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| 9 | I simply cannot fucking do it. Beating AA isn't happening for me.This is it right here. Approach people you aren't trying to fuck. Flirt with people you aren't trying to fuck. After some time you will realize you are approaching and flirting with women you are interested in. People keep saying this stuff because it works. | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 02:06 AM |
| 4 | Is feeling bad after awkward flirt normal thing?I often see things to the effect of "it's not what you say to women but how you say it". Ponder on that. | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Do women cover their chest when you're around?I have noticed this as well. I am not always the best at eye contact and my hearing sucks so sometimes my eyes drift down. I have actually caught myself looking at cleavage even though I was not focusing on that, if that makes any sense. I suspect sometimes it's girls being aware of their sexuality and being modest, even subconsciously. I don't take it as a sign one way or the other. Would love to hear a female perspective on this. | /r/seduction | 24/01/15 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Step 1: Don't Be ObliviousOP is oblivious. | /r/seduction | 09/01/15 12:05 AM |
| 17 | One thing I've never quite understood: Girls who take forever to text back, but still do.Can't speak for that poster but you really don't need to tuck every single girl in your network. In fact, having a few female friends can be a gateway to tons of other women. I'm leaving the typo in. Tuck you. | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 03:23 PM |
| 1 | I've learned here a couple of maneuvers to approach and seduce a girl, which got me wondering. what are some tactics and techniques girls use on us?Usually you see that happen more with Asian women. Specifically in Tokyo. | /r/seduction | 07/12/14 02:12 PM |
| 5 | How to behave after her non respondingI'm in this exact scenario with a girl I recently met online. We exchanged some great texts for about two weeks. Got her number. Called her and had a nice convo. I texted again a few days later and haven't heard back. She is a total knockout and seems very cool so far. I am very much into her. But I will wait a day or so, and prob call to say hi. If I don't hear back then it's on to the next. Under no circumstance would I ever be like "whyd you wait so long to get back to me"? I had a girl bust … | /r/seduction | 17/11/14 09:21 PM |
| 48 | How to behave after her non respondingDo not bring it up. What is the best possible outcome of you bringing that up? That's right, there is none. She could still be interested. If she is going to hang out with you and her friend again that's a very good sign. | /r/seduction | 17/11/14 02:06 PM |
| 3 | For guys that approach consistently, have you ever felt inferior?You're projecting on to her a bit. But try this: talk to her without the intent if asking her out. Find out if she really is a party girl. Find out if you two are compatible in any real way. As you travel down this winding road of life, you will find many pretty women you have nothing in common with. Dating them will be very unpleasant. She might be one of these women. Only one way to know for sure. Also, work on your inner game. Find some other hobbies. I love me some video games but women don'… | /r/seduction | 07/11/14 01:12 PM |
| 50 | Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else?Roll up there with like 5 friends and don't tell her beforehand. Something about that kind of cracks me up. | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 12:32 PM |
| 25 | To tell them they're cute or not.Stegosaurus is the best dinosaur. No wait, Triceratops! Shit! | /r/seduction | 03/06/14 05:21 AM |
| 5 | Going to be interning in Manhattan next month. I'm 20 years old, from the northwest, and don't know anyone. Anyone know the best places to meet new people?Join some meet ups and for the love of god get on tinder. Tinder gets some hate on here but in NYC it's fantastic. So easy to talk to and meet women. NYU is in the Washington square area so check out places over there. | /r/seduction | 25/05/14 01:26 AM |
| 16 | What should I do? No social life and feeling quite low now...You're not happy. You haven't been happy for a while. You are doing the same thing every day. See the problem here? Do something different. Do you want to date a girl who wakes up, goes to work, goes home, then sits in front of a computer until it's time to go to bed? Change it up. Mix it up. Do something different I will just say I have been where you are. Many have, which is why this subreddit exists. It gets better but only if you make it better. | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 07:44 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Was I in the wrong?35 year old here. You should expect to pay 100% of the bill the first two dates or so. Always. With so few exceptions it's not worth getting into. Some of you are stuck on the notion of asking her to pay because she's not used to that and it's some type of classic pua mind freak. That may work at a bar where you meet a girl and she expects you to buy her a drink. And even that can be a random coin flip. Women want a man to be a man. Pay for your shit. If you've gone on five dates and she's stopp… | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 07:28 PM |
