the US is “leftist” in any way, shape or form when it’s not and never has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:07 PM
-2

These dumb dumbs still think they can violently intimidate their way into some pussy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:47 PM
3

Because that’s factually correct. Our most famous “left” politician, Bernie Sanders, has similar views to many mainstream right of center European political parties. If you’re on the extreme right end of the spectrum, yeah, I’m sure you think everyone to the left of Ghengis Khan is a “commie,” but that’s not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:46 PM
2

Exactly. I was just at a local hardcore show and plenty of younger people there were guys are in the pit. If anything it’s more popular than it has been in years with Turnstile and Drain getting popular mainstream attention. Edit: damn, the cum guzzler guy got nuked before I could respond lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:41 PM
3

Bill Clinton and his ilk aren’t leftists, and never were. They purposefully ran as Third Way centrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:39 PM
-3

I’m not sure I buy this. The left by and large has already won the culture war. Men becoming more conservative will only potentially slow forward progress, it can’t stop it at this point. That said…the hardcore and skate scene still exist. They didn’t disappear. I was slam dancing at a local hardcore benefit show two weeks ago, and there were plenty of younger people there not afraid to get wild and aggressive in the pit. So those avenues are still open, yet a certain segment of young men don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:38 PM
3

Get in shape, don’t be afraid to approach, and don’t put the pussy on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:39 PM
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Endorphins really do work wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:40 PM
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Working out, drinking with the boys, and spending time with my old lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:33 PM
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I dunno, I’ve yet to see someone who looks worse with more defined muscle tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:17 PM
5

The cats out of the bag, the only way you’re going to make women second class citizens is by force and that’s not very likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:13 PM
1

They will come after us History has shown that doesn’t turn out very well. Europeans can always bring back the camps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:52 PM
3

Birth rates are falling globally though. Africa’s birth rate is falling by 1.3% per year, WAY faster than projections showed in 2000.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:50 PM
12

Like I said in another comment, it’s the ol’ incel dickpocalypse extortion racket threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:19 AM
5

Where in South Asia?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:50 AM
9

How? Birth rates are declining there too. Also, how are they going to “take on the west” when they’re ravaged by preventable diseases, malnutrition, poverty, unreliable energy grids, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:45 AM
-1

Already did. Maybe if you stop following me around like a little lost puppy, you’dve noticed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:40 AM
8

How is the second type of civilization winning? They’re all poor, backwards shitholes. Second, population isn’t super relevant either. Britain had a relatively small population relative to all the colonies it conquered, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:39 AM
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But it’s the exact opposite of what you’re claiming here. It’s society literally telling you to not be a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:36 AM
11

How does that follow though? How does women dating men they find attractive lead to an incel extortion racket dickpocalypse?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:35 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:33 AM
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I’m not sure what the debate here is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:32 AM
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Again, y’all not being able to back up your claims isn’t my problem. Heaven forbid y’all actually meet the burden of proof for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:29 AM
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Not sure what that means, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:28 AM
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Isn’t this a demonstration of the exact opposite? It’s literally a guide on how being a nice guy DOESNT guarantee you relationship success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:27 AM
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That which is presented without evidence can be dismissed without evidence. If that irritates you, do better than “trust me, bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:26 AM
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Also because people straight up make shit up because they don’t want to admit they’re the reason for their failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:24 AM
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Something other than “trust me, bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:06 AM
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This gets told over and over, yet there’s never any actual instances of this occurring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:54 AM
2

What’s “treating a woman like shit” entail here? Just because you don’t coddle women and stand your ground doesn’t make you an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:52 AM
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They do? Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:09 AM
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I worked in restaurants. Most are hardworking people. And, shocker, every customer who “doesn’t believe in tipping” is usually an obnoxious, needy, entitled asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:00 AM
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Take it easy there, Scrooge.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:20 AM
3

No, how you described relationships, not providership rituals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:16 PM
2

That’s how most relationships form though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:44 PM
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With STD and paternity tests, n-count is kind of useless, no? Either you care about virginity or you don’t. I feel like most people are in the latter category.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:07 PM
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Oh, I see. I guess a more accurate description would be “You might never get married then.” My mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:06 PM
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Again, no one said that the only two options are “single and married”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:04 PM
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I said that in response to the dude saying women should shut up about it. Personally, I think we’re both right; n-counts are mostly a nonissue to the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:03 PM
2

They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:00 PM
3

Except that “nice guy worker drone” of the past wasn’t afraid to approach women in public, wasn’t obsessed with his canthal tilt or his height, wasn’t friendless and always alone either. You can’t compare modern incels to the random Joe Schmoe of the past, who had a vibrant social life, had friends, and wasn’t afraid to cold approach at a bar or Led Zeppelin concert.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:44 PM
2

You’ll get downvoted and argued with, but that’s the reality here. Either you adapt or you’ll get run over and left in the dust. Life isn’t going to wait for you to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:20 PM
2

It’s not a threat of violence though. Natural selection is cold, impartial and nonbiased. Either you escape its razor or you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:18 PM
0

When has life ever been different though? The people struggling today would’ve struggled at most other points in history for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:17 PM
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She’s not wrong, honestly. And that’s tough to hear if you’re in that situation. But maybe people in that situation need tough love and a kick in the pants in the face of that reality 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:48 PM
1

You might be single for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:13 PM
2

Literally no one said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:04 PM
2

True, if you can skip dating and go right into a relationship, do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:03 PM
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An expensive dinner on the first date is a rookie, cringe move.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:59 PM
6

You gotta be able to walk the walk. You can’t sell her the moon and then not deliver when the time comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:49 PM
6

Another “I’m mad women like attractive people” post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:37 AM
4

Sure, but accepting point 2, men could also just shut the fuck up about it, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:35 AM
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No, I don’t feel like jumping through hoops to satisfy some rando on Reddit. If you don’t believe me, tough tit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:17 AM
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Where’s the insult? I speak frankly and bluntly, a skill developed in jobsites where people prioritize being direct instead of tiptoeing around the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:16 AM
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I told Windmill she was full of shit a couple days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:15 AM
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Maybe he’s not? Maybe he does come off as a liberal weenie. It’s not “mean” to state the obvious that something is wrong with the equation here if he’s still a virgin at 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:14 AM
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Lmao women are wrong all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:59 AM
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The tone of his comment suggests the dude isn’t a virgin by choice 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:58 AM
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Well, yeah, sounds like you learned to not put the pussy on a pedestal. That doesn’t automatically make you an “asshole.” Being sarcastic, charismatic and flirty doesn’t inherently make you a scumbag. If your homie is doing that, putting the pussy on a pedestal, then that explains 29 years of dry dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:01 AM
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Because it sounds fishy. This guy is so nice, so funny, so great, that in 29 he hasn’t gotten a single whiff of pussy? Either he’s next level ugly, or, his personality ain’t that great. Let’s be real here. It’s almost impressive to make it 29 years without stumbling into a hookup at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:43 PM
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Then why are all the n-count fixated dudes on here constantly whining about being single? That doesn’t seem to square with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:41 PM
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If he’s a 29 yr old virgin I seriously doubt his personality is that great.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:37 PM
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Conservatives struggle to date in urban, liberal dominated areas. In rural areas, they do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:24 PM
4

It seems like kinda a moot point, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:23 PM
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How would you even begin to prove this assertion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:11 PM
4

Are women clamoring to date men with n-count preferences in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:54 PM
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El Cap and Halfdome are two of my favorite hikes on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:30 AM
2

Then don’t get married. Also, enjoy the freedom of being single. You do what you want, with who you want, whenever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:12 AM
4

People tend to want to settle down as they age. It’s a natural part of life. Being a stable guy is more conducive to long term relationship success though. You just have to work on being the most attractive version of yourself possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:07 AM
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This will be interesting to see as Gen Z ages. I’m not convinced that they’ll be different from previous generations and most gen z men will be partnered in/by their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:51 AM
8

I’d bet dollars to donuts that there’s a sizeable portion of men struggling with women because they’re actually closeted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:44 AM
8

But that example didn’t prove his point. I’m not sure why you’re having a hard time understanding that. The biggest case that comes to mind is Chris Watts who was allowed to plead for the return of his pregnant wife and kids on tv despite murdering all three and dumping them in an oil tank. Dude got tons of sympathy until the cops arrested him when his story began to fall apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:35 AM
10

But you didn’t present any evidence. You posted a link with comments demonstrating the exact opposite of what you’re claiming happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:24 AM
6

Why would a man dating a younger woman need to make a public sympathy statement? That’s not a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:17 AM
3

This didn’t prove anything as the majority of the comments are calling her out for being a shitty mom. You wanna try again, or…?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:00 AM
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Yeah, my forearms are crazy overdeveloped compared to my life pre-construction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:56 AM
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My girl likes mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:51 AM
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I’m pleased I’m with her because we have great sexual chemistry and she’s hot, and we have similar life outlooks and goals. I didn’t ask or even think about her n-count when we started hooking up, I wanted to get her out of her clothes 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:43 AM
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I’m not sure what you consider a “high” n-count, so who knows. I mean, we’ve been together for years at this point. If she’s secretly daydreaming about past partners and planning to leave, she’s taking her sweet time lol So who would you believe here? Personal experience or your theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:37 AM
5

Remembers him for what? I’m the largest partner she’s ever been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:28 AM
8

Weird, she’s never said anything about you, your dick must not have been memorable lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:03 AM
5

This sounds like a “trust me, bro” style rant. Do you have anything to back this up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:54 PM
2

I’ve picked women up in all sorts of places. Hell, I got a hookup off of an airplane one time. It’s all about if you vibe with someone and if you can build a connection. Generally speaking, yeah, stick to social gathering places. That’s where I did best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:43 PM
1

