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| 8 | First ApproachGiving your phone number to her puts the ball in her court. She gets to decide whether she wants to call you or not. Next time write some thing like a blank phone number slot: "(_ _ _) - _ _ _ - _ _ _ _ " on a piece of paper and have her fill out her phone number and give it back to you | /r/seduction | 12/12/13 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Virgin uncertain of how to handle social situationsdon't let the fact that your a virgin define who you are. | /r/seduction | 10/11/13 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you flirt with a beautiful, hot girl that is obviously getting hit on by many other guys?Don't get flustered by other guys hitting on her, just pay no mind to it. Be pretty calm and be comfortable with yourself infront of her | /r/seduction | 08/11/13 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Does fear of STD's impact your game?You also have to consider that there are people in relationships or who are married who have herpes (aka not on the market / 1 sexual partner / and also the possibility that their partner is part of the statistic as well.) | /r/seduction | 30/10/13 02:00 AM |
| 5 | So you were born into a conservative/religious household? Here's what you need to know.I'll probably get downvoted for this but I feel it needs to be said: I feel like this is a step over the boundary. It's kind of a rule of seddit that you don't judge people or give them morality speeches, or whatever. It's a two way street guys, just as you don't want people telling you how it is morally wrong to get in a woman's pants before marriage, there are people who don't want to be told that their morality is wrong because "that's not how you get with women" or whatever the argument may … | /r/seduction | 29/10/13 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Should I wait until I'm older? Older seditors your advice please.All guys want to go after the 9's and 10's, and thats why a lot of guys fail. Because they don't value the importance of being able to talk to women regardless of some figurative and perspective number that somehow signifies the value of a woman. It's also ridiculous to think that some how you have to have X lifestyle to talk to these girls. You don't have to live like a rockstar to get an attractive girl, you should have the mindset that any girl would be interested in you because you are confi… | /r/seduction | 24/10/13 05:07 AM |
| 16 | [FR] Playboy Playmate Field ReportGood field report, better wingman | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Why have young people in Japan stopped having sex?It's more popular but it's not exactly the national sport as people joke. Someone once compared it to wrestling in the United States (probably not a mockery), in that professional gamers are famous but they're not mainstream celebrities. I've also heard there's quite a bit of backlash against parents allowing their children to pursue professional gaming. | /r/seduction | 21/10/13 06:53 AM |
| 0 | How can I lose the "she's way out of my league" attitude?some of the best advice I've heard, thank you | /r/seduction | 02/10/13 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Help a dude with anxiety?Practice socializing with everyone, not just girls you're attracted to. Besides you never know what type of friends they might have | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 03:14 PM |
| 2 | 2 years and 276 days of going out and I still have not approached a single girl. Please help.Don't be afraid to fail, you will always have failures, be afraid to not try. My biggest regrets are normally not approaching that girl, not when I've approached and haven't succeed. You need to get into the mindset that just approaching a girl and communicating with one is a success, if you do that you will never feel like you've gotten rejected | /r/seduction | 01/10/13 05:31 AM |
| 5 | Asking people out to lunch via facebookSimilar question: is it okay to message a girl on facebook asking if she wants to get lunch/coffee some time if we don't know each other, but have a mutual friend? | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 06:47 AM |
| 7 | [FR] / [UPDATE] Met HB9 at the beach, lost virginityDo what you truly believe is right and stand by that decision. I won't tell you one way or another, but it sounds to me you're quite hesitant to engage in FWB with a girl who you have feelings for. I would guess that is your gut reaction, I would go with your gut. You've told her that you want more than just FWB (i'm assuming from the context), stand by that decision. Walk out on her, she will have a lot more respect for you, you'll probably have a lot more respect for yourself, and women in gen… | /r/seduction | 14/09/13 04:02 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Probably one of the hardest decisions I've made in a long time (oneitis)Damn, you just went full Hugh Jackman (badass) | /r/seduction | 11/09/13 05:57 AM |
| 3 | What are your methods for creating a sexual conversation?It sounds like you're trying to be devious about your sexual intentions rather than straight forward about it | /r/seduction | 10/09/13 06:49 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with older women that thinks you are too young?Off topic: Wouldn't that make them pedophiles? | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 07:39 AM |
| 3 | College Game: Harvard's Class of 2017 Is Full of Virgins (65%)So what exactly was the point of this post? | /r/seduction | 09/09/13 05:47 AM |
| 4 | Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS. You hear it all the time: "He was such a NICE Guy, and she's such a Heartless Bitch for dumping him."I hate calling nice guys losers. Often they just don't know any better | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 04:50 AM |
| 3 | You see a cute girl in the cafeteria. What do you do?What I'd like to do: Walk up to her, rip off her shirt, tear down her pants and start doing her on the lunch table What I'd probably do: Notice her, stare at her, then do nothing and obsess over her quietly to myself | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 06:43 AM |
