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| 831 | I mean, who cares what people think but yeah, that is most definitely not the solution! | REMINDER 👑 | Moonxtal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:02 PM |
| 367 | Just a lil funny | FDS HUMOR | Moonxtal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:45 PM |
| 21 | An interesting dating strategy idea I had | DISCUSSION | Moonxtal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Too scary! | FDS HUMOR | Moonxtal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | My Vision Collage | LEVEL UP | Moonxtal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:23 PM |
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| 2 | The truth about the ‘friend zone’I watch this guys channel from time to time, he's admitted it himself that he looks like her XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 06:13 PM |
| 27 | Get out and meet people to find dates. Make a list of things you want in a partner, then a list of deal breakers. Most importantly love yourself, invest in yourself, take good care of yourself and realize you are deserving of love.I can't date a smoker tho...I'd never be able to be in their presence because I'd smell it on him.its the most unattractive thing in the world to outside maybe being morbidly obese. I would never be able to cuddle or kiss him...and that would make a shitty relationship. Also I dated a smoker who "quit" for me....he went back to cigs after a month or two... I can be around vape tho no problem...probably because of the lack of smell or the sweet smell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 02:51 PM |
| 24 | As a former gym rat (thanks covid), this makes me angry. Just a few, sadly predictable, comments.Yeah when I go to the gym I wear loose baggy t-shirts and loose flowy yoga type pants... My body is hidden behind curtains, but I'm still chubby/fat so I hide it for other reasons | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 06:03 PM |
| 12 | An advanced Pickme spotted in the wild, commenting unironically:^ exactly! I ment as spontaneous little mini dates. Maybe topped with more effort like a picnic or a trip to a nearby cafe for a light lunch or something. But yes definitely in between romantic nights out and whatnot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:38 PM |
| 56 | An advanced Pickme spotted in the wild, commenting unironically:The thing is, we would do stuff like that, once we're in a committed relationship! Walks in a park and on the beach is nice with a boyfriend or husband, someone you love and trust. But as a first date... it reeks of "how little can I get away with" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:32 PM |
| 11 | Quotes from Simone de Beauvoir and Christine de Pizan cycle across my home screen to help me stay in a HV mindset as I go about my day. Also, big fall vibes 🍂Eh... Simone de Beauvoir is problematic AF. Her and her..."husband" or partners were in open relationships and would groom young (like 15-17 or so) girls for sex with both if them. Just...yeah... Not so good Found that out after I heard her name in a song and looked her up. 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:40 AM |
| 27 | HVW in movies, TV shows or other mediaToula from "my big fat Greek wedding" is a good one. In fact, my big fat Greek wedding is basicly how to get a HVM 101. Toula glows up and dates a great man leading to marriage with him. Jocelyn from "a knights tale" is also a HVW. She exudes queen energy and makes William work for her every step of the way. On their first meeting he begged for her name and she was like "and what would you do with my name if you had it? Think of me as a fox, sir hunter for that's all I am to you" Later on in the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 07:52 PM |
| 5 | Find a healthy obsession, something you never want to stop engaging in. If you have one, what is your obsession?Crafting crafting crafting! Ever since I moved and got settled in my new home ive been crafting like crazy. Making decor for my house. Ive made a few wreaths, one for my cousin, a cat clock for my kitchen ( the kind where the tail wags) I picked back up my cross stitch from late last year and have made great progress. Popped open my computer and made pictures to hang on my wall with Photoshop, made/fixed up Halloween decorations. Etc etc etc! My creative juices are flowing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 10:11 AM |
| 5 | OofI looks like my grandmas "costume jewlery" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 07:22 PM |
| 45 | This is why we don’t dress for scrotes, dress for yourself sis!Remember ladies, if a guy starts out with "you deserve someone who..." Don't even let him finish his thought. Just cut him off with, "yes I do" and start packing your (or his) shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 01:57 PM |
| 13 | What would you do if there were no men around for 24hrs?Hmmm.. Go for a night walk around an inner city I guess...that's the most dangerous place I can think of. My neighborhood is so tame I can already walk around it at night if I wanted to. I can't really go braless as I have big boobs and they would sweat... Esp if I was doing any kind of activity. My sports bras are actually good at keeping them up comfortably so that air can get under them! 😥 Outside of grade school bullying I've never been harassed by men that I can remember but then I'm tall, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:25 PM |
| 12 | Classic “let’s go on a walk”Tell em to come over and paint something if they're bored 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 07:22 PM |
