MoodyMagicOwl Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Have you or a female friend of you actually actively pursuit there (now) Partner? Hell no. I would never pursue a man. I need the man to pursue, in order to prove that he actually likes me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/01/26 04:11 AM
–	LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD Serious question- Are younger men actually actually attracted to older women? As in...beyond sex? Or is this just a fantasy/fetish thing for them? Asking as a 43 y/o woman. Much younger men have been approaching me irl alot lately and I don't know what to make of it. Physically- I am active and keep my weight down. My hair is long, and I wear sunscreen every single day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/26 06:33 AM
17	What was your longest dry streak? From the ages of 18-29. By choice. I lost my virginity to a monster. He knew I had zero experience and he took full advantage of it. Basically it scared me into not wanting to have sex again for very a long time. Grew up in a Catholic household with a very out-of-touch mother, whose only advice was "Don't have sex before marriage, otherwise boys will call you a slut". Second longest streak is now (again, by choice) 6 years. I'm in my early 40s and I'm rarely attracted to anyone age appropriate n…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/01/26 01:57 AM
5	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone Oh trust me, I'm not worried because it's not my life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 01:55 AM
3	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone I'm not allowed to post YT links here. But do me a favor and search for a documentary called "British Grannies: Granbia". It's about older women going abroad to Gambia to find a young man. Tell me if you find any of those women desirable. Let me know. Or if you actually believe any of the young Gambian men find those women attractive. Lol. It's no different for american men who travel abroad to poorer countries in order to find a woman. But you'll argue and claim that it's different. Sure.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 01:34 AM
2	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone Because I can attract men here. Why would I go abroad to find a guy?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 12:57 AM
–	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone You're hilarious.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 12:47 AM
1	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone I don't think I'm better than anyone. Hey, if a woman can hustle her way out of poverty- Good for her. Many of these men who go over to those countries love the power imbalance it brings. Fuck 'em. They deserve to get screwed over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 12:45 AM
2	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone I'm giving that show as an example, because many people here on Reddit are delusional. Obviously reality tv can be scripted. I can give 2 real life examples: Back in my 20s, I worked with a young filipina who married an american man. He brought her back here from the Philippines. I guess he used to beat on her daily, or that's what she claimed. I have no reason not to believe her. She also told me that she was leaving him the minute she obtained her green card. Another one: Used to have an acqua…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/26 12:43 AM
14	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone Exactly. Many of these men are considered extremely undesirable here in the states. Whether it be physically or for other reasons. They are socially inept, creepy, or just plain scare women. Then you have the older men who want a much younger woman. They know that they cannot attract a younger woman here in the states, so they go abroad. Enough said.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 09:45 PM
12	More men and women becoming Passport Bros and Passport Sisyers is the only solution that benefits everyone Whether you're male or female: If no one finds you attractive here in the states, they certainly aren't going to find you attractive in other countries. But a green card is attractive to say the very least, and many people will work hard in order to obtain that green card... 90 Day Fiance is a great example of this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 09:34 PM
1	[ Removed by moderator ] The vast majority of men on Reddit do not represent all men. Especially in the pill subs. You're basically talking to a bunch of inexperienced aspie's on here who don't understand human behaviour, nor do they see women as human beings. If these men actually went outside and talked to people, they wouldn't be so angry. Anyway, I agree with you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/01/26 09:08 PM
1	Is it possible a lot of women just naturally don't find most men attractive, and it's not because they don't take care of themselves? And who's fault is that? I'm in my 40s. I stay active and take very good care of myself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 07:14 AM
1	Is it possible a lot of women just naturally don't find most men attractive, and it's not because they don't take care of themselves? Yeah, I think that's me. I'll admit that I do not find most men attractive. Before the internet became popular, I thought it was just me who was like this. Most of my friends partnered up super young. I did not. I thought I was being too picky. I don't really have a reason why though...I don't have a "type" per say. Not even in my youth did I have a type. I'm in my 40s now and it's way worse. I find almost no men in my age group attractive. I did have a crush on a man close to my age a few month…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/01/26 07:08 AM
1	Women should just cut off any access to intamcy till they get the result they want. Have you been married? Serious question.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 03:40 AM