| 1 | I care too much.Best advice. | /r/seduction | 04/04/14 03:10 PM |
| 3 | A girl said one sentence to me tonight which changed my perspective:Fortune favors the bold. Also: Be bold and mighty forces will come to your aid. Both very true. | /r/seduction | 15/03/14 05:52 PM |
| 3 | What to say when she says "I have a boyfriend"... My friend stubert pulled this one out the other day and I thought it was pretty goodThere was post here the other day. A girl called some guy she was dating for a week her "boyfriend". Asking more questions about this "boyfriend" is totally fair play in my opinion. Continuing to aggressively flirt with a girl who lives with the guy she's dated for two years is scummy. Doing the same with a girl who just started seeing someone or who is in a weird place with a long distance bf is a different story. | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 10:08 PM |
| 1 | [Relationship?] What do you do when she expresses a loss of confidence?This is a type of "love language". Some women value this type of proactiveness more than others. Google "love language" and see what I mean. It's a fairly popular book/theory. | /r/seduction | 15/02/14 01:18 PM |
| 12 | How to tell if a girl likes youMaybe if you're already on a date? Or hit it off with some girl early in the night and need to escalate things along. Or maybe you've already asked her out and she hemmed and hawed/see's you as a friend/etc. This is a method of positioning yourself . | /r/seduction | 03/01/14 10:11 PM |
| 1 | I completely cut off girls that don't like me. Is that a problem?This is the correct answer. | /r/seduction | 16/12/13 11:29 PM |
| 3 | FR: Tinder Date. First time meet up. F close.You are fairly drunk and at a bar. You meet some girl there at 2am. You talk for 3-4 minutes. You get her number for whatever reason you go home alone. Tinder is pretty damn close to picking things up with that girl the next day or whatever. You don't have much to go own but her name, a fun fact or two if you can remember, and a vague idea about what her face and body look like. If it's not for you that's fine. But it's a decent ego booster to match up with attractive women and a fun diversion t… | /r/seduction | 12/12/13 09:01 PM |
| 35 | FR: Tinder Date. First time meet up. F close.It's a matter of perspective. Treat it like flirting practice or how to escalate over text practice. It's also really no different then number closing at a bar at 2am. You barely know the person and she may or may not be that attractive. Lighten up and have some fun out there. | /r/seduction | 12/12/13 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Had this exact Gchat conversation with a buddy. Takeaway: some guys have NO IDEA how to set real standards for the women in their livesWhere were you 5 years ago? I could have used this info. | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 02:48 PM |
| 5 | A Beginners Guide for What to SayIf you treat them as the joke that they are, and brush off her inevitable eye-rolling, they are fine as an ice-breaker. I tend to stay away from them. | /r/seduction | 11/11/13 05:12 PM |
| 5 | Simple number close for girls who are at workI tried this at a bar once and I felt like I was a waiter taking the girl's order. She didn't give me her number, but to be fair to your tactic, I was quite drunk. | /r/seduction | 07/11/13 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Why can I relax and be confident around woman I'm not interested in, but can't and get friend zoned with all the woman I am?Yep. Getting brushed off doesn't automatically means she finds you unattractive or would NEVER date you. It normally means that yes, but not always. Keep your options open and chin up. Recognize the shit tests. Sometimes all it really takes is ignoring her for a few days. Sad and strange, yet true. | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Why can I relax and be confident around woman I'm not interested in, but can't and get friend zoned with all the woman I am?Good advice in this thread. Just remember that the game is always on. I've received the friend zone speech and given up, only to find out later that she was still interested, just not ready to jump into a relationship. The game is always on. | /r/seduction | 26/09/13 06:04 PM |
| 1 | {FR} Made out with the hottest chick at the weddingBe bold and mighty forces will come to your aid. | /r/seduction | 16/09/13 04:43 PM |
| 5 | Rebuilding AttractionI have been in your place and played it the wrong way. Be honest with yourself and be honest with her. You don't want to be in her friend zone really, do you? Tell her you don't want to just be friends. Try to make it happen. If it doesnt. Then walk away. Maybe things can happen later. Probably not. But at least you'll have your respect and integrity. | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 03:16 PM |
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