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A club still staves a skull in at close range 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:41 AM
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100%. That works with in person dating too. Strike while the iron is hot, but, don’t be pushy and desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:11 AM
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They think like that because that’s something they’d do. When you see women solely as sexual objects, every interaction with them is a potential ploy to get their dick wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:10 AM
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Sure. But what type of “violent” are we talking here? Are we talking homicidal, can’t control his rage violent or punching a guy who molests his girlfriend violent? The former is unattractive, the latter isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/25 12:06 AM
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Source: “Trust me, bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:42 PM
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I repeat my last comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:37 PM
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So do weak and wimpy men. Between the two, who do you think is more likely to breed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:32 PM
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Not really relevant, since the traits women find attractive haven’t really changed regardless of current gender norms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:32 PM
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Women keep picking those men 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:18 PM
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I would argue we have to define what “abusive, violent, and toxic” even means here, because many struggling men making this claim label any man more successful with women than they are as those things, even if they’re not actually abusive or physically violent to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:14 PM
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Not really, because women find those “bad” traits attractive. If women found weak, submissive, emotional men attractive, their dating choices would reflect that since they can freely choose men like that…yet they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:11 PM
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Because it had a bunch of major flaws from selection bias, limited sample size, no control, and the survey marked “skip” as an automatic 1 rating out of 5, potentially tainting the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:09 PM
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That’s way easier said than done. Humans, biologically, have evolved very little from our Hunter gatherer ancestors.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:03 PM
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This assumes that women aren’t intentionally biologically primed to want abusive, violent, toxic men because those traits were what evolution bred into us for survival over 100,000 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:59 PM
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This is what incels think happens when you say hello to a woman at a bar lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:55 PM
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Can we stop calling it “data”? It was a blog post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 10:47 PM
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No, that’s David Allan Coe. I’ve been told I look close enough to be related to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 09:20 PM
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Too many weirdos on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:22 PM
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LMFAO no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:18 PM
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My face.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:48 PM
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You’re being a whiny baby dude. Just stop, it’s unbecoming.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:30 PM
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Awww, you can dish it out but you can’t take it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:24 PM
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The absolute state of seething currycels right now lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:04 PM
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No, it’s based on upvote percentage, and Reddit rules plainly state that. Sorry nobody likes your comments lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:54 PM
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Can’t help that people like my comments 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:32 PM
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Have a backbone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:26 PM
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Am I? I don’t have that flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:26 PM
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Don’t quit your day job to take up psychoanalysis, Sigmund Fraud lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:22 PM
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I’ve gotten into it with both Lillith and Windmill plenty of times. Lillith is like permanently butthurt that men aren’t dying to date single moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:15 PM
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See, right there. The way you describe “most women”, whether you’re looking currently or not, gives off the vibe that you don’t really actually like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:13 PM
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My grandma when she met my wife the first time, talking about her tits: “Wow, she’s got quite a set of lungs.” So I don’t think my grandma would give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:10 PM
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Just being real with you dude. If you don’t lock down a low n woman when she’s young, you’re unlikely to do that as you get into your late 20s and into your 30s. That’s the reality you’re dealing with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:09 PM
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When a woman actually complains about that on here, I’ll be happy to hold them to the fire. But guess who’s doing the majority of the complaining here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:06 PM
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Absolutely. That may very well be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:04 PM
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No. But I think you’re probably telling more than you think you’re letting on. The fact that you think a majority of women “live hedonistically” shows that internally you already have a strong dislike for a lot of your potential dating pool, and I think you’re fooling if you don’t think you don’t telegraph that unconsciously. Like, I absolutely don’t think you’d be dumb enough to flat out say “Most women are Hypergamous whores”, but I do think you do say other things that suggest that and women …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 04:01 PM
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What are we left to infer? The guy claims he’s tall with model good looks. That’s the two biggest boxes checked off for what 99% of heterosexual women are looking for in a partner. So no assuming that’s true, what’s the only variable left that would explain why a tall, good looking man is having trouble finding the partner he wants; it’s a personality issue. That’s the simple reality of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:59 PM
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Do you want constructive criticism or do you want to be lied to? If you want to be lied to, I can do that too if it’ll make you feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:51 PM
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Congrats, your personality is why you’re struggling to find someone to settle down. Nobody wants to be lectured that they’re “living hedonistically” by some guy they don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:47 PM
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Have you or have you not found someone to settle down with?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:38 PM
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Assuming this is true, your personality/personal skills suck. No man who’s your height with allegedly model grade looks is struggling with women unless they have a shitty, weird, or offputting personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:26 PM
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There’s no evidence women like only 30% of men. Most relationship statistics state the opposite, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:21 PM
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Figuring their shit out like adults instead of blaming women would be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:17 PM
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That is the reality though. As you age, finding a “like minded low n woman” becomes statistically less likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 02:04 PM
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Incels are just misogynists whose attractiveness doesn’t offset their misogyny, simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:58 PM
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Women are acting like they’ve always acted. The only difference is with social media it’s harder to be in denial about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:51 PM
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The “gender war” is just dudes with dry dicks complaining on the internet about having a dry dick. That’s it. If you’re remotely well adjusted socially you realize pretty quick that the average man and woman don’t hate each other and aren’t constantly at each others throats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 01:24 PM
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Norah Vincent was also nuttier than a shithouse rat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 12:15 PM
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Chicago or any other major midwestern US city.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:41 AM
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Sucks to be an unfortunate man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:40 AM
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Settling down isn’t “settling.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:31 AM
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Damn, her priorities and what she’s wants in her late 20s are different than her early 20s!? The horror. Why are incels so terrified of aging and settling down?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 11:23 AM
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I don’t think pre-selection is that important to visceral, animal attraction but it doesn’t hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:18 PM
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You can’t force anyone to be attracted to you, even if what makes you unattractive is outside of your control 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:26 PM
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You’re basically arguing for warm approaching over cold approaching, which I agree with. Where I disagree is with rejection being inherently “humiliating.” If she says no, just accept it and move on, it’s not a huge deal. You’re not being “humiliated” because a woman turned you down, you will survive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 07:01 PM
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I’ve never understood that either. Why would you lock down some ugly ass mofo you’re not sexually attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:17 PM
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My partner and I started out as casual hooking up. We both liked it, so we decided to do it long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:13 PM
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I’m sure when I check back in a couple hours this comment will be deleted, cum guzzler guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:49 PM
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I don’t know, nor care, cum guzzler guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:48 PM
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Aww, you’re big mad today about getting nuked, huh cum guzzler guy? Maybe that wouldn’t happen if you got new material 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:29 PM
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Cum guzzler guy, I didn’t report shit. I think you’re automodded for an instaban lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:29 PM
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Oh yeah, tons of women are thinking about Tim Curry with their rabbits at full buzz lol K-pop dudes are all style masculine coded, they’re tall, broad shouldered, sharp jawlines. They’re not short, effeminate twinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:16 AM
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How many women do you know irl in relationships with “emotional, gay men”? Be honest here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:48 AM
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Men in women’s romance movies don’t act like feminine, emotional gay men either. They’re also not built like lil twink boys either. Women’s archetype for what they find attractive overall is closer to that than whatever nancyboy you’re describing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:38 AM
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It’s the exact opposite in reality ime. You’re never going to lose points with women by being masculine. Heterosexual women weren’t conditioned by biology to find feminine twinks to be the apex of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:30 AM
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Every guy who looks like a “Bosnian trucker” has a wife or gf. The stereotypical “female ideal pretty man” you described ironically sounds like a gay bestie, not a partner that inspires raw sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:23 AM
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The best sex I’ve had has been from relationships, sure. That said, I’ve have plenty of “good” sex from one night stands. I don’t think either are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:55 AM
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Several are married to frat members, others to former student athletes. They knew these girls reputations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:04 AM
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The founder of Mormonism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:44 AM
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Interesting, because your overall life vibes match with several ex-Mormon women I’ve known. They got away from Joseph Smith and went feral lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:38 AM
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Oh lord, that explains a lot lol Ex-Mormon?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:30 AM
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The lifetime average for women in the US is like 7, so right there that excludes most women in this country lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:23 AM
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I saw some dude on here say anything more than 5 partners, which is wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 01:14 AM
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If she ghosts you, cut your ties and move on. You can’t be a “playboy” or “disloyal” to someone you never actually dated or had a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:40 AM
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So one of you can’t answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:27 AM
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So what’s yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 12:15 AM
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What’s a “high n count” to the N Count Council?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:56 PM
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He always goes with the same comments, which makes it super easy to get him nuked. Dude isn’t the brightest troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:40 PM
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110% agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:21 PM
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Can’t be lonely when you have your female bang-slave chained in the basement lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:17 PM
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This is all nonsense. If she’s attractive, her n-count is meaningless. The biggest sorority hoes I went to college with are all now married or in relationships, despite getting literal trains run on them in the frat house.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:05 PM
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Oh hey cum guzzler guy! Bye cum guzzler guy!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:27 PM
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There’s a lot of own goals from guys fixated on n-counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:59 PM
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Find a girl who goes wild for you, it’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:57 PM
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You’re telling me if a 10/10 Stacy bumps into you at the bar, and grabs your bicep and says “wow, you must really workout!” in a flirty voice, you’re gonna feel “off put and uncomfortable”? This is why you guys stay permasingle.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:04 AM
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All those sexually frustrated dorks have to go somewhere, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 02:36 AM
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Such is life as a man 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:53 AM
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Lol I’ve never had a woman grope me at the bar and found it “creepy,” I’ve always enjoyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 01:41 AM
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The dudes sweating about n-count are worried about women having like 5 partners before them. If you don’t lock down a low-n girl when you’re young, you’re not going to when you’re in your late 30s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:53 AM
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There’s always bars and shows 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:48 AM
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Some guys gotta take what they can get if they care about n-count that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 12:47 AM
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I’ve been saying this forever. No creature that evolved the capacity for continuous, potentially multi-minute long orgasms has to do so because they evolved to enjoy sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:50 PM
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That’s why you gotta pack the secret weapon; a lil bag of whambino. She’ll head back to your place to chop lines every time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 10:33 PM
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Ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:36 PM
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Yes. I’m worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:16 PM
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I got the Desi part, I didn’t know that secret signifier though. I feel like there’s a lot of Indian incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:07 PM
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I’m sure you are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 09:06 PM
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Oh man, I gotta here an explanation for this one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:59 PM
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Yes really. If you’re not eating pussy in this day and age, you’re not getting a callback.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 08:58 PM
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The 28 yr old with the massive milkers, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:18 PM
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Lol for real! No woman has had a great time trying to ride a loofah who asks “Did you cum yet?” every 30 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:12 PM
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But you realize that’s a weird way to look at things, right? What you do in the bedroom has no bearing on your work performance. You also seem to be arguing for your “right” to rape women, which is also a weird, unhinged take.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 07:10 PM
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Why do you want to debate this, exactly? Haven’t you been married for like 20 years? Does your wife know you’re on here every week railing against sluts despite being “happily” married?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:58 PM
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If 80% of the men you encounter can’t eat pussy, that explains some of that male loneliness epidemic. That’s pitiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:53 PM
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The more I learn about groypers, the weirder and more nonsensical it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:50 PM
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It’s just such a bizarre way to view people. Like, you honestly feel like people can’t/dont separate their work and bedroom lives? You can’t treat someone who sucks your dick as an equal person?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:48 PM
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I will say overall women are probably lazier in bed, but when a woman is good, it’s really good IME. That said, yeah, if you’re all you’re bringing is a tiny, limp dick to the party, you’re gonna be seen as “worse” in bed than a woman who just has to lay there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:36 PM
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This is such a weird take. There’s like no way to read this and not think, “Oh, yeah, them being an incel makes sense” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:26 PM
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Kid sounds like a groyper accelerationist.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:21 PM
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Sounds like you should stay away from high N women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 06:19 PM
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A tl:dr, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:18 PM
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I dunno if I buy that. The guys that go home with women regularly from the bar in my social circle aren’t “instagram top men.” They’re not taking home Instagram models either, they’re taking home equally mid/fat looking women. If you’re talking solely very attractive women, yeah, maybe you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 02:16 PM
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Someone who is constantly condescending shows a lack of proper social development, that’s not how normal people interact though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:47 PM
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I legitimately reread your comment several times to see if I missed if you said anything about physical attraction, and you solely talked about social skills. Even the part he quoted mentions social skills, and he instead rambled off about “hotness.” It’s like you’re having two different conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 01:08 PM
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Cmon lady, you can’t advise men who’ve never been in a relationship to experiment with roleplay, that’s like talking about running a marathon before they can crawl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:45 PM
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Most of those studies are taken wildly out of context, or, they’re massive “correlation but not causation” studies. At the end of the day, just fuck who you want in peace.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:44 PM
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I saw that you quoted it, but it comes off like you didn’t read it. Nowhere did she mention anything about “hotness”, she spoke solely of social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 12:37 PM
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Sure he is; average/ugly people who frequent bars are still hooking up. They’re hooking up with equally average/ugly women though, they’re not pulling Stacie’s, if that’s what you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:42 AM
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The less likely you drink and socially interact, the less likely you are to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:34 AM
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That’s not what she said at all, did you even read what she said?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/25 11:32 AM
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I’ve always wondered this too. If you’re too cheap to pay for a couple cocktails and some tapas, you probably shouldn’t be dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 11:28 PM
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The only place conservative men struggle with dating is in very liberal urban areas. Otherwise they date just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 10:55 PM
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Like 70% of men are in some kind of relationship. What is “most men” here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:59 PM
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Which means she’s irrelevant in the long run. No man is dying to wife up a delusional 3 woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:56 PM
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3’s don’t get 10s in the real world. Hence why 3 women demanding 10s irl stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:53 PM
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It’s moreso the feeling that you worked and struggled and at the end you got what you wanted. Not that you get a thrill from killing women or whatever weird shit you’re fantasizing about here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 09:10 PM
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Lmao you have a fanciful imagination, I’ll give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 08:26 PM
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I have no idea lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:58 PM
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I said it’s a feeling similar to hunting, not “hurr durr I’m hunting women durrr duuuuuurrrrrr 🤤”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:17 PM
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🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 06:15 PM
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I’m sure there’s some element of truth to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:22 PM
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Both are currently intact.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:07 PM
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Ok, all we have to do now is to mutually agree on a neutral place for a bout.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:04 PM
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I don’t live in a mutual combat state and have never needed the cops to sanction a beef.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:03 PM
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If we’re meeting on neutral ground, sure. Let’s get with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:01 PM
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I don’t grapple 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 05:00 PM
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I’m sure they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:58 PM
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I’ve lost my fair share of fights the hard way. You wanna be humble, let’s box on neutral ground. No friends waiting after the ring, no cheap shots, so grappling. Just you and me and our fists, like the old days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:58 PM
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Sounds vaguely threatening, like some harm would befall me if I kick your ass and your friends don’t like it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:55 PM
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Lol and give you an advantage? Meet me on neutral ground, like an actual sanctioned fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:54 PM
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So why am I fighting on your turf? The fight should be on neutral ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:52 PM
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I don’t fight mma, I’m a kickboxer/boxer. Why would I agree to an mma fight?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:52 PM
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Houston sucks ass. All of Buffalo bayou smells like a fart. Nah, I want to fight you in neutral territory, Memphis Judo Jiu Jitsu, 7859 US-64, suite 102, Memphis, TN 38133
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:51 PM
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Ew?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:46 PM
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I’m sure. Where exactly am I supposed to fight you? Also, how we fighting? Boxing? Street fighting? Bare knuckle?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:42 PM
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You want to fight me over comments on Reddit? Where’s your gym at? It got a ring?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:39 PM
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No idea 🤷‍♂️ I have no memory of ever talking to this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:33 PM
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True. But I generally like to know why I’m fighting somebody. Every dude I’ve ever fought, I can think of why we were fighting. But I have no idea who the fuck you or why we have beef.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:33 PM
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If you’re flying me to fight you, at least do me the courtesy of refreshing my memory as to what got you so heated that you want to do that. Because, in all seriousness…I have no idea who you are or what you’re talking about 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:31 PM
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Generally, yes. But I don’t remember agreeing to fly you in to fight you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:16 PM
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LMFAO you got the wrong dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:16 PM
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Which woman has the better ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:05 PM
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Who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 04:04 PM
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“Fox is left wing propaganda” is really funny, thanks, I haven’t laughed that hard in awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:46 PM
1

I doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:39 PM
2

I’d bet money you’re an objectively normal looking dude with slight autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:33 PM
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I didn’t say anything. Look, if you’re heavily disfigured or severely disabled, yeah, romance might not be in your cards. But I know for a fact you’re neither or those things, and neither are most people commenting on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:18 PM
5

I mean, sure. I have to work harder than a guy who looks like he walked off the cover of a romance novel. That’s life. But that doesn’t mean you can’t work to create good opportunities for yourself. Everybody can.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:13 PM
1

Long live fat nattys!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:05 PM
2

LMAO I’m not a “10/10”, I just know how to talk to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:03 PM
7

That’s always made sense to me 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:02 PM
1

They can be. I’ve found more often than not a smile, a joke, and pleasant conversation get you pretty far if you’re not a dickhead about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 02:02 PM
1

Yeah, but they’re also union members so they make way more than minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:56 PM
2

Because being constantly approached and borderlines harassed in non-social spaces is exhausting. Having a friendly stranger approach you in a social setting and start a convo isn’t that. You’re comparing two different scenarios.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:53 PM
12

Honestly, people in relationships tend to give better advice on how to get into and keep a relationship than someone who’s never held a woman’s hand, let alone lived in close quarters with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:52 PM
5

…what? That’s…not how it works at all. The chase should be fun and flirty and light, not fucking Count Orlock trying to lure you back to his castle, good lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:47 PM
5

I was thinking this too. Every time I go out I’m having conversations with people, a lot of them women. I don’t understand how these guys fail so bad at basic personal interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:45 PM
6

If it gets to that point, you’ve seriously lost the plot. If she says a firm no, hunts over and on to the next one, what kind of idiot would keep going and get tasered?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:38 PM
-2

The chase is fun, simple as. If you’ve ever hunted, you know the same feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 01:19 PM
4

Communication is a two way street, ultimately. If she doesn’t open up about what she likes and dislikes, that’s on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:51 PM
8

Lack of communication, plain and simple. A little communication and being interested in sex as a joint activity instead of just your pleasure goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:50 PM
7

Again, the only way that’s gonna work is if you embody the traditional masculine gender roles of the provider and the protector; something a lot of men here complain about having to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:49 PM
5

Surprise surprise. TRP doesn’t even work for these idiots with money and status lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:38 PM
1

That only works if you’re good in bed. If you’re terrible or have a small dick, the exact opposite happens and none of her friends are gonna be curious to take a ride.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:26 PM
14

What’s “the rest”? There’s like 6 of us here who don’t mind being stereotypically masculine and being a provider. If she’s “#2 in the relationship”, isn’t that traditional gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:29 AM
14

Sure, but one of the biggest complaints of men here is having to embody those gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:17 AM
22

That seems like a one way ticket to divorce unless you’re willing to embody traditional gender roles, which seems to be an issue for many men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 12:11 AM
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How do you mean, doesn’t want to be treated as an equal? I know very few women who are subservient servants to their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:47 PM
3

I lied my first time, but when it came time to do the deed she called me out pretty quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:53 PM
0

I worked with two Kelsey’s once and we called them “Kelsey Boobs” and “Kelsey Butt” to differentiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:14 PM
1

Wrong guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 03:56 PM
13

I got no beef with autists, I wish them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:20 PM
2

Ladies love man cheeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:04 PM
17

This seems more like a dig at autistic men than anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:56 PM
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This sounds fake.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 11:14 AM
1

I’m not really interested in your off topic sealioning, either we address the topic or I’m just going to ignore you, your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:16 AM
1

Sure. Now that’s out of the way, are talking about average men again?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:10 AM
2

What does that have to do with AVERAGE men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 09:05 AM
9

It would be great if you could back that up with something beyond “trust me, bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:31 AM
6

I think that too. Like, when I was hooking up, I wasn’t looking to lock anybody down, I was just having fun for a night.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 04:19 AM
1

Man, my face is ugly as shit, I’m living proof that a couple drinks makes you look better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:45 AM
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It 100% helps, I dunno why struggling dudes on here don’t drinkmaxx
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:34 AM
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I’m the exact opposite, I would get a couple drinks in me and just rip the bandaid off and see how it goes. Rejection doesn’t sting as bad when you’re buzzed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:27 AM
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For sure. But at the same time I was like, “why though, you could literally bang any other dude at this party and you picked the fat, ugly guy” Body dysmorphia is a bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:16 AM
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I just felt like an ogre because she was so fucking hot, but she initiated so I guess she saw something I didn’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:08 AM
7

But there’s no data that says casual sex inflicts “emotional trauma” in a way that’s comparable to sexual assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 01:07 AM
12

Because having a random hookup isn’t the same as violent sexual trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 12:40 AM
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I would like to see some research that shows casual sex damages oxytocin receptors. To my knowledge the only thing that hampers pair bonding is severe sexual assault and trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:18 PM
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100%. I learned the hard way that spending my last $20 on beer when rent was due was a bad choice lol Definitely not something I would do today
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 11:07 PM
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That’s something I’ve learned over the years. People see you in a totally different light from how you see yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:18 PM
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Yes. It was legitimately confusing because we got along together and then all of a sudden we just didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 10:01 PM
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I feel this. I asked a girl I was hooking up with if I was the ugliest person she’s ever been with and she just looked confused and told me to shut up 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:59 PM
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I went dead broke, left law school, moved around to different states, worked a variety of jobs, did drugs, partied, hooked up with all kinds of women in different places. I learned how to manage my money, how to avoid toxic relationships, what actual compatibility is in a relationship, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:57 PM
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Yeah, I didn’t have that. My parents basically told me to sink or swim after college. That kind of forces you to grow up quick and get out of your comfort zone. You gotta live a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:55 PM
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I’m glad I took the risks I did in my 20s and fucked up a couple times. Learned a lot about myself and what I really wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 09:45 PM
3

You think most men are just walking around with a hard on for every woman they see? No, it’s always for the attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:27 PM
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Yet EVERY woman can give you an example of a man that’s made them feel that way. YOU don’t make women feel that way, and that’s ok. That’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:24 PM
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You’re right, just give up now and let natural selection do the right thing and sort it out. I like that scenario too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:23 PM
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This reads like a declaration of mental illness. Persecution fetishes and feeling like every member of a particular group is “out to get you” is deeply unhealthy thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:19 PM
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Man, you’re testy today. Sorry no woman has expresses visceral attraction to you. I hope you get to experience that someday.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:17 PM
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True, you just gotta live your life until you find a woman who does that to you. May never happen, but it might.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:16 PM
4

But that means all women have the capacity to experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:15 PM
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Running PR for women There it is, there’s the butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 08:11 PM
4

It bears repeating because people like OP keep making these doofy proclamations that it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:52 PM
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Lol women definitely experience immediate visceral attraction. Just because you’ve never experienced it, doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:43 PM
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It’s all just a mask for “Women should fuck me even if they don’t want to”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 06:10 PM
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I literally just explained it. If you can’t respond in good faith, just block me. I’m not really interested in dealing with you anymore if you’re just going to cry and whine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:30 PM
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Sounds like the friendzone in denial. I don’t think you’re stupid, I think that maybe you don’t want to admit that you read more heavily into things that weren’t actually there because it’s embarrassing. Fucking block me then. Don’t respond to my comments if you don’t want me to respond back, simple as.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:12 PM
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Because if the “political message” on the gun and bullets was in any way “leftist”, the administration would’ve already leaked it. That they’ve sat on and not released anything shows whatever the killer wrote doesn’t fit their “violent leftist” narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 01:43 PM
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Bruh, you already discredited yourself the minute you admitted you’ve never been in a relationship lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:17 AM
1

Why should someone listen to you, when you’ve demonstrated you don’t have any ability to pull a woman, signals or otherwise? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:12 AM
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But you’re not an authority. You have literally ZERO firsthand experience with a successful relationship, so why the fuck would anybody listen to you? You have no idea what you’re talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 04:02 AM
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No, I’ve never had a successful relationship That’s what I thought, shut the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:58 AM
1

…but that doesn’t follow because you’re a failure as a player, let alone being a manager. Have you ever had a successful relationship? Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:51 AM
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Why would you know more? That’s like arguing you know more about pro basketball than Michael Jordan because you got picked last in high school gym class lol. Everybody struggles. That’s the only way you learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:46 AM
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If she’s offering to slap it, I’m taking her up on the offer 🤷‍♂️ “Why no, I don’t believe that’s not a bbl, but if you insist…” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:22 AM
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Lmao so that’s no successful relationships? I’m shocked. And I’ve been rejected plenty of times. That’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:16 AM
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Lmao never had a panic attack talking to a woman, hence why my handle isn’t “rejected again.” When was your last successful relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:14 AM
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I don’t buy that, but ok. My experience roughly correlates with other successful daters, yet yours doesn’t. Curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:10 AM
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Dude, just because you personally suck at interacting with women doesn’t mean it’s some impossible, unlearnable skill. If there’s any “grey area”, escalate, and see what happens. If she responds well, keep going, if not, you were mistaken. It’s not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:04 AM
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Except it’s not Morse code, and with a little experience and practice, it’s not that hard to figure out a woman’s IOIs. Nobody is shaming anybody, but the above is a shrinking skill as men stick with online dating over in person engagement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:58 AM
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🙄🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:45 AM
1

Somewhere between 30-40.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:41 AM
1

Damn, I must’ve gotten all those relationships and hookups by accident lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 02:33 AM
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That’s the caveat, it’s assumed if there’s been no sexual chemistry after a couple weeks, you’re just friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:39 PM
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Most women like a guy who looks like he could defend them if necessary, not a dude who looks like he can’t handle a stiff wind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:09 PM
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The way I look at it, I got my own bills and stress and struggles, why the fuck should I give a shit that Donny Dipshit three houses over is a stay at home dad?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:49 PM
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As you age, yes. Looking more muscular and masculine will generally help you, it won’t hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:48 PM
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That’s basically what I did before “ogremaxxing” as a term existed. Worked pretty well for me, got several girlfriends and a wife out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 10:45 PM
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I don’t think “society” gives a shit who the “provider” is in your individual relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:35 PM
2

