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| 10 | Some initiate dating, some are passive to start dating. It's intuitive to me, that initially passive women, tend to stay passive thorough a relationship, and put less than 50% effort into planning, upkeep, communication. On average. | CMV | MonicaB92 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 10:25 AM |
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| 2 | Do you care about morals when choosing a partner?they see no women giving them attention. Yet they also see some women dating "criminals". Meaning choosing even criminals before choosing them. That makes them become bitter and complain that women chose criminals over nerds/average unattractive unskilled workers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 12:38 PM |
| – | It appears that women don't want menas a feminine man how are your female partners like? The black pill research I had seen is that they would be more likely to be small chested and have narrow hips. But are they also more likely to be BI/had lesbian experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 11:58 AM |
| – | It appears that women don't want menit's just a cover for your ego. As in both the cat (for comfort), and what you tell yourself, that you're rejected because of your cat, as opposed to looks/height/status. You tell yourself that to appear in control, because you have a choice in being an owner of a cat, but are severly limited in improving other characteristics (for me for example, my fitness is reasonably almost maxed out, and have been near reasonably maxed out my entire life) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Is effort a paradox in dating?> Taking this into consideration, I've came to the conclusion that womenprobably aren't attracted to people who have it all figured out underthe impression they'd be very demanding partners. xD you have aspargers, and there were posts by attractive men with aspargers and their experiences on this subreddit. They don't have trouble getting laid. Only reason why I checked your posting history is for a pic of face, or body, which I sadly didn't find. You're most likely too short, an ethnic or have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Have you ever tried look at dating from opposite sex's perspective, by making a fake account?turned Tinder from a reasonably workable app into a hellhole of self-promoters, bots, cryptoscams uh huh, Tinder will never start banning self-promoters, it just not gonna happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever tried look at dating from opposite sex's perspective, by making a fake account?you know it's not that hard to set up and film, in real life, if you're let's say one standard deviation above average in IQ, and have a little budget and permission from the owners/staff? But yes, TV shows can be fake in a way. For example the Brits completely ruined cooking shows, where you don't even get a recipe, hopefuly because they had someone do A/B testing, and realised people don't watch cooking shows to cook something (?), and not just because they hired a dimwit to oversee the show c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Wars had a major role in causing/accelerating the sexual revolution in the West. How does this affect your view of the modern permissive dating culture?they were fucking and arranging to be married shortly after discovering that their pull out method didn't work that one time. Why arranging to get married? Because what will neighbours say... And if they guy didn't want to commit, then the woman would shortly after fuck one of her orbiters, and tell them it's theirs. This is even logical and shows forward b and c planning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Theories on why Average and Underaverage women are harsher on men than actually Cute womenAnd it was the average looking guys who wouldn’t even want to make eye contact with me. Like they were paranoid I would latch on to any kindness / courtesy and think it was flirting. just reverse genders and this answers everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Ladies - What percentage of the bills would you expect your man to pay if you lived together?you could then retire early, while she would still be working in real life cash is men's leverage, and they know it. That's why they mention no flatmatates or own house on dating sites, and put photos made from a driver seat from their car. No secretary would marry a CEO to live worse off than if marrying a middle manager and even if, she would think it's unfair and divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/23 01:21 PM |
| 2 | How did we get to this point where playing games is seen as normal?oddly enough, what I said still applies regarding game playing. They do take your upfront attention as too desperate, as they're looking for a non desperate one, meaning more of a fuck buddy. Imagine a scale, where on a left side is a fwb and on the right is desperate. They're looking for something more towards the fwb. Now you can be either fine with it, or go for men who will be fine with more desperate type of arrangement. It might just so happen that those men will have less options though, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 12:48 PM |
| – | Height never helped me. It’s not the silver-bullet some people think it is.you will get a smile at best and a text, and a friendly invitation, and a friendly conversation start by her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 08:51 AM |
