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| 3 | If you were a billionaire, would you still pursue a romantic relationship/marriage? Why/why not?Absolutely not. I've been in love, gave my man everything he wanted, pleased every desire, supported and encouraged him to grow his career ever since he had nothing. I tore pieces of myself for him, purely out of love. And he treats me like a roommate that he uses as a sex doll when he feels like it with zero regards to the idea that i would also like an orgasm once every few years. He forgot about me along the years. Love is a short lived beauty that fades away if one partner is passive and not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you think women have an obligation or moral duty to have children?What a dumb question to be directed strictly for men to answer. It's not even about them. Not even about their bodies. The answer is absolutely fucking no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 06:03 AM |
| – | Why do women compliment each other even when it's obvious the reality is different?What you described there I've only encountered in my teen years. The only people i see and know that are so mean and brutal are teens usually. They tease and bully each other. Outside of that age bracket, in my adult life, i haven't encountered women to act that way towards each other, or towards men in general. And here I'm talking about uni life, work life, social stuff outside the house etc. Maybe i was lucky to not surround myself with toxic people? I don't know. I will however say this. Sin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 09:37 PM |
| – | Why do women compliment each other even when it's obvious the reality is different?Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So, one person cannot be beautiful for everyone out there, but they ARE beautiful for many others. It costs absolutely nothing to be kind to someone. Kindness would make the world much better for everyone. I personally choose to see the beauty in the people i encounter. What possible good can come from discouraging someone or pointing out their flaws? Sure, if a friend would come to me and sincerely ask what could they do to improve their appearance, or idk,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 06:14 PM |
| 1 | How often do you fear that you'll be romantically rejected because you're not feminine enough?Not at all. I am happy and comfortable of who i am and how feminine (and a smidge of dominant masculine) i am. So what if i get rejected? Clearly the x, y, or z men didn't like me, it wouldn't have worked out nicely no? We part ways amicably, life goes on. It's not a fear i have. It sadly took me way too long to reach this point of loving myself, and not put any importance of what a man thinks of me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 05:41 AM |
| 7 | Will you give up porn in order to have the best relationship possible with a woman?As if the answer to this question wasn't clear enough. 🌽 Sick people will never give it up, and when they say they have, they are always telling a huge lie. Generations of kids had their mind rotten by it at a very fragile and young age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 07:00 AM |
| 1 | The 4B movement is just female MGTOW.And hopefully, drastically reduce the violence towards women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 02:09 AM |
| – | q4w: Are you hoping for the same outcome as your past relationships - with your future relationships?Very poorly thought out question. I am currently married and it's still ongoing because I'm grinding my teeth to hold on. No, i wouldn't want the same outcome. I never wanted the same outcome from past relationships, which is why i made different decisions, picked different type of man, one without all the red flags i previously encountered. A relationship's success isn't down to only one person though. I did everything i could...but the other partner needs to put in the work too. Which is where… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Boycotting sex with men won't work..I was never in my life interested in casual sex. Nor "chads", since i view them as pompous egotistical jerks. I was raised properly by my dad. He taught me about the nature of males ever since i was a young teen, which i have always been grateful for. Also...in my view, FWB is an arrangement that is never in the interest of the woman. I'm way way better off having fun on my own with toys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/24 07:55 AM |
| 7 | Boycotting sex with men won't work..Oh lil boy, i live far far away from the moral wasteland usa, unlike the women who sadly live in it. You make it very clear how 99% of users here lack the capacity to read/understand/be human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 09:30 PM |
| – | Boycotting sex with men won't work..And again, this is not about men. This is about us women alone. This reaction has nothing to do with your average random man. It's about safety, fear of losing the choice, fear of imprisonment. it's a protest like any other, when people are outraged at the government, or a law it passed, etc, they go out in protest, or boycott, whichever way. It's not about you guys. In my country, when abortion and contraception were a crime punishable by jail, women, couples, married couples, forced themselves… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 11:00 AM |
| 4 | The most common argument against financial abortion is easily refuted. What remains is mostly misandryThe refusal to take accountability by some men is outstanding. The issue and solution are quite simple. Men are the ones who have the overpowered ability to completely control where and what their DNA is doing. Women cannot control what their ovaries are doing. Even with hormonal BC, none is 100% effective. The woman's body annoyingly always fights to release that damn egg, and sometimes, even with BC, it succeeds. Men completely control where the DNA goes. Or if it goes anywhere. It's a volunta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 01:36 AM |
| – | Q4all: if you could magically transform into the opposite gender for a month, what would you want to look like and what would you do?Oh my female characters will definitely have a pp. She will be gorgeous, stunning, alluring, and then, surprise pp XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 10:33 AM |
| – | Q4all: if you could magically transform into the opposite gender for a month, what would you want to look like and what would you do?Apologies for the "ick" thing? Idk, english not being my main language, i see new terms popping up or trending, i imagine it's the new norm until the next thing comes along. My millennial ass trying to use new words lol. Yeah my husband tries his best to keep his face smooth, bless him. I truly appreciate it, i know it can suck to shave that often. Oh and i am aware that it isn't a proper horny game, but i heard its amazing story wise so, why not. I wish there were games where you can go wild na… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 10:00 AM |
| – | Q4all: if you could magically transform into the opposite gender for a month, what would you want to look like and what would you do?Wasn't really meming. The whole internet is filled with astarion scenes so...that coupled with everyone's reaction and my wallet, i finally get the chance to experience it. Turn base games are a big ick for me, but i am willing to try it. Ah i see, i looked him up, it is the bearded guy. Sadly, all my life I've had an aversion towards facial hair on men. Idk why, when it started...but i just do NOT like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 09:29 AM |
| – | Q4all: if you could magically transform into the opposite gender for a month, what would you want to look like and what would you do?I will be honest, i don't know who Gale is. But finally i got the game, installing it for the first time tomorrow, excited to see what I've been missing out. Turn based will have me ripping my hair out, idk how I'll learn that. The only turn base i always played is Civilization lol. By any chance Gale would be....the bearded guy? I've seen vague scenes with a bearded buff dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 09:22 AM |
| – | Q4all: if you could magically transform into the opposite gender for a month, what would you want to look like and what would you do?I'd turn into Astarion, have all the nasty fun in the mirror, and whenever i feel like touching grass, I'd go out and have wild sex with women. Then come back home and do more mirror shenanigans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/24 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Why Do Women Think Their Feelings Matter More Than The Truth?I wanted to award you, but i am sadly on a tight budget atm. I have high respect for you sir. A man that truly understands the implications and has the emotional intelligence to process it empathically, is a very high value and respected individual in my eyes. I honestly wish all the best for you in life. If this is who you are at the core, you are a man deserving of love, respect, and a beautiful future. I worry of your reasoning to being in this community, because it's made up of... highly pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 06:13 AM |
| – | since women want innocent men to self blame and be responsible for the actions of the bad men they date, Should innocent men micromanage and control womens action in order to stop them from dating bad men even if it is against their will?My god what an insufferable kid. I always check comments just to see what type of person OP is, to see if there's a point in even trying to engage in a convo or debate. This is another time waster. Another case of put down the internets, go outside and socialize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/24 05:28 PM |
| 1 | For women, how does it feel when your dating a guy who's statistically is also dating/sleeping other women.I swipe for pleasure, not for a life partner. Apps are the worst place to date. They are just for hookups. So idc how many women go for what i also swiped on, like i said, I'm there for fun, nothing else. Apps are the worst thing that happened to dating and trying to find a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Is going soft momentarily that big of a deal?I honestly was never bothered. If anything, I'm taking that opportunity to have all the focus on my pleasure. Like ok, mr. big needs a bit of time out? Perfect, get your face between my legs until mr. Big is ready for action again lol. We all have our moments of zoning out, maybe stress and other stuff momentarily getting to us. With a bit of patience and love, we get back into the action. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 06:44 PM |
| – | Do you at least recognize being told you're dangerous just because you're a man is wrong?Tldr. And my answer is no. A lot of women here provided very good points, so I'm not going to repeat them. But the issue is getting worse as time passes. Aggression and violence against women are rising. Fear and avoidance is natural and instinctive for survival. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 06:26 PM |
| 1 | If you found a study saying that men who cheated on their wives had on average 230% more previous sexual partners than men who did not. Would that make you more concerned about body count than you currently are?There are already concerning statistics involving male aggression and violence on women overall....yet we still see plenty of women still...in their proximity. Forming relationships and bonds. The whole world really. Cheating is the least concerning thing compared to the very real violence we have. I wish BC was our biggest fear. Must be nice. In case it wasn't clear, my answer is, nothing would change. Since an already way worse scenario is happening in real time, we are still dating and riskin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Would you want to be a man?Yes. Ever since i was a child, to this day as an adult. And no, it's never been in a trans kind of way. I look at myself, what I've become, how beautiful i am, how i grew as a person, and i am proud. However, there is still a part of me that wishes i was born a boy. Also, 100% would love a life without monthly, weekly, hormonal changes, ups and downs, fighting half of my life against annoying hormones assaulting my brain. Infuriating, tiresome, depressing. After thinking about it with the clarit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 12:33 PM |
| 16 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.We absolutely do not have that right now. We never did. Yes, we would love to have that, we search for it, and men know this. Why do we see women in sad marriages? While they were looking for a good guy, the guy acted good until he got a ring or a baby. Then the mask fell off. This happens so often, I'm surprised that there are still young women even accepting a male presence in their life anymore. I guess it's wishful thinking and "hope is the last one to die". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: if you had a great first date with a guy you were into, but then he suddenly ghosted you BEFORE sex, what would you think?I'd assume either he's not attracted to me, or we didn't click? It has happened to me. Life goes on. At least neither of us wasted any more time. I wouldn't be pressed by it, nor would i need to know why he ghosted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences.Thank you kind person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 05:48 AM |
| 6 | Sex cannot simultaneously be a privilege for women while also having negative social and physical consequences.I used to love it. But gradually, throughout my relationship and marriage, this man simply does not give a damn about my desires, wants, likes, and zero interest in me receiving any pleasure. I have grown to dislike and despise the idea of a sexual encounter. One single twat turned a horny kinky adventurous woman into a numb nun. As if the orgasm gap wasn't enough. Or the stigma of a woman actually liking sex wasn't enough. I've never in my life felt any sort of privilege in this love/sex area o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileThis boy right here, called that tragedy of a life and living situation around the world ...a privilege. Some people genuinely don't interact much with the outside world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:48 AM |
| – | Expecting women to be the answer to “male loneliness” is futileI remain genuinely confused as to why we must or need to help. No one gives a damn when women lose basic bodily autonomy. No one gives a damn about what happens to us from reading those extremely concerning stats on who kills, rapes and abuse us. We have our own much serious and life threatening issues to defend against, so why must we yet again, be forced to take the caregiver role to adults that hate us. It baffles and confuses me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 07:34 AM |
| 5 | Why do women make posts asking where the good men?Because they haven't reached that point in life when you realize, you can't find something which was never there to begin with. So, they keep on searching and asking, until they learn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Women want sex robots, so why do women make fun of men who want them?We are not a hive mind. Shocker, i know. I don't make fun of them, I'm happy that dangerous men can have them and leave society alone. I'd most likely tinker with my model to focus on making my life easier, chores and stuff. He'd probably be used in the bed much rarely than he would offer me help. I also don't have the urge to abuse his AI.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Men NEED sex. The use of prostitution should be normalized, legalized, and recommended for struggling men.I decided to open reddit against my better judgement, and the FIRST post on my page, is this one, written by a girl it seems(?). Honey, listen, i don't know if you truly are a girl, but i will for a moment believe the tag, i say this, adult woman to young becoming woman, this place, and app, is not a good place to be. Your mindset is worrying skewed against women, it truly isn't healthy. Sex is not a "NEED" as you put it, it's indeed something one might want (amongst a miriade of things) that mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:58 AM |
| 2 | why do women insist on dating men making as much if not more than them?It's a sacrifice they make. They carry the burden because here, life is tough. Paychecks are low, life quality is kinda shitty, government doesn't give af about us. So, the few who can bare this burden and push through the career and ladder, do it for their family or future family. For a better life. For their kids to have a good life. And yes, these men would never want their wife to go through this because they know how hard it is. Which is why they rather have this career instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 01:01 PM |
| 5 | why do women insist on dating men making as much if not more than them?You took the wrong conclusion. It hurts like hell every time. It's a lonely life half the time...but the other half, when he's back home, the joy is imense. It allows for both people to take a breather from each other, and then, allows them to be reminded each and every time how precious what they have is, how precious time together is. It makes those two people truly cherish even the most mundane activities together, cherish every life event. It's all about perspective in the end. From where i … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 12:33 PM |
| 4 | why do women insist on dating men making as much if not more than them?My personal view, coming from a poor corrupt country in EU, women here can't really do much of anything to get into the HIGH paying jobs which are dominated worldwide by men. Specifically seafaring. Doesn't matter if it's deck or engine. They are harassed till they quit, companies and crewing agencies know about it and dgaf. Plus, if one wants a child, she can ABSOLUTELY NOT leave for the entire pregnancy. Putting yourself out of commission for that long (as a man) means career suicide for the n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Seriously what are autistic men supposed to do?Date within your spectrum and looks levels. Simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/24 06:52 AM |
| 6 | What is required for women to really enjoy sexForeplay. Lets enjoy ourselves first. Lets have some fun. I like to dom and tease so if the guy is up for that, I'm golden. Even bigger points if he likes being on a leash or tied down. Don't be a mute. I have to see and hear pleasure, those are my turn on's pretty much. Be vocal, be loud, let go of inhibition. Give me a clitoral orgasm. Don't like oral? No issues, I'll give you a toy to please me with. I don't care if it's a tongue or a toy, as long as i get my O's from it. And yes there will b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/24 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Rank these 3 men as dating prospects and explain why.3, but I'm not giving him kids. So he better be ok with childfree life. Also, if his autism can't handle my kinks then...i guess I'm left with dating none. The first two choices are an absolute no from me, I'd rather hug a bear or 4B than those two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/24 02:22 PM |
| 1 | What do “older” women think of younger guys aged 18-21?Anything under 25 is a kid in my eyes. Also, the frontal cortex isn't fully matured yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 08:57 PM |
| 4 | How bad are huble Jobs in the eyes of women? ( Ex. Garbage men)The only jobs that are an automatic fuck NO from me are: police, firemen, army, truckers. I'm also very cautious with surgeons too, since they tend to be narcissistic and with an ego the size of Mars. It's not about the job or money itself. It's about what kind of character those men, in those fields of work, have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | We really need to stop accepting women claiming the "emotional labor" in relationships, its laughable and dilusionalYou posted the same bs three times now. In a 30 min span. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 06:54 PM |
| 10 | The wall is real and provable with statisticsIndeed. It's been clear for quite a while that this is a bad aspiration to have as a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 11:17 PM |
| 9 | Most women are too concerned about themselves and what they can get from men to be able to love.And you know what, it's been entertaining watching people try to bring you down and change your mindset lol. And yes, i am special too! I will be treated as such, otherwise, out of my life they go. If i am treated how i deserve to be treated, I will show the same love in return. Simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 08:19 PM |
| 5 | All men are predators? Or irrational fear?Boys here are absolutely hopeless. Coming here is like looking through a window into the world of chronically online boys. Poisoned minds fed by whatever bs randoms write and post, without actually doing proper verified research. One can clearly see the ignorant people who have never been in proper social circles in the outside world, in a workplace, in a community setting where people who actually socialize discuss current world events without being bitter and entitled. A shame really. There's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 10:16 AM |
| 7 | All men are predators? Or irrational fear?My god i would not survive 10 minutes there. I would need a full body bubble so no insect can reach me lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 03:56 AM |
| 26 | All men are predators? Or irrational fear?To call it irrational is an insult. So i do have an actual irrational fear, and that's of spiders. I am completely aware that it's irrational. In my area of the country at least, there is no species that will kill if it bites and i can identify if a spider is one of those deadly ones...and yet, i still have arachnophobia. In this given situation indeed it is irrational. I can identify if that little insect can kill me or not, and yet, i have the fear. A human being, a man, has no indicators that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 02:07 AM |
| 5 | Men, who here has significantly increased their core household work share and actually received significantly more sex as a result of doing so? In your experience, does it work?Unfortunate autocorrect on my part lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Men, who here has significantly increased their core household work share and actually received significantly more sex as a result of doing so? In your experience, does it work?Lmao as if happily married, mentally sane men, will frequent this place and engage with people here. The nativity is hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 03:43 AM |
| 20 | Women constantly use how “dangerous” and high risk dating is for them as an excuse for their pickiness but then consistently select and return to abusive low lifesIndeed you are right. I have to take breaks sometimes and remind myself that these people are on reddit and away from women. It is terrifying that some here will manage to deceive and lie their way in a woman's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/24 10:57 PM |
