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| 1 | Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning backYes, I have. I am also a woman. Trust me, when a woman throws in the towel, it is long after we fall out of love. And it is long past second chances. Like past 500 chances...because everyday until stating we want a divorce is still a chance. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 09:29 PM |
| 0 | Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning backWomen fall out of love from getting tired of trying to make something work that never will work. By the time a woman days she wants a divorce, she has been out of love for at least a year. Of course there is no going back. If dude couldn't tell he was slowly losing her, then jokes on him. Women give tons of out right verbal signals about what they want. I believe men call it "nagging." | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Toxic advice in the book "models"Exactly. I realize in a fair fight, he will probably win. But if a guy can't respect a verbal no, then go physical. And if I only get one shot to take him down, then I will fight dirty. Sure, you can pretend it is overreacting because the intent is to bully and harrass until the guy gets what he wants. But if a guy put his hands on another guy who said no, and didn't listen, then got punched...most people would say "well he was warned, therefore he deserved it." Yet, because it is a female being… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Toxic advice in the book "models"Yes, I am very fun. Just never touch me if I say no. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Toxic advice in the book "models"As a woman, I would just him tell him "get your hands off of me." When that doesn't work, I would turn to him, smile and punch him in the throat. And then claim self-defense since he man-handled me first. No means no. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Went to the beach alone. I’m tired of doing things alone.If you are looking for a LTR, try to find women that share similar interests/hobbies as you. Compatibility vs. Chemistry. Compatibility is more important for long term relationships. Chemistry is important to a degree, but it fizzles fast in relationship terms. Compatibility is more bonding, less drama/conflicts and can lead to better chemistry over time. Don't be afraid to do online dating app, but make sure your profile pics showcase your interests. Sure, it may get less hits than some, but it… | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | girl trying to suggest fancy dinner for first date of tinder?As a woman, I would say that is a red flag. 🚩🚩🚩🚩 Basically, she is flat out telling you she is expensive and a general bad investment, who will never be with you, but only with your money or what you can give her. I never expect more than going dutch on coffee for a first meet/date. If we go for dinner, that is a nice surprise. But I have a hard rule that we ever go anywhere or spend so much that I wouldn't be willing to pick up the bill myself. (First date or LTR.) I would suggest passing on th… | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 04:43 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"I will have to think about this. That is a valid point. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 03:12 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"Because his job requires a clear head or people could die. I would rather not risk him being preoccupied by stuff back home. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 07:14 AM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"Truth. My BF made a comment months ago that he "wasn't that emotionally invested" in our relationship. It totally changed things for me. I know he said it in the heat of the moment, but I think there is a thread of truth to it. It has caused me to withdraw emotionally from him and I find I am less likely to actually talk with him...kinda give him what he wants to hear rather than the full truth of my feelings. Relationship is over, most likely. He is a great guy, and hopefully we can part friend… | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 11:44 PM |
| 3 | How long should you wait to reach out to a girl after you had sex with them the first night without coming off as desperate?Then you let her know you will text her when you get home safe. Or you leave her a note beside the bed (her side). Regardless, don't play stupid "I am an independent alpha/macho man" games. Or she will just think you are a player/user/a**hole. And if you really like this woman, take her on a lunch date sometime, but at least once (or more), kiss her like she is the air you breath. Can be at the very end, doesn't matter. Why? Because that says to her "I like sex with you, but I like you a lot mor… | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 12:57 PM |
| 38 | How long should you wait to reach out to a girl after you had sex with them the first night without coming off as desperate?Wow...seriously, text her the night of or the next day. Your chances decrease the longer you wait. Keep it short and simple. "Text me and let me know you got home safe." "Had a great time tonight." "We should go out again soon." | /r/seduction | 06/04/22 04:02 AM |
| 1 | I’m now starting to realize why you not text too long before meetingAs a woman, I prefer to meet sooner rather than later. If it is more than 2 weeks (max) I figure he has something to hide or isn't serious. So I will drop him, cut the losses and move on. Currently dating a guy, actually living with him. Met online, text for not even a day when he asked to meet in person. He actually matched his profile (doesn't happen very often). We clicked. Been together ever since. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 03:22 AM |
