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| 2 | Assess this texting convo: what went wrong?Well, I'm someone who despises coffee, so no, I wouldn't. Ha. IMO there's not really enough interaction to transition from the initial awkwardness into anything else unless date and myself already have an established foundation. I am sure, however, that there are ladies who really would like to go out for coffee and have idle chitchat. But even if that were the case... witty banter isn't something you mention. It's what you do. This guy is just so awkward and he's fumbling all over the place. :/ | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Assess this texting convo: what went wrong?Lady here, actually . :) > But I want him to get what I'm saying. It's not "What you do" it's "How you ask." What's really interesting is that when I was still on Date 1, before it ended, my date asked me if I wanted to see a movie (next weekend). I asked him if he had any ideas, and he tossed out suggestions (ie. "There's this movie that's been out, like a superhero thing. You into Marvel at all?") and I said "OK, sure, why not?" And then throughout the week we texted the occasional thing to ea… | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Assess this texting convo: what went wrong?> The point I make elsewhere is there's a difference between inviting someone out to join you and making a day about the other person. Absolutely. Like in my early dates, I made it a note to go to a gaming cafe for maybe 2-3 hours. The thing is, the dates went so well that those two hours turned into a dinner thing. After maybe the 3rd date, I tentatively mentioned "Hey, are you interested in coming over to watch some movies?" (and I named some movies as a reference point). And then... it just s… | /r/seduction | 02/12/18 10:54 PM |
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