| 2 | [Q4W] Could you be with a man who you knew was intimate with other men in the past?That's hot. Sorry, maybe too blunt, but yes i would. I did and i am, even though that seemed to be a fleeting curiosity for my husband when he was young. He never tried again, seems it was a fleeting thing in his life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/02/24 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Does it make sense to expect lust if you can’t authentically inspire lust? Does it make sense to expect your partner to fake lust for you if haven’t made explicit what they get in return?Yeah my mind was going back and forth between kinky and passion of the Christ. But my horny brain won the battle on this one, i do apologize. The whole interaction between you two made me giggle a bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 07:15 AM |
| 3 | Does it make sense to expect lust if you can’t authentically inspire lust? Does it make sense to expect your partner to fake lust for you if haven’t made explicit what they get in return?Hey, if you get tired, i volunteer to take over lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 05:42 AM |
| 6 | Why people never talk about the fertility in men dropping as they age?I'm not throwing blame, the topic was men fertility, so i stayed on topic. Biology and genetics are going to do their thing regardless of what our feelings about it are. There are women and men out there in their 45s having perfectly healthy babies, and then there are cases when both in their 20s have babies with tragic malformations. Aside from the egg or sperm quality, both partners genetics come into play. We can't control if we have some hidden genetic abnormality unless we get complex testi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 06:13 PM |
| 28 | Why people never talk about the fertility in men dropping as they age?While male seed is in high amounts, with age and lifestyle, it greatly decreases in quality. Genetic anomalies are becoming more and more prevalent with age and crappy lifestyle in men. It's a quality over quantity issue. There's lots of quantity, less and less quality. Seed delivers vast majority of genetic material and generic instructions for development in utero. Many times, a miscarriage happens because the embryo isn't developing properly due to faulty genetic info. A defective sperm ferti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/24 03:45 AM |
| 6 | Fear of men..or fear of consequences?This is absolutely nauseating to read. How can one think like this?? Consequences of what may i ask? Me walking peacefully towards the bus stop? Me sitting with my friends in class, chatting during a break? Me, a 12 yo playing in the park with my bff? Me, a 13yo riding the bus from school to get home? Me a 17 yo just walking home in the evening? Me going around isles to shop for groceries while dressed like a goblin? Me, an 8yo playing with the neighborhood kids in plain daylight??? Do any of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:59 AM |
| 3 | Why is it that women are confused about why men don’t want to be open about there vulnerabilities ?Ok so i will completely ignore internet life. Because whatever is said to us by angry bitter people on the internet is null and void. If one chooses to not give the words power, no stranger can hurt you. So, in my 35 years on this planet, always watching closely how people, friends, family and loved ones interact, there is only maybe one or two moments i noticed a girl or two, mock a boy for either crying or showing "weakness"....in damn highschool. When we were dumb kids. Teens are, by majority… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/24 04:34 AM |
| 2 | The Data Show that Most Women Can Orgasm from Penetration AloneJust... here's an idea. Open up an anatomy book, go to reproductive system for a woman and a man. Take note where the man's orgasm capable gland is, and then take note on where hers is. That little button is very much not inside her vagina. Also, with all this obsession of modeling and butchering genitals to re-arrange them between each other, i wonder if any doctor or women out there asked the question: "hey...can we like....move the clitoris inside the vagina please?". That would make sex a ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 03:54 AM |
| 2 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.No lad, we would just never partner up with such low people. Sperm is cheap and easy to come by. Women can have fruitful lives without low quality men around them, we can all band together for the better. Once you have your precious cake and stuff your face with it, you as a demographic can be content with loneliness and be quiet in the process. It's not nice to talk with your mouth full anyway. It's not decent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 02:39 AM |
| 28 | If females want so much trust in a relationship, then they should be fine without no-fault divorce laws.Female, female, females...and then he says men. Ok. Don't trust WOMEN? All good, stay away from them. Don't put them through the ordeal of dealing with the likes of people who call them females. It's simple. Stay away, stop trying to find a gotcha moment because no one will actually give a damn realistically. We are all fine and dandy without such toxicity in our lives. If i have to choose between men not trusting me, and a peaceful life surrounded by cats, I'm easily planning a remodeling of my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 08:55 AM |
| 3 | Can men expect the bare minimum from women?Over here, guys randomly approaching a woman and randomly ask for her nr is rather rare. At least in my lifetime, this particular scenario never occurred. Maybe zoomers act differently than us these days, i have no idea. However, i responded clearly stating that reading that scenario you put forward made me have that first thought. In this scenario, this rando comes in, intrudes my space and day, to try and get my number. If my "not interested" reply and dismissive demeanor are not being respect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 03:58 AM |
| 5 | Can men expect the bare minimum from women?Nr 1 mistake is looking at reddit stories and thinking they are of value in the outside world. Not only you are digging yourself deeper into a dark hole, it makes people not take you seriously, nor your opinions. To be blunt and honest, the very first thought i had with the phone nr situation, is exactly the "keep them docile, give a nr, whatever nr, and allow yourself to then safely escape the situation". This would be my first reaction. Do not cause conflict. Do not cause the stranger any form… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 03:11 AM |
| 4 | Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man?Yes. The short and simple answer. Before my 30s, i was very accepting of this practice. You know, the usual pick-me crap. I wanted to be the cool girl, the one accepting all kinds of bs that come with the territory of dating a male. However, it took some really heartbreaking events to make me understand just how bad this ugly hobby affects one's mind and sexuality in general. The poison eventually seeps into the relationship itself, erodes it to the bone. I'm no hypocrite. I sometimes, i do cons… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 02:52 AM |
| 0 | Women safe places on reddit are fucking bullshit and only cause a bigger divide between men and women.Because men only spaces are not toxic and misogynistic at all right? RIGHT?? Lol, stay out of women only places, mind your own. A greater divide is a big plus in my eyes, and long overdue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 03:55 AM |
| – | Women dress provocatively for male attentionThis isn't narcissism lad. This took hard work in therapy to finally get here. The most important man in my life made sure i felt ugly, fat, worthless in the most important to development years of my life. The first 20 of my life. I was raised and trained to be small, invisible, silent, docile. I battled horrible self image issues for 30 years of my life. Wasted my life to depression, self hate, low self worth all due to the pathetic human that sadly is my father. It took 5 years of hard, HARD w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 06:06 PM |
| – | Women dress provocatively for male attentionImagine thinking your gaze or zero value "validation" is of that importance to women worldwide. So cute. I dress sexy at home, i dress sexy when going anywhere. I always like to wear hot clothes. Why? Because i am hot af, gorgeous, delicious! So i like to give my lovely body a glance whenever i pass my mirror when going around the house. It cheers me up, it fills me with extra confidence, it gives me a boost. Sexy doesn't mean half naked. No. With taste, and style, a beautiful body can be compli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 05:46 PM |
| 0 | Is there any legitimate argument to be made for the superiority of women over men?Ok dude. Whatever you say, it's right. Each with their own bubble. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Is there any legitimate argument to be made for the superiority of women over men?I was strictly talking about biology. None of all that... stuff...you talked about. I was merely speaking from a medical point of view. If not in our evolved tech society, scientists reached the same conclusion about our biology from thousands of years ago, when in fact, women hunted just as much as men. Women didn't just pick berries and fruits. However, women used a larger variety of skill to hunt. Using their brain rather than force and strength. They used strategy, team work, they used anima… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/24 07:43 AM |
| 5 | Is there any legitimate argument to be made for the superiority of women over men?Do some research. The female body, as it comes, has a higher natural resilience, stamina, recovery from disease and illness just few examples. And tbh, it's not hard to understand why this happens on a biological level. A body that has to host, grow, feed and protect a fetus to term, needs to be able to withstand elements, pain, trauma, viruses and bacteria better. Thus, a woman's immune system tends to be more active and aggressive. In certain cases, that is taken up a few levels, and we end up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:53 AM |
| 5 | Your personality is mostly determined by factors outside your control and changing it fundamentally is EXTREMELY difficult, contrary to what other people might be espousingThey don't want to. Because therapy is not this ✨magic✨ spell people wish it to be. Therapy gives you tools, insight. The person themselves need to put in the work. Medication helps a lot if deemed necessary, but even then, people STILL NEED TO PUT IN THE WORK. They don't want that. It's hard, it's effort. They want the good in life to be served to them on a silver platter. Like damn, i wish it was like that, but life itself is a massive bitch, so we all need to fight against it to have a good e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 04:19 AM |
| 1 | If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to.And while at it, also attach issues such as abusers, cheaters, offenders of any type to those names. Just so women out there can search up the dude's actual character instead of finding out the hard way after he's been pretend being a nice guy to lock her down. Sounds good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 04:20 AM |
| 0 | Society is finished, terminal stageI dare anyone here to take a look at this guy's comments before attempting to try and give any opinions or insight. Like a brick wall. Ignoring your religious ramblings, I'd say the current state of events are a threat to the big boys owning everything. Capitalism suffers when population goes down. Other than that, by almost all aspects, humans are having it quite well in the developed world. Yes, in unevolved areas, humans are struggling, but then again, those are places where women are used an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, the relationship is closed. I'm not trolling. It's all about nature and biology. Yes, we have the agency to fight urges, to fight the intent or action of wanting something extra, but we are creatures of this earth, attraction happens whether we allow our brain to do it or not. If we could fully 100% control everything our brain does, we wouldn't have mental illness, disorders, PTSD, we would fall in love with any selected target and we could control our brain to remain forever in the "honeym… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many men subservient to their wife/gf?A healthy relationship involves discussion, compromise, alliance, team work. It's "us against the world" not "us against each other". It's not about this disgusting idea of who's dominant and who's...."subservient". We discuss, we look at each side of a decision, and we reach a conclusion if it's a good idea or not, together. Because....the man and the woman are together. In a relationship. On a different note, to keep the tone I've seen all of you use in this subreddit, a human being who's body… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA man has a hormonal cycle of 24h. A woman had it spread over 30 day period. So, men are way more unstable, every single day they breathe. Women get sad and depressed for a few days before period starts. Women don't have fluctuating testosterone, the hormone of agression and impulsivity, like men do. Women have estrogen and progesterone fluctuations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot surprising at all. This is the typical toxic hemotional human male. Looks like Disney affected boys way more than girls with this illusion of being forever insanely attracted to one single human being till you die. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIndoor cat. And even if i ever move into a house with a yard, my cats will only see the outside with a leash. I am totally against cats being left outdoors unsupervised and secured, not because of bullshit like oh nyooo poor birds and mice and whatever the fuck little critter, no, all i worry about is the safety of those said cats. They can get spooked easily, run into the road for example and get run over, they might get near plants or flowers that are very poisonous for them, they might eat so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 11:44 PM |
| -2 | What are things you hate about other women?The ones that are so so stubborn to remain with their naive foolish beliefs about men and life in general as a woman. It's like trying to help a stubborn masochist...i feel incredibly sad for them. Sticking the horse's face into the river itself and the fucker still refuses to drink. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 12:10 PM |
| 0 | The DHS paid almost 700k to a counter-terrorism NGO to intercept and divert Twitter traffic away from people in the “manosphere” and those who take issue with promiscuity. Do you agree with these actions and the funding of this report?I'm not an American, idk who "you know who" is. Voldemort? My only guess lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 06:50 PM |
| -2 | The DHS paid almost 700k to a counter-terrorism NGO to intercept and divert Twitter traffic away from people in the “manosphere” and those who take issue with promiscuity. Do you agree with these actions and the funding of this report?Saw one disgusting comment here saying "it might be out of SILLY concerns" for attacks and women becoming a target. Silly. That is the word used. Jfc this demographic is vile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 09:59 AM |
| – | Are you more attracted to calm, easy going or energetic, vivid personalities?Calm, easy going. I'm lazy and laid back myself, I'm too tired of drama and stuff...plus I'm an introverted gamer. I would love if my gamer husband didn't rage at games all the damn time, the constant yelling and tantrums are draining me of the last ounce of energy i have left. I tend to me anxious and quick to snap or panic, someone calm immediately helps me keep a level head. Brings me to a good neutral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Serious question for the ladys: Do you find this kind of man attractiv?Oh man ...damn it this made me cry. Yeah, i know, eMoTiOnaL and shit, whatever, it's my hormones. You caught me in the PMS days. Honestly if my life would have gone in a different direction and my mental health wasn't pushing me to off myself, id bow to this kind of man.Huge respect. I had big dreams, I'm the workoholic type. IF i get a grip and reel in a job i want, i go all in, no regret, full focus, overtime? Hell yes i used to beg for 24h shifts. I love having money. I hate spending it but i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 04:16 AM |
| 2 | The logical origin of the argument “he should have worn a condom” or “he should have kept it in his pants” is actually “she should have just been abstinent”. Why do makers of the former claims not understand the argument they are actually making?The gender I'm talking about is not us. Do we have complete control over what our ovaries do?? Seriously, i recommend doing a recap from the anatomy book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 07:57 PM |
| 2 | The logical origin of the argument “he should have worn a condom” or “he should have kept it in his pants” is actually “she should have just been abstinent”. Why do makers of the former claims not understand the argument they are actually making?Pizza. Really. Getting the shits over a pizza is the equivalent to the seriousness of what I'm trying to point out? Ok. I'm out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 05:59 PM |
| 2 | The logical origin of the argument “he should have worn a condom” or “he should have kept it in his pants” is actually “she should have just been abstinent”. Why do makers of the former claims not understand the argument they are actually making?I'm not an advocate on abstinence. It not feasible. Certain demographics tend to become very violent because of it. Sex and intimacy can be had in so many different ways that doesn't involve sperm invading the vagina. People lack imagination or willingness to do it. So much fun can be had without that damn seed getting in there. Also those with the said complete control lack the willingness to take the responsibility for all the power they have and get the one procedure that with regular check u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 05:37 PM |
| 1 | The logical origin of the argument “he should have worn a condom” or “he should have kept it in his pants” is actually “she should have just been abstinent”. Why do makers of the former claims not understand the argument they are actually making?One gender has complete 100% control over wether a pregnancy happens or not. The other gender is at the mercy of birth control % success or failure, or at the mercy of what their body and hormones decides to do that month. One has all the power. The other is playing russian roulette with birth control failures and their body deciding to fuck them over. Make of this what you will, but i know the kind of ill mentality exists in this echo chamber. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Men are infinitely more forgiving towards women flaws yet women keep pretending men and women are on an even field with dating.Go talk to "single" married mothers, see who's more tolerant and forgiving. Talk to women loving a man that turned slowly into the opposite of what he once was, while love makes the woman hopeful, she tolerates a lot of bs out of love... until she's done. It's normal to have flaws. All of us do. Both men and women have them, both tolerate a certain degree. But then you look at how little tolerance men have towards women who are suffering from PPD, having just pushed a baby out 2 weeks ago. Look … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/24 04:03 AM |
| 5 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantTerrible excuse. Are we animals, unable to control urges that stem purely from the specific chemicals testosterone/estrogen? We are humans. We evolved above that. Ultimately, we have the final choice on how to act. Your childish answer also points to the fact that you would excuse the actions of murderers, abusers, agressive people that did terrible harm... because they were discovered to have high testosterone or adrenaline production. Yes we all have a variety of instincts that pop in our brai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 05:31 AM |
| 20 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantYeah it's the getting mad about it is where I don't understand why. You know your standards, you know very few will fit the criteria, you surely must know you are not even close to 10/10 yourself, so why are you STILL getting mad? Is it entitlement? Envy? I just don't get how so so many humans have this little self awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 08:11 PM |
| 8 | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantOr... ya know...not be so overly dramatic and fatalistic and pick something less... violent? I know if you try hard, like really hard, you could silence that violence within. Do what we happily do. Get pets. Have fun hobbies. Therapy. Dogs, cats, snakes, idk what your favorite pet is, get one, or two, or whatever. Form meaningful friendships and nourish relationships with your family etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 08:04 PM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.Yes Sherlock. I am aware. Keep your dick out of the vagina, simple enough for you? You can wave your dick around doing whatever kinds of intimacy. Just leave the poor uterus alone. Simple enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 05:02 PM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.Let me spell it out for your worn out neuron: sex comes in many forms smartass. Stop ejaculating in a place where the egg goes. Does that compute? Do i need to make a drawing too? And we are here talking about men, so fk off with your pointless legs comment. Women would have no issue if we were the ones with full control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 04:44 PM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.Stop acting oblivious. You have 100% control over WHERE your damn seed is going. Have whatever intimacy you want, but stop playing dumb, you men as a collective, and actually be responsible of what you do with your damn DNA. The damn audacity. At this point, it's like all males in the world mutually agreed to apply weaponized incompetence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 04:16 PM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.No. This is one area of discussion where i have zero tolerance or compassion for shit that men do. You want an out? An opt out? You have that power in your hands, all of you. You have the ultimate control whether a fetus is created or not. You. You are the only ones who can actually, actively, and accurately 100% control that...sadly. Why this is so damn sad? Because the person who this shit happens to, the host body, SHOULD have that exact control...but no, sadly women cannot control with 100% … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Are you sure you're aware of the consequences of men stoicly accepting being singleWill that make us safer outside? Will it stop men from creeping and raping? If these are amongst the possible consequences, I'm totally ok with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 06:48 AM |