Cold approach works just fine, provided it’s in the right place/atmosphere. Yeah, if you’re sneaking up to women in the grocery store aisle, you’re probably in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:38 PM
2

“Not so interested” =\= not interested at all. Hence why most women have had casual sex once or twice in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:32 PM
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I’ve seen women who murdered their kids get less stigma than men who dated a consenting woman just five years younger. No, you didn’t. Why you lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:59 PM
2

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:56 PM
3

Neither of those points are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:07 PM
7

How many people do you think are actually clinically deformed midgets? Cmon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:43 PM
6

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:36 PM
2

Or….?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:35 PM
5

Mental illness 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:19 PM
5

Depends on how dangerous it is. My buddy used to work in a steel forge and quit when he saw a guy decapitated on the job. His wife is fine with him taking a pay cut so that doesn’t happen to him, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:09 PM
6

There’s tons of poor dudes in relationships. Trailer parks are full of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:40 PM
6

But that’s an active choice they’re making. There’s plenty of safe jobs out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:30 PM
5

I did too. Grew up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:02 PM
3

Gotta get the McDonald’s after clapping cheeks tho. Post nut McNuggets and a sweet tea hit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:01 PM
3

What’s the “grey zone”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:51 PM
11

There’s 5’5 Hispanic dudes cleaning up at the cumbia right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:34 PM
6

Lol have you not read the sub rules? Get back to me after you do kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:34 PM
6

It’s extremely common, particularly in the south and Midwest. I also see thin dudes with bigger women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:20 PM
3

No, because that breaks sub rules and results in a ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:19 PM
1

Maybe it does maybe it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:58 PM
5

Lmfao dudes are saying that all the time. Notice how every dude on here struggling with dating is some kind of “short deformed monster?”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:58 PM
1

That’s against sub rules, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:28 PM
13

I try to stay with observable reality. Observable reality doesn’t show that only jacked, 6’4 chads are getting women, or that a slightly recessed maxilla and negative canthal tilt means you’re genetic trash and doomed to live in the sewers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:28 PM
1

Lmao it’s one of the northernmost states
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:24 PM
1

LAME
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:24 PM
1

Oh, you were country wisco, not rust coast Wisco. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:18 PM
1

Wait, you’re from Wisco? Didn’t see that coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:11 PM
1

Propose to your gf already bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:04 PM
1

Cankles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:04 PM
-2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:56 PM
6

Fucking seriously lol Like, bruh, you wouldn’t be Paul Bunyan if you had the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:50 PM
2

Men already have body positivity, so there’s no loss here. Plenty of fat slobs out there with more attractive spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:49 PM
11

But you don’t have to do that. I wasn’t working close to 60 hr weeks and got a gf. Who told you that you have to work like that? I’m in heavy construction and I’m not working those hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:24 PM
0

Again, I can’t stress this enough, if that’s your experience…you need to step away. It’s not healthy to view dating like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:19 PM
9

Ok, so what? There’s tons of stuff helping men in the current system.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:18 PM
8

Well, sure. Complaining isn’t illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:18 PM
11

Do what things? Who is forcing you to work a dangerous job to get a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:17 PM
1

What about them? Body positivity is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:46 PM
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Nobody is forcing you to do any of that though. You’re more than free to not be treated like livestock.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:41 PM
3

So what’s stopping you from making it happen? Why do you have to be a spineless wimp?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:07 PM
2

The average guy is practically worthless as a partner Sounds like a good reason to not stay average, assuming that’s true (it’s not). I think you do have a bit of a point. You have to add to a woman’s life, you can’t just exist and expect her to want you in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:07 PM
3

Based on my girl and her friends reaction, dick pics mostly get laughed at and passed around.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:03 PM
9

But you’re not forced to choose anything. You setting yourself in a false dichotomy is a problem of your own creation. So, again, if you’re looking for the culprit of the “power imbalance” in your relationships, look in the mirror. Have some self respect, for gods sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:54 PM
4

Because this isn’t a societal problem. It’s not societies job to protect you from getting into a relationship where some bitchy woman walks all over you. That’s ultimately on YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:52 PM
9

Then you have absolutely no leg to stand on here. You’ve made your bed, you can’t really complain about lying in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:51 PM
0

Dude. If that’s the case, take a break from dating and work on yourself for a bit. Dating at no point should be stressful and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:50 PM
3

I feel like you haven’t really done the reassessment part.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:49 PM
2

So what’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:48 PM
9

These posts always read like self limiting whining. Stop being a pushover if you dislike being treated like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:32 PM
6

Your success is always going to be limited by your mindset. If you think you’re a spineless pushover, you’re gonna be treated like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:31 PM
6

If dating is “miserable”, you need to take a break from it and reassess yourself as to why it’s so miserable for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:29 PM
6

So what? A man has the same amount of choice provided he isn’t some hapless dweeb. Hence why your relationship should be a partnership of equals, don’t live to just be someone’s doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:25 PM
1

Lmao gynocentric how? The majority of people who control political power, social power and economic power in the west are men. Even assuming this is true, RP content on YouTube and podcasts is rather flat overall. Not really relevant because grifters look for gullibility, not just audience size. 20 consistently gullible people consistently paying for your “coaching” is more lucrative than having 100 who “maybe/sorta” follow your content. The PUA community is notoriously infamous for this despite…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:23 PM
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This is nonsense. Women only have whatever power you give them. If you don’t have an equal partnership, have some self respect and find a partner who treats you like an equal instead of a dancing monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:14 PM
3

This kind of goes against your point. If it were truly popular and effective, men would be talking about it openly. If anything, I’ve found the exact opposite, RP dudes usually don’t shut up about being pilled. Web traffic in general doesn’t lie. You can track google analytics on RP sites and content and it’s pretty stagnant. Not sure that follows either. Grifters are a sign that what you’re pushing is inherently a scam, as grifters look for easy marks. Which is why I don’t think Red pill is dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:06 PM
2

Redpill is still niche like it’s always been, it simply has way more grifters than it used to thanks to declining media literacy rates. Honestly, it’s not even really “red” anymore, it’s just a bunch of blackpill dweebs commenting “brutal truke!” and “It’s over…” in their echo chambers. There’s minor league baseball teams with bigger subs and more activity than the RP sub right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:53 PM
0

Why would you say something so controversial, yet so brave?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:28 PM
3

That’s my question too. At some point your chances of finding a low/no-n partner become pretty slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:54 PM
2

I said this on another thread, between homeboy and Chad both acting like this, why would any woman pick the uglier option?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:43 PM
1

Dude looks old and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:27 PM
2

This seems extremely self limiting. You’re intentionally making things extremely hard on yourself because most people have had casual sex at least once in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:57 AM
1

⚡️🤖⚡️ [dial-up internet noises]
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:33 PM
3

Take a random look at the flairs of people struggling with dating here. You’ll notice a certain color pattern lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:54 PM
2

Oh, in that case, yes. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:53 PM
1

Do I have to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:48 PM
2

Guys get girls by being themselves all the time though. If the RP actually worked, why are most of its adherents single and struggling with being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:36 PM
-3

Because it’s not supported by reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:52 PM
6

Women don’t have that right either, so constitutionally both sexes are held to the same standard. Any other made up issues you’d like to complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:40 PM
9

Men and women, constitutionally, have to support their children equally. I’m still not following where you think women don’t have to support their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:44 AM
7

Where in society are women not allowed to support their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:17 AM
3

Right. What reproductive right do men not have?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:53 AM
1

What rights do they not have here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:19 AM
20

Are you really comparing loss of bodily autonomy with you having to see an ugly video game character? Lmfao what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:19 AM
12

What “rights” have men lost at the hands of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:08 AM
6

You’re a smart guy, what do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:52 AM
0

Lol wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:52 AM
8

I was unaware that men can breastfeed. What if the dad can’t? Financial exemptions already exist, if you qualify. If you want to be a single father, then there’s no point in financial abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:42 AM
9

The mother is the primary caregiver, by nature, hence the assistance. The least the father can do is pitch in a bit to help pay to make sure his kid doesn’t starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:38 AM
14

What else do you call a dad who refuses to contribute to raising the kid he created?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:29 AM
8

No, they don’t. No woman held a gun to your head and forced you to nut raw. You’re free to reproduce or not as any other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:25 AM
9

No one said you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:24 AM
15

Because there’s no “united front” between “you have no control over your body” and “I want to be a deadbeat dad.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:22 AM
9

“Close to harmless” =\= free of harm. Pregnancy complications are real, and not particularly rare. That’s not even getting into the costs of raising a child. If you’re man enough to nut raw, you’re man enough to pay for the kid you created.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:21 AM
6

It’s simple reality. Which is why it’s not built into the current law, society wisely foresaw that every deadbeat asshole would simply apply for a “financial abortion” and then society is stuck footing the bill because they felt like nutting raw.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:20 AM
10

No, it’s not. You’re not being restricted from reproducing. Caring for a kid occurs after reproduction has already occurred.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:18 AM
10

That doesn’t logically follow, because if a woman has an abortion, there’s no kid to fuck over. Paper abortions fuck over an already existing kid, which is why the concept is dumb and wasn’t written into the current law, because a child that’s already been born has to be cared for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:17 AM
9

But your bodily autonomy isn’t being infringed on here. You’re not capable of carrying a child and giving birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:15 AM
10

But men don’t risk their bodies and their life to carry a child to term and to keep it alive after. There’s no equivalent here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:13 AM
7

Ideally. But in reality, shit happens. And that kid has to be cared for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:10 AM
3