What answer were you expecting? Unless you give me a play by play, I have no idea if you’re being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:32 PM
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Obviously, results are gonna vary, that’s life. What generally works isn’t going to work 100% of the time with every woman. Most normally socially adjusted people figure that out. Sorry you haven’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:24 PM
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Probably laugh because farts are funny and now I have a great wedding story lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:17 PM
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Lol I’ve had multiple long term relationships and I’m currently in one. Just because you saw signs that weren’t there, doesn’t mean everybody else does.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 08:15 PM
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Which is fine, everybody was young and inexperienced once. I fumbled a cute girl in high school who asked around for my number and I just assumed she wanted to talk lol But if you’re still doing that as a grown ass man, like, cmon dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:53 PM
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Of course he didn’t, that would mean he’d have to actually defend his point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 05:30 PM
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I don’t but that, sorry. I think you were seeing signs that weren’t there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 04:34 PM
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Some dudes here would make a post like “Why can’t women be more clear?” about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 02:58 PM
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Lol I read it again. Now tell me where I said you deserve to die for lecturing people? I’ll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:49 PM
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When I go, you’ll never know 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:47 PM
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Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:43 PM
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The divorce rate hasn’t changed in 45 years. While marriage has decline, long term domestic cohabitation has skyrocketed, which is functionally indistinguishable from trad marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:34 PM
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Lmao there’s no relationship satisfaction survey from Pew that says, “Excuse me miss, are you cum gargling slut?” Lmao Again, I, and everyone else DON’T know your opinion and have no way of knowing if it constitutes what an “average” man is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:27 PM
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That’s pretty much what I’ve learned over the years 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:19 PM
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The breast one is spot on. If she’s leaning that close to you, that’s not by accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:18 PM
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Because people don’t take hints/no for an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:17 PM
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Maybe it’s cuz I’m getting older, but at my age, it’s easy enough to recognize the signs and if you’re not sure, just come out and ask. If she’s into it, go for it, if not, no big deal and on about your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:15 PM
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A classic female interest move.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:11 PM
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If you’re using an example of people having to ask Reddit how to interact with people, you’re already a lost cause 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:07 PM
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That’s part of learning to read the room. Women don’t do any of the things you listed to men they’re not interested in unless it’s family. If she’s consistently texting you, making plans and keeping them, is actively participating in conversation, always wants to hang out, etc, take the fucking hint, she likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 01:02 PM
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Which isn’t what relationship satisfaction surveys do, but ok. I explicitly said we dont know what your opinion of what an “average man” is or if it’s realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:55 PM
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So self reporting isn’t proof, but your own subjective standard is proof. Hmm, yes, very “scientific” and not at all culty lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:46 PM
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It’s hard to have any sympathy for Kirk, as his “brand” was lecturing the families of gun death victims that the deaths of their loved ones were a “small price to pay” for gun freedoms. It’s darkly ironic that he became part of that small price.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:37 PM
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Amongst my friend circle the only common theme amongst their male partners is height. They’re all taller than their spouses/gfs. Everything else from race to weight to occupation varies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:34 PM
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That’s not proof of anything, since your opinion of what constitutes an “average man” is inherently subjective. Honestly relationship saturation survey data also contradicts what you’re saying as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:31 PM
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I think this is generally true, there’s certain biological hard lines women are looking for (broad shoulders, height, etc), but the rest is going to vary. I’m a perfect example of my wife’s type, but I’m not the type of guy her friend who likes black men would go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:29 PM
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By the same token, you have no proof that the majority of marriages are “settling” and that “95%+” don’t desire their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 12:28 PM
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Or “guy who clearly works out but doesn’t say no to a beer.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/25 11:32 AM
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Legit, the force and rate at which he was bleeding is hard to stabilize, let alone fix. The only time I’ve hear of people surviving shit like that is with combat medics physically reaching into the wound and pinching the artery shut.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:07 PM
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That was a direct shot to his left carotid, assuming some miracle didn’t occur he bled out in a couple minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 08:04 PM
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autistic furry non-binary This automatically means that they’re dealing with an incredibly small subset of women that they’re dating, or they’re lying. No sane person would or should consult them about the average cis heterosexual dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:43 PM
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Which isn’t what we’re arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:26 PM
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Even in the US/Canada, I’d argue gender norms are the norm, you can’t judge the whole country by standards in Berkeley or Vancouver.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:11 PM
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Because it’s not based in overall reality? I’m sure in your little liberal bubble, yeah, that maybe works. But most women aren’t looking for a man who looks like he moonlights as a twink dancer in gay nightclubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 05:09 PM
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Are we really using exceptions to the rule here to deny reality? Cmon.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:50 PM
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I mean, cmon, that’s ridiculous. He’s setting up an average dude for failure. Most women dont want a man who’s weaker than they are and gives off gay bottom vibes, like get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:29 PM
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I think you’re being disingenuous because heterosexual women who want a femboy are a tiny minority of women, and it’s straight up gaslighting to claim otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:23 PM
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Exactly. We didn’t evolve as a sexually dimorphic species on accident. If nature intended human women to be attracted to soft, emotional androgynous femboys with soy muscle tone, our species would reflect that, yet we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:19 PM
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Sure. But most people don’t picture a woman when thinking about either profession, and both are still majority male professions by an incredibly dominant margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:16 PM
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But those archetypes predate settled society. You can see them in current hunter gatherer societies. Notice what you never see in a state of nature? A soft, emotional femboy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:14 PM
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Or, that’s their innate biological drives for what they’re actually attracted to in action. I’ve heard women complaining they want “a man, not a boy” way more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:08 PM
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I think it’s always safe to err on the side of masculinity because traditionally “masculine” dudes (boxers, wrestlers, construction workers, mma fighters, cops, firefighters, etc) generally don’t seem to have much trouble attracting opposite sex partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 04:04 PM
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Joining a frat was the biggest eye opener on “watch what they do instead of what they say” with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:20 PM
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100%. It comes off as weak and whiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 12:42 PM
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Women shouldn’t have any pity, period. Your dating problems are your own to figure out, it’s not up to a complete stranger to figure that out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/25 03:13 AM
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Either you live free or you don’t. People like being around free, unencumbered people.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 11:09 PM
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Because looks isn’t the most important thing. Looks is just one key part of what makes an attractive person, the others being personality, and the other being values/life goals. All three have to more or less align for a successful long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:34 PM
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Ah, just going with “trust me, bro” safe move lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:18 PM
2

Are you on the spectrum, by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 08:11 PM
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To my understanding, non-red pill people have always assumed that people were smart enough to understand that a looks threshold has to be met for initial attraction, and after that personality does the heavy lifting for long term compatibility. Looks like they thought wrong and you have to explicitly spell it out for the spectrum cases out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:46 PM
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If y’all vibe, whenever. First date, third date, whatever feels right.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 07:24 PM
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This is like saying we should be shocked that men only swipe right on women they find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:35 PM
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Gotta demonmaxx and take the occult monster pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 04:14 PM
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Low value men have always had a hard time. That’s just simple reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 03:53 PM
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I’ve fucked a fart out of girl on a first date, this is no biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:37 PM
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Am I wrong? A cursory glance says I’m not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 01:16 PM
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Are these 304s in the thread with us right now? Most of the comments that are whining are from the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:31 PM
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If the sex is good, somebody is catching feelings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:27 PM
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Are promiscuous, narcissistic 304’s clamoring to date you or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 12:23 PM
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It’s a case by case basis honestly, with differing levels of severity. Your case sounds mild, and then you have guys in their 40s who are HKVs, which is like worst case scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 02:18 AM
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A “bad boy” is just a dude who parties and does fun shit as opposed to being boring and strait laced. It has nothing to do with being a criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 12:58 AM
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I didn’t say you have to take them, just that it’s more likely as a late bloomer to end up with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:27 PM
1

Therein lies the rub.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:15 PM
1

Right, but a “late bloomer” realistically is going to have a hard time attracting younger women due to age and other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 09:02 PM
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Late bloomers have to take what they can get, since theyre already behind the 8ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:48 PM
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Lol unsolicited? There’s no qualifiers that are gonna make her like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 08:07 PM
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Depends on what you mean by “nice” honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:36 PM
2

I guess? There’s plenty of people out there who don’t like tattoos, so it’s not like you have to get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 12:09 PM
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I got em because I like getting them, and sometimes it’s just fun to get a tattoo in a basement of a house party. But that’s not everybodys style and that’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:56 AM
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Wait, you too!?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 11:17 AM
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She’s half white and half native (American Indian).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 02:13 AM
1

One of these days I’m hoping I suck hard enough and I get a lil milk for my crispix.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:09 AM
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She went as one for Halloween when Doja Cats “Bitch I’m a Cow” first broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 01:03 AM
2

Kinda true. When my girl is chewing me out all I can focus on is them big EE’s wobbling and bouncing under my chin.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 12:42 AM
2

Lol I bet you come back with a bunch of photos of normal ass looking people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 12:05 AM
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It would explain the fascination with rigid numerical structures in terms of attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:54 PM
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You generally don’t argue in good faith Oh, cmon now. Just because we don’t agree doesn’t mean I’m arguing with you in bad faith. Half of your advice is pretty solid. And yeah, I think the dude would rank higher than her. But he’s like a 6 and she’s a 4, so we’re still not talking real lookers here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:06 PM
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They grow big in my family lol, I have two female cousins my age that are both 6’0 flat footed
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 10:04 PM
1

My uncles range from 6’0-6’5. My dad’s sister is tall too, she’s like 5’11 or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:24 PM
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I think that’s a bit too much of a conspiracy theory for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:15 PM
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My family, particularly my dad’s family, are all naturally tall so for me it just seemed normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:11 PM
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5’7 isn’t bad though, and perfectly fine if you’re ethnic or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:03 PM
2

I don’t think either are very attractive, if we’re being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 09:01 PM
1

I’ve gotten compliments on my dick before, and hardly any on my height 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:47 PM
0

6’2” and right at 7”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 08:25 PM
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The former, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 07:31 PM
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She looks better than the VS models, so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:58 PM
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Get whatever work done you want. It’s your body, if you want a bbl or lip fillers or lengthened legs or hair plugs, go for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:48 PM
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Sydney Sweeney is “a little fat”?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:44 PM
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I get treated pretty well, she spoils me even when I don’t deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:33 PM
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You gotta make it look like you intentionally made yourself ugly, like get some scars and shit. Women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 05:24 PM
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That’s why you gotta try and bag a tall bitch if you’re short, even out your kids chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:48 PM
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Lol I’m not 6’3, that’s my brother. I’m the short one, I’m only 6’2.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:43 PM
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I see plenty of men shorter than me with women out and about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:27 PM
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Yes, but for my area my height isn’t out of the ordinary. Lots of German and Scandinavian genes here.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:21 PM
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Hard to say. Across the river where the university is, I’m sure the baby face pretty boy looks works better than where I live on the southside, where it’s working class white and Hispanic and dating preferences reflect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 04:16 PM
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Lol imagine that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:50 PM
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Young Hispanic dudes who have those doofy looking bowl cut haircuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:43 PM
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Sounds like a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 03:02 PM
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That’s what the 90 days are for, so you can see if you really want to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:56 PM
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I’m not sure how that’s relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:53 PM
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Given apps and meeting online, you don’t really have to “chase” anymore unless you want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:52 PM
2

