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He has been playing for years. It's incomprehensible to me that he wants to be inside in front of screens all day every day, but after 7 years I'm used to it. I should clarify- it's not generally the fact that he plays that is the challenge, it's that it can impact our shared schedule. His raiding schedule has included Friday and Saturday nights and it's been difficult to make plans with our friends-- the "whatever" I had in mind. I'm not okay with missing out on movie/game nights because he is …
/r/RedPillWives05/08/16 12:50 AM
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Well, the next issue on deck will be the upcoming World of Warcraft expansion. He plays, I don't, and it's mystifying to me how he can spend hours and hours playing. New adventures mean more time allocated to it and commitments that are invisible to me-- like his scheduled guild raiding nights. He has made time commitments to other players and it's not cool for me to expect him to blow off those real people to do whatever... but I do wish for it. So this time we have agreed that I will go out wi…
/r/RedPillWives03/08/16 04:16 AM
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Hello! I am 38 and will celebrate my 5th anniversary this year (together since 2009). We are child-free, both work full-time, and both have parents who are divorced and long-since remarried. If you're counting, that means we have a total of eight parents in 4 houses, which gives us a lot to analyze in terms of relationship dynamics. Our families are not conservative (neither are we), but they are traditional. I'm a gardener, reader, and do needlework. I am learning to seek balance in my marriage…
/r/RedPillWives31/07/16 02:55 AM
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Good: I had the weekend off with my husband and we got to just putter together. We went to Cirque du Soleil last night, and that's always just visually amazing. Also, my political party's convention is this week, which means lots of TV and talking it through, which we enjoy together. Bad: Parts of the house are a disaster, but things are steadily improving after my busy time of the year. We decided to have guests over three times in the next two weeks, which is certainly motivating to get The Do…
/r/RedPillWives26/07/16 04:47 AM
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Lovely!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/16 09:17 PM
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I also struggle with the "Whatever you think!" concept, and would rather die than chirp that all day. Instead, I go with things like "I trust your judgement" and I certainly do offer my thoughts by saying "Here are my concerns with this situation- I'm worried that XX". Naming my fear is very helpful (for both of us!). As in-- "I trust your judgement about doing this home-improvement loan, but I'm scared of having unmanageable debt". That's my ACTUAL FEAR, the rest is window dressing. I've told h…
/r/RedPillWives03/07/16 02:54 PM
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Well, that's uncomfortable. Just one piece of it-- there is something to be said for the adage that the best way to seduce a man is to show up naked and bring beer. That's kind of what you did here-- "I'm sexy! I think about sex! I want you to think sexy things about me!" But the thing is that he was already thinking sexy things about you, which is why you were at his house at all. Likewise, you were there because by going out with him you had established that you were interested in him as more …
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/16 03:17 PM
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Thank you, this is what I meant to say. Work-friends text group as in work, like hours, etc.. Always the whole group, never just him.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/16 04:01 AM
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You have experience with one man, a different man. This one will have his own style and path. Give him a chance to figure it out. :-)
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/16 03:16 PM
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So, this is a delicate thing. I have only three men in my phone who I text by themselves-- my husband, my dad, and my industry friend, because mostly it's about technical stuff that his fiancee doesn't want to see. What that means is-- I communicate with my male friends via their wives or concurrently, so that all texts and emails are open as a group. For work, I only communicate with women via text. It's not that we're religious, restrictive, or jealous... just quietly careful to never put ours…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/16 03:13 PM
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If you like him and think he is sincere (but awkward), do try going out with him. Him saying "I like you very much" is more genuine than a man who tries to get your interest by insulting you or ignoring you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/16 02:34 PM
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Yes, this would be unnerving. Think of it as the early-stage, male version of Overly Attached Girlfriend. When a man has a litany of compliments, it doesn't feel like any of them are actually about YOU. This guy is probably well-intentioned but comes off like Mr. Collins in Pride and Prejudice-- "though I do sometimes amuse myself with arranging such little elegant compliments, I always wish to give them as unstudied an air as possible. "
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/16 02:26 PM
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Good grief, what a jerk! Your ladybits are your own personal property to take care of and keep healthy. An STD check encompasses checking for things that aren't necessarily sex-related (though can be), such as yeast infections, BV, and abnormal growths. At that time they probably also asked you if your periods were regular, if you had wicked cramps, and overall if you thought the system was A-OK. Checking on the ladybits is just part of keeping ALL of you healthy and happy. It's bizarre for a gu…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/16 03:24 PM
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The Good: the normal stressful period of my work year has begun and so far we're still on track for things like "a balanced meal was served". This gets more complicated when I start working until 8 some days, and I have requested a freezer for the garage to do freezer meals this year. I hate having to rely on him to produce dinner because the easiest route is a frozen package, and while that is technically food, it's not good food. So- trying to plan ahead for a busy few months instead of playin…
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 03:12 PM
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"Using your degree" is relative. My degrees are in history and horticulture. I don't "use" my history degree every day, but I will never regret it. I learned to read critically, write well, and to think about the world beyond my town and country. I also learned to stick with projects that I hate, deal with people I don't like, and to effectively communicate my beliefs and opinions. In the job market, a college degree can indicate all of those things to a potential employer-- I stuck to something…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 04:55 PM
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Yes, no, and no. All of the emotional stuff aside-- having sex with other people introduces the possibility of getting an STD while you are puttering along in your normal daily life, because it's likely that you've chosen hormonal birth control rather than condoms in your LTR. And if you have no idea that an STD is possible, you are more likely to ignore warning signs until serious damage has occurred. Knowingly putting my body and my fertility at risk is borderline unforgivable for me-- breakin…
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/16 03:45 PM
