MonkeyUseBrain Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
199	The government empowers women to look down at men	General	MonkeyUseBrain	/r/MensRights	07/08/26 11:01 PM
87	Femininism - When Equality Becomes Selective	Legal Rights	MonkeyUseBrain	/r/MensRights	03/08/26 01:01 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Feminists Manipulate the Definition of Feminism men's rejection of feminism is a clear manifestation of misogyny. This one really gets me. Anything beyond being a feminist is mysoginy and sexisim. The quality of your reason matters not.	/r/MensRights	09/08/26 01:34 PM
-4	We shouldn't forget that Feminist Men are a huge obstacle to Men's Rights I can see you’ve put a lot of thought into this. I’m not really one to buy into the conspiracy theory that misandry is the root cause of everything. My attitude is that the idea of men being disposable can only work if women also play their part in society. The problem is that, increasingly, they aren’t. A lot of men are suffering, while the equality women fought for seems to be selectively applied when it benefits them, without the corresponding expectations or responsibilities.	/r/MensRights	08/08/26 11:02 PM
10	We shouldn't forget that Feminist Men are a huge obstacle to Men's Rights Selective equality Pretending that men and women are interchangeable Constant victim mentality The list goes on	/r/MensRights	08/08/26 09:27 PM
5	The government empowers women to look down at men I'm curious if you have anything to back this up. I was moreso talking about targeted genderd financial support like pell grants. But it seems many institutions are only willing to push DEI initiatives when women are the minority, but rarely the other way around.	/r/MensRights	08/08/26 12:40 PM
20	The government empowers women to look down at men Nope	/r/MensRights	07/08/26 11:32 PM
16	I'm so tired of this type of gaslighting It's toxic conformity. Everyone has to think the same way or risk being ostracized, so they'll throw logic aside in favor of feelings and constantly validate each other's beliefs without questioning them. It can start to seem like a man-hating echo chamber. I don't know what it is, but in some circles it seems like being a victim has become a competition. That's not to say some women don't genuinely suffer, but if one woman experiences something, it's often treated as though all women experience…	/r/MensRights	06/08/26 06:18 PM
64	The “manosphere” moral panic is stupid and it really just boils down to men not doing what feminists want. It’s just out-group labeling. They’re applying a negative label to a group so they don’t have to address the actual arguments or criticism. Instead of engaging with the ideas, they try to discredit the group associated with them. Pretty immature and manipulative behavior honestly.	/r/MensRights	06/08/26 01:06 AM
1	Femininism - When Equality Becomes Selective I can't agree with many of your points but I'd like to focus on one in particular: Men have always been free to have all options open to them - they can even have both if they want - marriage plus fatherhood, and a job or career they enjoy that provides them automatic power that money bestows as well as social outlets, a sense of individual purpose and individual accomplishment. Incorrect. Men’s reproductive success is often more closely tied to their financial success, while women’s financial s…	/r/MensRights	05/08/26 02:12 PM
2	What crimes do you think fit the actions of feminism? Here's my list. Emotional Manipulation While it may not be a crime, emotional manipulation probably deserves far more criticism. A lot of feminists frame situations in a way that portrays women as the victims who automatically deserve sympathy and support. In reality, this can involve using emotions to exaggerate women’s suffering while minimizing the suffering of others in order to gain sympathy, influence, or an advantage.	/r/MensRights	05/08/26 11:21 AM
1	Femininism - When Equality Becomes Selective This is a delusional take. In some cases, women can compete with men, but in a broad sense, overwhelmingly, no. Men continue to dominate essential jobs by enormous margins. While women can participate in the workforce, their participation is often more optional and less critical. The big issue with the second half is that this is a reciprocal exchange. Men provide in exchange for women having babies. If men stop providing, women stop having babies. If women stop having babies, men stop providing…	/r/MensRights	05/08/26 11:03 AM
8	Are 95.1% of men really rapists? Anything from societal collapse to women loosing many privileges and rights.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/08/26 10:54 AM
7	Are 95.1% of men really rapists? Don't forget about pre-consent application to ask if it's ok to get consent	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/08/26 09:35 PM
14	Are 95.1% of men really rapists? I’ve had the same thought. This whole thing feels cyclical, and we need to correct the imbalance before the pendulum swings too far in the other direction. I don’t think most women are prepared for how severe this backlash could be.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/08/26 08:17 PM