This already exists, it’s called a K1 visa.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:50 PM
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Every time I go out it looks like they’re dating guys that look like me (burly, bearded, tattooed), skinny dudes with mustaches and baggy clothes, or, Edgars. Which makes sense, because that’s who lives in my area.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:38 PM
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No. But “making life uncomfortable” isn’t going to magically make women attracted to ugly, neurodivergent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:34 PM
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Same, damn patriarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:32 PM
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Off topic. We’re not discussing libertarianism and the ethics of taxation, we’re discussing the impossibility of women being “forced” to want unattractive men. I’m not interested in hearing your opinion on taxation and how you feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:26 PM
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What are we debating here? That you want to be a househusband but can’t because of the patriarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:22 PM
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That is off topic. We’re discussing how you can’t “make” women want unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:20 PM
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That sounds kinda dumb, honestly. Not saying you should be her manservant, but what woman doesn’t want some attention from a guy she’s interested in?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:10 PM
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Even by that metric, it fails. You can’t “libertarian” your way into making women want unattractive men. It’s simply not possible without coercion/rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:09 PM
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So, right there, one of your talking points is now a nonissue. This isn’t looking good already.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:08 PM
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I couldn’t give a shit who else you told. The fact that you trotted it out even once shows you know your argument is bogus because you had to resort to it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:08 PM
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For clarification, what does “simping” mean in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:06 PM
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What was removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:05 PM
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Typical libertarian housecat nonsense. Nobody takes anything by “force”, you consent to taxation and governance by being here, a social contract you’re free to exit at any time too. Again, the historical record is clear, the libertarian fantasy of self reliance is just that, a fantasy. It holds no weight in an adult, rational discussion on society or government.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:05 PM
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And now anyone who challenges your points is a “pick me” 🙄🤦‍♂️ Can you get any more lame?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:02 PM
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Is this really just a rant about you being short? Cmon bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:00 PM
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The first sentence is an opinion. What states are widows but not widowers tax exempt? Name them. The rest is a bunch of opinion as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:58 PM
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Ok, how?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:56 PM
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The historical record already shows that it fails. Social security was forced into creation because up until the 1930s, the system relied solely on “strong social bonds with reliable people” and that fell flat on its face in times of crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:55 PM
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The crazy thing is, we did things his way up until the Great Depression and we were way worse off in every HDI category, from life expectancy to overall poverty to infant mortality rates. Dude is literally arguing for a system that’s been tried and failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:54 PM
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I did. How is the average woman “over privileged” in her social life?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:52 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:50 PM
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Diagnosed ASPD Well, that certainly explains this hilariously barbaric world outlook lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:49 PM
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How are women “over privileged” in their personal lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:45 PM
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Everybody wants that. What’s the biggest complaint of men not getting some? That there’s no democratic control over the means of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:12 PM
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I dunno if she counts as a friend, but one of my favorite neighborhood bartenders is a former prostitute, and her stories from her days as a working girl are WILD lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:18 AM
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I’d share a menthol with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:50 AM
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Yup. It wasn’t in front of me either, I was a couple feet away at the bar getting another round. Homeboy thought she looked too good in her leggings I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:45 AM
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This might be the most based take you’ve made.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:40 AM
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The dude wasn’t 7 ft tall, but a dude grabbed my girls butt and she punched him before I could stop her 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 12:36 AM
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Mine says I look like a caveman naked, like a hairy animal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:35 PM
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I beg to differ. Desperation is one of those things you telegraph to other people without knowing it, and it kills your chances when you approach. You might as well wear fart cologne.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:18 PM
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Are you really married if you’ve never found your wife’s vibrator?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:42 PM
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But most successful people actually did take that advice, and used that as a stepping stone to further dating success. My best relationships and dating successes were when I was content with myself and not desperately trying to find a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:19 PM
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You’d have to actually date to be affected by TEA. I think you’re safe lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:12 PM
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Lol tea was for guys dating the same women and not telling girls they were married. Is the sky always falling with you, Chicken Little?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:05 PM
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Lol no, he isn’t, unless he doesn’t take no for an answer or touches inappropriately or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 09:53 PM
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The data probably is accurate for men struggling to get dates on dating apps which isn’t the same as “men who are dating.”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:20 PM
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But all those things women say are true because individual women have their own specific likes and dislikes. There’s no one “universal attraction code” for every woman out there. You’re never going to be everybodys type. With your girlfriend now, is the relationship purely sexual or do you plan on building a life together? Do you think y’all’s outlook on life, values, etc are compatible?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 12:17 PM
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Blue pill is just “not red pill.” Aka, normal, well adjusted people who date and exist just fine. It’s not some kind of defined “ideology.” When people say “personality is what matters,” it’s assumed you’ve already met the attraction level and you’re going for long term compatibility. I’d bet you already know this because you started your anecdote with “When I was…” which implies you’re not with those women anymore because you weren’t compatible beyond a one night stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:22 AM
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Yeah, I watched all kinds of movies. All the dudes were conventionally attractive. Your mom is always gonna call you “her handsome boy,” hence the saying “a face only a mother could love.” I learned early on that I didn’t have the looks to simply coast off of that and that I was going to have to learn how to talk to women if I wanted to date successfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:19 AM
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Statistically speaking, that’s true. Your height and looks are probably fine. I doubt you’re a misogynist, but I would bet you’re shy, indecisive, or exhibit some kind of other passive personality behavior that women find unattractive. That’s usually the case with people who struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:16 AM
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The “blue pill” doesn’t exist. It’s just normal people living like normal people. People interacted, dated, and fucked just fine before the red pill was even a concept, and still do. You’re tilting at windmills.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:14 AM
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Those are all correct, yes. But they need to be taken as a whole with overall baseline attraction. A car needs a starter, an alternator and a battery to work together in order to run properly. You’re not “lied to” because you focused on one part of the message and ignored the rest of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 11:00 AM
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I think that’s, at best, deflection and at worst a straight up lie. You weren’t lied to, you lied to yourself to try and rationalize your failures (“you” in the general sense, not you specifically).
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:57 AM
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Because they’ll just claim that they were nebulously “lied to” by “society/women/their mom/[insert excuse]”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:54 AM
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The worst. Had a dude like that back when I boxed, during sparring he would go 100% like an actual fight, almost took my head off. Tried talking with him and he would just give some bullshit about “I go hard” or some shit. I sparred with him a bit but after I told the coach I didn’t want to ever be paired with him again, and he didn’t last long after that because he tried the same shit with one of the coaches and got tuned up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 10:06 AM
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“Short king” = 5’11”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/25 03:01 AM
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To be clear, if she wasn’t into it, I would apologize and that was it. Sometimes you gotta make a move. That’s not necessarily “entitlement”, nor is it a crime. It’s just human interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 09:03 PM
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I don’t know, nor do I care. I care about both sides being judged by the same standard, not you picking and choosing which extremists represent the whole only when it’s convenient for your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:50 PM
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Modern feminism as the movement we know it today was born in 1848 You repeating being wrong doesn’t make you any less wrong. We’ve already established that the historical record doesn’t support your delusions here. Since you’ve repeatedly demonstrated you’re not interested in the truth, I’m leaving this here. There’s no point in arguing with someone who refuses to do so in good faith and will simply ignore objective reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:49 PM
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You’re not getting it; liberal ideas sprang from conservative people having children, not simply from liberals reproducing. Your kid isn’t guaranteed your politics, as any conservative parent can tell you about their college age kids. Which is what YOU aren’t getting; conservatives having more kids doesn’t guarantee more conservatives, as exposure to new ideas, new people, and new ways of seeing the world can’t be suppressed by conservative parents once the kid is on their own. Your last paragra…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:46 PM
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Sometimes you have to go for it. Absolutely, some kisses ended with “what the fuck are you doing!?” but more than enough ended with her kissing back to make it worth it. Upon reading his side of the story, he’s claiming she was giving nonverbal consent signals. Also, sometimes you can shut em up with a kiss. I do that with my girl now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:42 PM
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Which doesn’t matter; profoundly conservative times produced liberal ideas in the first place. A core human belief that I am the best master of myself. That idea cannot be hidden, it cannot be suppressed by force, it cannot be bargained away. The arc of history is clear on this; once people are used to freedoms they will not give them up and will die to keep them. Fascism is inherently unstable because eventually it runs out of people to eat and has to cannibalize its own.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:34 PM
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I mean, that’s life though. Everything carries some kind of risk. I didn’t verbally ask for consent every time either, if she was getting naked and unbuckling my belt, I took that as a pretty affirmative sign she was as into as I was. You gotta read the room, if she’s raring to go, keep going until she says stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:30 PM
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Again, Wollstonecraft’s writings predate Marx by almost a full 100 years, and she did much more than simply argue for better opportunities for women’s education. That’s not even touching on thinkers like Olympe de Gouges, whose “Declaration of the Rights of Woman and of the Female Citizen” also predates Marx by some 60 years. No offense, but you don’t seem like you know what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:26 PM
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I kinda get where he’s coming from, as I was also in a frat. It’s just a different kind of atmosphere that you have to experience to really get. So it might be a stretch to say he was out there SA’ing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:22 PM
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I mean, as told, that sounds pretty weird, but, nonverbal consent is also a thing 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:13 PM
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Except there’s no law that says “you must hire gay Nigerian women.” Every adoption of DEI outside of governmental equality was companies doing so of their own free will.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:11 PM
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But it’s not true, the founding intellectual light of feminism, Mary Wollstonecraft, predates Marx by almost a century.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:09 PM
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Nobody is running PR for women. They’re just as shallow as men. Whining about it isn’t going to change that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:08 PM
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No, it’s not. It’s conformity. What exactly should we be conforming to?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:05 PM
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I’ve never heard this story of Lift non-consensually fucking a feminist in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:04 PM
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Everybody wants “more” though, right? Nobody wants to settle for less, men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:04 PM
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Wait, what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 08:02 PM
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Feminism is just rebranded Marxism 🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:58 PM
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Because that’s the logical conclusion of your argument here. What is the opposite of diversity, equity and inclusion? Conformity, inequity, and exclusion. That’s what you’re arguing for, at least be honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:58 PM
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But feminism is a direct outgrowth of them. You cannot separate the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:50 PM
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You don’t understand, the heart behind the tits on option B are what I’m really interested in lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:46 PM
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🤦‍♂️ Feminism IS a western liberal value.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:45 PM
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I think that blue collar one is especially wrong. Women love rugged blue collar men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:42 PM
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Who is forcing you to “walk on eggshells”? Why does EVERY anti-DEI bigot always devolve into “why can’t I be a bigot without facing social consequences anymore!!?!?”?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:39 PM
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I have zero points of agreement with the Taliban Except for anti-feminism. IF YOURE AGAINST THE LARGEST VEHICLE FOR ACHIEVING EGALITARIANISM FOR WOMEN, YOURE NOT VERY “EGALITARIAN.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:38 PM
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But you’re not, and if you’re going to disingenuously claim what the median is, I can disingenuously claim your “median” is the Taliban who wants to execute women for showing an ankle in public. Again, turnabout is fair play.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:31 PM
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Except it’s not, despite how many white supremacist fever dream talking points you dredge up against it. But immutable characteristics can affect your ability to get a loan, it can affect your ability to get housing, it can affect hiring, which what DEI aims to correct given the gaps in the current law. It’s funny, the people who profess “colour blindness”, by what I’m sure is pure coincidence, view any nonwhite and nonmale job applicant as undeserving to be there. Funny how that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:30 PM
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You can’t really suppress liberal ideas though because those ideas are broadly popular. You’re never going to convince a majority that women need to be forced back into the kitchen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:27 PM
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Some feminists, just like some MRAs believe in the right to spousal rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:23 PM
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I don’t particularly know, or care. I can only go off of the overall antifeminist movement. And if you can judge the feminist movement by its worst elements, fair play dictates your views be judge accordingly to the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:22 PM
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DEI isn’t about “hiring without merit,” it’s about the establishment of protections so that you can’t be discriminated against for immutable characteristics and where gaps in the existing law failed to address that. Again, equality feels like oppression when you’re accustomed to privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:18 PM
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That’s convenient. “I’m not associated with the bad elements of my particular ideology, but the other side must absolutely be judged by the views of its most radical adherents” seems slightly hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:10 PM
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Tell me you don’t know what DEI is without telling me you don’t know what DEI is. Other groups getting equal treatment that you’ve always enjoyed doesn’t mean you’ve lost rights or are being mistreated.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:08 PM
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Some feminists, just like some radical MRAs believe in stripping women of the right to vote and making them property of their male family members again. We’re judging all movements by its fringe elements now?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:58 PM
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Congratulations, if you believe women and men should be treated equally and should both have equality of opportunity…congrats, you’re a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:52 PM
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I can’t speak for Europe as I don’t live there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:49 PM
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Which is exactly what someone who doesn’t believe in egalitarianism would think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:48 PM
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Like I said, feel free to emulate women if you think that’s a winning strategy. I can only offer advice that worked for me, and it wasn’t that 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:26 PM
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You have the freedom to be passive. I don’t recommend it because it’s not a very successful way to find a partner, but you’re certainly free to choose the hard road if that’s what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:24 PM
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Which is irrelevant to the broader “anti-feminist” movement as a whole also eschewing egalitarianism for women and most minorities. You can’t just separate the two because you want to hate feminists but don’t like being lumped in with the other people who hate feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:20 PM
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Ok, don’t approach and hopefully that works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:13 PM
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You don’t get decide what reality is or isn’t Take your own advice. You don’t get to just decide that anti-feminists aren’t also mostly anti-egalitarian because that makes you uncomfortable or makes your points look bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:12 PM
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Because it puts you in the best position for success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 06:02 PM
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In practice, the women I’ve snagged from another relationship tend to leave the same way, as you’ve already proven she’s open to being snatched away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:56 PM
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Except that’s not really the reality, is it? Most anti-feminists are also anti-egalitarian in many circumstances. You can’t really seperate the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:47 PM
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That’s the implication, right? That if men go conservative hard enough the feminism will leave your body lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:19 PM
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They already blocked me because they had no response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:18 PM
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Don’t tell the right wingers here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:08 PM
0

Of course there’s nuance. But it’s also a top tier Reddit moment to act like politics in the US is “leftist” in any way, shape or form when it’s not and never has been.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:07 PM
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These dumb dumbs still think they can violently intimidate their way into some pussy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:47 PM
3

Because that’s factually correct. Our most famous “left” politician, Bernie Sanders, has similar views to many mainstream right of center European political parties. If you’re on the extreme right end of the spectrum, yeah, I’m sure you think everyone to the left of Ghengis Khan is a “commie,” but that’s not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:46 PM
2

Exactly. I was just at a local hardcore show and plenty of younger people there were guys are in the pit. If anything it’s more popular than it has been in years with Turnstile and Drain getting popular mainstream attention. Edit: damn, the cum guzzler guy got nuked before I could respond lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:41 PM
3

Bill Clinton and his ilk aren’t leftists, and never were. They purposefully ran as Third Way centrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:39 PM
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I’m not sure I buy this. The left by and large has already won the culture war. Men becoming more conservative will only potentially slow forward progress, it can’t stop it at this point. That said…the hardcore and skate scene still exist. They didn’t disappear. I was slam dancing at a local hardcore benefit show two weeks ago, and there were plenty of younger people there not afraid to get wild and aggressive in the pit. So those avenues are still open, yet a certain segment of young men don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:38 PM
3

Get in shape, don’t be afraid to approach, and don’t put the pussy on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:39 PM
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Endorphins really do work wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:40 PM
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Working out, drinking with the boys, and spending time with my old lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:33 PM
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I dunno, I’ve yet to see someone who looks worse with more defined muscle tone.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:17 PM
5

The cats out of the bag, the only way you’re going to make women second class citizens is by force and that’s not very likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:13 PM
1

They will come after us History has shown that doesn’t turn out very well. Europeans can always bring back the camps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:52 PM
3

Birth rates are falling globally though. Africa’s birth rate is falling by 1.3% per year, WAY faster than projections showed in 2000.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:50 PM
12

Like I said in another comment, it’s the ol’ incel dickpocalypse extortion racket threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:19 AM
4

As soon as y’all figure out toilets, it’s OVER for the west lmfao. Fucking poo in the loo, you can’t make this shit up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:10 AM
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Sigh. India Bangladesh Sri Lanka Like, cmon dude. This was a basic google search away. Y’all can’t figure out how to shit in a toilet and you’re gonna beat the west in natural selection? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 05:05 AM
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India, the place with designated shitting streets and is still trying to teach its people to use toilets instead? Bangladesh, where nearly half the country constantly teeters on the edge of starvation? Sri Lanka, an island wracked with ethno-religious strife and violence? Nepal, which has like one city and is one of the poorest countries on earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:57 AM
5

Where in South Asia?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:50 AM
9

How? Birth rates are declining there too. Also, how are they going to “take on the west” when they’re ravaged by preventable diseases, malnutrition, poverty, unreliable energy grids, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:45 AM
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Already did. Maybe if you stop following me around like a little lost puppy, you’dve noticed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:40 AM
8

How is the second type of civilization winning? They’re all poor, backwards shitholes. Second, population isn’t super relevant either. Britain had a relatively small population relative to all the colonies it conquered, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:39 AM
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But it’s the exact opposite of what you’re claiming here. It’s society literally telling you to not be a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:36 AM
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How does that follow though? How does women dating men they find attractive lead to an incel extortion racket dickpocalypse?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:35 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:33 AM
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I’m not sure what the debate here is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:32 AM
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Again, y’all not being able to back up your claims isn’t my problem. Heaven forbid y’all actually meet the burden of proof for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:29 AM
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Not sure what that means, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:28 AM
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Isn’t this a demonstration of the exact opposite? It’s literally a guide on how being a nice guy DOESNT guarantee you relationship success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:27 AM
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That which is presented without evidence can be dismissed without evidence. If that irritates you, do better than “trust me, bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:26 AM
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Also because people straight up make shit up because they don’t want to admit they’re the reason for their failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:24 AM
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Something other than “trust me, bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 04:06 AM
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This gets told over and over, yet there’s never any actual instances of this occurring.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 03:54 AM
2

What’s “treating a woman like shit” entail here? Just because you don’t coddle women and stand your ground doesn’t make you an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:52 AM
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I rarely see most normal people lacking options for partners. Hence why 70% of the population is in some kind of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:22 AM
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They do? Says who?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:09 AM
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I worked in restaurants. Most are hardworking people. And, shocker, every customer who “doesn’t believe in tipping” is usually an obnoxious, needy, entitled asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:00 AM
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Take it easy there, Scrooge.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 01:20 AM
3

No, how you described relationships, not providership rituals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:16 PM
2

That’s how most relationships form though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:44 PM
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With STD and paternity tests, n-count is kind of useless, no? Either you care about virginity or you don’t. I feel like most people are in the latter category.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:07 PM
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Oh, I see. I guess a more accurate description would be “You might never get married then.” My mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:06 PM
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Again, no one said that the only two options are “single and married”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:04 PM
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I said that in response to the dude saying women should shut up about it. Personally, I think we’re both right; n-counts are mostly a nonissue to the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:03 PM
2

They don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:00 PM
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Except that “nice guy worker drone” of the past wasn’t afraid to approach women in public, wasn’t obsessed with his canthal tilt or his height, wasn’t friendless and always alone either. You can’t compare modern incels to the random Joe Schmoe of the past, who had a vibrant social life, had friends, and wasn’t afraid to cold approach at a bar or Led Zeppelin concert.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:44 PM
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You’ll get downvoted and argued with, but that’s the reality here. Either you adapt or you’ll get run over and left in the dust. Life isn’t going to wait for you to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:20 PM
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It’s not a threat of violence though. Natural selection is cold, impartial and nonbiased. Either you escape its razor or you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:18 PM
0

When has life ever been different though? The people struggling today would’ve struggled at most other points in history for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 09:17 PM
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She’s not wrong, honestly. And that’s tough to hear if you’re in that situation. But maybe people in that situation need tough love and a kick in the pants in the face of that reality 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:48 PM
1

You might be single for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:13 PM
2

File under: no shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:09 PM
5

Because there’s no way for them to know who the safest, lowest risk man is when starting to date someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:08 PM
2

Literally no one said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:04 PM
2

True, if you can skip dating and go right into a relationship, do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 08:03 PM
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An expensive dinner on the first date is a rookie, cringe move.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 05:59 PM
6

You gotta be able to walk the walk. You can’t sell her the moon and then not deliver when the time comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 03:49 PM
1

He didn’t, but that’s the attitude behind the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:56 PM
0

I mean, both of things are/can be true and aren’t mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:15 PM
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That’s literally the gist of your post. “[X] only works if you’re attractive” is almost verbatim to what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 11:17 AM
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Another “I’m mad women like attractive people” post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:37 AM
4

