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It could be that the wife isn't making it clear that the issue is an existential risk to the marriage. It could be that the husband is dense. I assume for most people if they had to choose between doing more chores or divorce they would choose the former. Of all possible relationship problems I don't think division of chores is a particularly hard one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 01:33 PM
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I think it depends on however the couple wants to resolve it. But I don't think it should be that hard. Like imagine you're deciding how to split a slice of pie with someone and unless both sides are satisfied you both lose $10000. I would think there was something very wrong with at least one of those people if they couldn't successfully divide that slice of pie. And those are two strangers where the stakes are much lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:22 AM
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It boggles my mind that anyone would let their marriage fall apart over the distribution of chores. All I can say is some people are just not good at relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 10:09 AM
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You could think of it that way but you don't have to and most people probably wouldn't. You could just as well say self improvement is more satisfying because you earned it and you know what it's like not to have that success so you can appreciate it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:54 AM
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A few things: I don't believe most men that have some sexual experience are insisting on women being virgins most men are turned off by women having significantly more sexual experience than them probably many men that come to a place like this are young virgin men so almost any amount of experience is significantly more than them men do a lot of rationalization for this preference but it's likely just biological most men do gain social value and women lose social value when they have a lot of s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:41 AM
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It's everywhere if you look for it everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 01:04 AM
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I've noticed there's a growing segment of women that claim they've given up completely on dating men, or that if their currently relationship doesn't work out they'll give up on seeking a new one. The interesting thing is that they haven't given a name to themselves. It would be useful so these kinds of women can find each other more easily and commiserate with each other, form support communities, etc. I think because they're following a path that's so far from what society expects it could be …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:47 AM
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The algorithm knows all. It knows you're not a woman so it doesn't show you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 07:37 AM
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Sounds racist to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:04 PM
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Do you believe there exist men that hate women? How do you think that number compares with the number of women that hate men? Of the men that hate women would you be surprised to learn that they were a MRA? Of the women that hate men would you be surprised to learn that they were feminists? Do you think there are men that claim not to hate women but in fact do? Of the men that hate women what percentage do you think would openly admit it? Do you think that percentage would significantly differ f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:53 PM
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Someone's gotta do it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:59 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/13n90fn/how_can_i_stop_feeling_like_men_are_emotionless This is probably just true tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:53 AM
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Professional athletes aren't known for making the best financial decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:42 AM
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In fact, they made a whole tv series about it called How I Met Your Mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:22 AM
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I don't think they think it's necessarily manipulative, but it leaves the woman vulnerable to manipulation. If the man has no intention to manipulate then I see no reason for women to have a problem. The advice isn't to reject men that "lovebomb" but rather to stay on guard.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:59 AM
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I mean if you take out looks and money then what's even left other than personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 02:04 AM
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What else even is there?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:54 AM
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Small backpack if pockets aren't enough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:40 PM
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When they're single there is less work to do. It sounds like the other poster is saying women want to share a 4x increase in housework for two people. Are you saying women gain status from other women by doing more housework? And this only applies when they're in a relationship but not when they're single?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:59 AM
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Why would women decide they need to do more housework as a couple than when single?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:44 AM
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Streamer likes shy guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:21 AM
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Do you think men should do half the housework? Are women justified in being angry that women do more of the housework than men? Why do you think there are so many women complaining about this (for example on twox it's one of the biggest complaints)?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 02:09 AM
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Fwiw I do rock climbing and there are a lot of fit women with defined shoulder and back muscles, and everyone thinks they look great.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:48 AM
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If I could be born a woman I don't think I would. To me men complaining women have it better is like women complaining men have it better. There's different benefits for both, depends if you want those benefits or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:45 AM
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On the one hand they say everyone uses apps these days. On the other hand they say men greatly outnumber women on those apps. So...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:37 AM
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I think the are a few things that are serious handicaps for men when dating. Being physically unattractive is one, but the others can be just as bad: having too high standards, being too shy to find dates or make any moves, being on the spectrum, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:15 AM
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I never understood men complaining about not getting compliments. Not because I get them, but I just don't really care that much if I get them or not. I agree it seems like a meme bid for victim points.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:32 PM
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Manosphere will never be mainstream because it's low status to admit you need to join a weird cult with it's own made up words like "awalt" in order to have sex with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:49 AM
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Only reason I come to this sub is to distract myself from the fact of the immanent and unavoidable A.I. apocalypse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 11:43 AM
