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| 1 | Too many men treat women like 'final boss' of the video game called life. This causes low self worth which ironically impacts dating negatively 🫠Dating women is by far the hardest thing I've ever done in my life. Harder than getting an engineering degree. Harder than working on nuclear power plants. Harder than becoming a multi-millionaire. Harder than getting 10% body fat. Unless you're an elite looking man dating and attracting women will be the hardest task you do in your entire life. Nothing you do is ever enough you're always priced out of the market of women you actually want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/26 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't red pill men actually adapting anymore?Right, the juice just isn't worth the squeeze. I'm late 30's, 6'1" 160 lbs in excellent shape, make 150k+ in a professional job, live in a nice house alone, drive a nice car. I'd say my main flaw is my face, I'm a normie at best. I also don't have any kids. Here are the women that "like me" on dating apps all real examples: A 45 year old separated (aka still married) mother of 5. A 50 year old woman who is still in great shape, but 50 is pushing it for me. A 35 year old single mother that worked… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 07:24 PM |
| 1 | On OLD women definitely privilege the "alpha male" type of guy10 likes a day is in the top 0.001% of profiles. The average man gets between 0 and 1 like per month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | What makes a guy boring?Several of the commenters in these "gender war" subs proclaiming to be women are likely some kind of gov't funded psy-op. They pop up all over the site in any kind of gender related discussion spewing their usual nonsense. Once you're around for awhile you see their names everywhere. As you noticed the amount of posting they do is equivalent to a full time job. It is pretty funny how they say they're dynamic interesting people while posting 100x a day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:52 PM |
| 24 | The 25 and younger male generation will be overwhelmingly single and we are lucky because it won’t affect society one bitThis is the based and pilled take. It's why all that's left to do is enjoy the decline. The "competency crisis" is going to hit extremely hard. Young men have little to no incentive to work hard anymore since the typical carrots used to motivate them are all rotting away. Hard work has no correlation to success. Wages are a joke and are just enough to keep you grinding in perpetuity with no hope of escaping. Women and relationships are completely ruined. No man that has any critical thinking ski… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/25 05:29 PM |
| 8 | Dating is garbage today due to the rise of Asymmetric CourtshipWomen are incapable of discussing averages it's literally a meme. Man: The average woman is 5'4" Woman: BUT I'M 5'6" There's no point even arguing with them. I think it's mostly a sign of low IQ or just intellectual dishonesty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/25 10:23 PM |
| 6 | Why Don’t Straight Women Acknowledge That Dating Is Easier for Them?You can make a facebook dating profile with that picture and have 500-1000 matches in a couple of days. Then aggressively filter for whatever qualities you're interested in and profit. I'm not sure why women make this so difficult. YOU literally get to pick. Sure you'll have to deal with some bad behavior, but dating apps are custom made for women. The apps work well for women and the top 5-10% of men so ignoring them on some kind of moral high ground doesn't make much sense to me. I also think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/25 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Getting Online Dates and Real Gender Ratios on Dating AppsYeah dude I wasn't trolling. If you're "that guy" you just don't realize it since dealing with women is always easy for you. My one friend who is 6'-5" 230 lbs and looks like an IRL version of BJ Blazkowicz from Wolfenstein. The guy just didn't understand how anyone could struggle with girls. He'd be like it's so easy bro just talk to go talk to them haha. I'm not even that bad myself I can get some traction, but the difference between a guy who is above average like me and someone that is elite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Getting Online Dates and Real Gender Ratios on Dating AppsYou posted some pics of your profile a couple weeks ago and you're a good looking dude. I'd say a chadlite at the bare minimum. I always like reading your posts since you keep it real. I think you mostly kill it because your profile is very cultivated and gives off upper class lifestyle cues. You can definitely compensate on the looks front with an upscale lifestyle like the tinder swindler. But you still need to pass the minimum attractiveness threshold, which for attractive girls these days is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Getting Online Dates and Real Gender Ratios on Dating AppsWomen's desire for facial attractiveness isn't linear it's exponential. So if you're a 7-8 you'll get some traction with women, but if you're a 9 it's 100x more. If you're below a 7 then you basically get zero on the apps. That's likely why this guy is drowning in