| 45 | Sailor Moon FDS momentsIts the "sailor says" portion of the old DIC dubs. They reused footage from episodes to make a moral add on for English speaking audiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:59 PM |
| 29 | Hell, nahAnd yet they still cheat or dump you when "something better" comes along. If it truly was that easy there would be no divorce... Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:20 PM |
| 7 | Exceptions for the walking date?Got into an argument with some dudes (on another app) and I even suggested a park date as long as some effort was shown with a picnic and drinks. I thought if the guy brought a telescope to star gaze would be so cute! And of course even that was too much for them. Omg! Should have asked them on which subsequent date after the free "get to know you" date that they would take their girl to Chez Pierre or whatever fancy restaurant... Bet the answer would have been never... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:14 AM |
| 108 | Makes me 😤 to see a gorgeous queen put in effort for date night while her man does the absolute leastI once thought about going on one of those "walking dates", showing up in my crocks, my sleepware which consists of a vastly oversized old work shirt (complete with paint marks) my super loose type yoga pants, messy bun, sunglasses, no makeup and carrying a Starbucks that I picked up on the way there. But I figured it'd probably backfire and id just waste my time... Still would love to see a guy's reaction to that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 11:01 PM |
| 5 | Right. To each their own I guess, but for me it's basic grooming?ah, i was going by what was posted here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Right. To each their own I guess, but for me it's basic grooming?I don't see anywhere where she said he wanted a fat, lazy, slob... she just likes big and hairy. let the girl like what she likes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:20 PM |
| 21 | Tattoos/symbols that remind you to be true to yourself first?A little crown to remember you're a queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 01:45 AM |
| 12 | Imagine admitting that the only thing stopping you from assaulting women is the law.Good thing there's guns...the great equalizer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:42 PM |
| 12 | Broke PickMe proves to her multi-millionaire boyfriend that "she's not like other girls" by spoiling him with gifts and not asking him for anything. Then when she ask for help with her $1000 rent he says NO.I stopped watching after she said that other men would throw money at her....GIRL....date other men then! Don't be exclusive with that stingy asshole... Drop him and multi date men that will treat you right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:10 AM |
| 10 | Her asking her ex for flowers VS when they broke up and he saw her receive flowers from one someone else 😂😂😂Never date a man that refers to you as "Dude" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:56 AM |
| 23 | The bar is so low it’s literally in hell. Tired of LVM online.I'm seriously thinking about the next time a guy wants to "hang out" I'll call his bluff and see if he'll come to my house and paint my bedroom. Cause ya'know... We can "hang out" while I get shit around my house fixed up for free... I have yet to see a relationship go from casual and comfy to fancy and formal....its the other way around. Guys want to set the bar low so they can look like a hero just for taking you out on your birthday. Hell I've had my birthday forgotten or downplayed for years… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 10:43 AM |
| 12 | Free or low cost birth control with no Doctor visit. I’m not sure how well known this service is, but maybe it can help some Queens out thereJust be careful, if they are hormone based you still might wanna see a Dr because those can fuck up your system in many ways. Still... Hell yeah I'm all for reduced or free and easy access to BC! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 12:49 AM |
| 33 | Why Good Women Are Losing On Dating AppsIts so sad. They sound beautiful and bright like they could get any guy to fall in love yet they put up with un satisfying, painful, and degrading treatment. If 90% of the time I ate out, I got food poisoning... I'd stop eating out!! What's in it for them? Maybe 20 mins of validation from a guy that thinks your hot? These girls need some self esteem. Its so sad... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 35 | Youtube hates women too. "YouTube wants to punish me for being a woman.... because of a YesStyle try on haul". Misogyny of modern society.I love Pretty Pastel Please! I'll have to watch this later... Edit: I saw that yes style video, the dress flopps down, but no nipples were seen.just her upper...chest/collar bone area. She's a modest girl, she even wears spanx and stuff under sheer outfits. Dunno what YouTube is flippingn out about??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:28 PM |
| 55 | I'm speechlessI'm thinking a safe word for him should be a swift kick to the balls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 13 | The state of Reddit.He's a grown ass man he can make himself a pb&j if he wants. My ex hated soups and stews too...never stopped me from making em | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:50 PM |