| -2 | Are you sure you're aware of the consequences of men stoicly accepting being singleBecause once patriarchy allowed doctors to study and actually make competent diagnoses aside from just throwing "hysteria" label on us, it showed how much women suffered throughout history, including our present times. It should raise a lot of questions if in a world made and controlled by and for men, women are growing up unhappy, scared, traumatized. But raising the proper questions requires for one to actually think outside of their lil box. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy? Well, because it's like if we were in a war, i were to start teaching my enemy about my weak spots and how to easily invade my territory so to say. Why would and should we compromise ourselves? I think we've done enough of that throughout history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 12:15 AM |
| 0 | Penetration is essential to most women's complete sexual satisfaction.I can live perfectly happy without a penis in my life. Never cared about PIV, gives me no pleasure. All i need is clitoral stimulation and everything's golden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/24 01:32 AM |
| 1 | If you are currently unsatisfied with your romantic/relationship prospect, what is your next play for 2024?For real, how short? If you could do it in metrics I'll appreciate, if not, I'll try to convert. I am genuinely curious because to me, short will be my hight or lower, me being 1.60m (i think that's a 5'2?) i have a guy friend who's just my height and i praying for my soul's forgiveness here, but he's your very typical dude, he does not want to learn how to properly groom his beard, missing 6 teeth, quite the beer belly for his hight...but God damn he has this attitude and aura of like... domina… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 06:31 AM |
| 1 | If you are currently unsatisfied with your romantic/relationship prospect, what is your next play for 2024?Honestly? Endure this mess of a marriage bit longer, work on my new career path, and my mental health. I stopped trying to fix my husband's fuckup of this marriage, after 10 years, i think it's time i think of myself and my happiness for once. I did my time. Maybe i can at least make my parents happy and proud, the only people that actually grew with me, made amends, never betrayed me. I will live for mine and their happiness from now on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 06:20 AM |
| 6 | Why do women assume that all women are good?I distrust and dislike people equally, i don't discriminate. Both men and women can be utter twats, so i limit the interactions with both as much as it can be possible. I keep it cordial/professional. However, that being said, and looking at...the world and history, i will always feel safe around women. Bus, train, mall, street, workplace, a damn plane, etc. Safe as in, you know, I won't be hurt, maimed or killed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Would many men still remain anti marriage if new laws were created by getting a divorce harder and abolishing alimony except in truly legitimate cases?You had to delete and rewrite the same bullshit. Ok. I do not need sympathy from beings that think sex is above the line of NOT wanting to live in abuse, fear, miserable mental distressing marriages. That's what i was referring to. Being forced to stay with abusive men in the scenario where divorce is made impossible. You equate...a life with low sex quantity as being the same as living in abusive distress. Or living with a dirtbag that cheats on you with everything that moves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 05:15 AM |
| 7 | Would many men still remain anti marriage if new laws were created by getting a divorce harder and abolishing alimony except in truly legitimate cases?Demanding respect and peace is the bare minimum. Wanting to have rights and safety is a perfectly reasonable demand in a civilized society. A tortured victim is able and can turn violent in a desperate attempt to escape. Even a caged beaten beast will eventually crack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 01:53 AM |
| 9 | Would many men still remain anti marriage if new laws were created by getting a divorce harder and abolishing alimony except in truly legitimate cases?I'd definitely do it if forced to stay. If i cannot escape jail I'll just off myself too. I am not going down gently into the light, I'm taking the asshole with me. Small minded people have no idea what it's like for women forced to stay in misery. Zero empathy, zero care for them. It's just like a hostage situation with a torturer. You eventually do lose your mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you want your son/hypothetical son to have children?Well, being child free I'd say no, as an antinatalist, i would say yes to adoption if they really wanted to just be parents. I would want them to be happy. Doesn't matter what i, the hypothetical parent, want. If i ever by some twist become a parent, i will never tell my asult kid how to live their adult life, i just want them to be happy and content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 05:04 AM |
| 0 | What do you think of the study showing 71% of men have been sexually victimized by a woman?Be for real. Also, society doesn't give a flying fk when it happens to women, what makes you think it will give a fk about men? If the overwhelming majority of the victims are being ignored or gaslit, the minority will be treated even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Why do women generally view sugar daddies less creepily than older men dating and marrying younger womenNo, it's still creepy and disgusting. Ew . However, i stop worrying about the girl and stop any judgement of her because of the fact that they are BOTH aware of the nature of their arrangement. No one is being deceived, both mutually agree. That's how all relationships should be, both being honest and transparent about what's going on. No manipulation, no "train them young" type of trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 04:17 AM |
| – | Men empathize with lonely women. Women are disgusted by lonely menMy impression of it is "i want to be a victim so hard!! Please pity us and give us free sex!....But be a virgin though pls" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 06:14 AM |
| 0 | For those of you who think women can get anything for free?Relax my dude. I simply told the OP how it's never truly for "free". I am well aware of all the things you stated, i know they are true and I'm not contesting it. I live it. Ofc, from time to time both the husband and wife might get frustrated, relationships and marriage are never easy, and people don't usually want to tell the world of their personal problems at home, whether they are small or significant. Yes, there are good people out there, but i believe that there are more bad than good peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 05:44 AM |
| -1 | For those of you who think women can get anything for free?Terminally online femcels would know nothing of what a marriage is like. Majority don't shit talk their partner because in all honesty, they want to keep good appearances. The fact that they chose the wrong dude, or the dude that turned rotten, makes them feel dumb for choosing them in the first place. So, in order to not look like a fool, they either keep it quiet, or just tell pretty little lies. Yeah not all experiences are bad. But keep in mind, even when they are, we tend to keep quiet abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 06:15 PM |
| -1 | For those of you who think women can get anything for free?It's never for free. Never. Wether you provide companionship, support, love, sex, patience, housework, shopping for home needs, managing finances, doing taxes or bills on time, wash their shit stained underwear, endure their screeching at the TV or PC, put up with low effort sex the list goes on and on....all these cost us. Costs us our energy, lifespan, mental health, eventually physical health. It is never for free sis. Also, keeping good appearance, body, skincare, clothes? Those take extra t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 05:23 AM |
| 1 | this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to beSo, when studies don't put men in a good light, they are bs. As long as they attempt to try and put women in a bad light, it's all good and correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 11:50 PM |
| 1 | this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to beHolding out? Me? That ship has sailed long ago, it's no longer the case. Also, have a look at how men are happier and live longer if married, and then see how in the same scenario, women have the opposite experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 05:44 PM |
| -2 | this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to beI'm not height obsessed like you lot, you lost me there. And the dude can do all the housework for all i care, like i said, single is better. He can be the superior manchild in peace, all that precious money for himself to fuel his porn and gaming addictions. All in peace and quiet. No woman needed. If wanting to be with someone you are attracted to and they are mature beings with all normal synapses is delusional, again, will repeat myself, single is way better. We are happier anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 01:53 PM |
| 2 | this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to beWe are not equal, never will be. And we are under no obligation to associate ourselves with one another. Being single is infinitely better than an unhappy life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 01:22 PM |
| -2 | this might be an unpopular opinion but dating the top 20% of men are overrated. Just get you an average man and live an average lifestyle. Dating the top 20% of men is not what its cracked up to beThis is written either by some incel here, or you have become a sad pick-me girl. I hope no woman in her right mind falls for this crap. Majority of "average men" end up eating away at your will to live after marriage and years together. Single is infinitely better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 12:31 PM |
| 0 | Women narcissistically define "maturity/adulthood" based on how they tend to behave and "immaturity/childishness" based on how men tend to behave.No sir, i do not have the time and the fks to give to write 20 paragraphs about all my experiences. And i am lenient when i say 20. I decided one example out of way too many would suffice. The reality is, way too many ppl disrespect the responsibility that comes with driving large metal killing machines on the road. And a big proportion of... certain demographics have no business driving in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:55 AM |
| 2 | Women narcissistically define "maturity/adulthood" based on how they tend to behave and "immaturity/childishness" based on how men tend to behave.They were bosses. As in head of departments. Eh, in this particular industry and country, there is still a lot of corruption, so if i were to have said anything to defend myself, i would have been the one to be fired. Justice was served eventually though, years after i left that industry, they were apprehended for their illegal practices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:52 AM |
| 0 | Women narcissistically define "maturity/adulthood" based on how they tend to behave and "immaturity/childishness" based on how men tend to behave.We don't need to hangout with them. We are surrounded by these twats, and our lives are in danger because of them. The amount of dangerous cretins i had to dodge on the road is absolutely ridiculous. I was once harassed and followed and taunted by a cretin who got enraged that i had the audacity of not giving him way...while i was INSIDE the roundabout already as he was speeding towards It. In case you are not familiar, a car already inside the roundabout has the right of way, unless the incomin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 02:15 AM |
| 0 | Women narcissistically define "maturity/adulthood" based on how they tend to behave and "immaturity/childishness" based on how men tend to behave.I have went through this too. Two separate workplaces, separate bosses. Just remembering that position i was in, and how powerless i was is increasing my anxiety rn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 02:10 AM |
| 5 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?Now that i know what a marriage is like for a woman, I'd totally skip it, i prefer work and freedom. Marriage is a trap for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 05:21 PM |
| 9 | We cant expect women to care about the inequality in the sexual marketplace. Its just wishful thinking.I have become so disappointed with each upcoming generation, it solidified my child free stance. I cannot, on good consciousness risk bringing a girl into this mess...or a boy that seems inevitable he's prone to being brainwashed, no matter what values I'd try to teach him. Men are easily manipulated by other men. So fk that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 04:45 AM |
| 0 | Robot and AI girlfriendsGave me a good laugh. I would absolutely buy one of those. I would queue up the like at the store like Apple fans do. That thing will be way more beneficial to my life than anyone ever was, strong exception being my parents, i love them and cherish them. Other than my parents, everyone has either used me or hurt me. So yes, i absolutely would buy that robot, male or female i don't care, I'm bi anyway, and it would make my life so much better. For talking and normal human interactions...we have o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 02:14 AM |
| 23 | We cant expect women to care about the inequality in the sexual marketplace. Its just wishful thinking.T.H.E.R.A.P.Y Jesus Christ, please, majority here need urgent therapy!! Do not have kids and bring them up until you solve these massive issues that make some of you look at women as objects. We are HUMANS too. Beating hearts, pain receptors, red blood in our veins...we feel emotions, we have needs...why do hemotional boys always lean heavily towards abuse/possessiveness/rage, and never towards adapting and being peaceful and diplomatic. Why is it always violence and hatred just coursing through… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 10:27 PM |
| – | "No one owes you anything" is another battle women are going to loseFantasies and ramblings of your typical lamenting loner. The world could go into full crysis and apocalypse mode, i will still remain unimpressed. I owe no human being my body,.my time, my love. For all the previous generations of women that have suffered lifetimes of misery at the hand of men, i refuse to go easy or make it easy. Lament and tantrum all you want, many loners will blame this "oh so catastrophic distress of having a dry dick" issue when they will eventually end up being prosecuted… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Do You Think It’s A Good Idea, To Split The Gym By Gender?I would absolutely go to a gym just for women. I'd even stick to it long term because of it. I am not the type to exaggerate, men looking my way or crossing path, or asking if they can take certain weights off the rack do not bother me. People look, walk, ask, it's no big deal. I've had much bigger issues sadly, and even trying to force myself to feel safe, it doesn't work anymore. After the 3rd incident at a very popular and expensive gym, i was done. I thought I'd be safer in a place with high… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/23 01:08 AM |
| – | It's crazy how a lot of people would rather be lonely forever than give up their mile long list of standards that they want in a partner. Is this really what the world has become?You know what else is crazy? The bar is actually at the floor level and even that is asking for too much. So much so, that people decide single life is better. I am glad when people adapt properly, and quietly make their lives better and think of their happiness first. We get one life. Spending it being miserable next to someone that makes us unhappy is the saddest thing a person can do for themselves. Live and let live. No one owes you or anyone else nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 06:01 AM |
| -2 | Choose better is always the response when women are in bad relationships? Do you show the worse parts of yourself when just meeting someone?It's always "choose better"... I think it's about time we all shout "BE better" in unison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/23 07:25 AM |
| 4 | Men should not commit to women until they close all their optionsReading this nonsense and then going around reading this guy's comments it turns dark very fast. Makes one cherish the privilege of not being anywhere near all of THAT. Sheesh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 12:47 AM |
| 25 | Men should not commit to women until they close all their optionsNo no, don't. Let natural selection do it's thing. Now, if women continue to smarten up more and more, and not give into boys tantrums, nature will do it's thing in the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Grey’s Anatomy perfectly captures how women perceive and evaluate menI stopped reading after "not so gifted" bs. While the series is exaggerated and pure entertainment, the character Christina Yang is portrayed as incredibly gifted. She is the only character i loved in this ridiculous but entertaining show. I cannot sit by and not defend Christina. She is the genius, the purely driven intern/resident/doctor, she was as excellent as Dr. Burke. Derek was your typical egotistical ahole, Meredith is trying to fit in her mother's humongous shoes but falls short becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 06:09 AM |
| 1 | About being late to respond back to guys’ texts.Personally, for some reason i always get very anxious when it comes to texting. I detest it. And I'm not going to pop a xanax just to text for an hour. Phone call is better, i prefer face to face. People that already know me are very much aware that texts will occasionally fall into a deep hidden void unread and unanswered. Honestly i have met other women and girls just like me. Funny enough, my mom understands where i come from, my dad cannot comprehend why tf we are like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/23 02:16 AM |
| 2 | I'm the Founder of an AI companion app and I believe Boyfriend AI will be much larger than Girlfriend AII'm going to go against the nay sayers and admit, as a woman, I'd give it a try and would probably enjoy it, if i allow my mind to enter that "fantasy" so to say. Majority of people would be very surprised how well this might be received IF done well. Look what happened with Baldur's gate or whatever it's called. Women have been absolutely enthralled with the game, most of them going into it for the main reason of the ability to romance and engage intimately with a certain character in the story… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 04:04 AM |
| 2 | I'm the Founder of an AI companion app and I believe Boyfriend AI will be much larger than Girlfriend AIThis always made me question my own point of view at times, the whole sex toys thing. I was always ok with it, hell, i even encourage it, brought some in the bedroom for both of us...and i noticed as a young adult that i was the exception. Majority of people from my age group indeed had or even still have the tendency to ridicule guys and toys. But now new generations come in, i always expect them to be much more open minded...and i usually expect the reddit population to be on the younger side.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 03:37 AM |
| 1 | If women are jealous of where all the good men have gone, how come they don't try sweeping them earlier in life?Yeah, i never understood this odd "desperation" of some women. Like, honey, wake up, you can't morun something that was never there to begin with. I guess ignorance is bliss and hope is the last to die are very true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 06:20 AM |
| 7 | Guys should start denying women sex, stop being too available for them and start treating them back, exactly they way women treated you.Absolutely yes, guys please do this. I agree and approve of this message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 06:13 PM |
| 0 | Do you think there’s a lack of good men?Lack? There was never an abundance to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/23 05:50 PM |
| 0 | Cake and eat it too?Even so, that bag can save her life. It's her safety net. We are not taught by our parents that the bag is only for scenario X. Parents teach us of all things that can implode in our lives. But when they list all the scenarios, to a weak young woman, the most terrifying words are "what if ge loses his shit and starts abusing you, etc, etc" Hence the essentials. An anxious traumatized girl might have essentials. The rest, we do what our loving parents taught us. Have money saved up somewhere, bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 06:18 AM |
| 0 | Cake and eat it too?If it's fair for the man, who supposedly loves and trusts me to accuse me of cheating with that test, it's fair for me to accept the test and end the union. There is no relationship without trust. And because i do not desire to be a single mother (since men villify them and react in disgust), i will plop the kid in his arms and i am out. If it's fair for men to walk away, it's fair for women too. An eye for an eye yes? What is this you say, having emergency funds is... the same as accusing one o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/23 05:13 AM |
| 2 | The ethics of Paternity test vs Go-bagsSometimes i read something so obnoxiously dumb, it makes me wonder if people here are pretending, or this is just how they are. But then as i scroll down the comments, i am given the certainty that... this is all they can do. This is how they are. Because there is no way such a large number of boys are collectively pretending Absolutely ridiculous to think an emergency go bag is the same as an accusatory test. And it's sad if a woman lets a prenup slide without bringing in a shark of a lawyer to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 04:58 PM |
| 5 | Domestic ViolenceDid they try picking better women? Did they try to leave? Did they try to act like a man should around the house? What did they say or do to make her act that way? Were they asking for it? Just pick better women. Just leave. If this doesn't ring any bells, you are all ignorant to the world. Just in case you don't get it and get emotional..../s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Dear Women, Do you think all men care about is sex?Yes. Men spoke loud and clear and we heard them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 03:32 AM |
| -1 | Are women jealous of guys dating younger women, or are they perhaps legitimately concerned for the women?35F. Genuine concern. Anyone who thinks we are all jealous or envious needs some thinking to do. Like seriously put in the effort to think. First,. why on earth would we be envious? For what, the guy our age who's a creep wanting to date a large age gap? No thank you,.i want to be as far away from that as possible. I do not want to date such a person. Second, envious of...the girl's age? Why would we be envious of a time in our lifespan where we don't know ourselves, we don't know what we want, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 03:29 AM |