I’m not sure I follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:07 AM
29

Straight up abuser attitudes. “Look, you know I love you but you made me hurt you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:07 AM
7

And C) every deadbeat dad would immediately file for a paper abortion, fucking over potentially millions of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:58 AM
40

Lol “The beatings will continue until morale improves”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:52 AM
4

Ah yes, that’s why the most famous incel shooter manifesto of all time references “Chad” and “Stacy”, archetypes that are totally from the blue pill and not from Red pill sources lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:44 PM
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Yes, but it’s mostly self imposed. I’m not sure how you’re supposed to “fix” the problem of people choosing not to socially interact and form relationships/friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:03 AM
3

You think 1991 shirtless Mark Wahlberg would struggle to date because of his height today? I’m not sure I buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:59 AM
3

What empathy am I supposed to have here? You being super horny 24/7 isn’t really a problem I have empathy for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:43 AM
2

The one and only Sonny Barger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:31 AM
4

<image> Being this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:23 AM
7

Because I’ve read multiple posts by this dude. You think this post exists in a vacuum? As for his “pain,” figure it the fuck out like everyone else, or, rub one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:14 AM
11

“Have some empathy” is really just “touch my dick” in disguise, but they’re too chicken shit to openly say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:05 AM
4

I know what he did, because he didn’t want to be called out as entitled for all the “hurt” being inflicted upon him by women because they don’t respond to his constant, unending sexual gaze/need. Let’s be honest here, he’s implying that women are causing that hurt and that they are the ones who could rectify it, if only they “had empathy” for how bad he has it, I.e, fucking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:58 AM
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Uh, yes it is sweety. YOU are making the claim, YOU prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:56 AM
6

For real, someone being a sexless dork is their own problem, not anybody else’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:23 AM
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You could, I dunno, show something from mainstream culture that shows that. But you won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:18 AM
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Oh no, heaven forbid you back up your claim. You’re not going to engage further because you’re lying, plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:59 PM
0

It’s implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:58 PM
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“Bombarded with lies” by whom? Name names. Who is telling you this lie that “looks don’t matter”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:10 PM
6

Well, demanding women do something for you sexually against their will is pretty entitled, to put it mildly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:04 PM
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Who is telling you “looks don’t matter”? That’s the single biggest talking point on the inkwell side of things and I’ve never once seen someone say that. Also, I’d bet dollars to donuts your “physical flaws” are wildly overstated and your problem is likely mental.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:55 PM
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You’re not obligated to do anything. If that’s not your style or you’re too poor…don’t do that. I mean, if a girl at a bar says something mean to you, so what? What are the odds you’ll even see her again? That’s a completely different environment from a family friend trying to ask out your sister and getting roasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:50 PM
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There is a slight risk of that, sure. Hence why you buy a round outright the first time and then see if they reciprocate or if they’re just milking you for drinks. Frankly, the lack of success in not approaching automatically makes the risk of a girl being mean to you worth it, honestly. You can’t just sit in the corner and hope something happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:15 PM
2

Yes, but in the sense that a hookup and a relationship both start as building some kind of personal connection. So there’s no set “line” or “script” or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:13 PM
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Another day, another weird revenge fantasy about older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:02 AM
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If that’s what you got from my comment, then you need more help than I could possibly offer you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:54 AM
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Who was the most popular dude in your high school with women? What did his jawline look like? How did everyone else pick up on this, but you needed to “be told”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:47 AM
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I guess if you’re not feeling like talking to people…don’t be friendly and talk to people I guess 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:43 AM
2

In layman’s terms, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:23 AM
2

I have. Offer to buy a shot, talk the group, see who you vibe with most, concentrate on her but don’t look too desperate. Be flirty in general, playful teasing, shit like that. Just be relaxed and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:10 AM
14

You shouldn’t have to be told it. Like, were you in a coma during middle and high school? Are you an alien from another planet? Did you just escape from a cult bunker somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:07 AM
-1

Har har. You can do that in situations that don’t require money too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:06 AM
4

It costs nothing to be nice and friendly. A woman is way more receptive to letting you buy her and her friend a round if you’re warm and smiling as opposed to scowling and nervously fidgeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:57 PM
6

Because people like being around warm, friendly people. We’re a social species.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:52 PM
3

Not the sole reason, but a big factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:13 PM
1

Yeah, about that. All those “30ies Kpop fans” are all in relationships with traditionally masculine men. The biggest KPop fan I know is married to a retired marine who bow hunts and is into bodybuilding, and take a wild guess as to how “effeminately androgynous” he looks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:11 PM
6

But you can look to history at population collapses, like Ireland after the potato famine and Western Europe after the Black Death to show that society doesn’t just “collapse” because people stop having gaggles of kids. Population’s generally just stabilize around a new baseline.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:05 PM
1

I would be interested to see what that actually looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:41 PM
0

I feel if you were that easy to sway from your traditional role as a man, you were probably in big trouble to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:40 PM
3

Because biology always wins. Women can say whatever they want, hundreds of thousands of years of evolutionary pressures are going to win out in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:11 PM
7

Who is denying that here? I’ve literally never seen that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:10 PM
0

This has to be dependent on location, because that’s not the case in the Midwest or the South. In NYC or LA, sure, maybe. In Chicago, looking like that is way to get you ass beat and your car stolen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:08 PM
5

I’ve seen younger girls go for that. Which is cool of you’re like 16. But I’ve yet to see anyone over the age of 21 go for effeminate, androgynous looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:07 PM
3

Well, yeah; masculine men are what human female biology is primed to want as a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:45 PM
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This is confusing to read, because on paper given what you’ve stated, you should be able to find a woman at your looksmatch level. The only things I could think of preventing that are either you’re extremely picky or you have some kind of personality issue. That said, powerlifters/strongmen always do have the hottest gfs and wives. It’s kinda crazy how that works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:54 PM
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Fat women are probably what your looks level can get. Sounds like you need accept your fate and take the obese pill and fatgirlmaxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:52 AM
9

The overwhelming majority of people don’t have enough money to worry about this, realistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:51 AM
1

When has sexual access been evenly distributed amongst all men? When was that a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:37 AM
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She said nice tits too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:54 PM
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Great set of cans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:16 PM
23

Lmao the fuck is this shit? Laws to stop dudes from dating women that are too attractive from other countries? Great bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:51 PM
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Hell yeah, I can skin a buck and run a trot line, a country boy can survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:15 PM
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Big butts, big tits, tall and fiery personalities. Tattoos have been a constant over the last three serious partners I’ve had too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:36 PM
2

That’s my view on RP these days. It’s a far cry from “hit the gym, improve your style, and fuck club bitches on the weekends.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:56 PM
4

For real. If your dating life is a constant slog and struggle, take a break and reevaluate what’s going wrong. Don’t keep pounding your head against the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:55 PM
2

The bitterness traps you in a feedback loop of failure and even more bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:53 PM
2

Pandering to whom? I swear y’all have the biggest persecution complexes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:57 PM
3

Are those a majority of marriages? We’ll be here even longer if we pull up stories of marriages that aren’t violent or abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:55 AM
3

I was using the general you, not you specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:38 AM
3

Blah blah blah. There’s nothing to argue here, as OP already admitted his theory doesn’t work in practice. Logically, the “argument” is over. You can insult me all you want, but it just makes you look like a child throwing a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:37 AM
8

Everybody is shallow. Nobody fucks people they don’t find attractive for charity. If you’re that undesirable, sorry, sucks to suck I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:31 AM
9

If you’re already ugly, being an asshole on top of it is only going to hurt your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:55 PM
4

You want some cheese to go with all that whine? Calling out bogus theories that OP himself admits don’t work in practice isn’t “bullying.” Now, is you finished or is you done?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:42 PM
5

Right, you perma-single dorks always have it figured out, and the people who’ve been successfully partnered for years have no idea about anything. 🙄🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:25 PM
12

If you got the same result, why would you think your theory holds any water? Also, what makes you an expert here if you can’t keep a girlfriend period, let alone by treating her bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:12 PM
3

The way you worded that makes it sound like you currently don’t have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:56 PM
4

Because your anecdote sounds like it was made up without any actual experience to back it up. When was the last time you had a girlfriend? Did you treat her like shit and is she still around?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:49 PM
19

Never had a woman to begin with Yeah, your post gives off big “I’m talking out of my ass” vibes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:44 PM
29

Weird, because usually the relationships that don’t last are because one of the partners doesn’t treat the other well. All the guys I know that took your advice and “treat her as if she’s there to serve you” are all divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:33 PM
4

But those aren’t mutually exclusive. Some unsuccessful men are misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:25 PM
45

Justice for what? Like if you do enough good women should reward you by spreading their legs? Lmao cmon dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:36 PM
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Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:12 PM
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Don’t be a hater, mosh!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:14 AM
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At a hardcore show, men and women moshing together like the gender war doesn’t exist. Just get fucked up incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:52 AM
1

Source: “trust me, bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:07 AM
1

Relationship statistics state otherwise. Inb4 “tHeyRe SeTtLiNg 🥴”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:56 AM
1

Which is usually someone on your looks level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:47 AM
6

Is that what you tell yourself? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:02 AM
10

If the cheeks are clappin and wobblin’, my eyes are respectfully following.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:59 AM
12

Well, that counts you out then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:53 AM
10

That means by his logic he’s also raising someone else’s kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:04 AM
9

Whose kids am I raising?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:23 PM
1

Every one of your responses gets weaker and weaker. Again, what does he value more? An a happy wife? Or bucking gender roles? Same with you. To quote E40, “Everybody got choices.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:09 PM
18