| 35 | Where the fuck are some good Rom-Coms?My big fat Greek wedding. The main character goes from a shy frumpy girl to self confident working girl in a brilliant glow up and meets a hvm and marries him. All with her crazy Greek family surrounding it all lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:07 PM |
| 7 | Question - can you have male friends?Yes, but they have to not be attracted to you, and don't expect anything deep. It will be more like an acquaintance than a friendship like you have with your girlfriends. I have a guy I hang out with once in a while. We watch anime and movies and stuff together (he has Netflix I don't) he's helped me with sorting medical bills from my fathers estate so he's a pretty good guy. Has never come onto me so I feel secure. I see him maybe once a month... He'll Txt me maybe 2 times a month just to check… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:06 PM |
| 49 | Just what? This only a few months before they tried to sell "Daddy's Little Slut" shirts for little girls.And people call me crazy when I tell them there is a literal pedophile ring among the rich and elite | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:06 PM |
| 5 | I mean...seriously? Now we can’t even garden without some sort of shitty sexual joke?This looks staged to me. Reminds me of when I found a buttkin at the pumpkin patch. it was also a Siamese with 2 fused into one. Bought it and made a mooning scarecrow where in I hid a remote control fart speaker, the kids loved it! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:04 PM |
| 18 | When you witness the birth of the newest FDS memberI'm a water snob, I don't like how certain ones "taste" so I tend to either have my prefered bottled water on me or like water enhancers for tap and other brands of bottled water. cough deer park cough I dunno why anyone would drink soda when water enhancers exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:54 PM |
| 3 | 👑Buy Yourself Flowers - FridayLovely color! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 07:28 PM |
| 11 | Scrote hella mad I commented about moving on from my ex’sAnd what about men that pine for their "one that got away" and brings that into every relationship after? What about their string of ex's and hookups?...geeze ppl have histories and pasts its not like they started existing the min you start dating them... If I had such fond memories and great connections of my ex's I'd still be with them! Obviously something didn't gel and we're not together anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:58 PM |
| 7 | An interesting dating strategy idea I hadMost are silly, but some really do make you think and consider things. It can lead to moral/philosophical discussions. Like some are money related, or personality related. A lot of times finding out why they chose that answer over the other can bring up flags good or bad by sparking a discussion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:49 PM |
| 114 | Just LVM things with a side of gaslightingJust troll him by sending a pic of a fat guys moobs.... Boobs is boobs right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:28 PM |
| 13 | I want to start wearing make up more but I think it might shock people.Do lite make up. Some concealer for blemishes maybe a light foundation to smooth out the skin, and maybe some stuff around the eyes. That's what I did for work when I was in retail. Now im in a dirty factory where I sweat like a pig for 12 hrs..everything would melt off in an hour, nothing but grizzled old men and young dumb boys there...so nobody to impress anyway lol I'll glam up on my days off tho ;) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 05:25 PM |
| 8 | Straight from the horse's mouth, what garbage low value mgtow 'men' thinkNow I want chocolate cake...thanks... Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 07:59 PM |
| 33 | Ladies: Don’t fall into this trap! This is a great time to work on ourselves instead of desperately looking for any LVM just to be with someone.Ugh...I stopped reading after the "oh no what will I do if I can't get laid all winter?" malarkey... Oh god forbid you're not getting your dick/pussy smashed for a few months. Cause clearly that's all they give a damn about. =_= | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:37 PM |
| 14 | Older women are so undermined and it makes me mad.I've found women videos for reclaiming your feminine energy. Adrienne everheart is a lil older and there's a few poc gals in there too! I remember many moons ago seeing a sex education type videos (not pornographic, just talk) hosted by two older hippy chicks. I couldn't find them later...they might have gotten nuked by YouTube. :( but the one EPs I remember was how they were talking about how hard it was for them to orgasam, and they gave little tips and tricks on how to do it during sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Get a man who will show you off! If he's not proud to be with you and treats you accordingly, he ain't the one, hun!Beautiful smile! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:35 AM |
| 34 | When you realize someone you're been seeing is a LVMI wish that would happen with my last ex.😔 I know it mentally, rationally... but my heart needs to grow cold to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:28 AM |
| 4 | Question: Take your time imagining and tell us, who would you be in 15 years if you decentered romantic relationships?I can't afford to travel much... yet (and well, covid) but I do have my house and future in order. I'm the cousin that works in a factory and is happy in her little home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:59 AM |