| 3 | Girls have zero empathy for guys and male lonliness.This is exactly why i have zero empathy. You said the only truth here. Short and straight to the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/23 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Oh thank you for the offer, but in all honesty, coaching won't do much in my case. Surprise surprise, i am a support main. I've only played support for...over a decade (jfc it sounds so sad), usually just useless stuff like lulu/morgana/yumi. Enchantress support if you will. I used to be a more bold support with blitz/naut/thresh, but those days are long gone. You know, my toxic ass wants to take you up to the challenge and see how long it takes for you to throw in the towel lol. Trying to coach… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Oh I'm not as tryhard as i used to be previous years, back when i had the patience. I just make sure to stay in gold for the shiny free skin, and just play for fun with my team. I also make sure to stay max honor level for any POTENTIAL skin lol. When we do tryhard, all i hear is yelling and arguing and inting. My mmr is also broken to bits, i remain a low rank while my team rose to plat and emerald. I cba to fix my mmr, i know how to, i just don't care enough to put in the effort. I used to als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Nah, i wouldn't want one to waste money on something like awards and stuff. Better spend that money on treating yourself or your loved ones. The only times i am ok with money spent on pixels on a screen would maaaybe be a skin in league of legends or a mount in WoW XD I admit i am guilty on spending on those. My guilty pleasure lol. Good luck on your journey! Kick ass in fitness, it feels amazing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Thank you for your kindness and patience to discuss. A rare thing to see here. I wish you all the best, and always pursue your happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Honestly? Hand on heart, i will not have another "typical" relationship again. I have my mind set. I will be close to my parents and family, i will live alone, my lovely cat or cats? with me, and if i will ever feel I'm in a place for a relationship-type situation, i will continue to live alone. I can love, i can have intimacy, i can and might do it, but never marrying, never allowing a person to invade my space. I might accept exclusivity, but my space will be my own. My belongings and financia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/23 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Thank you for your kind words. No, i am not from US, but I am from EU. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Thank you. He was definitely addicted for years, he now admits that. It ate away at my desire for him, hence the issue i brought up to answer the original post. His royal fuckup killed my desire. Yes, he approaches me often now, but he puts zero effort in it. I feel like a Fleshlight for his needs. All in all, i think i gave the guy a fair amount of chances. I will be leaving with no guilt or bad feeling. I did my time, gave years of my life, my love, my patience. I so hope my experience helps a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Sadly, he doesn't think therapy is something real/legit. The whole sphere of mental health to him is like a made up thing, like horoscopes and what not. So couple's counseling had always been off the table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Thank you so very much for your kind words. And also thank you for the platform, i will certainly give it a go, on my own sadly, since my man doesn't believe in therapy or couples therapy. Also damn you are one speedy keyboard master, that was a very fast response. I'm here struggling to hit the right keys with long nails lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:51 AM |
| 3 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.Ok so idk how to quote, so i will just take your points in order. Also trigger warning, self harm (just in case) I don't know about ignoring red flags, i am aware we as humans are not perfect. It would feel ridiculous to demand such a thing. We all have periods of time when we are not at our best, we feel down, etc. I am not the type to go "uh oh, first pink flag, BREAK UP!!" This is reddit mentality so to say. I decided to be patient with the person i love ... because that's what you do. If you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 08:36 AM |
| 5 | Once a woman stops being attracted to her husband, and the bedroom is dead, there is no reviving it.All i can do is talk about my experience. It's the most sincere, instead of making assumptions about the general public or throw statistics of "50ish people interviewed" bs like that. We were together for 6y before we got married. I have always been very open, about anything and everything. All my past, my thoughts, wishes, desires, dislikes etc were communicated in clear detail, because i know it's important. I did my part on this front. Sex was alright, him being vanilla, me a freak, it wasn't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menWas i... supposed to argue against you? I was continuing a discussion. I'm bit confused now. And yes, i am bashing those women because i wish and hope we wake up as a collective. I had a bff for 20 years and my god not once did she learn her lesson. It's like the definition of insanity, like what do you expect to find when digging into trash? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Do women's taste in men change when they are on birth control ?Maybe so, maybe I'm a bit more conservative on this front, but i can't shake the thought that when it comes to female related medicine, a woman doctor or researcher would do and understand the task better. Vice versa about men and medicine and research when it comes to their bodies and such. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menWell, that's the thing, a sane woman with a functional synapse network won't get together with trash. We do however frustratingly have to lower the bar because... something went terribly wrong with such men's upbringing. Mine and that other woman's reply was meant to succinctly point out what we want, simple terms, nothing impossible for a normal human being. I don't want the typical gym rat chad that acts like a twat...i want a man. A MAN. Properly raised, empathic, clean ( women get candidosis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Do women's taste in men change when they are on birth control ?You won't find male researchers in here. If this was a question about testosterone therapy, male reproductive organs function, male 24h hormone cycle, etc, i would find it absolutely pointless for women to chime in. Lets not forget how male doctors and researchers botched majority of women bodies related issues. Men have absolutely no credible input here, because women do not talk about such things with males. But such is like in this habitat here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/23 07:28 AM |
| 6 | Men are not more v*olent for not getting sex. Most v*olence against women come from men they are partnered with, not from virgins menThis right here is all we want. You put it in a short, concise way, yet it's still not simple enough for smooth heads to finally understand. You described the perfect man... add good hygiene and some body care, hair care, basic things, and it's perfect. Congrats on getting such a man, hope the very best for you guys! (I also envy you with a passion) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 10:21 PM |
| 19 | Do women's taste in men change when they are on birth control ?This should have been a QFW. This is the last demographic of boys to get such answers from. The answer is yes, it changes a lot of what we are and feel, it's not as simple and easy like "less/more masculine men". But i know i have to keep it extremely simple here so i will limit my answer to just yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Why should men commit? What makes being my wife better than being my GFWay too many people here ignore the scary part of what this dude just said. Jfc this sent shivers down my spine. The red flags are shining brighter than the sun..."follow instructions"... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 09:54 PM |
| 6 | Casual sex is worse for women and makes them sad and untrustworthyRegret and Emotional Consequences: If under the cloak of anonymity and safety, an overwhelming amount of married women out there would tell their story about just how much regret they are feeling for being married, how mentally and physically drained they are. The emotional consequences of drawing within the lines imposed on us by men throughout history is unimaginable. Yet women do as they were raised...stfu, smile, pretend it's all ok. Let the man be a man, you be the good little wife you are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/23 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women: If you had the chance to be reborn as a man, would you do it?How do i place a flair, I'm very dumb at reddit XD Nvm think i did it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 05:31 AM |
| 5 | Being monogamous and wanting children should guarantee every man getting a female partner. Our current dating environment is just an anomaly before population collapse.Is this the new scare tactic? We had "the wall" story, the "die alone and unhappy with cats", the "marry your daughter off as soon as puberty hit so she won't be old and barren by 20", and now.... population collapse? Total chaos and anarchy! Nah, hopefully women get smarter with each generation so no pressure tactics work. Population will be just fine. It's the big and the rich owners who will suffer, and i am all ok with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 05:21 AM |
| 4 | Do you think you would exist if your parents had to endure modern dating?Yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 01:21 PM |
| 21 | Do you think you would exist if your parents had to endure modern dating?No. My dad does not deserve my mom and me. If my mom knew there was better out there for her, she wouldn't have settled down with a chronic liar and abusive cunt like him. And I'd gladly not exist if it means my mom got a happy life with a good man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/23 12:32 PM |
| 2 | What will be the impact of intelligent life-size realistic artificial partners on the dating scene?No worries, we have our own wallets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 10:14 PM |
| 1 | What's the competion between women for men like ?Back when i was single, i had a bff who was like a super vacuum for scumbags. I loved the fact that she got all their attention, and gave them her attention, so I wouldn't have to deal with them. Somehow, she complained for like a decade about guys being nasty and breaking her heart...idk what her life became like after the age of 28, we drifted apart. In any case, i never felt a competition with other girls/women. Never met one that felt the need to compete either, it's a strange idea for me...… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:28 AM |
| 3 | What will be the impact of intelligent life-size realistic artificial partners on the dating scene?Lmao no woman out there will stop creeps from getting their toy, it's perfect, keep them busy with those so they won't bother women anymore. And i also promise you, A LOT of women would also buy themselves an AI boytoy for around the house utility and bedroom pleasure. If we want romance, we go out and get it ...you know...by socializing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 04:08 AM |
| 1 | What portion of men are actually loathsome slimy creepy scumbags in your experience?And overwhelming majority of trouble i would find myself in is because of ... which one do we guess? Men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:44 AM |
| 5 | Most men cause their dating issuesThe irony is, their revenge fantasy is like a paradise to a woman who's opened her eyes and has endured enough crap from men. Single with cats? Hell yeah, a peaceful life, surrounded by pets friends and family who love me? I see zero issues there. Title is correct but your points are missing the mark. Those are not exactly the main issue of basement dwellers. But listing their actual issues would waste me time since none of them accept accountability and change. They only see looks and money bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 01:42 PM |
| 2 | 18 to 24-year-old individuals who reported no sexual activity in the past year increased among men (but not among women)Skill issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 07:35 PM |
| 3 | What portion of men are actually loathsome slimy creepy scumbags in your experience?Right. And then whenever something horrid happens, news pops up, 99% of the time, it's a dude that did it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 04:41 PM |
| 10 | What portion of men are actually loathsome slimy creepy scumbags in your experience?I've learned that give a man time, resources, anonymity, get him to somehow take off the "mask" they have, majority will show some form of disgusting mentality, disgusting ideas, outright scary, an audacity the size of Mt Everest, no empathy and a lot of hidden narcisism and entitlement. It would shock you if you knew just how many ppl are awful on the inside but they hide it very well. Balkans is the general area of Europe i live in. But i interact with lots of online friends, for 15 y now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 05:30 AM |
| 13 | What portion of men are actually loathsome slimy creepy scumbags in your experience?My lifetime experience and people watching? My opinion is at 80%. If i include this sub, then 95%. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 05:03 AM |
| 8 | Men are constantly told they overrate themselves, despite the fact that the vast majority of men obviously UNDERrate themselves. Meanwhile, women are notorious for overrating their physical appearance.Mhm. You know, this thought process never occurred to me. But you got me thinking. You got me looking back at my current single male friends, and my past ones, every instance i can remember. This had me laughing, because i never seen girls/women overrate themselves, however, every single dude always shot way above their "level" at some point in time. This is my observation in my 35 years of life and people watching. Even recently I've been watching what my friends are swiping (right? Left? Idk t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 02:58 AM |
| 1 | If women want to be sexually free and autonomous then cold approaching is fair gameThen learn the meaning of NO and go away I'm not interested. You talk about what we wanted like we had some sort of audacity to do so. We asked for what is normal for a human being. A normal human being will understand that, no complaining or questions asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 04:18 AM |
| 3 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceMhm. This sounds like it was written by a 20 yo incel. And if you are the age you are, this should ring some bells in that void. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Women, why do so many of you keep telling men that appproaching you is wrong and annoying?I guess the main reason was fear of rejecting them. I've had some bad reactions to me even politely turning a guy down. Growing up as a girl, like I'm sure you've heard us all talk about it, is traumatic in itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 09:03 AM |
| 6 | Population collapse: The worldwide Hell that is comingIndeed, my country has 2 year maternity leave, still not doing it. Bring a soul in for what? To work until death? Nah, I'm good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Women, why do so many of you keep telling men that appproaching you is wrong and annoying?Personally, i always felt safer if I'm the one doing the approach. I was always very uncomfortable if a guy, no matter how he looked like, approached me. Maybe i should feel like it's a compliment, but fear is all that i feel in those moments. Probably many other women feel the same? I mean we are all individuals too, with different preferences just like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Can you get why some men have a problem being initially seen as "relationship material" vs being "for fun"?Is this serious? How could we not get it, it's how every one of us is treated like at some point in life. I went through this, all my girl friends went through this, when we were young. Lots of guys pretending to be in for the long run when in actuality they just wanted someone to bang for a while. I heard them talk amongst themselves just like this about girls and women whenever eavesdropping. Throughout life, men and women go through very similar experiences, we just deal with it differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | It seems like men fail to understand that the attention that women get is not the compliment or even a privilegeYour perspective and thoughts hit a spot. I can empathize, i understand the pain. I was there for a period in my life. I am not a man, but for a while i craved intimacy, trust, safety, love and even kids. I was so hurt that i had given up searching. I just pursued other things in life, and slowly forgot about my bitterness and envy of others. Then, i realized what a child actually implies for me as a woman so i made the final decision that i never want kids. Eventually i found love, but after so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Happily partnered folks, does your (heterosexual) relationship seem at all similar to RP beliefs or is very different?My husband sees the pill world as total bs. One time i wanted to discuss it like, you know, exchange opinions and such, and he was immediately into a non ending rant about how dumb it is and how reddit needs to be deleted lol. Otherwise, he is considered short i think? 1.70m, he is currently obese, but still manages to get women to just laugh and pay attention to him, etc. He's got a certain charisma to him that's always been magnetic. When he was fit, i was really territorial and on guard lol. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Many Women seem to not understand their own sexualityThis is childish. If you are interested to actually get the point, i gave OP a reply after he replied to me. Try and focus this time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Many Women seem to not understand their own sexualityI am really starting to think some boys here cannot keep focus for longer than 3-4 sentences. The ones stuck on your pill regurgitated bs seem to just lose focus after 2 sentences or maybe just not bothering to read. Or maybe also blind to your own hypocrisy. As if men don't find top tier actresses insanely attractive. How childish must boys like you be to actually believe you will ever be this Adonis, the all perfect and beautiful for your wife, she will have eyes for you only. No one will ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Many Women seem to not understand their own sexualityDon't matter? My whole rant about age was to stress the fact that we learn in those years. Learning means it matters. Our past actions and decisions build the person that we are in the present. We may be dumb before the age of 25, but we learn from our mistakes made. I for one am glad i made those mistakes young, it means I'm not making them now as an adult. You made a bad assumption here. Maybe I'm not making myself quite clear because of language differences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Many Women seem to not understand their own sexualityThat was more of a joke, the actor being mentioned. I mean, humor is one way of coping i guess. The issue with my man is that he never to this day wants to listen when i tell him what i like or the fact that he is more of a pillow princess than anything else. My needs are not met. However i refuse to allow the marriage to crumble because of a dead bedroom, so i compromise on this front. Other people prefer to let it die off, wither away because of sex, which to me is dumb. Sex shouldn't be the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 05:36 PM |
| 6 | CMV The biggest fear of a Women in Dating is getting Pump and dumped, the biggest fear off a Man is not beeing seen as sexually desirable by his Girl.Where are you kids getting these wild ideas from?? You think our biggest fear is being dumped??? Dude, we are terrified of being killed, raped, assaulted, harassed and stalked. He dumps me and ghosts me? I am damn relieved...please ghost me. Just don't harm me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 02:18 AM |
| 4 | Many Women seem to not understand their own sexualityFirst off, everyone likes to look at eye candy. Men like it, women like it. It's eye candy for a reason. However, the thing you see mostly in women and not as often in men is that a woman needs some level of trust and closeness to the guy to be comfy getting naked. Attraction. To the person as a whole, inside and out. Includes personality, maneurisms, behavior, etc. It always baffles me how highschool and college girls are put in the same bucket with actual adult women. Dude, in those young year… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 02:15 AM |
| -1 | Do you think that the "Mating Crisis" will actually lead to anything significant?Men campaigned to give women the rights they took away in the first place. No points from us on that topic. Currently, I'm seeing rights being taken away again, bit by bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:09 AM |
| 0 | Do you think that the "Mating Crisis" will actually lead to anything significant?I always ask myself how come these lonely desperate men don't just band together like women do. Form meaningful bonds, friendships, hey try to be FWB with each other. Women can do all that just fine. Just be open to each other and not bully each other. Endless fun, friendship, video games, basically a lifetime of frat houses. That sounds way more fun than the tedious and thankless job of parenting...and it truly is thankless, listen to the women who lament. Or struggling with incompatibility wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 04:56 AM |
| 8 | CMV : Most women don’t think they’re deserving of a top men. But almost none would admit to themselves they deserve average or below….This is the only right answer. Sadly too few out there who get it, and almost none here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 02:29 PM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?I always detested attention. I just wanna be left alone, not seen, no one bothering me. Back in dating days, it was me doing the pursuing. If i didn't feel like a guy makes me want to pursue him, i wouldn't want any attention from them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Doctors warn US is barreling towards same fertility crisis as Japan - where one in 10 men in their 30s are VIRGINS and third of women will be childlessI mean, even if i had access to a surogate or an artificial womb, i still don't want a kid if it means i have to parent, work, do house duties, and all in between that life requires. The economy doesn't help at all, it is impossible to juggle everything, even if my husband were to be very hands on parenting as well. Both parents having to work themselves to the bone just to survive with a child, to give them the minimum required, it sounds so so sad. It is not worth it. My pain and lifetime side… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 12:38 AM |
| 1 | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemOnly need them when husband is away for work. They come in handy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 10:40 PM |