| 3 | How did we get to this point where playing games is seen as normal?From your post it sounds as if you're just less desirable. Go check some experiments when they put a Chad photo and acted as if he was very depressed guy living with his mother and his anxiety, and how responsive and supportive the women were on dating apps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Men are often richer for doing controversial non-nasty jobs that women don't want to doif anything I'm not surprised. There are normal jobs for sure after psychology bachelors from UCLA. But folks, even with education, whose parents, or even one parent are migrants, simply don't have the social network or a know-how to access those jobs. For example it might be a common knowledge to locals from a middle class, that a psychology degree is very useful when applying to police or the military, as you will start in a more senior rank, and that job is better than being a waitress, becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 10:15 AM |
| 4 | Why Are You Single?depends on how you define "guys" if you claim all "guys", then feel free to DM me your photo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 10:44 AM |
| 2 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessyes, if long "con" $ is involved, or she is the type which just cannot make friends with other women, but needs friends, and so she get male friends, but to keep them interested, and their level of attractriveness higher, she puts out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 10:37 AM |
| 3 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessI can kind of relate despite knowing no actual pick-up artists irl. I knew a girl who used manipulation tactics to get mentally ill men. She would have a rotating door of guys who thought she was their BFF. All of them had unique problems which made them especially vulnerable. Anyways, she had a really bad breakup and unleashed her powers to bang as many guys off Tinder as possible. Basically her tactic was finding the guy with the biggest sob story and then banging him. Honestly it was kind of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 10:24 AM |
| 4 | What frustrates me about PUA is it's effectivenessIt's not like you can expect a chick to sleep with you just because you buy her a moderately priced steak dinner. If I want a guarantee to get laid for my money, there are women who offer that after all. goal: sex prositute: sex guarantee 100% | cost $150 | assumes it's legal in that location steak_dinner: sex guarantee 1 / 7 = 14.28% | cost $150 / 7 = $21.43 | potential other heavily discounted sex | social needs met | no need to cook dinner that night with the steak_dinner part, one might go f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women How have you changed or improved yourself to improve your chances of getting the kind of relationship you want with the kind of man you want?the response above yours, since it's not sarcastic, is a perfect example of an archetype of certain behaviour of males towards women. It doesn't work that way when geneders are reversed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 10:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV : Its hypocrisy to hate on Andrew Tate and his Mindset, and then proceed to date a guy with a "Tate mindset"you have high body fat (above norm). If you lose body fat with just running, to 10-15% (what it should have been), then even if you get a v-shape based on your bones, you'll simply look tiny without upper body muscles build in the gym. You can still look into this. Less consumption = less spending, less cooking, less trips to groceries, less wear and tear on teeth and all the health benefits. You can look up studies how BMI corresposnds to IQ, and it's not as if you don't have reserves your brai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 10:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you all have these PurplePillDebate conversations and not get depressed/triggered? Genuine question (New Here)it's basically the same thing it was 40 years ago I can imagine it was more violent back then, as the bars and night clubs were frequented more often. Statistically there is a lot of violence happening there even now, than on a Monday night or Saturday afternoon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Its hypocrisy to hate on Andrew Tate and his Mindset, and then proceed to date a guy with a "Tate mindset"how? It would be easier to promise marriage to a poor Romanian (with a rich western dude), then it would be belivable, especially as she is already in Romania and you don't have to lure her to another country she doesn't speak a language of. Why would someone go through such lengths? I bet Romania has plenty unemployed, young English philology graduates who would gladlly do cam work for 1600 EUR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 10:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Its hypocrisy to hate on Andrew Tate and his Mindset, and then proceed to date a guy with a "Tate mindset"also admitted to lying about his workers revenue to steal money from them as if most companies don't do that. Record profits, and below inflation raises. Or they promise you a bonus if you achive x, x achived and then you will not get a bonus. Or hiring people promising them a normal job, whereas they were hired just for a project - owners realised it will be cheaper that way than to get contractors. So your sentence could sound > There’s audio of him admitting to raping at least one woman, he i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 10:31 PM |