Ah yes, the men struggling to talk to women and lose their virginity are all of a sudden going to start banging them and being deadbeat dads lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:05 PM
0

This is an absurdly dumb take. The birth rate is declining because it’s simultaneously too expensive to have kids and there’s isn’t a need for large broods of kids anymore given the scope of where our economy is headed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:04 PM
1

So what? Does he want a happy wife or does he not want to follow traditional gender roles? Pick which one you find more important to you, “bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:59 PM
7

Either way you get what you want; you’ll think you’ll have a low n woman and there’s no way for you to know otherwise if she doesn’t tell you 🤷‍♂️ That said, I think it would be pretty funny for you to find the woman of your dreams, settle down, raise a family, have a great life and then learn on her deathbed that she slept with 10 guys lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:43 PM
2

It’s incredibly realistic, you whiners just don’t want to risk any repercussions. This has nothing to do with women and everything to do with y’all being weak excuses for men. If you’re so sick of “traditional gender roles,” nut up and do your own fucking thing instead of whining like a pussy that society won’t wipe your ass for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:40 PM
0

Ok, don’t marry one. Seems like an easy problem to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:22 PM
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Who is forcing you to be asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:19 PM
1

In the US, slightly, but a decline nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:14 PM
4

Society doesn’t force women to do that, and they’re free to not do that if they do choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:09 PM
2

I mean, yeah? People have the right to say that even if you disagree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:08 PM
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All you need is one, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:58 AM
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Unironically my girl lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:57 AM
3

Well, boo fucking hoo. All choices have consequences. So either you want all the things you listed, or, you don’t want to fulfill your traditional gender role. Pick which one you’d rather have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:48 AM
2

Ugh, don’t make me use the meme. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:42 AM
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If a woman likes you/is interested in you, you’ll know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:32 AM
2

A, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:31 AM
2

See, right there. Humanity has survived all kinds of shit before. Genetic evidence shows we survived a near extinction event where our species was reduced to around 2000 breeding individuals, and we survived that. But we can’t survive a “dating crisis” where 70% of the population is in some kind of relationship? Stop playing chicken little.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:16 AM
2

But he would finally be free from those awful, oppressive traditional gender roles. That’s a fair trade. I don’t think you can put a price on freedom like that and it would be more than worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:13 AM
3

But there’s no “societal effect” if you choose to not define your traditional gender roles. You guys act like you have a gun to your head forcing you to do things you don’t want, when that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:11 AM
2

Relationship satisfaction surveys. Pew does one every year. The divorce rate hasn’t changed in over 40 years. I don’t know what you consider a “crazy cheating rate.” Dead bedrooms affect something like 10-13% of relationships, nowhere near a majority. You sound like you have confirmation bias where you’re solely focusing on the bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:08 AM
1

Ok. So don’t take it out either and announce you’re not going to do so anymore because you don’t believe in traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:03 AM
2

It’s not on the ride, the overall obesity rate declined for the first time in decades in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:01 AM
5

You’re also a being with free will in charge of your own destiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:59 AM
18

You don’t have to uphold any gender roles you don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:46 AM
2

I’m a millenial. I’ve also seen Gen Z men approach in bars, and shockingly, not a single one has caught a sexual assault charge for saying hello. Your generation is irrelevant as to whether you have people skills or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:29 AM
2

This is, fortunately, complete nonsense. You aren’t going to get “me too’d” because you say hello to a woman in a bar or offer to buy her a drink. That kind of thinking is almost exclusively an online opinion, which is why I hesitate to cede that the internet and real life are indistinguishable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:15 AM
9

But I thought you guys will literally die if you don’t have sex. You can’t just fuck a femboy and “move on”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:54 AM
3

Loneliness =\= lack of sex. If you’re lonely, get a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:51 PM
15

Because the lack of sex didn’t do that, YOU did that. Take some responsibility for being a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:40 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:33 PM
3

I understand your question. You simply don’t like my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:33 PM
14

You chose to be a shitty person though, how is that not on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:32 PM
9

No, it won’t. Otherwise monks and religious official who take vows of celibacy would experience more health issues than the general population, yet they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:17 PM
16

I mean, of course you can. Some of my oldest friends are women. My life would be poorer without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:14 PM
5

No, it’s a want. No lack of sex of any length is going to kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:12 PM
9

Or “you’re Larping” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:05 PM
2

I don’t get why they’re not just upfront about wanting a low n-count woman to make it easy on themselves. They act like they’re forced to date high n women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:53 PM
10

What? If you think the gym is “suffering”, you have pretty sheltered, cake life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:51 PM
2

So what? No relationship is “fireworks and passion” 24/7, that’s just not reality. Even the most passionate couples have fights, struggles, pain, heartbreak, etc. That’s the human experience. Anyone who tells you it’s always “fireworks and passion” is selling you a fairytale.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:45 PM
8

Right. Trying something new isn’t going to kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:43 PM
5

I’m not sure what you’re asking, nowhere in my comment did I talk about harming people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:34 PM
4

Relationship satisfaction surveys show that most people in them are happy. Not saying unhappy relationships don’t exist, but there’s no evidence suggest anything close to a majority of relationships are unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:31 PM
10

I only offer what worked for me, I can’t guarantee it’ll work for anybody else, but, it might and it never hurts to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:16 PM
5

But you understand that being a kissless virgin at 30 is weird, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:10 PM
28

I’ve found on here that it doesn’t matter. People will either accuse you of “larping”, being a “pick me” or say you’re privileged if your lived experiences contradicts their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:59 PM
2

I’ve noticed that correlation myself. All the fat dudes from my high school and college days are all the heaviest drinkers/still heavily drinking. The few smokers that I know all look about 10 yrs older than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:57 PM
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My girl stays farting through those CK cotton thongs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:36 PM
5

I think social media has forced people to be more “on” at all times. My girl for example won’t leave the house without makeup or a cute outfit on, because she’s terrified of someone seeing her in her “natural” state. But I think it’s more that anti-aging cosmetic procedures are way more common. I was shocked to find out who’s been getting Botox and taking a GLP-1 shot, it’s insanely common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:35 PM
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This lady thongs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:27 PM
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Just started building a new data center, another company already built an entire new power plant and substation right next door to meet the energy demand. The amount of conduit pipelines in the foundation were insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:27 PM
6

Lol I love your commitment to absolutely diabolical levels of cartoonish evil
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:14 PM
2

I think the cheapness of plastic surgery, Botox, fillers, ozempic is certainly part of it. The decline of smoking and better skincare is another. People are drinking way less. I also think people are more health conscious in general in terms of diet and exercise, hence why the obesity rate seems to be finally trending downward for the first time in decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:11 PM
6

Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:07 PM
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Yup, even better if it’s one of your shirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:03 PM
13

Ok, stop giving women attention and see if that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:00 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:48 PM
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Yup, we got Tony Two Fingers because he skillsawed off a couple fingertips off like 20 years back lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:38 PM
14

I think people are aging much more gracefully than previously for a variety of reasons, because people in my 30s are by and large as attractive as they were in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:37 PM
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Yup, everybody has a nickname lol I work with a dude named “Stinknuts” because he doesn’t hardly shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:32 PM
28

Exactly. These same lonely dudes that are terrified of being “settled” for will probably eventually settle for someone at their looks level.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:27 PM
12

Sure, in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:26 PM
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That’s why I love the trades, you can swear in a professional setting and no one gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:18 PM
87

Despite the protestations from this sub, this is already happening irl. There’s a reason most people are partnered by or slightly after 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:16 PM
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Lol that shit was ass. Women choosing the bear and then a bunch of whiny dudes demonstrating immediately why they chose the bear in the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:42 PM
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I dunno about insecure. Vain, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:56 PM
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My contention that most “incels” are just young dudes going through a dry spell and age out of it. Case in point, that one dude on here who claimed he was destined to be forever alone, went to college, got a big titty Indian gf and lost his virginity, and hasn’t posted here since.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:08 PM
1

About 15 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:17 PM
2

I’m basing that off of irl interactions as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:11 PM
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Yes Takes practice to learn this, but also generally yes. Sort of. Be an active participant, don’t hog the convo or just sit there like a mute. Yes, if she consents. Lmao, no. This is a loser, Hail Mary move that looks desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:47 PM
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It’s like going to the most crowded lake to fish and wonder why none of the fish are biting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:43 PM
1

I haven’t criticized anyone for having an n-count preference. I fully support you having whatever dumb preferences you want, same with women who look like a turd emoji thinking they deserve a “6/6/6” man. Ive merely stated the fact that that preference is rooted in insecurity, which oddly makes guys with that preference really angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:34 PM
6

But it’s the exact opposite. Most of the ranting every day is coming from the men because they’re upset they can’t get what they want, not the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:11 AM
4

Why would anybody give something up in exchange with someone they’re not interested in in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:05 AM
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Or autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:02 AM
1

He’s actually in love with Jada and she doesn’t give a fuck about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:50 PM
1

He’s crashing out publicly and having a big time midlife crisis. Shits sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:42 PM
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Yes, I’ve slept with a couple either once or as a FWB situation when we were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:22 PM
1

Oh, yeah, I wasn’t even considering that aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:00 PM
1

Not likely unless it’s a personal trainer-client relationship that gets inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:57 PM
2

No, I’m good. Thank you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:37 PM
5

Offering to carry the heavier bags of groceries in for my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:17 PM
2

I’ve always wondered where “liking and being nice to women” stops and “benevolent sexism” begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:54 PM
1

Are you his boyfriend or something? Why are your panties in such a twist over shit that doesn’t concern you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:36 PM
1