3	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? Uh, I never said I was a 10? I'm not delusional. Ain't no way in hell I can compete with the girls of Miami. But I'm definitely not anywhere close to being an obese unemployed single mother. Maybe I'm not that great. Who knows? All I do know is that men approach me regularly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 01:02 AM
1	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? They dated as teenagers. Back then she wasn't a mother (nor obese) when they last saw each other, which was 9 years prior.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 12:38 AM
0	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? Dude, I've lived it. I'm considered physically "attractive" by societal standards. I take very good care of my appearance and stay active. My ex even called me "Hot'. My ex left me to be with his previous ex: An obese, unemployed single mother. I shit you not. It was downright humiliating. But they do have 15 years of history together, which I cannot compete with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/12/25 12:23 AM
-4	Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin? Men would prefer their wife to be hot. This is 100% wrong. What in your opinion does "hot" mean?	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/25 11:50 PM
1	A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personality Where do you live that people start looking old at 30? Because 30 is still relatively young. The only people that started looking like hell at 30 were the substance abusers, chain smokers, and the ones who tanned heavily in those awful tanning booths.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 07:05 PM
2	DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵 I've barely just started my christmas shopping. I'm not into it this year. Don't care.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 02:42 AM
1	A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personality How long have you been married? Genuinely curious now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/25 02:36 AM
0	A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personality Cool. I've got about a year and a half before I enter my hag era. Also, you're proving my point that these chats about what "most men" (mid men and below to be precise) do is completely moot and meaningless. It's not just that. There are many, many other factors. Lots of men lack confidence and social skills. It's unattractive. Example: I was recently put in a situation where I didn't even think the guy was bad looking at all. His appearance wasn't the issue. If he had social skills and was conf…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 09:45 PM
1	A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personality Does any woman ever aspire to get with an average man? I'm in my 40s and according to Reddit: I'm well past the wall. Though I do stay active, keep my weight down, have a religious skincare routine, and keep my hair long. The average man (my age) around here is overweight, balding, and clothes himself as though he got dressed in the dark. So...no. I don't aspire to get with a man like that. I need to be attracted to a potential partner. Hence why I gave up dating years ago.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 08:57 PM
0	A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personality You have/had options, that's why. The vast majority of men have little to no options. But imo many men do not marry a woman necessarily as an access to sex, but moreso they want a mommy. Cooking, cleaning, childcare, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/12/25 08:07 PM
1	Q4W: How do you reconcile the average man's experiences with your observations? I don't know an average man's experience, because obviously I'm not a man. I can tell you that even when I was young (I'm 43 now) I found most men unattractive. Like anywhere from 95% to 98% I didn't find attractive. This was when there was 0 social media btw. People on reddit love to blame social media, but I think it is just an excuse. It's called natural selection. Now? I don't even try. Most of the available men my age aren't what I want at all. So I'm basically in the 71% of women past 40 w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/25 03:31 AM
–	The existence of unattractive and undatable people is a way that nature uses to stop reproduction Yep. One of my old childhood friends married her husband at 19. This was way back in 2001. They're both ugly as hell, he is 5'5 while she is 5'3, both chubby, each are missing a few teeth, and still happy nonetheless. I'm a woman in my 40s and deemed automatically unattractive because of my age, according to reddit. Men still approach me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 06:15 AM
–	The existence of unattractive and undatable people is a way that nature uses to stop reproduction Yeah? How is that my fault? Ugly people date each other, and sometimes even marry. Imagine that. Most attractive people don't want to get into a relationship with someone who is unfortunate looking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 05:38 AM
–	The existence of unattractive and undatable people is a way that nature uses to stop reproduction That's a load of horseshit. I've known a lot of butt ugly people in my town who have procreated. Both men and women. And many of them I've known since we were super young. They were ugly back then too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/25 05:20 AM
–	Why are men nowadays avoiding marriage like a virus? They need their bills paid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 05:02 PM
–	Why are men nowadays avoiding marriage like a virus? 43F here. Since you're also in your 40s OP: Are you talking about divorced men our age? Or the never married ones? Because the latter is highly unusual where I live (bible belt). The very few ones are either fuckboys, have peter pan syndrome, or are downright repulsive. The divorced men are bitter and do not want to get remarried. I suggest you get off the dating apps (if you're on them) btw. Many of the men over 40 who use them are already married. So that may be another reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/25 05:01 PM