| 9 | If a woman has difficulty coming to orgasm, that's not my problemWomen choose cats over men because of their character, low quality, misogyny, and overall not making their lives better. So imagine being replaced by a cat, a dog, any pet out there. And i love them for being unapologetically happy this way. I love them for not listening to men's scare tactics of "oh nooo you will be single surrounded by cats!". It is also easy to replace selfish lovers with toys. Oh the variety of toys! If we want a quickie, a long session, a mind-blowing earth shattering orgas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?Ah yes, another well educated boy on this matter. A respectful one too. A delight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 06:01 AM |
| 2 | If women are happier when single. Why do they push for commitment?If i ever become single again, you bet I'm never pushing for commitment. I'm gonna avoid it. I am NOT going through this crap again. You know which ones are desperate for commitment? The naive, the ones that were never burned by a guy yet, the ones that didn't experience AND learn from their bad relationships. Accepting that it's very normal to seek happiness for ourselves but not depending on anyone other than ourselves, is the key here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 02:03 AM |
| 1 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?Men know how a woman's body works. They are too lazy. The practice excuse is a lame cop out that only naive girls would believe. Unsure where the pleasure spot is for a woman? Turn the corn off and pick up the female anatomy. Take care of that one little spot and she will be all good. Practice is total bs, because in reality it's all about quality, NOT quantity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:48 AM |
| 1 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?Practice?? What are we now, tools for men to learn how to x, y, z? False. All you need is selflessness and a will to actually please the woman that did take a chance with you. Honestly now, with the disgusting amount of corn men consume, one would think that they would have immense imagination. For some reason, it's the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 01:45 AM |
| 5 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?Fml ain't that the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 05:58 PM |
| 11 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?And this is where the thread should end. The reality which men are blind to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 05:52 PM |
| 0 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?You hit the bullseye on this one. This is sadly the truth for majority of women. And yes i see it as sad, i don't like cocky "chads" that act like pricks, but if i want to experience GOOD sex...they usually know what they are doing. The average dude is either clueless or a selfish lover. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 05:47 PM |
| 9 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?Oh I'm quite happy to come home to peace and quiet and just relax and have fun on my pc. Maybe i was really unlucky in life, or just too naive, but i have been treated badly by most people I've encountered. Friends betrayed me, men used me, abused me. I've come to a point in life where i realize just how precious peace and quiet is. I know it's not for everyone, but for those who are loners in nature, this lifestyle is comfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Modern dating essentially makes it so the worst of us are the ones who reproduce.This is not the case. Idk what color rainbow pill you consume, but in general, worldwide, the higher the "IQ" the lower the birthrates. The higher the education people have, the lower the birthrates. You know which ones reproduce? Highest birthrates are among the low intelligence, low education people. It has been like this for a long time and you must be quite young to not know of these facts. Also, maybe I'm biased because I'm CF, but why do guys from purple/red/black/whatever pill want to hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t men just do what women do?Yet these poor lil boys would do anything BUT be decent human beings. Those old fucks have educated their girls to not take any bs from dusty narcissists. But i know, the idea that your actions have consequences and that you have to put in the effort can be quite distressing to teens cosplaying as adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t men just do what women do?Because that requires actual effort, genuine effort. For millenias men getting their way and their slave wives are gone and now the idea of being a decent human being makes them throw an epic tantrum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:47 AM |
| 6 | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?Oh i see. Didn't even think about that. Thank you for explaining! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:47 AM |
| 13 | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?I was 8 when a guy tried to lure me and another girl from our play area with supposed ice cream. I was almost 9 when creeps were hiding into thick bushery in the park, flashing their penis and jacking off while gesturing for me to come closer or come play with them. Encountered those creeps again when i was 17. The stalking and catcalling started at 12. Harassment has never stopped, year by year i experience it in some shape or form at 34. Also, why was a question asked by a woman deleted and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:10 AM |
| 1 | How has your ex partner's life turned out compared to your own?I know nothing of none of them. It's been 14 years since I promised myself I won't look for them. Recently i tried to look for my first bf, but I can't find any trace of him on social media. Either he's like me, and refuses to have any online footprint, or something may have happened but i really hope not. I always hoped he's got an amazing career, wife, kids. I have been irrationally worried about him ffs. I should have kept my promise. My 2nd ex, i am scared to look because after 14 years, I'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: What steps do you take to make men less afraid of you?You cannot be serious. "Divorce rape"?? How fucking dare you...use the word rape for such a liberating thing as divorce. For thousand's of years women had no escape...now we can safely divorce unpleasant and horrible men, we are able to escape...and you boys have the audacity to call it rape?? What i do as a woman to make men feel safe? Absolutely nothing. You cannot fking compare fear of men to a boy's fear of a woman that might not want him, oh my god what a tragedy right? I cannot take this s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/23 01:49 AM |
| 4 | Women discomfort to reject men seems to parallel the discomfort men have to approach womenYeah seems skulls can get very thick. My point flew right past you. I made it as simple as possible and that still didn't go through. Either playing dumb or just... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Women discomfort to reject men seems to parallel the discomfort men have to approach womenWhy can't men get this: women are afraid of being killed and harmed for saying "no", men are afraid that they got...a "no*. How thick can a skull get seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it?Lmao nope. He can be Adonis in the flesh, if he's an ass or a poor lover, I'm not going in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it?If i can remember correctly, I'd say 8-9 months. I've always been on high sex drive, so i had to replace two toys that i broke in that period of time. Mentally it was no big deal, in fact, i remember those days of being single fondly. I had freedom, peace of mind and no drama. Physically sometimes it became annoying having to change underwear 3 times per day because i was constantly wet. But the feeling only made the "me" time at night more fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How do the women who are always aloof and dismissive towards men’s approaches expect to meet someone?Yes, i have been the pursuer my whole dating life. I always felt safer if i was in control of the situation. When a guy approaches me is when i get anxious. Guys never complained, however I've seen plenty of surprised reactions, and if the answer was no, then I'd back off and no problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 10:49 PM |
| 3 | How do the women who are always aloof and dismissive towards men’s approaches expect to meet someone?We don't expect anything, maybe just disappointment. If i want to attract someone i know what to do. I act disinterested because I don't want any attention. Simple as that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:36 AM |
| – | Women are far worse at articulating what they find attractive than menCan't articulate...this implies we are somehow dumber or something. Here's an idea, ever thought that we articulate just fine, it's the listeners, men, that are not actually listening or, maybe they just can't comprehend. Maybe we should speak in simpler terms for some? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Men today act so feminineThe only reason they did that in the past is because they had women subdued and made completely dependent of them with no escape. They HAD TO provide, pretend to be "good chivalrous* men to impress the woman's family, once she was his, he would beat her and force her to be his bang maid and mommy till death. Now? Women finally are waking up and breaking the chains, no longer putting up with their bs. Men are no longer under the protection of marriage and property of a wife. They actually need to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: in a scenario in which the man is providing financially 100% for the family and the woman doesn't work, what would you consider to be the justest way to split house chores and child rearing?This is from a perspective of being married to a man that is away 4mo, at home 2 mo, rinse and repeat. Leaving aside what the general mentality is being taught to us women since young, when it comes to being married "into" this profession, i like to believe i kept my own judgement on this. Ofc, while the man is away, the wife has to deal with everything and anything all on her own. Having no kids, it makes things easier, but very lonely. Anything home, family, financial, emergency wise needs to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/23 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Female women, what kind of man makes you feel lust?Lust? I usually blame that on my hormones so i always made sure to think extra hard whenever that feeling hits. Hormones make all people do dumb crap, men and women. But, what would get the spark fully ignite, I'd say attitude gets me first. I do admire handsome guys, normal guys and what not, but that's not the first thing that gets me. When the guy has a calm, confident attitude, displays the leader type of allure, i am weak. I don't know how to put it in words, it feels like an instinctual pu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 04:31 AM |
| 2 | If a sexually experienced woman begins a relationship with a sexually inexperienced man, she should be willing to experiment with him and teach himFirst off i am so thankful for your kind words. I am usually scared that people here will lash back at me in some shape or form at any of my input to questions for us. I feel guilty and ashamed for thinking that i am missing out in life...but i still press on because i cling to the idea that the love and life we built has to be enough. I've been praised by some people, ridiculed by others, calling me a fool for staying. In the end...this ordeal will end with either him waking up to reality, or i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 04:07 AM |
| 2 | If a sexually experienced woman begins a relationship with a sexually inexperienced man, she should be willing to experiment with him and teach himThis gave me a laugh. Will skip the entitled mentality you portrayed into this post since you got it from others. What amused me is the fact that i was experienced, my husband was a virgin. I did try and guide and teach him so to say. I've been explicit and clear. No hints, but direct communication. Over a decade later and he still does a piss poor job. I just let it slide because i am tired of communicating to a deaf brick wall after so many years. I am not an isolated case, but sadly our sad s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Do you have a “one that got away”?I'd say yes. Never again had i a relationship with such fire, but it was to a point where it was consuming us. I believe that no matter how much we wanted it to work, it would have been an all consuming forest fire in the long run. So after a lot of back and forth with him, after a few years, i had to take the step to put it to rest once and for all. It's been 13 years and i managed to not look him up to see how his life turned out. I still keep that curiosity locked up in fear of making me feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: How would you react if you found out your son was...I would never allow for my kid to end up like that. Me and my husband met young, and my brother in law was a lil kid. He grew up with us guiding him and being there for him. I love him like my brother, bonded with him early on. My in-laws are dumb af and abusive af on top of it. Me and husband made sure to always talk openly with his brother, we made sure he socialized, we pushed for him to always be in a sport, a team sport preferably. Took him with us on many outings and "dates" so to call the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/23 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Q4Everyone - Facial HairHonestly, all girls or women i asked were the type that would make fun of men who do choose to remove their body hair. But recently I've seen some of them relax and not judge as much if at all, which makes me happy. However, i have met a few guys who throughout the years they became more confident and felt no shame because they were shaving their armpits, chest, legs etc. I'm quite happy to see men becoming more comfortable on this topic. Because at the end of the day, yes, anything on our bodie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Q4Everyone - Facial HairNever in my life did i or will i ever like or accept beards or mustaches. I am repulsed by them simply because i imagine all those oils, bacteria and other crap that grows in there. Also, i always felt like they are hiding something behind their beards. So no, i want my man clean, all shaven so i can see him better. I'm required to pluck and shave 95% of my body for dumb standards, the least i can ask for is no beards and no armpit hair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Q4Everyone, can you give examples of good women/men you know in real life? Preferably people of the opposite gender to yours.My mom is at the top of the list. She deserved a way better life than what she got, but she's always making the best of it. She is a genuine good human being. I guess i could add my dad to this list but i feel like i am not being honest with myself. I remember my history school teacher, she was an amazing person aside from her profession. She left a big impact on my life. Oh and my English teacher from year 9-12, she always was such a great person and a kind patient soul. I currently have a few … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/23 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?I personally like to observe and people watch whenever i go anywhere. May it be man or woman (I'm bi) i admire beauty when i see it. I don't find most men unattractive phisically. Quite often i like what i see. I go "i would/wouldn't" in my head unintentionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/23 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Women, would you rather date an attractive poor man or an unattractive rich man?Beauty is temporary. We end up old and wrinkled anyway, so i was never looking for beauty as first criteria. I'd go with the unattractive guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/23 07:53 PM |
| – | Spend insignificant money on a girl until after she is sexually productive.Lol, at this point, women will just be happy to point you into the direction of the nearest brothel and be happy without a man in their life who only sees her as a sex toy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/23 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAmerican? Have you seen anything negative about the free education that has been around in Europe? Is entering a program per merit instead of money a bad thing? So many american students are flocking towards europe for education, they must be onto something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMarried but plan to remain child free. My retirement plan is a quick way out when or if I can't afford life or health is declining to a point where I can't live pain free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSadly sexuality is not a choice. We can't pick and choose what we are attracted to. If i could, I'd switch teams in a heartbeat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 08:18 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlmost had me but then i heard bitches and tities aaaand he's now ugly to me. Pretty dudes are the candy but as soon as they open their mouth jfc they are repulsive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 08:12 PM |
| 0 | What is the reality of the sex life of the average woman?Must be a very american thing. This whole obsession with women chasing chads like rabid dogs. I basically came to the conclusion (at that time, was young) that at the core, they are all the same. So, why try and keep searching and giving my heart to find Mr. Right. There is no Mr Right, there's "ok how much bs can i deal with without losing my mind". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 09:07 PM |
| 0 | What is the reality of the sex life of the average woman?"chads" are just as disappointing. Plus i knew since young that they are always assholes so i stayed clear. Take it easy on those gymnastics and assumptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 08:43 PM |
| -1 | What is the reality of the sex life of the average woman?Disappointing. Never cared to give guys my time of day, had only two relationships b4 threw in the towel and married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Men being Insecure over sex toysI noticed the other reply i got hinted towards me hating toys. It is not how i feel about it. Maybe i worded it wrong, English not my first language. So, by all means, everyone can have their toys. I think they are amazing. I was pointing out something else. A sex robot is like this beautiful lifeless doll yes? It looks like a woman. So in the man's mind, he imagines she is alive and (hopefully?) willing. If that man can get off with that and forever say no to women, good for him. Good for him a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 01:56 AM |
| 8 | Why do you think there is so much anger towards promiscuous women?One word for everything women have endured in all history from the hand of man. Control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/23 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Loneliness cannot be solved in the long term without romantic relationshipsWhat choice sorry? Also, did that wall of text paint a more clear picture about how some situations go? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness cannot be solved in the long term without romantic relationshipsLove is blind. Love makes us all into idiots. The brain craves that happy hormone. But also, first 4 years were amazing. No guy ever treated me with such respect at the time. I was ready to throw in the towel and pursue women when, by a random dumb situation, i met him. He made me trust men again...well...he used to. Not anymore though. His job requires him to travel. Even though i tried my best to convince him to pursue a different career before we joined university, i caved and said well, you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Loneliness cannot be solved in the long term without romantic relationshipsLots of assumptions there. This is why this s hole is like this. You immediately assume that your assumption is correct. Cheating is a big no from me. I'm not an animal, i can control urges like this one. Sex is not the deal breaker for me, it doesn't make or break my relationship. Plus, honestly, my toys can do a way better job than a rando who has no idea of what i like, want, etc. Cheating involves too much effort as well, i really cba. Another assumption you made is about the communication t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 03:40 PM |
| 9 | Loneliness cannot be solved in the long term without romantic relationshipsI've been incredibly lonely in my marriage for 8 years now. I can usually describe it as, we are basically apartment mates that 3 times per week all effort he puts into intimacy is thrusting for 3 min till it's done. No affection coming from him. All he does every waking hour of every day (while at home from overseas) is play pc games with our friends. I used to shower him with love, care, effort on his pleasure in intimacy time...and after 4y together he just got...lazy/comfortable/content or t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 01:04 AM |
| 2 | I don't get why Western Women complain about Passport BrosEntire Europe sees america for what it is. This includes culture, manierisms, personality, etc. I'm from East and i wouldn't let any of you near me. I'd rather starve. Opening the news, social media, reddit, tiktok, we can immediately tell, yep, that's very american. Honestly i keep my distance, not that it's hard, y'all are loud af, we can hear you from 1km away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 06:45 PM |
| 4 | We as men should be thankful that the goddesses known as women participate in this sub with us.I come here to read aberrations for amusement. Like...a trip to the zoo, watch the monkeys throw dirt at each other and screech. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Female women, would you forgive if your significant other cheated on you?Hm, if i am to judge by my current situation with my husband, i would agree to stay married (and happily, all is forgiven) only on de condition that we open the marriage. I love him dearly, and i can separate love from sex, i see them as different "elements", so that would be the deal. If not, i will go ahead and do what he did till he probably asks for a divorce or something. An eye for an eye. You got to have fun, i get to do it too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 04:18 AM |
| 0 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingBeauty is in the eye of the beholder. What i consider handsome my friends might scoff at, and vice versa. Looks are not this one singular pattern or mold all men or women should fit. The only people we want gone is the bad, the dangerous, the evil and malicious people. Only the extremely shallow men and women actually want "imperfect" people out of their sight so to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Pretty much every advice targeted at men is to make them to wait until they are too old to do anythingLiterally all women want is for men to be decent human beings and treat us like human beings. One thing is asked of men and it's always "be better". Know why? Because currently, the bar is below sea level. We do not expect anyone to wait for anything... it's up to the man or woman in question how long it takes them to mature and be kind, respectful, decent people. If that takes you decades then that's on you. Also don't be homeless i guess. At least be financially literate and wise. Just like AL… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?At the rate of which birth rates are going down, they might do that as an incentive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 11:36 PM |