matches. In every area there's 50-100 guys like this who just drown in matches and can have a new girl every night of the week if they want. See the west elm caleb story from a couple years ago. For everyone else you get nothing or som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Getting Online Dates and Real Gender Ratios on Dating AppsIf you're matching with a bunch of attractive women as a man you're exceptionally facially attractive. Likely 1 in 10000 level or higher. I got similar height/build stats to you otherwise and can't touch anything that resembles a woman with a 10 foot pole. It's all about the face bro. Congrats on winning the genetic lottery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standardsI live in an area with a lot of ukranian and russian immigrants. The women might as well be from a different planet compared to the american girls. Most of them are thin, hot and feminine, but actually dealing with them is another issue. They know they're elite compared to the average american chick so you better be ready to pay up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 09:30 PM |
| – | Red Pill guys: What does the average guy look like to you?The median male in the USA is: 5'-9" tall (source is a CDC pdf you can google it) 199 lbs (https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/body-measurements.htm) Makes 60-65k/year (https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/LES1252881500Q - other sources range from 45k-70k) Facial attractiveness between a 4-6 assuming it's on a bell curve. This level of facial attractiveness is not typically sexually attractive to women. Just look at the profiles posted on /r/hingeapp. These are a perfect representation of average men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Men should generally never take dating advice from women.I've been debating putting up a shirtless pic for a couple of months. This may have finally got me to pull the trigger. What women say they want vs what they actually want are basically polar opposites. I think they say what they want for a stable LTR, but what they're actually sexually attracted to is usually the exact opposite. Like they want a kind, gentle, compliant guy for a LTR, but they aren't sexually attracted to him. On the flip side they're highly sexually attracted to a low inhibitio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:13 PM |
| 9 | Why is male flesh suddenly attractive when they have money?Mostly agree with your post, but what you're saying is essentially supporting the black pill. Women don't care one bit about your money they care about your looks. You can grind and bust your ass your whole life, but your fancy clothes and BMW doesn't change the fact you're a 4/10 in the face and repellant to basically every woman. Ask me how I know haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 06:02 PM |
| 2 | There is no excuse to be attracted to shitty women, especially when you berate bad boy chasers.There's a bunch of videos on it like this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yT5zU450QIY Take the grandma pill bro, like OP said she has more options than 99% of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 10:36 PM |
| 27 | I feel like people see dating as some sort of rpg skill checkYeah most guys didn't even get past the character creation screen let alone start playing the game. A couple millimeters too short on some facial bones and you might as well uninstall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 05:58 PM |
| 95 | Have you witnessed the 80/20 thing for women IRL?Yeah chad is undefeated once you see it you can't unsee it. I lived with my one friend back in college who is 6'-5" 225 lb and literally looks like an IRL version of BJ Blazkowicz from Wolfenstein. Girls would have no shame around him. They would show up unannounced at our our place bringing him food offering "massages." They'd be trying to climb him like a tree at parties it was complete unabashed desire. I'll never forget two back to back weekends different girls drove 3+ hours out to visit hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:51 AM |
| 5 | A lot of people on here are so enraged at women that I believe it is skewing their ability to be objectiveWestern women's current attitudes and lifestyle will just assure all of their beliefs and ideologies don't exist in 50-100 years. Extreme liberalism and feminism depresses the birthrate way below replacement. We're seeing this in every developed country. If you don't have children then guess what your ideology is destined to fail. The cultures that subjugate women have a high birthrate and their children are the one's that will inherit the future. Look at the birthrate in european countries. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 08:37 PM |
| 2 | In wake of the Netflix documentary, what are your thoughts on the Ashley Madison scandal and the details the data breach revealed about its user base?My favorite part of the documentary was the hot chad who loved jesus cheating on his (also hot) wife. Just like online dating if you're at an elite looks level women will be busting down your door to sleep with you. The funniest part is that even after all that the girl got back together with the guy. The true power of chad on display. The couple I'm talking about: https://www.eonline.com/news/1402265/who-are-sam-and-nia-rader-meet-the-couple-at-the-center-of-netflixs-ashley-madison-docuseries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:18 PM |