| 1 | i might have screwed up with a girl i like, need advice.Depends. What is she studying as some courses (such as nursing) have a shit ton os studying to do. It may not be so much that she is not into you, but is questioning whether or not she has time for a relationship. Because, lets be honest, not all courses allow much extra time. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 04:07 AM |
| 9 | I’m so tired of immature women’s bullshit. Someone please give me advice or a mind set change.Stop trying so hard to get women in general. Chances are you are looking at the same type of woman or trying the same approach to get women. If it is a dating app, look for a woman who seems to echo the same things you like. And in your profile hint at stuff you like. Sure, you might get less hits, but you might also find a chick with similar interests/compatible. If you like superhero movies or star wars, have something subtle in the background that reflects that. If you like gaming, subtly hav… | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I am with a genuinely nice guy...but it almost didn't happen. We went on a date, but he was so nice that I didn't really think he was into me. Lol. He actually didn't think I was into him either. But he took a gamble and kissed me by surprise. We have been together 5 months since. And although he is super nice, and a complete gentleman, he also remembers to show me his dominant side sexually (that is MY kink). Over Christmas he was away for 5 days to visit his family whom he hasn't seen in years… | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 11:22 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]A walk will give you the physical proximity but allow her to make that move. Like if she links arms with you, or if you hold her hand crossing the street...she can decide to keep holding your hand or let go. | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 05:46 PM |
| -1 | [deleted by user]If this is a first date, then no, don't change it and don't rush to be physical. Unless you are only looking for a hookup and nothing continuous. I would advise going to the first coffee house and then a walk or a non threatening activity like bowling. It is better to get a six hour get to actually know you date, than an alnight never see you again date. And avoid alcohol for the fist date or at leadt kerp ir minimal. Play your cards right and you will get lots of physical action in the future. … | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 05:31 PM |
| 2 | How to not be a nice guy online?It is not as hard as you would guess. I think it has to do with less pressure on yourself. It is just easier, way easier, if you have nothing to lose. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 03:26 AM |
| 10 | Getting ready for my First Date ….Woman to woman: Pink for a first date. Black might be too much for him on a first date, keep that for when you want to step it up a notch. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 01:47 AM |
| 6 | Tinder non responder5 & 8 for me. Plus if the opener is "hello", "how are you?" or "you're so beautiful." Say what you have in common or mention something from my bio that doesn't have anything to do with my looks. I read all rrsponses, but there is way too many to constantly respond to. Common interests will get the quickest responses. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 01:32 AM |
| 2 | How to not be a nice guy online?Yeah, my nephew got serious two years ago witb one of his past fwb. His daughter was born a couple of months ago and they just bought a house together. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | I keep getting “maybe” replies when I ask if/when she wants to meet up. Next step?Either she is not interested in you, or she is playing the field with a "richer catch"...hence the maybes to anything concrete...or she is married with sma children and can't commit due to trying to avoid her husband. Regardless, NOPE out of the drama. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 12:46 AM |
| 27 | How to not be a nice guy online?As a woman, I will tell you what I told my nephew when he broke up with his (only) girlfriend of 10+ yrs. Go out and be a male slut! Date anybody who is slightly attractive to you. Sleep around a bit. Get over this desperate need (of his) to find another long term girlfriend. Flirt, get around, don't take shit too seriously. Find a few fwb. Find a few one night stands. Learn a few bedroom tricks/talents. Hell, discover if you have any kinks or not. Let this shit build up your self-esteem. Enjoy … | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 11:10 PM |
| 82 | A horrible (or so I thought) cold approach turned into a date. Always ask for contact info even if it doesn't seem like it's going anywhereNah, this worked because it was direct, short and then you backed off. She was interested in your approach because it was honest, not pushy and non threatening. You let her know your interest, then backed off while still being in visual sight. This allowed ger time to think it over and observe you. The word choice to say "cute" instead of "pretty" was a good call too. As cute can be a combination of style, actions and looks. Pretty is often just based on genetics and nothing to do with the perso… | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 12:57 PM |