| 2 | The idea that we live in a “hookup culture” and that a significant number of women are having an abundance of casual sex is a myth. Most women have zero interest in casual sex and have a limited number of sexual partners in their lifetime.Yeah, got to say it was a bold move to try and bring any sense into this dark hole, but they are too far gone. The delusions and mental gymnastics are at this point, the main coping mechanism. There's just no point honestly. Rather than looking inwards they just choose the easiest cop-out and blame anything and anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Women’s hypersensitivity to awkwardness and lack of social prowess/dominance is not rooted in fear or some “survival instinct” they’ve evolved in response to dangerous men, but rather in their privilege and abundanceGod how i wish i had that sixth sense you are talking about. i give all people the benefit of the doubt and i always get burned for it. I notice guys being creepy way later and someone else has to point it out to me or they do something that really sets off my anxiety. It's not a privilege to be afraid and scared when you are alone going anywhere. It's not a privilege to be too scared to say a direct "no". And yes it is scary for many many women, because most of us, in at least one occasion guar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Here's economics answer to the classic question that countless women always ask: "Where have all the good men gone?"Where have they gone? They never existed. There's a monster hidden in all of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:26 AM |
| 5 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.Autism manifests radically different from boys and girls, starting from infancy to adulthood. There's a reason girls and women get diagnosed late in life, IF EVER. Do some extensive research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Who and where are these invisible women?I've always been the invisible one, and that was my choice. Ever since young i could never shake the fear of a man's attention because of past trauma. So I'm always making sure I'm not approached. I dress however i like but i got the attitude and bitchface of a really nasty person while out and about. Whenever i was interested in a boy/man, i was the one to approach, that is how i felt safe. If he said yes, alright lets get dating, if not, i never even wanted to know why, I'd say thank you for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 05:39 AM |
| 2 | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?My personal opinion is that either the offended person really has nothing to bring to the table and they feel called out, or, the offended person might think "the audacity of the oppressor to dare ask me that question". Just my opinion. I don't remember ever being bothered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 11:35 PM |
| 3 | AI girlfriends will allow men to fully be themselves and thus will radically change their standards for womenThis screams "i have zero irl experience with dating and real relationships". I tried reading and seeing it another way but it's just not possible. Nothing in my life applies to any of these descriptions, and I've had good and bad relationships, which is totally normal, we live and learn and try and become better people. But this AI business you are talking about will not lead to any irl experience, no learning from mistakes, no becoming a better person...it would further alienate the lonely fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 04:26 AM |
| 1 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menYeah, we had to adapt and survive somehow. Look back in history of horrifying mistreatment of women by men, one must instinctually find a way to survive. And since we are not as phisically strong or have/had any backup from the strong gender...well, tbh i am not surprised we got here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 07:00 AM |
| 3 | realising that the pool of suitable men for marriage is dwindling rapidly in your 30s it's the female equivalent of the shock that the redpill causes in menHoney, women are starting to not give a damn more and more. The more we yell it out loud and clear how men have been manipulating and lying all our lives, things like this become amusement. Recently i noticed that women are starting to see "the wall" as the true bullcrap it's always been (just one example). Brings joy to me. No human being no matter of gender should endure centuries of lies, control, abuse etc. Took a while but I'm glad i live in a period of time to see women rising above yet ag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Western Women, how much of a turn on is it for you if a guy is rich?I had the tendency to avoid rich guys back in my dating days (married now) simply because i noticed early that the more money a guys has, the more of an ass he is and will be. So i stayed clear of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Where have all the good men gone?Your mistake is thinking there were ever truly good ones. A mask is easily maintained with practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Why isn't the plight of unattractive women ever talked about?First time i see an actual good post that spawned more than one good discussion...aaaaaand it's gone. Go figure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Is playing video games an ick be honest?Not for me. I've been an avid gamer all my life basically. So i preferred gamers when dating. Both me and my husband spend ridiculous hours on gaming and we are not bothered. It was an issue in the past, he did ignore me and responsibilities for some time, but we worked through it. Now it works just fine. He grew up more, when something needs done he will do it, or we do it together etc. One thing though, and this is not intended to insult anyone, but this is one of the reasons i refuse to have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Men who want to move abroad to find love - why?Because the bar is not low enough for them to be tolerated. They need to go to places or women that see the bar even lower than hell in order to be considered. Americans will always remain on my "not a chance in hell" for dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 08:11 AM |
| 2 | Which man would you pick?Well, i married the "Tom", going on 14y together. It is challenging to be in a relationship with someone that had zero experience in the past though, but i was aware of that, i took the risk. N count was never something i considered back then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 12:35 AM |
| 2 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?I have my discord friends there for me every day. We send every evening together. And I'm not into porn so there's no dopamine crash there. Some people feel better on their own, seems majority are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 03:03 PM |
| 0 | Most young men are single. Most young women are not. Why?My theory is that women are starting to be fed up by men's bullshit so single life looks much better and relaxing. As an example all I'd need is my cat a glass, a glass of my favorite drink, a long bubble bath, chilling at home in peace and quiet and then spending rest of my free time gaming with my online friends who are amazing. I do not desire kids, and for sexual desires i have toys that do the most better job any man in my life ever did. To me, that's how peaceful heaven looks like. I long … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 03:36 AM |
| 5 | What do you think of men wearing shoe lifts to appear taller?Yes but not all women are the same. A young shallow girl has much to learn still...but a mature woman knows what matters and what not. This is where men's choices im women come in play. If you chase junk, then expect to be treated badly. I cam speak about myself as a woman and all girls and women in my life up until this point in my 30s. 18 to 25 ish old girls will be shallow. Life experience teaches everyone lessons So, to quote what most boys like to say " you chose him/her, it's your fault yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 03:24 AM |
| 2 | What do you think of men wearing shoe lifts to appear taller?I feel sad for them. I never understood this obsession with heights. I can imagine a person resorting to such measures has ongoing mental battles and it's for such a pointless matter. An unnecessary struggle. I have never ever asked a guy what his height is at the start, maybe out of curiosity it would pop in my head after dating for a while. Usually only popped up whenever we got invited to some fancy event and i wanted to know his height so i dont wear too high heels because i am aware of men'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 11:10 PM |
| 4 | If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do?My opinion remains the same. I don't care what country it is. I find it appalling that a government would force civilians to fight and die. It's sending cattle to a slaughter house. Get gary the deskjob 9-5 with high cholesterol to fight...get bob the gamer and DND player to fight...they would be in shock, distress, and dead for this practice of sacrificing people. If country leaders have an issue with each other, they should go in a ring, fight untill one taps out and there you go. Outcome achi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 05:47 AM |
| 2 | If WW3 started tomorrow, what would you expect your man or men in your country to do?Expect? I expect my husband to stay the hell AWAY from all of that. I don't care what we need to do, where we need to run or hide, but he is most certainly not going. Draft should be abolished like a 100 years ago. Absolute nonsense to call people who have never even held a gun, are out of shape, absolutely zero training to a nonsensical war. They got their army folk, call THEM in. They chose the army. I expect that civilians be excluded from any form of battle, no matter man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 04:40 AM |
| 3 | Women Aren't Lying, They are just being PoliteSome opinions here are wild. Not much sunlight sees the majority. Honestly now, what good can it possibly bring a person if you outright tell them what makes them unattractive to YOU, what gives you the ick and so on. Just why? So i can hurt them, maybe most likely make them feel self-conscious in the future for traits that for me are not clicking but for another woman they might be amazing? I don't want to make anyone sad, self-conscious, insecure etc about themselves. What good would i have br… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Where does this hostility towards men today really come from?Keep telling yourself that kid. See how low you can get in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 10:09 AM |
| 13 | Q4W: Where does this hostility towards men today really come from?From history. From watching the news. From watching documentaries about murderers and criminals. From being sexualized, harassed, abused, manipulated, ridiculed, talked down to, all of these starting from the age 11ish (at least what my life was like). So basically life experiences mostly. No matter how many times i tried giving the benefit of the doubt, i was disappointed, shocked or afraid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/23 12:12 AM |
| 1 | CMV: All the character traits women despise in men they display far more frequentlyGod they really need to hurry up with those robot sex AI dolls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 02:25 PM |
| 0 | Men being Insecure over sex toysIt's exhausting trying to get anything through boys here. I am legit begging companies to hurry up with production so certain demographics can have them and be happy. Jfc what a waste of time. Gl hf, I'm out of the convo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Men being Insecure over sex toysIndeed it is. We all have to compromise few things in a marriage, this is one of them i guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Anyone in a fulfilling relationship with someone they didn't find physically attractive initially?Ew, a creeper that looks through profiles. Anyway, my bedroom is on the mend atm. And the bedroom was dead for a few years and it's not because of attraction. It's because my moron of a husband became addicted to porn and neglected me for months, years. I've never stopped being physically attracted to him. I am just disgusted about his porn addiction and still resentful. What even is the fucking point of answering any questions here as a woman. Boys will always chime in to call us liars anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Men being Insecure over sex toysYou kids are amusing. Here's the thing, most women realize that the type of boy that wants a sex robot is and never will be one she should want in her life, or in her proximity even. It's natural selection. Dumping bad genes in a silicone hole. The women that are for some reason scared of those robots haven't yet realized the above. I can't wait for the robots to become more accessible. The nasty ones will stay at home with their slave toy while the good and normal ones will be out there ready t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 07:26 PM |
| 4 | Men being Insecure over sex toysYeah, i swear by it to my husband too. Protecting his ego. Keeping the peace and his mental state stable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 06:07 AM |
| 7 | Men being Insecure over sex toysI do know of them. Your comment was snarky for no reason. Ofc i know about my own body, I am living in it. And i also know, from my experience and the experience of other girls/women i talked to, g-spot is there yeah...but it's just like a pleasant feeling and nothing more. An actual orgasm comes from the organ that actually does it. The one that turned into a penis for boys in utero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 05:50 AM |
| 4 | Men being Insecure over sex toysAnd mention the many women who don't have an issue with toys. The way i see it, they are toys for a reason. To have fun. Adult toys. I tried getting my husband to try some man toys but he's not really liking the sensation. Not gonna force him, so they just collecting dust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 05:46 AM |
| 28 | Men being Insecure over sex toysSerious question for men and women here that have an issue with toys....are we all aware of the female anatomy? Are we aware that PIV rarely does anything for a woman's clitoris?Or how so many women just can't have an orgasm in certain positions. Why feel inadequate or intimidated by a plastic toy...most of the time, anatomy is not on a woman's side, why not add help in the matter? If all women collectively decided to stop faking orgasms, the male population as a whole would have a collective me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 03:16 AM |
| 9 | Do you think mothers are confused as to why their now grown nice guy son has yet to find a partner?Right. Ok. When moms and dads used to yell at their boys to stop spending every breathing moment gaming or watching anime and hentai, and go out, make friends, study for school, take care of their appearance and gasp hygiene, all those boys threw temper tantrums, going all emo, locking their bedroom doors and not coming out for days. This is some nasty stuff... blaming your mom for the lack of pussy in your life. It's just...ew. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 08:21 AM |
| 5 | Entitled sex starved men, sex is not a resource. It’s like asking women to let you eat them just because you’re starvingWhile most of the time it is good entertainment, i often find myself hoping that those woman robots become more accessible to the public, and faster. Give them good AI, emulate affection, praise, desire, orgasms etc, anything to keep them at bay and happy with their robot at home. Because they already see us as flesh holes, those dolls is what they want but don't know it yet. But yet again, those dolls need proper cleaning and maintenance...doubt they will do that to an object of all things. Gon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/23 05:09 AM |
| 5 | Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHINGAnd in the family he provides cheating, abusing, taking advantage, taking for granted. In rare cases they provide a healthy father figure or husband material. There will always be the other side of the coin, lets not forget that. Women are people, not some commodity you are owed. We are not a reward, we are not an object for pleasure or just wombs for your offspring. No one owes the world anything more than being civil, peaceful, a good citizen. Uphold society that gives you nothing? Society giv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 05:09 AM |
| 20 | How can men find high libido women? Is it even realistically achievable?Libido goes sky high after that pesky wall you all whine about. As soon as 30 hits, libido goes high. I thought it was bs myself, till i hit 30 and holy shit i was not prepared for that sudden shift in my sex drive. I've been rabid. Sadly my husband has not gone through any shift so this has caused quite a bit of problems in the relationship. I also heard that women experience yet another surge either around 40s or something about pre-menopause or menopause, but since i haven't reached that expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | What are signs that a woman does not get men?A happy woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Anyone in a fulfilling relationship with someone they didn't find physically attractive initially?Yeah, am married to him. Didn't find him attractive at the start, but his personality and how nice and respectful he was with me was what got my heart. In time, i started becoming more and more attracted to him. Everything about him became hot. I always go (or used to) for personality and character first. Physical beauty fades away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 09:00 PM |
| 5 | Modern women are too spoiled to keep a healthy relationships a proof of this is the high divorces rates, they are never happy with the man that they haveWhy should we continue to "build a man" when history has shown that majority will cheat or leave for greener grasses, but the morons don't grasp the fact that the grass is green where you water it . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Oh no sisters! we got too cocky..I'm recently thinking of donating all eggs if possible..i don't need them,. I'm child free by choice. Once those little bastard are out maybe I'd get less anxious about accidentally getting pregnant. Should start looking around for clinics that accept 34 yo eggs. Good family health history, nice pretty genes, done well in academics, quite the talented artists in my immediate family...why the hell not, if it helps anyone out there, good by me. Also, people really need to stop being afraid of adop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Which of these two men are more attractive to women?I physically recoiled at the first, don't like the second either. So, none of these two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/22 09:04 AM |
| 2 | Their is no incentive to date as a manLet's be honest, any sub about anything on this world will have basement dwellers and really odd people. I for one never take any sub seriously. Worst place to get advice and worse lenses to view the world from is reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 10:17 AM |
| -2 | Their is no incentive to date as a manI don't know if this is in the US, but i remember a guy from UK talking about this app where the women are the ones that start the convo when matching. It's Bumble. He found dates just like that. It's an app for women to make the move. They hit you up. And this guy is the nerdiest of nerds, avid gamer etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Their is no incentive to date as a manWell there are so many women out there that are dom types, or switch types, that can also work. I'm one of those women, but all partners ive had have not been into that, not even my husband. So, i suppress that desire/need/urge, i let them live in my mind. I decided to compromise on it for various reasons. Of all the good traits my husband has, his flaw is being painfully vanilla. Do not be discouraged honestly, doms would absolutely love to have a sub. However i do not know how such people find… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 06:10 AM |
| 0 | Trad Wife TourismThe way i see it, let the creeps do it. However, those women that are picked should be educated and instructed how to be smart about this. Accept, go with him, get a marriage visa or whatever, wait the time, make absolutely sure you don't reproduce with him, enjoy his money, act like a good submissive little woman, and after enough time has passed and your citizenship can become yours, dump the creep, get half. Women everywhere need to be smart and work silently around the mentally deranged men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/22 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Artificial wombs may 'destroy' traditional relationships, but not in the context of fertilityI'm all for artificial wombs so women don't have to ruin their bodies and minds or lose their lives in childbirth....but this is just disgusting. I really hope they move fast on those advanced robotic AI sex dolls so freaks can leave the women alone and exit the gene pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 04:16 PM |
| 0 | Far too many people believe that men not being able to acquire sex/relationships is a MORAL failing. This could not be further from the truth.Sometimes i think only teenage boys post here, or the celibate boys that have dark and agressive tendencies. Since i became an adult, matured out of a fried teen brain, not once did i judge, make fun of or look down on anyone having dry spells for no matter how long. Like wtf? Is this a USA specific thing? Is this a pill subs thing? Is this just people that never get out in society posting? Like even now, i have 2 friends that have been single for many years and i don't even think of judging. Tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 08:31 AM |
| 4 | Could you be with a man who paid for sex with women in the past?No. I have no problem with it being legalized, those girls (and men) will be safer and protected. I do not respect them for the fact that even knowing the man might be in a relationship or married, they would still serve them. But w/e, you do you, to each their own. I do respect them for the incredibly hard work they are doing, that shit is dangerous, degrading, you meet creeps, and it takes a high mental fortitude to survive it. My problem is with the buyers of the service. I could never commit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/22 05:12 AM |
| -1 | Women (who aren't cheaters) would actually benefit from mandatory paternity testingLack of foresight is amusing. Women will adapt and will get smarter. Think women are picky now? Well, in this case, we'd just only go for a genetically superior dude. Your worryingly decreasing sperm quality and viability will make women just turn away and find either a donor...or a genetically superior man. Think this will stop them from cheating? They will adapt better, they would become better at hiding it and protecting against a pregnancy. Even an early pregnancy can be taken care of withou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 08:02 AM |
| 5 | You get successful by your 40s: would you leave your wife for your dream girl?This spoke to me on a core level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/22 03:03 AM |