Who said anything about insanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:19 PM
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I think you’re being extremely naive if you think there’s not a huge overlap between misogyny and inceldom. The stereotype exists for a reason. I wouldn’t call the “average non-incel male demographic” particularly misogynist or feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:05 PM
11

I think it doesn’t help with most women, sure. Certain guys above a certain looks threshold can get away with it, but outside of conservative women, not a lot of women in the aggregate are looking to actively date men who hate them as a gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:53 PM
2

Lol chin hair is surprisingly normal though. What a weird thing to get hung up over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:43 PM
4

70% is the number of men in relationships. The amount of men who were sexually actively only once last year wasn’t anywhere close to a majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:24 PM
1

All three are a factor ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:18 PM
4

Like 90% of men were sexually actively last year. So you’re talking about between 10-13% of the male population who’s completely inept with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:15 PM
0

Based on…what? Young men are overwhelmingly choosing to be single because they can sleep around easier than in any other previous generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:10 PM
1

How are the vast majority of average people paired up with other average people then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:06 PM
51

Generally speaking, romantic invisibility has nothing to do with morals and more to do with lack of looks, confidence, or being neurotypical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:00 PM
2

Maybe, I think Chinas dating demographics are still fucked from the “One child only” policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:19 PM
4

For the most part, we don’t see your flaws the way you see them. Hip dips, a lil tummy pooch, slight sag to your breasts is all irrelevant in the long run if a guy finds you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:07 PM
1

It’s not that unbelievable. My wife and one of my exes are friends and do shit together. Edit: damn, homie hated this comment so much he straight blocked like a lil bitch lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:01 PM
1

China is arguably doing worse than we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:59 PM
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Sick death metal band, very brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:42 PM
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If “women” are dating 13 and 16 yr olds…that’s called pedophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:39 PM
1

But you can’t solely attribute the height increase to that. Some of it is undoubtedly sexual selection in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:34 PM
1

Yes there is; the average height today is clearly taller than it was in our grandparents generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:27 PM
2

It’s been mostly courteous. My wife and one of my exes were friends before I was with either and they’re still on relatively good terms. But there’s other exes she definitely doesn’t like, so it’s kind of a case by case situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:26 PM
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I’m not sure what you’re asking. If you’re asking if I think porn usage can have bad side effects, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:22 PM
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It’s hard to call anything a decline when your timeline is like 6 years. You’d need multi decades of study to discern a long term trend, as there’s no indication that these boys won’t grow out of it. From personal experience, I believed some incredibly dumb and heinous things when I was that age, that now look incredibly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:18 PM
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In what way? Like porn addiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:16 PM
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I’m shocked that 10 and 13 yr old boys have shitty, edgy opinions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:13 PM
2

Why not? I was unaware that you had to be single to be here, have you informed all the other partnered up posters about this new rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:11 PM
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No, it doesn’t. Correlation doesn’t mean causation. When done safely it contains very low risk. If that still frightens you…don’t have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:10 PM
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Well, for the most part casual sex doesn’t harm you or others if performed safety, so, not really relevant to the convo. But thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:07 PM
2

Your fortunes are your own to make. I’ve found in life that overwhelmingly, male or female, the person most responsible for their dating failures is staring them back in the mirror. Again, you lacking the personal responsibility to accept that fact doesn’t make everyone who calls that out a “pick me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:06 PM
5

I’ve gotten into it with several of the women here, notably Lillith and Windmill. But, be real, the overwhelming majority of ass takes on this sub are coming from men. Calling out shitty, badly made arguments doesn’t make you a “pick me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:58 PM
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Where did I claim that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:51 PM
1

Lol I’m already picked dude. Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:47 PM
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Everybody should have a “hoe phase” and get it out of your system.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:41 PM
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Because sex is fun and you’re biologically primed to want to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:40 PM
0

Yes, going off of biological imperatives brought on by evolution and several decades of satisfaction surveys on partner attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:38 PM
5

Romes “decadent culture” had little to do with its decline, as it was even as if not more culturally decadent during its height and ascent than it was by the time Christianity ruled the empire. Rome collapsed for the same reason most empires collapsed; chaotic, ineffective leadership, a lack of stake in society from the public, and calcification of wealth at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 11:10 AM
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The point is that the empire didn’t magically disappear because Elagabalus maybe thought he was a woman, as a lot of contemporary resources dispute this characterization as propaganda spread by his successor Severus Alexander to justify Severus assassinating Elagabalus.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:52 AM
1

All kinds of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:39 AM
6

I’m not sure what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:39 AM
2

one Roman Emperor, a child on top of that, was dressing himself as a woman and a prostitute. Presumably you’re referring to Elagabalus, the western Roman Empire survived his reign and flourished for another several hundred years, while the Eastern Roman Empire endured for another thousand after his reign.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:38 AM
0

Presumably short, ugly, socially stunted men. In the aggregate though, that’s impossible to determine on such a short timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:33 AM
4

This is the ultimate harsh truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:32 AM
4

You absolutely can. When has nature ever remained static and unchanged? The answer is never.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:31 AM
2

Isn’t the current dating scene simply rewarding those who can survive the current environment? The environment isn’t static.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:30 AM
5

I don’t think man need the sources So, “trust me, bro.” Very scientific lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:28 AM
8

Why is it always below average men making this argument? Making eggheaded pleas of “Um, ackshually…” isn’t going to convince women to find ugly, socially stunted losers attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:26 AM
2

Yeah, it was pretty awkward the next day when she showed up with my moms cousin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:28 AM
2

Second cousins, but close enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:07 AM
-1

This almost happened with my brother and one of our blood cousins when we had a big family reunion down in Kentucky. Luckily for all involved the hookup never happened lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:42 AM
1

What was uncivil about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:26 AM
1

Women don’t like good looking financially stable men now? Did the voices in your head tell you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:48 PM
2

If you’re that concerned about it, ask from the get go and tell her you’re looking for a virgin tradwife or whatever, and the high n women will weed themselves out of your life for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:45 PM
1

You choosing a low n woman is entirely within your control. There is no law that says you have to date a high n woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:38 PM
2

That too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:33 PM
3

No one said it isn’t valid, just a dumb thing to fixate on when avoiding high n women is entirely within your control
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:31 PM
1

Because it is. Sorry they don’t like hearing that, but it is what it is, just avoid high n count women if it bothers you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:26 PM
1

A drunk girl said I was “thick all over” in the bar a couple weeks back if that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:08 PM
2

Because nobody gives a shit about n count anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:23 PM
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If I took her on a date, it means I found her attractive, so the crush thing is a bonus and sign to escalate and try and get physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:21 PM
47

Bro, just be horny. You don’t have to write a novel every time to justify your hard on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:18 PM
1

Bruh, you commented on a comment not even addressed to you a day later. Lol keep seething.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:08 PM
2

Somebody’s butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:19 PM
1

This is part of my reluctance to have kids. They become the priority and not a lot of people are ready to handle that reality and how it affects things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:07 PM
-1

“Everything bad that happens is always someone else’s fault and I’m a perfect angel that’s never, ever made a bad decision in their life.” • the poor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:13 PM
0

80% of manosphere issues and debates would be instantly resolved with therapy and accountability, instead of blaming women for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:07 PM
1

With great responsibility comes great gut lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:49 PM
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Yeah, there’s no big push for polygamy anywhere in society, in any major developed nation. You’re arguing against a problem that doesn’t exist. Please move your lips to my ass, as you can kindly kiss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:48 PM
2

Gay dudes don’t count, it’s a completely different culture and their hookup rules don’t remotely resemble the straights.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:28 PM
1

That’s my site superintendent right there lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:21 PM
1

It’s weird seeing all the sorority girls I watched dance on tables with their tops off or doing body shots in their underwear transition into cozy domestic life and start having kids and being “a mom.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:15 PM
1

Yeah, my girl is a fucking nutcase.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:13 PM
3

The sluttiest girls I knew in college probably had a body count half of what dudes claimed they did. Higher than average, but I bet very few were actually triple digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:12 PM
-2

Ok, don’t engage in polygamy, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:56 PM
1

Being a late bloomer puts you behind the 8ball, no doubt. But your “baggage” is your own to deal with, it’s not an issue someone you’re trying to date needs to concern themselves with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:54 PM
1

Kinda glad sororities didn’t do this when I was in college lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:08 PM
2

You’re still talking about a tiny minority of the overall population.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:22 PM
5

Is there some big push to legalize polygyny in western societies that I missed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:57 AM
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Medium ugly is in right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:52 AM
0

Not the only thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:50 AM
1

I’m 6’2”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:29 AM
2

A repeat customer is still a customer 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:55 AM
3

Theoretically. In practice, dudes who are really good lays are having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:46 AM
1

This sub lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:38 AM
0

Does it have to be all? What’s an acceptable amount for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:30 AM
4

Lol I’ve said that before. They usually just laugh and tell you to shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:27 AM
-3

No. Yet lonely men are demanding women do that for them. Funny how that doesn’t work when the shoe is on the other foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:25 AM
5

I mean, I get it. I’ve been hooked on a good lay who was a shitty person, and women aren’t immune to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:07 AM
6

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:42 AM
9

Indeed, though you don’t have to be hot, you just have to be good in bed. Hell, I’m living proof of that, as I’ve gotten more than my fair share of second and third chances, and I’m no looker.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:59 PM
3

I get it, I’ve been in bad relationships too rationalizing shitty behavior. It hurts to hear that outside opinion, but sometimes you need it, like “Damn, I AM tripping, I shouldn’t be dealing with this, it’s not healthy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:11 PM
12