2	Femininism - When Equality Becomes Selective All good points. I’m not arguing for reproductive equality. I’m simply pointing out that reproductive opportunity is not equal, while society places much greater emphasis on equal opportunity in financial and educational areas. I’m also mostly referring to modern feminist views, which I believe have gone too far. My proposed solution would be to remove gender-targeted support systems in the financial and educational spheres and allow men and women to compete on equal terms based on merit.	/r/MensRights	03/08/26 08:11 PM
43	Are 95.1% of men really rapists? So basically, men need a formal, contracted agreement before having sex; otherwise, it could be considered nonconsensual? Meanwhile, women can spend men’s money without asking, and somehow that’s considered acceptable?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/08/26 07:36 PM
3	Femininism - When Equality Becomes Selective I think the broader problem is that women can reinforce a reproductive hierarchy among men while also advocating for greater equality of opportunity. Many men don’t experience the same benefits of equality because female selectivity can concentrate reproductive opportunities among a small group of men. My argument is that traditional patriarchal structures gave men more leverage and made them less disposable. Without some form of balance, many men are becoming socially and reproductively expenda…	/r/MensRights	03/08/26 06:18 PM
2	Femininism - When Equality Becomes Selective That’s an excellent question. Reproductive equality could start with examining areas like marital and child support laws, as well as broader discussions around issues like abortion. However, I don’t see a practical solution beyond reducing targeted financial and educational support based solely on gender and allowing men’s and women’s natural strengths and preferences to shape gender dynamics more organically. (Allow men to dominate the financial sphere and allow women to dominate the reproducti…	/r/MensRights	03/08/26 05:09 PM
8	Femininism - When Equality Becomes Selective What is really sad about this is that it’s ultimately disturbing the balance. It’s making gender relations more antagonistic and creating a feedback loop where women think we need even more women-focused support groups. They don’t see that this can end up hurting themselves in the long run. Taking from one part of society doesn’t help society as a whole.	/r/MensRights	03/08/26 03:57 PM
11	Femininism - When Equality Becomes Selective Yes, basically, we recognize and address gender imbalances when women are underrepresented. However, now that men are underrepresented in certain areas, there often seems to be far less attention or concern. https://www.gibm.us/news/pells-6-billion-dollar-gender-gap	/r/MensRights	03/08/26 03:00 PM
8	Why is makeup so common among women but not men? This is why complaining about the economy is a joke	/r/MensRights	02/08/26 07:28 PM
5	the modern "anti-men feminist movement" is thriving because most men today are cowards, collectively. we are quick to "defend" women's right out of fear of being ostracized ny society but we fail to defend our own rights. in fact, we attack those that try to defend men There are a lot of men allowing themselves to be manipulated by sex, or simply the promise of sex. They tolerate poor treatment, sacrifice their standards, and invest heavily in relationships that may not offer commitment, stability, or a functional family in return. What’s sad is that many of them recognize the imbalance but continue accepting it because they’re afraid of losing access to intimacy. In the end, they’re giving up their self-respect and long-term goals for something that may never…	/r/MensRights	31/07/26 06:11 PM
17	Lack of equality in gender studies They’re fixated on the gender pay gap, but the moment you bring up the “who gets free stuff” gap, suddenly it’s: “Doesn’t exist.” “We can’t measure that.” “Women give men free stuff too.” Okay, sure. Whatever helps push your agenda.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/07/26 01:01 PM
16	The Red Pill Will Never Have Good Prescriptions Because Its Historical Claims About Gender Are Wrong. I think the issue is that many women think they're like men when they're clearly not. A lot of men are getting tired of maintaining the idea that men and women are essentially the same. Then, a women finds the man of their dreams, they often revert to their default settings and become more feminine. It's almost like a test. They take on a more masculine role to rule out the men they're not interested in, but once they find someone they genuinely admire, they stop being masculine. At least, that'…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	18/07/26 11:05 AM
7	Is there any point in labelling a society as 'Patriarchal'? I think it's dishonest framing. In a traditional patriarchy, men may hold more formal authority, but women have always held significant power through mate choice and child rearing. Since men generally compete for women and women raise most of all children, removing patriarchal structures just shifts all the power to women which is the current modern landscape.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	16/07/26 08:17 PM
1	I find it Strange that people still call themselves feminists even though what they mean is egalitarianism I think "equality" is being confused with "sameness". Instead of recognizing that men and women can have different needs, our differences are increasingly being used as a source of division rather than something to understand and accommodate.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	05/07/26 12:50 AM