–	There are more bad women than men these days I’d rather being rejected by women endlessly than being killed by man. Also, homeless women. You wanna know why there aren't as many homeless women as there are men? Because many of them are raped and then murdered.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/25 08:02 AM
3	Is your partner meeting your standards for the house chores, cooking and cleaning I'm a woman in my 40 without kids so probably not the demographic you're asking- Not currently in a relationship, but I've dumped 2 different men in my younger years. Mostly because they weren't taking care of things around our living space. One of them was also neglecting his health, and refused to do a simple task such as making a dentist appt. Something I did not know until after we moved in together. I felt like I was more of a mother/caretaker to them than a partner. It's a massive turn-off…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 09:16 PM
2	How low are the chances to find such a woman nowadays? OP disgusts me. He admits he's not a virgin, but wants a "pure" virginal young woman. I could understand a man wanting a virgin if he is in fact, a virgin himself. He honestly deserves to be alone. I hope that no young innocent woman is dumb enough to get involved with him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 07:05 PM
1	How low are the chances to find such a woman nowadays? I believe it. Even Saddam Hussein was described as charismatic and "likeable" according to American prison guards after his capture.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/25 07:01 PM
4	Women are not romantic. I've lived with a man before.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 09:07 AM
4	Women are not romantic. It doesn't matter...because once you move in together, romance goes out the door anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 08:16 AM
13	How low are the chances to find such a woman nowadays? I have never dated an ex-con, nor a drug dealer. But I'd imagine those men know how to talk to women, unlike the stereotypical random guy here on reddit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 08:11 AM
7	How low are the chances to find such a woman nowadays? Not having a longterm partner is not the equivalent to asexual. You are thinking of sex + a relationship, which most of us women are picky about. She probably finds 95% of men repulsive like I do. I'm in my 40s now, but I was the very last one to lose my virginity out of my friend group.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 06:10 AM
1	Men aren’t inherently more desperate for relationships than women are, just more disadvantaged. Oh really? Like you wouldn't pick the most attractive woman? If you had, lets say...20 different women to choose from? Please. Men would do the same exact shit in a heartbeat, given the same circumstances.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/25 05:17 AM
-1	Women clown on lonely men for turning to porn, but are also hostile to the idea of men going out and approaching them Just stay home and watch porn. Not once have I ever responded positively to a man cold approaching me. I don't want you guys anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/25 05:38 AM
12	Alot of people arent attractive nor rich enough for the attitude they have. That's an interesting point and I agree with you to a certain extent. I'm a non-obese woman who is not nice at all, but I'm kind to the people I care about. If that makes sense.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/25 03:41 AM
3	Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life? Thank you♥️ it's been years. Ngl I'm still hurt over it, but I no longer want him back.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 12:23 AM
5	Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life? Speak for yourself. I don't sleep with a man unless I have deep feelings for him. In my last "relationship" I was used and thrown away like garbage. Tbh it destroyed me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/25 12:02 AM
1	Q4W: If the first man you had sex with was the perfect man, would you have been fine with only experiencing sex with one person your whole life? Never married woman here (40s) by choice. It honestly depends on if we're a good match sexually. If yes, then I would have been ok with it. Thrilled even. I've been celibate for years now, and was celibate throughout most of my 20s. Just throwing that out there, because I never had a "Party girl phase" like most men here like to accuse us older women of going through. I'm just a quiet misanthrope. Always have been.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/25 11:57 PM
5	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? As a childfree woman, I've noticed most men want a partner who is willing to do everything short of wiping their ass for them (And even that's questionable). Most men don't even necessarily pick the best looking woman. They just pick the one willing to do most of the grunt work, so they can have their kids and be a "fun dad".	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 07:31 PM
3	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? but the majority of [realTM] men doesn't. Could you please elaborate on this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 05:27 PM
4	Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here? That's an interesting question and I've wondered about that myself. I think men say they want monogamy and a family, until they realize how much work goes into it. I'm a single, childfree woman. At this point, I don't think I ever want to get married. Way too many married men irl have pushed inappropriate boundaries with me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 05:26 PM
-1	Men’s Dating Struggles Dont Get Taken As Seriously Because Many People Are Simply Uncomfortable With Criticism of Women Wrong. It's because many of you have next to 0 standards. I myself only respect men who are able to be somewhat picky, when choosing a partner.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/25 05:21 PM