Monty44863 Archive

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2	what are ways that guys show they seek approval and validation? Guys who over apologize, usually for no reason. Or they state how they're awkward and apologize for that. They make their intentions known way way too early. Example; "So do you like " " cause my ex gf didn't like " " and it put a damper on our relationship. They ask far too soon "where is this relationship going?"	/r/seduction	08/02/15 06:18 AM
1	What are your fun first dates? Nothing like that was ever stated. It usually went; him "hey lets do mini golf" me "ok cool" That's it. I don't ever gloat either. Even if I do win, I never rub it in someone's face. If I get a fluke shot, I'll usually laugh about it. Otherwise, I don't keep score.	/r/seduction	05/02/15 04:30 PM
2	What are your fun first dates? I'm 29. Last time I went out for mini golf with a date was around 3 years ago. Considering the guy seemed well off (had his own house, own car, good job) He seemed together in other aspects of his life so mini golf seemed fun and playful. I don't think little things like that should end when people are a certain age. Its nice to be playful and do physical things without breaking the bank. This guy in particular though, after mini golf he was kind of huffy after losing and wanted to play again. I…	/r/seduction	05/02/15 11:41 AM
1	What are your fun first dates? You have a good point	/r/seduction	05/02/15 09:27 AM
67	What are your fun first dates? From a female perspective, if a guy is going to take any bit of competitiveness to heart, don't bother with billiards, bowling, mini golf or video games. Personally, its been the beginning of the end for many many first dates. I don't purposely lose for the guy to win, nor do I play hard to win myself. Whatever happens happens. I think most guys want to set the tone of "I'm better than you" at the beginning of a relationship or dating. At least it felt that way with the guys who never made it to…	/r/seduction	04/02/15 05:53 PM
11	I met a girl and her sister while visiting their city from out of town last night and we all were flirty. They want to have a "sleep over" in my room tonight. I am 99% certain they're looking for more than a "sleep over" so what's the best way to prepare/lead things off? Are you sure they're not planning to rob you?	/r/seduction	24/01/15 06:35 PM
1	Should I pick her up or should we meet there? Pick her up	/r/seduction	21/01/15 07:04 PM
1	What music do you listen to in order to feel sexy/boost inner game? Nine Inch Nails and Deftones	/r/seduction	05/01/15 12:12 PM
1	Got flaked twice, though she had her reasons. I'm not taking it personally, but how should I proceed? With busy people, sometimes a better time can't be suggested and might have to play it by ear or get together spontaneously. Imagine how tiring it is to date someone who makes assumptions and jumps to the worst conclusions, or who has to over explain her actions as to not bruise someone's fragile ego. If he likes her, he should hold on loosely and continue with his life but continue to keep in touch. He can even go on to date other people so her actions aren't taken to heart. Dating isn't a life…	/r/seduction	02/01/15 04:58 AM
1	Got flaked twice, though she had her reasons. I'm not taking it personally, but how should I proceed? Why is being legitimately busy have to be a sign of rejection? It could just be bad timing. Doesn't hurt to give people the benefit of the doubt sometimes.	/r/seduction	01/01/15 04:43 PM
1	Holding back can be one of your most powerful tools The best advice here gets down voted. smh	/r/seduction	17/12/14 07:39 PM