13	It's more difficult for men to escape gender roles because being active and useful to others will always be more valuable and empowering than being passive. A passive woman who becomes active is by definition empowered, while an active man who becomes passive is discarded and outcompeted. Ya honestly. I've realized there is a lot of emotional manipulation going on. Women might feel oppressed but that isn't necessarily objective truth.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/09/25 12:13 PM
5	Men issues and female privilege are connected. This is why male advocate groups are hated. Makes sense to me. You can’t claim privilege and equality at the same time. Yet, many people are quick to criticize if you point out that true equality would require giving up certain advantages. And when equality isn’t actually present, they often turn around and accuse others of being privileged instead. We need to call out the degeneracy and stop enabling the victim mentality.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/09/25 03:10 PM
1	How can we convince women to challenge misandry? In this context it doesn't fit the definition of violence. Do you consider every parent who has slapped or spanked their kid an abuser?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/07/25 09:09 PM
0	How can we convince women to challenge misandry? I think you are jumping to the extreme and automatically labeling a slap as physical abuse without consideration for nuance or context.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/07/25 03:53 AM
-1	How can we convince women to challenge misandry? Ok *To be taken as an observation and not a recommendation Men slapped women in response to verbal and emotional abuse from women. That's how men got justice for their abuse. In this frame, the man is the one being abused. But you are manipulating the response by imposing that the man is the abuser.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/07/25 10:39 PM
-1	How can we convince women to challenge misandry? You are exaggerating	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/07/25 10:25 PM
0	How can we convince women to challenge misandry? I watched this the other day. I'm just really surprised there are others out there who have the same mindset as me.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/07/25 10:41 AM
3	How can we convince women to challenge misandry? Moreso respond with action instead of words. Don't take this to heart but part of me wants to believe this is a big reason why men slapped women back in the day. Instant dispense of justice. Obviously some women got abused so we banned it. But you look at the reverse and men continue to face a significant amount of unacknowledged verbal and emotional abuse from women. I just think it's an interesting observation. Maybe too spicy of a response.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/07/25 09:49 PM
2	How can we convince women to challenge misandry? As a man you would think logic and facts would prevail but that doesn't work if the person you are talking to is irrational... Honestly, I think it would be better if society and men just took corrective action instead of explaining to women why they should change, sorry to say.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/07/25 09:01 PM
2	How do you feel about people pointing out sexual dimorphism? Cities are designed to suit men?? That has never really crossed my mind. To be honest I think women prefer cities because of the increased social freedoms. Whereas men care more about personal freedoms. I think biological dimorphism plays a role here in the sense that women are adapted for personal connection where men are adapted to generate resources which drives our preferences rather than cities being designed for one gender or the other. Idk if that answers your question.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/07/25 06:07 PM
2	How do you feel about people pointing out sexual dimorphism? It's great to see people acknowledge reality	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/07/25 03:51 PM
1	I can't believe the dishonesty of this post. Can we just acknowledge that women will regularly manipulate reality to avoid responsibility and accountability? We talk so much about how men create problems in society. This is how women create problems in society.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	06/07/25 04:43 PM
1	Why men don't follow feminism (as a male feminist) I think the problem has and will always be that men and women are not the same so when you force symmetry into asymmetry it never works out... Men have different wants and needs and women have different wants and needs and we should embrace our differences instead of fighting over them. Feminism doesn't work because it only focuses on the privileges and rights men have without acknowledging the privileges and rights women have. Most men aren't that dumb and we all kind of collectively see throug…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/06/25 11:52 AM
5	Double standards and false narratives regarding male and female subs. Ya, there is definitely a lot of bias and censorship in the female / left leaning sub reddits. Speaks volumes on the morality of women and the left. Anything that is perceived to be critical and or offensive is immediately removed. The people in these subs have zero counterargument. They exist in an echo chamber, forever oblivious to reality. Oh has society fallen.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	25/06/25 09:30 PM