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Why wouldn't they be? Men are typically bigger and more violent than women. Also they have something men want, (sex, attention) and can get aggressive if they're rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 09:37 AM
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I think an interesting and likely possibility is that our subjective attraction is not learned, but genetic. Meaning identical twins are more likely to be attracted to the same type than, say, non-identical twins. Meaning that variation in what people consider attractive isn't necessarily learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 08:20 AM
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Some thoughts on emotional labor. Men and women both think they're doing more emotional labor. This is because typically women worry more than men, and the different ways men and women deal with their worries. When women are with other women they share this burden with each other by talking, planning, etc. Men either don't worry or don't share. When a woman tries to share their worries but the man doesn't reciprocate it feels like she is having to deal with it on her own, so she's doing all the …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 03:02 AM
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I'm surprised no one has really mentioned this. The reason women work on their looks is because of pretty privilege. Beautiful women are treated better by everyone. Ugly women are treated worse by everyone. It's possible some women are trying to attract a man but that's only one of many possible benefits of looking better.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:21 AM
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Do men want submissive women? Submissive is a weird word because it implies the other side is dominant. It assumes a power imbalance. I don't feel like I want to dominate women, I just want someone that's easy to get along with. If you're a man that wants a submissive woman do you mean you want a woman that does that you want but you don't have to do what she wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:41 AM
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What "emotional labor" do you feel like you're doing as a man? Is it the work of suppressing negative emotions? Do you think that's what women are taking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 06:30 AM
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I think the concept of emotional labor is suspect, but I don't really get why domestic labor is such an issue. It doesn't seem like a problem that should be so hard to resolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 05:49 AM
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You might assume a normal distribution if there were no bias, but it's probably one of the most heavily moderated subs on the site.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:18 AM
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If that subreddit were complaining about any other group other than men it would have been banned as a hate group.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:14 AM
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If you have limited experience with women and trying to understand them that subreddit is a legit info-hazard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 03:09 AM
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I promise you literally every straight man on earth has thought of "be nice to women to increase your chances of sleeping with them". If they stopped being nice it's because it didn't work or they got laid anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 10:56 AM
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It doesn't have to be a perfect comparison. I'm just showing that just because some trait expresses itself with wide variation doesn't mean it's not biologically driven, which seems to be your claim here: There is major variation in what each man finds to be an acceptable n count, ranging from virginity to infinity. That alone is enough evidence to support that n count “preferences” are socially conditioned, or at the very least, an aspect of “nurture,” not “nature.” If your argument is that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:23 AM
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Large societies are a recent development. If you live in a small society, i.e. during most of human development, you probably do know something about a woman's sexual history if she is sleeping around a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 02:11 AM
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I like this framing, and agree the two things are analogous. A man having a higher sex drive is like a woman that has a higher degree of neuroticism (stereotypes but often true). In both cases they are looking for relief from their partners as a signal of love, but the other side cannot understand because they don't feel the same level of need for that thing. I believe that studies have shown that women tend to worry more, overthink more, get more easily stressed out, have higher rates of mental…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:46 PM
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Imo, minor things don't add up over time. Major things, yes you need to put your foot down or else you will lose respect / be a doormat. Caring too much about minor things signals insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:22 PM
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Picking a low n partner does not assure paternity. Women can be pregnant before they enter into relationships, or they can cheat. Low n counts do also not assure you that your partner will not cheat. Caring about n count doesn't guarantee paternity, but, historically/evolutionarily speaking, it probably helps to not get cucked compared to the man that doesn't care about it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:04 PM
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There is major variation in how much people prefer to eat, does that mean hunger is a socially conditioned response? Like hunger, I think n count preference is a biological instinct that is regulated by social factors. If men live in a society where their options are high n count partners or no partners at all then you would expect their preferences to adapt. But notably there's a lack of cultures that strictly prefer higher n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:51 PM
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You should treat women well for your own sanity. Women that end up with shitty men are going to be crazy, not the least of which is directly caused by the man making her miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:04 PM
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Anyone can call anyone creepy for anything. The question is whether anyone else is going to care. If a man is approached by an unattractive woman and he feels uncomfortable he can call her creepy but probably no one will care. Whether people care or not is mostly determined by social power dynamics. Who is the one complaining and who is the one being complained about and who is listening to the complaint. In other words, yes, it's all subjective.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:55 PM
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I feel this way about alcohol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:28 AM
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It's not a matter of clear communication, the issue is men and women wanting opposing outcomes. It's like asking how can poker players better communicate what cards they have. They don't because they want to win.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 03:14 AM
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Being "nice" has to be understood in the context of social value (sexual value if you're talking about dating). Being nice is really just showing that you are willing to share your value with someone else. Obviously if someone is high value then being nice is great, it means they are willing to share that value with you. But if you have nothing of value then being nice is worth nothing; less than nothing if there is some expectation of reciprocity (which there always is). This is why women hate …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:43 AM
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