Sure, but accepting point 2, men could also just shut the fuck up about it, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:35 AM
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No, I don’t feel like jumping through hoops to satisfy some rando on Reddit. If you don’t believe me, tough tit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:17 AM
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Where’s the insult? I speak frankly and bluntly, a skill developed in jobsites where people prioritize being direct instead of tiptoeing around the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:16 AM
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I told Windmill she was full of shit a couple days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:15 AM
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Maybe he’s not? Maybe he does come off as a liberal weenie. It’s not “mean” to state the obvious that something is wrong with the equation here if he’s still a virgin at 29.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 01:14 AM
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Lmao women are wrong all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:59 AM
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The tone of his comment suggests the dude isn’t a virgin by choice 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:58 AM
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Well, yeah, sounds like you learned to not put the pussy on a pedestal. That doesn’t automatically make you an “asshole.” Being sarcastic, charismatic and flirty doesn’t inherently make you a scumbag. If your homie is doing that, putting the pussy on a pedestal, then that explains 29 years of dry dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 12:01 AM
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Because it sounds fishy. This guy is so nice, so funny, so great, that in 29 he hasn’t gotten a single whiff of pussy? Either he’s next level ugly, or, his personality ain’t that great. Let’s be real here. It’s almost impressive to make it 29 years without stumbling into a hookup at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:43 PM
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Then why are all the n-count fixated dudes on here constantly whining about being single? That doesn’t seem to square with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:41 PM
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If he’s a 29 yr old virgin I seriously doubt his personality is that great.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:37 PM
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Conservatives struggle to date in urban, liberal dominated areas. In rural areas, they do just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:24 PM
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It seems like kinda a moot point, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:23 PM
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How would you even begin to prove this assertion?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 11:11 PM
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Are women clamoring to date men with n-count preferences in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:54 PM
1

By that same token I think you’re too close minded to admit that human experiences are pretty universal and you’re using that as an excuse to let your biases (“ghetto blacks” for example) dictate how you interact with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 09:05 AM
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Why though? You can’t relate or you wont relate? Because those are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:34 AM
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El Cap and Halfdome are two of my favorite hikes on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:30 AM
3

No offense, that sounds more like your racial bias coming thru and not some examples of human interaction limited by education.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:29 AM
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It doesn’t though. Human interaction is human interaction, and the best communicators/interactions are all skilled at relating to any kind of person. The best professors I had in college were the ones who could easily break complicated things down into simple terms. Relating to people has nothing to do with education level.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:21 AM
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But it’s not relevant to finding a partner. If you can’t relate with the opposite sex, your education level means dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:16 AM
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Then don’t get married. Also, enjoy the freedom of being single. You do what you want, with who you want, whenever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:12 AM
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Which is, again, irrelevant to finding a partner. Plenty of eggheaded engineers making good money who struggle with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:08 AM
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People tend to want to settle down as they age. It’s a natural part of life. Being a stable guy is more conducive to long term relationship success though. You just have to work on being the most attractive version of yourself possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 02:07 AM
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Not at all, just saying that “being smarter” amounts to a hill of beans in terms of dating successfully. You’re right, women love a man that can make them laugh. It’s a skill I’d recommend most struggling men try and develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:53 AM
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This will be interesting to see as Gen Z ages. I’m not convinced that they’ll be different from previous generations and most gen z men will be partnered in/by their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:51 AM
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I’d bet dollars to donuts that there’s a sizeable portion of men struggling with women because they’re actually closeted.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:44 AM
2

Yeah, I’d run away after getting embarrassed like that too. Buh bye 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:42 AM
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How is that trolling? Plenty of dudes with nothing are partnered. If those men can do it, why can’t they? What good reasons would those be Generally speaking, I’ve found most of it is mental issues. It’s almost never their height or looks. And the guys in the kitchen can’t be that dumb, they have partners and the struggling dudes don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:38 AM
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But that example didn’t prove his point. I’m not sure why you’re having a hard time understanding that. The biggest case that comes to mind is Chris Watts who was allowed to plead for the return of his pregnant wife and kids on tv despite murdering all three and dumping them in an oil tank. Dude got tons of sympathy until the cops arrested him when his story began to fall apart.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:35 AM
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I used to work in the service industry. Guys way shorter than me in the kitchen also had gf’s and wives. That’s ultimately what it comes down to, most of the dudes whining about struggling are usually struggling for good reason and it’s not their height. Same with money. If a woman finds you attractive, your income is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:27 AM
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But you didn’t present any evidence. You posted a link with comments demonstrating the exact opposite of what you’re claiming happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:24 AM
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Why would a man dating a younger woman need to make a public sympathy statement? That’s not a crime.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:17 AM
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This didn’t prove anything as the majority of the comments are calling her out for being a shitty mom. You wanna try again, or…?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 01:00 AM
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Yeah, my forearms are crazy overdeveloped compared to my life pre-construction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:56 AM
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My girl likes mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:51 AM
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Personally I think my takes are pretty solid and reality based. Not everyone is going to like them and that’s ok. The trolling, sure. That’s the only way to respond to some of the bonkers shit that gets posted here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:50 AM
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I’m pleased I’m with her because we have great sexual chemistry and she’s hot, and we have similar life outlooks and goals. I didn’t ask or even think about her n-count when we started hooking up, I wanted to get her out of her clothes 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:43 AM
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I’m not sure what you consider a “high” n-count, so who knows. I mean, we’ve been together for years at this point. If she’s secretly daydreaming about past partners and planning to leave, she’s taking her sweet time lol So who would you believe here? Personal experience or your theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:37 AM
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Remembers him for what? I’m the largest partner she’s ever been with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:28 AM
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Weird, she’s never said anything about you, your dick must not have been memorable lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 12:03 AM
5

This sounds like a “trust me, bro” style rant. Do you have anything to back this up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 11:54 PM
2

I’ve picked women up in all sorts of places. Hell, I got a hookup off of an airplane one time. It’s all about if you vibe with someone and if you can build a connection. Generally speaking, yeah, stick to social gathering places. That’s where I did best.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:43 PM
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Cold approach works just fine, provided it’s in the right place/atmosphere. Yeah, if you’re sneaking up to women in the grocery store aisle, you’re probably in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:38 PM
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“Not so interested” =\= not interested at all. Hence why most women have had casual sex once or twice in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 09:32 PM
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I’ve seen women who murdered their kids get less stigma than men who dated a consenting woman just five years younger. No, you didn’t. Why you lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:59 PM
2

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 07:56 PM
3

Neither of those points are mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 03:07 PM
7

How many people do you think are actually clinically deformed midgets? Cmon now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:43 PM
6

How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:36 PM
2

Or….?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:35 PM
5

Mental illness 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:19 PM
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Depends on how dangerous it is. My buddy used to work in a steel forge and quit when he saw a guy decapitated on the job. His wife is fine with him taking a pay cut so that doesn’t happen to him, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:09 PM
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Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 09:08 PM
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There’s tons of poor dudes in relationships. Trailer parks are full of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:40 PM
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But that’s an active choice they’re making. There’s plenty of safe jobs out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:30 PM
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I did too. Grew up there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:02 PM
3

Gotta get the McDonald’s after clapping cheeks tho. Post nut McNuggets and a sweet tea hit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:01 PM
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Lol I’m not sliding into your DM’s you weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 08:00 PM
3

What’s the “grey zone”?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:51 PM
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There’s 5’5 Hispanic dudes cleaning up at the cumbia right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:34 PM
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Lol have you not read the sub rules? Get back to me after you do kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:34 PM
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It’s extremely common, particularly in the south and Midwest. I also see thin dudes with bigger women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:20 PM
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No, because that breaks sub rules and results in a ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 07:19 PM
1

Maybe it does maybe it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:58 PM
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Lmfao dudes are saying that all the time. Notice how every dude on here struggling with dating is some kind of “short deformed monster?”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:58 PM
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That’s against sub rules, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:28 PM
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I try to stay with observable reality. Observable reality doesn’t show that only jacked, 6’4 chads are getting women, or that a slightly recessed maxilla and negative canthal tilt means you’re genetic trash and doomed to live in the sewers.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:28 PM
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Lmao it’s one of the northernmost states
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:24 PM
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LAME
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:24 PM
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Oh, you were country wisco, not rust coast Wisco. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:18 PM
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Wait, you’re from Wisco? Didn’t see that coming.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:11 PM
1

Propose to your gf already bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:04 PM
1

Cankles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 06:04 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:56 PM
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Fucking seriously lol Like, bruh, you wouldn’t be Paul Bunyan if you had the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:50 PM
2

Men already have body positivity, so there’s no loss here. Plenty of fat slobs out there with more attractive spouses.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:49 PM
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But you don’t have to do that. I wasn’t working close to 60 hr weeks and got a gf. Who told you that you have to work like that? I’m in heavy construction and I’m not working those hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:24 PM
0

Again, I can’t stress this enough, if that’s your experience…you need to step away. It’s not healthy to view dating like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:19 PM
9

Ok, so what? There’s tons of stuff helping men in the current system.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:18 PM
8

Well, sure. Complaining isn’t illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:18 PM
11

Do what things? Who is forcing you to work a dangerous job to get a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 05:17 PM
1

What about them? Body positivity is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:46 PM
2

You can go out and meet people organically, you don’t have to use apps. And you’re not going to meet anyone who respects you acting like a spineless wimp.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:46 PM
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Nobody is forcing you to do any of that though. You’re more than free to not be treated like livestock.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:41 PM
3

So what’s stopping you from making it happen? Why do you have to be a spineless wimp?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:07 PM
2

The average guy is practically worthless as a partner Sounds like a good reason to not stay average, assuming that’s true (it’s not). I think you do have a bit of a point. You have to add to a woman’s life, you can’t just exist and expect her to want you in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:07 PM
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Why would men have a right to terminate a pregnancy? They can’t get pregnant. That makes zero sense. I never said dying, just flat and stagnant. Which is what the data shows. Lol I’m beginning to sense you’re an easy mark based on dumb statements like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:04 PM
3

Based on my girl and her friends reaction, dick pics mostly get laughed at and passed around.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:03 PM
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But you’re not forced to choose anything. You setting yourself in a false dichotomy is a problem of your own creation. So, again, if you’re looking for the culprit of the “power imbalance” in your relationships, look in the mirror. Have some self respect, for gods sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:54 PM
4

Because this isn’t a societal problem. It’s not societies job to protect you from getting into a relationship where some bitchy woman walks all over you. That’s ultimately on YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:52 PM
9

Then you have absolutely no leg to stand on here. You’ve made your bed, you can’t really complain about lying in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:51 PM
0

Dude. If that’s the case, take a break from dating and work on yourself for a bit. Dating at no point should be stressful and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:50 PM
3

I feel like you haven’t really done the reassessment part.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:49 PM
2

So what’s stopping you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:48 PM
1

That’s pure nonsense and no major societal stat backs that up. Women’s rights have declined in recent years, which is weird for a society that supposedly caters to them. Not really relevant because the overall analytics are flat. Fresh and Fit is also a moneymaking/entertainment scheme. Not true, the key ingredient is gullibility. That’s what makes a mark a mark.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:48 PM
9

These posts always read like self limiting whining. Stop being a pushover if you dislike being treated like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:32 PM
6

Your success is always going to be limited by your mindset. If you think you’re a spineless pushover, you’re gonna be treated like one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:31 PM
6

If dating is “miserable”, you need to take a break from it and reassess yourself as to why it’s so miserable for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:29 PM
6

So what? A man has the same amount of choice provided he isn’t some hapless dweeb. Hence why your relationship should be a partnership of equals, don’t live to just be someone’s doormat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:25 PM
1

Lmao gynocentric how? The majority of people who control political power, social power and economic power in the west are men. Even assuming this is true, RP content on YouTube and podcasts is rather flat overall. Not really relevant because grifters look for gullibility, not just audience size. 20 consistently gullible people consistently paying for your “coaching” is more lucrative than having 100 who “maybe/sorta” follow your content. The PUA community is notoriously infamous for this despite…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:23 PM
13

This is nonsense. Women only have whatever power you give them. If you don’t have an equal partnership, have some self respect and find a partner who treats you like an equal instead of a dancing monkey.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:14 PM
3

This kind of goes against your point. If it were truly popular and effective, men would be talking about it openly. If anything, I’ve found the exact opposite, RP dudes usually don’t shut up about being pilled. Web traffic in general doesn’t lie. You can track google analytics on RP sites and content and it’s pretty stagnant. Not sure that follows either. Grifters are a sign that what you’re pushing is inherently a scam, as grifters look for easy marks. Which is why I don’t think Red pill is dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 03:06 PM
2

Redpill is still niche like it’s always been, it simply has way more grifters than it used to thanks to declining media literacy rates. Honestly, it’s not even really “red” anymore, it’s just a bunch of blackpill dweebs commenting “brutal truke!” and “It’s over…” in their echo chambers. There’s minor league baseball teams with bigger subs and more activity than the RP sub right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:53 PM
5

I think that fear is definitely overblown and potentially made up then given that reality. And honestly, I don’t think what we’re living through is that unprecedented. Humans are an incredibly adaptable species.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:49 PM
0

Why would you say something so controversial, yet so brave?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:28 PM
7

What countries/civilizations have collapsed because women have knowledge and agency, historically?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:20 PM
3

This is a pretty strong correlation, as this has been observed in China and Latin America; the higher the literacy/education rate amongst women is, the lower most stats are concerning infant mortality, maternal mortality and an overall stabilization of the birth rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:15 PM
3

That’s my question too. At some point your chances of finding a low/no-n partner become pretty slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 01:54 PM
2

I said this on another thread, between homeboy and Chad both acting like this, why would any woman pick the uglier option?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:43 PM
1

Dude looks old and fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 12:27 PM
2

This seems extremely self limiting. You’re intentionally making things extremely hard on yourself because most people have had casual sex at least once in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 11:57 AM
1

⚡️🤖⚡️ [dial-up internet noises]
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 03:33 PM
3

Take a random look at the flairs of people struggling with dating here. You’ll notice a certain color pattern lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:54 PM
2

Oh, in that case, yes. Hope that helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:53 PM
1

Do I have to be?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:48 PM
2

Guys get girls by being themselves all the time though. If the RP actually worked, why are most of its adherents single and struggling with being single?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:36 PM
-3

Because it’s not supported by reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:52 PM
6

Women don’t have that right either, so constitutionally both sexes are held to the same standard. Any other made up issues you’d like to complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:40 PM
9

Men and women, constitutionally, have to support their children equally. I’m still not following where you think women don’t have to support their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:44 AM
7

Where in society are women not allowed to support their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:17 AM
3

Right. What reproductive right do men not have?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 04:53 AM
1

What rights do they not have here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:19 AM
20

Are you really comparing loss of bodily autonomy with you having to see an ugly video game character? Lmfao what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:19 AM
5

YOU chose to start a family with her. Your buyers remorse is YOUR problem, not the taxpayers. Again, if you’re dying of cancer file a financial exemption.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:09 AM
12

What “rights” have men lost at the hands of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:08 AM
2