I’ve had them complain. There’s also been instances where I’ve given my gut take on a dude, like “something about this dude seems off.” That said, yeah, a lot of the time they’re just venting, which is fine. I’d rather be honest no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:49 PM
2

I try to be. Gotta look out for my lady homies, same as my bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:46 PM
2

My point still stands. It’s self imposed. “I’m SO lonely, poor me, forever alone!!!!! I just want a GF!!!!!” [person like Riley exists] “Eww, not you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:45 PM
4

I try to be as straight up as possible, but I always add “you’re an adult and can do what you want, I just don’t want to say I told you so.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:36 PM
-2

This kind of implies that the whole “male loneliness epidemic” is self imposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 10:31 PM
6

Because men are honest. “Bro, you ugly as fuck” instead of “you’re a beautiful queen!” to a girl looking like a plate of mashed potatoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:58 PM
4

Because homie only sees women in terms of their sexual value, and nothing more. Which, ironically, is the view of beta lurkers who don’t get laid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:52 PM
13

You’re right, I should just ignore my lady friends when they ask for advice about the dude she’s kinda sorta dating, when he’s just stringing her along and back with his ex on the side. But, yeah, “beta shit” or whatever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:51 PM
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My female friends get mad/sad when I bluntly tell them the dudes they’re seeing suck, even if they are good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:34 PM
2

