MoonpieSonata Archive

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4	My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40. You put far too much emphasis of getting a woman. The relationships we have are mostly all about the honeymoon stage. After that, it's a lot of 2 people getting under eachothers feet. Those hobbies of yours, do you love them or do you think they make you attractive? Are you truly doing things for yourself or because you think these things make you desirable? If the latter, you are inauthentic. Enjoy what you have, learn to enjoy your life so fucking much as you are, that your hobbies fill your t…	/r/seduction	30/10/21 09:19 PM
9	For guys, what's one dating advice that never worked for you? You probably had a moment to do that early on. If you waited, you telegraphed that your weren't confident enough. Her feelings will have dwindled, now you have the confidence. Too late.	/r/seduction	04/09/21 06:45 PM
3	Thought you guys might enjoy this. Well it seems he had learned approach confidence, directness and communication of intent so far. Now work on rapport building and he's on the way.	/r/seduction	05/11/18 03:13 PM
2	Is it possible to become very high-status without having a lot of money? Nikola Tesla disagrees. (in fairness, he generated huge sums, just not for him)	/r/seduction	12/07/18 04:30 PM
3	Got shot down after an approach in pretty embarrassing fashion, but I feel a huge weight off my shoulders. So not your typical success story Rejection happens, one I was seemingly hitting it off with a 7, like make outs, dirty dancing. Then she not only rejected me but left with another dude she just met right in front of me.... damn... I was whatever about her since I was in game mode and only escalated because I could, I wasn't that into her as such, it was just an approach that went well and I never took it personally. The next week I pulled a 10 that I was after for a while (former bikini model) The week after that I got a 9 (bik…	/r/seduction	15/05/18 12:13 AM
1	I am bad at sex, what do I do? Porn star Nina Hartley did a great series called "How to make love to women" or something. It was educational AND porn. And a rule I try to finger a girl or eat her out (or both) so she cums before I stick my dick in. Using this approach makes for a better time, and typically they will come back, because it shows you are considerate and a good time.	/r/seduction	11/03/18 10:59 PM
5	Men 30+, how do you approach? Moving to NYC was the hard part. Going from a small town to a global city! Thats huge! You pulled that off! I have met people from Chicago who want to move to NYC but are afraid. You already did that, and here you are worried about talking to a stranger in a bar.... Why? Because it might go badly? Sometimes it will. When it does. Ask yourself why? Ask what you would like to do different. But keep going. I had one approach yesterday that went pretty bad. But. I had a lot of fun with it. Because s…	/r/seduction	04/01/18 11:09 PM
3	Men 30+, how do you approach? Oh for sure strike up convos from start. Build that confidence. So when you have a presence you already have the confidence to open too. All that happens is when you have that presense, your sets get interupted by people/girls coming up and hugging you. Adding value. Be out to have fun. Some of those you just open early can turn into closes later. It really does just get to the stage where you go out on your own because you know you will see people there. And you will know which girls arent regu…	/r/seduction	04/01/18 09:43 PM
10	Men 30+, how do you approach? I think the key is just slowly build up a scene presence. I got out of an 8 year relationship and am started again. Find a bar that is a good pre club bar that is part of the music scene you enjoy. Strike up conversation with the bar staff/hired guns. Be friendly. Eventually they will greet you. They invariably know some regulars and you get drawn into conversations with them. If you are from out of town that will give you a niche and NYC as a melting pot is really welcoming to stuff like that. …	/r/seduction	04/01/18 08:32 PM
2	Men 30+, how do you approach? About to turn 37. I dress pretty current and look pretty young. I am seeing girls 22, 28.and 29 currently. I.am better now than I have ever been. Don't dress like an old man and don't worry about it.	/r/seduction	04/01/18 07:48 PM
22	Men 30+, how do you approach? About to turn 37. I dress pretty current and look pretty young. I am seeing girls 22, 28.and 29 currently. I.am better now than I have ever been. Don't dress like an old man and don't worry about it.	/r/seduction	04/01/18 07:48 PM
71	The Average Man on a Date Oh, it's gone pitifully, Hold, his virginity, it's a catastrophe	/r/seduction	04/10/17 03:27 PM
3	Text game improvement Number 1 rule is keep it short. You are not trying to make her understand how you feel at that moment, you are trying to get a result. A side point which is related to how you feel. She is looking to build a picture of you. Let her do it. Let her build the fantasy. So keep it short and playful and concentrate on getting you both together. Don't give too much away about you. Just your intent to meet. I appreciate that is slightly abstract. Make it clear you are busy but are keen on meeting up soo…	/r/seduction	30/09/17 09:06 AM