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Again changing the subject ... really its just pathetic to look at you trying to just escape what I wrote in fucking capitals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:56 PM
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So, what? Its wrong for me to choose men i find attractive enough for sex who i also get along with and of whom is also kind and caring and attentive? Once again : WHO SAID THAT ? Can you read ? Like yeah, unattractive men may have those qualities too, but if i am unwilling to have sex with said man/men why would he even wanna date me? Again moving the subject instead of just adressng what Im saying ... being optuse on purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:43 PM
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But youre moving once again what you said : «And I am usually most compatible with men who are slightly more attractive to me because we share sexual compatibility». So at first its «Im only attracted to men more attractive» ... and now, conveniently, its «Yeah, I want to be attracted to the person I sleep with». Strange how it changes based on what you want ... but even then ... no one is actually telling you its a bad thing that you want attractive men ... stop victimizing yourself ... all we …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 08:08 PM
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Where in the previous comment did I say that ? You can date whoever the fuck you want ... but just be honest with the reasons ... which is that you are shallow and can only find appeal in above average attratcive dudes ... tahts all we ask of you, just honesty. Dont tell the guys who are single they are single because of moral/behaviour or personality flaws ... cause you know its false ... and you admitted it ... the guy could be perfect ine very other way for you, yous till wouldnt give him a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:53 PM
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No one is asking you to be ashamed of it ... but just to be honest about it and tell the truth to the unattractive guys ... which is taht they are perfectly fine ; perfectly nice ; have perfectly good personalities ; did nothing wrong ; cant do nothing about it but they were jsut fucked by chance at birth ... in short you are just agreeing with blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 07:48 PM
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Youre being obtsue for being obtuse so Im going to stop there, just reiterate once more : If 2 men are identical in behaviour and personality but one is more attractive than the other (cause again, the vast majority of people, men and women, are just averagely attractive, you just have bias) ... there are still a million of other things going on to decide between them ... you just dont want to see it or consider it for the sake of justifying your own shallowness. Plus, when «giving a chance to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:56 PM
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Cause again, these men are more than just that, there are a million things you should look for in a partner ... but in the end, youll discard a guy with which you are more to share with for the more attractive dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:12 PM
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You are asking me to give a guy who is nice a chance and I do, I only give nice men a chance. But the majority of them are attractive. And the worst case scenario? Is i tried less attractive men who were "nice guys" and turns out they were assholes And here youre doing the exact same thing youre criticizing in your post by considering the least attractive men are assholes while the majority of attractive dudes are nice ... which is statistically not true considering the normal laws of distributi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:44 PM
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OK? And why would I date a normal and kind unattractive man over a normal and kind attractive man? Cause apparently personality trumps physical features ... so you should be talking about compatibility ; activities ; hobbies ; values and centers of interests first before even talking about anyhting else when it comes to a potential date ? ... Yet here we are. Acting like I should give unattractive men a chance just cuz they meet the bare minimum of "normal and kind" is absurd Why though ? As we …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 04:25 PM
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Error 404, she was not ... in fact ... sorry for the lonely dudes she robbed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:50 PM
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Most unattractive dudes are also normal and kind ... yet every of their behaviour is scrutanized for the slightest smallest of flaws for them to be called creeps and are left in the dust ... and when they see attractive assholes still getting dates and being treated better than them, they complain of the unfairness of the situation ... only to be met with a «See ? In fact he wasnt a noraml and kind dude, he just wanted pussy» ... well in fact, nope, he just recognize a pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 03:47 PM
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Im not redpill, but what turned me away from the blue pill or whatever is my life experience. Despite being autistic and moving town every 4 years, I always kinda had friends, among which women and men. I just witnessed first hand the difference in treatment I got being 5ft3 and having facial and skull deformations ... and everytime I went to get advices, it was always the same bullshit of being myself and having confidence ... which you cant get if you dont have exterior positive reinforcement.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 09:11 AM
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So I should never tell a woman the fact Im a virgin ? Cause I know its a turn off for most of them ... but its funny to be told that on a thread that is discussing NOT to lie to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:08 AM
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What ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 09:26 PM
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Or ... changing your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:30 PM
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No, they're talking about a situation when they think the guy is lying cause he had sex and then didn't enter a LTR ... whereas there may be thousands of reasons other than he was deceving her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:51 PM
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I dont know why you believe I said people cant change their mind ... considering Im saying that a guy who said he wanted LTR but then changed his mind didnt use a woman for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 05:20 PM