| 0 | CMV : Its hypocrisy to hate on Andrew Tate and his Mindset, and then proceed to date a guy with a "Tate mindset"gym typical gym for males is toxic. In order to look attractive as a male, one has to do a lot of volume for upper body, whereas that's almost useless and won't prolong one's life. Upper body strength is also not that useful, most of the stuff in designed to be operable by an average woman, so what for does one need 1.5x body weight bench press, or 15 pull ups? And then you have roid users. What is useful is perhaps deadlifts up to 2x body weight, squats, running, stair master, yoga, bench press… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 10:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Its hypocrisy to hate on Andrew Tate and his Mindset, and then proceed to date a guy with a "Tate mindset"What mindset and stuff? He's 1.9m tall, kickboxing champion and has fuck you money. How he behaves is not applicable to most men, they will simply not get away with it. /I don't know him, I only checked wikipedia, haven't seen any of his videos, but I bet he is just an archetype of RedPill and spews out Alpha Male dating advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Self Improvement Discussion ThreadIt's more like 65% of your bodyweight imo it's 64% on a pushup, acording to the internet. One could check with a body scale | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Since we live in artificial times why don't we implement artificial solutions? Make a dating app which allows women 50 swipes per day while men are only allowed 1 swipe per day.there is already a popular app where women have to message first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 06:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: We have turned relationships into leisure, most relationships are no longer focused on starting a family or working towards a common goal, as a result people are naturally gonna get pickier with their options50 years ago a man and a woman I bet they lived in smaller spaces, not going abroad as often etc. One could still afford just that, and more, at exactly the same milestones, but no one wants to live with similar amount and quality of leisure as 50 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 02:43 PM |
| 0 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.that doesn't make his statement invalid. Sometimes by spliting 50-50, you make certain stuff more affordable, or less boring, than doing those things alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 12:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Approaching Tons of Women as a strategy to not be alone will always workThey both are approching tons of women. In online dating. It's a simulation of hundreds of approaches. You instanteniously know if you should even bother or not with the real stuff too. The "conversion rates" from online dating are known, and it's not 2% vs 20% The "conversion rates" from speed dating are also known. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort?I'd say no less than 90% of my dates with women have been very one-sided: I have to initiate everything from the first conversation to the planning to the kissing to the sex to the future dates whilst they seem to sort of sit back and enjoy the ride, even when they're interested. Do they end up 50/50 type of effort in relationships, or is it still one-sided? Question inspired by https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/12jhmd7/some_initiate_dating_some_are_passive_to_start/ which mod d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money?I took over the finances. I’ve been paying off his debts, his credit score looks great, and I have started a Roth IRA for him but try to not ever forget, it's most likely with his own money. You're only doing the managing part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money?> doesn't want to go out on dates every week... the "you never take me anywhere" women I think once a week is the minimum. Either money spent (so a normal restaurant date, or city break), or time spent hiking, but that's also money in a way, as one didn't then earn money or spent extra on food and bus tickets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Twice as many males than females reported no annual sexual activity.Which btw is not sustainable in a civilized society. it's not in somewhere like the US, when you will have more mass shootings by incels, the rest will just patiently wait for their turn till 32 I guess. I don't think there is any growth in religiosity or other movements guaranteeing a partner. In the EU, stats are most likely similar to those from the US, but we don't have mass shootings, so it makes it sustainable (with a lot of anti-slut shaming, meaning - don't criticize when women are weari… | /r/BlackPillScience | 11/11/22 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Twice as many males than females reported no annual sexual activity.you question their sample, whereas it could be that plus the "in person" (!) interview. It should have been shown that the results will be anonymous | /r/BlackPillScience | 11/11/22 06:28 AM |