| 6 | Where did this idea that younger women make better partners come from?Because they are dumb. The less experience they have in relationships and in bed the better for the a-holes and the insecure to manipulate and keep them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/22 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Women don't have higher standards because they have easier access to more attractive men. It's because they all now think they're in these guys' leagues because of excessive compliments onlineOh my god this is gold content. You can't make this shit up lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/22 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Can a virgin be good enough at sex?Yeah they can. Intense feelings for each other also plays a great big part here. Setting a proper relaxed atmosphere, reassurance, etc. I was my husband's first and i knew he was a virgin at the time. I had 3 relationships b4 him. In short, we went at it all night, literally. Yes, he needed guidance, info of how i like or don't like this and that, it worked great. With patience and understanding it can go pretty good. Also, i wanted him to have the best fucking first time of his life so he won't… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/22 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: What are some traits you're "supposed" to find attractive but don't?I never cared about a man's height. I'm pretty short myself so it would be very difficult to find a guy shorter than me anyway. I hate beards/mustaches. I am not attracted to the gym rat body types. I like a strong man but more of a dad bod strong man? Idk how to describe it precisely. I dislike body hair in general, i tolerate it because i have to, but it is a turn off if i focus on it. I don't find skinny attractive. Idk what else since I'm not aware of what else I'm supposed to find attractiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/22 03:19 AM |
| 5 | Why are rates of depression so high in modern day Women?Woman here, I struggled for 15 damn years , alone in my mental struggle. My parents generation and some of their kids have this dumb mentality of just " therapy and psych is for the weak or crazy that cannot control their mind" i suffered in silence for 15+ years untill a few years ago i said fuck my husband and my family's views, i need answers. So i consulted with psych and therapy, in secret. After months of assessing me, my anxiety and my suicidal obsession, they BOTH agreed medication might… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | including all the benefits and disadvantages,if you could choose what sex to be at birth which one would you choose?I wish we could drill this into their thick skulls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/22 12:08 PM |
| 8 | why don't older men take younger men to brothels anymoreDude...what the actual fuck. No, just absolutely not. I remember the days when guys used to tell me how their uncle or whoever took them to "see" a girl to "get it over with". I ran the hell away from them. They didn't turn out to be good people i can tell you that for free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 09:58 AM |
| 2 | When women say that they would prefer it guys were more honest about their intentions about sex, they are primarily using that as a trap.No, it's a pretty short answer. Nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/22 02:57 PM |
| 34 | Why is porn hated by so many women?Because it fucking degrades us. Everything it portrays is degrading to some degree and the industry itself is very toxic and abusive to women. And it's so fake and poorly acted it becomes cringe to think that dudes actually like that shit... it's not how sex works, it's not how our bodies work. That and: look at how little effort the industry puts into not allowing minors to view it, look at what it's doing to men in general...they have no fucking idea how sex with a woman actually works, they t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Studies have shown that when it comes to serious, life-threatening diagnoses, men are 7x more likely to leave if their wives are diagnosed than women are if their husbands are diagnosed. Talk about double standard!OP, if this thread doesn't disgust you enough to convince you to be single forever, you have a strong will. You can't come here and dare say bad stuff about males, how dare you? All this place is for is to criticize women, pity and praise males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 12:12 PM |
| 4 | If you magically woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex do you think you would easily get everything you are seeking in a partner?Yes, i would get sexual satisfaction from sex with my husband. I'd go at it the entire 24h. Guaranteed orgasms sounds like a dream to me...and to the majority of women. It would be great if he were to switch to being a woman, then I'd make him understand what it feels like to have unsatisfactory sex. One day would not make up for years of low effort from him, but at least i would know what it's like...for once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Why do RP guys try to shame women for desiring top 20% men?Men have been shaming us for everything and anything under the sun. It's like perpetual highschool with this stuff. We're even shamed for natural body hair...but yeah, they are pissy that they are not getting any, envious about the guys who do get women, so naturally, they shame women for it. As any normal human being would so /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 03:22 PM |
| 10 | women dont want to settle down and have kids anymoreI do not want to serve a higher purpose. The answer to the question "why are we here" is simply "because our parents fucked and wanted to experience parenthood". No higher meaning to it. Nothing special, nothing mythical. Life is not supposed to be easy? Well i make it my life goal to keep it as easy and chill as possible, no kids ruining my life, my peace, my quiet, my body, my already damaged mental health. My husband seems to enjoy the care free life too, and no matter how much he will say to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??Reading comprehension lvl sub zero. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 09:18 AM |
| 2 | Why single women are happier compared to single men ??I've seen so many social experiments on YouTube, and first off, most might as well be fake, second, let's ignore that part and assume for a moment they are real. As a woman, if i see a woman in distress i might feel bit safer to approach and see what's happening. Might. However, if it's a man, my same instinct would be to help, to see what's happening to the person...but i would be too scared to. While the chances of me helping a woman might be 60%, for a man I'd go much much lower. Because of p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/22 03:13 AM |
| 0 | men who think "if a woman can get an abortion, I should be able to not pay child support or to not be a father for them"Oh what an absolute f fest these circles are. I strongly wish that there will come a day where women will wake the f up already and just be done with risking their health /mental health/ future for...dick. Want a baby that bad? Don't even entertain the idea of allowing thad dick access to your body. Go to a clinic, you can even select the genes you are looking for, you even get the medical history. Want actual orgasms and not disappointment? Get yourself some good toys, they outperform way above… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do many women no longer desire sex after marriage?I was always within a normal range libido wise. Husband was the same. But at some point, a little while b4 marriage i noticed him not caring much about intimacy, but i decided to be patient. As soon as i hit 30 my libido went through the roof...while my husband just became more interested in porn and jacking off, ignoring me in the process. Also, whenever intimacy happened, absolutely zero regards were given towards my pleasure, which confused me. I've always been a "giver", seeing pleasure is m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/22 02:20 AM |
| 0 | When you are in the talking phase with someone, should you be loyal to them?While in the talking/start of dating phase I'm ok with that. Once things move to being exclusive and both parties have that discussion then yeah, time for both to cut ties with fwb, other dating partners. The vetting stage has ended, a final choice has to be made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/22 02:19 PM |
| 1 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.They can shove that money and green card where the sun don't shine. Absolutely no good reason for one to move to America, especially for a woman. Women are starting to lose basic rights there, if they have kids then good luck for them surviving school, and the religious fanaticism is slowly burying your country. A smart woman (that really wants to get a marriage visa or money in a different country) should look for better places than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 02:14 AM |
| 9 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.To Americans maybe. Here in Europe i see american men and women below average on anything and everything. And boy they can be identified from a distance. All look the same, all just as loud and boring and the same time. This is not meant to be an insult, it's just that...for a nation of people that keep going on and on about how much better and superior they are compared to the world, they all are so unremarkable. Wouldn't date an American. Ever. Part of me would be scared. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/22 02:07 AM |
| 3 | what do men get wrong about women have so many optionn and can sleep with a lot of different men?But i don't care about all those options. I am not happy to have so many crappy options. Most men that i could get, handsome/average will disappoint me in bed anyway. Having hook-ups only benefits the guy, what do i get out of it? Fuck all. I tried a hook-up one time in life and i noped out of this activity forever. Waste of my time, i get disappointed and the guy gets to have an orgasm. I don't want an endless supply of low quality crappy dudes...i want one quality guy, that's it. And by qualit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Is "the wall" something that really happens to women and affects them more than men?It's a male revenge fantasy. Youth is kept and maintained. In my early 30s and i had to show my ID to several people, colleagues, because they thought i am like 22 while discussing stuff about my husband and masters degree and what not. They thought i was pulling their leg and refused to believe me. Had to pull out my ID and driver's license. Was funny more than anything. I always took care of myself, my skin. I learned early on from my mom. This woman is 60 and she only has exactly one wrinkle … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 04:25 AM |
| 2 | How old are you and what do you consider to be an average amount of sexual partners for your age group?33F, I stopped at 6 since i met my husband in my early 20s. I always went for relationships rather than hook-ups. Looking at friends my age, I'd say under 10 would be low, 15-20 average, 40 and above is high. Numbers seem lower with people i know that are younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/22 05:21 AM |
| 8 | “Tired of taking care of a grown child”Yes i do all those things. Except the lawn since we don't have one and the tire pressure thing my car will let me know if it's low, as well as other electrical problems she had. My husband has no idea what's up with the car, I'm the one to take care of it, get repairs when needed, honestly i dread when he drives since he had 4 accidents with it in a span of 9 years. He doesn't do any handy work, i usually do that whenever i can. If a pipe burst i really don't know what to do with that so i will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Do women in relationships go out for attention from other guys?I asked him out. Was a friend of a friend basically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 08:56 PM |
| 4 | Do women in relationships go out for attention from other guys?Ew no. I always hated random dude's attention, i get anxious. I just wanna go out and chill with friends not dodge guys trying their luck with me. When my husband is home we do everything together, we have the same friend group anyway. But whenever he isn't I'd rather chill with my girlfriends or colleagues at a nice cafe or restaurant if i do feel like getting out of the house. Was never a fan of clubs/parties. If it's too loud and i can't have fun banter with friends then it's not for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/22 06:55 PM |
| 3 | This trend of women feeling entitled to a man of much higher SMV will end up with a lot of women getting cheated on and/or replaced.Because they truly are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 01:03 PM |
| 2 | What is the most intimate way someone can show you they care?It's odd because most of them together make a whole relationship healthy. You take away A and C (i see them as leave or take, not mandatory) and you have a good base for a happy healthy relationship. Us needing to pick is quite difficult. I went without B, and I've been without E, all in same relationship and...it fucking hurt. Still hurts. Depression intensified. But if i were to pick a must have, I'd say D, 33 f. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 03:21 AM |
| 2 | When family and friends interfereMy family love my husband. However, his side of the family does not like or respect me. They tried to make us split a few times too. They tried to feed him lies about me, even when they knew nothing about me. It truly is a battle to not let it get to me. I wish i could get the love he gets. Or at least the respect. Friends wise, we've had few individuals that tried to come between us with sketchy intent. It's easy to cut friends out of your life, family not so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | do women envy men in dating?Thank you. Hoping the best for you as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 12:17 AM |
| 7 | What would you say to a man who didn’t DNA test his kids because he trusted his wife and she still cheated on him?Asking for a DNA test would be an insult to me, the years i spent being faithful to this man. In that moment, all my efforts and sacrifices have been erased. You wanted a kid, i wasted years of my life being faithful to a person that seems to not trust me? I am putting that baby in his lap, packing my bags and i am out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | do women envy men in dating?Eh, idk if i believe that. I would say shallow people do stuff like this simply because the one they want is attractive but knowing not much else about them. From looking at the women I've known in my life, haven't seen this phenomenon happen. But yeah, i never had height as a requirement or...a type so to say. I think i had only one bf when i was younger that was way taller than me and it made everything uncomfortable or awkward, so it kind of put me off. For all i cared they could be my height… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | do women envy men in dating?1.68m. I'm 1.60m. Why though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 11:32 PM |
| 3 | do women envy men in dating?No, that is not the case for us. The guy stopped giving me orgasms long before this happened. I always enjoy giving pleasure, so i always made sure to give him my all. Still baffles me why were the videos better...he still won't give me a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 01:43 PM |
| 3 | do women envy men in dating?I envy men on many aspects. On dating I'm a bit neutral. After all, i was the one who asked my now husband on a date, pursued him, also planned and paid for dates in equal matter. I'm a giver, so making others happy makes me happy. I don't know if that is a good thing or not, but it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:45 AM |
| 9 | do women envy men in dating?Had that libido for such a long time. Actually most of my adult life. It was relentless! And then i went on antidepressants and it went away. Slowly coming back now i think. Thank god for good toys. Truly satisfying and fun, especially when you have high as fuck libido and a husband that doesn't touch you because videos are better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 03:41 AM |
| 1 | most men don't want vanilla sex from their wivesI feel seen. It's depressing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 02:25 AM |
| 23 | After Leaving A Good Man, Do Women Typically Find Better?The perfect fantasy tale for men here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 03:22 PM |
| -3 | “Pick better men” is a cop out to not hold men accountableYou are young...this is not the place for an impressionable mind. This is not the place where your points will ever penetrate their hatred and bitterness. Leave while you still can for your own sanity. That or don't allow the stank of this place to get to you If men don't want to take responsibility, what's left for us to do to be happy? Learn to live and prosper without them, learn to be happy without, just live a better life on our own and form good friendly bonds amongst us women for social h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 12:58 PM |
| 5 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?I mean i always worked like this. Everyone has their preference, if a woman can't wait to jump a man, so be it. Life is about enjoying it however way you want. Some want to wait to make sure the guy is not a waste of time or isn't using her, others like taking risks and going for the thrill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | men and women need to work synchronously (not asynchronous) to improve market for everyone. but the men must make the first move.Hope you learned a valuable lesson with this post. This is not the place, not the crowd for irl logic. This is a black hole that will suck you dry if you let it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 01:53 PM |
| 17 | Would you wait to have sex until a relationship is formed?Yes, i always wait. Even when i was young. I need the bond and attraction to be there and only then i am comfortable enough and fully into my partner to start having sex together. Not all were ok with that and it's ok. We each have our choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Study about female pair bonding?It's not just the options that are available. Both men and women learn from experience. The more relationships you have, the more you learn to detect red flags and BS. Teaches some that they are worth way better than a bad partner that makes then sad or cry at night. It doesn't make someone love less, it makes them smarter. You can love with all your heart and soul, if the partner is just nasty, you don't invest that love anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 12:55 AM |
| 3 | TW; SA (Title in post)Any woman and young girl being disgusted by the comments. Learn the lesson here. DO NOT TELL THEM ABOUT YOUR PAST. Make some shit up, a good simple story you can remember and just let it be. You cannot trust them with your trauma, they will discard you. Comments speak for themselves. Remember. Women must take care of them, but if the woman needs care herself they will leave her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?Honestly, me and my husband don't clean every day...like, sure if i made a meal i will throw away peels and stuff, wipe the counter. But we have one day per week when we scrub the whole house. I would help out here and there if he needs it and knowing him...i will have to do some chores here and there. I assume the house might get extra dirty with a kid? But still we keep a very relaxed attitude about the house chores. If we were to have a kid, after a whole day at work, I'd ask him, you want me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4W - If you were a full time working woman and the sole income provider, and your husband was a Stay at home dad/ house husband, how much housework would you do?Honestly, me and my husband don't clean every day...like, sure if i made a meal i will throw away peels and stuff, wipe the counter. But we have one day per week when we scrub the whole house. I would help out here and there if he needs it and knowing him...i will have to do some chores here and there. I assume the house might get extra dirty with a kid? But still we keep a very relaxed attitude about the house chores. If we were to have a kid, after a whole day at work, I'd ask him, you want me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 09:25 PM |
| 9 | Women who have a height standard - at what point does it become marginally insignificant & what can possibly make you drop it?I'm 1.60 m so it's never been an issue for me to find a taller guy than me. Back when i was young i did date a guy that was way taller...like 1.90m ish...and everything felt awkward. From walking together, hugging, sexy time...i really didn't like it. After that and untill today, I'm always attracted to short guys. For example my hubby is 1.68 and i love it. And he's never bothered in the cases when i wear taller heels. It's the way their body is buit (short guys)that does it for me. Idk how to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 03:07 AM |
| 2 | Women, what exatly do you feel when you see a naked man?I'd panic, run, call the police. I don't care how hot the guy is... I'm still going to be scared for my life and safety. He can be Henry Cavill for all i care, I'm still creeped out. Now if the guy is my husband, then i see it as an invitation to sum fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Discussion : Women moving on faster than men.We hold on for dear life for as long as we can. We try to fix the relationship, try to rekindle desire with our loved on, try to communicate...but sadly there are times when the partner just doesn't listen, or doesn't care, compatibility is just not there anymore. From personal experience, we cry and are sad during the relationship's slow decline. We see it in slow motion and live it in slow motion untill...we are just done. We cried all our tears, we become distanced, detached, we are out of en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Thank you so much for the detailed info! Took notes and i think i should use this to check my hormone levels. Last time i did that was like 8 years ago and back then i had excess prolactin and i think low testosterone too if i remember correctly. All the doctor did is put me on BC pills. I've suffered from depression and anxiety most of my life, but if i find the cause to be hormonal...that would change my life. Maybe a treatment that doesn't make me put on so much weight that i am now working o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 01:41 AM |
| 7 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Never imagined there's a pill out there for women...thank you for suggesting a med name, will bring it up with my psych. Antidepressants have floored my drive, which was low already from 10 years of birth control. Maybe i can be somewhat normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?I do not find myself in this category of women who gaslight and lie to men. I mean i will agree on one lie we sadly need to learn to stop doing is faking orgasms to please men's ego, but other than that, women are quite vocal when they see a problem...as am i...but the problem is, if we voice it, we bruise egos yet again, we get lashed at...so what is the next logical self defense thing to do? We end up thinking we should be quiet. And i will say it again, no bs or irony, i do know men have a ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 06:13 PM |