| 40 | AngerYeah I've been feeling this. I'm off any dating sites, there's no men in my social circles that I'm even remotely interested in, and the last 2 guys that showed interest in me were long distance and I couldn't get excited about them at all. I'm just like...doing my own thing now. Working on my house, crafting and decorating. Focusing on myself and my new kitties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:20 PM |
| 13 | Men who chronically engage in casual sex are more likely to engage in sexual aggression.I've always preferred men with a lower body count. I dunno where the myth that women want an "experienced guy" I.e. a guy that's had numerous sexual encounters. I'd take a guy that only had a few ltr's and ~maybe~ 1-2 hookups over a guy with dozens of hookups and like 1, 5 month long relationship. To me a man that has lots of casual sex tells me he'll never be happy with one girl, he could have a few babies out there waiting to pop out of the woodwork, and a high chance of some sort of std. I've… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 04:27 PM |
| 15 | Man complains about lack of variety in sex life, big dick is the only issue in the marriage...judge for yourself ladies.Could he get a penis reduction? 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:00 PM |
| 151 | This is why we should never play housewife (especially besides a job)Oh my gawd! Just get off your fat lazy ass and get her phone! She's obviously cooking your dinner, give her a hand! Also 6 years a GF? Toss him out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 10:33 AM |
| 13 | This is Why It’s Important to Have an Abundance Mindset38 I know its not bad but combined with covid and lack of any good men around... It can feel like I'll never meet anyone again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:57 PM |
| 25 | This is Why It’s Important to Have an Abundance MindsetGod I'm still working on the whole I'll never find love again thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 07:38 PM |
| 16 | Advice needed: Setting boundaries on an engagement/marriage timeline.4 months is crazy fast, I prefer around 1.5-2 years. That's 2 birthdays, 2 christmas, 2 summers, 2 valentines days etc. I feel that's enough time to get to know someone. 1st v-day he may go all out but by the 2nd he'll be very comfortable and you can judge if he's slipped by then...you know? But every one is different. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 06:09 PM |
| 6 | What you doin for yourself that a man or husband needs to do more to impress you?I need a man to fix stuff I have no head for. Like fix my car. I know basics, but more intricate stuff... A man that can jack up my car and fix it for a fraction of what a mechanic could do please! I've been fixing and doing a lot of home projects. I want a man that could whip me up stuff I want/ need. Like a catio! I can totally help, i know my way around a power drill, but when 2 ppl do a project it gets done way faster. Need a guy that's clean and has good hygiene, and a guy to help me with l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:25 PM |
| 3 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?My last ex who was emotionally unavailable, and a chronic liver was a Virgo.... I'm a Capricorn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 07:57 PM |
| 76 | Just got my first place. Treat yourself, ladies, instead of waiting on someone else to do it.Haha just the other night I did a cucumber paper spa mask and almond and Shea butter bubble bath with pink mascato wine! Tonight is a gold peel off mud mask and rose tea bath bombs!!! 😍😘💅🍷🛁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 11:22 PM |
| 21 | It’S biOloGiCaL male strikes againPeople tend to look at what they find attractive, men and women alike. I said there's a difference between a quick glance at a handsome guy walking by, and I mean glance as in your eyes fall on his face/body for a few seconds. Vs turning your head to follow him as he walks past, eyes locked on, ogling... Etc. I have looked at handsome men while with a bf. But not in the leering, gross, obvious way. Just a quick glance and then I moved on. I doubt they even noticed... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 10:41 PM |
| 28 | It’S biOloGiCaL male strikes againI do think it is a biological instinct but one that you can control. There's a difference between glancing at a pretty woman and ogling another woman in front of your SO. Come on dude...you're past the monkey stage...act like it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 10:25 PM |
| 31 | Saw my ex on Hinge this morningYeah saw my ex on okcupid...made me sick to my stomach...sad part was, we were like an 89% match too 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 01:30 AM |
| 5 | I just did 20 minutes on the treadmill!I need to get myself an elliptical. Its my fave thing at the gym! I just ended my membership after almost a year of not using it 😅 Was gonna go back with my cousin and do a gym/girls day but then covid hit. Have been doing spa days and just did yoga with her last week so...still taking care of ourselves! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:06 PM |
| 29 | There's people in the comments saying that some of these are reasonable...The only ones I sort of agree with is men aren't mind readers and just be blunt and ask for what you want...the rest is trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 10:00 AM |