| 1 | First harsh rejectionCongratulations on your cold approach. Definitely work on your opener. Her response will not be directed at you per se, but at your line of "you're pretty. Are you single?" It will be an instinctive reaction of disgust. You have no idea if how many guys tell us gals lines that break down to "you're pretty...feel honoured I choose to fuck you." Even hot guys will get shot down by the look of disgust way more than it will work. That crap is for the movies. If you are at a mall, a better approach w… | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 01:33 PM |
| 16 | Update to the "25 year old virgin. Have a date and then Netflix and chill" post I made. For some reason the mods removed it.Congratulations on the cuddling and making her feel safe around you. Despite what many guys are saying about hie uou should have "went for it", you are better off in the long run doing exactly as you did. Awesome on bringing up the anxiety too. You made yourself human to her, vulnerable and relatable. She chose to sray with you nog only because she feels safe and comfortable with you, but because she wants you to feel safe and comfortable with her. I don't know what you are thinking about this g… | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Is it worth hooking up with a girl i’ve never met?Double check her age is legit. Wear protection. Keep evidence of the texts saying she wants to meet up for sex. And ask her several times over text about her age. If it turns out she isn't 18 for a few more months, you don't want to screw up your life. | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Finally approached a girlSee...seduction tactics applied to real life. Humour works. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Finally approached a girlIt works. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Finally approached a girlLmao. You are hilarious. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 02:25 PM |
| 10 | Finally approached a girlAs a female, I second this one. It is humourous and definitely engaging. You can tell her that you don't know if she should make it up to you by getting you a coffee, or if you should get her a coffee for helping you get a better butt. Then set up a coffee date after a workout if she is single. Lol | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Some quick hacks to make her chase moreYou would be surprised at how many single people there are out there who are over 40. Many whom have never been married. It is only young people who assume dating and sex are reserved for the young. Lmao Over 40 just tend to be way less head games and way more kinky. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | 27 year old virgin going on first date hopefully, need adviceYou're welcome. Have fun at the concert. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 10:57 AM |
| 1 | 27 year old virgin going on first date hopefully, need adviceIf she wants to go to the concert and grab a bite to eat, then do that. Concert first, food second. This will give you time around her where you don't feel pressured to speak and entertain her or keep her interest for 3 hrs straight. Food second because firstly, your nerves should settle down a bit during the concert. Secondly, it will give you something to start conversing about. You don't have to fish around for a conversation subject. Recommend going for pizza or burgers and fries (not a fast… | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 03:36 AM |
| 20 | Some quick hacks to make her chase moreI (46f) think this would actually work depending on the age of the woman. 20-32, probably would work on almost 80% of women. Women who have never been married before or not had a long term live -in relationships. A woman who has been married (or in a relationship that lasted more than 4 yrs) this advice would be hit and miss. A woman over 40 is just tired of games and bs. This would be a list of things not to do. | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Is Causal sex okay??I (46F) have always preferred casual sex over dating. I find dating partners to be too clingy, demanding and needy. So yes, absolutely go for casual sex. I strongly recommend being upfront about it. If you find a FWB situation it can be great. Be blunt, you are about "I will never love you, this is just sex." This statement can be extremely liberating for a woman as it requires no concern for "will he respect me in the morning" garbage. No worry about what family or friends will think because yo… | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 12:00 AM |
| 10 | How to stop pedestalizing women.I feel this advice is the same as telling girls (yes, girls) to withhold sex until he "earns" it. Ultimately it is bad advice. It is simple really. If you are looking for a long term relationship, take things slower. Get to know the person...the actually person, not just the packaging. Use critical analysis and actually think about their character Is this something you would let your best friend, sibling, or child put up with; or would you tell them to run? Be open to like and lust, but don't co… | /r/seduction | 11/06/21 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Anxious Attachment Types and Needy people Please ReadHow needy guys can up their chances of developing a relationship/finding a girl: 1) look for someone who is at least somewhat needy in return. If you are at the bar, she/he will be the one looking slightly uncomfortable in their surroundings. They may be looking around without ever making eye contact, they will probably fidget. And if you talk to them, they will get that nervous smile. If you are a needy type person, approaching another needy person is not a bad thing. She will actually want you… | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 02:05 PM |
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