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I actually love Jane Austen for this- there are so many parallels in terms of relationship style. The central women are bright, forward-looking, and analytical in their approach to finding a mate. They try to avoid being catty, and she's brutal in her descriptions of women who are both married shrews and single super-flirts. They typically look for quality men rather than just financial security. This genre has always been my favorite, and I think this preference plays a part in the kind of rela…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/16 03:29 PM
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I would call the GP (general physician), let them know that I was traveling to India, and ask for any vaccinations they may recommend-- some need to be done a few weeks in advance. It's also a good idea to ask if there are any antibiotics that he should consider taking with him. I know that both of these things may be controversial, but-- my SO of years ago was from India. He went back for a 3-week visit after 7 years away for grad school and got SO SICK. His body simply wasn't used to the flora…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/16 07:05 PM
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Christmas present I loved-- my amazing husband put all of the music stuck on my old iPods and iPhone onto my newest iPhone (I lost a CD book and changed laptops, so ended up with different iTunes lists). Free for him, fantastic for me! Incidentally-- it turns out that you can buy a machine that converts old tapes and records into MP3 files to be loaded into iTunes. So I also got to hear a "demo tape" (heh) from his screamy college "punk band". Very cool.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 05:35 AM
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Are we still going? 1) He literally knows where we are and where we are going-- he's a geographer and GIS guy. I've seen him navigate new places in other countries having looked at a map before we left. I on the other hand have honestly gotten turned around coming home from the store if I have to deviate from my normal route. He has no idea why it's sexy that he is never lost. 2) He's a giant man-child in a good way. He collects toys, but SERIOUSLY collects them and we have actual thousands of t…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 05:33 PM
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Re: chores-- you might check out Flylady.com or a similar site. They have set schedules for housework and will send you email or FB prompts for what is coming up/what is on deck for the day. She has you focus narrowly on 1-2 areas of the house each week, and through the month you will cycle through detailed whole-house cleaning. I find it useful to have an overall plan for the month in addition to a quick daily list.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/16 05:01 PM
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Never stopped him, though! ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/16 04:21 PM
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Charity Chocolate Festival with friends on the 6th (buy a strip of tickets, walk around Old Town trading them for chocolate samples). The 14th itself is always a work day for me because Reasons. Valentine's Day is close to the anniversary of our first date, so we tend to lean more toward that. Our 1st date anniversary also happens to be the unofficial celebration day for my state and there are lots of local specials and small events going on-- beers from here, locally-made foods, etc. PLUS it's …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/16 04:17 PM
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Wow. I wish I had read this when I was still single-- thinking about it this way might have saved me some {educational} heartbreak back in the day. I was always into the smartest guy in the room, and if he wore glasses I was sunk... it never occurred to me that a fascinating hunk of intellect could also be an enormous jerk (I would have made excuses for days) OR that his jerk-ness could actually be his smart response to what I was offering... which at the time, was probably a lot of stress and d…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/16 03:51 PM
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I tend to like straight florals. I've always been in love with Lily of the Valley scents, but for the last year it's been Coach Poppy Flower.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 01:46 AM
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I read this last night and was still thinking about it this morning, so my two sentences-- for me, it's important to not know what kinds of porn and images he is looking at for Special Man Time. I know he finds me lovely, and I don't really need to know more than that. I accidentally found pictures once when looking for a form he'd just downloaded and found... other things... in "recent downloads" instead. What I saw upset me because the women looked really young. I understand that these gals ma…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/16 04:46 PM
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A mom says "Your breath is bad, you should go brush your teeth". A wife says "I love you but not that breath. Fix it and get right back here up close and personal". Everything else aside-- I would reward the hell out of him when you see results that you like. My husband knows that I absolutely prefer his face and head clean-shaven (he's bald on top and simply looks more attractive without the monk-do). That doesn't mean that he keeps it that way all the time-- it's his body and he's in charge of…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 04:43 PM
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Let me know if you figure it out! My gaming scenario above is occurring at this very second-- steaks came off the grill at 7:09, I have missed the window for him to eat before raiding, and it's not something he can eat with one hand. Dinner exists and ball is in his court to deal with it. He is not upset about it, so I am going to have mine and try to not be anxious. :-)
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/16 02:26 AM
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Thank you for this sentiment. I absolutely DO feel that it is my job to feed my husband, and it makes me crazy when he makes that more difficult by refusing to eat something (or holding off eating his dinner until an hour after it was perfect). Providing a balanced meal that he likes makes me happy and satisfied, and when he accidentally denies me that satisfaction, I get increasingly anxious. What did I do wrong? What didn't he like? Did I get the timing wrong, since he had a scheduled online t…
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 04:21 PM
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We have a round-robin game night with couple friends and that helps all of us stay on target. It's always themed and includes supper-- host couple does the main dish, everyone else brings sides, drinks, and dessert. Our constant favorite theme is Breakfast for Dinner, but Everything's Better With Cheese was a massive hit. The next is Eat This Book (food mentioned in literature). So-- while it's game night and we love it, it really is a low-key, ever-changing, rotating dinner party that keeps all…
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/16 02:54 AM
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Easily the most lucid guide I've seen for this, thank you! I have my own personal command center (the cleaning schedule and meal planning does not need to go on our shared wall calendar), and have been thinking about a way to create a household binder. Currently I have separate binders for categories-- Finances, Medical, Insurance, Manuals, House, etc.. But I don't have an integrated, streamlined version. FlyLady advocates carrying your binder with you, but I'm not a giant-purse kind of gal. Doe…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/16 03:00 PM
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