| 32 | Demand the respect you deserve 👑Its both. Hell have no fury than a woman scorned right? Like the song says, I'm a bitch I'm a lover... We can be a mans dream come true if they just put in half the effort we do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Hey queens. Make some suggestions for me to be more productive in a fun way on my down time. Keep me busy.Is a here anything around the house that needs fixed or updated? I moved right before covid hit and ive kept busy with painting, yard work and fix it jobs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:17 AM |
| 35 | Are terms of endearment and pet names an orange flag?In the first month or first few dates or conversations? I'd say yes. Sounds like he's trying to push things along to go faster or love bomb ya. After a couple months and you're more established? Its fine by me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 04:17 PM |
| 39 | An article normalizing the rape culture idea that men can’t control their impulses and simply need sex. Um, no. These NBA athletes are adults and should be able to contain themselves for a few months while quarantining in Florida.Awww poor babies... /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 12:44 PM |
| 1 | 👀 6 years ago?Maybe she wanted to wait until after her schooling?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 02:17 PM |
| 253 | Trying to put FDS into practice. Critique me, ladies!Jezzus...how hard is it to get a freaking date, time, and place from guys? Like pulling teeth! Love those smarky comebacks tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 09:31 AM |
| 20 | Sexonlyzoned thanks to LVM scrotes!!!Both for me. Ive been friend zoned by guys i crushed on and my last ex pulled a "let's be friends with benefits even tho I know you want more and love me" and like a doormat I tried to do just that...😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 06:37 AM |
| 10 | Am I the only who thinks the only requirement to be appealing to a man is merely "don't be fat"?I went from 285 to 235 and I'm still fat/chubby but not as much...and I'm still invisible to men. My goal is 180 but I've hit a plateau.... I want to be healthy and have more energy for me. But was kind of hoping it would open up more options in the dating world :( guess not...still ignored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 06:32 AM |
| 3 | How to get his words out of my headCan you get a couple girlfriend's together and make going to the gym a girls day thing? Replace the negative emotions associated with the gym with positive ones. Like, do the gym and then a spa or get some food or something. Like sandwich the gym with other things so that you're too busy to be in your own head about it. Make a day of it. And if you can, see if some of the girls can meet you on the regular at the gym for workout sessions together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 08:01 PM |
| 26 | lies men tellWow I must be the outlier here because every time I "took a shot" I was rejected or friendzoned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 06:00 PM |
| 5 | Am I reverting to pickme ways?I think that because you're not trying to date him you're just being a friend and an ear to vent to. Just don't do anything more than listen and sympathize. Let him start any of that talk, but keep it surface lvl and maybe not any phone calls/texting. Anything more than that is psychologist territory and he can seek that out for himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 02:18 PM |
| 15 | Last few months I’ve been going around with an attitude of “well, if a man can do it, it can’t be that hard, I bet I can do it too” and ladies I have yet to be wrongI get such a rush of acomplishment when I install or fix something in my house. I still have to hire handy men for a lot but every new project I learn to do at least one thing new! Last week I installed a new handle and deadbolt on my front door. I've spakled holes in walls, installed curtain rods, built a bed, couch, and TV stand I got in the mail, painted entire rooms... I've also been maintaining my lawn and replaced my break light! Go me! 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 12:24 PM |
| 43 | Why can’t I let go?Sadly its mainly going to take time and distance. Block him on all social media and try and avoid him as much as possible. Remember, he made your brain make the feel good chemicals... So find someone/thing else (friends,family,new dates,hobbies,exercise... etc) that will also make those feel good chemicals. And over time he will fade. You are going through withdrawal right now. Best course of action is to deal with your emotions but also divert your attention to your own life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:55 AM |
| 20 | Male friends? What are your thoughts/ experiences? + little storyI have/had guy friends no problem, but I'm not an attractive looking woman and I tend to be "the funny girl" so I think I fall into the 'just one of the guys' mindset for them. That's how I know 'its all about personality that's what matters' doesn't hold water for guys...if they aren't attracted to you physically then youre just a friend. Ive actually been friend zoned before! I'm still friends with him and even crash on his couch sometimes...no problems. But I'm over him too...he's pretty LV. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 05:50 PM |
| 88 | The guy didn’t confirm the date. So I didn’t meet up. What’s your policy on this?Dumb fox = play dumb. Something like "Oh I didn't hear from you all week so I wasn't sure were were still on for Thursday.. Maybe next time" Then he will either get his shit together and try again making sure you know a day before...or he'll give up on you which means he didn't care that much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 06:10 PM |