| 6 | Our culture’s trashing of boys and men is having toxic consequencesAs Scott Galloway says the most dangerous group of people in society are angry young men. He reiterates this point in a lot of this talks, but here's a sample: https://www.cnn.com/2022/04/19/opinions/masculinity-toxic-men-boys-education-galloway/index.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Nearly half (44%) of Gen Z young men haven't dated in their teenage yearsInvested money typically doubles every 7 years so you'll have 1 million way before 45. Likely before you're even 40. Getting investment income is the true hack to everything in life. Once you're making more money doing nothing than actually working you quickly realize how stupid the entire system is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think would be effect of widespread ozempic use among women on sexual marketplace?Get ready for the wave of divorces as women slim up and try to upgrade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 09:13 PM |
| 21 | I genuinely don't know what else to doYou'll love this website: https://igotstandardsbro.com/results?minAge=25&maxAge=50&excludeMarried=true&race=0&minHeight=182.88&excludeObese=true&minIncome=100000 25-50 not married any race at least 6' tall not obese earning at least $100,000 per year Only 0.37% of men fit this criteria. This is before counting looks, interests, education or personality. Adjusting for top 5% of attractiveness (based on women's OLD swiping data) brings you down to 0.0185% The real guys these women want are somewhe… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/05/24 06:03 PM |
| 28 | The tough question: Move to another city or get plastic surgery?Women getting plastic surgery never really made sense to me. How can the most coddled, protected and positively affirmed people alive today in western society feel like they're not good enough. However, once you look at it through a women's point of view it all starts to make sense. These girls look at the top 1% of men they want to date and see what kind of women they're with. They think if they look like them then all their chad dreams will come true. It's also why famous women that get plasti… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/05/24 06:48 PM |
| 47 | CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause.Western women are some of the most comically deluded people on earth. They are the safest, most coddled demographic in human history and yet still find reasons to complain. Some women are still being oppressed today in certain regions of the world (see Afghanistan), but in the western world USA, Europe, give me a break. They're the most protected class of people in existence. Just the mere allegation from one of them is enough to completely ruin a man's life. Now that's real power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/24 06:48 PM |
| 16 | How would an IQ score on your ID card affect dating or society in general?Higher IQ has a negative correlation with success with women. I was just talking about this with my buddy at lunch the other day. The question was if you were offered the choice between a 140 genius IQ or becoming a male model what would you pick? I think the obvious choice is being a male model since it will have a much larger impact on your overall life. Looking better has a positive impact in all aspects of your life. The patron saint Jeremey Meeks is the classic example. Go from broke felon … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 04:54 PM |
| 9 | Men of the western society, I'd like to know if you're really not able to find even one decent woman out there?73.6% of people are overweight or obese. The average woman is 5'-4" x 170 lbs. The average man is 5'-9" x 199 lbs. You are right on with your laser eyes. The average person in the USA is very overweight. Pretty much every man would prefer a thin attractive woman over the current "average" sized girl here. If you want anything that even resembles a woman then you're dating exclusively the top 30%. The competition for these girls is INSANE. You're up against male models, guys driving lambos, dudes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man?I don't necessarily disagree with you, but have you thought a couple steps ahead about what you're proposing. In our current society a lot of people especially men are doped out on porn/social media/video games etc. This serves to pacify the most dangerous demographic to society, which are angry young men. Young men are the most likely to cause societal unrest and they have the least to lose especially with how today's society is setup. I think you're also over looking the fact that most men wou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 07:01 PM |
| 1 | What women consider “high value man" is symmetrically tied to the amount baby momma’s he has fighting over himHere's what men don't understand about women. To a man an average looking 5'-7" doctor is high value because we understand that he busted his ass to accomplish things in his life. Women on the other hand legitimately think a hot 6'-3" drug dealer is superior to the doctor because he's sexually attractive. You can't negotiate attraction. High value is meaningless unless the guy is sexually attractive to women. Once you understand this a lot of women's behavior makes way more sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 05:33 PM |