Lol your allergy to personal responsibility isn’t relevant to my sexual activities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 02:03 AM
3

Again, I don’t know why I have to keep repeating this, the kid you willingly created has to be cared for. That’s just basic common sense, if you’re so financially destitute from cancer, apply for a financial exemption. You sound like a walking textbook case for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:57 AM
6

You’re a smart guy, what do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:52 AM
0

Lol wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:52 AM
5

I mean, I want to feel sorry for you but you chose to nut raw when she wasn’t on bc. Sucks to suck, the kid has to be cared for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:52 AM
5

Wah wah wah. You deadbeat dad simps are something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:45 AM
8

I was unaware that men can breastfeed. What if the dad can’t? Financial exemptions already exist, if you qualify. If you want to be a single father, then there’s no point in financial abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:42 AM
9

The mother is the primary caregiver, by nature, hence the assistance. The least the father can do is pitch in a bit to help pay to make sure his kid doesn’t starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:38 AM
14

What else do you call a dad who refuses to contribute to raising the kid he created?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:29 AM
5

Lol I’m currently in one. Guess what’s she’s never forced me to do? Bust in her raw when she’s not on bc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:28 AM
8

No, they don’t. No woman held a gun to your head and forced you to nut raw. You’re free to reproduce or not as any other person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:25 AM
9

No one said you did.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:24 AM
15

Because there’s no “united front” between “you have no control over your body” and “I want to be a deadbeat dad.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:22 AM
9

“Close to harmless” =\= free of harm. Pregnancy complications are real, and not particularly rare. That’s not even getting into the costs of raising a child. If you’re man enough to nut raw, you’re man enough to pay for the kid you created.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:21 AM
6

It’s simple reality. Which is why it’s not built into the current law, society wisely foresaw that every deadbeat asshole would simply apply for a “financial abortion” and then society is stuck footing the bill because they felt like nutting raw.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:20 AM
10

No, it’s not. You’re not being restricted from reproducing. Caring for a kid occurs after reproduction has already occurred.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:18 AM
10

That doesn’t logically follow, because if a woman has an abortion, there’s no kid to fuck over. Paper abortions fuck over an already existing kid, which is why the concept is dumb and wasn’t written into the current law, because a child that’s already been born has to be cared for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:17 AM
9

But your bodily autonomy isn’t being infringed on here. You’re not capable of carrying a child and giving birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:15 AM
10

But men don’t risk their bodies and their life to carry a child to term and to keep it alive after. There’s no equivalent here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:13 AM
7

Ideally. But in reality, shit happens. And that kid has to be cared for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:10 AM
3

I’m not sure I follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:07 AM
29

Straight up abuser attitudes. “Look, you know I love you but you made me hurt you.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 01:07 AM
7

And C) every deadbeat dad would immediately file for a paper abortion, fucking over potentially millions of kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:58 AM
40

Lol “The beatings will continue until morale improves”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 12:52 AM
2

I mean, it’s a shitty thing to do. Just have an open marriage/relationship if you like stepping out from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:47 PM
4

Ah yes, that’s why the most famous incel shooter manifesto of all time references “Chad” and “Stacy”, archetypes that are totally from the blue pill and not from Red pill sources lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:44 PM
1

No, I assume there’s like 5 straight ones out there, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:42 PM
1

I think of (typically) effeminate gay men who wear makeup and traditionally “feminine” clothing and hairstyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:41 PM
1

You think being friendly makes you a simp?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:40 PM
1

Of course. “Nice” should be the default.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:06 AM
1

Still seems low.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:05 AM
1

You want to be seen as an unfriendly asshole? Suit yourself 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 11:05 AM
1

Right, but it’ll make you more fun to be around for everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:19 AM
1

I think women like more than just 10% of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 10:19 AM
1

For men they like, sure. I’ve seen women do all sorts of dumb, degrading shit to please a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:37 AM
1

I mean, I can count the number of straight femboys I’ve met on one hand. She’s not wrong when 99% of femboys interactions irl are with the LGBT community.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:19 AM
1

But it does matter. If you’re “drowning in misfortune” why attach yourself to an anchor and make it worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:09 AM
3

I’m inclined to agree. A lot of guys look like shit because they have shitty style and aren’t in shape, and you fix those things, and all of a sudden they aren’t so ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:09 AM
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Yes, but it’s mostly self imposed. I’m not sure how you’re supposed to “fix” the problem of people choosing not to socially interact and form relationships/friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 09:03 AM
3

You think 1991 shirtless Mark Wahlberg would struggle to date because of his height today? I’m not sure I buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:59 AM
1

If you’re already ugly, why compound your misfortune and be an asshole too?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:57 AM
3

What empathy am I supposed to have here? You being super horny 24/7 isn’t really a problem I have empathy for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 08:43 AM
2

The one and only Sonny Barger.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:31 AM
4

<image> Being this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:23 AM
1

That wasn’t that bad. You made it sound like he dropped the bar on himself and couldn’t get up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:17 AM
7

Because I’ve read multiple posts by this dude. You think this post exists in a vacuum? As for his “pain,” figure it the fuck out like everyone else, or, rub one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:14 AM
11

“Have some empathy” is really just “touch my dick” in disguise, but they’re too chicken shit to openly say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:05 AM
1

Yes. Now, sweaty, where did you get “looks don’t matter” from that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 01:00 AM
4

I know what he did, because he didn’t want to be called out as entitled for all the “hurt” being inflicted upon him by women because they don’t respond to his constant, unending sexual gaze/need. Let’s be honest here, he’s implying that women are causing that hurt and that they are the ones who could rectify it, if only they “had empathy” for how bad he has it, I.e, fucking him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:58 AM
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Uh, yes it is sweety. YOU are making the claim, YOU prove it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:56 AM
6

For real, someone being a sexless dork is their own problem, not anybody else’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:23 AM
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You could, I dunno, show something from mainstream culture that shows that. But you won’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/25 12:18 AM
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Oh no, heaven forbid you back up your claim. You’re not going to engage further because you’re lying, plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:59 PM
0

It’s implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:58 PM
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“Bombarded with lies” by whom? Name names. Who is telling you this lie that “looks don’t matter”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:10 PM
6

Well, demanding women do something for you sexually against their will is pretty entitled, to put it mildly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:04 PM
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Who is telling you “looks don’t matter”? That’s the single biggest talking point on the inkwell side of things and I’ve never once seen someone say that. Also, I’d bet dollars to donuts your “physical flaws” are wildly overstated and your problem is likely mental.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 10:55 PM
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You’re not obligated to do anything. If that’s not your style or you’re too poor…don’t do that. I mean, if a girl at a bar says something mean to you, so what? What are the odds you’ll even see her again? That’s a completely different environment from a family friend trying to ask out your sister and getting roasted.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 07:50 PM
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There is a slight risk of that, sure. Hence why you buy a round outright the first time and then see if they reciprocate or if they’re just milking you for drinks. Frankly, the lack of success in not approaching automatically makes the risk of a girl being mean to you worth it, honestly. You can’t just sit in the corner and hope something happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:15 PM
2

Yes, but in the sense that a hookup and a relationship both start as building some kind of personal connection. So there’s no set “line” or “script” or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 02:13 PM
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Another day, another weird revenge fantasy about older women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 11:02 AM
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If that’s what you got from my comment, then you need more help than I could possibly offer you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:54 AM
6

If my mans is that autistic, he shouldn’t be let outside without a handler.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:53 AM
2

I thought for sure Sandy Hook would’ve been the catalyst for some kind of change/action and…nothing happened. So it’s just kind of numbing at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:51 AM
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Who was the most popular dude in your high school with women? What did his jawline look like? How did everyone else pick up on this, but you needed to “be told”?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:47 AM
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I guess if you’re not feeling like talking to people…don’t be friendly and talk to people I guess 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:43 AM
2

It’s honestly hard to give a shit anymore. Nothing is going to be done about it, and we’ll just sleepwalk though another one in a couple weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:33 AM
2

In layman’s terms, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:23 AM
1

Welcome to construction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:16 AM
2

I have. Offer to buy a shot, talk the group, see who you vibe with most, concentrate on her but don’t look too desperate. Be flirty in general, playful teasing, shit like that. Just be relaxed and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:10 AM
14

You shouldn’t have to be told it. Like, were you in a coma during middle and high school? Are you an alien from another planet? Did you just escape from a cult bunker somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:07 AM
-1

Har har. You can do that in situations that don’t require money too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 12:06 AM
4

It costs nothing to be nice and friendly. A woman is way more receptive to letting you buy her and her friend a round if you’re warm and smiling as opposed to scowling and nervously fidgeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:57 PM
6

Because people like being around warm, friendly people. We’re a social species.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:52 PM
1

I mean, that sucks, but you could always just log off and not be bothered with the opinion of people you’re never going to meet on the internet. Just a thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:34 PM
1

Who is “condemning” incels and what are they being “condemned” to?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:15 PM
3

Not the sole reason, but a big factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:13 PM
1

Yeah, about that. All those “30ies Kpop fans” are all in relationships with traditionally masculine men. The biggest KPop fan I know is married to a retired marine who bow hunts and is into bodybuilding, and take a wild guess as to how “effeminately androgynous” he looks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:11 PM
6

But you can look to history at population collapses, like Ireland after the potato famine and Western Europe after the Black Death to show that society doesn’t just “collapse” because people stop having gaggles of kids. Population’s generally just stabilize around a new baseline.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 10:05 PM
3

Sounds like delayed adolescence in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:20 PM
5

Michael Cera has a whole ass wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 08:42 PM
1

I would be interested to see what that actually looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:41 PM
0

I feel if you were that easy to sway from your traditional role as a man, you were probably in big trouble to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:40 PM
3

Because biology always wins. Women can say whatever they want, hundreds of thousands of years of evolutionary pressures are going to win out in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 07:11 PM
7

Who is denying that here? I’ve literally never seen that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:10 PM
0

This has to be dependent on location, because that’s not the case in the Midwest or the South. In NYC or LA, sure, maybe. In Chicago, looking like that is way to get you ass beat and your car stolen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 04:08 PM
5

I’ve seen younger girls go for that. Which is cool of you’re like 16. But I’ve yet to see anyone over the age of 21 go for effeminate, androgynous looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 03:07 PM
3

Well, yeah; masculine men are what human female biology is primed to want as a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 02:45 PM
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This is confusing to read, because on paper given what you’ve stated, you should be able to find a woman at your looksmatch level. The only things I could think of preventing that are either you’re extremely picky or you have some kind of personality issue. That said, powerlifters/strongmen always do have the hottest gfs and wives. It’s kinda crazy how that works out.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 12:54 PM
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Fat women are probably what your looks level can get. Sounds like you need accept your fate and take the obese pill and fatgirlmaxx.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:52 AM
9

The overwhelming majority of people don’t have enough money to worry about this, realistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 11:51 AM
1

When has sexual access been evenly distributed amongst all men? When was that a thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/25 09:37 AM
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She said nice tits too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:54 PM
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Great set of cans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:16 PM
23

Lmao the fuck is this shit? Laws to stop dudes from dating women that are too attractive from other countries? Great bait.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:51 PM
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Hell yeah, I can skin a buck and run a trot line, a country boy can survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 10:15 PM
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Big butts, big tits, tall and fiery personalities. Tattoos have been a constant over the last three serious partners I’ve had too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:36 PM
2

That’s my view on RP these days. It’s a far cry from “hit the gym, improve your style, and fuck club bitches on the weekends.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:56 PM
4

For real. If your dating life is a constant slog and struggle, take a break and reevaluate what’s going wrong. Don’t keep pounding your head against the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:55 PM
2

The bitterness traps you in a feedback loop of failure and even more bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 08:53 PM
1

Yeah, very weird because that’s not what I said at all. And why make my comment history public so little weirdos can go trolling through it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:51 PM
2

I didn’t “avoid the point”: EVERYONE selects for attractiveness first from humans down to sea horses. Like I said, your big, deep point is essentially “did you know that the sky is blue? I am very smort.”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 04:50 PM
1

Because your point is dumb; no shit people like the more attractive option. Next you’re going to argue that water is wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 03:21 PM
1

But that was the claim. Unless you don’t know what the words “unattractive good man” mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:58 PM
2

Pandering to whom? I swear y’all have the biggest persecution complexes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:57 PM
1

Points for what? I’m just calling it like I see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 02:33 PM
3

I’m simply going off of posters here 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:33 PM
3

All you have to do is go by the posters here; the ones who struggle the most at dating and are self admittedly the least attractive are all, to a T, some shade of misogynist. Which is fine, but it kinda torpedoes the point of “I’m a Nice Guy™️, I’m only single cuz I’m ugly!” and then they’ll go and make a post about how you should intentionally treat women like shit or demand traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:32 PM
3

I get your point. I’m flat out disagreeing that ugly men are more virtuous and nicer than attractive men as a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:30 PM
2

But the “unattractive good man” usually isn’t that good and has views functionally identical to the attractive misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:05 PM
1

I’d argue you ideally need both to succeed long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:04 PM
18

If a woman is choosing between two misogynist options, why would she go with the uglier one? That’s basic common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 11:09 AM
3

Are those a majority of marriages? We’ll be here even longer if we pull up stories of marriages that aren’t violent or abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 09:55 AM
2

What exactly am I supposed to argue here? What you want to believe despite OP admitting otherwise? Use your words.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 01:09 AM
3

I was using the general you, not you specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:38 AM
3

Blah blah blah. There’s nothing to argue here, as OP already admitted his theory doesn’t work in practice. Logically, the “argument” is over. You can insult me all you want, but it just makes you look like a child throwing a tantrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:37 AM
8

Everybody is shallow. Nobody fucks people they don’t find attractive for charity. If you’re that undesirable, sorry, sucks to suck I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/25 12:31 AM
9

If you’re already ugly, being an asshole on top of it is only going to hurt your chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:55 PM
2

Ok, what specific part of her platform was “woke”? Name something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:42 PM
3

Literally nothing in Kamala or the overall democratic platform in 2024 was “woke” though, particularly compared to Biden four years earlier. Unless you think her being a woman and nonwhite automatically made the campaign “woke.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 11:29 PM
4

You want some cheese to go with all that whine? Calling out bogus theories that OP himself admits don’t work in practice isn’t “bullying.” Now, is you finished or is you done?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:42 PM
5

Right, you perma-single dorks always have it figured out, and the people who’ve been successfully partnered for years have no idea about anything. 🙄🤦‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:25 PM
5

By your own admission your theory is bogus then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:16 PM
12

If you got the same result, why would you think your theory holds any water? Also, what makes you an expert here if you can’t keep a girlfriend period, let alone by treating her bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 10:12 PM
3

The way you worded that makes it sound like you currently don’t have a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:56 PM
4