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How it doesnt apply ? The reason she accepted to sleep with him was because he wanted a LTR ... but then he changed his mind ... so it doesnt want it anymore ... and if she had knew that he would have changed his mind, she wouldnt have slept with him ... so she feels used.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:59 PM
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Yeah you feel sad, but in that case, that's an individual feeling. In the case of being used for sex as OP is psenting ... it needs at least 2 persons, among one who actively used the other one. But if it's just a "I feel like I was used for sex, even though there is no confirmation, nor proof" ... then, you were not actively used for sex by another person, you feel like it ... but you were not ... which is kind of comfirming what OP is saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:46 PM
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But if it's just a feeling without confirmation nor proof ... it's not real ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:42 PM
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I mean, if a guy in a bar saying "yeah, I'm like the biggest lawyer in town" is enough for a woman to have casual sex with him ... is it really "being deceived and used" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:41 PM
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But he's already leaning on all these other things as they are obvious ... yet he just added the status things and you (since you used "I" in your comment) fell for him only for that characteristic and not for the other things ... so it's not his physique ; not his personality ; not his behaviour , not his mind ; not his values ... but just his status that got you to have sex with him ... if youre willing to have sex with a guy only because he has status, are you really being used when it turns …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:23 PM
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But the guy can also want a LTR ... and then change his mind ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:17 PM
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I'm not blaming, I'm just asking ... it's already impossible for me to have any woman interested in a relationship with me ... let alone casual sex ... these are notions and phenomens so foreign for me that the idea of being able to lie yourself into one of those without the other person at least seeing some signs is just impossible to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:16 PM
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Not news. But if your consent to have casual sex with a guy is solely built on how much he supposedly earns and the status he supposedly have ... and nothing else ... then were you really used in this situation ? Like, there is nothing more ? How he looked like didn't matter ? How he behaved didn't matter ? What he talked about ; his humor ; his hobbies didn't matter ? It could have been anything as long as he had money and status ? Then were you really used ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:13 PM
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But if it's possible to recognize the pattern of a woman being used ... then it's possible to see the pattern before being used ... so if you ignore the pattern, are you really being used ? My problem is that every woman I know that told me they were used for sex were actually not used when we discussed it further ... they just ignored all the signs because they wanted to believe the narrative they created.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:07 PM
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So, in that situation, the woman would have accepted sex only because the guy had a certain job/status ... I'm assuming well paid and high status ... and not consent when it turns out the same guy ; with the same physique ; with the same personality ; with the same behaviour is actually broke and have no status ... is it really being used ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:01 PM
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Many things. As for me, never had sex nor a relationship. But I've hang out with women that I thought I knew and wanted to have relationships with (even if they would never have wanted that) ... then, it took only one conversation on a specific subject to not make me want one anymore (when it happened, it was always for their views on men's height and physical features). The same can happen here, the guy wanted a relationship, he has sex with ehr, the sex is not good, he talks with her afterward…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:58 PM
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I mean ... yeah ... that's why when he understands that there is not going to be more to it by the time dinner ends, he's going to ask the waiter to split the bill. If the guy decided to pay in the hope she wouls sleep with him but she does not ... he wasn't used, he just had expectations in his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:53 PM
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And how can you be sure the guy didn't want a relationship with a woman and was looking for a partner in her ... but then simply changed his mind ? Genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:47 PM
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But what kind of lie can get you to casual sex and make that woman not want sex with you if you didn't lie about it ? Really, I'm a 24M forever alone and virgin guy, so I'm genuinely asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:45 PM
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Guess I went to 2 highschools + 3 swim clubs + 1 college and many dates full of unaverage people then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 02:28 PM
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Well, me ; many of my friends and many people here can prove you wrong ... you can believe us or not ... you can believe that all women are good or open your eyes that women are flawed humans too. And again, I've seen more women shaming men for being virgins that I've seen men do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:38 PM
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If you needed proof that it exists ...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:37 AM
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Yes, especially since I'm in my mid 20's. And it doesn't just happen with women I'm going out with or are on the "will they" phase. Not later than last week-end, it happened at a party with a woman that was just hanging out with us ; we played some games, one question was about sex, I had to answer, I said "well, not the guy the game should have asked", she asked why, I explained, not only did she not beleived it at first but then showed discomfort, disgust and asked a bunch of stupid questions …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:33 AM