Men, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:11 PM
0

Man, my heights not on there, how am I supposed to know how acceptable I am to women!?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:10 PM
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A lot of feelings, a couple faces and one or two hearts, give or take 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:44 PM
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You can’t look at it like that though, because then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy fueled by a negative thought feedback loop. There’s no schedule or timeframe you have to adhere to. You’re absolutely deserving of somebody, but you can’t let that negativity discourage you because you think you “don’t have something” that other men have. It sucks, but the only way out of it is to continue the trial and error process and find what works for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:42 PM
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Show me on the doll where I hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:36 PM
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No I hear just fine. I read stupid statements even better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:14 PM
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Sure. But odds are you aren’t one of those “certain men,” and neither is he.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:13 PM
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You can be though. You might just have to work a little harder at it than somebody else. Remember, all you need to do is win over one girl. In the grand scheme of things, that’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:04 PM
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This sounds like cope from dudes who get neither casual sex, nor relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:44 PM
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Until you actually get to know each other, keep it light and fun. My go to first date was always cocktails at mid-range spot, not divey but not super expensive either. And just seeing how it goes. Sometimes the conversation and vibes were right, sometimes they weren’t. Alcohol usually does most of the heavy lifting lightening the mood and loosening the tongue. I found that if you “try” to make something happen you’ll psyche yourself out and get in your head too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:40 PM
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That’s honestly up to them. I can’t recommend one way or the other, I can only offer what worked for me and maybe it’ll work for somebody else 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:36 PM
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I wouldn’t say most. I would say for an unlucky few.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:31 PM
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That’s the thing; it shouldn’t be. Dating should be fun, not like going to the DMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:28 PM
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I’m glad you’re at peace, but you didn’t have be THAT extra. Professional headshots should be left to actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:27 PM
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RP mens TikTok algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 07:08 PM
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You mean the graph that takes the bulk of its data from 2020 and 2021, when the pandemic had people quarantined at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:15 PM
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Statistics Feel free to post these said “statistics.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:28 AM
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Your source says nothing about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:05 AM
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Are those 85% of men under 6ft all single?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 09:02 AM
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CBum being accused of having a “dadbod” seems like a piece of rage bait you fell for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:41 AM
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More than 20% of men are dating and in relationships. Ergo, by simple mathematical reality, women can’t only be attracted to/dating “20% of men.” A simple visual of couples out and about confirms this; the only common denominator is that most women date a man taller than themselves, which is to be expected give human sexual dimorphism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:37 AM
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I understood what you claimed. Do you not understand what “your idea is dumb” means? It’s not supported by anecdotal or empirical evidence. “80/20” doesn’t exist, and to bring it up here where it’s not even applicable is even weirder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:13 AM
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This is dumb because your “league” is whatever you can get, and this doesn’t remotely have anything to do with “80/20”, which is do just an excuse for being passive in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 08:04 AM
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Ok, don’t work and go live in a dumpster or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:31 AM
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People are SO fucking dumb lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:51 AM
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Always a good move.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:15 AM
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You can flirt with women while they’re working, just keep in mind that their primary focus is being nice to you to get money out of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 12:08 AM
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The irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:49 PM
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Women who do taxidermy and weird art with animal bones is always pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:02 PM
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Indeed it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:37 PM
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On average every citizen uses more in taxes than they pay in. Unless you’re in the top 1%, you wouldn’t qualify for “reparations” because you’ve still used more than you’ve put in.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:36 PM
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Reparations for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:52 PM
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You don’t drive on publicly maintained roads?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:51 PM
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So what? Your taxes also go towards roads, emergency services, education, national defense, social security, sewer and storm water control, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:51 PM
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True, you don’t owe anybody your labor or blood. You do, however, owe taxes as you’re using the same publicly funded things that everyone else in society uses. Your inability to get a wife is irrelevant to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 04:26 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:36 AM
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Meh. Plenty of fugly boxers, rugby, and football players with messed up faces but masculine builds and decent height.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:38 AM
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If you’re just gonna bang every Asian woman possible, why even bother having a girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 01:03 AM
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Oof. Spiraling I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:56 AM
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Damn, that was both weird AND cringe. Take a lap.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:36 AM
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Bruh, who reported you for harassment? She’s never gonna see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 12:18 AM
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At least 3 of those dudes have wives/girlfriends. Maybe incels need to start growing shitty mustaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:54 PM
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Handlebar, horseshoe or walrus mustaches are all acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:36 PM
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“WHY WONT WOMEN LET ME HARASS THEM, ITS NOT FAIR!!!!! 😤”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:23 PM
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The only people who say this are dudes who can’t grow facial hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:19 PM
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“Wokeness” has just become catchall for “I don’t like anything that’s not white and heterosexual centered.” It’s the favorite term of people who want to call people slurs, but are afraid to do so because of the social consequences lol I think you’re wrong about societal and dating issues too. Women aren’t to blame, the 1% is. “The Gender War” is just another distraction to prevent the formation of class consciousness amongst working people, same with the crusade against “woke” and “DEI.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:14 PM
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Gotta earn it the right way; eating Latina ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 09:10 PM
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The white mans curse is being addicted to thicc Latina cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:56 PM
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low paying profession electrician Bruh, outside linemen make like $70-something an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:55 PM
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This has got to be one of the top 5 dumbest takes on here. Everybody loves tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:10 PM
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Straight women find most men unattractive. Source: “trust me, bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 03:33 PM
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I met my true love in my 20s. I hardly remember my teenage girlfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:59 PM
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I’ve been hit on gay guys in Palm Springs, that’s it. Very brazenly too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:58 PM
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NEVER
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 11:35 AM
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I’ve noticed this too. It honestly makes an attractive woman even more attractive when she’s nice and kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:51 AM
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A big ass and big tits are made of…fat. Congrats, you like fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:34 AM
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If you prefer big tits and ass, congrats, you like bigger women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:29 AM
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A lot of closeted men do prefer a boyish figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:23 AM
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If you don’t find most women attractive, that might be nature trying to tell you to play for the other team 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:12 AM
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Have you thought about trying men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 10:08 AM
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Go to a gay bar and see how well you like being approached by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:28 AM
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You right.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 01:27 AM
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You can fix boobs though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:57 AM
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I would’ve figured you for an ass man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:43 AM
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A great ass can make up for lack of tits, but big tits can’t make up for lack of ass. Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:42 AM
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Ass gun to my head, but I like both. Hourglass is where it’s at. Politically I’m libertarian with trade unionist tendencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:25 AM
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Straight up semen demons.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 12:04 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:18 PM
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<image> [loud throat singing]
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:34 PM
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Can’t even subjugate the Qing Dynasty? It’s OVER.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:32 PM
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Yes incels, you must [checks notes] emulate Genghis Khan and rape, burn and pillage your way across Central Asia to build the biggest contiguous land empire in history. Mongolmaxx and steppepilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 08:02 PM
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It’s because the fear of rejection has caused them to build those fantasies as a defense mechanism and excuse for passivity in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:20 PM
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Sex is great, really great. But it on a list of all kinds of other great things in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:03 PM
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Women are usually happy and fun to be around when you’re regularly blowing their back out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 04:09 PM
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I was the former, and I turned out ok 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:42 PM
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Oh yeah, those are pretty popular here. Not gonna lie, I’ve been rocking a big handlebar myself the last month thanks to all this awful heat and humidity in the Midwest this summer. So far I’ve gotten positive reactions 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:37 PM
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Yeah, like a John Waters mustache. If you’re an old gay man, yes. If not, ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:36 PM
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Like John Waters? I would say probably not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:24 PM
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True, I’m sure you can find a couple who don’t enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:23 PM
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As soon as I met my wife’s mom, I knew I made a good choice and that my old lady has a lot of attractive years ahead of her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:22 PM
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Mini mustache? Like a Hitler stache?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 03:20 PM
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Facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:32 PM
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Said no woman ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:32 PM
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…what?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:31 PM
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Ok, so I’m not the only one that caught this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:55 AM
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Having a female roommate isn’t bad. I lived with two of them and it was pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 09:39 AM
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Struggling men, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:43 AM
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You sound like you have a lot of experience watching bulls get milked, you tell me? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 12:09 AM
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For my lady to do her makeup in her vanity, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:50 PM
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Lol your legend precedes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:44 PM
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A cuck joke? Feeling daring today, are we?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:44 PM
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Cmon Cum Guzzler guy, I know you got better material than that. This is just lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:26 PM
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I dunno dude, I’ve gotten more mileage out of my height and frame as opposed to my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:59 PM
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True. You fuck up a couple times and then learn to know what to look for so you stop fumbling a girl when she flirts with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:57 PM
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Welcome back, Cum Guzzler Guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 10:42 PM
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That’s actually pretty sound. If you can be funny in a comment, you can be funny in online dating, no doubt. Knowing what flirting is for me came from time and experience. I look back on high school me and cringe because I missed some obvious signs due to inexperience. Like I was legit confused when a girl got my number and randomly called to chit chat, like girls normally do that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:28 PM
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Someone the other day stated that “Chad is a mindset” which kind of makes more sense given the diverse array of dudes successfully dating and hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:03 PM
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This dude has to be a larp. Nobody is that lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:46 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:33 PM
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That wasn’t misogynistic. Nothing in that statement implies that I hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 08:30 PM
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You must be great at parties, Buzz Killington.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:20 PM
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Scouts honor, you can trust me friend 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:15 PM
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I literally just asked her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:09 PM
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It’s not if I have her consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 07:04 PM
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Look, my lady has two great personalititties that I love deeply, thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 06:36 PM
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Women have their own role to fill, and a lot of them don’t do that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:48 PM
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Somebody who isn’t afraid to make a move, who’s direct, doesn’t whine. Too many dudes out here acting like passive, whiny teenagers and wondering why people don’t take them seriously as dating material.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:41 PM
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Overall relationship data doesn’t support the Pareto Principle being demonstrated across the general public.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:38 PM
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Hell, a lot of men these days don’t act like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 02:34 PM
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I’ve been without power since Saturday, not really in the mood to google search 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 11:13 AM
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No, because that actually affects people in real life. Whatever incels are whining about doesn’t. You’re comparing apples to lugnuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 09:02 AM
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It’s just a ride. Don’t take it so serious, and try to do as much weird shit with fun people as you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:12 AM
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Oh hell no, cheating on me with a goddamned tin skinned CLANKER!?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 01:11 AM
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I’m sure you do, it’s probably more comforting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/25 12:46 AM
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BDH can always get it. They photoshopped her butt down on the Jurassic World poster because she was too caked up for polite society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 07:40 PM
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Playful negging is fine. I did that all the time, and it worked pretty well. But being a straight up rude asshole doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 05:01 PM
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He had the keys to a Level 4 yard! Top of the woodpile!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:20 PM
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Wes “You Better Have Your Paperwork” Watson is something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:17 PM
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useless advice such as talk to women or treat her like a queen You’re right, you shouldn’t talk to women at all and treat them like shit, that sounds like a winning dating strategy lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 04:17 PM
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Yeah, but we’re all communicating in English right now because the limeys decided their beans on toast and spotted dick needed some spices.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:50 PM
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Socialist in the streets, capitalist in the sheets.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 02:49 PM
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I can see that. If she’s hot and has a great vibe, obviously green light go. But if we’re talking a solely one night stand situation, looks are the more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:07 PM
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Yes, but, get them because you enjoy them, not because you think it’ll attract women. It helps, but it’s not an automatic chick magnet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:03 PM
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Gal Gadot is an attractive, but not my hottest pick for a female celebrity. Bryce Dallas Howard, Christina Hendricks, Salma Hayek, Sofia Vergara, Megan Thee Stallion and Scarlett Johansson are the celebrities I find most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:02 PM
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Looks are the sole qualifier for hooking up. Long term, you gotta like her personality and values too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:00 PM
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You don’t look like a baby face kid anymore, you look like a man, so people are gonna treat you accordingly, good or bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 01:11 AM
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Yes. Put on more muscle, shaved my head, grew a beard. Looked more masculine in general. WAY better reception from women than previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:55 AM
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No. What’s broken can never be undone, no matter how hard you try to patch it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 12:02 AM
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Statistically there’s somebody out there for you. You can find her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:29 PM
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In the modern era, absolutely. I think purity fixation made sense in a premodern world, but today is largely irrelevant given medical advancements.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:22 PM
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Because your friends irl will be way more honest and brutal than anybody online, because they usually know specifically what’s wrong with you. That truth can be hard to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:49 PM
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I’ll have to dig it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:01 PM
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I don’t. But if the same name keeps popping up doing nothing but “woe is me,” yeah, I think it’s normal to be suspicious about how much “work” they’re putting in.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 09:01 PM
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Sex reporting surveys. Something like 87% of men were sexually active last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:50 PM
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I read the data, and the key word here is vaginal sex. The survey doesn’t mention anal or oral sex. Given that 20% of Gen Z is LGBT, you’re missing huge numbers of gay and lesbian students (who are overrepresented on college campuses compared to the general public) to flesh out the numbers. The spike post COVID was closer to 34%, but sure, lol. Lastly, these studies all leave out the fact that those who aren’t having sex are doing so overwhelmingly by personal choice. So, while you (you generall…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:50 PM
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How did I know you were going to use a study from the pandemic? Guess what happened to those numbers after the lockdowns and quarantines ended? They went right back up. Don’t use out of date information cherry picked from one outlier year, my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:56 PM
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Life, the weather, how the local sports team is doing, how Janice at work is a bitch, what are you doing next weekend, etc. Do you not understand how normal conversation works? Don’t think too hard, that was a rhetorical question. Wait…are you on the spectrum?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:54 PM
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Because normal people don’t do that. There’s more traffic for minor league baseball team pages than there is for the biggest “gender war” themed ones. Assuming you have friends, next time you’re out with them, start ranting about the “gender war” and see how many awkward looks you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:37 PM
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Lol most men are doing that sex surveys support that assertion. Struggling men in the minority are obviously not part of that equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:36 PM
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Most people do that, male and female. It’s called being in your 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:29 PM
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If you’ve gotten that far, she’s probably gonna let you hit it regardless of your size.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:07 PM
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Because the “subtle undertones” aren’t there. It’s mostly in your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:05 PM
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Pretty much. You have to find your partner attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:02 PM
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I dunno, I’ve seen more than a couple pairs of over forty milkers and they didn’t look that much worse than their 20-something counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:40 PM
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My girl always wants pictures, so I’m always in a bunch with her and her girlfriends when we go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:29 PM
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Based on the stories of my single female friends, they’ll have casual sex until they find one they like and then make that guy their long term FWB/situationship. Theres no need to keep shopping for dick once you’ve found the one you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:25 PM
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Well, yeah. People like thick and curvy women of any age.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:08 PM
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I hate to say this, but y’all gotta touch grass. Go the bar, the farmers market, a street festival, the beach, your local city park with a Biergarten (if applicable); nobody is talking about “the gender war.” Men and women aren’t at each other’s throats. People of all ages, shapes, sizes and looks are just vibing and having a good time, as nature intended. Stop letting this shit ruin your actual, real life out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 06:07 PM
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I’m sure I will. I’m going to hazard a guess you don’t know how government debt works either.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:19 PM
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Funded by beta taxes I stopped reading here because I can’t imagine the rest of that being more divorced from reality than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:09 PM
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As the old sales saying goes, “Nobody walks on the lot unless they want to buy.” She’s on an app designed to hook people up. You’re both adults, ostensibly you’re both looking for something physical. So don’t beat around the bush, cut through the bullshit and tell her what you want, not “uwu u wanna maybe get some ice cweam pwease? 👉👈🥺” But yeah, “all women” or whatever lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:41 PM
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She’s looking to get fucked, not get ice cream. Cmon bruh, rookie move.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:26 PM
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As somebody else put it, the guys who used RP successfully moved on and lived their lives; they got wives, girlfriends, kids, etc. Which leaves the unsuccessful dudes clogging up the ideology, which the OG RP was never meant to help in the first place. RP never promised it could take a complete beta loser and magically make them a Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:59 PM
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You deal with them enough and it’s easy to discern certain patterns. How many times has advice been offered only to be met with some canned response like “there’s no gym for your face!” or “That only works if you’re Chad!”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:23 PM
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You look better, you feel better, you’re able to do things easier, clothes fit better. And, most importantly, it’s something you can control.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:22 PM
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The problem is most incels never move beyond the venting/whining stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:18 PM
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Ok, and? How did you conduct this “research?”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:14 PM
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This is kind of why I argue that TRP doesn’t really exist anymore, it’s just black pill bitterness hiding under a red coat of paint. That said…hit the fucking gym. There’s not a single person, male or female, who looks worse by being in better shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:05 PM
1

It’s still not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:03 PM
2

Again, that’s a take divorced from reality. Losers can downvote all they want, it doesn’t change the fact that constant, unending struggle with the opposite sex is not a normal state for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:46 AM
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He lost so badly Kirk hasn’t accepted a moderated debate since.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:58 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 04:10 AM
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Yeah, I’ve already done that. There’s a reason why he debates unprepared college students in an environment he controls. In an actual debate, like the one he did against Sam Seder, he got fucking pantsed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:59 AM
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Are they? Again, if it’s such a great system…stop whining about liberal women here in the west and go get an Indian wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:53 AM
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So what? Not all marriages were/are good marriages. This is like saying if Denmark is so great then go there. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:45 AM
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No, it didn’t. Second, if India is so great, go there and get a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:40 AM
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Charlie Kirk and facts, lol. You’re pretty funny, you should be a comedian.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:32 AM
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Sexual socialism is never going to happen, get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:31 AM
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Women can already do that. Why would they need your app then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 03:19 AM
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Super gay when you think about it, nothing more gay than something that’s attracted to men /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 02:44 AM
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Women aren’t going to participate in such an app because they already have zero desire to sleep with men struggling on current dating apps. You’ve essentially proposed creating an app selling shit sandwiches when nobody likes eating shit sandwiches.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:48 AM
2