Because your anecdote sounds like it was made up without any actual experience to back it up. When was the last time you had a girlfriend? Did you treat her like shit and is she still around?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:49 PM
19

Never had a woman to begin with Yeah, your post gives off big “I’m talking out of my ass” vibes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:44 PM
29

Weird, because usually the relationships that don’t last are because one of the partners doesn’t treat the other well. All the guys I know that took your advice and “treat her as if she’s there to serve you” are all divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 09:33 PM
2

A drunk girl in the bar said “You look thick all over, I like it.” Another woman commented my tattoos around the same time, but we were both talking tattoos and comparing local artists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 08:56 PM
1

Couple weeks ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:59 PM
4

But those aren’t mutually exclusive. Some unsuccessful men are misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 07:25 PM
45

Justice for what? Like if you do enough good women should reward you by spreading their legs? Lmao cmon dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:36 PM
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Have fun!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/25 03:12 PM
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Don’t be a hater, mosh!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 04:14 AM
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At a hardcore show, men and women moshing together like the gender war doesn’t exist. Just get fucked up incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 02:52 AM
1

Source: “trust me, bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:07 AM
1

Relationship statistics state otherwise. Inb4 “tHeyRe SeTtLiNg 🥴”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:56 AM
1

Which is usually someone on your looks level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:47 AM
5

🪞
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:08 AM
4

So, yes lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:05 AM
6

Is that what you tell yourself? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 02:02 AM
10

If the cheeks are clappin and wobblin’, my eyes are respectfully following.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:59 AM
12

Well, that counts you out then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 01:53 AM
10

That means by his logic he’s also raising someone else’s kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:04 AM
1

If I’m such an NPC, fuck off and stop responding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:24 PM
9

Whose kids am I raising?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:23 PM
1

Then looks like he’s stuck taking out the trash. Call me an NPC all you want, but it looks like I was right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:14 PM
1

My jeans stayed baggy this whole time, I’m fashionable again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:13 PM
1

It had its time, I’m glad alt/goth mommy fashion has taken its place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:10 PM
1

Every one of your responses gets weaker and weaker. Again, what does he value more? An a happy wife? Or bucking gender roles? Same with you. To quote E40, “Everybody got choices.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:09 PM
18

Ah yes, the men struggling to talk to women and lose their virginity are all of a sudden going to start banging them and being deadbeat dads lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:05 PM
0

This is an absurdly dumb take. The birth rate is declining because it’s simultaneously too expensive to have kids and there’s isn’t a need for large broods of kids anymore given the scope of where our economy is headed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:04 PM
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I’m not sure I totally agree with the former, but I 100% agree with warm approach being your best bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:01 PM
1

Wow, for something you’re really fired up about, you know shockingly little about it. Can’t say I’m surprised, the most ignorant are usually the loudest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 11:00 PM
1

So what? Does he want a happy wife or does he not want to follow traditional gender roles? Pick which one you find more important to you, “bro.”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:59 PM
7

Either way you get what you want; you’ll think you’ll have a low n woman and there’s no way for you to know otherwise if she doesn’t tell you 🤷‍♂️ That said, I think it would be pretty funny for you to find the woman of your dreams, settle down, raise a family, have a great life and then learn on her deathbed that she slept with 10 guys lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:43 PM
2

It’s incredibly realistic, you whiners just don’t want to risk any repercussions. This has nothing to do with women and everything to do with y’all being weak excuses for men. If you’re so sick of “traditional gender roles,” nut up and do your own fucking thing instead of whining like a pussy that society won’t wipe your ass for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:40 PM
0

Ok, don’t marry one. Seems like an easy problem to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:22 PM
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Who is forcing you to be asexual?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:19 PM
1

Exemptions from the law already exists, hence why there’s been like 3 cases in the last 30 years of underage boys having to pay child support. So unless you can think of something better than the current exemptions, I’m all ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 05:16 PM
1

Well, again, since the law has been like that for over a century, good luck changing it. I wish you nothing but luck in your endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:36 PM
13

I don’t think this is true at all. I always had better success and less confusion if I was straightforward with my intentions. Adult women generally know that no man is just randomly trying to be their friend if they come up to them at a bar or club show, they know what you want. So why pretend?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:26 PM
1

In the US, slightly, but a decline nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:14 PM
4

Society doesn’t force women to do that, and they’re free to not do that if they do choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:09 PM
2

I mean, yeah? People have the right to say that even if you disagree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:08 PM
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All you need is one, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:58 AM
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Unironically my girl lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:57 AM
1

Ok, do that. But then you simply go to jail for failure to pay child support when they investigate you. So, again, good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:56 AM
1

You can’t refuse to pay child support. The state will simply garnish your wages. So good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:50 AM
3

Well, boo fucking hoo. All choices have consequences. So either you want all the things you listed, or, you don’t want to fulfill your traditional gender role. Pick which one you’d rather have.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:48 AM
2

Ugh, don’t make me use the meme. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:42 AM
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If a woman likes you/is interested in you, you’ll know.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:32 AM
2

A, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:31 AM
2

See, right there. Humanity has survived all kinds of shit before. Genetic evidence shows we survived a near extinction event where our species was reduced to around 2000 breeding individuals, and we survived that. But we can’t survive a “dating crisis” where 70% of the population is in some kind of relationship? Stop playing chicken little.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:16 AM
2

But he would finally be free from those awful, oppressive traditional gender roles. That’s a fair trade. I don’t think you can put a price on freedom like that and it would be more than worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:13 AM
3

But there’s no “societal effect” if you choose to not define your traditional gender roles. You guys act like you have a gun to your head forcing you to do things you don’t want, when that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:11 AM
2

Relationship satisfaction surveys. Pew does one every year. The divorce rate hasn’t changed in over 40 years. I don’t know what you consider a “crazy cheating rate.” Dead bedrooms affect something like 10-13% of relationships, nowhere near a majority. You sound like you have confirmation bias where you’re solely focusing on the bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:08 AM
1

The child still has to be cared for. Period. No retreat, surrender, or compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:04 AM
1

Ok. So don’t take it out either and announce you’re not going to do so anymore because you don’t believe in traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:03 AM
2

It’s not on the ride, the overall obesity rate declined for the first time in decades in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 10:01 AM
5

You’re also a being with free will in charge of your own destiny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 09:59 AM
1

Wait, what? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:48 AM
18

You don’t have to uphold any gender roles you don’t want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:46 AM
2

I’m a millenial. I’ve also seen Gen Z men approach in bars, and shockingly, not a single one has caught a sexual assault charge for saying hello. Your generation is irrelevant as to whether you have people skills or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:29 AM
2

This is, fortunately, complete nonsense. You aren’t going to get “me too’d” because you say hello to a woman in a bar or offer to buy her a drink. That kind of thinking is almost exclusively an online opinion, which is why I hesitate to cede that the internet and real life are indistinguishable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 01:15 AM
9

But I thought you guys will literally die if you don’t have sex. You can’t just fuck a femboy and “move on”?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:54 AM
1

I’d agree as a boxer myself. But people go by what “looks” tough as opposed to who’s actually tough and can handle their shit in a fight. Staying strong as you age is the most important thing, I’m glad I’m staying as physically active as I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:48 AM
2

I think women are more geared towards masculine, “looks functionally tough” men as opposed to “he flexes a lot in the mirror” type guys, at least where I’m at. My girl likes tattoos, facial hair, etc, so I fit was she was looking for. Solid maxes on your lifts though, that’s nothing to slouch at.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 12:11 AM
1

I’m number 3, for sure. Working manual labor in the elements makes you look “rough” for lack of a better word.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:52 PM
3

Loneliness =\= lack of sex. If you’re lonely, get a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:51 PM
15

Because the lack of sex didn’t do that, YOU did that. Take some responsibility for being a shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:40 PM
2

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:33 PM
3

I understand your question. You simply don’t like my answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:33 PM
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Ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:33 PM
14

You chose to be a shitty person though, how is that not on you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:32 PM
9

No, it won’t. Otherwise monks and religious official who take vows of celibacy would experience more health issues than the general population, yet they don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:17 PM
16

I mean, of course you can. Some of my oldest friends are women. My life would be poorer without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:14 PM
5

No, it’s a want. No lack of sex of any length is going to kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:12 PM
9

Or “you’re Larping” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:05 PM
4

That’s life though. You can’t hide in your room your entire life because you’re afraid things might get difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:04 PM
3

Which is an issue in and of itself. A lot of people won’t leave what’s safe and comfortable because they’re convinced they couldn’t bear anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:57 PM
2

I don’t get why they’re not just upfront about wanting a low n-count woman to make it easy on themselves. They act like they’re forced to date high n women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:53 PM
10

What? If you think the gym is “suffering”, you have pretty sheltered, cake life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:51 PM
2

So what? No relationship is “fireworks and passion” 24/7, that’s just not reality. Even the most passionate couples have fights, struggles, pain, heartbreak, etc. That’s the human experience. Anyone who tells you it’s always “fireworks and passion” is selling you a fairytale.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:45 PM
8

Right. Trying something new isn’t going to kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:43 PM
5

I’m not sure what you’re asking, nowhere in my comment did I talk about harming people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:34 PM
4

Relationship satisfaction surveys show that most people in them are happy. Not saying unhappy relationships don’t exist, but there’s no evidence suggest anything close to a majority of relationships are unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:31 PM
10

I only offer what worked for me, I can’t guarantee it’ll work for anybody else, but, it might and it never hurts to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:16 PM
5

But you understand that being a kissless virgin at 30 is weird, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:10 PM
28

I’ve found on here that it doesn’t matter. People will either accuse you of “larping”, being a “pick me” or say you’re privileged if your lived experiences contradicts their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:59 PM
2

I’ve noticed that correlation myself. All the fat dudes from my high school and college days are all the heaviest drinkers/still heavily drinking. The few smokers that I know all look about 10 yrs older than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:57 PM
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My girl stays farting through those CK cotton thongs lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:36 PM
5

I think social media has forced people to be more “on” at all times. My girl for example won’t leave the house without makeup or a cute outfit on, because she’s terrified of someone seeing her in her “natural” state. But I think it’s more that anti-aging cosmetic procedures are way more common. I was shocked to find out who’s been getting Botox and taking a GLP-1 shot, it’s insanely common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:35 PM
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This lady thongs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:27 PM
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Just started building a new data center, another company already built an entire new power plant and substation right next door to meet the energy demand. The amount of conduit pipelines in the foundation were insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:27 PM
6

Lol I love your commitment to absolutely diabolical levels of cartoonish evil
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:14 PM
2

I think the cheapness of plastic surgery, Botox, fillers, ozempic is certainly part of it. The decline of smoking and better skincare is another. People are drinking way less. I also think people are more health conscious in general in terms of diet and exercise, hence why the obesity rate seems to be finally trending downward for the first time in decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:11 PM
6

Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:07 PM
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Yup, even better if it’s one of your shirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:03 PM
13

Ok, stop giving women attention and see if that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 08:00 PM
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Yup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:48 PM
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Yup, we got Tony Two Fingers because he skillsawed off a couple fingertips off like 20 years back lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:38 PM
14

I think people are aging much more gracefully than previously for a variety of reasons, because people in my 30s are by and large as attractive as they were in my 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:37 PM
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Yup, everybody has a nickname lol I work with a dude named “Stinknuts” because he doesn’t hardly shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:32 PM
28

Exactly. These same lonely dudes that are terrified of being “settled” for will probably eventually settle for someone at their looks level.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:27 PM
12

Sure, in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:26 PM
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That’s why I love the trades, you can swear in a professional setting and no one gives a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:18 PM
87

Despite the protestations from this sub, this is already happening irl. There’s a reason most people are partnered by or slightly after 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 07:16 PM
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Lol that shit was ass. Women choosing the bear and then a bunch of whiny dudes demonstrating immediately why they chose the bear in the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:42 PM
1

Lol that shit was ass. Women choosing the bear and then a bunch of whiny dudes demonstrating immediately why they chose the bear in the response.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 04:41 PM
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I dunno about insecure. Vain, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:56 PM
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My contention that most “incels” are just young dudes going through a dry spell and age out of it. Case in point, that one dude on here who claimed he was destined to be forever alone, went to college, got a big titty Indian gf and lost his virginity, and hasn’t posted here since.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:08 PM
5

Why is this so scarily accurate? Lol That describes 95% of my friend circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:00 PM
1

About 15 seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:17 PM
2

I’m basing that off of irl interactions as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 01:11 PM
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Yes Takes practice to learn this, but also generally yes. Sort of. Be an active participant, don’t hog the convo or just sit there like a mute. Yes, if she consents. Lmao, no. This is a loser, Hail Mary move that looks desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:47 PM
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It’s like going to the most crowded lake to fish and wonder why none of the fish are biting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:43 PM
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/thread
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:35 PM
1

I haven’t criticized anyone for having an n-count preference. I fully support you having whatever dumb preferences you want, same with women who look like a turd emoji thinking they deserve a “6/6/6” man. Ive merely stated the fact that that preference is rooted in insecurity, which oddly makes guys with that preference really angry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:34 PM
1

Again, the child has to be cared for. The law makes no distinction in how the child was conceived, only that a child has been born and now has to be supported. That said, there already are exemptions for this which most, if not all, underage male rape victims qualify for. So are you done with your phony virtue signaling tantrum, or is there more?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 12:31 PM
6

But it’s the exact opposite. Most of the ranting every day is coming from the men because they’re upset they can’t get what they want, not the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:11 AM
4

Why would anybody give something up in exchange with someone they’re not interested in in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:05 AM
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Or autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 11:02 AM
1

The child still has to be cared for regardless of how it was conceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 10:53 AM
2

Adoption and sperm donors aren’t even remotely related to this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:04 PM
1

He’s actually in love with Jada and she doesn’t give a fuck about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:50 PM
1

He’s crashing out publicly and having a big time midlife crisis. Shits sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:42 PM
2

But you realize why that’s not an option, right? EVERY deadbeat dad would immediately file for that, which would be a logistical nightmare going on a case by case basis in an already bogged down system.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:31 PM
2

In the system we have right now we already know that’s incredibly rare, and there are already mechanisms to allow to legally opt out of child support if you so choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:29 PM
1

But it’s not collective punishment. It’s a system that’s rife for abuse which is why it’s never been implemented.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:25 PM
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Yes, I’ve slept with a couple either once or as a FWB situation when we were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:22 PM
2

That just sounds like you trying to rationalize “my feels over reals”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:08 PM
1

Yeah, that totally wouldn’t be abused by deadbeat dads, I can’t imagine why that went nowhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 09:00 PM
1

If the Democrats get their shit together they’re a shoe-in in 28’, but, never underestimate the DNC’s ability to pull defeat from the jaws of victory.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 08:58 PM
2