| 1 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?But...if women say nothing then comes the complaint that we ignore men's issues. And honestly i sometimes question this obsession with looks...the way i saw it and experiencing it, once a girl matures she doesn't put as much emphasis on looks... character becomes more and more important. I experienced this switch too. Note that i am not saying looks play 0% role, attraction is involuntary, but at some point, women do look at who and how the man is as a human being first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?Such a dogshit analogy. Got one of the things you all complain you are not getting, proceed to whine about it to the person who gives it. This is why I don't get it. We could all be collectively yell out into the void that we understand your struggles and it will not be good enough, it would be in vain. I picture all here would just tick off an item off a list absent mindedly and then proceeding to whine about something else, hate on women yet again, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?Do point out where the gaslighting is and why you feel that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Utilitarian solutions for men who face continuous rejection:Therapy and regular psychiatric consultations for everyone. Such a program might even lower crime rates, shrink prisoner population, less rapes, less SA and SH, less kids abused, etc. Once you fix a problematic mind, the person's life makes a turn for the better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Utilitarian solutions for men who face continuous rejection:Definite yes. They are in deep denial but yes, it's filled with them here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 10:38 AM |
| 11 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?I am still confused. Ok so, men here want us to acknowledge their struggle. Ok, here i am acknowledging it. Men have a harder time with dating, finding a partner, finding love, finding sex. Oh pardon...some men have it harder, i am sure the blessed out there also have it easy for whatever reasons. Ok, that part is done. Now what? How does us recognizing some of you guy's troubles help you? Did that...change your life in any way? I understand it feels good to be seen and understood, which i fully… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Single motherhood creates violent criminal men which leads to more single motherhood which leads to more violent criminal men. This downward spiral is going to cause violent men to dominate the sexual marketplace creating a much more dystopian future.Proper sex education from school age. Teaching boys and men how to properly use protection. Teaching girls and women in high detail how to PROPERLY use birth control, teach them the importance of 100% vigilance when it comes to the pill, teach them how to actually use it, when and how to take precautions... don't trust them to read the blanket of instructions the pill comes with, actually teach them. Allow proper access to abortion and plan B. Teach them how their body and fertility works as soo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 11:21 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHave fun! I have amazing toys and hot male characters i can delight my eyes with. Geralt of Rivia comes to mind. Illidan Stormrage being my top pick. I also like women, but for some reason ever since i was young, i find Lara Croft so underwhelming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA gamer? Please don't choose me. I learned my lesson the hard way. Keep the game, gl&hf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 03:13 PM |
| 3 | For those of you 30+, do picky people really start to settle?Beautifully said. Spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 09:50 PM |
| 3 | For those of you 30+, do picky people really start to settle?Being child free is absolutely liberating. I couldn't care less about my age, no pressure for the future, no pressure in keeping a partner, or finding one quickly after a breakup...the fact that i live in europe where i have full rights to my own bodily decisions also helps a lot. Never had an oopsie baby but still, knowing you have the full freedom to choose is amazing. And yes i fully agree on the revenge fantasy. Hilarious to watch them squirm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 09:42 PM |
| 8 | What is causing the rise in virginity amongst men? Is it too late for these men to reenter society after becoming a 30+ year old hermit outcast?One is cutting off the tip of the penis that actually makes you orgasm (that is what female circumcision is) the other is cutting away extra skin around the tip( male circumcision), skin which does not make you orgasm. It's the difference between cutting your cuticle and nails whereas women get their entire finger cut off. So tell me... understand the huge difference between the two? Understand why one is banned and the other is not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/22 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Women here, do you expect the man to plan most/all of the dates when you’re in a relationship?No. At the start, first few dates yeah i would appreciate the guys effort to plan. But if we both want and work towards a relationship, something serious long term, i want to take charge too. I want to treat him too and spoil him if i see he is a good, respectful man. A relationship is a team game, we both have to pull our weight and give it value and maintain it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 04:07 AM |
| -2 | It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically.You think these heavy difficult words will get through their thick skulls? I lost hope in them looong ago. It is what it is, they are how they are. The only way things will get better is maybe the next few generations educate their kids to be proper boys, proper men, good human beings in general. Until then...this is our generation's life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 03:35 PM |
| -3 | It's not enough for a man to THINK he is pulling his weight domestically.Easy on that copium. Never gave a damn about being rejected. Not when i was 15, 18, 20s, especially now at 30 zero fucks given. I asked boys if they like me or want to be my bf when i was young, got rejected plenty, moved along like nothing happened. All women friends i have ever known in my life never cared if they got rejected...like...oh ok, he doesn't like me, aight dude let's move along have a great day . Never was i able to understand why boys had this strange fear of approaching or asking… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 03:26 PM |
| 3 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesWho should have the "position of power in the sexual marketplace"? The receiver or the giver? The one that takes a big risk of "receiving" a pregnancy and the whole disaster it implies for the pregnant, or the one that plants the seed and can walk away with an unmodified life and bodily health? Got a hint of resentment from this statement of yours. If my assumption is wrong then my bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 05:10 AM |
| 4 | The reason that the disparity in sexual privilege between men and women is so obfuscated not because there's any real doubt about it, but because of the solutions it impliesProper use of birth control. No half-ass-ing it, not cut corners. Proper use. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Why are divorced and widowed men more likely to remarry than divorced and widowed women?Men look for the caregiver again and women finally know better by that age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Roe v. Wade Mega-ThreadHighly doubt. It's shit mothers that release such people in the wild. Their mothers are probably just the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menEnglish not my first language. Honestly? I would have had much more confidence. I've always been scared to go outside alone. From the age of 11 and to this very day at 33. I would have been much more confident being able to wear cute dresses, nice feminine summer clothes throughout my life. I would have felt so much better about myself and about boys (which i was actively avoided throughout my life, it led to me being secluded and a loner) At the age of 11, while at the park with my friends and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menI think i still would have had my hubby. I approached him, i asked him out first. If it were not for me doing that he would have never known i existed in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Would you trade getting catcalled and occasional harassment if it meant you would never get any attention, compliments or special treatment from menYes please. 33, married, i dress in simple clothes, not revealing or anything... I'm a simple person...just a week ago i was being followed by this dude while out for a long time. I was scared even though i was in a very populated setting. I honestly can't wait to be older and invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 08:52 PM |
| 6 | How old were you when you first noticed men looking at you sexually?I was playing outside right near my house with another girl. A man came over and promised us all the ice cream we want if we come with him and show him the neighborhood. The other girl was happy to do that but i remember i got really scared really suddenly and i did not know why. I told her to not go and just go back in the building to find my or her parents, but she said she wants ice cream...she went with him. I ran back home and told my mom. She went out quickly but didn't tell me anything af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/20 05:32 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with a cheaterOh i bet they cried with joy. That and when they discovered how to delete internet history. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 11:55 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with a cheaterAnd here i am wondering who keeps their phone unlocked these days. Everyone i see has a password, fingerprint, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 10:45 PM |
| 4 | How do women treat below average looking guys in social settings?Sometimes i have to ask myself, people in this sub, in what kind of circles are they hanging around in? How does everyone have such a warped view if the world. I have met all kinds of people in my life. School, uni, work, social etc. All types of men. I treat people like human beings, i don't care how they look. Never even occured to me to judge? Or to treat them differently? Have been around multiple friend circles, had many woman and men friends naturally...have never heard or seen a girl/woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Why don't the simps and pickmeishas just date each other?First of all, both categories of people are in dire need of therapy first. Take care of yourself first, date after. Would make the world a much better place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/20 03:36 PM |
| 3 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?Got a giggle out of that. Got to put that on the list. We become mutants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:56 PM |
| 8 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?From time to time it does get to me, so i have to put in the effort to detach myself and hope these views are not as widespread irl and simply just prosper here, in such communities. I have heard men saying that thing about with each man a woman sleeps with, their DNA remains...inside her? And basically becomes one with her or her uterus i believe they were saying. And then her future baby will have DNA from all of those men, meaning that her husband is being tricked into raising all those men's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:43 PM |
| 7 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?Slight misogynistic? That's a huge understatement sadly. But yeah, you said it perfectly. The entire comment is spot on. I myself avoid men with high n counts. I don't judge them, don't judge women either. Everyone is free to live their life however they please. But i myself cannot trust a man that slept around a lot, it's a clear indication that they are not capable of LTR, commitment, love, etc. Feels as if sex is all it matters to them. So, they are not for me. I don't look down on any man or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:04 PM |
| 6 | Women don't NEED to be successful, funny or interesting to be a valuable partner. That's the difference.Extremely well said. Reading his post gave me such a weird vibe though...a mixture between creeped out and anxious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/20 06:18 PM |
| 7 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?I basically have the same mindset as you. However, i do not belong to any religion and I don't think i belong to lefts and rights...i never did any research because it never interested me, so I don't think i lean anywhere. And yes, i can remember and count on my fingers the times i actually orgasmed during sex. No matter how much i tried to communicate, i explained my likes and dislikes, my kinks and what not from the detailed to the simplest of ways... didn't matter. For some reason, it is extr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?If you read carefully, i said humans do that. Everyone does and even you said it right there at " and claim people can wear a mask for years"....so am i to believe you don't count women as people? Because i do, and did in my comment. And i wasn't aware i HAD TO disclose how i love someone. The point of the discussion was different. What triggered the question? My closed legs? Is sex the only love sign a woman can show? If that's the case, I'm fine without tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 07:37 PM |
| 14 | Is it the same group of men who simultaneously look down on women for having casual sex yet also expect sex within the first three dates?Humans in general are nasty. Everyone can put a mask on to please the other and get what they want. Best thing for women to start doing is do not sleep with a man untill serious commitment is established. I don't care how long it takes, he better show me he is actually in love with me, respects me, wants me for me. Don't like it? You feel you deserve sex? Idgaf, leave me and go have your pump and dump with whoever. Or pay for it. I have a really low count, and whenever it came up into a discussi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"Well, each pill has it's own people with their own issues and views. And each issue comes from something. This backwards mentality about women has its roots deeper than "oh it's preference" or " man's nature" and w/e they want to call it and whatever studies they want to link. Roots that they refuse to look at and resolve. You know how it it, life is not fair and no matter how we twist and turn, it will never change. Maybe they suffered too much rejection, maybe heartbreak. Some people never rec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 05:47 PM |
| 0 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"Spoken like a confident person. Confidence is not something you find here. It's easy to portray it and hide behind lies, but they reveal the deep insecurity as soon as they voice out all this nonsense. Sex is so incredibly bad when one partner is inexperienced. And frustrating to no end. But, to them, it's perfect if the unfortunate woman they landed is inexperienced. She won't know how bad at pleasing a woman they are. She won't know how anything good feels and she will think that they ARE the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 03:22 AM |
| -2 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"IKR? It's so bizarre to be in 2020 but hear that there are men out there, that (supposedly) don't live as massive religious people, to have such old views over women and sex. It's like devolving centuries behind. Every time i come here to see what new curiosity pops up, feels like i am going back to the ages when women were legit objects for men. Makes me feel so sorry for the women out there who actually live to please a man...including missing out on sex just out of fear or shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/20 03:17 AM |
| 4 | Women constantly try to water down the meaning of cc riding?Pretty soon, women will be called sluts and unfit for marriage because their vagina has had a tampon in it. That membrane is all that's of value about her, god forbit a damn cotton mf breaks it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 05:17 AM |
| 9 | Women constantly try to water down the meaning of cc riding?They wouldn't be able to stand each other's company, unkept looks and high demands while giving bare minimum back at best, let alone fuck each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Women constantly try to water down the meaning of cc riding?Just don't let it get to you. Have a nice read and be amazed of what lurks out there behind closed doors. And don't take it too seriously, it truly isn't worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/20 05:08 AM |
| 1 | The single mom contradictionAs long as you are fine to be tested, go right ahead. I have heard so so many men complaining about this testing idea. Quite harsh words thrown at women who "dared" to do such things to them. And also, IUDs are hormone based. The only ones that are not using hormones are the copper ones, and they are not easily tolerated. Lots of people have metal allergies and they don't know it untill a bad reaction happens. In any case, remember that if you have doubts about a woman using that device, you can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 10:15 PM |
| 2 | The single mom contradictionI couldn't care less dude. I applaud any man that has a vasectomy because its a very rare thing to see. Women's birth control methods are mostly hormone related, painful, or dangerous. Or all of the above in one. I never want kids myself, so i would be very happy to find a man that has a vasectomy done, because after 12 years of being on the pill, i suffered one side effect too much and it can possibly put me in danger if i don't constantly monitor it. Having MRIs out of pocket is damn expensive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 09:18 PM |
| 0 | The single mom contradictionIf you are so certain that you are being lied to if a woman says she has an IUD, you can actually check. Those things have strings attached, used to regularly check if they are in place correctly. So...ask for permission to feel them i guess? And if i were a woman that would one day want a kid, i would like to know pretty soon that the guy i am seeing is snipped. I get why they would be mad... basically they are wasting time and feelings on you. You are not being fair in the slightest. It is not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Paternity tests should be mandatory at birthOr, something i have no idea why they are stubbornly NOT doing, it will push women to actually use a lot of protection when cheating. And eventually going for a secret abortion. The thing i can never understand is why are they not super careful? I mean, the main instinct for that person would be to successfully hide all evidence... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 10:32 PM |
| 5 | It used to be that most guys didn’t want to settle down with the slutty girl. That seems to have changed in newer generations. Will guys trend towards becoming more lax in terms of their partner’s sexual histories?How do you determine her past? And what are the red flags of a person that enjoyed sex before her current partner in question? Because i have the feeling you have methods such as "too kinky in bed", or " likes other positions other than vanilla missionary". Or maybe the fact that she dares to want and ask for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/20 11:15 AM |
| 16 | Q4W: Who do you think is more likely to cheat, the guy you invested in as a young woman or the guy who you picked up at the finish line?From what i personally am going through with my husband now, and what i have seen happening all around me a depressing amount of times...nr 1 definitely. Once that guy has grown and evolved so much through his young adult life, i noticed he thinks, or feels, that his love life MUST have an upgrade too...so to say. Some form of that mindset just...sets in. "There has to be something better out there right?" Or anything along the lines. The excuse i got? " I felt like i deserved it". Amongst other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/20 04:54 PM |
| 29 | Never Let Them Guilt-Trip You, Sis! (A HVM Will Understand You Are Entitled to Safety)I wonder if such cases will ever see a strong reaction from the public these days. Like riots and such, demanding for a harsh punishment and bringing awareness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 01:13 PM |
| 16 | Do people underestimate how much society's lack of proper raising of boys leads to most of the problems that get brought up here, particularly in regards to the proper utilization of the male ego?Depends what part of the world we are talking about. I noticed that some issues between men and women in America are quite different from the issues in other places in the world. I can't talk about the whole of Europe, i have friends from different countries, but it's quite different from what i hear is going on in USA. The place i come from has a totally different issue with the upbringing of men and boys. I have been with my husband for 10 years. When we were dating, his parents, both of them,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/20 06:10 AM |
| 5 | Both Sexes are EqualNo matter how much they will deny it, they do that kind of crap on a daily basis for their entire life. Ever since i was young, to this day, for the life of me i don't understand how it's ok to them. For over 10 years, whenever i have a new friend whether online or irl, at some point i hear them saying how they did some irresponsible thing like that, and i quickly ask the question...why? I still cannot see their logic. Like... it's your health, your body, your well being? Why not wear that helme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/20 09:39 AM |
| 2 | I LOVE the PurgeNah, it doesn't get to look like that after only 30s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Attention all good men units; she is ready to settle down! I repeat, she is ready to settle down!Oh damn that needs to be a WoW boss. My tank would love that sword. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 05:46 AM |
| 4 | Some women are Triggered Adele is Thin NowThat's textbook envy. Mentality and personality change when losing extra weight and being healthy. I'm guessing the women that hate on her have issues with their own bodies and they are projecting. I used to loathe myself and the world around me when i was on a plus size. Now that i lost almost all the extra weight and got healthier, my view has changed. I feel sadness for women that act like that and feel that way on a daily basis. It's truly not a nice way to live. I used to like Adele regardl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/20 05:15 AM |
| 13 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...Congratulations, you played yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 11:38 PM |
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