| 7 | What has been your experience been with a major "glow up?" Men are WEIRD now.Still working on mine... Doing keto and lost 50lbs...working on makeup and outfits, I'm still ignored by everyone. Go male attention good or bad really. shrug Now I'm more consumed with my house. Painting, decorating, fixing,and maybe later this year or next...planting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 09:54 AM |
| 5 | What joy do you fill your life with that doesn't involve dating/partners?Lately, because I just got a house, I've thrown myself into small easy home improvement projects. Painting a room, installing a new door handle and deadbolt, looking up how to eventually paint the tile in my bathroom, fixing holes in my drywall, along with decorating and putting together furniture I got via mail :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 09:57 AM |
| 7 | What was a Pickme behavior that you've looked back on and regretted?Oof.. #8 me to a T. I figured I wasn't pretty so to just take what I could get. Landed me 6 years in a bf/gf in name only situationship where anything even slightly romantic/sexual ended in around 6 months. We were roommates that just called each other df/gf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 12:03 PM |
| 24 | Yes loser, because only women get salads at restaurants... They just HAVE to bring gender into everything they say, don’t they?As long as the ranch doesn't have to much sugar/ carbs. Keto FTW. Oh and after my salad..I get a RARE steak. Yum yum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 08:07 PM |
| 2 | 4channer accidentally outlines a decent husband in thread bemoaning lack of trad wivesThey can have "man child" hobbies like video games and board games (seriously whats wrong with board games?) as long as it doesn't consume their entire lives. There's a difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/20 06:20 PM |
| 82 | He doesn't have time = he doesn't want to make timeI've butt dialed some people more than some guys have called/Txt me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 09:24 PM |
| 13 | Post-breakup... the sadness was actually oxytocin withdrawal??Depression and anxiety mostly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 09:29 PM |
| 23 | Post-breakup... the sadness was actually oxytocin withdrawal??Here's what I do... First off you should be in no contact...no texting, no Facebook etc. Unless he works with you or lives on your street or something you should not see him as much as possible. Next, whenever you catch yourself thinking about him and the other girl stop yourself (hard to do) but say it out loud if you have to... Ask yourself why you are crying over trash? Do you cry over the pizza box you threw out? No, you may have enjoyed the pizza but you don't need the box. (The pizza being… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 06:07 PM |
| 59 | Post-breakup... the sadness was actually oxytocin withdrawal??That's what I'm saying! You don't miss him...you miss the happy feel good chemicals your brain made while with him. Find you something/someone else that creates those same chemicals! I'm still dealing with mine...but I think I have a mental issue that's making it worse than other ppl... But everyday gets better. I'm not crying anymore but the turd still lives rent free in my brain ...😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | It's probably a better idea to just put dating on hold during Covid-19I put mine on disable for now... Not that I was getting many guys contacting me anyway >3> | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 02:47 PM |
| 9 | How do I get over an unreciprocated crush?One thought that always helps me is, he makes your brain produce those happy feel good chemicals, go out and find something else that also makes your brain produce those happy feel good chemicals. Be it a hobby, exercise, spending time with family or friends, or even another guy... (I.e. dating, but don't get too attached, hence the dating multiple men strategy) last one is on hold obviously.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 12:10 PM |
| 40 | What do you tell yourself if he picks another girl over you?Pity the poor sap that's inevitably going to get her heart broken or strung along on crumbs. He did you a favor, now you're free to find a better man than he ever could be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:05 AM |
| 20 | About His Social Media Posts: Everyone doesn’t need to know your day-to-day business, but EVERYONE should know you’re a couple. There’s a big difference between privacy and secrecy. Don’t get played.On the plus side I'm moving to my new house and its like a brand new start for a brand new me 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:49 PM |
| 39 | About His Social Media Posts: Everyone doesn’t need to know your day-to-day business, but EVERYONE should know you’re a couple. There’s a big difference between privacy and secrecy. Don’t get played.This happened to me with my last ex. I'm not a Facebook junkie, I have one but next to never use it, he on the other hand is constantly browsing and often times posting on it. I fell for the "I like to keep my life private" line. A few months into us dating my dog died and he made a post about it and showed it to me. In that post he referred to me as the room mate. (Yep we were living together too...I know I know...) So I called him on that post and got the... We were only dating for 2 months he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:44 PM |
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