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| 10 | Just got dumped because I showed too much affection.Huh. I don’t think there’s enough info to say he’s genuinely needy. Not to mention, I think there’s a lot of unhelpful (at best) discourses about “neediness” in our culture (I’m of course assuming OP and you share a culture w me) that could be examined more closely. Just a thought. OP could definitely consider how he looks at reciprocity in a relationship. I think you definitely need to be aware of what you’re putting out there and how your SO/date is receiving it. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/03/19 05:33 AM |
| 11 | Feel suicidal because of red pill and "scientific studies"First, the number for the national suicide hotline is 1-800-273-8255. You can also text to a different service, crisis text line by texting “connect” to 741741. Second, what you’re going through sounds really rough! Good on you for reaching out- it takes guts. Do you have anyone in your life that you can talk to about this? A loved one, or a mentor or counselor? I don’t want to impose by telling you what you should do to work with where you’re at but I’d be happy to offer suggestions. Feel free … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/18 07:22 AM |
| 8 | Does "dread" work? Struggling to stop red pill thoughts in relationshipEvolutionarily you’re designed to feel jealousy and want to protect your mate from other potential mates. That’s normal and just part of being alive. How do you actually protect your mate from other mates? You can’t 100%, but you can show love and trust and understanding which is far sexier and far more masculine than lashing out. Punishing her actually just increases the chance that she’d do that. No need to smother or reject her. It’s important to recognize that. You still have to deal with th… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/18 06:17 PM |
| 12 | Does "dread" work? Struggling to stop red pill thoughts in relationshipGood on you for recognizing what you’re feeling and what urges are emerging as a result of it. Yes, this COULD work in the short term. She might feel bad and insecure and wonder where you are and want you more. But in the long run, it’ll breakdown trust and closeness. Is that what you want? Do you want to be someone who has to make their partner feel bad and desperate in order to keep them? Furthermore, will that actually make her or you actually happy? Instead, why don’t you try laying down and… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/18 03:50 PM |
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