Monkey1Fball Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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37	What to talk about when making conversations interesting with a date? Get HER talking and ACTUALLY listen, so that you can feed off her answers. There’s a zillion possible questions to get her talking. Something as basic as “what’s your favorite color and why?” —- any good conversationalist can come up with 5 different ways to take the convo based on her answer. But to do that, you have to LISTEN. That’s the real key. The first question can be generic, your follow-up can’t be.	/r/seduction	23/09/25 07:39 AM
1	Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guy Shoot, you can do it at FORTY-two if you wanted to. You have plenty of time, if that's your thing.	/r/seduction	17/08/25 10:44 PM
3	Are female friends worth the effort? If you have friends ---- women OR men ---- who "vent to you a lot", that's a YOU problem. Occasional venting is fine, but friends are primarily there to add value to each other: not to be therapists. Set boundaries there.	/r/seduction	04/11/24 09:25 PM
6	Any older guys (35+) look super young for their age? Yep. It's all about "feeling a person's energy in a room." I'm in my mid-40s but can pass for being 35. Looking younger at an older age gives a middle-age dude an advantage in terms of a wider net of prospects age-wise, that's true IMO. But ultimately you gotta be able to engage and connect.	/r/seduction	29/10/24 04:50 AM
10	What little things can men do to have more sex appeal? Ah, all fun!	/r/seduction	06/10/23 05:31 PM
46	What little things can men do to have more sex appeal? WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOSH!!!!!!!!!!!	/r/seduction	06/10/23 05:18 PM
15	Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it? Right --- desperateness is a HUGE red flag in itself! It's a turnoff! The real question is "if an average looking girl is excited (different than desperate) to date you, how do you feel about that?" And my answer is "that's pretty cool, let's go on a date and see how it goes."	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 06:21 AM
3	Anyone Ever had any Luck in North Africa or the Middle East? I won a game of RISK against a woman by overpowering her troops with my troops in the Middle East and North Africa.	/r/seduction	07/07/22 08:45 PM
4	Non Asshole way to get a girl out of your house after sex… LOL. I honestly wonder what percentage of women today would get the reference. I’d guess only 5%.	/r/seduction	18/06/22 04:48 AM
1	Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to them 100% WRONG. INCREDIBLY wrong. (I say this is a male)	/r/seduction	16/06/22 10:46 PM
2	When should someone give up on dating? When you are in your deathbed and being given last rites. EVEN THEN some gold digger may be up for giving you a BJ if you’re rich enough, in a last gasp effort to get included in your will.	/r/seduction	09/06/22 03:48 AM
0	Is a baseball game as a first date for a girl who loves baseball a bad idea? IF she is a baseball fan —- it’s just about perfect. If NOT it’s a terrible idea. I speak from experience, I’ve had two first dates at a game with baseball fans and we had a good time. I tried it once with a non baseball fan and she literally left on me. 😊	/r/seduction	15/05/22 11:27 PM
1	Dating after Nuclear war? Potential conversation starter and escalator: “Hey there good looking! You know - the population has been reduced by 99.99%. But that just means there’s more of a responsibility on those of us remaining to breed and repopulate the Earth! So why are we still talking - let’s go back to my fallout shelter and get to work!”	/r/seduction	18/03/22 05:16 AM
2	Orbiting a Woman that can be available anytime son Good God —— NEVER “orbit” a woman as any sort of romantic strategy. That’s like the first tenet here!!! She’s in a relationship. It’s cool to be friends with her (some here would disagree with this but I think guys can be friends with already involved women). But ONLY if you are FOREVER fine with both (1) her remaining in that relationship and (2) you never being more than a friend.	/r/seduction	18/03/22 04:44 AM
1	How to escalate when the touch barrier is heavily broken through hobby? Jiujitsu, LOL. Now I'm envisioning a gal having a guy in a headlock, and the guy thinking "the touch barrier is broken! Time to go for the kiss!" He may be in a deeper headlock after that ...........	/r/seduction	11/03/22 10:14 PM
3	Beaches are great for Same Day Lays! Particularly in January!!! Seriously there are a lot of very good Great Lakes beaches. Fresh water, as you pointed out. It is far from a 12 month swimsuit season though.	/r/seduction	04/03/22 10:17 PM
2	Gave a guy all kinds of signals and waited for him in my car to come out an talk to me, but he wouldn't. What could I have done better to make work? Is she “fully” in public though? She literally and willingly put a physical boundary (the shell of her car) between her and the guy she wanted.	/r/seduction	26/02/22 02:15 PM
2	Gave a guy all kinds of signals and waited for him in my car to come out an talk to me, but he wouldn't. What could I have done better to make work? Right! As a guy there is a 0.0000% chance (sort of the woman being physically attacked or her car being on fire or something similar where she is in literal danger) I’d approach her there. Even if she was the hottest person on planet earth. There’s really not much upside and lots of potential downside. If she’s still in the coffee shop or outside but not in her car - I’d absolutely make the approach. But she LITERALLY put a physical boundary (her car) between me and her. I’ll default to respecti…	/r/seduction	26/02/22 02:10 PM
5	Which is more important for ladies personality or physical attractiveness for LTR? Looks short term. Personality medium term. Stability and maturity long term.	/r/seduction	26/02/22 01:59 PM
2	Should I follow this girl on Instagram? Right. Yeesh - sometimes some of the original posts on here are crazy. The question isn’t “should I follow her on Instagram?” (as if that is a step that escalates things anyway it’s not! It’s just the virtual non-real world of Instagram!) the question is “why the hell am I not being braver and just asking her to do something outside CrossFit class?”	/r/seduction	25/02/22 04:50 AM
2	[deleted by user] You've known her long enough such that either (1) she sees you as a potential romantic partner or (2) she doesn't. Only one person knows whether it is #1 or #2 --- HER. It's very unlikely an Instagram account (or anything else) will change that at this point. Simply ask her out. Don't overthink it. Make the jump.	/r/seduction	19/02/22 12:50 AM
5	Is it a good idea to put myself in a situation with a big potential for awkwardness just to get out of my comfort zone? It's a party where everyone but me is the same ethnicity, I don't know most of them and there's a girl there I like whose probably gonna be hit on by a ton of guys. If it frightens you --- DO IT. (rule #1 from No More Mister Nice Guy. I don't think it's a coincidence it is #1).	/r/seduction	19/02/22 12:29 AM