| 8 | Are men accepting far less these days or has it always been like this?If all that is true then you're an extreme outlier. I've been on dating apps for years and it's a ghost town for me. You're likely way more attractive than you think you are. Going on double digit dates just isn't happening for the average guy. The 6/6/6 thing is kind of hyperbole and a meme at this point. Women are willing to compromise, but you still need to pass their minimum threshold of attractiveness, which is increasing by the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 07:07 PM |
| – | For those of you who think women can get anything for free?In my experience there's sort of a class system in dating. Like the best looking girl in the trailer park could go out and date a guy making good money, but instead she goes for trailer park chad and then wonders where it all went wrong as she sits in her leaking double wide. I work a professional highly paid job and you're better looking than all of my dating options simply because you're thin. You should be able to make an online dating account and easily find a decent guy making more than $15… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/23 05:29 PM |
| 16 | Question for women: What profession, if any, do you find most attractive in a man?I have a traditional engineering degree and American women don't really care about it. However, asian/indian/eastern european women are really into it. I think because engineering is considered a prestigious job in those cultures. American women are only interested in the MOST prestigious jobs like doctors, lawyers or the ultimate job - instagram influencer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concernThis is a comical pure western woman post. What do you think is more likely. That men will willingly subject themselves to castration camps or that they will cause a societal upheaval resulting in women being subjugated like they were for most of human history. We literally just saw this exact thing happen in Afghanistan as 20+ years of western ideology was thrown out the window overnight. Women's current freedom exists solely at the behest of men. Western women have the easiest most coddled liv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Almost half of the women having a plan B and the 80/20 rule are the legit reasons for a guy to have self-esteem issues and women shouldn't complain about it as they are the reason behind it.If anything it's even worse today. Women on dating apps are only after the top 1-5% of men as shown from dating app swipe data. You can go on any dating app sub and see women post their "data" showing a comically low swipe rate. I doubt any girl posting on reddit is in the 99th percentile of women, but that's the man she thinks she deserves. Example after 5 mins of searching: https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/comments/10vcvbj/31f_swipe_data/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Birth rates are going to keep plummetingThe "sharia" future is very likely in many places in the west. They have a sky high birthrate and as more men are disenfranchised hardline belief systems will become increasingly palatable. People think it can't happen, but they forget about Iran in the 1970's and we literally just saw it happen in Afghanistan after the USA pulled out. I doubt it will happen in our lifetimes, but 50-100 years from now western countries will be a very different place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 10:28 PM |
| 16 | Online dating is a falsehood doing your mental health harmI hate the "just meet girls in real life bro" fallacy. The truth is online dating is real life. Any woman that's single is likely using the apps so even if you meet them in real life your competition is still every man in a 100 mile radius. The chance that you're a girls best option is essentially zero these days. The guys with actual options are the one's showing an extreme luxury fake Instagram lifestyle (tinder swindler), has male model level looks (see any chadfish experiment) or has some el… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/23 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Any BlackPill books that you'll recommend reading?Dataclysm: Love, Sex, Race, and Identity--What Our Online Lives Tell Us about Our Offline Selves by Christian Rudder. Christian Rudder was one of the founding members of okcupid and was the guy who wrote most of the controversial blog posts like women rate 80% of men as below average. He also comes across as a massive bluepiller (not sure how that's possible when running a dating site) and it's funny watching him try to explain all these inconsistencies away while the truth is slapping him in th… | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/11/23 01:00 AM |
| 10 | Hookup victims whine about being single in their 30sOnly had to read three lines to hear that it's MEN'S FAULT. You really can't even make this shit up anymore. The average 30 y/o woman who wants kids has NO interest in the average 30 year old man and therein lies the problem. | /r/AllPillDebate | 05/11/23 09:11 PM |