| 3 | 84% of women reported wanting a taller partner. Shorter women tended to be more dissatisfied with their height (with 45% of women wanting to be taller), believing they were treated worse compared to taller women.leadership roles in business or cliques being one such example | /r/BlackPillScience | 09/11/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Sperm donor acceptance rates were significantly higher for men under 35, with higher education, married, and with children.no, you have to pick at least someone of similar skin/eye/hair colour to the chump that you're in a relationship with, so that he doesn't suspect anything xD | /r/BlackPillScience | 20/10/22 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Job status/prestige are not significant determinants of initial interest on Tinder, for both men and women. However, after this initial phase, men less frequently start a conversation with unemployed women, but they still do not care about the particular job prestige of employed women."stop complaining and go back to my own country." On top of being quite racist (as I was born in the U.S., which is literally my country), haha, and here I was thinking this is a very Brittish thing to say, and not a thing at all in the US | /r/BlackPillScience | 20/10/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Asian American Men in Romantic Dating MarketsI'm not an American, but I assume the ones in late 30ties are married with children, aren't they? Which social group do they tend to marry? Mail order brides from poor asian countries? | /r/BlackPillScience | 22/09/22 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Settling down without settling: Perceived changes in partner preferences in response to COVID-19 - Cassandra Alexopoulos, Elisabeth Timmermans, Liesel L. Sharabi, David J. Roaché, Alyssa Croft, Elizabeth Dorrance Hall, Laurie James-Hawkins, Veronica Lamarche, Maximiliane Uhlich, 2021r is correlation. Square it first and you will have, for example: r=0.25r2=.25^2=.0625,multiplie x100 to get a result in %, so with r=.25, this mean that one variable explains 6.25% of variability of the other variable With p, this can be caluclated by hand, but usually it's done by a computer program, even MSExcel. Normally for research it has to be below 0.05. Divide 1 by .05 you get 20. So there is one in 20 chance that the results of r that you got, you got by pure chance. The lower the p th… | /r/BlackPillScience | 03/10/21 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Facial shape provides a valid cue to sociosexuality [willingness to engage in sexual activity without emotional ties] in men but not women.Same. What do you answer your religion is when for example asked on a trip in Ireland by an Irish who most likely has 12 years of education, or when asked by a muslim migrant with potententially just 6 years of schooling? To the migrant I just simply say that I'm Catholic, as questioning existence of god might just be way too much for someone like that... and lead to an argument. I learned that "trick" from a travel blog years ago. In Ireland I'd say that I had been rised Catholic, but don't att… | /r/BlackPillScience | 01/07/21 08:34 PM |
| 2 | how male proposers’ facial attractiveness affect female responders’ fairness considerations and their subsequent decision outcomeTo answer the why, the researchers guestimate that women think good looking men give more fair deals. I think the delay might be due to... their brain processing... whether it makes sense to accept the bad deal in exchange for more time spent around an attractive person of the opposite gender. A quick pros and cons analysis. Let's say you're a male in your mid 20's and are hiring for a back office role. Even though looks don't matter for a back office role, most will take gender and age into acc… | /r/BlackPillScience | 26/06/21 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Children on trendy vegan diets are 1.2 inches SHORTER on average, with smaller and weaker bones, study warnsTaller height is associated with higher social status, and this association may be causal rather than just an artifact of social correlates (57, 58). Taller adult height is associated with lower risk of NCDs (e.g., diabetes, heart disease) but also with a greater risk of diverse cancers (59). However, whether these height differences will persist into adulthood is unclear. | /r/BlackPillScience | 07/06/21 01:01 PM |
| 7 | Children on trendy vegan diets are 1.2 inches SHORTER on average, with smaller and weaker bones, study warnsLook up at the table 1 from the study. It's the taller parents in the first place that put their children on the vegan diets. This will be a regression to the mean in population. Nothing more. | /r/BlackPillScience | 07/06/21 12:58 PM |
| 23 | Children on trendy vegan diets are 1.2 inches SHORTER on average, with smaller and weaker bones, study warnsIs this why Indians are shorter? I always wondered about it, as on paper Indian diet is so diverse in ingredients, spices, beans, vegetables, various flours and lentils. The only missing part is meat, or if they do eat meat - meat other than chicken. | /r/BlackPillScience | 07/06/21 12:32 PM |
| 6 | Unattractive, promiscuous and heavy drinkers: Perceptions of women with tattoosdon't worry. They're spammed with messages on dating apps just fine and you don't see them settle for nerds | /r/BlackPillScience | 03/06/21 11:51 AM |
| 4 | Blinded by Beauty: Attractiveness Bias and Accurate Perceptions of Academic Performancethere are x number of PhDs graduating every year and y number of positions open every year in academia, be it locally or globally. Either way it's x>y People should think about it, and how competition works in that environment before they consider PhD level education. | /r/BlackPillScience | 06/08/20 04:43 PM |
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