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You shouldn't be worried about him being scared off from this. If he is, he ain't right for you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/20 01:47 AM
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I couldn't have said it better myself. It might seem archaic to some, but to me this is common sense. I have watched multiple close female friends end up sleeping with their "close male friends" after a while of things being "platonic". One of them said, "Because you always wonder what if it could work out?" In a close male and female friendship, it seems as though one party ALWAYS has feelings for the other. I would say its the same with exes. Keeping them around, they're like orbiters that ser…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/20 12:31 AM
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Is your perception of your N-count or general sexual experiences somehow triggered or pricked when you listen to your friends being so casual and sexual? It is pricked because of the fact that people like them (always talking about their casual sexual experiences) are what led me to try to have casual experiences which I in fact did not want. I only have myself to blame for that, but hearing about people constantly hooking up made me think the only way I could get the intimacy I wanted was by do…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/20 03:53 PM
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I think people get numb before pursuing intimacy because they desire that close connection and are trying to speed up the process of naturally formed intimacy by getting intoxicated. While drunk, your inhibitions are lowered and you can feel "closer" to someone emotionally because you're not as afraid to fully express yourself. Then once it wears off, you realize you're not actually used to this person's energy and you feel awkward around them. So I think getting drunk/numb to experience intimac…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 04:39 PM
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You're right, most people are intoxicated when they hook up....and for me personally, I know that alcohol numbs my sensations greatly. Even after just 2 glasses of wine. Makes me wonder why all these people are getting numb to pursue intimacy and then acting like its this great experience. I don't think I seem rigid and cold at all, I'm definitely a warm and laid back person. I just don't really express my sexuality much unless I'm starting to fall for someone. I think that my issue is with myse…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/20 03:17 PM
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I think it comes from the sexual urges itself. Speaking for myself - but hopefully you can take something away from this, I think my shame is fueled by a sense of loneliness that then results in the self-doubt. I want a healthy outlet for my sexual needs, and I crave genuine affection. I completely relate to this. Being a sexual person, I WANT that affection and sex...but I know I might have to wait years to get it :/ so when I hear about my friends sexcapades, it makes it sound so easy for them…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 03:04 PM
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You're right - my post is super confused...and thats what I'm hoping to resolve. I feel inferior because it seems like they are getting the intimacy and the rewards of a passionate relationship while I am not. It seem like men view them more as these "liberated sexual goddesses" while I'm this uptight prude figure. Maybe that is my own self judgement, but I feel as though my friends who sleep with men quickly/engage in hook ups seem to get the passion that I so desperately want for myself. I'm j…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 02:09 AM
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I feel for you. Always stick by your values, no matter how much you may question them due to what the "norm" is or how people shame/judge you. I wish I had been able to do so in my younger years.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 01:22 AM
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I disagree that the tone of my post is critical of my friends. The tone of my post is frustrated for sure, but if you've read any of my other responses to people you can see that the last thing I want to do is judge my friends. I want to make peace with who I am. Did you read my entire post? I really am being honest about my behavior and trying to come to terms with it, the unfortunate experiences I've had in the past came from a lack of self love. I now have more self awareness, love, and under…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/20 01:15 AM
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Statistics don’t include a person’s story and emotional inner world. They are a rigid way of looking at things. We are human beings, we are imperfect. The best we can do is stick to our values and live in a way that is authentic. An N count is a number. The number means you attempted to have an intimate experience with someone (or someone took advantage of you) X amount of times. the reasons for trying to have this intimate experience are different for everyone. I don’t think an N count equates …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 07:27 PM
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I agree with your values and share them. However, I also agree with u/blushingoleander that no one likes to be preached to. Its not my job to tell a grown adult what they should or shouldn't do - I can share my insights and opinions, but its not my job to make anyone feel like they are less-than for what they are doing. As I said, I share your values personally, but I think that having an attitude that you're better than another woman for your choices is not the way to do things. If my friends e…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 06:08 PM
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Thank you for the response - I don't want to shame women who choose to have casual sex, if thats truly what they want. When hearing about my friend's casual sex encounters, I want to be a supportive friend and not be secretly judging them. It hurts ME to hear them say these things and be secretly judging them. I want that judgement gone, I want to be OK with their choices because their choices don't make me feel threatened. I wish I could adopt an attitude of "not for me, but if it works for you…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 02:57 PM
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Funny thing about nagging is, I don't naturally nag when my man has my respect and is carrying his weight, like another poster said. I start nagging when I'm losing trust in my man's ability to hold up his end of the relationship. It is unfortunate. Of course no one is perfect, but if you find yourself constantly picking at your man or nagging, it may be because you are unsatisfied on a deeper level.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 02:27 PM
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I get what you mean, but the way he does it is different. My boyfriend is far from insecure and is an extremely confident person. I think he's just pretty comfortable being alone/doing this own thing...and maybe he likes feeling needed/wanted? i don't really know. I've asked him about it and he says "of course i want to see you too." but its still odd to me that he consistently frames things the way he does. maybe he just enjoys feeling like he's doing something for me? i don't know, it puzzles …
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/20 07:14 PM
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I couldn't disagree more....why should she pursue someone who is hardly pursuing her? I think that's a fine way to make herself overly available to him. The masculine should pursue the feminine - ESPECIALLY considering he hasn't even made a commitment to her.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/19 03:08 AM
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Why don't you want him to know that you're salty about it? How are you ever going to have an authentic connection with someone if you can't express how you really feel? It sounds like you are too concerned with what he thinks about you - and not concerned enough with how YOU feel and what YOU want. You don't have to communicate from a place of aggression or contempt, but if you never reveal your truth, you will never forge a deep and authentic connection. Your behavior of trying to act like its …
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 10:48 PM
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I get that you're saying its a casual relationship, but is that really what you want deep down? > I also don’t want to continue making him think it’s okay for him to take weeks to text back like it’s nothing. You shouldn't settle for this kind of behavior if it truly rubs you the wrong way. We aren't being true to ourselves when we act like it's "fine" that someone is treating us in a way that hurts us. It misaligns you with your true self to try and brush off treatment that makes you feel unimp…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 10:38 PM
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This was hard to read...
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 10:25 PM
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