| 3 | I have oneitis. Bad.If you can't create your own happiness and your misery is inflicted by this girl then why would you still one to hang around her? | /r/seduction | 01/09/13 03:50 PM |
| 2 | [FR]Pushed myself and took baby steps for first time. Dealing with emotions involving rejection and anxiety.When dealing with approach anxiety and fear of rejection, just remember that not every girl is going to be attracted to you just as you are not attracted to every girl. Often it's nothing personal and doesn't necessarily mean you're ugly or awkward | /r/seduction | 29/08/13 03:34 PM |
| 7 | Why Being a Jerk is Better than Being a Nice GuyA lot of nice guys just don't know any better. To call them losers is a bit harsh because they think theyre doing the right thing | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend gave this to me during a mutual breakup, to me this is what seduction is all about.I hope to some day have a relationship as deep and intimate as this | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Overwhelmed by the amount of content on this subreddit and beyond: WHAT ARE THE BASICS???I'm assuming so I could be wrong, but you read and watch all this content and think you're prepared, but you never actually go out and practice. You can be as knowledgeable about this stuff as you want, and as I'm sure you've learned girls are complicated, there is no insert answer here type thing for every scenario, girls are human too. So instead of reading about all this and studying it like some type of scientist, go out and practice it, human interaction | /r/seduction | 22/08/13 05:15 AM |
| 6 | Losing guy friends due to changeI'm going to put this quite bluntly and you can take it or leave it. They're not jealous of your success, alpha male status, or the fact you're changing. Most likely, you've just become a huge douche and they don't want to hang around you anymore. | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Warning! Rant ahead: I'm tired of seduction!I never said anything about moral judgements or judging people who want to have sex period. You're assuming things I never said. I merely said that people who come here and see "f-close" or "kino sex" every day what do you think people are going to start thinking? The entire point of this post was that the user felt like he saw every woman as a new piece of ass and attributes it to seddit. If you would actually just read what I wrote instead of coming to your own conclusions it would be helpful. | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Warning! Rant ahead: I'm tired of seduction!I'll be fairly critical of this subreddit in saying that when you see all these field reports like "f-closed 3 girls this weekend" and all that, you start to think that the only way to measure success is through how many girls you've fucked. It's not only that, but even when you see field reports about guys getting a #-close, some of the most common types of comments are like "good start, try escalating kino faster to make her comfortable with sex". I think this subreddit has digressed a bit to … | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 12:52 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Match.com 1st Date F-Close; "Kitty Purr" Kino Movelesson learned: women are cats | /r/seduction | 22/07/13 02:29 AM |
| 34 | [FR] Meeting a Girl I Stopped Talking ToNice field report, different than the typical "i gave her the D" that we normally see here. Good lessons to be learned too. | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Evolution of Frank Pt. 2 [FR]It' a nice change of pace from the typical "I gave her my D" type of field report we get here 90% of the time. | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Evolution of Frank Pt. 2 [FR]another fantastic read, congrats on your success and hopefully more success for Saturday! | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 06:14 AM |
| 2 | The Evolution of Frank. Field ReportYou have an incredible talent for writing, congrats dude, you're doing a hell of a job, keep it up | /r/seduction | 10/07/13 04:43 AM |
| 11 | Panties! [FR]I'm a little disturbed to be honest | /r/seduction | 06/07/13 07:47 AM |
| 3 | Questions for those who are not naturally good at seduction. Looking for the outliers.Well I wouldn't consider myself a success or having a lot of success Of all the skills you've learned, which one proved to be most effective? If I had to learn one thing what would that be? Probably having a high value for yourself. I had problems with self-esteem and confidence because I wasn't having any success with women and it was also probably because I didn't have success (can become a pretty vicious cycle) What would it look like if you had to train me to overcome great social anxiety to… | /r/seduction | 05/07/13 05:49 PM |
| 2 | How do you gauge your own physical attractiveness and how it affects your game?I've been told I'm not unattractive but nor extraordinarily attractive. I just try and focus on making myself attractive to women in other ways than my physical looks (even though i do think its important to take care of your physical team) | /r/seduction | 05/07/13 04:09 AM |
| 2 | How nice is too nice?if you have to ask you're too nice | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 07:44 AM |
| 6 | I got rejected for the first time.[Field Report]A tip so you don't get nervous from Zan Perrion: "the ball is in the woman's court. If you go up to her and say 'hey' or just talk to her, you've done your job" (obviously im paraphrasing but you get the idea) | /r/seduction | 04/07/13 07:32 AM |
| 1 | FR: From Facebook add to F-close in two daysso how did her dad take you dropping her off the next morning? EDIT: also did you know this girl pretty well, or did you just kind of randomly message her about going to the same high school? I've got a similar situation, wondering what to do | /r/seduction | 27/06/13 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Any sedditors in the Phoenix/Tempe, AZ area?yes sir | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 08:16 AM |
