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| 1 | How to stop feeling bitter/angry?Yes I empathize with you as I'm still kind of bitter. I have an awful habit of ruminating and actually getting into arguments with people but in my head! Cognitive behavioral therapy helped me and I'm going to buy a book soon to do rumination cognitive behavioral therapy that should be beneficial. I do love girls physically I just don't open myself up enough to get to know them/ they get to know me plus I've been depressed for a few years which I am working out ATM. I have so much attachment as … | /r/seduction | 17/03/16 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling bitter/angry?This advice is too vague to have inherent meaning.. It's like saying 'just stop thinking too much' | /r/seduction | 17/03/16 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What can everyone start doing right now to improve themselves instantly?Smell a rose | /r/seduction | 16/03/16 05:22 PM |
| 2 | How to stop feeling bitter/angry?Keep grinding it out if you are actually doing everything that you claim to be doing. It's a slow process.. that is what I tell myself | /r/seduction | 16/03/16 05:22 PM |
| 3 | So i just asked a girl out for the first time in my life, at 27...Hey good job on improving your situation. I am In my early 20s and know what you mean by depression and awful anxiety as both have been a struggle for me as well. Anyway I find the simplest thing s such as getting enough sunlight, sleeping well, eating well (I've been dabbling in paleo), meditation and exercise help. Cognitive behavioral therapy is also great and it can help you to see your situation in a more objective way so even if you don't 'feel' like a catch your logical mind will have evi… | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with/get rid of "resting bitch face"?I think the learn to smile thing is performance and exhausting. Just relax your facial muscles especially around your eyes and you will feel more relaxed | /r/seduction | 13/01/16 11:29 PM |
| 4 | I [24 m] don't know where or how to beginI read Way of the Superior Man and was turned off with all the spiritual references. I engage in spiritual practice (meditation) everyday but this book went over the top with the pseudoscience on sex and love | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 04:19 AM |
| 6 | Sexless youth, having a lot of success in recent years and now, but still upset and bitter over sexless youth, any helpful advice for a guy like me?I'm going to take a Buddhist approach to this question. You are making yourself miserable and you have realized it. When you catch yourself dwelling in the past gently let your mind relax and bring your awareness to the present but don't beat yourself up. Also reflect on your current situation and how good it it. Slowly you will grow apathetic toward the past | /r/seduction | 08/11/15 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I expand my social circle?I've been thinking about this 'capitalist-machine society' a lot lately. I don't think the system was set up to make people feel lonely in order to encourage consumption.. That sounds a bit like a conspiracy theory. Modern day and the social isolation are just the result of a lot of different factors coming together. Also I've been thinking about where the idea of masculinity and being emotionally closed off come from. Sure I remember my dad being very 'stoic' but I'm trying to think of other ex… | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locator 2015Columbia, South Carolina | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Feeling a little frustrated by my lack of getting babes. Confidence problem.You already have the body and the look. You already stated what your problem is.. Confidence. I have been doing pickup for two years and yet I always felt inauthentic and the reason is that I am lacking in confidence. I too have the look and the body and we already know our area of weakness, now we just have to improve our self image. Here is a powerful meditation technique that can help you. Sit down and get relaxed. After a few minutes bring back a memory of a pleasant time and cultivate a joy… | /r/seduction | 01/10/15 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I let go of anger, bitterness, and self-loathing?You could get a book and do cognitive behavioral therapy, it is a great way to illuminate where your faulty thoughts are. You could also try meditation and simply sit/ deal with your anger because the one thing you do not want to do is repress your feelings | /r/seduction | 28/08/15 02:22 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fucking joke. And I want to change.Back when I was 15 I would get handed a children's menu in the restaurant. I also felt like people in general and especially women looked at me like a child. After two years of counseling and hundreds of hours of meditation I finally see that I myself held this view and was projecting out to other people. I'm not saying that you have to go to counseling or meditate even though they both are beneficial. But you do not have to fulfill any role that yourself or others expect of you. Present yoursel… | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Seeking women for validation = What's even the point? Am I just mentally deranged?A large part of the philosophy(not all of it) is toxic to the mind. I mean if you focus on women as being the enemy then you are going to walk around with so much self righteous anger and your sex life becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. I used go dabble on that subreddit but it is truly a waste of time and energy | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 08:21 PM |
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