I’m also in the church parking lot club lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 01:47 AM
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This app would be all dudes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:46 AM
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Ime, you remember the really bad experiences and the really, really good ones. Everything else just kind of becomes a blur. But it’s remembering in terms of the experience, not for comparison purposes of that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:26 AM
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All kinds of shit. Just have a conversation, offer to buy a round and see how it goes. If she’s receptive, escalate. There’s no set “thing to say.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 11:42 PM
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No idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:27 PM
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Some struggle, sure. Everyone struggles from time to time. Being rejected EVERY single time isn’t the experience of the “average” man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:25 PM
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Which one what?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:14 PM
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No offense, what you’re describing is the life of a below average man. I think that’s an important distinction to make here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:12 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:11 PM
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Gramsci was my favorite theorist during the socialism/communism section of my political science studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:05 PM
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Except no dating app data has ever demonstrated the Pareto Principle in a dating aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:03 PM
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That sounds like a breeding ground for resentment and bitterness, not to mention it sounds exhausting, always trying to “leverage” your partner. Sounds like a recipe for a failed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:59 PM
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There’s no fixing that though, as the cats already out of the bag. Dating apps aren’t going anywhere. So that leaves men with two options, learn how to succeed on the apps, or, learn how to succeed out in the wild. If you don’t do either, you’re going to get left in the dust. That’s the harsh reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:56 PM
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Neither partner should have “leverage” in a good relationship, it should be a complimentary partnership of equals, not an adversarial duel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:52 PM
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What would be the Arabic version of Chad? Muhammad? Mahmoud? Ahmed?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:52 PM
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Sort of. My brother in law is a stereotypical “Chad”, but it’s absolutely mostly his looks. Not saying he doesn’t have game, but his looks are doing the heavy lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:50 PM
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Not even that. Every time I hear a “bad boy” described, it’s just a dude with tattoos and a motorcycle who likes to party.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:39 PM
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You can’t win with such people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:20 PM
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Chad is whatever women consider him to be lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:11 PM
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I’m just saying, in the case of the Balkan countries…it’s absolutely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:11 PM
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This is legitimately true for most Balkan countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:06 PM
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I think for most struggling dudes it’s “anybody who’s more successful than me with women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 08:05 PM
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Nah, if she’s bad, she’s bad. I don’t care if I’m looking down or up at her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:29 PM
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There’s no height limit on being a baddie, whether she’s 4’11 or 6’.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:07 PM
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You gotta go where the fish are biting 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:03 PM
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That’s where the highest concentration of low standard, low inhibition women are 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 07:03 PM
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Go to your local dive bar, wait til closing time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:44 PM
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Nah, I’m a pretty good judge. My lady and her friends agreed I’m “medium ugly” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 06:19 PM
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I think I’m a solid 6. My height and my personality are pretty good, despite my mug and bald head.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:41 PM
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This isn’t true, I’ve been approached by women who weren’t zeros on the looks scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:17 PM
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So find the ones that don’t. Trust me, your barely middle class salary isn’t the gold digger magnet you’re worried it is lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:04 PM
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Working class people are too busy working and scraping to get by to worry about “pills”, “the gender war” and “involuntary celibacy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:02 PM
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Have you ever nutted in a bitch raw? There’s your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 04:11 PM
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Cigarettes unequivocally cause cancer, birth defects, etc. Dating apps do not. What’s next, you need the nanny state to do the dangerous job of wiping your ass too?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 01:45 PM
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70% of men are in some kind of relationship though, meaning that women aren’t filtering out a majority of men or anything close to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:30 PM
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Which is a separate argument entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 11:34 AM
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But they’re not “one in a billion extra” cases, they’re disturbingly common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:54 AM
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Yes, let’s talk about logical chains. Rude, abusive, introverted nerd snaps, writes a manifesto, and guns down 30 sorority girls. Then there’s rude, abusive, extroverted Chad, who had a one night stand and didn’t call a woman back. By your shortbus “logic” the former is “less damaging” because the nerd is ugly. Even a kindergartner might find that logic ret*rded.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:18 AM
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No. But let’s also not pretend that being a nerd magically makes you less of a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:14 AM
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But there’s numerous examples of nerd incels finding women to hurt and kill. Your argument is stupid to begin with, but it looks even dumber given the reality of Elliot Rodger, George Sodini, and Seung Hui-Cho.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:59 AM
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No, for the exact same reasons women slip up when “vetting” men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:50 AM
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Except every incel shooter has been some type of “nerd.” It’s never the “attractive bad boy” writing manifestos and going on shooting sprees against Stacey.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:49 AM
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I’m sorry, but it’s not societies job to protect you from being a loser with women. The amount of abdication of personal responsibility from the incel contingent never ceases to amaze.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:14 AM
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A shitty person is a shitty person. You’re not “better” than the “attractive bad boy” just because you’re short and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:10 AM
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A bad person is a bad person though, regardless of looks. Your argument honestly reads like copium for ugly dudes with shitty personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:06 AM
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Yeah, that’s kinda the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 02:41 AM
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Yup. All kinds of “ugly” people out there thriving and surviving despite what other people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 12:35 AM
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Nobody is 100% capable of “choosing better” because those types of people are adept at hiding their true selves and honestly, dealing with and learning from those kind of people is a necessary part of maturing in dating and finding what you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:58 PM
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The same dudes who don’t understand this will unironically call Sydney Sweeney “mid.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:51 PM
5

Humans are biologically meant to find each other attractive so they can mate and propagate the species. That includes the ugly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:50 PM
7

Absolutely. There’s all kinds of “unattractive men” dating successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:45 PM
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Your experience sounds eerily similar to my wife’s. She was a D by the time she was 15 and the unwanted sexual attention started and basically hasn’t stopped yet. All kinds of creepy men out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:42 PM
8

Sounds like Jimmy is the victim of his own bad choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:39 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:29 PM
8

To be frank, the older I get, the more I realize that the people of both sexes who are single for prolonged periods of time are usually that way for a good reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:29 PM
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Maybe. I feel like that’s always been like that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:17 PM
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Most peoples dating problems are 100% their own fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:11 PM
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Most guys sleep around when they’re young though, based on sex surveys. So you’re not talking about “most” guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 05:21 PM
4

Right, you realize saying “this guy likes to lie about being married” isn’t the same as “women deserve to die” and going on a shooting spree, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 10:29 AM
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“Men being used for resources” sounds like some weird, third world take. The average women in the west is making as much if not more than her male counterpart, needing a man for “resources” isn’t really a thing for most modern women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:50 AM
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Given sexual assault and rape stats, yes. Your personal safety is always going to trump someone else’s feelings. But the average woman also isn’t ranting online day in and day out about how much they resent men like men are about women, or writing manifestos and shooting places up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:48 AM
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I don’t buy that. If you’re thinking like that in one area, there’s no way those views aren’t leeching into other areas of your life either. Most people don’t compartmentalize that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:46 AM
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Sounds like you need to lower your expectations and accept that your match is propabably a “typical villager woman.”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:45 AM
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You shouldn’t feel resentment towards women you’ve never met or interacted with, they’ve done nothing to you. That’s borderline mentally ill thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:44 AM
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Women who don’t even know who you are aren’t the ones who rejected you, and aren’t the cause of your resentment. Resenting women you’ve never met does, what, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:42 AM
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If you view women as “the enemy”, you’re cooked from the get go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:26 AM
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That would explain a lot of the bizarro, goofy ass left field dating takes on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:22 AM
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And you can’t date within your own ethnic community?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:19 AM
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And not one offered to set you up with a single friend? Something isn’t adding up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:05 AM
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If you actually believe all that nonsense, it explains that your problem with women isn’t your ugly face, it’s your ugly views on them as humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 09:04 AM
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Do you have close female friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:49 AM
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Never had that experience. Though, as an incel, you can’t really afford to be choosy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:48 AM
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“Nice and attractive to you” is a shallow, surface level relationship, blockhead. You’ve got to have deeper compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:47 AM
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100% I met my current partner through my ex, and I knew her older sister from the neighborhood on top of that. Even though me and my exes split wasn’t great, she and my ladies older sister both knew who I was, knew my reputation that I was an ok dude, and that I wasn’t some asshole. And that goes a long way, because if she’s interested in you, you can bet your ass she’s asked around in the friend group or heard about you at brunch with girls. I would agree with your last part, except that I don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:09 AM
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Are you a good looking “player”? If not, guess what? Their methods probably aren’t going to work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:01 AM
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Friends of friends, sisters of friends, cousins of friends, coworkers of friends, coworkers at your work, etc That’s a pretty wide range to choose from if you’re not a total fucking creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:00 AM
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chicks fucken love to play matchmaker This is why I always advise dudes who say “why should I have female friends!?” to have female friends. If they like you, they’ll do most of the hard work for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:52 AM
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People are still hooking up in college. Alcohol certainly helps though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:49 AM
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A girl who is attracted to me and is nice to me That’s probably why you have trouble attracting women, as you view them solely as what they can do for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:47 AM
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tl;dr, you simply devolved into a rambling ad hom
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:31 AM
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This is dumb. Warm approach will always trump cold approach because you’re already pre-vetted by other women/members of your friend group, and you benefit from familiarity and proximity. This is why it’s so easy to hook up in high school and college, you’re around the same girls every day and that lowers their inhibitions of seeing you as a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:26 AM
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If you don’t like what the UK does to people, why are you arguing for that here? At least be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:20 AM
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Because that would mean they’d have to stop wallowing in victimhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 01:05 AM
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