| 1 | It's insane how unattractive and overweight American women areYou're not imaging anything dude American women are incredibly overweight. Men aren't any better though. Being overweight is the real problem with dating currently. The competition for a normal BMI woman is out of control due to their scarcity. 73.6% of Americans are overweight or obese https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/obesity-overweight.htm The average woman is 5'4" x 170 lbs https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/body-measurements.htm | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/11/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | When women and men describe Chad , are they describing the almost " perfect " human beingI mostly agree. I'd consider this guy from the wheat waffles tinder experiment to be a HTN and he's still struggling. He does get some attention online, but the girls always have a better option so he winds up missing out. A 6'-3" dude who is average to above average looking would clean up 10-20 years ago, but now he gets nothing due to online dating and social media. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=35fiNZTVVtU | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 09:58 PM |
| 1 | People blame the fish pic, his personality, etc. but the reality is being average for a man isn’t enough anymore.This wheat waffles tinder experiment is even crazier than this guy. A 6'3" high tier normie doesn't even cut it on tinder anymore. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=35fiNZTVVtU | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 07:36 PM |
| 2 | When women and men describe Chad , are they describing the almost " perfect " human beingChad - Women are overtly sexually attracted to him. They will openly flirt with, proposition and heavily pursue him. Casual sex is on demand from extremely attractive women. Chad can use dating apps like uber eats ordering whatever he desires to his house with minimum effort on his part. Women see chad as a sexual being and are willing to experience rejection for a chance at having him. Chadlite/High Tier Normie - Women are still sexually attracted to him, but it's not shown as overtly. Women wi… | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/11/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What does Chad look like to you?A better example of a man who is actually a chad and has documented success with online dating is West Elm Caleb. He's an actual guy who has success with women without being a male model or having star status. https://wegotthiscovered.com/videos/who-is-west-elm-caleb-on-tiktok-and-what-did-he-do/ A lot of people look at this guy and think he's nothing special, but women especially have no concept about how rare a guy like this actually is. He's 6'3" and has a symmetrical attractive face. He's no… | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/09/23 07:31 PM |
| 11 | Women tend to be attracted to cruel, misogynistic and psychopathic bulliesI will have to use virginity statistics as a proxy for the harder-to-measure romancelessness statistics, but these are bad enough. In high school each extra IQ point above average increases chances of male virginity by about 3%. 35% of MIT grad students have never had sex, compared to only 20% of average nineteen year old men. Compared with virgins, men with more sexual experience are likely to drink more alcohol, attend church less, and have a criminal history. A Dr. Beaver (nominative determin… | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/09/23 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Height is the most influencing factor to a man's SMVI've been digging deep into all of this for the last couple years and have been meaning to type something up. This is mostly focused on online dating. I really wanted to know what it takes to be a successful guy on there since it mostly sucks for me. For reference I'm 6'-0" x 150 lbs, make 150k and I'm a 4-5 in the face. Facial attractiveness - Face is king nothing else comes close. You can literally become a millionaire because of your face. See Sean O'pry who was recruited to a professional mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/23 07:43 PM |
| 10 | Male Delusion Calculator!Being overweight is the real problem with dating currently. The competition for a normal BMI woman is out of control due to their scarcity. 73.6% of Americans are overweight or obese https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/obesity-overweight.htm The average woman is 5'4" x 170 lbs https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/body-measurements.htm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 07:36 PM |
| 8 | Anytime someone argues that average guys are trying to date models and need to lower their standards, just hit 'em with facts.Anyone that is interested in this kind of data should read Dataclysm: Love, Sex, Race, and Identity by Christian Rudder. He was one of the founding members of okcupid and was the guy who wrote most of the controversial blog posts. The book presents a ton of interesting data that is full of blackpills. One of my favorite parts is about what certain categories of people are most likely to write in their profiles. So for white guys it's "my blue eyes." Makes sense since only white dudes typically h… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/03/21 04:46 PM |
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