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I did, that's when she told me it pained her that our friendship couldn't stay the same and taht I was too bitter to maintain a friendship as long as a romantic prospect was out of the picture.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 03:11 PM
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I was okay, until she started to talk to me about the man she was sleeping with the next day after I confessed my feelings for her. So yeah, if she just had the courtesy to not talk about that kind of stuff litterally less than 24 hours after I confessed, it would have been fine. Just as much as it is fine now that some time has passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 02:09 PM
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Not moral, just I'm not an animal. I need time to make sure I wanna date someone and if that person is already taken, especially by a friend of mine, I won't act on it ; the same goes if that person just ended a long relationship, I won't act the next day that person broke up with her SO, it's called being considerate. But I do agree that, in experience, being the considerate one taht doesn't act like a horny gremlin gets you to the opposite of what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:10 PM
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Don't know, when someone confess feelings to you, you reject them, obviously you will start to date other people, no problem with that. Just, complaining about the guy you slept with the day after someone confess to you, to the person who confessed to you ... it seems at least a little bit rude in my book.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 01:08 PM
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It actually is my comment I posted below. It happens more than often and it is never seen as "toxic" by most people. It's just seen as her being your "usual friend" and continuing to do "as if nothing had change". Yes it is toxic, yes it hurts like hell ... but even then, if you end the friendship because of that, it is seemed as you "not able to stand her living her life without you in the picture", 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 11:04 AM
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The men that stay friends are great ... for you. They are mentally tortured ; their heart and soul are crushed every second and they want to run away in a pit until everything passes out. They just don't talk about it because it would be seen as them guilting you and not being anything more than horny dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:57 AM
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I've had this "happy for you" mentality before, it's soul crushing for the most part and you do'nt get an ounce of respect from it. One of my male friend made me tag along to a party where he met a group of girls (we were in highschool), we became acquainted and I became quickly close to one of them. The thing is, I need a lot of time to figure out feelings and wants for myself, so I didn't act on her. She started dating my friends, so she was off limits and I though it would stay at that ; prob…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 07:55 AM
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You get acne when you are at the start of adolescence, I'm 24, I didn't have free internet access when I was 11-12, so my parents were the only ones I could ask advice from. They are not specialists, so they brought me to a dermatologist, which was supposed to give me gentle cleanser+exfoliant+non-comedogic lotion ; instead she burnt my face with liquid nitrogen and hard chemicals and gave me vaseline "if it itches or burn a little when you apply the products". While my cousin, a girl, received …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:53 PM
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It was just a figure of speech, but then again, why are you friend with a guy who yells at you for a comment on cargo shorts at a time, I assume, were it wasn't trendy ? But then again, why would you lie to men on the internet when they ask for advices ? What are you protecting yourself from in that situation ? If you don't want to elaborate, then why bother to give bad advices and lies ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 06:15 PM
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Incredible how all the women her are friends with men who not only ask them for advices on how to be attractive but becomes evil murderers when they receive it. Again, you're supposed to know your friends, so you know which ones to give advices to adn which one to not (in which case, they shouldn't be your friends), then, you can give advices or simply say "I don't want to give advices", you don't have to lie and give fake tips. For example, we are here on the internet, I cannot explode and act …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:53 PM
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You think it is a dick move to give skincare advices to men, or anyone for that matters ? Keep in mind that skincare for men is becoming more acceptable in this time, it's just changing Most of us went to see a dermatologist when we were younger and had skin problems, my cousing, as a girl, had recommendations of gentle cleanser and soothing lotions ; me, I was treated with liquid nitrogen burning pimples (yes, on my face, litteral torture, with the same dermatologist, a woman) and burning chemi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:44 PM
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Most men will absolutely listen ; love and crave this kind of advices. You just have to look at the self improvement tropes taht are exploding as of late and a lot of it is consumed ; targeted and used by men, the thing is, most women (to not say all) will never give you that kind of advice and will even tell you it is absolutely useless to do all these things. There is still the problem that all of this is useless if you are not already at a base level of genetical attractiveness. Another reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:38 PM
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Do men believe that nice guys finish last ? Most of us yes, not because we believe it or even know it, but because we actually experienced it and seen it happen first hand. It's experience that forged what you call "this narrative", not internal beliefs. The woman the nice guy ended up with probably didn't even know him in high school or college, they haven't even met at that time. So assuming that she would've rejected him because other women did in the past is crazy mental gymnastics. In what …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/25 07:13 PM
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