| 4 | Any sedditors in the Phoenix/Tempe, AZ area?Tucson area | /r/seduction | 19/06/13 02:35 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Senior year, and my first close thanks to seddit.Solid field report but im more impressed that you have a friend named Geronimo | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 07:55 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Got out of the friend zone last nightI have to say I really liked your opener for that group of girls | /r/seduction | 10/06/13 07:49 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Online first date, k-close, and not quite f-close. Still holding V-card.Focus on the positives and move from there. It's not your fault that you couldn't get it up or that she kept talking to you. I don't know why you feel like you failed when you had a lot of success | /r/seduction | 07/06/13 04:21 AM |
| 12 | Prom tomorrow..nervous....She's only out of your league because you think she is. Clearly she doesn't think that if she's willing to go with you. Don't try and act cool, be cool. Just go there with the intent of having a good time and making sure she has a good time. In addition to that, it's just prom, it's not a big deal like people make it out to be. So remember: relax, have fun, make sure shes having fun, and keep it light and comfortable and she'll naturally feel comfortable | /r/seduction | 07/06/13 04:15 AM |
| 1 | The semi hermit guide to seductionA famous musician, Elliott Smith, once said (paraphrasing) ' its really compelling to see a musician who likes the music he plays. If you like your music then there must be something good about it because you like it, and other people will like it too'. I think the same thing can apply here. Girls like social, outgoing guys, but if that's not you then theres no point to fake it. I know plenty of girls who don't like going to parties and rather sit back on a couch and watch movies, but feel like … | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 06:47 PM |
| 2 | The semi hermit guide to seductionon the flip side, if you only ever approach the girl with the intention of getting laid, you will never get laid | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 06:44 PM |
| 5 | [FR] Bar #Close and the importance of a have fun attitude when out at nightgreat field report with some quality game that doesn't over-do it | /r/seduction | 26/05/13 06:02 AM |
| 1 | [FR] yesterday, me alone at bar, no drinking- as requested.Man that place sounds like it just absolutely blows. Props on sticking it out though | /r/seduction | 15/05/13 11:01 PM |
| 34 | [FR] Family Reunion #-Close/K-Close/F-Close (first real field report, throw away since I have family on here)I kind of chuckled at the title. Not often do you see the words family reunion and f-close in the same sentence. | /r/seduction | 23/04/13 08:41 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First date! Still new and struggling and looking for advice, but the progress I've made in 1 year is ALL thanks to this subredditAwesome FR and congrats. Any advice for a guy who is currently in your spot a year ago? | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 02:27 AM |
| 5 | [FR] Lifelong introvert gives no fucks, goes to club alone, and gets a dance. (Long post)congrats on your success, small steps lead to big improvement. | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 02:22 AM |
| 0 | [FR] F-close totally off of text game.what if you dont have texting.. | /r/seduction | 17/04/13 03:14 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Dressed classy, went out for fun, and got F-Closed by HB7you didn't really f-close, she handed you sex and you took it in any case, congrats | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 03:33 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Went to a bar and overcame AA for first time. But I couldn't close to save my life. Thoughts?what if i am a virgin-afc :< | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 10:20 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Went to a bar and overcame AA for first time. But I couldn't close to save my life. Thoughts?do girls really find that attractive? Honestly, very few of the girls I encounter talk about their sexual experiences so openly. | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 06:57 AM |
| 1 | Do any of you ever feel haunted about mistakes you've made in the past? Please share.the only mistakes I'm haunted by are in which I didn't make a move on a girl and I just let opportunities pass by. I'm sure I've made mistakes were I've come off as an idiot to a girl, but the ones that stick in my mind are all related to not doing anything. One in particular comes to mind with this girl we'll call Jacqueline that I met at a conference in Chicago. I still to this day maintain that she is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen and 5 years have passed. Needless to say I'm over … | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 07:01 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Raised myself from perdition (Friend Zone) [Very Long]where should I begin? I've read a few of the FAQ posts and some FR's and stuff but are there guides? thanks | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 01:54 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Raised myself from perdition (Friend Zone) [Very Long]congrats on your new found success, I wish I could emulate it | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 08:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Great night at a college party, no actual success but great application!I feel like some of this might be exaggeration, especially the part where shes telling how much she wants to hook up with you. But anyway, pretty good field report | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 01:00 AM |
| -1 | [FR] We fall so we can learn to pick ourselves back up: First active try of seddit techniquesI start sticking up as in you got a boner or what? | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 04:59 AM |
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