There’s more than liberal and MAGA men in urban areas. But it’s not an “internet fairytale” but a documented problem. This is a straight up internet fairytale. Otherwise MAGAs wouldn’t be struggling to find dates. This is straight up fever dream nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:57 PM
1

That’s not saying much.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:55 PM
3

That which is presented without evidence can be dismissed without evidence 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:55 PM
1

They don’t have to, he’s not broadly popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:30 PM
2

tl:dr, no sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:27 PM
2

What “reproductive rights” do men need?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:26 PM
1

Nobody likes Vance, he’s fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 07:25 PM
2

Oh, no. Women like sex too much to go 4B.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:11 PM
4

But that doesn’t explain how that’s “bad” for men. More open, egalitarian societies tend to be more stable and prosperous, which benefits society as a whole. Why should men “get praise” for deciding to treat women as equals? Lol you don’t get to pay yourself on the back for doing the bare minimum. Feel free to post a counter study that conclusively proves that women in the workforce has lowered wages. Odd that you haven’t produced it. I’m sure it totally won’t be a “correlation isn’t causation” …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:04 PM
1

Oh, yeah, I wasn’t even considering that aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 06:00 PM
1

Not likely unless it’s a personal trainer-client relationship that gets inappropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:57 PM
1

I don’t think women are going to go 4B, they’re just going to completely avoid undesirable men. You’re already seeing this with MAGA men struggling to date in urban areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:56 PM
5

Any time, gramps.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:39 PM
2

No, I’m good. Thank you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:37 PM
3

How was giving women the right to vote “bad” for men? Give an actual example. Your economic conjecture holds no water; studies have consistently shown that women in the workforce at worst had no impact on wages, and best case raises wages for all workers. Your last two paragraphs are just moving the goalposts because you can’t back up your points.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:36 PM
4

But the data doesn’t support that, as doubling the workforce ups productivity and boosts aggregate demand, which in turn boosts wages. You’re simply talking out of your ass here, and I think you know that. Your engineering point was already disregarded in the last comment, so it’s not worth addressing here. Still waiting on where all these men are voting against their best interests to benefit women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:23 PM
2

Sure, knock yourself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:19 PM
5

Offering to carry the heavier bags of groceries in for my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:17 PM
4

Anything that is voted to give women more representation in the workplace harms men? How? Literally zero economic data supports this assertion. In fact, the entire concept of aggregate demand actively disproves it. Your point about engineering programs isn’t something you vote on, so it’s not remotely applicable. You don’t have any actual examples, do you? Odd how that was predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:15 PM
-3

tl;dr Sum it up if you want a proper response.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 05:12 PM
6

Can you give an example of men voting against their own interests to solely benefit women? I can’t really think of anything like that as you’ve described it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:56 PM
2

I’ve always wondered where “liking and being nice to women” stops and “benevolent sexism” begins.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:54 PM
1

People vote against their own interests all the time. To borrow everyone’s favorite evil historical group, there’s a ton of people who supported the Nazis for various reasons thinking that they were safe because they were “the good ones.” As long as the jackboot is kicking somebody they hate, they’ll willingly give up their rights and protections.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:47 PM
3

The CCP doesn’t force people You’ve just outed yourself as either dangerously naive, or profoundly stupid. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:41 PM
1

Are you his boyfriend or something? Why are your panties in such a twist over shit that doesn’t concern you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:36 PM
7

At no point were men ever “guaranteed” a wife in the west. That was never a thing. also society couldn’t do anything if 50% of young men are single and not dating Lmao, the CCP has shown you can make all kinds of single, not dating dudes do things for society if you point a loaded gun at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:22 PM
1

Who said anything about insanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:19 PM
3

If history is any indication, they’ll start getting preyed on and eliminated. We’ve historically had numerous mechanisms to rid society of undesirable men in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:12 PM
-4

I think you’re being extremely naive if you think there’s not a huge overlap between misogyny and inceldom. The stereotype exists for a reason. I wouldn’t call the “average non-incel male demographic” particularly misogynist or feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:05 PM
10

Right, but actively voting to harm women goes beyond simply “not caring what they think.” And you completely sidestepped how that is ultimately a losing strategy for men who adopt that strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:02 PM
11

I think it doesn’t help with most women, sure. Certain guys above a certain looks threshold can get away with it, but outside of conservative women, not a lot of women in the aggregate are looking to actively date men who hate them as a gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:53 PM
13

Your OP is literally “Women can’t complain when men don’t care about them.” Did you forget you wrote that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:49 PM
2

Lol chin hair is surprisingly normal though. What a weird thing to get hung up over.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:43 PM
13

Voting against women’s interest is going a bit farther than simply “not caring for women.” Ironically, doing that isn’t going to make women suddenly come to their senses, it’s simply going to cause them to be more male avoidant. Bitter, low value men who support harming women via lawfare are simply digging their own graves romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:41 PM
4

70% is the number of men in relationships. The amount of men who were sexually actively only once last year wasn’t anywhere close to a majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:24 PM
1

All three are a factor ime.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:18 PM
4

Like 90% of men were sexually actively last year. So you’re talking about between 10-13% of the male population who’s completely inept with the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:15 PM
0

Based on…what? Young men are overwhelmingly choosing to be single because they can sleep around easier than in any other previous generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:10 PM
1

How are the vast majority of average people paired up with other average people then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:06 PM
51

Generally speaking, romantic invisibility has nothing to do with morals and more to do with lack of looks, confidence, or being neurotypical.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 03:00 PM
2

Maybe, I think Chinas dating demographics are still fucked from the “One child only” policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:19 PM
4

For the most part, we don’t see your flaws the way you see them. Hip dips, a lil tummy pooch, slight sag to your breasts is all irrelevant in the long run if a guy finds you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:07 PM
1

It’s not that unbelievable. My wife and one of my exes are friends and do shit together. Edit: damn, homie hated this comment so much he straight blocked like a lil bitch lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:01 PM
1

China is arguably doing worse than we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:59 PM
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Sick death metal band, very brutal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:42 PM
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If “women” are dating 13 and 16 yr olds…that’s called pedophilia.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:39 PM
1

But you can’t solely attribute the height increase to that. Some of it is undoubtedly sexual selection in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:34 PM
1

Yes there is; the average height today is clearly taller than it was in our grandparents generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:27 PM
2

It’s been mostly courteous. My wife and one of my exes were friends before I was with either and they’re still on relatively good terms. But there’s other exes she definitely doesn’t like, so it’s kind of a case by case situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:26 PM
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I’m not sure what you’re asking. If you’re asking if I think porn usage can have bad side effects, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:22 PM
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It’s hard to call anything a decline when your timeline is like 6 years. You’d need multi decades of study to discern a long term trend, as there’s no indication that these boys won’t grow out of it. From personal experience, I believed some incredibly dumb and heinous things when I was that age, that now look incredibly stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:18 PM
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In what way? Like porn addiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:16 PM
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I’m shocked that 10 and 13 yr old boys have shitty, edgy opinions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:13 PM
2

Why not? I was unaware that you had to be single to be here, have you informed all the other partnered up posters about this new rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:11 PM
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No, it doesn’t. Correlation doesn’t mean causation. When done safely it contains very low risk. If that still frightens you…don’t have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:10 PM
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Well, for the most part casual sex doesn’t harm you or others if performed safety, so, not really relevant to the convo. But thanks for sharing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:07 PM
2

Your fortunes are your own to make. I’ve found in life that overwhelmingly, male or female, the person most responsible for their dating failures is staring them back in the mirror. Again, you lacking the personal responsibility to accept that fact doesn’t make everyone who calls that out a “pick me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:06 PM
5

I’ve gotten into it with several of the women here, notably Lillith and Windmill. But, be real, the overwhelming majority of ass takes on this sub are coming from men. Calling out shitty, badly made arguments doesn’t make you a “pick me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:58 PM
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Where did I claim that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:51 PM
1

Lol I’m already picked dude. Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:47 PM
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Everybody should have a “hoe phase” and get it out of your system.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:41 PM
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Because sex is fun and you’re biologically primed to want to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:40 PM
0

Yes, going off of biological imperatives brought on by evolution and several decades of satisfaction surveys on partner attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:38 PM
5

Romes “decadent culture” had little to do with its decline, as it was even as if not more culturally decadent during its height and ascent than it was by the time Christianity ruled the empire. Rome collapsed for the same reason most empires collapsed; chaotic, ineffective leadership, a lack of stake in society from the public, and calcification of wealth at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 11:10 AM
3

The point is that the empire didn’t magically disappear because Elagabalus maybe thought he was a woman, as a lot of contemporary resources dispute this characterization as propaganda spread by his successor Severus Alexander to justify Severus assassinating Elagabalus.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:52 AM
1

All kinds of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:39 AM
6

I’m not sure what this means.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:39 AM
2

one Roman Emperor, a child on top of that, was dressing himself as a woman and a prostitute. Presumably you’re referring to Elagabalus, the western Roman Empire survived his reign and flourished for another several hundred years, while the Eastern Roman Empire endured for another thousand after his reign.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:38 AM
0

Presumably short, ugly, socially stunted men. In the aggregate though, that’s impossible to determine on such a short timeline.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:33 AM
4

This is the ultimate harsh truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:32 AM
4

You absolutely can. When has nature ever remained static and unchanged? The answer is never.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:31 AM
2

Isn’t the current dating scene simply rewarding those who can survive the current environment? The environment isn’t static.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:30 AM
5

I don’t think man need the sources So, “trust me, bro.” Very scientific lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:28 AM
8

Why is it always below average men making this argument? Making eggheaded pleas of “Um, ackshually…” isn’t going to convince women to find ugly, socially stunted losers attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 10:26 AM
2

Yeah, it was pretty awkward the next day when she showed up with my moms cousin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:28 AM
2

Second cousins, but close enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 04:07 AM
13

the average guy can’t win I wish y’all would stop describing below average losers as “the average man.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:59 AM
-1

This almost happened with my brother and one of our blood cousins when we had a big family reunion down in Kentucky. Luckily for all involved the hookup never happened lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 02:42 AM
1

What was uncivil about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 01:26 AM
2

It is. Just be direct and upfront. Chances are, she’s not going to lie to you, she’s simply going to get mad and end the convo. Which is good for you! One more high n floozy filtered out of your pool!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/25 12:01 AM
2

Then it’s a win win. If she lies, you never know and you live happily ever after. If she tells the truth, you tell her to fuck off and you find your perfect virgin bangmaid and live happily ever after.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:50 PM
1

Women don’t like good looking financially stable men now? Did the voices in your head tell you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:48 PM
2

If you’re that concerned about it, ask from the get go and tell her you’re looking for a virgin tradwife or whatever, and the high n women will weed themselves out of your life for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:45 PM
1

You choosing a low n woman is entirely within your control. There is no law that says you have to date a high n woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:38 PM
2

That too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:33 PM
3

No one said it isn’t valid, just a dumb thing to fixate on when avoiding high n women is entirely within your control
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:31 PM
1

Because it is. Sorry they don’t like hearing that, but it is what it is, just avoid high n count women if it bothers you so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:26 PM
1

A drunk girl said I was “thick all over” in the bar a couple weeks back if that counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 10:08 PM
2

Because nobody gives a shit about n count anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:23 PM
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If I took her on a date, it means I found her attractive, so the crush thing is a bonus and sign to escalate and try and get physical.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:21 PM
47

Bro, just be horny. You don’t have to write a novel every time to justify your hard on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 09:18 PM
1

Bruh, you commented on a comment not even addressed to you a day later. Lol keep seething.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 07:08 PM
2

Somebody’s butthurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 06:19 PM
1

This is part of my reluctance to have kids. They become the priority and not a lot of people are ready to handle that reality and how it affects things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:07 PM
-1

“Everything bad that happens is always someone else’s fault and I’m a perfect angel that’s never, ever made a bad decision in their life.” • the poor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:13 PM
0

80% of manosphere issues and debates would be instantly resolved with therapy and accountability, instead of blaming women for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 03:07 PM
1

With great responsibility comes great gut lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:49 PM
-1

Yeah, there’s no big push for polygamy anywhere in society, in any major developed nation. You’re arguing against a problem that doesn’t exist. Please move your lips to my ass, as you can kindly kiss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:48 PM
2

Gay dudes don’t count, it’s a completely different culture and their hookup rules don’t remotely resemble the straights.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:28 PM
1

That’s my site superintendent right there lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:21 PM
1

It’s weird seeing all the sorority girls I watched dance on tables with their tops off or doing body shots in their underwear transition into cozy domestic life and start having kids and being “a mom.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:15 PM
1

Yeah, my girl is a fucking nutcase.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:13 PM
3

The sluttiest girls I knew in college probably had a body count half of what dudes claimed they did. Higher than average, but I bet very few were actually triple digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:12 PM
-2

Ok, don’t engage in polygamy, problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:56 PM
1

Being a late bloomer puts you behind the 8ball, no doubt. But your “baggage” is your own to deal with, it’s not an issue someone you’re trying to date needs to concern themselves with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:54 PM
1

Kinda glad sororities didn’t do this when I was in college lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:08 PM
2

You’re still talking about a tiny minority of the overall population.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:22 PM
5

Is there some big push to legalize polygyny in western societies that I missed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 11:57 AM
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Medium ugly is in right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:52 AM
0

Not the only thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:50 AM
1

I’m 6’2”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 02:29 AM
2

A repeat customer is still a customer 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:55 AM
3

Theoretically. In practice, dudes who are really good lays are having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:46 AM
1

https://preview.redd.it/w423wp91eajf1.jpeg?width=549&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=283b978ae8b2c6cbaf5277e57d3f056111e3250b Your headass logic here lmao 🫵🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:45 AM
1

Yeah, the multiple posts and comments going back years on this sub are all made up lol We’re reaching copium levels that shouldn’t even be possible 🫵🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:42 AM
1

This sub lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:38 AM
0

Does it have to be all? What’s an acceptable amount for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:30 AM
4

Lol I’ve said that before. They usually just laugh and tell you to shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:27 AM
-3

No. Yet lonely men are demanding women do that for them. Funny how that doesn’t work when the shoe is on the other foot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:25 AM
5

I mean, I get it. I’ve been hooked on a good lay who was a shitty person, and women aren’t immune to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 01:07 AM
6

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 12:42 AM
9

Indeed, though you don’t have to be hot, you just have to be good in bed. Hell, I’m living proof of that, as I’ve gotten more than my fair share of second and third chances, and I’m no looker.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:59 PM
3

I get it, I’ve been in bad relationships too rationalizing shitty behavior. It hurts to hear that outside opinion, but sometimes you need it, like “Damn, I AM tripping, I shouldn’t be dealing with this, it’s not healthy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 11:11 PM
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